"I HATE IT When You Yell at Me" Kendall Is SO DONE - Dance Moms (Flashback Compilation) | Lifetime

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The stress of being in the ALDC gets to Kendall and Jill in this Dance Moms flashback compilation. #DanceMoms #AbbyLeeMiller
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[@scarlettgacha6730]

Hi

[@triliyahcoleman5532]

Hello I love this channel

[@nadiagabr1284]

@@triliyahcoleman5532 hi

[@nadiagabr1284]

@@scarlettgacha6730 hi

[@vedahart475]

Okay!

[@Ella-ok7zs]

i feel like kendall was labelled as a bit of a crybaby when honestly she was one of the only girls who openly showed their emotions and stood up for themselves

[@pandabeats7717]

The problem was that Jill acted like a hypocrite and people pinned it on Kendall. Chloe and Paige went through very similar treatment, but they stuck it out, and everyone compared Kendall because at every correction Jill jumped in the middle and took her away. I think part of her label was because of Jill.

[@kacynguyen6708]

That’s probably why she’s the only emotionally stable one now

[@askingkennedy9570]

she’s like me tbh

[@christophergibbons2579]

Kacy Nguyen hat are you talking about?😂

[@Ghaniyahgillani]

Ella Path u had 666 likes and 6 replies

[@juliacholewinska3151]

Ok a lot of people called kendall whiny because she didn’t want to wear that latex mask but the cameras didn’t show her saying that she’s allergic to latex and couldn’t wear it

[@gabbylor4602]

Omg that’s like wrong

[@Kayleigh_Charlotte]

What's latex

[@Crm-vo4tf]

Julia Cholewinska yeah that’s why she was fanning her face

[@laulynkayla496]

Rlly? I always thought she was overreacting in that scene

[@squird5964]

You could see how red her face was when she took it off it was awful

[@Dani_playsgames]

It’s obvious she wasn’t just crying, she was having panic attacks. You can tell it’s anxiety. And yet, people belittled her. She really deserved better :/

[@heatherwilson8616]

What makes me sad is if that were any other girl she'd get sympathy and love. But not always kendall and it's not ok

[@ouig-emirii]

This is what dance teachers do. I did modern dance for 9 years and quit when I was 16 because my self esteem was in the toilet because of my teacher. I’m 35 now and in hindsight I wish my mom made me stick with it and put me in therapy to deal with my insecurities. Was I the best? Absolutely not. Did I work the hardest to get into the front row? Definitely not. I fell into victimhood and self pity rather than accepting I didn’t work as hard as the other girls. Maddy worked the hardest. It wasn’t because Abby was picking favorites. She was the better dancer and the hardest working dancer.

[@lillianasparks733]

@@ouig-emiriiSame with me

[@jyslog]

You can even tell she was getting anxious she even asked to leave because she didnt want it to show on tv

[@Ruby45566]

True

[@felinekroes7928]

17:34 there’s nothing wrong with a 9-year-old crying on her mothers lap, I’m 14 years old and I still like to be comforted by my mom when I’m upset

[@cloutydaze]

Deadass I’m almost 26 and when I’m upset I still drive to my moms to lay on her lap 💀

[@myunili]

I'm 20 years old and I still need my mom's affection and reassurance. No matter how old we are, we still need that love sometimes 🥺

[@bevstrong3651]

Dude, I’m 21 years old and although I’m living in my own, I still call my mom to get some love and comfort when I’m upset sometimes. Nothing wrong with that at all.

[@isabelle7526]

I’m 19 and I need a hug from my mum or dad to feel better. It’s called love not being a crybaby

[@robloxislife4182]

@@cloutydaze lmao

[@ElectricGreenWater21]

I feel bad that she was always dismissed as being a brat when she's clearly struggling with anxiety

[@kakersue]

MULTIPLE on screen panic attacks

[@gablo268]

Right she was always having panic attacks and probably gained them from dance moms

[@abibroadfield5387]

literally!!

[@MJ-tn2zu]

legit she acts like me when i wasn’t on my meds. and i have very severe anxiety i feel so bad for her

[@desiderium5678]

i hope she has gotten better, or at least got some professional help :(

[@bh-fd9qg]

literally a compilation of a kid having anxiety attacks ..

[@hollymatters]

If my life was a compilation

[@hollymatters]

@SEAN STANLEY its not a joke. I have panic/anxiety attacks nearly everyday :V

[@AvakinGamerRosy]

@@hollymatters me too. Sad.

[@deepanair5916]

That's not nice ........ ಠ_ಠ

[@hollymatters]

@@deepanair5916 what is. They weren't saying anything bad, they were stating the obvious

[@HannahScoutloves]

Maturing is realizing Kendall wasn’t dramatic but a true victim. AND a beautiful dancer

[@tahliamiles2763]

girl no she was never a good dancer compared to the other girls... and was a brat inside and ut from her very first season they was she talks to her own mother and the faces she pulls i feel no sympathy for her

[@vix4371]

@@tahliamiles2763 First of all that is a literal child okay i dont know if you expect her to be professional but that is a child and shes a great talented dancer. Honestly if you aren't a professional dancer or a dancer at all you shouldn't be saying who's bad and not talented because you probably could never do what they do and second of all kendall would talk like that with her mother so another fight wouldn't happen plus other reasons we maybe don't know and of course there were moments where kendall was a bit immature but so what! She was a child, for you to say you have no sympathy for her when a child is having a panic attack is very rude.

[@shaziaahmed60]

No. Kendall got away with so much with Abby. I can’t imagine what Abby would have done if Nia or Chloe had behaved same way.

[@vix4371]

@@shaziaahmed60 Abby treated nobody fairly. Unfortunately in nia and chloe's case abby had it out for them so obviously they couldn't say anything but also just know that it wasnt just kendall who had attitude at times.

[@rosaworld2529]

@@vix4371sometimes 😂😂😂😂

[@agb07]

As someone with anxiety and stress, I totally get how Kendall feels. You can obviously tell she is stressed and having panic, and anxiety attacks. And fighting and confrontation in front of her makes it worse, I also do that, I stress and overthink a lot.

[@agb07]

@@luckynumber1126 different things could trigger her. It makes me nervous when other people get yelled at, but I normally only start to panic when it’s directed at me. People react in different ways and for her it seems like yelling directed at her and arguing involving her is just a trigger. She has obviously been emotionally abused too. Sorry I didn’t make that clearer in my original comment.

[@mwoody7881]

me too!! i’ve had anxiety since i was 3 and i feel horrible for Kendall and i can relate to her having a lot of anxiety, pressure, and stress. i hate confrontation and fights.

[@varg_vikernes_count]

"As someone with anxiety and stress" you already know its a internal victim lmao.

[@shreyasingh-po4fp]

Jill crying about no one caring about Kendall was actually really sad.

[@florinepierre7654]

Right?! I felt really bad bcs I didn’t like her on the show

[@lv3r742]

that was really sad because it was the truth

[@kiiarax4685]

Jules Mankey you have no videos..

[@christophergibbons2579]

I mean. She should have expected that with Cathy. It’s Jill’s fault

[@aarontena708]

ikr. i even shead a little tear 😢😂

[@pankajkushwaha2288]

It was pretty rude for Gianna to say “It’s like a battle !” ..... like the kid is only human and SHE’S NOT MADDIE ! Don’t expect her to dance just like Maddie they both are totally different and great it their own genres

[@christophergibbons2579]

It’s not rude at all. It’s the instructor informing her boss that she doesn’t pick up fast enough when she needs to. That happens every day in the entertainment industry.

[@fadayazohrabova1786]

Pankaj Kushwaha ofcourse she is not Maddie

[@hannahxrosejin9352]

Maddie is a human to

[@strangerlajeana]

this wasn’t a very good example but gianna will take any chance to kiss up to abby

[@thomasthawng5831]

but the truth is Maddie is also human she's also not perfect at everything either

[@user-ju5gj2ev9p]

Maturing and realizing that Kendall was NEVER a "dramatic kid" nor a most used word, "crybaby". She was really misunderstood and is really an amazing dancer that knows how to step her foot down.

[@breahnaalliyah5368]

She isnt a brat, Kendall is a sentitive little girl and she really can't control her anxiety, but she really is an amazing dancer.

[@Ruby45566]

True

[@Mahroosh_vibes13]

I'm sensitive and cry alot and I'm not afraid to cry infront of people. This is why I respect kendall because abby has shouted at alot of children and kendal was the only one who said to stop and talked back in a good way to Abby. That's what's called a good attitude. But all I think she needs to do is be resilient and not just mess up once and quit. 😊

[@suckyamum2003]

I don’t think she’s a “cry baby” I just feel like this girl has anxiety

[@D4NI3LLAZ]

She’s a trump supporter....

[@rivulette2486]

@@D4NI3LLAZ she can’t have anxiety because she’s a trump supporter?

[@D4NI3LLAZ]

I never said that I just said she’s a trump supporter

[@marcydiaz6950]

@@D4NI3LLAZ And? Biden is like Trump, both are the same.

[@D4NI3LLAZ]

@@marcydiaz6950 I just said she was a trump supporter I never said that she couldn’t have anxiety I just said she’s a trump supporter

[@noname8447]

Abby: she is 9 years old and sitting on her mothers LAP CRYING 14 year old me crying on my mother's lap because someone in online class told me "stop breathing in the microphone please"

[@demb9879]

O-O

[@osaogieesangbedo1727]

Underrated

[@gamingjeff-ub6fd]

Just asking why do we have to joke about this video

[@gennnjjj147]

Microphone. You sure you’re 14? (It’s a joke lolol)

[@browantssomelettuce]

@@gennnjjj147 ik its a joke but maybe she comes from another country where shes learning english. maybe she has a learning disability, maybe its a typo? dont judge someones age just from their lack of spelling.

[@suziewong5305]

It’s good to see Kendall evolve and as she gets older, actually calling Abby out for screaming at her. As we get older we’ve got to find our voices otherwise people will walk all over us.

[@alyssakathleen9898]

I love how abby became more patient and understanding to kendall’s anxiety as she got older. while kendall was walking out of her and jojos duet saying that it was annoying, abby was smiling sarcastically at jill and as soon as kendall said that she immediately said “what’s wrong sweetheart”

[@lamarabdulwahab551]

Jojo is so sweet, like whenever someone is crying she goes to comfort them

[@karrow3343]

Yes jojo one of my fave

[@coolboyandsister2444]

@@karrow3343 yes jojo jojo jojo

[@coolboyandsister2444]

is the besttttt

[@nobody5386]

Jojo is nice but her mother is not. Did you see the episode when Jessalyn stole Kalani's script?

[@lamarabdulwahab551]

Mariah Ayson no I didn’t see it

[@sydneysohns3967]

“she’s just a little girl who wants to dance” broke my heart

[@lulugosai6822]

Ya

[@octaviousoctavious2104]

Me to

[@miabarrera8932]

Same

[@brookesolz2383]

I know :-(

[@rosesxx180]

i nealy cryed to this dance mom's show idk why is just idg why abby treates the kids difrently

[@freyahansen8453]

It was heartbreaking when Kendall was ripping her hair and said “ It’s important to YOU” showing that it was more important for Jill than Kendall to dance 😕

[@horrorpickles]

Jill clearly cares about her child, and it shows. Her crying about nobody wanting her is so sad

[@madiepaige2190]

okay but the fact that kendall was on the verge of a PANIC ATTACK and abby was forcing her to stay in that room and be taunted is disgusting. the way she treated these girls makes me sick.

[@MOIZIYAH]

I know

[@kallrose1]

And yet, Jill and the other moms kept bringing their kids back to Abby. It was all about the fame and the Benjamin's, baby!

[@khadijaalzaabi3717]

Kathy Rose some of the mothers wanted to leave since season 1 but couldn’t because of the contract

[@abbyv9143]

Then why are you watching this lmao

[@phumzilengwane848]

Then go to the psychological help Coz your still watching

[@shaybetmontiel]

what a toxic place, i would never let my children stay in an environment like that

[@chi7927]

Yea ikr

[@jazminh1988]

my latin mother wouldn’t last a DAY

[@mileyfebey7111]

I agree

[@shaybetmontiel]

@@jazminh1988 lol totally

[@sunnibunni9741]

Right! I get hard work and having a dream, but there is a big difference in tuff love and toxic manipulation.

[@Jihye382]

I feel so sorry for Kendall! She went through so much pressure and you can just tell that she hit the limit!

[@4l1sh_21]

I just love how jessalynn raised Jojo She always hugs and comforts every single person who is crying or havi g a panic attack

[@sniffba4715]

The producers actually cut out the part saying Kendall was allergic to the latex on her face cause at the end of that scene she is fanning her face

[@annamosier2396]

Wait really!???

[@nicoledeugarte]

Anna Mosier yes

[@wonderful.colors_2451]

Omg 😱 that’s so sad 😭

[@ardenbliss9359]

how do you know that

[@hsnkids.]

@@sniffba4715 depends if it's fully true Because maybe Google said that but did Kendall say that? I don't think Jill or abby would let Kendall put latex on her face of she was allergic

[@kaylaandninjax]

You can tell Kendall has Anxiety. You can see she’s breathing fast, look worried, dizzy and nauseous. Her Mum is just trying stick up for her, but sometimes it goes to far.

[@Pyricangel]

I was about to say the same thing.

[@vitani5779]

@@kaylaandninjax maybe you forgot to change ACC? (No hate) 0.0?

[@kaylaandninjax]

@@vitani5779 does she have that? Ouch.

[@littlechannel4933]

omg YES

[@megaweeb3800]

Ya you can definitely tell Kendal has anxiety but her mom in my opinion at times makes things worse

[@wildhorse101]

It's so disturbing that this horrible woman thinks a 9 year old shouldn't be crying. Feelings are valid no matter what!

[@J2107]

For all the times Jill wanted Kendall to have a solo, I applaud her for this moment; at 12:50 Abby said ‘Should Kendall just do it as a solo?’ Now the old Jill would’ve leapt at the opportunity for Kendall to do a solo, even if it meant taking it away from another child (ie the duet with Jojo in this scene) but at 12:52, Jill straight up went ‘No. it’s a duet!’ I feel that this shows how much Jill has grown since her early stages in Dance Moms.

[@starrtalks9208]

I love how Jojo went to console Kendall when she was crying

[@laurenmccomb4023]

Yeah Jojo is so sweet

[@brandes8057]

Yes kids have feelings too.tired of them acting like theyre robots just because they're on an elite dance team these are only children

[@maiatragasz89]

Kaitlyn Muck 18:59

[@amc-charlie2830]

Adara Fraser ok

[@sherlinelindor5902]

Same

[@Mia-xg3zs]

“an your gonna be bailing her out of jail” that didn’t age well😬

[@s.e.2443]

Mia Haddock LMAOO

[@inyourz0ne]

Mia Haddock hehe lmao

[@itzlia2478]

Wait what??? Im confused

[@annav7317]

Mia Haddock ???

[@BeStrong_BeCourageous]

Wait she is in jail?

[@sara.gadkari]

From the start of the show from season 1 I liked Abby because she let the girls have fun with dancing and didn't yell as much as she did later on. When Kendall wrote on the paper what she finds negative, baby read that is said "we never get to do fun things like we used to do." Abby asked Kendall if that's how all the girls felt and she said yes. I think that moment was when Abby realised that she needs to let the girls be kids while it lasts. 7:49

[@punk207]

19:51 i love how jojo runs to Kendal to makes sure she’s okay

[@shayesdiaries]

Yes

[@Kenny_Taylorsversion13]

Yess

[@hermionegranger1633]

Kendall was allergic to the latex on the old face, that’s why she was crying, not because it looked bad

[@halaelabadi7034]

Omg rlly that’s sad that no one understood

[@hermionegranger1633]

Hala Elabadi I think they all did, lifetime cut it out to make her look like a brat! But yeah it’s so sad they did that too her!

[@menna7068]

It was so obvious how her face went red abby is just ughh

[@cham-p6306]

Kelly Briscoe 😐

[@jaydingorgon7081]

Or sensitive skin

[@DustBunny_389]

I hated how Kendall telling Ashlee off was deemed as “bratty” when in reality all of that was built up anger and anxiety that finally exploded.

[@simmons719]

Exactly, I think Kendall had full permission to yell at Ashlee

[@linajustin5233]

If it was me I would’ve jumped at ashlee and “accidentally” kicked her

[@kenziedenise6861]

It’s a meme on everything I never understood how these kids didn’t talk back like I couldn’t go !

[@JanJan0525]

Kenzie Denise ikr lmao I would’ve yelled at her-

[@alizohrahirji3290]

Janessa Irizarry I think Ashlee was wrong she can’t argue with a kid any ways she’s fighting with a kid so her iq level is lower than a bby

[@nunyaaaaa1769]

can we just appericiate how melissa comforted kendall when she started crying about the duo? 13:32

[@erin_loves]

When Melissa was comforting Kendall at 13:27 it was so sweet. I feel like we rarely see any moms on this show caring for children other than they’re own. ❤️

[@yummy__brockk]

Christi was comforting Kenzie I think in s1 but I can’t remember the episode

[@eliciaaag]

Holly stood up for every kid besides her own

[@yummy__brockk]

@@eliciaaag yes she did tf you talking about?

[@eliciaaag]

@@yummy__brockk that’s what I jus said? 🙃

[@yummy__brockk]

@@eliciaaag no you didn’t you said “holly defend other kids besides her own”

[@jaylab4450]

better title: abby and jill ruining kendall’s mental health edit: ummm why does this have 2k likes lol i just came to youtube and i see this LOL

[@bella-mw9ed]

TRUE

[@cescaslife374]

Soooo True

[@elle9446]

✨ P E R I O D T ✨

[@carolinesmith376]

And the other moms comments to her

[@xjennie2552]

True

[@claireelise3125]

“Why doesn’t Abby yell at Maddie?” “Because she doesn’t yell at Maddie”

[@charlottenicoll4006]

Logic

[@ilikekatsig]

claire hudson that makes no sense;-;

[@tooruzxy4464]

for me,because shes pushing everyone THAN maddie,im a dancer and i think thats how abby teaches and i hate it but i think that is her perspective.

[@Hannah-ec2xg]

Maddie nia Kendall Mackenzie are misunderstood 🥺

[@mira7075]

Hannah Clairsaint Maddie isn’t but the rest are

[@tiaraatilia]

to see jill crying really broke my heart

[@tiaraatilia]

kendall is just a beutifull little girl who just couldn't control her anxiety. And she is a verry amazing little dancer

[@mileslyriics]

i agree

[@_rotro]

Yeah I can’t believe people call her a crybaby. Like she’s not she’s a kid

[@mandilu4914]

"Keep bailing you're kid out of trouble, and pretty soon you'll be bailing her out of jail" That didn't age well.

[@Natalia-ci5zb]

wait what happened?

[@mandilu4914]

@@Natalia-ci5zb Abby got sent to Jail

[@sugarinmycoffee3931]

M Lu wait, why did she get sent to jail again?

[@mandilu4914]

@@sugarinmycoffee3931 for hiding money from the government

[@jenniferarbour8597]

M Lu oh god! She kinda deserves it!

[@thepoetess8083]

Kendall clearly has extreme anxiety. She's not a crybaby, she's being emotionally abused.

[@danielleduke3611]

yes thank you! Like you can clearly tell she either has anxiety or is just get emotional. She was like 9yrs old Abby needed to give these kids a break.

[@jjbrutus8144]

Right right I broke my both my arms and my ankle btw at the same time and I had no emotion no crying I said it was what it was her so called emotional abused there saying words meant to harm a 3 yr old and shes crying bro

[@reihino9125]

@@jjbrutus8144 Not everybody is gonna be like you she has anxiety a lot of kids had anxiety in dance moms

[@kazbaz8614]

@@jjbrutus8144 ok big guy but people handle different situations in different ways. If you have anxiety on top of what Abby is saying to her it’s difficult. If you haven’t been through constant belittling from a figure like that, as a kid your taught that adults are always right, so when you hear them calling you a “cry baby” and “too old to cry” it makes you feel alienated from everyone else and think they’re right. I could go into so much detail about this cause I know from first hand experience. But you need to remember the dance industry is already a harmful environment anyway, with body shaming and such but that’s not the only harmful thing in the dance industry

[@lust9818]

@@jjbrutus8144 oh stfu

[@charlottelee2563]

Kendall is my favourite because she isn’t afraid to stand up for herself, and Jill was the reason Kendall got a lot of opportunities away from her

[@alwaysbeurfav]

I have anxiety and I’m extremely sensitive , so the second someone raises their voice at me or things keep going wrong , i’m on the verge of tears.. I’m not surprised it constantly happening to Kendall. She’s always shouted at. Yes the rest of the kids also are , but certain pple act in different ways to others yet everyone called her a “cry baby”

[@helenbukoski5830]

“Keep bailing your kid out of trouble, you will be bailing her out of jail.” Haha funny you would say that Abby...

[@demb9879]

E

[@hafsamiller1758]

How ironic lol

[@munan5015]

what a coincidence 🤔haha

[@bassproshopsnob5883]

ALSO WHEN MADDIE DID A SOLO WHEN KENDALL COULDNT DO THE POINTE SHOE ONE MADDIE DIDNT DO THE POINTE BC SHE KNEW IT WAS TOO HARD

[@jigisabhuiya5436]

Anna opp-

[@lillyandiyland627]

"I'm not a product I'm a person" words of wisdom

[@littlechannel4933]

yes...just YES

[@miasoto7567]

@Princess Crooks what is it

[@theaternerds8176]

42 is the product of 6x7

[@rochanapatankar9362]

time stamp - 6:15

[@yuqiiks]

" youre going to be bailing her out of jail" oh how the tables have turned abby.

[@kayleeanastasi3704]

As much as I love this show, the way Abby talks to and treats the girls is ridiculous. She calls them childlike, when she’s the one throwing a fit like a 2 year old 🙃

[@RoseWilson]

Crazy, the kids were more mature than most of the adults ❤

[@Queen_emolol]

4:51

[@Ande-gb4xv]

Exactly. And even if they are acting “child like” *they. Are. Children.*

[@mae5560]

anyone noticed that Mellisa is always so comforting to any kid that cries, like she’s a second parent to the other kids

[@potatolife2274]

Also Christi

[@mangoplays3186]

And holly

[@kaitlynm9463]

but she doesn’t give adequate support to Mackenzie lol

[@haileymeagh2790]

but also like jojo hugs them and calms them down

[@definitelynot_ara]

hailey meagh true she is so nice

[@stayforthepeelpronpls4774]

Alternative title: Compilation of Kendall having anxiety caused by Abby and her mother

[@BrynhildurLaila]

True

[@justurtypicalteenager4989]

pitiful

[@shaziabaig5137]

On point

[@mrs.davis2u.761]

Stay for the peel beep Pls why did you put a bad. Word kids are here

[@rosysanchez4325]

Facts

[@chocolatenuts280]

Melissa and Christi seem like such good people making sure Kendall was ok and getting her mam

[@jacquelineramos4166]

the FACT they have to make this a 21 minute video of KENDALL BEING HARASSED AND YELLED AT. Like 21 MINUTES

[@jasminehurley1604]

“She’s nine years old and she is crying” uh what? As a sensitive child I was crying even when I was 13.

[@bunnibloopers8466]

I’m crying at 16??

[@yasmingarcia2301]

And I stopped crying at mostly everything at age 8. I’m not trying to be mean I’m just saying every kid is different

[@jasminehurley1604]

Yasmin Garcia I know, but if a kid still is crying at 9 years old you shouldn’t shout at them for it.

[@ryleeuebinger456]

I'm 18 years old and I definitely still cry. No shame either, it's natural.

[@guineapiglife4525]

Yeah one of my friends is really sensitive and one time she started crying because her and one of my other friends were having an argument about who would push me on a swing

[@hannahabbas681]

Did Kendall ever go to like the doctor. I mean maybe she was experiencing anxiety. Because it looked like she has anxiety attacks.

[@certifiedstar]

I’m pretty sure she went to the doctors a few times before or after the show, cause of how severe it was.

[@elzlife6575]

Ohhh I never thought about that ehhh

[@Holyanointing]

@Jordyn Barry Where lol

[@Kaileyk12]

Uh yeah....this is definitely anxiety driven and who could blame her?

[@saliyadem6115]

yes she did she was suffering from seizure :(

[@lillitaylor5625]

When Melissa was supportive towards Kendall it was a really sweet moment between them. It’s nice how Melissa was trying to help her.

[@danielxdaniel2743]

I like a Kendall actually talks back and doesn’t just stand there

[@elliepratt1245]

“She’s a nine year old girl. She shouldn’t be upstairs crying” SHES HUMAN. HUMANS GET OVERWHELMED. SHE CAN CRY. SHES A KID.

[@temtem3402]

Plus she was NINE!!

[@toxictropical8556]

@@temtem3402 she said that already

[@temtem3402]

@@toxictropical8556 OK? Shocking

[@toxictropical8556]

@KIAN HUESCA we didnt ask

[@twinkiesthezombiedog1768]

@@toxictropical8556 Bruh so? It don't matter I'm 10 almost 11 and I cry a lot cuz I am emotional so yeah you don't control anyone let them do what they wanna do 😑

[@onlythebest8070]

“ She’s gonna be bailing her outta jail “ Well guess who needed bailing out of jail. Not Kendall 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@lornapettiford8547]

LMAO I luv this comment

[@abibroadfield5387]

AHAHAHAHA

[@mziqr_4678]

PREACH IT CYST👏

[@emilybell1251]

OMG XDD

[@253mahamedhatmoussa2]

how to turn tables

[@gavisvfx]

8:17 can we talk about how nice abby was in this scene-

[@izzylovespink]

honestly, Abby is a horrible person and has given so many young children trauma but then again she is human and she can have her sweet moments 😊

[@DorkyFox_Roxy]

I met Kendall in real life. She’s really nice and didn’t deserve this ❤️

[@mxlat0nin0303]

People don’t seem to realize how severe Kendall’s anxiety was from doing this show.

[@alliehasting2507]

Every girl that have been a part of the aldc got their anxiety from the show

[@totallynot_fee4526]

Yeah

[@aestethicplays7073]

@@alliehasting2507 yea true

[@arim6074]

Allie Hasting yeah but im pretty sure paige and kendall had the worse, i think they had anxiety disorders

[@slimethefun2105]

@@alliehasting2507 and most of all their mom's fighting give them anxiety

[@gracee.gesekk]

kendall was crying because she was allergic to latex so that’s why she didn’t wear the mask , not because she didn’t like it or it looked bad . the camera people cut it when she said she’s allergic to latex to make it look like she was crying because of that but she was not .

[@ykaa79]

How did you know

[@autumn_]

ykaa79 that’s why her face was so red and she was fanning it

[@stylishpp3165]

she also literally has anxiety. ever single one of these were panic attacks

[@gunjanarora2224]

What is latex

[@afshannasim9404]

@@gunjanarora2224 its like what sergical gloves and masks are made of

[@briellevanDam13]

You can honestly see from watching this that Kendall clearly had anxiety from her mom, Abby and just dancing. I think the show ruined dancing for her and a lot of the students

[@ameliasvideodiary]

I just love at the end how Jojo was straight over to Kendall and then ran out the door to go check on her ( ofc everyone else did ) but Jojo was the first one and that’s what I love abt her !!

[@mac_hac_2773]

I feel so bad for Kendall. Her anxiety was sky high in this show, the pressure, the yelling, and Jill made everything so much worse.

[@angelinacloet4946]

_mac_hac_ 2514 especially Jill

[@gachatplays7119]

Yeah, she had so many panic attacks and anxiety during the show.... I hope she is okay from the trauma during the show.

[@juniper417]

Especially when they put them on TV. In front of so many people. Having a camera panned at your face while having a panic attack?

[@hailey2058]

@@gachatplays7119 its an anxiety attack most of the time but maybe 1 panic attack.

[@Tigerlily22]

But at least Jill tried to help her daughter unlike when Melissa didn’t for Mackenzie a bunch of times and it’s not right for any grown adult to scream at children and think it’s ok

[@minseochu4337]

Abby: she’s 9 years old sitting on her mother’s lap crying Me at 13: on my moms lap crying bc someone said I was dumb

[@shahynisha2380]

Ikr

[@boobierubi8567]

Minseo Chu I was entering high school at 13 I don't remember being on my moms lap crying I mean I remember talking to her about issues but not sitting on her lap I think I was taller than my mom by 13 lol because my mom is like 5"1 lol so I couldn't sit on her lap even if I wanted to 😂

[@bonkosaur]

@@boobierubi8567 at 13 I was in middle school-

[@boobierubi8567]

ASadAsian yeah well my birthday was in October so I started kindergarten at 4 and then turned 5 a month into school I was 13 entering high school because we had to go back to school end of August and I didn’t turn 14 until October almost 2 months later so I was 14 in freshman year but I entered at 13 because of my birthday

[@bonkosaur]

@@boobierubi8567 ohhhh ok

[@jessi333xp]

Abby reminds me so much of my own mother, she never wants to admit her wrongs so she finds other people to blame cause she can’t accept that she isn’t perfect either.

[@Kluane09]

That's My family tbh..

[@h4rp666]

i have high amounts of respect for kendall and how she spoke up when that airhead mom was talking trash 👏

[@juliaberry5304]

You can tell that the strings on Kendall’s costume are squeezing her and her skin is red

[@almondxbear8602]

Lily Pickering true 🥺

[@lucyeth8160]

@Lily Pickering Wait she's allergic to latex? That's what I thought when I saw her skin so red after taking off that old woman-like makeup. I have a latex allergy too and omg it's not to be taken lightly :(( poor girl

[@sanjeetadatta3989]

the way abby says the kids are grown up when they’re only nine 💀😂😂😂

[@lisavjoness0]

DANCER HERE!!! we do the same warm up and stretches everyday, when you do something everyday for months, years, you know it by heart. My teacher required us to stretch on our own every night, so abby does have a point. It really takes 10 minutes.

[@amygraham3955]

Its obvious that Kendall struggles with anxiety poor thing, she has panic attacks all the time.

[@emekajohnson2630]

And?

[@doyocino]

@@emekajohnson2630 what do you mean and?She struggles with panic attacks

[@macyjorgensen5078]

my brother struggles with panic attacks also

[@raspberryflavoured.druglollies]

@@macyjorgensen5078 im sorry for him :(

[@alaynawest2261]

@@emekajohnson2630 wtf

[@tyraalynnn]

I honestly feel like kendall wasnt a terrible dancer, she just got stressed. On top of that she said multiple times that she didn't want to do dance anymore, but kept pushing. ( thanks for 600+ likes 🧚🏽💕)

[@heathertan4088]

Honestly all of the dancers have probably felt that, it’s so sad that Abby keeps on telling them their best is not good enough.

[@tyraalynnn]

snowysleeps I agrew

[@zitlalaland]

Me to

[@susanchambers129]

Yea x

[@sonaligonial.7357]

Yeah she is dramatic

[@francisbellezapata8291]

on 7:56 u can see that Abby finally realized what those kid are feeling; like all the anxiety and their mental health, the situation is really sad

[@brookiecookie2832]

Kendall is just like me, I have major anxiety! I get overwhelmed and even have meltdowns when I am pressured. I could just feel her pain❤️

[@milliewadey1199]

Maddie walking into Kendal and Jill talking about her: 👁👄👁

[@bobateagacha1597]

lmfao

[@armyxblinkboop4015]

Time stamp?

[@dogequeen737]

😂

[@dogequeen737]

It’s true

[@SA-xl1tk]

Editing

[@urmom-wt4kg]

When Kendall said “may I use the bathroom”, her nervousness RADIATED off of her. she was having a panic attack and she had to leave the room, POLITELY. I feel so sorry for ALL the girls their mentally and emotionally damaged by the making of this show.

[@mnop75]

I am glad the Mom stood up for her

[@BABob-hr8bd]

@@mnop75 her mother was just as bad as Abby with the pressure she put on the kid.. If my kid was in that situation I would REMOVE them from the situation, but all of these mothers put fame and money above and beyond their own kids mental health.

[@mnop75]

@@BABob-hr8bd oh absolutely.. Poor child

[@jiminitrash_cake490]

I would still leave even if she told me not to-

[@cecilaufey]

it was so heartbreaking 😔 you could literally hear kendall’s voice shaking and *feel* her breaking down.

[@melinasanchez7125]

I love the fact that kendall is brave to yell at the other moms

[@emmaLakeland-pb8vz]

Holly needs to show us how she teleports!✨

[@taylorhevey6885]

Abby “she 9 years old and sitting up there crying on her mother’s lap” Me as a 16 year old I still do that 😂😂

[@missgalaxie7779]

Hahah! Meeee!

[@celestialnightdragonwolf3984]

Same tho

[@sophialunsford4171]

I literally went off when I heard Abby say that...just bc u don't have feelings, Abby, doesn't mean no one else does...

[@anthonylarusso2042]

Same with my cousin

[@kaysunicorn4714]

@@sophialunsford4171 EXACTLY THATS FAX

[@maymieoo]

Jill: Out of everyone in this room, I am the most loyal Also Jill: dances for Cathy

[@francescadawson123]

that feeling "i wish i wrote that"

[@minjeongoutsold8870]

And she didn't leave the ALDC, they just didn't show her and brought her to Cathy for shots

[@markuskorpijarvi5538]

Sofia Yes it was she got em money cause she was stripping xD

[@robotcommander7943]

So right

[@julesmankey4330]

Can y’all follow me??

[@carolinerussell5428]

The fact that at 5:27 Jessalyn and Jojo were comforting Kendall just shows that other moms cared about children who weren’t there’s.

[@jillianlovell5016]

"Why are you always crying?" Maybe abby its because shes a little girl with anxiety because of you

[@fayth6717]

Yes, but you can’t expect a dance teacher, to not critique their student, There isn’t one dance teacher that is going to be like “aW mY sWeeT lIttle angel” whenever they do a mistake.

[@brialva7507]

@@fayth6717 I agree but there’s a difference between critiquing and humiliating and Abby would humiliate these poor girls a lot it’s unfair

[@fayth6717]

@@brialva7507 The more you get angry, the more they get better, tho Abby is a bit harsh, but because of that, the girls always place second or top on competitions, who do you think made them like that?

[@ericwilliams8371]

@@fayth6717 I think what Bri is saying is that you can be harsh and mean, but when you call kids brats or say they need to be taken to a pediatrician, it makes them worse. There are thousands of other dancers in the country (Brady Farrar, Autumn Miller, Briar Nolet, Jessy Lipke, Kendyl Fay, Megan Branch, etc.) who are better than the Dance Moms girls but who don’t have abusive teachers

[@fayth6717]

@@ericwilliams8371 ohh ok, that is true, I think Abby at the start of Dance moms was more mean, but the last few seasons, she did a lot of things just to get the girls to have fun, but yea you’re right.

[@preppyviibesx3637]

Do they not realize she was having a panic attack in like all the clips but they think of her as a brat and crybaby

[@Nina-wg8wq]

I know right! Also, like it’s so annoying that when she said “I can’t do it” she actually said “I can’t breathe”

[@makaylat.7017]

Kendall is allergic to latex and when they put that mask on her it made her have a allergic reaction I believe.

[@augustusprime0_o]

that's because she was. There's no excuse for her disrespectful attitude

[@jada4725]

@@augustusprime0_o how is she disrespectful? just curious.

[@rimsha7747]

Narissa Jeffrey she has anxiety m8

[@kristinwilliams3463]

I’m glad Kendall uses her voice and when she did Abby acted different from her just crying. I think that really helped Kendall in later seasons and I’m surprised she didn’t end up pushing or doing anything to Jill.

[@raniii652]

They did Kendall dirty with the thumbnail💀

[@sarahphillips1732]

OK Kendell isn't being bratty, she has anxiety and is overwhelmed because of how much pressure and arguments she has to listen to.If you wanna say something or yell at one of the mom's go outside instead of yelling infrount of these kids!!She was having a panik attack

[@cristinapereez]

IKR she gets anxiety rashes

[@flapbird568]

Exactly

[@cristinapereez]

Vera Halim what? They’re called anxiety rashes

[@MsJubjubbird]

Jill makes excuse after excuse for her. Jill thinks she's wonderful and works really hard and has "fire in her belly". Meanwhile she has Maddie, Kalani, Brynn and- earlier on- Chloe, outshining her without question and Kendall phones it in most weeks. So when Kendall doesn't succeed Jill blames everyone else and Kendall has no idea how to cope, while Jill reinforces the behaviour. It's a cycle that Jill needs to break.

[@cristinapereez]

MsJubjubbird having anxiety is no excuse

[@katehontz8779]

"Shes nine years old and shes sitting on her mothers lap crying!" exactly SHE'S NINE some people cry when there nine and getting yelled at by adults. I'm older than her and I still cry if an adult yells at me.

[@nickyvee4607]

I am literally an adult and i cry if an older adult yells at me lmfao

[@angeleelewis9367]

EXACTLY

[@saradunlop8054]

Nicole Loves You Dude, same. I understand Abby’s sentiment, but crying is often a way for the human body to release stress.

[@memehub359]

Same. It never feels good to be yelled at

[@pandabeats7717]

I think Abby wanted Kendall to be a better dancer. When Chloe, Maddie or Brooke got yelled at (the “top” students) they stayed in the room and made the correction, whereas every time Kendall got yelled at Jill would interfere and Kendall would run to her. Abby wanted Kendall to “toughen up” but didn’t realize that Kendall was sensitive.

[@ruthphillips9276]

“I hate it when you yell at me” is honestly so heartbreaking

[@lil0299]

POOR NIA, ALWAYS STUCK HAVING TO LEAVE THE ROOM WHEN SHE DOES NOTHING WRONG TEAM NIA FOR LIFE

[@em8817]

"She's nine years old and she's crying on her mother's lap" So what? Imagine being nine and having that much pressure and anxiety on your back, give me a break... Abby's a witch

[@cassidyrose6414]

No she is not a witch

[@liconaterelt]

@@cassidyrose6414 so a person who yells at people LIKE EVERYDAY and says inappropriate words isn't a witch?

[@lillian.n5852]

Preach!

[@pxrty_poisxn]

@@liconaterelt well its what happens when your on camera its the same in literally every reality TV show

[@himalinx6364]

@@liconaterelt she ain't a witch she's just saying the fact even if its a little mean she gotta say it so the kid wont do it again

[@ashleyequestrian3425]

i hate how none of the parents realised that she clearly suffered severe anxiety,, jill constantly arguing with everyone really didn’t help and kendall did voice that however jill jus,, never listened kendall was never a brat, she just had built up frustration and nervousness and she couldn’t just,, bottle it up anymore and i completely understand how she felt,, i feel so sorry for her, it was probably traumatising

[@elishaa7989]

475 likes and no comments- LOL

[@elishaa7989]

@Hans Hans .

[@nicholashardy8335]

I think jill just wanted what she thought her daughter wanted Kendall's anxiety wasn't from jill it was from them arguing and having no voice to Abby she was stuck between 2 rocks and legit could do nothing she had Abby who would always get mad and get mad at jill for getting mad at Abby so she couldn't voice cause she would get yelled up and jill couldn't voice up a lot because then they would be in a bad spot I felt so bad she wanted to dance but didn't want anxiety.

[@liyah.85]

@@elishaa7989 hahaha?

[@mayple9167]

you can even here it within the first few minutes of this clip - she's hyperventilating- she should be able to go the restroom whenever she wants, if that was/is her safe space, she should have freedom ffs!

[@siennamiles07]

At 19:06 jojo comfort Kendall aww

[@judymoreno3383]

LIVING ON THE DANCE FLOOR a song stuck in my head for the rest of my life:/

[@amelie574]

this is literally a compilation of kendall having panic attacks, it’s awful

[@yaeesh4349]

stolen comment oop

[@vivikikeri4370]

@@yaeesh4349 who tf cares?

[@thepoetess8083]

It really is and it hurts my heart.

[@breatv8902]

How because she cried ??

[@feiverse.]

@@breatv8902 no because she’s being emotionally abused. This is coming from a kid who’s gotten emotionally abused for years.

[@jannananaa]

I feel like Jill loves Kendall so much, and tries to be the protective mama bear so hard...but she ends up making situations worse most of the time and amplifying Kendall's anxiety even more...

[@kristineoh5252]

Yup. She's the youngest in their family and sometimes parents are really protective over the youngest.

[@amelzemmoura3264]

not to forget that her dancing career got really tainted because at some point when Kendall gets any constructive corrections Jill's always pulling her out like you gotta let your kid do something to be better and get to the number one spot , and that resulted to lots of flaws in Kendall's technique because as a dancer when I watch videos of Kendall dancing she is beautiful and pretty but she really relies on her face and she let's her body loose and that doesn't do the trick because her moves turn out sloppy and not sharp which results to falling out the choreography especially when it uncludes turning , there's a heavy limp when she turns which makes it not effortless and feather like and I remember Abby correcting her on that and she just didn't take the critiques well , and I blame that on Jill because she created a headspace for Kendall where she just see everybody hating on her .

[@BABob-hr8bd]

@@amelzemmoura3264 exactly.. I grew up doing a very competitive sport, like an Olympic sport, and I had SO many instructors that yelled at me and my mother never made excuses, she always told me 'be a sponge' absorb all of the criticism and instruction because you learn from it all.. A lot of these mothers raised their kids saying 'ignore Abby' and it shows in how their kids did not improve, if you don't listen to coaches you don't improve.. Abby made no secret of saying she wanted to create professional, employable dancers, not all kids can handle that pressure and not all kids are talented enough. Full stop. The pressure came from the mothers pushing the kids to stay in that environment to get them ahead..

[@uggggggghhhhh]

Yeah shes trying to help but ends up making the situation more intense with all the yelling and kendall ends up feeling super overwhelmed by it. at some point you gotta let your kid handle it on their own, you wont always be there to protect them from the world and negative criticism

[@olahaastrup6467]

@@kristineoh5252 yes but she's so protective of her child that she makes people look like the bad guy when they did nothing wrong tho🤦🏽‍♀️

[@myasmeltedoreo245]

I do think that Kendall is sometimes very dramatic, however she obviously suffers from panic attacks which is out of her control.

[@amneetxoxo8684]

I feel like people always call Kendall a brat for standing up for herself and using her voice but honestly I think it’s great that she was able to use her voice and express how she felt and her intention was probably never to sound bratty I kinda feel like Brynn was a little bit bratty

[@mochachip-ro7im]

Kendall was allergic to latex. In the episode with the old mask, but they cut it out when she said “I’m allergic to latex”

[@victoriaumbarger164]

iielorxii Yeah and her face was like all red and stuff when she took it off

[@m00gan64]

Is that the old face thing?

[@mochachip-ro7im]

@@m00gan64 yes

[@m00gan64]

@@mochachip-ro7im Ok thanks