I Focused On Raising My Children After Realizing That My Baby Daddy Would Not Marry Me

[@joynamagembe5703]

After being married for 19 years, my husband kicked us from the house and brought in another woman, I was left with nothing apart from my children who still need support food,clothes,school fees etc. But their dad is not even bothered so I decided to go in the middle east to work as a house maid not because I want but because am left alone to take care of my children, their dad never minds but it really hurts, if you don't love the woman please kindly take care of your children, I don't think there's anyone who would love to be someone's house maid but these men are leading us into all work just to provide to our abandoned children. I love you my children and I miss you so much, I have to work just to provide to you.

[@judithisiaho236]

Watching from Kenya am a single woman my husband left 4 years i have four kids and am so encouraged with this strong woman there is a God in heaven

[@fifitakapisa]

Keep your head up and continue to take great care of your kids. They are seeing all you are doing and one day they will show you their appreciation in ways you can never imagine.

[@lilliangabriel7560]

Wow powerful message. Indeed may God quickens your husband, u deserve 👰. Thank you so much Mummy Jessica

[@marthabsm1]

Woow this is a great perspective of life. Let’s keep all single moms in prayer. If God had to align Joseph for the family to be complete, they surely ... it’s only God who can complete single moms’ lives.

[@aggsperez865]

Avery good interview.This lady is very articulate.

[@cherylmartin9031]

Oh God bless me with knowledge and wisdom to walk away from disappointments. I do not want to be fooled twice or more!

[@moureencaroline6446]

Thank you Rebecca Namitala aka Lady Bezzo, this is inspiring my darling.

[@mofyakunda7637]

Her conclusion was powerful. The host too did well, her interruption was not much in this video.

[@josephineadenaya5241]

I agree she didn't interrupt this one so much and in that case I was able to follow throughout.

[@mofyakunda7637]

@@josephineadenaya5241 Indeed.

[@hillsmat9036]

You go girl! The Lord is faithful, He will surely bring that man that your heart desires. Wait upon the Lord sister.

[@dennydimes1153]

😂😂😂😂 male chicken, wow this is so right oba why do they behave like that 🤔🤔. This is interesting, hilarious and educative tho😂😂

[@thepodcastguy7]

mummy says just drop the food and leave afterall the male chicken will come running for it hahahahaha

[@kiwanukaketrah7747]

Bambi what ur doing is helping, I've learnt alot.me as a single lady I've realized there is much to look out for while considering marriage for instance involving God in any decisions iam to make.thanks

[@ado198]

I love that this has been a very good conversation plus the flow has been soo good.Thanks Ps.Jesca

[@sherrielilian8115]

At least she is listening. Its always annoying when she does most of the talking

[@arcomirell6944]

And this is why ladies, we should say no to sex before marriage. You can imagine the kids were his idea at first! We all make mistakes and it's great Lady Bezo you have handled this with strength. Strong woman!!!

[@helendavou3948]

Watching from Nigeria. My sister, i enjoy your interview. Don't, worry i am sure God will bring the right person into your life very soon. I pray the almighty strengthen you morw

[@lediauno6349]

Pastor bring also Stella azamadia.. Beautiful ashes her preaching supported or uplifted me, helped me keep going in life until now.

[@estarallen8575]

Stella Azamadia Beauty for ashes has a great testimony has lifted many people in Christ Jesus. I can't wait to listen to her

[@godsfavoritechild3187]

Bring MEN onboard as well Pastor JK. We also Have TESTIMONIES.🤗

[@sarahmartha7224]

Bt she has brought some men on the show before

[@DiamondQuality1]

That's why I'm just removing visitation and just focus on financial support. He can build relationship with the child after 18. The emotional damage from him not showing up for them is too much. That line of when I can I will, when I can't I won't. So in that case DON'T.

[@nsudebartholomew5919]

Listen beautiful Mum!!! ~Your Destiny is Never TIED to Anybody that LEFT! Never!!!! Let them Go!!! Look at Oprah Winfrey ~ The children will adore the Strong Mother You Are!!! Blessed!!! Xx

[@thepodcastguy7]

Woman to woman conversations are so interesting, there are common characteristics featuring in every woman to woman conversation i've heard, in fact they have to flow because they tend to share same experiences hahahaah i like the show even before half of it

[@theugandanvillagewife6647]

Some of us are single parents not by choice i am a #widowed single mum and its not a bed of roses raising a child on your own but to all the single parents out there GOD BLESS YOU KEEP MOVING FORWARD we are all doing an amazing job raising the a future generation.

[@sharonkemi5892]

Wow you're a strong woman i salute you.

[@inspiredinlife1]

God bless the single women. Truly, being a lone parent is a mission and a long, long journey. We love our children so much, they are an extension of our own bodies. We sacrifice, persevere, and persist even to old age to ensure they are well rounded, especially, living by our faith in God. We teach them about God and the way to live. Single women need all the prayers in the world that they can get because it's so painful, yet one has to live like you're on top of things always. For the sake of the children who themselves have faced the rejection and all.

[@cherylmartin9031]

God bless wives too. They are very pained by single mothers who destroy their marriages trying to get fathers for their fatherless children as if the children in the marriage don't deserve a father. God bless all who follow his commandments.

[@barbarabunya7579]

Beautiful bezzo. Mr.Right where a u?????Hurry up

[@druscillahenry3224]

What is her name, is she a famous person?

[@ritamaria333]

I made the same mistake had a baby out if wedlock the man ran for four years right now i am moving on and he is all over me he is not married he even proposed Marriage yet i now have very promising people asking for marriage I'm in a dilemma i cried for some many years for this man to have a relationship with his daughter and now i don't care at all what he does and he is on pressure that i am leaving him for good

[@tusiimecharity742]

Plizz go into praying and fasting and counseling from the holyspirit. Otherwise you may cry for the rest of your life or miss out

[@mulapwayowela2827]

One thing we need to remember is that Church is s hospital for the sick not a museum for the perfect! Just because you sin differently careful how you look down at others from your high horses of righteousness!!! Did Jesus advertise for an assistant position? Too many judges up in here...who in here is privy to her spiritual state now or her VERY personal walk with her God?? and of course women are the most vocal against another! I can imagine had it been a man his sin would have been the least of your worries. May God deliver us!

[@overseaconnections5641]

So sorry dia thanks for standing

[@oliviapaulnavaro817]

Aman who doesn't love my girl please don't cause traffic jam for other men who are willing to accept me with my girl I know God has better plans for me

[@ceciliaogola5597]

Strong woman

[@aggsperez865]

Sermons about fornication,adultery,living a Holy life should be regular features of ALL churches.

[@Kiriza22]

God is the author of life. Like you have heard, there are married women who are single mothers.

[@Kiriza22]

So what would you tell the barren couples who married and did everything perfectly. I think when it comes to children within or out of marriage, we should leave it all to God and thank God for the lives given.

[@candysherry7659]

Hahahaha Male Chicken 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 kyoka mama Jessica.

[@oliviakigozi4327]

Mummy Jesca pliz what does it take to meet you? I need some guidance from you pliz I just need to hear from you and it will be enough for me.

[@CC-cy1uk]

We carry they seed and they run from us and there seed god y do we gotta trap a man and fifht a man but he gives us his seed so easy just to walk away or never marry

[@aggsperez865]

Do African churches forcefully preach abstinence to their single men and women, and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit which we must keep pure.I often hear african women talking about being worship leaders,or being in ministry, bible studies etc but are engaging in fornication.Although we know that persons might slip up and make mistakes when I listen to testimonies of many, they quote scriptures and talk the talk but seem not to understood that we have to live Holy for Christ.Sermons about fornication,adultery and what a sold out life for Jesus Christ entails.

[@violakabigabwa9240]

Let's not Judge. Be patient you will go through it or someone close to you. The devil is not selective and we will ask you the same questions.

[@cherylmartin9031]

Amen. A woman claims to be a child of God but has 3 children from 3 different married men. She actually targets married men and has accused one of the fathers for rape after he refused to divorce his wife

[@cherylmartin9031]

@@violakabigabwa9240 why do you wish evil or misfortune for someone " be patient you or someone close to you will go through it? Haa? Which God do you know?

[@violakabigabwa9240]

@@cherylmartin9031 I don't think you got my message. I was trying to mean that until you know someone who jas experienced the same that's when you can understand. Let us not judge and throw stones at people. The devil targets all of us in different ways. Besides being a single mother is not evil anymore, some men have become women with due respect. I do not wish evil on anyone it is not Godly let us listen and learn and conclude.

[@violakabigabwa9240]

@@cherylmartin9031 Was this information in the story or know you them personally. When it comes and the stories I have seen I can only testify for my dad lol

[@katusabehadijahworship6474]

Amazing... Male chicken hahahah interesting

[@kepistevoloboo6916]

I can grantee you,, the guilt can make a woman to never get married, may God empower us

[@kibalamasandra2568]

What am going through right now but am concluding by I have to talk to my kids about what exactly is going on

[@kama6196]

Another nice interview. Loved the words at the end from Pastor.

[@businkala2554]

I think Pastor needs to separate between interviews and live coaching herself...she talks longer and we get to hear less from the interviewee... thank you I hope I don't upset you woman of God thanks

[@dorenaholinga8051]

Beautiful strong Bezo love

[@Iam_mnambi]

May God see you through Bezo

[@ayesha7719]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kayeangella8220]

Male chickens😅😅😅😅 that's the trick ladies

[@ckks0nyoutube]

Male chicken! 🤣😂😅😉

[@noorunakato5759]

👌👍👍👏

[@aggsperez865]

May I offer a suggestion for your consideration? I totally enjoy these interviews and I honestly believe that they are making a difference in the lives of people. However whenever the guests come on their clothes usually clash or look totally off with the colour, tapestry of the furniture. May I suggest a single colour whether a beautuful blue,or grey or whatever solid colour which could be accented by throw cushions.This decor of the studio seem more suited for a room in a Country estate or manor. It is not attractive. Just my honest constructive suggestions. Also some indoor plants etc would be beautiful.

[@bridgetnamitala1237]

Please focus on learning from the testimonies and not on the clothes.plz dont be tooo carnal...art, furniture and matching colors blabla and ur concerns are misplaced and not the objective of th show.sooooo irritating gosssssshhh!!

[@aggsperez865]

@@bridgetnamitala1237 What a foolish person you are.You are so super spiritual and seem not to realise that we are supposed to be well rounded persons.We live in this world even though we are not of the world.Obviously you understand little about decor so my comment probably went right over your head.Steupes

[@bridgetnamitala1237]

@Aggs Perez lol lol lolest. "Wise" perez all ur comments exhibit arrogance and not humility of the Holyspirit whom u imagine to possess.on the contrary i love art and appreciate versatility! Ur love for plants i detest though, its tasteless to me and to evryone on here believe it or not. so dont impose ur idea,suggestion, of "what decor should be in the pastor's house"! Tastes and preferences differ.Wowww how authentic the designs of this room in the pastors' magnifique home are!!!!what beauty and splendeur!!have several seats plz n eat a humble pie,again i repeat ur suggestions are totally misplaced and pay attention,u might b of ths world and not out of it!!

[@cherylmartin9031]

@@bridgetnamitala1237 hey hey....play nicely here.lol. Respect a fool to avoid noise darling!

[@ntsakosambo4912]

Dead by loughter but I understand ua point

[@nateishajohnson752]

I can't understand how this woman was a Christian an got pregnant more than once for a man thats not her husband, you made a mistake got pregnant he didn't marry you why another, we as women allow these things to happen to us

[@daphinekwikiriza468]

according to her story looks like the guy developed cold feet immediately she conceived the first child, so am also wondering how she fell for the second baby thing but all in all there are lessons to learn.

[@tarirodorcas]

Maybe she had twins

[@pamelajudithrwanyarare8429]

She is a Christian not a god or a Saint. So she made a of mistake and repeated it so what. May be she felt her bio clock was ticking and also wanted the children to have the same father than have multiple father's. Who knows ?She made her bed, she lay in it. Her children are probably alive, healthy and happy. She has lemon she made lemonade. She has moved on and living and getting on with her life. Judge all you want. God is the last judge.

[@dynamicrhee5700]

Love you Lady Bezo

[@namukoseagnesnorah3443]

Kkkkk male kitchen.Dont chase them, u can get heart attack banage.

[@shalommiracles4218]

Will come back for comments

[@Laikaneza]

Indeed male chicken haha that’s funny yet true

[@namarajanepher6124]

girl power do receive single mothers

[@violakabigabwa9240]

Ohhh Mum looking Good ❤❤❤❤

[@daralynejamessarah7372]

#Male chicken Syndrome!

[@shalommiracles4218]

Did she says Jesus was not Joseph biological father 🤩🤩🤩

[@godsfavoritechild3187]

Joseph wasn’t Jesus’s Biological father. It was just a slip of a tongue.

[@racheal701]

No plz, it was not a slip of a tongue, he was not his biological father.

[@racheal701]

Do ever read yo bibles

[@racheal701]

Mary's conceiving was by the power of the Holy Spirit.. and not man.

[@shalommiracles4218]

@@racheal701 Miss Rachel calm down I know very well what I am talking abt sometimes you have to have all the facts before you voice your opinion