I Got Sick And Tired Of Always Seeking For Approval So Now I Just Do Me

[@petelao9]

It’s difficult to find people to talk to when you’re burnt out and low. Which is why I’m always excited watch or rewatch your content. Thank you for being a voice to us all!

[@HealthCores]

Hey bro good to see you again. It's hard man when you on the low and got no one. Lucky I still got the family. zwe just gotta hang in there bro.

[@creative8569]

Wise words from a wise man 👍🏻👍🏻✌🏻

[@krs1690]

Why do you think that in this case you are in low and burnt out? I see it as you're finally awakened, your up to the way you find yourself and live life as an organism that knows and accepts the idea that one day will not be here anymore, so go on and do what makes you genuinely feel good. The sick society will obviously see you as a weird, burnt out person, but the pitty it's on them and not on you and me. They are yet to enjoy themselves even if they pretend they do.

[@stevenchan7537]

This is the looping period. Imagine a good friend of yours pass away, it is the looping moment. It needs time, insights as well as some people to pull him out and to answer some deep questions. It is easy to say, forgive and forget, or probably say, it is no big deal, or telling life moves on, but it is not for those with emotional person with deep hurt or deep bullied. For me is that, just cherish and become the real you, you to live as a human. Not as a dog or as a bird. See the world, ops easy to say. Well let me show you if any1 interested. See good things out from bad things. 😁

[@jeanniegichigi2765]

Greetings Chosen One! Am arecent fan and an African womman, 66yrs young n resonate so much with your stories....i cried when i heard what you endured as a kid...All i cannsay is Forgive them for they know NOT what they!do

[@HealthCores]

Old pain is hard to forget. But I am doing my best and learning to live with it. Still have lots of work to do and everyday is still a new lesson in healing. Thank you for being here.

[@Rhythmic_Hammer]

Keep doing what you’re doing my man! Your journey, storytelling, and the path you’re now on, has the power to change the lives of many thousands, and one day, millions! Much love from Australia. 💙

[@HealthCores]

Thanks for your encouragement mate. Much appreciate you stopping by to see me. Much love!

[@levvaus]

I feel more empowered after listening to this life advice.

[@HealthCores]

Thanks for letting me share all my mistakes with you. I am glad it helped.

[@SoshulCom]

This is your new chapter. Voices like yourss are needed

[@bestsony4933]

Painful past is heartbreaking your childhood nightmares pointing something you need to find yourself as kid dig deeper to save & support yourself as parent love yourself, your younger self can look up to you as supporter to rely on

[@JohnWon-l4n]

I can relate to everything you said. I just got laid off a few days from what thought was a job Id retire from. Thank you for posting, you've given me comfort knowing there's many of us out there.

[@HealthCores]

I feel you 100%. I invested years into a job that thought was gonna be my retirement. But life has another plan for us. I hope you can use this time for some peace before you figure out next steps. Good luck to you!

[@MMMMUK19]

You are a good person.

[@LivingMindfullyWithEve]

I'm sorry to hear how you were treated as a little kid not having anyone there to understand you and help you navigate your emotions. This made me so sad. I had similar feelings as a child and still now feeling like there is no one to save me. My dad would leave me alone all day after school running the neighbor hood or locking me in my room crying all night never taking the time to connect with me or validate my feelings. I was an only child so I felt very alone and unheard and I still struggle with the fear of being seen and no one listening to me. Many blessings to you on your journey.

[@danhartigan9529]

Just doing me has been the best decision I've made in along time thankyou as always brother

[@HealthCores]

Yeh, keep it simple and keep all the distractions out of sight and out of mind. It really has been helping to find clarity.

[@zackevanz3804]

I'm so happy you figured out the scam that is "life" vs real life. Not everyone has the ability to figure that out sadly when they're some of the ones who need it the most. I figured it out early on thankfully but it's always hard to live amongst people who havent had the "click" yet. You caught yourself a new subscriber simply because of the mindset you're throwing out into the world. Lifes a garden...and I just found my shovel.

[@James_36]

I see it, I just dont see how you can decide to not participate.. you need to live, if you want kids you need a centre of of universe place to live and do stuff

[@Peshiolini]

You are talking to your soul right now I appreciate it.

[@HealthCores]

My pleasure. Thanks for listening ❤️

[@Keyboardmom]

I appreciate you sharing your stories. I am also sorry you went through that. May you be blessed.

[@Lerockramblerbirder]

I so resonate with you,and connection with nature is not doing nothing it is connection with the infinite and joy! This will be a beautiful start anew for you and your family for sure!

[@gigikiwi79]

So much of your story is so similar to my own…number 3 of 4 children, wasn’t showed loved, drunk abusive druggy dad…just went on a healing journey last year…had a spiritual awakening…realized I wasn’t a loser, just a survivor…and a warrior! You are one too! and a great storyteller! All the things happened for you, not to you! Thanks for sharing 😊

[@HealthCores]

I am going through some awakening myself this past year. It's no fun facing your old fear and memories. I stop asking myself why my parents were that way. But then that's an answer I will never get so I just learn to let go. Perhaps you are right. Without all these things happened to use we won't be who we are. Thanks for that reminder.

[@sadhu7191]

I assume u used shrooms ?

[@petertone1616]

The video by the lake was perfectly articulated to how I feel, all of it.

[@HealthCores]

Thank you. I am glad that my message found you. I believe one day we all look back and all this struggles will be all worth it. Take care in the meantime.

[@patrickl6932]

I love your videos. It’s difficult to get on my daily list

[@josephinearriaga7028]

Thank you for posting. You caught my attention. Your feeling of expression is something I can relate to.

[@IlluminateYourPower]

Looking forward to watching this fully later! Just chimming in, love the title know it's gonna be another great chat. Keep these coming, your life and story is relatable and your raw vunerability is courageous.

[@HealthCores]

Sharing my story with you has been helping me with my health journey as well so THANK YOU!

[@noneofyourbusinessna740]

@@HealthCores my friend a spiritual roadmap is available to every human on earth its the bible God has a plan for all humanity

[@tylerolsen1539]

Keep going your KZbin will blow up

[@MokaandChai]

Thanks so much for sharing. I relate so much with what you’re sharing. Love your peaceful talks. Be Blessed.

[@HealthCores]

Thank you for letting me share my story. Wishing you all the best. Thank you.

[@hugoriquelme4712]

the you'niverse contracts to its furthest point, then expands through you and I. The pain we feel when we are squeezed is unbearable but necessary to remember our greatness and magnitude. Thanks again bro for your openness. Much love from Melbourne, Australia. There's a huge Vietnamese community here and I love my Bahn mi, pho, bun, and the general warm culture. I'm grateful that I live in such a multicultural city and also close to nature where I do exactly what you do. Yes, we are all of the same essence. We feel, we go through the rollercoaster of life, we love, we fail... we experience all the facets of this human experience. We're all in this together, and at one point we'll take of our masks in this grand masquerade party. Thanks again bro! Cảm ơn

[@datnguyen1615]

I watched and listened to your story. You have a set of skills of surviving at all odds. You should build a community or company so that all can enjoy work and live

[@HealthCores]

Thank you for that advice. I have been thinking on how I could help people and share my experience. So far KZbin is helping me to do that. I hope to keep going and maybe I will find the answer along this journey.

[@mikelpintto]

Thanks for this video, bro! I’m new here, but your content has been changing the way I live my life. Keep it up!

[@jmac4952]

We're experiencing the great awakening. It only deepens from here. We share the same core of Being.

[@Lerockramblerbirder]

So true!

[@markj7612]

Yes. Humanity is taking a giant step in evolution. Old paradigms are dying and a new one is emerging. The dying is a painful process, but a better world is emerging.

[@Leanin3282-q4q]

So similar, it's a changing life and only one.

[@NicholasGoodwin91295]

1,578 who've truly escaped the matrix. 136 who care. And finally 56 who believe. And finally 1 who dares post the numbers. Live free people. The universe is a beautiful place. Don't take it for granted. Amen. I pray for all of you. Do you. But this man this man here... He is no Bruce Lee. He is Just as good if not better... Truly well grounded and honest man with a good heart to give us his time to try and help those in need. Good Samaritan.

[@malihehhomayoum7624]

pleas dont say i am sick and tited because to cure is necessery to be sick seconed in this sick an tiredness we find our strenght so cheer up my friend❤👍🙏🏻

[@yZstarAk1979]

Haven't seen you in a while. Like the content, keep tracking.

[@HealthCores]

Thanks for checking in. Been out in the mountains quite a bit. I try to upload whenever I get back. I am good, how are you?

[@yZstarAk1979]

@@HealthCores I've been recovering from a bad back injury. Am a backcountry guide, so has been difficult, but focusing on being back out there this winter.

[@marionsmith5333]

Thank you for posting I can identify just trying to please people and time goes by and we just don’t enjoy nature at its fullest. Thank you my brother 🧑

[@conormcbride3211]

after trying too make everyone happy all my years hustling losing both my parents and going through cancer and homelessness i feel the same and now stuck at the age of 43 i just feel too tired after what I've been through too keep pushing forward. not lucky enough too have kids and always putting my heart at the right place too help other has gotten me completely spent and burned out

[@James_36]

the largest myth around is "helping others" this idea it will enrich your life is hogwash... another scammy self centred delusion.. most will take your help and run with it and forget about you on the way out

[@fionnchamberlain9963]

Thank you for sharing, x

[@thefates7886]

I like youre posts, himan being and human doing, go from doing to being, its helpful.

[@HealthCores]

We are not machines. Even then machines need to refuel but somehow we think we can just keep grinding without a break.

[@Madebythehandsoflove]

Thanks for sharing your chill. I love pure coffee. Wow so sorry you went through that. There’s trauma therapy that can help. You dear one. So sorry you went through that torture.

[@HealthCores]

I think what doesn't kill us just give us better survival skills and so it did. Right now making these videos and embrace all the things I went through has been more therapeutic than the mental health experts that I have spoken to. Thanks for the advice.

[@mountainswillcrumble777]

Your right on target....🙏

[@corycloud4061]

Great video

[@saurontrollbrawl]

wow this place is beautiful, i walk through the forest every now and than and i admire it

[@HealthCores]

There is something about the green and the water that helps calm our minds. I hope you can find time to get out there more.

[@markj7612]

Closing a door that brings unhappiness gives one the opportunity to open the door to happiness. And the happiness is within oneself. You're commentary reflects wisdom. Well said. "Sell your cleverness and buy bewilderment". - Rumi

[@HealthCores]

Thank you for your wise words. I haven't seen any new door opening yet but in the mean time I will take the time that is much needed to appreciate the simplest of life. Cheers!

[@Lerockramblerbirder]

Beautifully said,thank you!

[@markj7612]

@@HealthCores Thank you for your reply. Any wisdom that I possess I learned from men greater than me - from mystics, sages and spiritual teacher, men who suffered in their own ways and then spent a lifetime in seeking truth. Such men have lived and written of their experiences, thankfully. Myself, I'm nearly 80, and I'm still seeking and learning, and I have certainly learned what doesn't work in life. The sages are correct - that happiness isn't something out there to find. It's already inside us, beyond the level of thought and ego. So, the journey is not a matter of seeking happiness, but rather of leaving the self-imposed darkness that prevents us from experiencing our inner joy. When I was your age, I felt much as you do. I was a mining engineer, in the corporate world. I wasn't happy, and one day, while looking at the "successful" people around me, I realized that I didn't want end up like them. So I left that world and began that search for happiness. One day, in a bookstore, I happened to look at a book by Vernon Howard, titled "The Mystic Path to Cosmic Power". I knew immediately and intuitively that had something important to say. He set me on the right path, and since then I have learned from numerous other teacher. They all generally teach the same thing - how to experience one's inner wisdom and joy. The journey doesn't have to be difficult. It can be beautiful. A wise Teacher once said, when a student appeared at his door, "Welcome. But leave your beliefs at the door". The means to experiencing the truth is through learning how to be receptive. And if one takes one step towards the truth, the truth takes ten steps towards you. Thank you for sharing with us. Blessings.

[@markj7612]

@@Lerockramblerbirder Thank you, my friend.

[@Leanin3282-q4q]

Self rescue, off the chain and out of the barrel.

[@DerpMcDerp101]

Being in nature really helps clarify our place on earth but being in an office building all day will strip it away and cloud what really matters here.

[@PremTiwary-x3t]

i can understand what you are going through, all the best😊and btw if you have any work for remote , please let me know.

[@Livyy364]

Thanks for your honest story! Btw where is this lake it’s so beautiful?

[@hongtulsa4078]

I Have only seen cloudy ,water ,birds ,tree .when I felt disappointed.it’s peace.it’s wonderful time.and I come back home,I felt happy ….enjoy your life.don’t worry too much…

[@HeIsEternal-]

I thought I was the weird one for never seeing life from the viewpoint of everyone else. It sucks because I can’t even really enjoy the friendships I’ve had over the years now because it seems like we’re just disconnected now and being with them stops me from being where I need to be

[@HealthCores]

I think maybe in some way we are all weird. At least I know I am. But I learned to embrace my differences and live my life the way I want. Nothing wrong with doing things to make you happy.

[@radostinpetkov9341]

everyone of us should do this

[@ilikemovies_good]

I knew that I was burnt out at 48, so I left the job and now wake up every morning to do nothing, spend time with kids, watch programs like these, travel, play chess and spend time with kids. I distance myself from people who are not like-minded. This life is short, and I wanted to know the meaning of life..

[@MrSilverfox.]

Just enjoy life and chill out

[@stevenchan7537]

In regards of your daughter doing monkey bar, there is another way of saying it. It is actually just a focus or priority during that moment, which is known as it is not fair, or I need to conquer it. When you see the world, sees more than the monkey bar, there is a lot more things than only the monkey bar.

[@saintclaire1201]

@5:20 “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power…” ~ Lao Tzu

[@raydripper101]

7:00 Respectfully the drinking and parents making work a priority problem is something we experience heavily here in America as well. 8:20 your father had drank all his life, he drank all your life.

[@100xMane]

you said something very important. Please try to erase it from your memory. "i believe i was dealt a losing hand" - You are creating reality.

[@AileenSerrantes-g1x]

Wow , where is that?

[@jasethejewman]

You make a good spokesperson for mens mental health .... Enjoy the peace ... i found life isnt about the rat race it shapes you to be

[@HealthCores]

Thanks for that vote of confidence. I am happy to simply sharing my story with you and hope I could help you see things from a different view. Take care.

[@margaritacreeggan]

Am so sorry your parents did you so wrong!😢😢😢

[@larsb.nielsen4481]

🙏

[@akshatrastogi9063]

May I know which camera are you using for recording? I want to go on the same route as you as I am fed up of my life, go outside and say my heart out in place where no one else is there.

[@HealthCores]

@akshatrastogi9063 I use the DJI Pocket 3 camera. Very simple and easy. You don't need anything complicated. Yes please do what your heart tells you even when no one else approved. Good luck on your journey.

[@akshatrastogi9063]

@@HealthCores Thanks a ton, appreciate a prompt reply!

[@Freepatriotism]

🙌

[@walterpen371]

Quiet Firing started with me since the mid 70's. I unfortunately began with always being too nice, too niave, resulting in getting screwed. I did think about taking the law into my own hands. Not worth it, especially what I 'll encounter after I die. I really don't ever never, return to this eff shit show. I'm retired and again my positive plans for me and my family, have only met with roadblocks. Fishing has always been my favorite passion and yet I don't go. Fishing is to enjoy being out in nature and if you catch any fish, its a bonus. To this day I don't have any friends. The handful that I had, all passed away, both elderly and too young. The near death experienced have said that the other side mentioned that life on this planet is supposed to be hard, on purpose??? Each of us must learn from our journey. I keep forgetting that no matter how unfair my life has been, there are hundreds of millions of people who have it a hell of lot worse. Remember that you really are intelligent, and you will do ok. Peace to everyone.

[@HealthCores]

I think we can still be nice but has to be the right people. I wasted too much time trying to please everyone. I do enjoy fishing with fish or no fish. Just an excuse for me to be out. Thanks for your kind words. We will all be ok ❤️

[@henkvanderwath4405]

34:46 - I have been hearing these types of conversations throughout my life, it became my mission to figure this out. I co-created one that I'd love to share... How do I go about sharing it with you/someone interested? I was looking for your email address, but it was not on your channel. :)

[@henkvanderwath4405]

In short, it is about approaching your life a little more playfully and being aware of how Maslow's hierarchy of needs structurally plays into it.

[@HealthCores]

Please share what you have with me. The best way to contact me is through my IG@HealthCores. Thanks

[@haraldbregu]

What do you currently do for a living?

[@airidasra]

Times of neverland

[@Mr1Jacobs]

Did you catch any fish?

[@HealthCores]

hehe nope :)

[@ronreyes395]

Hi!!!!

[@HealthCores]

Hello. Thanks for dropping in.

[@ronreyes395]

@@HealthCores Im from the Philippines. you told in one of your videos. that you came here before.. I hope my people treated you well when you came here. :-), thank you for the things you say in your videos. i can relate to a lot of them.

[@Frank_Chang12345]

Hey man you can try to practice meditation on those horrible memories and you might have a chance to rewrite that. It worked for me

[@HealthCores]

Thanks, man. I tried meditation, but didn't work so well. Telling my story to the world seems to be therapeutic, though, so maybe I will keep making these videos.

[@Frank_Chang12345]

@@HealthCores It is good work! Keep it up 👍

[@777-hg1if]

Hi thanks for sharing your videos, i have watched most of them. Sometimes when it seems like everything is falling apart, its actually all coming together. This is often how it looks in peoples lives when the Lord God is trying to get there attention. All the voices that say do this, do that, go here, go there they are all removed. You have time to think about the Heavenly Father and the Lord Jesus Christ, who can bless your life richly and shine light on all the things that happened in your past to make sense of it, there is an adversary the Devil, who seeks to keep us from God. But it seems you are now ideally placed to think about all of this. He has power to restore all the years the locusts have eaten. I encourage you to get a Bible and read the new testament, i believe all the answers you are looking for are in there and are found in the Lord God. I believe this is your journey and where you are headed in Jesus name. God bless you. Amen. Also please google Psalm 23 Brother.

[@mahers3876]

Brother what i know i will tell you. The road map that many of us are looking for is the Word of God The BIble

[@ryanjackson4597]

Oh mate… you were abused as a child… I had the same treatment as you. Don’t minimise what happened to you. It was wrong. You were just a child. You deserved love and warmth. Please find a good counsellor. They can help. You are awesome and worthy!

[@HealthCores]

Thank you. I never dealt with this until now. Making videos like these allows me to dig deep and finally facing my trauma. I am slowly learning to let go.

[@Rodiblue1991]

My brother Jesus said "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." - Matthew 11:28

[@barood841]

feel you brother im from iraq i went through this sitiuation its the pressure of socialist societies that went inside of us and socialist cultures we born with it in those old decades

[@HealthCores]

It's crazy how the pressure of society can take a toll on us. I think recognizing that is a start for us to seek for changes that will make us happier. Best wishes to you my brother.

[@theelephant2887]

Have you considered writing a book about your life story?

[@HealthCores]

I thought about being a writer, but I am far from having the right skills to do it. It would be nice to put all the struggles into a book though.

[@stevenchan7537]

Road to happiness or road map, is to identify what makes you happy and what make you sad. Basically I would say, what things keep you excited and enjoy, that's the moment, however happiness in childhood vs happiness in adult vs happiness in elderly is totally different. Therefore it is hard to pin point it, one thing for sure, you must get to know yourself first before get to know your daughter or your wife. So, what type of a father are you, beside the so called father? Get what I mean?

[@HealthCores]

Thanks for the words of wisdom. Right now what I am doing is as close to happiness as I have ever got. No anxiety no beating up myself for things that I haven't achieve. Just living and not barely surviving. I know I need to do this because I need my health and spirit to take care of my family.

[@stevenchan7537]

@@HealthCores well, you definitely need some inspire or motivation to move on. Start to explore how other parts of the world works. I am from Malaysia. Live in a world with multi culture. Even TV Channel we have Malay, Chinese, Indian. Though we don't have many own made show, we mostly import from Korean, US, Japan, China, HongKong, indonesia, Thai, British, with all different of language subtitles. Even in Netflix, there are listed in top most watched show in Asia or Asian show or programs. Even in radio, we have Malay, Chinese and Indian local radio channel with local and foreign songs. Just for your info, we dive into other countries story and culture, as well as inspiration from the movie. We do watch Titantic many times in cinema, that is why it is a hit. Well it is not always happiness in the life, it is how we strive in the unhappiness to move on. Do we learn something from Titanic? 😁

[@thefates7886]

I'm also a dumb kid with a speech problem. It's not a problem for me

[@HealthCores]

We are not dumb. It's just people telling us that and we don’t have to listen.

[@jlefriday6491]

Time well spent Words well spoken Life dont born your with direction when a home suppose to be a home ♥️😢🪵⛈️🔥🏕️🎣📲

[@Sanmayce]

Nice to see such earnestness, Having watched your superb video by the lake, and now this, The thing I see you still haven't figured out, is finding 15:25 what is wrong with being some dumb awkward kid. Nothing is wrong you know that, perhaps the instinct for better life battles the ... Nature Boy, Salute you man with "Nat King Cole - Nature Boy (With Lyrics)".

[@HealthCores]

Thanks for listening to my stories. It took me lots of self reflection to finally accept me for the person that I am. It's great to finally learning to be happy under your own skin. Yes, I am absolute that Nature Boy.

[@stevenchan7537]

First of all, all jobs is to take away your time by paying you the money. Work, life, balance is easy to say, but it actually does not exist when jobs are jobs. If you are living in a multi etnic, or multi culture country, you would experience different kind of perspective of world view on life and people.

[@MartinThePanda]

Where are you getting the money to do all of this? 🤔

[@jocky6429]

Jesus love you man, you should consider diving into the Bible sometime. What can you lose 🤷‍♂️

[@demonslayer9979]

Roadmap to life is Jesus Christ who is willing to forgive your sins and anyones who believes on him. He will give you eternal life and peace. Same way your daughter was willing to take calusses in her hands to achieve something, God was willing to give his only son to be sacrificed for all humanity, becouse thats how much he cares about us. I post few scriptures from bible down below, so you can think about them while your in the mountains. "Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth" Psalm 40:10 "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" John 3:16 "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid" John 14:27

[@mchakakolentai2524]

Roadmap no1 become a muslim there's a reason why Islam is the most succesfull religion of all time....when it comes to your material life, it sounds like you dislike working for others and or working too hard for too long.....solution.....start a business online, or in the real world, or even start an aggroculture business, like a permaculture food forrest which requires little upfront investment and extremely little work to work the land as it's mostly fruittrees, so you can be free from a 9 to 5 and from overworking......but don't hinge your happiness on the material life and don't treat it as a paradise because it's not, it's just a place to be tested and actual paradise only exists in the next life for the God fearing people

[@Grateful0384]

Thank you for your willingness to share your experience 🫡

[@NicholasGoodwin91295]

I only replied on one comment in the entire internet today. I chose your comment, because you are special. The next big thing is Hyper Heroes... I developed these characters Called Warp, Reverser, Co-incidence, Nothing and The First. They are all beyond infinitely powerful and this genre of hyper heroes could be the next big thing. I want you to take my idea and do something with it because I'm too busy too old for it... You probably know more than me... And if you think I'm crazy and don't care then give the idea to someone else or just ignore me. Good luck :)

[@thoughtfulthreadsAI]

Thanks for your video. The only roadmap I've found is equivalent to a train. 🚆 Sometimes, you need to cut some railcars loose to keep moving forward. Time moves forward, our decisions may not.

[@pasqualetartaglia9639]

🙏