I got a job and im leaving ✈️🏝️| responding rude & ableist comments…

[@IshtarNike]

Manifestation is a short cut to awful self esteem. When things go wrong, if you believe in manifestation, the only person to blame is yourself. You didn't get it because you didn't "truly" believe it would happen. This can go on forever. Yes it's empowering when things go right. Your destiny is in your hands. But when things go wrong it's all your fault all the time. Not a healthy philosophy long term at all. It's also just magical thinking that has no evidence behind it but that's beside the point. Personally I can take responsibility for my actions without believing in some universal law of attraction. I do my best and let the chips fall where they may.

[@audhdbaddie]

This comment!! YES. It’s literally just magical thinking! Everything you said 🤌🏼

[@laurenshannon8394]

Everything aside, it's so good to see things have worked out for you x

[@audhdbaddie]

ty, i hope you’re good too💗

[@georgejohnson5904]

I made one of those comments about your hair. I shouldn't have done that, I'm sorry. Your channel has helped a lot of people and it was a shitty, unnecessary thing to say. Congrats on the job!

[@audhdbaddie]

Dont worry, apology accepted and thanks! :)

[@aimemaggie]

So happy for you. I’ll be moving to a big city soon for my new job and I cant wait

[@audhdbaddie]

Thankyou! Omg yay happy for you tooo🎉

[@aimemaggie]

I used to have a belief that if I imagined something I wanted it wouldn’t happen

[@kejsida4921]

as someone with OCD and is a firm believer in manifestation/law of assumption, I understand why a lot of people with OCD don't like the idea of manifestation. everyone is different and for me personally the law of assumption has changed my life for the better. that doesn't mean that it will be the same for other people and I respect that. congrats on the new job! I hope everything goes well for you 🤍

[@audhdbaddie]

Thank u, yes we all have different experiences but i think if it works for you thats great!

[@aranara_song]

Manifestation is so enticing when nothing is working out. I actually almost got into it at the beginning of the year because I was running out of options in terms of like, finding reasons to stay sane lmao. But as soon as I realized that in the long run manifestation would just undermine my OCD recovery, I stopped it. I think there's certain practices you can keep if you just take out the magic element out of it. Like vision boards can be nice to remind yourself what you want out of life, just don't think that because you print out a couple pictures and glue them together that that's the reason stuff works out. It's okay to be ungrateful sometimes, you're a person and therefore you'll always feel the complete range of emotions including being ungrateful. Anyway, glad to see things are working out! Good luck in Greece!

[@audhdbaddie]

Yeah absolutely agree with everything! And i actually like vision boards i did one last year and theres lots of stuff on it i achieved and stuff i didnt too. Its nice to have goals& plans but when it gets into the magical thinking side of stuff im out 😂. And THANKYOUU🫶🏼

[@aranara_song]

@@audhdbaddie I have a current vision board for 2023 and if I feel lost, I look at all the things I wanted to do and I pick one and try to do a little step towards achieving it! It's the way in which we use it. And np!

[@elsabernardo_]

ur hair 😍 also proud of you 🤍

[@audhdbaddie]

THANKS GORL💖

[@humza890]

Ohhhhhh my goooossshhhh, youu loook ssssoooooooooooo cuuuuuutttteeee!!!! (Gosh , this is such a cursed comment 😂)

[@audhdbaddie]

HAHAHHA TYSM 🌸💗👹💖🤪

[@ihmsfmkwd]

Congrats on getting the new job! So happy for you 🤍, and thank you for saying that about manifestation. It actually makes me feel so bad and causes me anxiety whenever I’m thinking something “negative” (which is a lot of the time). A lot of people I know also believe in it like for real, and it also causes me anxiety and it makes me feel bad. Also, those comments make me so mad. Do not listen to them. For what it’s worth, I think you’re awesome!

[@audhdbaddie]

Tysm!! And yess i deffo wanna do a whole vid about it but i know it will make a lot of people mad😂. I just like to believe that things just happen by coincidence. (I find that this is the healthiest mindset for me) Like they would have happened either way (no matter if you manifested them or not). But at the same time if manifesting works for someone else i think good for them. But i wish people would stop acting like it is the key to life ya know? 😩 Because FOR ME i say no thank u. I feel like a lot of it is magical thinking and thats deffo not helpful for someone with a history of ocd/anxiety. ANYWAYS I went off on one a bit there but THANK U so much you are an awesome human being too 💗🫶🏼

[@ihmsfmkwd]

@@audhdbaddie You definitely should make a video about it! I totally agree. Thank you! 🖤

[@boef-g96s99]

Instagram or snapchat please ? 😁