I Got Married and Moved to Hong Kong! (Life Update)

[@aliabdaal]

Thanks for watching gang. If you're interested in hearing more about what I'm learning and reading each week, join LifeNotes here: go.aliabdaal.com/lifenotes/yt

[@clarityofyourmind]

Why do you wear two watches :)

[@G-OVL]

Congrats Ali.... Maybe I'll bump into you, I live next door in Shenzhen. A fellow Brit. Often go to HK for Marks and Spencer :o)

[@MichaelBrooksUK]

So many people expect changes to happen when they get married. But I think the reason for marrying is because you're happy with how everything is, and you shouldn't expect these large changes to happen. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and together for 15, and we have been so happy with the way things have been.

[@adilmuhammed2003]

Congratulations mate I know back in 2023 that Izzy was your girlfriend and now you wife.hope you share insightful aspects of how to build a Romantic relationship with a person who i enjoy ever moment with her ❤

[@roku1]

I felt really sad whilst watching this. Mainly because of the sad background music. PLEASE STOP USING SAD MUSIC ALI! Something more upbeat please.

[@emilycarolinemoore4516]

I've been married for almost 11 years. The best piece of advice that I have to pass along is to always remember that it's never you vs. your spouse. It's you and your spouse - a united front - vs. the problem. Too many married people begin to see their partner as an adversary, as someone against whom they have to stack up "wins." That will drain the love and respect from your marriage. Instead, with mutual respect, compassion, and kindness, remember that you and your spouse are THE TEAM. It's you two vs. any problem or challenge you encounter - together.

[@winharwood]

So true!

[@Semapho0ore]

Well said

[@svatisingh1]

Really excellent advice :))🙏🙌

[@tsescoff]

Great advice! ❤

[@TheilTube]

I love what you share here ... Me and my wife always say "We Are Doing Life Together" ... With everything that comes to and at us, positive and negative.

[@keoviphopthanantm1293]

May Ali Abdaal and Dr. Izzy’s marriage be filled with love, laughter, and mutual respect.

[@sigfigronath]

ali is also a dr :D

[@ok-nu1ds]

And productivity

[@mirna8065]

And kids😊

[@godfather9443]

Who is may

[@mandmaq]

@@sigfigronathnot anymore I think

[@ChristineIC]

Married for 31 years strong! Two adult kids and living life. My advice is grow with each other and all your changes. Be a team. Whatever it is, have each others back. Maintain date night, have your own hobbies, and learn from each other. Keep things spicy in the bedroom, laugh a lot, let your kids see you as an individual and your interests. They will then grow to have there own hobbies and continue to grow.

[@dhanushraju8528]

📝

[@TheNomadBuilder]

Love this.

[@Khemani_RL]

Noted!

[@lesedietsane9885]

Beautiful. Thank you for this.

[@jihanfreighters56abdu]

Keep your personal life private

[@__sababakhair]

Anyone else seeing the Instagram update that they’re having a baby! I’m so happy for Ali- it feels like an older brother progressing and maturing in life! ♥️ Wishing nothing but the best for these two!!

[@shivanikhand]

Wait what 😂

[@xatos1788]

@@__sababakhair Is marrying a non muslim allowed ?

[@__sababakhair]

@@xatos1788 for men, marrying someone who follows an Abrahamic faith is allowed.

[@TheHeroIsRisingUp]

What? He said he married August 2024 just 2 months ago.

[@hauwaryou]

@@xatos1788 for men yes.

[@nfz05]

I intentionally opened KZbin to watch any educational video on money or finance or something along that line, and the first video on my homepage was Ali Abdaal's " I Got Married and Moved to Hong Kong!". It wasn't what I was looking for, I don't need to know about anyone's relationship update. But there's something energetically right about clicking on it. And I'm so glad that I did. This is refreshing in its authenticity and honesty. It puts my anxiety on a leash. It speaks to me, and I hope more people get to watch this sharing. This feels human, and it feels like an encouraging hug. Thank you. Hoping for nothing less than a loving, courageous and kind marriage to you and Izzy. Cheers.

[@ScottJoe]

Been married 35 years. My one tip “work hard to OUTPLEASE your spouse”. Rub their feet with no expectation, make them coffee just because, buy flowers for her on a random day, etc, etc, etc

[@sakeee7193]

Love this

[@bojack3827]

ROTFL. Door mat

[@elijin7061]

Really good advice!

[@okcheckthegate]

Such good advice! Also, never underestimate how good it feels to just give, without expectations. It feels so good to show your love in different ways (bonus points if you express your love in ways that match your partner's love language 😊)

[@raia9]

@@bojack3827 Dont know what ROTFL means but not a door mat serving your partner - what you give you will get back and if you love someone you want to make their life better.

[@FelixJonasAdom]

3:03 My advice: Don't make matters about your relationship public. The pressure that comes with is phenomenal and can negatively affect the two of you going forward.

[@lestaroberts2189]

I think that depends on the two of you, I have had an opposite story to tell

[@lestaroberts2189]

I think an element of it being public helps. The fact that Ali gave us a glimpse into his life no matter how small. I personally feel more connected to him on a human level, he is not just someone I watch online (like a robot) but more like a human too

[@quamch]

he literally got married and moved to hong kong, that sounds like a life update

[@funnyvalentine7316]

😂😂😂 I love that kind of humour

[@nuntius1]

Ikr

[@saraismail5632]

Ppl in HK reading this comment like 👁️👄👁️

[@sab5459]

Huh?

[@eyasocials8883]

got a baby on the way!

[@xorbodude]

Best to keep relationships private. Izzy is a special thoughtful kind woman. You definitely don't want to lose her. Couples who don't post about their SO's last longer.

[@sophialapadula2181]

You know ali, the only things I watch in your channel are this updates. I always find it very refletive. It males me think about my own life updates. Continue making it.

[@mo-akif]

same

[@vrindatyagi6744]

I can't believe Ali talking to himself isn't mainstream content. This is literally therapeutic

[@lindseyjacobs8305]

YES. I got more out of that than anything.

[@hermie6076]

I’ve admired Izzy for a long time, she’s so calm, composed, and radiates positivity, not to mention how stunning she is. I figured out about this relationship a log time ago and my immediate reaction was, “wow, what a match!” They feel like twin flames, not because of how they look, but in spirit, I feel like their energy is so aligned. They radiate the same incredible vibes…..❤❤❤❤❤

[@hustlesprouts]

this was nice

[@fatimawazirilaminu]

yessssss yessssss yesssss to this, i was watching her youtube video earlier today and i felt so inspired just like the first time i listened to Ali’s time management podcast and videooo, they really radiate the same calming energy. obsessed 😍😍

[@mandedelam]

Hi from Hong Kong🇭🇰 So thrilled to know you and your wife have moved here, you guys will love this vibrant city❤

[@notyou379]

Oh my god no you are not!!!!! I watched you throughout my late teenage years but as I went to uni I didn't tune in to your channel as much. Today I came back to your channel cause I wanted to build a website and I remember u did content about that stuff, but I can't believe I'm finding out you're now married. Congratulations!!!!!!!! you were such a savior during my school years, I am soooo happy for you! I remember you struggling around covid but I can see you're doing alot better. As you should. Also, you are not getting boring! you are just getting secure and stable! Stop with these seeds of self-doubt language. You're amazing.

[@RaulGonzalez-xl2dw]

I've been married 7 years. The greatest lesson I've learned in marriage is that: you're on the same team in EVERYTHING. It's you and your spouse vs. everything else. When there's a problem, it's the two of you vs. the problem, and not each other. At the expense of sounding more woo, have you considered the Enneagram, Ali? Could be helpful language for self-development.

[@mansoorsuleiman1121]

The comment section is enough to teach one about marriage and relationship. This is beautiful! 😍

[@fatheringautism]

23 years married. My go-to one-liner for marriage is "it's not always easy, but it's always worth it". Do things in common but have independent interests and hobbies. Always put each other first. Never, ever keep score. You do what you do for those you love because you love them, not because they love you. Lastly, buy flowers.

[@iamanamikad]

This was a huge growth in seeing you go from figuring out your emotions to being emotionally open and accepting a relationship. Wishing you both a happy married life! It's the best thing ever

[@andrewdejuan4914]

Congratualtions to you both! Nothing beats learning through experience! I've been married for 10 years this year and I must say nothing comes close to it in terms of fulfilment except knowing God of course! Talk well, argue well, love well, commit well and no hurdle will be too great to overcome. Be willing and ready to forgive and be ready and willing to ask for forgiveness. This is absolute key to deep and long lasting marriage. One of the biggest lessons I've began to learn and still learning is to listen, listen, listen! Often times I rush to "solve" whatever my wife's problems and issues but actually the answer more times than not is "Come here" and embrace her tight.

[@lifeplan4720]

Thrilled to have one of the most interesting KZbinrs/Doctors working out big plans in my home town :) I’m sure your friends/followers would have given more than enuf tips about getting the most out of the city which in fact has quite some interesting history. Don’t miss out Chi Lin Nunnery and 200+ amazing islands/beaches off the south side of HK island and Saikung. Welcome to HK again and congrats to you and Izzy! keep exploring and inspiring :)

[@excellentenglish5307]

Just a small piece of marriage advice: say “thank you” often and mean it - for small things and big things, say “thank you” to each other often. It’s another way of saying “I love you” often.

[@daviddemke6045]

That's really good!

[@shir35303]

Love this advice! We do this in our marriage, and noticed it's not as common as one would think! People tend to change very quickly into "pass me that" and "give me this". I think this one is small, but has a big effect!

[@chrisjasonmcqueen]

This is crazy! Been following you since the study tips videos in Lockdown. All the best and may you continue to change the world and make it a better place! I got married 2 years ago and its the best decision I've made! My advice would be to keep talking about everything. Start your day with a kiss and end it with one. Just my 2 cents.

[@ajricesmommyx2]

When my first marriage ended because my spouse died, I realized the importance of knowing each other's stuff- what your partner would want to do if given the option of palliative care or removal of life support, the passwords to various things, and how certain systems in the housework. It seems awful to think about, but it's important to have plans in case the worse happens. Also, remember the family you two have created is the center of your universe - and while in-laws are wonderful, the pair of you need to be first and foremost.

[@monicasdesignprocess]

I appreciate these in depth life update videos, there is so much to learn from them. I personally connect so much with the the balance you mention on wanting more vs being chill and content. I struggle with the balance every couple of months, I go from feeling content to wondering what the purpose of it all is. I honestly don't think there is a solve for it, we will likely always have to deal with finding out own balance for the stage of life we're in. I agree with you keeping things with Izzy and your family private however it would be nice to feature each other every once in awhile. So not a reoccurring business-like adventure but maybe a yearly update like this that you two film together, I think there could be a lot of value in it.

[@annapaula7342]

I've been here for quite some time, and it's truly incredible to witness and hear your 'wo wo' realizations now. A couple of years ago, neither of us would have taken this seriously-you wouldn’t have been talking about it, and I wouldn’t have seen it the same way. The growth is remarkable, and I absolutely love it. Thank you so much!

[@kymh4357]

As someone who has been following you since the beginning, I am so happy for you. Congratulations, you deserve a beautiful life.

[@BryanInvest]

Congratulations to you both! I watch both your channels. Ali for his productivity tips and Izzy for her learning Chinese tips. Wish you both a life time of happiness! 💛

[@marieobligacion8226]

Marriage truly allows you to grow into different versions of yourself (and your partner). There will be times where it's really hard, and there will be times of absolutely bliss. Being able to experience that with the same person is a special gift. Have a great time on this adventure you have together!

[@NazSing]

Completely resonate with what you spoke about in this video! I find myself flip-flopping and recalibrating my motivations and goals and my feelings can tend to drive me towards the "new shiny thing". This has often caused me to waste time and energy on things that have not served me or helped me get closer to the "greater goal". I think its pretty much the human condition (a universal experience) where we keep asking ourselves, "What do you REALLY want?". I really felt your struggle and determination and relief in this video. Appreciate you sharing your authenticity and lessons with us.

[@OstaraCoaching]

Beautiful to see you reconciling with this idea of more vs enough. What I have personally found is that when you align yourself with your purpose which is always some kind of action like “to learn” “to discover” “to nurture” it tells you what the correct direction to go is. It serves as your compass. Rather than feeling like you have to bounce back and forth it can feel like it’s all part of the same rhythm or flow.

[@Sandieaj]

First time commenting, but Ali, you are such a breath of fresh air, in a world that peddles toxic productivity that leaves people feeling drained and feeling like they are good not enough... thank you for your commitment to constantly learning and evolving, and sharing all of that with us. tHANK YOUUU

[@zikrabouhafs]

I’ve been married for a few years, almost 4 years in December and the one tip I tell anyone is COMMUNICATE with your other half. A lot of the time we (myself included) think that our partners know what we feel / what’s going on and expect them to be a certain way. But I’ve learnt, people can’t read minds, no matter how close they are to you. My husband cannot read my mind (as much as I’d like for him to😂) so communicating is a key part to any marriage / relationship!

[@caballefam]

Ohhh my, this is soo true and I think in general for men. My husband told me, men are not good and guessing games, so, they want to tell us in their face for them to get it. Hehehe. Though my husband has learned to read my mind over the 8 years of marriage, but still he prefers for me to tell him than him guessing. Communication is really one of the keys to a successful marriage. ❤❤❤

[@zikrabouhafs]

@@caballefam They don’t want to guess in case they get it wrong hahah 😂 but yeah it’s just easier to communicate things than play the guessing game, that’s for sure 🖤

[@ewigona]

This video is so heart-warming. Following you for many years, Ali, so happy to see you doing well. This video screams PEACE at me. May it lasts and all aspects of your life continue blossoming :)

[@The_Villi]

So excited to hear you had gotten married! Congratulations! So stoked for you guys. Being married to your best friend is the best! I been married for 9 years and have three kids now. I would say cultivating the friendship of your marriage is one of the most important parts. And that every marraige is different, because every relationship is different, so don't feel pressure to be a certain way because people tell you to be like that. Lots of people will tell you if you are having fun and are in love that you are in the "honeymoon period" and that you'll get bored, that you won't be so in love 5 years from now. Don't believe them, I have found that as I have invested in my relationship with my wife and have just had fun. As we enjoy life together without getting caught up in all the noise our relationship has just deepened and deepened. More in love with her today than the day I married her! . Also... kids are the most challenging and fulfilling thing that will ever happen to you in your life... 😂

[@benjaminerrington]

Ali, this is your best video of 2024 imo, and that’s saying something because there’s been lots of amazing content over the last 12 months

[@DavidsonHangOfficial]

Marriage will test you but man is it worth it. Love the maturity and growth from these shares.

[@lilianlee5715]

I can’t believe this! I just found two of the KZbinrs I’ve subscribed and watched a lot of videos got married! What are the odds!

[@DylanChettiar]

I remember when he started vlogging being a medical student. Thanks for everything Ali!

[@hustlesprouts]

That's awesome you stuck around, how long ago was that?

[@DylanChettiar]

@ since 2018

[@whenindoubtlistentomusic]

Congratulations on getting married!! Have been following you since last 2 years. You are an amazing human being. I absolutely love your videos.

[@TayoAinaFilms]

Congratulations Ali. Happy for you and Izzy 🎉

[@sicklecellwithdr.o]

Your life updates are my favorite videos. They are super introspective and I believe we get the most authentic version of you!

[@fadzisomashava1346]

Wow Ali! I remember you making videos about how you’d struggle to a partner. Tinder reviews and self reflections on love were topics I found interesting from you. Now, you’ve found yourself someone, and I’m so happy for you. A true example of what perseverance can do. Congratulations to you and your wife. May God bless your union!

[@holistic_dan]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us so honestly and vulnerably Ali - I'm inspired by your ability to remain true to yourself in this world of "scale and sell", especially given the success you've experienced. Much love!

[@trishk5763]

I adore @izzysealy and found her channel about a year ago, throigh that I then saw a video you two did together and thought how lovely thah was. And now, my goodness I'm so happy to hear you two are now married and making a beautiful life together. Two very positive forces in the universe.

[@albukhari-dcruzourstory6658]

Alhamdulillah! Congrats Dr. Ali. Honestly, it has been interesting to see how your life's journey is progressing. Keep helping the community and people around you.

[@ibraheem128]

Invalid marriage bruh

[@Tdotbtb2]

you're being more ambitious over time. I've been following your videos since the very beginning. You need to love yourself again; you're losing balance because somehow you've forgotten what you used to tell us : love what we do, stay present, and take it one step at a time. It seems like you're stressed, but hey Ali, it's okay to feel stressed. You just need to be "you" again, not being affected /adjusted by anyone. that fun, cute, smartest guy on the planet!! and stop worrying about the worst yet to come. (sorry for my english)

[@natraybouldweds]

It was a delight to get to know you and Izzy, and an honour to marry you ✨️ Do keep in touch from Hong Kong! Much love xx

[@samanthamillard6988]

So happy for you both! Best advice, be the biggest champion for your spouse and never “vent” or complain about them to anyone else. If you have something to work out, work it out together. She needs to feel safety and trust with you and you with her. I made the mistake of venting about something to my mom early on and she kept bringing it up when I had gotten over it and it lessened her view of him. Not good! 30 years later and we have a great marriage and are still each others best advocate and champion.

[@salimkassim6647]

Hey Ali. This video is a true reflection of how you are internally feeling and how to go move from here. I am kind of resonating with the foggy feeling that you have..and the best part of this is that you have a partner to share all your experiences and reflections. Life will only get more beautiful from here..Go with your heart and keep things simple. Your mindset is super. Embrace it that you are victorious and your victory is changing lives of many as you trail a path of leading this life. You are unique so just be Ali.

[@jaychristopherdelpilar3184]

Hey y'all! I got married yesterday and I honestly didn't know how to feel. Then this video came up, I was reading all the comments, the tips and advices y'all gave and everything came in me. I felt the joy and fulfilment of being married. Having a partner to build my family and future with, what a blessing! I'm so excited for what's about to come.💗 I've also just begun watching Ali and I'm already hooked. All of his videos are just so helpful and I think I'll be subscribing him for life. Best wishes to you both!🙌🏽 *Would love to read more useful tips from the couples here. Thank you! God bless🕊

[@aliabdaal]

congrats!!

[@ohmwai]

Congratulations.

[@AlisaValdes]

Congratulations! I agree the relationship will have the best chance of survival if it isn't online or monetized in some way. Wishing you both the best!

[@zikrabouhafs]

@@AlisaValdes This!!! The amount of relationships I’ve seen end badly is so scary!

[@Sabzworld77]

so true and evil eye is true

[@AbbysBandwidth-ABW]

My two favorite people that has helped me out balancing medical school and being a new KZbinr getting married is just gorgeous 🥰

[@jenyes523]

I know this is weird but a get a severe sense of honor watching you grow up and come into your own. Seeing you address your feelings as feelings instead of facts is such a revolutionary evolutional step for you. It’s huge. Trusting your heart has opened so many doors to your personal development. Thank you for sharing this part of you. I’m just so freaking awed and inspired by this. It’s not woo, Ali, it’s the next step in your badass journey, lean in and enjoy!! 👏 👏 👏

[@cristianamartin]

Also, congratulations, Ali. The entire self reflection... makes me believe you found and understood what it means to be content. It is in between enough and i want more (which sometimes it's just "I want different"). Contentment is peace. This is happiness. A heart will feel at peace how it feels at peace. It will be different for everybody, and it comes with no "I should" that comes from someone else. It comes from you.

[@Kv9UyjRJ]

Congratulations Ali, you deserve all the good things you get in life and you are a real inspiration.

[@SitnchatwithSiwe]

Congratulations🎉! Really have been looking for this update.Dr Izzy is such a lovely lady.Wishing a happy, long,sweet marriage. May God bless your union.

[@stephsteph851]

You’ll love HK. I’m glad HK will be showcased well on your channel to show the world.

[@Sams_Uncle]

Congratulations Ali for the new chapter of your life 🎊 🎉

[@Rosie-mk2kk]

OMG! Big congrats!! Just found out you got married with Izzy from her recent video!! I followed both of you since I moved to the UK from China, and your videos have inspired and helped me so much! You're so brave to start new life in a new country! Hope you two have the best time in Hong Kong ❤

[@stefainex99ming]

omg! please hold some meetup @ HK. cant wait to meet you in person. you definitely have a huge fan base in hong kong

[@lydiapatelll]

I second this

[@yungsuethung]

I third this!

[@nikkiyin3098]

I forth this😂😂

[@makas01217]

I fourth this!

[@altheachan817]

I fifth this

[@themindsetwriter]

Listening to heavily prepared speeches and ted talks usually feels "not as valuable" as it looks like. At least what I feel. Your thoughts that flow so naturally feels so much valuable. It truly feels valuable.

[@Emma-mg4xk]

👌👌👌

[@Theoliviatati]

This is by far my favourite style of video of yours! And I 100% feel that with the struggle and toggle between work and chill. I find myself having seasons of go go go and seasons of chilling and enjoying the fruits of my labour. Too much of one always creates discomfort

[@clairechang7616]

Congratulations!! OMG, I subscribed both of you, what an awesome couple!! Welcome to Hong Kong.🎉 Married for 11 years with a lovely boy. The best thing in marriage is you always knew there is a partner who will support you no matter what situation you are, so do you.

[@hoodnt37]

"There is a difference between knowing something and actually applying that. Knowing it to the point that it becomes internalized rather than just an intellectual thought process." This is!!!! Personally loved this video more than all of your videos. I am happy you are more in tuned with yourself. May you have a blessed marriage.

[@acb312]

So happy that you are in Hong Kong! Enjoy the city and the married life

[@vivianhong612]

So happy two KZbinrs that I follow are actually married! 😊 Izzy is so well rounded as a person: beautiful, talented, nice (at least that's the impression I get from her videos) ... I always wondered who would be lucky enough to marry her. Now I know!

[@soniaalam6278]

How wonderful! Congratulations Ali and Izzy. A quiet life is such joy; I love it and hope you guys enjoy all the happiness in the world. From a 40 something dr mum on maternity leave with my second baby sleeping on me, husband pottering downstairs and toddler asleep next door. Enjoy the small moments daily, they make up your life! 🥰

[@TylerCohle]

This is after a long time am watching your video and is already a breath of fresh air. Also the comment section is so wholesome and perfectly radiates the vibe!

[@dddada4749]

Congratulations on your marriage. I’m so happy to see you a grow in business and personal life. I feel like watching a friend from studying to becoming a business man and a husband. Amazing journey Ali !!! All the best.

[@elizabethalashqar]

Hi Ali, congrats! You helped us learned a lot and since you asked @ 6:57, I'm thrilled to give back hopefully, you'll find a little tip useful, as someone who's been married for 21 years... I think, eternal happiness in marriage may come from a husband and wife who choose gratitude daily, laugh at each other's jokes, appreciating each other’s presence, love, and small acts of kindness. 💕I think for me, "The 5 Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman is a must-read for me, as it offered powerful insights on how to express and receive love in ways that truly connect and strengthen relationships. ❤Wishing you and Izzy happiness! ❤

[@eesharaaziah]

My favorite and go-to KZbin personality got married and moved to Hong Kong! THATS HUGE omg 🤩🥳 my heartiest prayers for both of you, keep doing what you both love doing!!!!

[@adityajoshi574]

Congratulations to you and your wife, may you and Izzy live a lovely life.

[@BigM885]

Congratulations Ali on your marriage. Its a new phase of life which everybody goes through ,with new experiences. Enjoy life and stay happy.

[@codyballardmadden]

I'm a full time youtuber and my wife and I have a 6 month old baby boy. A few pieces of advice I was given from older mentors were: 1. We made a decision to never mention divorce - whatever the issue we committed to working through it. 2. Kids will change everything, be open to change. 3. Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry God bless you both and thank you for this life update! I too have been loving the "boring" life.

[@JasmineNicoleCogdell]

Ali, you’ve always been such a beautiful soul 🥹 Your videos warm my heart! I have to get ready for my day but I look forward to coming back and watching this video. Congratulations to you & Izzy! I wish you both a happy & healthy life together 🥰❤️

[@themindsetwriter]

This video is my favorite video from Ali. The amount of openness and thought process is so resonating. Please make more of these videos. Please don't take this as an obligation. Your energy feels authentic only when you truly want to do these. Thanks. Love you sir❤

[@CalamarCat]

You said people dont care about your life update videos, but these are the singular video of yours I always watch. Used to watch every video -- and they helped me a lot -- but now Ive also moved on to the second mountain and I don't watch KZbin much anymore, and seeing your life updates feels both like catching up with an old friend and like a checkpoint in my year. Ali updates mean its almost the new year, and its time to do some reflections and start thinking about next year. So, thank you for making these. Theyre my favourite video of yours :D

[@alicee.8676]

OMG I'm so excited to hear that you moved to HK! I am a Hongkonger and I wonder how many of your subscribers are from HK, I am so happy that out of all the places you can move to and you picked Hong Kong!

[@rj4356]

Oh my......this is the episode I've been waiting for! Congratulations to Dr.'s Izzy & Ali❣️🎉 This is awesome. I'm so happy for you both. Fyi, please remember to Listen to each other! Never assume anything. Ask when you're not sure. Always plan dates when schedules get busy❣️

[@EbenHodzi]

Congratulations Ali. You spoke to my soul.

[@saara5590]

I actually prefer watching this style of video Ali - i.e. a bit of a rambly ‘thinking out loud’ / life update! I actually can feel the authenticity from it and therefore can connect with it & enjoy it more. The “humanness” of it all is is infinitely more curious & interesting and I think that there‘s always much intrinsic value in sharing & witnessing that (and thus gaining insight from) the raw human experience 👌 Also I’ve been watching you for years and it’s been really nice to see you getting more in touch & attuned with your feelings and emotional side over time!

[@AndyLiang697]

I'm 19, but this is huge inspiration and perspective. Keep up the videos bro, you're changing lives ❤

[@marivifierro4090]

I love this video. To see you talking to yourself with your eyes closed is so comforting because I also do that a lot. It’s really okay to chill, Ali. You’re allowed, you deserve it. We all do!

[@aaronisms]

Congrats on getting married! It was lovely running into you and your then fiancée when you were in Santa Monica. Practical Advice: Get a family email account to manage all your joint logins. Think logins for joint services, streaming platforms, bank accounts, etc. Absolute game changer for logistics. Second pro tip: Use a password manager to collect all joint details.

[@leekelly2233]

Congraz on getting married!! My friend bumped into you two in a community centre in Hong Kong playing squash few days ago. You are always my fav productivity guru. Enjoy your new life in Hong Kong, hope you enjoy Hong Kong food and culture. Best wishes from a Hongkonger.

[@KaterynaTretiak]

I am so grateful that you are talking about feelings and emotions! And that it's important to rely on them when making decisions in our lives. I burned out on my previous job (Project manager in IT) and had a depression after that. All this was because I ignored the feeling that this job was not okay for me for many years. Now I'm a future psychotherapist, and it feels sooo good and sooo right! I hope that this video will help somebody to switch their life to something that feels good for them❤

[@KaterynaTretiak]

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[@blingbling0525]

Welcome to Hong Kong! I’ve been watching your videos for a few years, and your study techniques have really helped me. I’m going to graduate next year and become a physiotherapist. Thank you so much for your video. Enjoy your time in HK and hope to see u guys around!

[@seojinkim8375]

Man, this really calmed me down. It was really nice to hear you talk. Thank you for being you!

[@aspublic]

I enjoy some of your content-certain topics resonate with me more than others. Interesting topics. I do notice though that some of your videos take a meta-perspective, discussing things without necessarily coming from the experience of doing them. As a bit of feedback, I wonder if focusing on certain leadership skills could be beneficial to you. For example, shifting from phrases like “people working for me” to a more inclusive “team we are building here” might foster stronger connections. Similarly, instead of saying “they will probably find other jobs as they worked for me,” something like “we are all growing, and hopefully, my team will find amazing opportunities if I decide to go grow olive trees in Greece” could reflect a more collaborative mindset. Have fun in HK, Ali, and to both of you for your marriage.

[@winnietam3972]

I live in Hong Kong so I’m really surprised and happy that you have moved to Hong Kong too!

[@North_American_Elija]

Congratulations!!! MashAllah 🥰 Ali you got married with one of my favourite content creators. As far as I know she is just an amazing woman. This is called the perfect couple. Enjoy every moment of your life with Izzy. Good Luck.

[@xatos1788]

Is she muslim ? It isn't allowed to marry a non muslim woman right ?

[@North_American_Elija]

@ Yes, Muslim man’s are permitted to marry a non-Muslim woman under certain conditions, according to Islamic teachings: 1. She must be from the People of the Book (Ahl al-Kitab): Islamic law allows Muslim men to marry Christian or Jewish women. This is based on Quranic guidance (Surah Al-Ma’idah 5:5). However, she should practice her faith sincerely. 2. Marriage to a Polytheist or Atheist Woman: Marriage to women who are polytheists, idol worshippers, or atheists is generally not permitted in Islam unless they convert to Islam. 3. Preservation of Islamic Values: The marriage should not compromise your Islamic values, and the woman must respect your faith and the upbringing of children in Islam. 4. Conditions for a Healthy Marriage: The marriage should be based on mutual respect, love, and understanding, with both partners agreeing to uphold their religious rights and responsibilities.

[@xatos1788]

@@North_American_Elija That's what I am asking is she muslim ? Or even from the people of book ? If not then this is zina

[@FionaAberTaruona]

The last 15mins of this felt like a huge note to self and I appreciated being able to behold it! Congratulations on your union, move, and business reset!

[@jonibilderback2356]

I always feel like I learn the most from your update ramble videos! They are full of relevant wisdom to me!

[@TherealYUVRAJ]

Congratulations and Best of luck for the future! Wishing you both Happy Married Life

[@mregg6160]

Really enjoy listening to the advices that you have given in throughout your channel and I actually learnt a lot of things too! Also congrats on moving to HK a very well developed country. It's cool that people even consider moving to asia! I'm from Malaysia myself and sometimes I wonder what its like to live in the UK with all the development there.

[@_adriana.t_]

There is this saying: IF YOU START A BUSINESS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE, NOT MONEY, YOU'LL DO BOTH. The dedication, persistence, and grit required to create a thriving business can’t be sustained by a desire for profit alone. While financial success is attractive, true motivation comes from a deep passion and low-key obsession. That’s the real key. In business, setbacks are guaranteed - mistakes will be made, long hours will be worked, and the rewards may feel scarce at times. The journey is full of ups, downs, and everything in between. Without a strong, purpose-driven reason for your efforts, the challenges can overwhelm even the best intentions. Hope it took you, reader & Ali, back to your "why" (the one that sets your soul on fire)🤘🏼

[@kaxxxxn]

Wow! Welcome to Hong Kong:) Been watching your videos the past recent years and i have to say it's a pleasant surprise to know you moved to Hong Kong. Good luck with everything and hope you'll like it here ❤

[@s.k.henkle]

I appreciate this video so much for many reasons but especially the fact that it comes across as so genuine and vulnerable when talking thoughts out loud. You talking about should’s is so important for me now… as I am struggling to find what I want to do in my career and deciding what avenue to focus on. Being married is a wild journey. It’s different for everyone but main takeaway - similar to other relationships - is communicating is key. Also establishing expectations or boundaries as they arise. Even if it seems like an obvious thing that doesn’t need to be said, it’s always nice to be aware of so you can support each other to best of your ability. Also being able to support and work as a team together can be so fun, but ultimately knowing that you are in charge of your own happiness. Balancing I have enough with I want more is also such an interesting thing. I try to stay present and grateful for how things are going, but I’m still seeking more & want to grow. Though I’m definitely earlier in that stability stage than you seem to be, haha! The relearning things we already know goes crazy! I know you felt like you were being a bit uwu with things but coming back to how you feel about things energetically is so important. It’s essentially tapping back into your intuition and that’s so powerful. I’m happy for you in simplifying some things for yourself & team in the business (as a small feedback ngl it would be nice for the part-time KZbinr Academy and the productivity lab to be found on the same website/platform like you were saying)

[@whssavy]

congrats man u did it. pure hard work. you won.