I have Alopecia. I'm BALD now. My hair is NOT growing back!

[@KiKiL]

How could we be disappointed?!? Absolutely NOT! We're extremely proud of you for even deciding to share this intimate moment with us. We appreciate you for that!❤

[@sharlitagiles]

Hi I have watch you and your videos for years and I just think it took so much courage to upload these last two videos and I am just I’m just looking forward to continuing to hear the rest of your story and to be a follower of you and your journey.

[@KiKiL]

@@sharlitagiles Sharlita, I absolutely agree!!

[@cattvaughn]

Kiki L- You said it best! I am so proud of you SisterWith RealHair!

[@KiKiL]

@@cattvaughn Thanks Catt

[@maryphifer4907]

You are so beautiful with or with out, You so Loved by The Moist High YAH. May he continues to give you strength and keep your head up.

[@amma2x310]

My daughter developed circular patches at around 8. We aggressively treated it for years(shots, creams, steroids) with everything the dr could throw at it. When she turned 12 every single hair on her body fell out. So traumatic for her & the family., especially at that age. That was almost 20 years ago, the hair never grew back. Today she is a beautiful, confident accomplished woman with 2 beautiful kids. 😍. I really worked hard to teach her that you just keep moving forward with what you have. Wishing you well on your continued journey.

[@MompreneurDiary]

That would devastate my daughter for just a little bit till she realized she won't have to do her hair and she can wear bright crazy colored wigs

[@faithmoore7520]

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[@faithmoore7520]

@@MompreneurDiary he can help you kzbin.info/www/bejne/n4STYYicn9SAjtE

[@MalibuDollface]

So sorry this has happened to you. We as people of color are very much attached to our hair for sure, In beauty school is where my education about alopecia began & the understanding of how it can affect ones life from different triggers. I know it’s cliché to say but YOU are beautiful!!! Hair or no hair. Much respect for this honest & powerful moment! ❤️

[@psychomammiescaught2506]

stfu all ppl are attached to their hair. Just say you jealous of blk women with long hair

[@sg5720]

@@psychomammiescaught2506 what wrong with you. ? Stop causing problems. Damn.

[@psychomammiescaught2506]

@@sg5720 wtf is wrong with you bitch. Leave all black women out of this shit just say you are insecure about being bald head. Why you have to bring all blk women down with your dumb ass insecurities. Go get medication you weirdo

[@AfrikanHairGod]

@@psychomammiescaught2506 that escalated quickly. Are you incapable of expressing your thoughts without being rude, defensive, and insecure?

[@sg5720]

@@AfrikanHairGod I think she clearly proved she can’t. Another typical angry BW. SMDH. 🤦🏽🤷🏽‍♀️

[@get2joy]

Yes, life does throw curve balls. I remember 10 year ago joining all these blogs and youtube channels being obsessed with growing long natural hair. I was also buying all these hair products until I saw your videos, but then I would think to myself that I should not be too attached to hair because what if I lost it to something like cancer, and sure enough, I was diagnosed with breast ca 10 years later and had to undergo chemo and lost all my hair. I am glad I eventually stopped obsessing over my hair I wear a lot of wigs too. Now I have to focus on what's really important and that is my health and living....Sorry for you hair loss, I really enjoyed, and still do enjoy watching your videos over the years.

[@Aritul]

How are you doing?

[@olidoce2348]

Hope you doing well sis

[@lilmanq7746]

Yeah it doesn’t feel like real hair but wigs are still hair but not YOUR hair nothing to be ashamed of

[@loveyoursign2923]

Seeing how tight her ponytails were in the beginning of the video hurt me. My cousin has alopecia. She got it from wearing too many wigs. I miss wearing wigs but I do understand why some women wear them or cut their hair off. Maybe someone they're really close to has cancer. I love those videos I cry too. I also learned that their hair fell out so they just cut it all off. I saw this video in my newsfeed and she looks amazing 😍

[@maliah7150]

Hi, I also have alopecia. I am 14 years old and I went from having thick curly hair to none. This is my first time coming across your channel and I think I was meant to see this video. Tysm ❤️

[@chabee3666]

Ask your parents to look into natural dht blockers like red clover. To help block the dht. Which is preventing your hair from Growing

[@solekhashuwa]

Alopecia is an inside problem, drinking apple cider vinger helped me a lot, also rinse it with my hair after shampoo.

[@adinay9278]

Research green tea.

[@JayYoung1000]

@@solekhashuwa Yes it's what's going on inside.

[@jesuslovesme8477]

God bless you

[@ekxotix]

As a melanated woman with natural long hair I MOURN THE LOSS WITH YOU HOLDING BACK TEARS WATCHING! What I got out of this is no matter what your accustomed too NEVER BE TO COMFORTABLE respect change and when it comes embrace it with Grace and Elegance as you did! Thank you for sharing n I’m traumatized just from watching and it’s not even my hair but MY HAIR IS WHAT MAKES ME UNIQUE IN APPEARANCE AND NO HAIR MAKES YOU UNIQUE TO WITH OR WITHOUT IT GOD IDENTIFIES YOU AS SPECIAL! Now imma go cry in a corner cause I’m the empath who can’t see people go through pain and I feel your pain sincerely! Now I can’t stop crying 😭 LOVE YOUR LIFE AND JOURNEY THANK YOU FOR BEING BRAVE! I gotta dry my face 😂 imma mess!

[@sonja0707]

Omg you said everything I wanted to say and I feel her pain too even though its not happening to me.i won't cry because so beautiful even without hair. I am an empath to ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@luanminitti1177]

I don’t want this to come off as rude and diminutive but I’m so glad it’s just alopecia. Of course, I can’t imagine the stress you went through following your discovery and I applaud you for being able to achieve true peace with your life moving forward. I was concerned the matter was life-threatening. A woman posted a comment on your previous video explaining her experience with family members going through chemo and you hearted the comment. I was very concerned you had received a cancer diagnosis and did not want to tell us because you did not want to upset us. I actually lost a little sleep last night thinking about your pain and praying for your safety. I’m so happy you’re okay and I’ll continue to keep you in my prayers and my subscription list. Looking forward to this next chapter :)

[@chal3t]

Been dealing with AA since HS and it’s always been a struggle. Any high stress event can trigger loss cycle. Remember you are beautiful no matter what and you’ve got lots of support!!!

[@kitlan01]

@Drennon Lindsey Do you mind me asking what kinda injections? and what are the side effects and how much Im dealing with this.

[@lesfleurs9369]

@@kitlan01 some doctors will prescribe steroid injections

[@kitlan01]

@Drennon Lindsey thanks good to know. ill try all tings at this point.

[@kitlan01]

@@lesfleurs9369 thanks.

[@trhg0002]

90 percent of my hair fell out 11 years ago (2011). It was due to stress. So, I can relate. My mother cried and so did I. But God had a plan for me. He had me to go totally natural. It was an adjustment because I had to learn to take care of my 4c hair. He showed me what products to use along with styling. December 2013, my cousin installed my Sisterlocks. I'm now 8 years into my journey and my locks is past mid-back in length. People are intrigued and ask me questions. But praise be to the Most High! Stay encouraged Sista.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

What a come back! My sister has sisterlocks as well.

[@trhg0002]

@@SistaWithRealHair Yes. And it was also clever of you to find other ways to use your very own hair!

[@BrownSugaFoodie]

Yeah I had a former friend who had this condition and she said going natural helped her dramatically

[@mrzhyphy1510]

listen!.. i was diagnosed with alopecia Areata but i PRAYED and anointed my hair and scalp with Holy oil.. i did my cortisone injections.. oral chemo and kept praying.. my hair began to thin after a break up 2015 (stress and autoimmune issues).. BUT GOD!!!!! its now 2020 && my hair has grown back in ALL my bald spots!.. my length is no longer bra strap.. my hair isnt as THICK as it was.. BUT the MOST HIGH blessed me, her, and he will bless yu too.. #ConfirmAndAgree #WeCanDoAllThingsThroughChrist #MustardSeedFaith

[@trhg0002]

@@mrzhyphy1510 Amen Sista! To God be the Glory!

[@Cosmickittyyy]

You were one of the first natural hair hair channels I watched. I remember you cutting your hair in the teal blue shirt and I loved how bold your personality was. Thank you for sharing your hair journey with us over the years and I look forward to your new journey. You take care, hun.

[@Itsjustkaylanicole]

You have influenced so many things about my hair journey and how I care for my hair. Your decision to not follow everyone else’s hair rules was the greatest impact of them all. I’m tuning in. As always 🙌🏾

[@SistaWithRealHair]

I appreciate that, thank you so much Kayla!

[@marlak4203]

@@SistaWithRealHair thank you for mentioning about the quality of synthetic hair you used to purchase. There are a lot of women having this happen to them and I do notice some common threads. That synth hair (weave, wigs, braiding hair). May not TOTALLY be the case for you but i have noticed some common things. Plus, the usage of these products now a days that are just full of chemicals. Those of us who were natural almost 20 years ago were always taught to stay away from the chemicals. I was looking up more info about a chemical that is used in many products we all have everyday which is very harmful and found that this agent, VOC's, are also in wigs. (sigh). So I guess these other wig channel women will be doing what you are doing soon too. Smh.

[@NaturalSoulection]

Amen!! 🙏🏾

[@riverashes883]

So true! I’m even following her journey of collecting strands. It’s a really good idea and so far it’s teaching me so much about my hair.

[@mel...s]

Absolutely I'll never forget when she said heat protection isn't necessary if you use a good conditioner!! I was like huh?! But she was right. She's the reason I use grapeseed oil too. Everybody was going up for coconut oil 😂😂 a true innovator in the natural hair community

[@marieeeeeeeeeee965]

i was watching you as a senior in HS, you helped me realize how anemia was affecting my hair, gave great tips (paper towel rollers!!!)and your vibe in general was just bomb. i LOVED watching your videos because you were someone who looked like me on YT. 2020 was truly hell for everyone. but i’m never disappointed. i’m almost 30 now, and still support you and am glad you decided to film and share this video 💕💕💕💕 i went through a wave of emotions watching, something about this was so freeing.

[@Oddsawesome]

Alopecia is the devil. My mother has it too from years of stress, health issues, and I constantly worry about her and as well for my hair too. I lost the hair around my edges from anemia deficiency and it's slowly but surely still trying to come back even after being natural for five years. You can't always tell someone "It's just hair," because you never know how a person may feel in this point of time. Hair is a part of our identity. You wouldn't tell a person who is about to lose a leg that "it's just a leg?" I'm sorry that you have to go through this, sistawithrealhair. 🙏🏾💖

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER!!!😇🙏

[@kmj2000]

I wrote this in another comment but look into "growth factors" or "fibroblast growth factors" for hair. There's a KZbinr named Eboni Elon that used the Ordinary's hair serum with success.

[@mrsbrownsugarsweetz]

Do u get iron infusions? They really helped me.

[@Oddsawesome]

@@mrsbrownsugarsweetz I get my first infusion appointment on March 3rd. 😊

[@mrsbrownsugarsweetz]

@@Oddsawesome I pray all goes well. It really changed my life. I was so anemic I was 3 pts from organ failure. I didn’t even have an appetite so I would forget to eat all the time. I had to get 4 infusions over a few months. I got my energy back, I got my life back. Good luck 🥰

[@daniella8400]

❤️❤️❤️ I lost a lot of my hair and both my breast from cancer! This doesn’t define you just as well as breast don’t define me! I wish you much happiness!

[@vivid5203]

❤️❤️ you are a whole warrior!!

[@daniella8400]

@@vivid5203 I’m not a warrior, just accepting things as they are.

[@Andrea-nom]

You’re still crushing all of the beauty goals! You handled it like a boss. I admire your centeredness.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you Andrea!

[@riseandshine11]

@@SistaWithRealHair if that can make you feel better, i have had anemia since chilhood but hair shedding the last 10 years. The exact hair loss paterrn as you ( the edges on V shape, silky smooth behind my ears to the back. I wondered for years how come? Now that you show the same sign that gives me a better insight. I love your positivity. What have learnt is that until your ferritin and your around is not corrected you might keep facing the same issue. Have you had the chance to adress your anemia and check your levels? Thank you for inspiring others. The boldness of the sista you are is truly powerful.

[@reesmit6920]

@@SistaWithRealHair I have alopecia too(partial alopecia, top and some of my sides) I'm lil older then you, I developed it mid 20's. I truly believe it's bc I was early on severe deficient in Viramin-D and didn't know it (there is a link between vitamin d deficiency and hair loss). It's been quite some time w/o my hair, I don't even know what to say anymore, I just keep it moving. It is what it is🙏 You're beautiful and rockin' your pretty styles gracefully👌💖💖

[@rashondadani]

I had a friend dealing with this… we prayed and fasted. I’m happy to say that her scalp has been healed and her hair is growing! I believe can be your testimony, too 🙏🏾

[@TheLifeandThoughtsofShan]

Yesss! Amen,🙌🏾

[@theamethyst93]

I have been following you since I was in high school and I’m 29 years old now. You have helped me so much over the years. I know it can be very hard to have to cut your hair off as a woman in this society. I appreciate your transparency about this issue and we all are here to support you on your journey so long as you’re open to sharing. ❤️

[@SistaWithRealHair]

I really appreciate your support, thank you! xo

[@LucidQueen]

Same for me. I'm 32. Lol

[@karleecraziness9216]

@@SistaWithRealHair Me too and I am 26

[@Hello-iz9hl]

Me too I am 23 been watching her since I was 15 lol

[@huniluv26]

Same here! I'm 35 now

[@brenee82]

My mom lost all of her hair when she was 12. I’ve never seen her without a wig or a scarf on. I didn’t even know she wore one until some kids teased me about it in elementary school. A lot of people throw on wigs and don’t think much about it, but it’s a lot to deal with when you’re trying to hide something that’s out of your control. I’m glad you’re talking about this because a lot of people suffer in silence and end up holding themselves back from living trying to hide it. I look forward to following your journey!❤️

[@ll6256]

You're hair doesn't define you. Beauty comes from within. Thank you for having the strength to be vulnerable.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

thank you

[@lovely9492]

🌹amen! She’s be even MORE BEAUTIFUL because she TOOK CONTROL!!!! The DEVIL is a lier, a stealer, and destroyer BUT I’ll continue to pray that GOD will REBUKE what he has done in your life! YOU R A VERY STRONG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, that I’m happy to SAY I Know. Sistawithrealhair🌹🤗❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. May GOD continue to STRENGTHEN you. Emotionally, psychologically, physically. And MOST of ALL SPIRITUALLY, amen

[@robinheater1817]

Omg! I cannot tell you how much this has helped me. Anyone that is disappointed with you, is crazy!! You are beautiful no matter what your hair looks like. Thank you for sharing something so personal

[@AnAdorableWombat]

Your hair wasn't this long though so of course you'd be happy with it, baldy

[@CammyjOfficial]

You’re gorgeous then and now. Hair or no hair, you’re stunning.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Aw, thank you Cammy!

[@jessicawashington8350]

I just want to take the time to say thank you for being transparent and vulnerable with us. We as women of color get so attached to our hair. I’m just grateful you allowed us to be apart of your journey. Keep shining queen

[@lettiegrant9447]

All women are attached to their hair not just black women. Stop making everything about race.

[@Ισαβέλα-ψ7τ]

@@lettiegrant9447 thank you.

[@alyariel9713]

@@lettiegrant9447 Wow who spit in your breakfast? This youtuber is black & has been in this black haircare youtube space for years. Why are you even here?? You have no concept of understanding the historical culture of black hair & the connotations attached to it. How are you going in a black hair space and saying it's not for us to discuss the shared black hair experiences most of us faced? Goodbye & good riddance. You can leave and all lives matter to your heart's content somewhere else. 💯

[@LivingInTheShade]

I am not disappointed at all, just sorry you went through a traumatic event. You're beautiful with short or long hair. I am very happy that you are ok. We're here for you.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much Ms! xo

[@_SevenKay]

I have been batteling Alopecia anemia since I was in the 5th grade. I had long pretty hair just like you. I was teased so bad when I would try to cover my bald spots with my hair pulled up in a ponytail. Your story has encourage me to embrace it and live in it.

[@housec8059]

Just out of curiosity what was the causal link?

[@blkhollywoodnatural]

I was definitely missing you! I am glad to know that you are okay. We’re ready to go on this next journey with you!! So, glad you saved your hair. Can’t wait to see your completed wigs. ❤️❤️💜

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much!

[@blkhollywoodnatural]

@@SistaWithRealHair You’re welcome 🤗

[@deborahmiller3048]

I Applaud you for having the Courage to to be honest with you I urself, you didn't have to share this Emotional journey with us, and I Thank You, and I pray yoy stay strong, You are Beautiful, And as long as you have life , you are Winning

[@d.r.robinson9599]

i have alopecia and i thought my world had ended and I had to snap back to reality that there are others out there worse off than I am at that moment and time...Cancer, Aids, all types of terminally ill diseases that won;t live to see the next day and here I am healthy and they would trade with me with a snap of a finger of what I am going through just to live ..PERIODT!!! Mine started when i hit menopause...but now its growing back longer but the edges are still bald...as long as you have your health you have many options out there for your situation..Love you and you look beautiful...

[@tw6873]

I have to admit, I was a little panicked at first when I saw your previous video. I feared the worst. Not that alopecia is not terrible, but I was scared that it was something worse. You have always been hair AND beauty goals for me. I admire your courage. Thanks for your inspiration, you (still) gorgeous lady. ♥️

[@tw6873]

By the way, the collecting of your hair idea is genius.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much TW!

[@tw6873]

@@SistaWithRealHair ♥️🕊️🙏

[@GiGi-Bee]

Me too! I was worried it was cancer or something! Like nooooo not the good sis!😭

[@tw6873]

@@GiGi-Bee I know, right!? I started to cry. 🙏😭

[@charliej766]

SistaWith Real Hair was the first KZbin channel I ever subscribed to. What you’re facing is not easy but life has shown us that sometimes our darkest hours can lead us to our greatest blessings. Maybe this is your opportunity to create a beautiful line of real hair for others experiencing alopecia. Whatever your next step is, I’m honored you’re allowing us to be apart of your journey. Thank you ❤️

[@swanniqua1]

I've been following you for a while and this was in fact a shocker. The way you handled this is so impressive and encouraging even for people going through other life issues. Thanks for sharing and encouraging others! 🥰

[@g.pearson4726]

So I said to myself whatever happened to my girl I used to watch when KZbin first started poppin (10 yrs ago) I searched all my videos that I saved and couldn’t find you Today you popped up on my feed I’m resubbing So I never loose you again You are more than your hair You’re a beautiful person on the inside as well as the out I’m praying that you ptsd heals Thank you for sharing 🥰

[@crystallight369]

You’re still beautiful 😘😘😘😘 you can rock a bald style or a lace front. Beauty comes from within ❤️❤️ either way, you are the queen 👸

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much Crystal!

[@Natalia-hf3et]

ABSOLUTELY ♥️♥️♥️

[@Natalia-hf3et]

@@SistaWithRealHair ♥️

[@JessicaUnplugged]

Alopecia is completely reversible with proper diet (vegan/ vegetarian lifestyle) & routine internal cleanses. Also, your thoughts manifest & if you tell yourself you will develop something, it will happen. I hope you overcome this queen, been following you for years 💕💕 You are beautiful either way

[@teemgee8605]

I had covid Februar -March 2020. It was before it was known that covid could cause hair loss. As I took out my braids so did the hair in my hand. It started to grow back a little after a few weeks then it came out even more and that time I had bald patches. Turns out I was severely anemic. I did have some clumps left then one day I really asked myself why was I holding on to this little bit of hair. It wasn't serving any purpose because I was wearing wigs. I finally shaved it all off and it was a relief, now I wear wigs and wraps. I can't ever wear my hair in a short buzz cut because there are bald patches all over my head. It's an adjustment, even after I did it I still was not psychologically ready. It's been exactly a year and I'm honestly ok with it. Stay strong

[@thefashiionvault8990]

Covid took out my hair as well its so sad everything that comes w dis illness

[@AlegnaAjai]

Thank God as an adult I am not attached to my own hair or anyones on KZbin to the point of being traumatized because you lost or cut your hair. I lost my hair due to chemo last year (after 8 years natural) and I rocked that wig and headwraps until I had some peach fuzz back *lol Girl we will still be watching. It gives your channel the opportunity to morphe into the next phase in your life. You're still beautiful and I look forward to what you do next.

[@carlaburrelmusic5851]

I’m just glad to know your ok. The last video broke my heart hearing the heaviness in your voice. The same thing actually happened to my mom after the loss of her mother. It was devastating as well. I’m glad to hear you in good spirits. And I’ll be coming along on this new journey 💞

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you Carla!

[@Shayvideos1]

I never knew ptsd could cause this..I knew hair loss but not alopecia. This video taught me something. After having my son , the lack of sleep and stress, a shock to my system, my hair started falling out so bad..but only about 1.5 after birth..my hair is much thinner now but growing in length..he is now 5 so idk if this is why my hair fell out and if it'll ever go back to how it was before so I'm just learning how to get use to it now.

[@Dior3llaxoxo]

@@Shayvideos1 how long were you losing hair?

[@tyeprettygirl5591]

I cried watching this, I've binge watched your hair videos for so long. You are so strong for sharing this♡

[@15angelglo]

I just want to give you a hug, not out of pity but for the courage you have to share this with us! Thank you so much for everything! You are beautiful inside out ❤️

[@SistaWithRealHair]

I appreciate that, thank you so much Gabrielle!

[@africanmai]

Dear sista with realhair; you are beautiful inside and out. Your beauty shines through with or without hair. I love your strength, and will always be following your journey. Much love ❤️

[@blackbeautyoftheyear]

I have alopecia as well and I am so confused . My hair still grows but like the crown of my head and edges are extremely thin Thank you for sharing this journey. It helps me feel less alone. Sending love ! I've had anemia my entire life and I don't know if it is just that or stress and other factors. Thank you again.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

I'm here for you sis!

[@AishaIsrael_Benjamite]

Me too guys. I have both issues and my hubby shaved my hair last summer. I have thinning edges, CCCA which is another form of alopecia, and anemia. I went to the dermatologist and what made it worse was MOST of us lack Vitamin D3. We need that in our system to stop the shedding. Along with zinc. So right now im taking Pumpkin seed oil supplments to stop the inflamation under the scalp for the CCCA, Vitamin D3 to stop the shedding, and now im waiting for my Saw Palmetto in the mail which is the natural form instead of taking minoxidil (thats in rogaine). Peace and blessings daughters of Israel💞

[@blackbeautyoftheyear]

@@AishaIsrael_Benjamite i have taken a similar supplement regimen ! Thanks you for the suggestion and knowledge ! I just keep shaving my hair because naturally my hair grows very quickly but those thin areas just stick out !

[@katcankan7129]

@@blackbeautyoftheyear It's Biblical, everything is & it proves that you are a daughter of Zion. Isaiah 3:16-17 (KJV) "Moreover the LORD saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and making a tinkling with their feet: 17 Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the LORD will discover their secret parts." Repent and turn back to him 💜

[@katelinparks9536]

@@katcankan7129 In that case why aren't all the women out here bald and heads scabbed up?! Where is the evidence? How is it proven? You're using that scripture out of context. The Holy Ghost didn't tell you that. And if it's true, in that case you should have a bald head with scabs too right? The audacity! You don't know why her hair fell out

[@faithinallthingsw4088]

I'm 39 and my hair is thinning. I cut my hair short and I wear wigs. My hair looks like Frederick Douglass underneath. I take care of it the best I can. I have gray hair and I can't cover it because my scalp is super sensitive. When I wore my hair out my coworker said you have gray hair, oh my goodness you have gray hair. Everyone else makes a big deal about it, but when I see other people with gray hair I don't make comments about it. I'm just grateful to have hair. I'm natural and have no plans to straighten my hair. So far I like doing my own hair because I'm gentle with my hair. It sheds daily and large clumps fall on my weekly wash days. I'm okay with my wigs and my natural hair 🤷🏾‍♀️it just is what it is.

[@MzMJ77]

Now, saving your hair makes sense. Thanks for sharing.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you Michelle.

[@esthercoates5871]

You are truly a WARRIOR! I know that had to be a hard thing to come to grips with, but you did it!!! God bless you.

[@roki5337]

Over the years you have always took care of your hair and even collected and archived the shed strands. Wearing your own hair in your own way is amazing.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you ROki, glad you're still here! ;-)

[@TopazMonet]

I restarted my hair journey and thought about you! to my surprise ... I'm blown away by your diagnosis. I wish you all the best and I still want you to keep us updated. I've been here supporting you for at least ten years. Thank you for being brave enough to share with us. Wishing you all the best. xo

[@temniyshokolad7992]

I freaking love you! The way you have prepared yourself for this and the thoughtfulness that you put into presenting this to your fans is beyond beautiful. Although I don't have this condition, I am still here to support you through this. And I agree, when life takes us in a direction that we may not have wanted, we adjust and keep it going. Your community loves you and you are not alone in this. Keep your head up sis. ❤️

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Aww, so thoughtful, thank you Temniy!

[@lizziecharles3459]

I m a 64 almost 65 year old woman suffering and suffer from The big A….. i i am so proud of your your spiritual depth your strength you are indeed an example of how we look at ourselves amidst this you are beautiful amazing and we are greatul for you and your journey stay safe n be well

[@anneloren3586]

I was starting to have alopecia..but I struck back....it was my gut..I had to change my diet....also onion and cloves water is great..or coffee cures mist alopecua...brewed coffe..as a rinse..or coffee oil...make yiur own

[@cristolhouey8519]

Not disappointed at all ! Totally understand! I would've been the same way too ! Thank you for being so transparent with us and sharing something that was very difficult for you. I Much love ❤️

[@cfoster6804]

😭 I just want to hug you! Thank you for documenting this. This is going to help so many women. It's also nice that you have so many videos of your hair so you can remember the good times...if you choose too.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Yes, I'm very thankful for my video catalogue!

[@Seekerofgreatness300]

Hair or No Hair, your clearly a beautiful, strong, black queen!!! Your intelligence and strength displayed, in how you handled this curveball of life, as you call this event, are absolutely inspiring, and powerfully beautiful!!!! Thank you for sharing!!!

[@reggaesoulsis7848]

I’ve followed you for quite a few years now and I’m so very sorry to see you’re having to go thru this. I too have suffered from alopecia areata ( in remission 8 years) that lasted a total of 10 years. Fortunately I found a board certified dermatologist here in the ATL and she apparently knew exactly how to treat my condition with Kenalog injections (steroid) along with topical steroids and whatever bald spots I had at that time, the hair would grow back within a few mos. Again I endured this condition for at least 10 years. As a sidenote, my dermatologist was also African American, which I personally believe was a factor in my Dr knowing how to treat my condition. I’m not saying this to be biased but I did see a Caucasian Dr first who prescribed an ointment that inflamed my scalp. I appreciate your transparency & vulnerability in posting this video. I truly hope you find the help you need and that you recover from this condition. I wish you the Best. ❤️❤️❤️

[@TA-ti9jb]

If comfortable, Please share the name of I’m your dermatologist.

[@sabrinasims8327]

Dermatologist name please?

[@reggaesoulsis7848]

@ T A and Sabrina Sims, The Dermatologist name is Dr Windell Davis Boutee, unfortunately Dr Boutee is no longer in practice and if you google her name, you’ll find out that she is now known as the “Dancing Dr ( you’ve got to cut it). She was a great dermatologist but went from practicing dermatology to performing cosmetic surgeries specifically BBL’s & lipo which she wasn’t licensed for or should I say properly trained for ( in Georgia it seems Dr’s can perform cosmetic surgery outside the scope of their license) and ultimately she ended up disfiguring patients & one of her patients even ended up with brain damage. This is why I provided the “treatment “ versus her name initially.

[@TA-ti9jb]

@@reggaesoulsis7848 Thank you for the information and transparency. I appreciate you. 😀

[@reggaesoulsis7848]

@T A, you’re very welcome. 🥰❤️

[@dancinginthebasement]

God bless you, sister. You are still brave, strong and beautiful.

[@Mina_Loyal]

You're stunning with or without hair. I'm a long time subbie. I went through a crazy depression spell in 2018. My hair fell out like crazy too. People thought I was crazy when I told them your hair can go into shock as well. My grandmother told me about a cousin she had that had a traumatic experience and her hair turned completely white. Sending you love and light ❤❤❤❤

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you for your input and the love!

[@Random.338]

There is a word for it when you experience a traumatizing event and it makes your hair fall out. It’s called telegenic effluvium. But your hair grows back after you reduce your stress.

[@PheonixBluez]

I think I'm going through this after 9 years of major depression. I have no hair on the side of left head. So I just cut it all off.

[@normaexlore]

As much as losing hair is such a sad process am happy that you could see it coming and adjusted to your reality process ,I am one of the those who have followed your natural hair journey since you started posting videos,I am so grateful with all the content u posted ,you were so thorough, you took time in your preparation,those that love natural hair that had the oppotunity of watching your videos are blessed, beside the fact that your hair is naturaly beautiful ,you took time in teaching,experimenting and publishing your findings to everyone interested, you are still teaching everyone even now,thank you very much for your teachings,you still remain beautiful with your beautiful skin and complexion,pls put up with us and keep doing your beautiful work, you are being appreciated by millions, we love you and we will follow the progress in this new journey.

[@Wonderkinks]

The end of a chapter means there is a beginning of a new one! You will do great-you have already done tremendous planning! Smart!

[@SistaWithRealHair]

I tried to prepare as much as possible. Thank you!

[@briyasimmons88]

We are still riding with you, hair or no hair. Your strength and optimism are encouraging. Sending love your way...

[@slrcouture]

My intuition never fails me. I heard it in your voice from your other video that something was wrong. As stated on your other video, sending you hugs 🫂 and wishing well on your new journey. You’ve inspired and motivated us before, now you’re able to motivate and inspire on a bigger scale with more knowledge and experience on a different level. Your BE•YOU•TIFUL runs skin deep. Always remember nothing can come to us that’s not vibrationally active within us. Our predominant thoughts is what we manifest in our life. Our thoughts create our reality.

[@tbott4510]

So many women are going through this more than we know. Thanks for sharing your experience! God Bless your journey! ♥️

[@selenat264]

You look beautiful. Thanks for sharing your story. I appreciate it. Its not about us its about you and your personal struggles. We support you no matter what. ❤

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much!

[@ulondabrazzle8173]

I have been following you since the beginning and last year I was diagnosed with CCCA. We’re in this together, sis!

[@4eyecandy]

Wow, what a journey you are allowing us to come along with you on. The foresight and diligence you put into creating your own wig(s) from YOUR OWN hair is genius! You are handling this with grace, creativity, and empowerment. Looking forward to your future posts.

[@cheryls.booker3336]

I agree. Such courage, determination, and self love! 💕

[@sweetbrownsuga504]

I so Agree!!❤💯

[@CamirrasKitchen]

i have seen alot of your videos over the years and i always appreciate how honest you are. you are so beautiful with and without your hair. i know this is hard and i sent a prayer of comfort up. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. i appreciate your transparency and love you

[@ItsMrstoyouboo]

I could care less about how long or what you do with your hair. I am just happy that you are doing what's good for you, and that you are with us still hopefully in good health. Sista we love you and just want what's best. ❤️💋

[@SistaWithRealHair]

thank you so much

[@ItsMrstoyouboo]

@@SistaWithRealHair ❤️💋

[@shinaj9626]

Hello sis, I just found you as a suggested watch in my feed. I have been living with alopecia for over 10 years. I appreciate you putting this video of your reality up for all of us. I'm sorry that you also have to go through this. I'll be following you now. You've helped me emotionally just watching you handling your hair. Thanks sis. My name is Shina, I'm from Philly but currently living in Henrico VA.

[@tazzie261]

Just wanted to say that you’re so brave and beautiful lady with or without hair. I went through a similar experience with inflammatory, itching my scalp for 4 years after dying it. I regret dying my hair should have left it grey. Also sulphur 8 hair pomade caused further irritation resulting in alopecia. However have faith in God and pray for your hair to grow back like I did. The dermatologist consultant told me that I would go completely bald. I started to believe her because it started in the middle of my scalp. Thanks be to God, my hair has grown back but only slightly bald in the middle. I will pray for you. Keep the scalp clean and don’t put any product on your scalp because you could have blocked the hair follicles, have regular saunas but cool the scalp with cold water afterwards, this is important. Just wandering if the grape seed oil or the rice water had any fungus or bacteria growing in it which could have attacked your hair follicles? Do not put anymore product near your scalp because it need to breath. Wearing a wig is going to cause further scalp issues. I used to wear wigs for years before my scalp problems surfaced. I suffered with extreme dandruff because I didn’t wash my hair often, due to tangled hair and shrinkage problems of 4c type hair. Basically I didn’t care my scalp or keep it hydrated or clean, just kept on wearing my wig, so this caused some of the problems but the dye ruined my scalp and stopped my hair from growing because it grew quite fast under the wig. The above information is just advice and to let you know what I had to experience. However, eat your greens this is what a Chinese herbal doctor told me to do and try not to worry too much about your hair, even though it’s hard to do. I do have sympathy for you but you need to focus on your health and not KZbin, because hair can react to stress and the more you worry about it the more it misbehaves, so to speak. The day you forget about it and concentrate on some thing else is the time it may start to grow back, this is what has happened to me but it took 4 years because beforehand I was taking biotin, and other hair vitamins which caused more problems, like inflammation as a result I am now allergic to every products that I put on my scalp, except for water; so I gave it cold sprayed water and it started to grow. Hair Products and oils or pomades blocked my scalp and caused allergies. I had a skin test and it showed that I have got a allergy to a chemical called Eugenol. Please forget about KZbin and your hair until the stressful events have calmed down. Hair reacts badly to stress. Hopefully you and any other KZbinrs can benefit from some of my experiences which is personal to me.

[@kimberlyelaine]

I must admit I gasped when I saw the title. I am so proud of you sharing! I just stopped obsessing over my gray hair and realized I need to be glad I have hair. God bless!

[@GlitterSkies]

Thank you for sharing this with us! I’ve been watching you since middle school and I’m about to graduate from college. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s to enjoy what (and who) you have while you have it. I’ve never seen this reaction to alopecia before on KZbin. It has always been about growing the hair back and achieving the impossible. But to see you cut your hair off and preserve what you can for future use it beautiful. I can really relate in a way! I’m in a wheelchair and all I see in the media is about overcoming it instead of accepting it. Well, life is too short and I choose to accept it and be my own version of healthy! You are beautiful inside and out and I look forward to seeing all the content you have ready for us. Be blessed love!

[@TT1012U]

Sis!!!!!!! Hair or no hair you are absolutely gorgeous. Your journey is special and can change lives. Thank you for sharing but I hope you realize how proud you should be. 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@bisila]

I’ve been following you for more than 10 years. I’m 31 now, and you have taught me how to take care of my hair. You’re such and amazing person thanks for always sharing your story

[@kelleywilliams-bolar966]

I started having problems with my scalp and it’s been 12 years of inflammation and finally my hair began to grow back. I thought it was all lost. It’s a struggle. Plus my mom has it so I kinda thought I worried about it too much. Maybe that was the reason I started having trouble. You know the old saying .”if you worry about something you will create it” so I stayed positive. You are a beautiful young lady and you inspire so many people. God bless

[@josiegibbs1176]

I don’t know anyone personally with alopecia but I love the way you shared your journey. You have no reason to apologize. You have given us so much valuable information regarding hair care and how to not follow trends but find what works best for us. Hair or no hair you are so beautiful and I can’t wait for you to continue sharing your journey with us. Stay positive and strong because you are loved for you and not your hair. Your personality is why I started following you. Sending much love ❤️.

[@nanana4987]

No one is entitled to YOUR hair! I have been watching you for years, and you have nothing to say sorry for. This is your story and your life 🤗 ❤️ Only share within your comfort, and protect your energy sis 💕

[@QuayTheCanaryDiamond]

Thank you so much for this video. My mom has alopecia and I've been mentally preparing myself for this since high-school. You loom absolutely beautiful and you're handling this with so much grace 💖

[@t.dianajones1007]

Thank you so much for your transparency! I've watched your channel in the past simply because I thought you were a beautiful sister with an amazing vibe, clearly that has not changed... you are still gorgeous & down-to-earth as ever. Thank you for introducing me to Ambi, a number of years ago you did a video discussing using Ambi. It is now a staple in my skincare Arsenal and I certainly have you to thank for that! You are sooo much more than your hair, but I am sure you know that.. Sending many Prayers Blessings and Love to you!! Be Encouraged!!

[@pristay7]

Thank you for your transparency. By revealing this on your platform; you will help a lot women that may be going through this, but yet don’t know how to accept it or deal with the hair loss. Let your experience be a truck and your knowledge be wheels to drive us to a better understanding of Alopecia. Your hair style ROCKS!!!!!❤️

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much MrsPrissy!

[@maliquesmith2311]

@@SistaWithRealHair your still Gods precious gift God bless you

[@juanitabryant9065]

Thanks for being so transparent and sharing your story. I also suffer from alopecia. It has affected my entire nape. After trying everything in the book, I finally found a good Dermatologist. I had a scalp biopsy to rule out scarring alopecia. Thankfully, it wasn't. I just started my first round of steroid scalp injections. We'll see how it goes. I admire your strength!

[@HelloMyFavoriteVids]

I mean i knew it was alot of shed hair but i just thought it was normal and when u said u was going to shave yo head i thought like a cute lil buzz cut or pixie bit not THIS. Im so sorry this happened. Im in awe of your strength and courage to keep your channel going and of course we're going to stick beside you. Cuz who knows.. One day someone may get need alopecia and need your self confidence and heal.

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you, that's exactly what I plan to do! xo

[@ChicknCoopTv]

I had to just face facts that it's happening to me too due to PCOS. I still wanna hold on to what I have by trying to cover, get coverage...but, I DEFINITELY appreciate your journey. Hopefully, one day, I'll find this type of courage. We aren't our hair.

[@tashajones3661]

Go to Pinterest I had the same problem with pcos they'll help you fix it naturally

[@ChicknCoopTv]

@@tashajones3661 thank you 😊

[@tashajones3661]

@@ChicknCoopTv you welcome and check out faye in the city on youtube she was a big help too.

[@ChicknCoopTv]

@@tashajones3661 thanks again. I actually got inspired and asked hubby to help me cut all my hair off, but he refused. Either I'll cut it all off or see if anything helps.

[@tashajones3661]

@@ChicknCoopTv DO NOT CUT IT.... Once you start your supplements and also try a salad a couple of times during the week you'll see growth in no time. PLEASE TRY Renpure biotin shampoo and conditioner ot will help speed up the growth and thicken up the hair if I had your Email I would show you my before and after with the dates you'd be amazed. But definitely check out Blackskinandhaircare on youtube as well I followed some her suggestions but didn't buy her products and still got results. Tell your amazing husband to help you keep your stress levels down enjoy a cup of chamomile before bed this helps with stress, hair growth, inflammation and pcos. Look up teas for pcos. Don't bother with metformin or spirolactone too many side effects. Natural is best and quick. You target stress, hormonal balance and take probiotics to heal your gut and that hair will start flowing I promise you that. If possible PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW IT GOES.... And let me know if I can help with anything. God bless you screw pcos.

[@joycajet]

Sorry about your hair loss. You are absolutely beautiful 😍. Will still be watching your channel. You are inspirational. God bless you always 🙏 ❤

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much!

[@leeluv96]

Awwwww... I wanted to see the shaving process, scalp care, and the construction of the hair pieces. WOW you have so many new topics now, only if you wanna share, of course.

[@tachassociety]

I respect you so so much gurl!! Like I said before us real ones will forever be here!!!

[@SistaWithRealHair]

I really appreciate that Tacha!

[@busichanel4934]

My love, I have been a follower of you since in my early 30’s and we are with you, my daughter is affected by this. My daughter dealt with alopecia all through her early 20’s. She would have huge clean bald spots in her head. My mother told us that she suffered from it in her early twenties. It’s been over a year since she has had an aoloecia episode. We have come to learn that it was triggered by hormonal and immune response.

[@kassha49]

Having a mother that died from Breast Cancer in 1985 I understand the feelings of when not if..Every mammogram since 2000 when I started them is a hard time until I get that report..So Im aware of the stress of waiting for the ball to drop. I myself never questioned why you cut your hair especially having been a subbie since the inception of your channel..I recently thought about how you shared working at Hooters so that tells you I’ve been follower for a long minute..You’re absolutely gorgeous..You made the hair it didn’t make you…Take care and know your a special lady🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@Pr3ttyPlus]

We still support you 💯 percent. Your hair may grow back, as I have seen in other persons dealing with alopecia; but even if it does not, your continued journey is still worth sharing 1) for your own therapy; 2) for those suffering from alopecia; and 3) to bring about greater empathy and social awareness. Thank you for always being so open and honest with us.

[@Hunnicaxe]

I’m just glad you’re back! I support you, and I’m sure many of us will always be here for you! 💙🦋

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you Jovi!

[@almarichards3080]

This is one of the most honest video I have seen.Your honestly will be rewarded.God bless you💐

[@ebbie2010]

I never comment but I have been following you for years. I’m so proud of you and how brave you have been during this whole ordeal. I am still a big fan and you will always be my number one hair guru. Life has happened and you are setting a great example by moving forward. Much love to you and can’t wait to see what you do next on your journey.

[@howellareyouSHINE]

Thank you for sharing sis. When I saw the video yesterday, Alopecia crossed my mind. Why? Because I have it. My whole frontal area is CLEAN; otherwise, I have a head full of hair. I broke down Sunday and ordered a lace front wig. I finally found one that works I believe. I'm natural and salt and pepper and prefer to keep it that way. I am somewhat traumatized because I've always had beautiful hair, but oh well, I suppose there are worse things than hair loss. You're rocking your look regardless. Stay up and thanks again for sharing your journey! You really encouraged me!💙

[@reaf2565]

Thanks for sharing with us. My now 10 yr old has been going through this since early 2020 and it was hard being the one to see her hair coming out in clumps on wash day and hiding my sadness from her. Thank God I have instilled confidence in her because it’s not a big deal to her. We made a drastic diet change and see a dermatologist who specializes in hair loss who prescribed a topical jak inhibitor. She went from about 70-80% loss to having a mini fro within a year. Healing it starts from within for some. Good luck on your journey and you are amazing!

[@pualenaisz4403]

So glad you decided to address the issue, resolve it and move forward. Your naturally beautiful! It's hair, and will regrow.. Praying that you will find what works best for You! Blessings to you!❤

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@fobaker1]

I'm sorry you are going through this. I've watched your videos for many years. Please try neem leaf oil. You can mix it with coconut and emu oils. Use a small amount to mix because it smells very bad. It will stop the itching and your hair will grow back. Blessings 🙏🏽

[@aj3974]

I have to say that this video was honestly something I think I needed to see. I have been on KZbin trying to find answers and solutions for my hair loss since 2017. I was in my late 20's when I was diagnosed with Telogen Effluvium and Seborrheic Dermititis however even after being cleared by my dermatologist I still continued and continue to have major hair loss. It's now to the point where parts of my hair that were once very thick even a year ago are so thin that all I can feel is my scalp! It's been a nightmare and I've felt so alone but seeing this video gives me hope! I still don't know what the final diagnosis for me will be but I pray that whatever it is, I'm able to have the strength to get through it just as you have shown us! Much love to you girl and I'm looking forward to the next video!❤️

[@michelebradley7813]

TY for being so brave & honest 🤗. I have Alopecia too & have been wearing a bald head for over 15 yrs 🥲. I am not my hair & no woman should feel less than Beautiful, be embarrassed about something they can't control - an autoimmune disease. Take care of yourself 🙏🏽 because although there's no cure, stress can make things worse.

[@dawnhewitt-thegluten-freeg3100]

I totally feel you, I have struggled with alopecia areata at least 6 times in my life it is soul crushing. In my particular case I finally discovered that I have chronic inflammation which manifests as graves disease which can cause alopecia. Working on healing the inflammation is resulting in healthier follicles thàt can once again produce robust strands of hair. I realize everyone's situation is different tho and that the most important thing is to be able to be at peace with oneself despite whatever our hair is doing. You are brave and strong! 🖤

[@veronicaj758]

I am so sorry about your hair loss. I've been dealing with hair loss around my edges for about 7 years right after my brother passed. I think it was due to stress. I am NOT giving up but will also except whatever God gives me. It seems like my edges are not as thin as it used to be. I am starting to take 6 to 8 collagen pills a day(this one everyday), vitamins, iron(folate), foligrowth, foli-tonic, drinking more water. Also I get my hair treated and trimmed every 6 to 8 weeks. If it sheds too much before my next appointment, I do a protein treatment. It feels heavier and looks thicker. Just praying that it'll completely thicken up in front. Also there's a youtuber by the name of black hair and skin care that has hair products that helped her hair grow back from alopecia. She has many success stories. I do use some of products sometimes. Whoever needs to hear this accept where your at but don't give up. Fight whatever your going through from the INSIDE OUT. Be consistent. I sometimes pack my pills in my purse just in case I forget to take it before I leave the house. I used to have super thick hair and hopefully if its God's will I will get most of that back. Love y'all! Keep fighting!

[@rbraxton00]

Definitely, life is so unpredictable. We never know what may happen. At least you were prepare for what you thought could happen to you. Some people are completely caught off guard. Great video

[@SistaWithRealHair]

YES!! And that is very scary!!!

[@tiffanirodgers6157]

I have followed you for years. You're so awesome. I was just diagnosed as well from stress. GOD has you and I love your truth and ability to be real and the strength to let go because I realize through my own journey our hair does not define us. Hats off to you.

[@sparina]

Thank you for deciding to share this part of your journey. You are an inspiration to so many people and still gorgeous as ever. You can rock anything!!! ❤

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much Deborah!

[@liabarnes8123]

This is true.

[@nikkholl3233]

1. I've missed you. 2. No one should ever be disappointed, only proud. It takes courage to be on a public platform and stand in your truth. You were always beautiful inside and now, it's just now that beauty gets to radiate differently. Thank you for your honesty, thank you for your truth, thank you for the lesson then and for all the lessons that come with your story. Your vulnerability is something to be truly admired. Keep taking care of you, I'll always keep rooting for you. You are a gem. Sending so much love. So happy to see you again on here doin your thang. Looking forward to learning more from you. xoxo

[@gcc1972]

Thank you for this testimony. I'm open to the rest of your journey. I'm still with you as you have helped me in the past and I'm here to help you through your path

[@SistaWithRealHair]

Thank you so much!

[@kidzrrelevant2593]

From a proud alopecia victim (since 18 now a senior) I am blessed and inspired today after watching this powerful video! You are helping more people than you will ever know...Ms. Tina

[@soriyazz]

I feel you sis!!! This avatar represented my hair. 2020 my hair started breaking off as if I was taking chemo. I did a big chop March 2020. It grew back fast!! Crazy thing is that as quickly as it grew...it was still coming out even if i touched it , I wld have hair in my hand. Showering left a lot of hair. On the shower walks etc. Went to determalogist. Internal dr. My dr. Blood work. Nada. Still coming out. This past Mon...I cut it again. I'm over it. I think I have a "friend that's happy cuz she slways wld make comments about how long & beautiful it was!!! She literally laughed when I told her my problem.

[@carmenitaspann-clark5616]

((HUGS))

[@Heavenseventeen]

Have you ditched that "friend" yet? I hope you heal and overcome whatever is affecting you. Your hair loss must be traumatic, but it has shown you how horrible your "friend" is. You deserve so much better. You cut off your hair. I'd cut off the "friend" too.

[@vanessaknight2862]

😐😐😐 she laughed…….o no friend block and delete her from your life

[@chosen2serve1]

I mean permanently delete her with no explantation, she don’t deserve one.

[@joycajet]

Aww so sorry to hear about your hair loss. How is treatment going? I would get rid of that friend she is totally no good. Wish you good health and may God heal you 🙏. God bless you ❤

[@Tonyayt]

I’m proud of you being so authentic and honest. You’re helping women of all colors come to terms with alopecia. 🙏🏽