I Got Married and Moved to Hong Kong! (Life Update)

[@aliabdaal]

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[@clarityofyourmind]

Why do you wear two watches :)

[@G-OVL]

Congrats Ali.... Maybe I'll bump into you, I live next door in Shenzhen. A fellow Brit. Often go to HK for Marks and Spencer :o)

[@MichaelBrooksUK]

So many people expect changes to happen when they get married. But I think the reason for marrying is because you're happy with how everything is, and you shouldn't expect these large changes to happen. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and together for 15, and we have been so happy with the way things have been.

[@adilmuhammed2003]

Congratulations mate I know back in 2023 that Izzy was your girlfriend and now you wife.hope you share insightful aspects of how to build a Romantic relationship with a person who i enjoy ever moment with her ❤

[@quamch2774]

he literally got married and moved to hong kong, that sounds like a life update

[@funnyvalentine7316]

😂😂😂 I love that kind of humour

[@keoviphopthanantm1293]

May Ali Abdaal and Dr. Izzy’s marriage be filled with love, laughter, and mutual respect.

[@sigfigronath]

ali is also a dr :D

[@BryanInvest]

Congratulations to you both! I watch both your channels. Ali for his productivity tips and Izzy for her learning Chinese tips. Wish you both a life time of happiness! 💛

[@ChristineIC]

Married for 31 years strong! Two adult kids and living life. My advice is grow with each other and all your changes. Be a team. Whatever it is, have each others back. Maintain date night, have your own hobbies, and learn from each other. Keep things spicy in the bedroom, laugh a lot, let your kids see you as an individual and your interests. They will then grow to have there own hobbies and continue to grow.

[@chrisjasonmcqueen]

This is crazy! Been following you since the study tips videos in Lockdown. All the best and may you continue to change the world and make it a better place! I got married 2 years ago and its the best decision I've made! My advice would be to keep talking about everything. Start your day with a kiss and end it with one. Just my 2 cents.

[@zikrabouhafs]

I’ve been married for a few years, almost 4 years in December and the one tip I tell anyone is COMMUNICATE with your other half. A lot of the time we (myself included) think that our partners know what we feel / what’s going on and expect them to be a certain way. But I’ve learnt, people can’t read minds, no matter how close they are to you. My husband cannot read my mind (as much as I’d like for him to😂) so communicating is a key part to any marriage / relationship!

[@DylanChettiar]

I remember when he started vlogging being a medical student. Thanks for everything Ali!

[@sicklecellwithdr.o]

Your life updates are my favorite videos. They are super introspective and I believe we get the most authentic version of you!

[@iamanamikad]

This was a huge growth in seeing you go from figuring out your emotions to being emotionally open and accepting a relationship. Wishing you both a happy married life! It's the best thing ever

[@SitnchatwithSiwe]

Congratulations🎉! Really have been looking for this update.Dr Izzy is such a lovely lady.Wishing a happy, long,sweet marriage. May God bless your union.

[@natraybouldweds]

It was a delight to get to know you and Izzy, and an honour to marry you ✨️ Do keep in touch from Hong Kong! Much love xx

[@KaterynaTretiak]

I am so grateful that you are talking about feelings and emotions! And that it's important to rely on them when making decisions in our lives. I burned out on my previous job (Project manager in IT) and had a depression after that. All this was because I ignored the feeling that this job was not okay for me for many years. Now I'm a future psychotherapist, and it feels sooo good and sooo right! I hope that this video will help somebody to switch their life to something that feels good for them❤

[@ajricesmommyx2]

When my first marriage ended because my spouse died, I realized the importance of knowing each other's stuff- what your partner would want to do if given the option of palliative care or removal of life support, the passwords to various things, and how certain systems in the housework. It seems awful to think about, but it's important to have plans in case the worse happens. Also, remember the family you two have created is the center of your universe - and while in-laws are wonderful, the pair of you need to be first and foremost.

[@AlisaValdes]

Congratulations! I agree the relationship will have the best chance of survival if it isn't online or monetized in some way. Wishing you both the best!

[@zikrabouhafs]

@@AlisaValdes This!!! The amount of relationships I’ve seen end badly is so scary!

[@Sabzworld77]

so true and evil eye is true

[@ahuman2024]

Congratulations Ali, you deserve all the good things you get in life and you are a real inspiration.

[@rj4356]

Oh my......this is the episode I've been waiting for! Congratulations to Dr.'s Izzy & Ali❣️🎉 This is awesome. I'm so happy for you both. Fyi, please remember to Listen to each other! Never assume anything. Ask when you're not sure. Always plan dates when schedules get busy❣️

[@EbenHodzi]

Congratulations Ali. You spoke to my soul.

[@eesharaaziah]

My favorite and go-to KZbin personality got married and moved to Hong Kong! THATS HUGE omg 🤩🥳 my heartiest prayers for both of you, keep doing what you both love doing!!!!

[@JasmineNicoleCogdell]

Ali, you’ve always been such a beautiful soul 🥹 Your videos warm my heart! I have to get ready for my day but I look forward to coming back and watching this video. Congratulations to you & Izzy! I wish you both a happy & healthy life together 🥰❤️

[@mistymoonbeam6274]

these life update videos are great, helps us connect with you on a human level too and honestly this video specifically was so good for my nervous system; helping me be "okay" with just being. I've been struggling with SHOULDs a lot over the last year because i've been in that lul, but i've found my second mountain and i'm just gonna do my best to allow myself to be okay with this stability i'm building for myself

[@albukhari-dcruzourstory6658]

Alhamdulillah! Congrats Dr. Ali. Honestly, it has been interesting to see how your life's journey is progressing. Keep helping the community and people around you.

[@AbbysBandwidth-ABW]

My two favorite people that has helped me out balancing medical school and being a new KZbinr getting married is just gorgeous 🥰

[@shahedali02]

Been following you since 2018! Your tips massively helped me I hope this chapter of your life is full of blessings!

[@june3536]

Have a happy married life, Ali and Izzy! You two radiate so much positivity. Love you both! 🎊🎈💕

[@tannisanta]

A truly beautiful update in every way. I especially noted the closing lines-constantly relearning is so true. At times, we forget the valuable lessons we’ve learned. Wishing your wonderful family all the joy and incredible experiences that married life brings✨

[@givicrnn]

Thank you for the update!! After watching this, I can really see the passion and genuine determination you have for this career and purely wanting to help others concerning productivity. thank you for that!! Much needed 🥰🤣

[@lilianlee5715]

I can’t believe this! I just found two of the KZbinrs I’ve subscribed and watched a lot of videos got married! What are the odds!

[@dallassmith5318]

Congrats on the marriage and the big move! Hong Kong is such a fun city. Hope y’all have a blast!

[@acb312]

So happy that you are in Hong Kong! Enjoy the city and the married life

[@whssavy]

congrats man u did it. pure hard work. you won.

[@stefainex99ming]

omg! please hold some meetup @ HK. cant wait to meet you in person. you definitely have a huge fan base in hong kong

[@rdnylj]

Congratulations!! Thank you for all you continue to put on KZbin.

[@Iainstressin]

Ahhh this update makes me so happy :))) I love your videos and Izzy's and this new chapter together in Hong Kong is so incredible!

[@winnietam3972]

I live in Hong Kong so I’m really surprised and happy that you have moved to Hong Kong too!

[@thefaftrybe]

Thank you for this video Ali. My wife(23) and I(26) are a migrant couple based in Liverpool. Your channel is one we have found helpful since subscribing to it. We started our channel last month and have grown to over a 100- we share about lifestyle generally especially as a young couple as it relates to Love and Marriage. Thank you for your videos. We are encouraged to embrace the journey and hopefully get big as time goes on. We love you.

[@sakshamdhawan3762]

Hi Ali, I really appreciate your openness and reflections in this video. The way you described balancing 'enough' and 'more,' and the tension between work and chill, feels relatable to many, including those with ADHD or similar traits, where there's often a drive for change and novelty. Out of curiosity, have you ever explored this aspect of yourself? Your insights on self-awareness and productivity feel like they could come from someone with a deep understanding of these dynamics. Thank you for sharing your journey!

[@themultilingualfamilyhub]

OMG!!!!! Big, big congrats to you and Izzy!!! What amazing news!!! So happy for you guys

[@zongklodtonpanich]

That explains why I feel "itchy" (pun intended) when I watch your collab video!🥰😍😘

[@mcmosaic]

Wow! That's an update!😄I'm so happy for you. It's amazing you kept it private. I think that's important. I wish you both all the best🍀

[@TriptalkGuy]

I’m from KL and have been here all my life. What I can say is it’s an amazing city and the quality of life here has significantly improved a lot. I’ve noticed a huge amount of expats coming over here from Japan, Korea, and the Middle East. It’s a great city to live in if you’re pretty comfortable financially no doubt.

[@trilliand]

As someone who has lived in several countries when I was younger: there is really no place like home. Family, friends, shared history & humor. It’s everything. So that’s really growing up for me: actually committing to a place to live. Coming home. Also, once you have kids, they really love their home, you know, you don’t want them to have to travel the world constantly and leave their friends and family behind. So choose a forever home, before you have kids. Married life is the best. When there’s an instance where you’re truly fighting, it makes you feel like losing the ground beneath your feet. So chose your battles wisely, try to always remember that you love each other. Say yes to and be grateful for your partner every day.

[@Cameron_Hall96]

I relate to the business update SO much. Been in the film industry for almost a decade and about 3 years ago decided to go from freelance to a production company, managing clients, full projects and overseeing others I've paid to do the work etc. and right now I'm in the middle of closing down the company and going back to what I actually enjoyed doing, the actual creative work, collaborating with other creatives and not needing to manage the client and the overall project from concept to delivery. A lot of soul-searching as you mentioned, and I arrived at the same conclusion. Why the hell am I doing this when I was perfectly happy as I was originally (and earning far more for less work). Sometimes you need to scale the mountain to realise it's not the size of the mountain, but the terrain. Amazing video, thank you for sharing!

[@SotaMaehara]

The update we've all been waiting for 🤝 also so cool to see Ali living in Asia

[@karlaestefaniadeleon2048]

Congrats! I followed you like 3 months ago, you're really a such inspiration for many people and my life. Congratulations, God bless you both a lot!!!

[@allie_ji8313]

Congrats! I saw someone like you on the way home in HK a few days ago. That was you! Hopefully you and Izzy have a lovely life here.

[@osmanmohamed2422]

Congratulations Ali, hope you both a life full of love and mercy!

[@hoangthilananh8444]

Hi Ali, I'm so so surprised. Congratulations, both. You two look perfect together. I watch her channel a lot and your channel too. Now I'm very happy for two. Both of you deserving all the good things in the world. Wishing you joy, love, and happiness in your new life together.

[@hoangthilananh8444]

I wrote down with all my little English vocabulary 🥹

[@TherealYUVRAJ]

Congratulations and Best of luck for the future! Wishing you both Happy Married Life

[@kflecha1]

Congratulations Ali!! ❤

[@JoyaGong]

Thank you for always being my motivation Ali!

[@chisomakah]

Happy married life Ali. Bliss🎉🎉

[@jenniferozmun8154]

I love the life update! Its so nice to see a little behind the scenes to your amazing content! Thank you for the share! Congratulations to you both!!!

[@mandedelam]

Hi from Hong Kong🇭🇰 So thrilled to know you and your wife have moved here, you guys will love this vibrant city❤

[@brifafrica]

You Inspire me Ali, i have been watching you from the beginning! I may not relate to everything you are saying, but I really relate based on how you have documented your journey through the years, so I am happy for you!

[@ibitopesolanke511]

When i saw the thumbnail I just started smiling, I'm so happy for you guys and congratulations on starting a new chapter in your lives and i wish you all the best and happiness in the world❤❤❤

[@saram2606]

Congrats on having so much progress in a span of a few months! I'd love a video of a tour of your apartment.

[@Aknayirpuna]

Congratulations Ali and Izzy 🎉🎉🎉

[@agniveshsharma5900]

Oh My God ❤️ Wish you a very Happy Married Life 🎉

[@aaronglynnwalker]

Dad in Houston pushing my Ill baby around out streets, enjoying the update. Glad to hear your thoughts and growth. Keep going Ali.

[@OneinaMilianDesigns]

Married almost 3 years and we’re still in the honeymoon phase! We make a point to take a honeymoon-iversary each year. Congrats Ali! 🎉

[@yashnegi9473]

Congrats brother. Watching your videos from 5 years you came a long way.

[@adilmuhammed2003]

Thanks for this update ali hope you and izzy all have a wonderful marriage ❤

[@EmilyFangYuanyuan]

Congratulations to you both, again, but I really want to know when my princess Izzy will update the video? I really love her！❤❤❤

[@devind7460]

Congratulations and good luck Ali and Izzy

[@Dinomite1]

You getting married is kinda surprising but TAIMUR HAD A BABYY ALREADY WHAAAT

[@LivingAncestor1]

Congrats once again Ali, I finally took your advice, I started a KZbin channel as you told me, hopefully it goes well 🤞

[@pedromessias465]

This is crazy! I haven't been watching for a bit but still remember the video you made saying you were going to start dating and etc for the new year, and now seeing this. crazy, super happy for you!!

[@neolyu3810]

Congrats Ali! Nice to hear that you are moving to Hongkong! If you are hosting any in person event, please let us know. We would like to join!

[@HtikeHtike-e2r]

OH my god 😮 Congratulations🎉🎉🎉 I still can't believe but con, con , con❤❤❤

[@TransformYou_withZosia]

Thank you for sharing Ali 🙌🏻 i enjoyed watching it. it's great to listen to openminded people 😃 best wishes from a VRA member ✨✨✨

[@Moniccamccarty]

Congratulations! Im so excited for you! I have been watching your channel and have been really inspired by you. You have an incredible personality and way of keeping me interested. Thank you for all you do ! God bless 😇

[@Serena-q2w]

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MARRIAGE Dr. Izzy and Dr. Ali! 🥰🙏🏼🥹🥳🎉🎉

[@Samarth-k6g]

Did not expect you to be so open but I guess this is how Ali is and this is the Ali we love. Anyways mate, congratulations on your wedding, hope you have a productive life together.

[@chandrika735]

Hi Ali, wow.. been following your KZbin videos since the active recall and spaced repetition videos, which clarified so many myths I have been having in studying methods. It made it possible to come for an Aerospace Engineering Masters in the UK from India. It is wonderful (same time unbelievable but relatable) to see you grow into a better calmer person. Congratulations and wish you and Izzy a Joyful and fulfilled Married Life. It is so happy to see you both. I've been following her on KZbin since I came to the UK. Both of your videos gave me a lot of clarity and a better way to proceed with my Studies, Accent, and life. Wow.. once again so happy for you both😍 Actually, I have a small insight that may be relevant, regarding the balance between work and chill and the cycles over and over again. I've been through the same thing. I realized it was due to the fear and uncertainty of death and the regrets we might have. Even though we claim we are not afraid of death, still we do. The thing is we don't want to work so much that we don't enjoy the moment, have new experiences in case of sudden death, and In case of more chill, we feel we didn't contribute or do something meaningful when we had the time. I learned a concept from "Dandapani" (former Monk and entrepreneur, I highly highly recommend his book: "Unwavering Focus"), he said it's not about balance, but the way they complement one another. Sometimes one is more than the other. But always our life has both. I think the choice is at every moment, as you, at the moment what energizes you that's what you want to do that might be work or rest. Once again Congratulations Dr.'s Ali and Izzy on your wedding and the beginning of a new Adventure🥰

[@daniswijaya]

Well-played Ali! Well-played indeed. Bravo. 😁

[@leonaxlily]

22:00 what a beautiful moment to get too and your genuine contentment with that can be felt through the screen 😂💓

[@laraluna6779]

Man, I don’t think that your business will crumble if you stop making videos. Your content is very valuable and your audience is solid. If you disappeared for some time and then decided to come back to KZbin there are people that will be kinda waiting for you, happy that you had taken a break and decided to come back 😊 cheers!

[@racheldorsay]

CONGRATULATIONS! This is amazing 🥰 I felt the chemistry when you interviewed her on a KZbin a while back. How wonderful 🫶🏼

[@mlin]

Ali, congratulations on the marriage and welcome to Hong Kong!! hope to see you around the city sometime

[@hasibulhasan756]

Congratulations to my favorite youtuber.🥰

[@galeglider]

I was in for the juicy life update **lovelife ehem** but then it turned out to be one of the best productivity videos I've watched! :) Thanks for sharing! Opinion: I am a "heart is the center of life, brain is just a tool (heart over mind)" type of person so I'm all in on your "what you FEEL about stuff matters" :)

[@shreyamishra6297]

Congratulations to you both on this amazing journey 🎉😊 Looking forward to see amazing content and really happy to see such content as it makes people to grow in their life . Thanks again for taking everyone together 🎉😊

[@englishthisway1425]

Congratulations! This is the new chapter of life! Wish all you the best.💐🎉

[@fareedahmadsiddiqui8268]

Hi Ali! I'd love to watch a video where you gave advice to young people about when they should marry. For instance a minimum checklist that we as men should try to complete before getting married, and how to find the right partner and what worked for you. Would be super helpful coming from you. Wish you all the best in your new journey. :'D

[@storybabble]

Congratulations. I have been married for 42 years and it has been the greatest thing I’ve done. I hope all the best for you.

[@eyrinmc]

Congrats, Ali!!!

[@OnePiece-os3pe]

This is a huge update .I remember that I saw your video or post on how you are gonna move to Hong Kong and we’re looking for video assistant Hong Kong and now here you are having gotten married .Congrats for the marriage .

[@calvinwong3744]

Wow, congrats Ali! One of your fans from China. I watch a lot of your videos on RED😁

[@namanbaraya6615]

Congratulations Dr. Abdaal! Been watching you since the beginning. you're the GOAT

[@The_socialinsider]

Ali you spoke to my current psyhe! I go back and forth with the want and should all the time. Currently scaling and not finding any enjoyment in it🤣. Halfway through the video and I can't help but appreciate how relatable this is

[@Goriyaa]

Yup, I feel you. WHEN YOU GO BIG, YOU CAN'T GO HOME. As a content creator, because you have endless opportunities to scale, you keep chasing them all, but in the process often times, you lose yourself. Which is why I neve want to go big, I want to be able to go home, to myself, to my family and sleep peacefully :) Welcome to your new life, Ali

[@tride.design]

Congrats Ali, welcome to our neighborhood and welcome to visit us in Shenzhen. Hong Kong has amazing places for hiking, unfortunately many fail to notice that.

[@HBzai]

Congratulation! ❤ from a fan in Hong Kong. oh and that’s where your sign "Home Kong” is coming from!

[@aliveasalways]

My previous boss is the kind of person who believes in growth in terms of quantity (size, status/class, material wealth, etc.), which is why he couldn't take it when I resigned despite "growing" at the office, but I didn't feel like growing because I felt like I didn't serve my emotional need to have meaning in my work. For me, that means aligning my work with my beliefs. Growth, for me, is always learning new things about the world, things that matter to me.

[@fionamclean6533]

Congratulations. Obviously I don't know either of you but I have watched your videos and hers and I didn't know you are a couple, but I have to say it made me smile so much as I think you are both such nice people. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness xx

[@juleschia9936]

I think the "too much chill" feeling is probably a very Asian thing. We are all brought up to be "productive" (read: bringing in $$), so the thought of just enjoying life at your own pace sort of grates. I retired (early) 2 years ago and keep getting (not-so-subtle) hints from friend and family about being "unproductive" or enjoying myself "too much". I think this flip-flop is a natural thing, and will continue (hopefully) in smaller deviations until we find a new balance in our lives.

[@pratyashakashyap5770]

Congratulations Ali!!! 🎉❤️

[@BrandonSings99]

This is literally all I've been waiting for dude!

[@butlerjd]

How much better would we all be if each one of us did a annual life update video? Just a way to realign goals and find your values in that season of life