I feel like my life is falling apart, here’s how I’m fixing it (happiness+productivity tips)-Vlog#43

[@Emily-td1es]

Hey Mia, I really liked this vlog! I love that you mentioned the “get to” vs “have to” mindset. It’s such a powerful tool to think this way when feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. Hope you’re feeling more at the top of the circle/spiral soon 🖤

[@Mia_Speer]

Thank you so much Emily, that really means a lot to me! 🫶 Easy to forget gratitude sometimes, but I find life is so much more meaningful when I can roll with appreciation and happiness

[@Taylor_Smash]

So glad I found this! I've been struggling with a recent breakup as well and the loneliness talk you had is so relatable to me atm. Hang in there! :)

[@Mia_Speer]

Fuck it, we ball! Thank you so much Taylor, best of luck with healing 🫶

[@OneTiredFella]

Hang in there buddy, you are loved! ❤ That red wolf skit turned out really cool by the way. I think more hands on projects like that where you can create something and express yourself can be really rewarding when you're going through a tough time.

[@Mia_Speer]

Thank you so much! 😭🫶 I notice my horror side really comes out when I’m having a hard time lmaoooooo

[@OakleyFranklin-x2c]

When you said “ I can’t give other people anything that I cannot give myself first it’s just not how it works, all that genuine happiness that I like to live in it comes from hard work. It comes from choosing to be happy.” that was one of the most realist and dope is things I ever heard.

[@Mia_Speer]

Yesss! I’ve been known to disregard my own wellness to try and serve others, but I’ve just realized lately that’s not how it works for me! So happy we vibe on that dude!

[@emiliratsep9820]

You are such an inspiration, Mia!❤️

[@Mia_Speer]

😭🫶 …..thank you!

[@MiamiHighCo]

Your vlogs have been an escape and distraction for me this past year. I always look forward to the next one you drop. Thank you. The past while my life has been less than ..... wanting it. Hang in there. You're a cool dewd. You are an amazing creative who is actually an artist! Like you actually draw!! I am apprenticing atm rn and Ive finally been able to use tattoo to escape it all and its showing in my development. If I didn't have everything else being suck I don't think I would have truly been giving it 100% rn. Positive drive from so much pain. I have found motivation from you when I was curled up in a ball of darkness. One more time thank you so much. You're a G! I did a horrible job typing this out but I don't care I'm not editing a thing take care.

[@Mia_Speer]

This is so wild and amazing to me! I’m so glad you’ve found comfort with me here 🫶 life is so rough sometimes. I’m so happy to hear you’re going through the apprentice journey and finding a voice with art. Thank you for stopping by and for being so kind!

[@xBEAlzebubx]

this video was so well timed for me. Currently on a pretty strict diet, started a new job, and am prepping for ANOTHER surgery. I have been in a pit for a while and this is helped me a lot :,) I hope you're feeling a lot better

[@Mia_Speer]

Wishing you the best of luck with your medical endeavors! 🫶 Thank you for being so kind!

[@OakleyFranklin-x2c]

Dang dude I can literally see your progress from watching you like six months ago and I’m talking about you like working out and everything I can see your progress physically you should be so proud of yourself. This is the best I’ve ever seen you look your muscles are like Hella built And you’ve even lost weight in other areas and gained muscle and the others That is so awesome to see dude keep doing it. It’s working.

[@Mia_Speer]

THANK YOUUUU! That is so cool to hear dude, that’s why I love documenting these little things 🫶 I struggle a lot with body dysmorphia, so I actually really appreciate that. So easy to forget where I’m coming from sometimes.

[@rayab8164]

I have felt so icky lately and have been falling into old habits as well. It is not fun to notice and forget how to stop doing it. I feel so seen by you speaking about it in this vid

[@Mia_Speer]

@@rayab8164 maybe it’s the dang weather or somethin’!! Cause yeah, me tf too dude. Thank you for sharing that with me, makes me feel less alone 🫶

[@williamemerson8976]

You are such a beautiful soul

[@Mia_Speer]

@@williamemerson8976 thank you!! 😭🫶

[@brittanyslife5482]

Enjoyed the vlog and seeing how you made that short look realistic

[@williamemerson8976]

When you are working out try to wear shoes with a flat surface like vans or chuck Taylor’s it would improve your training use running shoes just for running or walking 🤘🤘❤️

[@Mia_Speer]

@@williamemerson8976 omg thank you for that! That’s new info to me, but it makes a lot of sense!!