I didn't know my ethnicity until I was 16! - EP 8 // HoyosGarden Podcast

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[@yaayaa2985]

Firstly, thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I don’t usually watch your videos but stumbled across it on TikTok. I feel for Tariq, his whole identity was questioned. I think the age of 2-5 yrs children can comprehend what their racial identity is, the earlier the better. The mom needs to sit down her son and apologize, start off by validate his feelings and explain to him why she kept a big part of his identity a secret without going too much into details but also giving him the closure he needs.

[@naemaj4616]

Sometimes we forget that it’s not about parents and pointing at each other’s mistakes but it is about kids and there needs come first

[@xx6551]

Mashallah they are very sensible kids I hope they are comfortable with discussing such personal matters publically. God ease all your affairs, you’ll all do well regardless dw many people have a similar story

[@dessert.soul1]

you should do a mukbang while you tell us more about yourselves especially how it was during your pregnancies at such a young age and how raising them was also moreeee prankssssss to keep the vibe going i love the content you guys give us

[@Mu-binaa]

Not me listening to Tariff's mom taking about how last minute he is, reminding of an assignment I have to submit tomorrow and have forgotten about 😅😅 In LMD WE TRUST 😂

[@MissHersi963]

The mum has no emotional intelligence, she kept a huge secret for 16 years and she is talking about a holiday. T is going through it subhannallah.

[@leilajama4968]

Don't judge the sister could have her genuine reason why she didn't you don't know what she was going through herself

[@kkahin3557]

Yeah she done him dirty. She’s acting like he picked his own father. No YOU chose that man,and your son had to suffer his whole life for your choices. The least she could do now is validate his feelings and stop making excuses for keeping her son in the dark about his own identity. Why should any child wait to know their own identity at 10 let alone 16. The kid had nothing to be ashamed of, but clearly she seemed it an embarrassment. I’m Somali myself by the way.

[@xx6551]

I don’t agree either but she said she made a mistake and she’s raised and cared for her kid herself for 16 years. She did a great job.

[@dessert.soul1]

@@kkahin3557 sometimes it’s better to keep other opinions to yourself because it might hurt someone, also you don’t understand what being a mother is and having to go through some traumatic times because of your spouse who you thought was your soulmate, maybe she wasn’t ready to tell him and she would’ve eventually told him one day. The son himself isn’t judging his mother. so think before you write any negative thing dear

[@MissHersi963]

Actually I am a mother of 3 children , who has raised her 3 kids ​for 13 years alone. My kids are now 13, 16 and 18. My youngest was a new born when I divorced and like the sister their father never came to see the kids. He was highly abusive to me however I told my children from whom their dad was all 3 don't remember him at all . I tell them all I know about him. It is wrong of her to do this to her son full stop.

[@radssxo]

24:28 looool the reer xamar accent is my fav😂😂😂

[@JackChit-pv3dj]

Man. jamaican dude must’ve hurt her for her to deny him altogether

[@itsmetheone7423]

Can we talk about healing personally or motherly and a son mother relationship how it heals after arguments or conflict

[@youheard03]

17:41 I hear it but you gotta put your feelings aside , even though u got all the reason to be mad but sometimes better late than never

[@IsninaYussuf-ek3mq]

Wow mashallah😍

[@hidingamongthecommentshell2619]

get them a 1000 like please inshAllah it happens

[@1hunna877]

This is the mother will get abused on social media for her decision she needs to hold herself accountable she’s trying to blame the Dad but if the father isn’t a Muslim then it’s on her she decided to do the act these are the consequences ask your son and Allah SWT for forgiveness and don’t expose it on social media the son is young but when he grows older he’ll hate that his life was exposed for a podcast.

[@IsmaAragto]

How many times did she say YAH, YUP 😂😂😂 Someone count it

[@fathia-oyindamola]

I’m early today😊🎉.

[@mohamedabdillahi6180]

These sisters are shedding a lot on many Somali sisters scenarios. Sharing a different view one men social media hates Somali men but the reality is it’s about character every race has bad character.

[@ugaaskacadde3961]

😢😢😢 Men are all the same Evry where 👍

[@user-gx8jq9tm2n]

how is he mix race if both parents are black?

[@MissHersi963]

Why did she do that to her son. Why was she hiding his identity from him. Very strange behaviour.

[@naemaj4616]

I know she has had her own reasons back then but yes I agree with you it was kinda too late 😢

[@leilajama4968]

Maybe she just wants to get the closure from herself and heal first from them

[@Idiris-zw4md]

Yemen iyo Jamaican. Caruurta dambi maleh. Lkin hoyooyinkooda weeye

[@mohamedabdillahi6180]

Maybe to not make him feel left out of the family Allahu Alaam not everything is as strange as it seems.

[@sssss78561]

@@Idiris-zw4mdhuh, what kind of strange mentality

[@sarahgawdan2215]

Somalie maman ❤

[@GeeljirePower]

Lool, ceeb baddana both have ajnabi kids and both got abandoned by their pops

[@shafsteryellow]

Mac sonkor😂😂

[@Idiris-zw4md]

Yemen and Jamaica 😂😂😂

[@user-ru6bc9jv5y]

No Tareef is Somali and Jamaican his brother is Somali and Yemeni

[@shafsteryellow]

​@@user-ru6bc9jv5y you can't be somali if your dad is not

[@youheard03]

Why she lie? Was he born out of wedlock or sumn

[@Loola345]

don’t accuse

[@fj6465]

Why does that matter ?

[@MomentofCorrection]

It doesn't matter coz children born out of an Islamic wedlock are considered "illegal " aka bastards