I have No friends. So what ?

[@seamoreplant]

A very positive statement! Thank you 🙏

[@ed20643]

That was a wonderful statement!!

[@FloydMarsh]

I and others are your "Internet" friends. I love how you talk about things, especially when you speak of your husband. All of the things I hear you say, make a lot of sense. Nice presentation.

[@stuharris9993]

I have anxiety too. Just go out and find a hobby or activity you like to do. Go to a gym or a volunteer group. You will find freinds. Buy a motorcycle and join a riding club! You will find freinds!

[@loneranger668]

Lisa: Very good advice! One thing people all over the world will experience is having bad days in their life.

[@brendanaengenheister5351]

I Like the saying that," Strangers are friends you have yet to meet"

[@CollectiveWest1]

Hi Lisa. You have a very positive philosophy. One phrase I remember is "Comparison is the thief of joy." If we spend time comparing our life with other people or what we see on TV, it can make us feel worse instead of appreciating what we have.

[@Patricksstealthvanlife]

Your like this ethereal fairy floating around the psychology of the UK making the loveliest observations with a whimsical humour that compliments the best of the country. Boy that's a long sentence ! Sending love and good vibes to your husband. I know what you are both going through ❤

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you very much

[@kidlatazul]

I lived in Nigeria in 1981, in a one-room bungalow set aside for teaching staff. There were about 20 other teachers and their families living in the same little bungalows clustered together. Most of them were from West Africa, and it did not take long for me to get to know them. Not knowing your neighbors, I discovered, is unthinkable for Africans. One of my neighbors, living in this little room with his wife and two small boys, told me that he studied in Manchester England for many years, getting his PhD. One morning at breakfast, he told me, how he couldn’t believe that after living in their apartment in England for several years, they still did not know all the people on their floor. That just wouldn’t happen in Africa he said. We in the West have many luxuries, things that most Africans can only dream of. The house I live in now, which is considered average in my neighborhood, would be considered a palace in Nigeria! Yet the sense of community that I found there was something I had never experienced growing up in America, and since then I have tried my best to be outgoing. You might say I brought a little bit of Africa back with me. You are right about finding happiness inside yourself first. When you do, I think you’ll find it easy to make friends.

[@nigelfisher3756]

Lisa gives me a daily dose of common sense and perspective. Thanks for sharing.

[@MrRizzo1961]

Brave little lady 👏👏👏 your a very special little lady. Your husband is very lucky ✌️❤️🙏🙏🇺🇲

[@perryedwards4746]

Hey Lisa!! Good to see you again!! Interesting perspective vids!!

[@MarkGreen-uy9em]

Dogs make great friends and great introductions to new friends too. Your videos always make me feel better. I hope your husband is feeling better today 😊❤

[@RichardCrutchfield-fc1ub]

You are an awesome person who’s English I understand much better then people whose native language is English. 😊

[@RichardCrutchfield-fc1ub]

Do you have Instagram also? I’m from America and like taking with friends from all over the world.

[@Jopesi04]

So brave, I admire you very much. I hope England is a good place for you.

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you. I love England.

[@captaintorch983]

Lisa, when I was a boy, it was always thought that Chinese people were very wise. You are the proof of this. Your advice is always good. You are a very lovely lady, we are lucky to have you here! x

[@mindcache5650]

English UK guy married for 27 years to a Taiwanese woman . Live in Taiwan and immersed in the local scene . When we met she couldn’t speak one word of English . I could not speak one word of Mandarin. But we shared the same feeling.

[@GobbyLisa99]

Wow. I went to Taiwan for three months. Taiwanese people are very friendly and polite.

[@pinotnoir6974]

I envy you. In today’s society, your story is a fabrication.

[@sampletaster5093]

Yes so what I have no friends and I have lived in the USA all my life. Real friends are hard to find and I consider most people I know just acquaintances. True friends are rare.

[@stewartellis]

Hi, I saw a previous video of yours where you were worried about speaking English well, but it vanished before I had the chance to comment. I think ( just my view ) your English is amazing. Wishing yourself and your husband the very best for the future. And please don't give up on us, we are trying to be better 🤗

[@Brian.Murphy]

Great points, Gobby. Thanks for posting.

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thanks.

[@Brian.Murphy]

@@GobbyLisa99 Oh, and you do have friends...me for one.

[@ace1926]

I am not surprised that you are very optimistic - I am impressed.

[@lindavies9948]

You were brave to go out in England on your own like that - I would be scared even to go on holiday to China in case I got lost! - not being able to read the signs or speak the language.

[@RichardCrutchfield-fc1ub]

You’re a fabulous lady and I’ll be your long distance friends if you want. I have very few friends and always looking to find more friends as I go through my life. 😊

[@tryphonsoleflorus8308]

Talks to the clouds,how poetic!

[@turhanf]

you have a beautiful personality. you make me smile. you have similar personality as my wife. my wife happens to be chinese she is a lovely person. you are lovely people😊hope my country treats. you well

[@thomascunliffe4758]

Well said 👏

[@franklinherbert-p7y]

you are so sweet, kind and smart, so keep up the good work.

[@stephenbarfoot94]

You have a great outlook on life.Thanks for sharing

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you.

[@aaronmicalowe]

I have no friends either, but I don't miss them. They took up too much time. But not everyone can survive like this. Just because it works for me doesn't mean it works for other people.

[@anitaherbert1037]

You say your english is not good but you have no difficulty making yourself understood.

[@ratinatrap7815]

Friends take time to gather here in the UK when you are an immigrant. It's taken 17 years for my Chinese wife to grow a circle of friends...but she's got there.

[@josephszot5545]

I understand every word, you pronounce your words very well.

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you.

[@RA-ot6yr]

Really good advice for people! I like to listen to your talking. Very good English ability. Can your husband speak a little Chinese?

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you . My husband can speak Chinese. We met in China and lived in China more than ten years.

[@jeffreyjackson5229]

I prefer to say that "I have no toxic people in my life."

[@bodieb1233]

Your English quite good and is also YOUR English. Is cute and sing / song. I can hear that you are courageous and positive. If I'm unhappy I think it takes my energy away. But if happy takes no energy. One thing is true. As you get older you desire less friends and a much simpler life. When I was a wee lad living in Bristol I remember most the sunny days when I'd go to the back yard at our row house and pick hot strawberries. I desire a similar simplicity not BUT would like to share it with a special someone. But we can't always get what we desire. As long as I have some of what I want. Hot Strawberries from a small backyard a sunny day and a train station to visit.

[@MarkDiangelo-k4m]

Hello new friend 😊

[@cesarnoriega8507]

Good morning Lisa: This is my third video I watch after being in California so many years still have accent when I speak English you speak better than me. You might wonder why I don't speak good English is due that most places and most jobs I went though are Mexican so no need to - - speak English. Told my Chinese friend she must learn English her coworkers are from Chi na when she goes to other places she has to speak English you speak better English than- me. Only there are more Chinese people in San Jose and San Francisco. Los Angeles may be there are so many I don't know too much there barely visit there I just know Chinese - - - among other Asian are concentrated or live in San Gabriel's part of Los Angeles. Cesar

[@GobbyLisa99]

Hi. Cesar.

[@thomastoseland7113]

Thanks for this Gobby, not everyone is charismatic, I because I'm not.

[@stevedunn5546]

Im not single. I have a lovely lady. She took a long time to find. You have a very positive attitude. I hope you find Happy Times.

[@user-lp1sl9ei9o]

You are positive that is good. Nice to see and hear you. ❤❤❤😂😂😊

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you

[@user-lp1sl9ei9o]

@GobbyLisa99 you are kind.

[@peterellis4982]

You have us all as friends ❤️

[@fatloser7244]

My mom died of cholangiocarcinoma at a young age in 2007. It devastated my dad, my brothers and I. But what you said was incredibly beautiful, about not dying but changing residency to heaven. Thank you.

[@GobbyLisa99]

I’m so sorry about your mom. I know how hard it was for you and your family. Thank you for your beautiful message.

[@MyRackley]

I'm single. Retired too. No problem!

[@Othello.Alignmentinspirit]

Hi Gabby, you are very interesting with your point of view, i am your friend now.

[@ItalanFindart]

Hello Lisa. Hello from Hong Kong.

[@GobbyLisa99]

Hi .

[@LennyHobdy]

Hello 😊Lisa 👋.

[@GobbyLisa99]

Hello 😊

[@BusterDowns]

I think you have more friends than you think... including me and your subscribers ❤

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thank you

[@CountingStars333]

All the best,

[@GobbyLisa99]

Thanks.

[@southerneruk]

Just smile and be friendly, be social to all

[@user-man-now80]

Single is good. No arguments. Nothing to worry about. No demands on your money. Pick of tv programme. Marriage can be very difficult if you don't like your partner. Contentment is easy when you are single. Cheers.

[@GobbyLisa99]

If I’m single, I need a boyfriend, because I need to chat with.

[@ChrisLivingInYork]

My wife is Chinese and she would love to be your friend.

[@potdog1000]

i truly admire you

[@robertlonsdale5326]

You have loads of friends here and many would like to meet you and shake your husbands hand. x

[@exposed975]

I will be your friend 😊

[@GobbyLisa99]

@@exposed975 Thank you.😊

[@jamesclancy8091]

What does "gobby" mean?

[@jamesclancy8091]

Where did you learn your philosophy on life? It sounds very Christian. It's wonderful.

[@jamesclancy8091]

Have you ever been to America?

[@GobbyLisa99]

I have never been America.

[@jonathananderson3990]

I am your friend for ever

[@dinkaman2160pukka]

a new way to get subscribers? LOL!!!

[@JamesScholes]

She says she has no friends yet she starts the video with "Hello Friends". Make that make sense?

[@GobbyLisa99]

I don't know how to start, I learned it from watching other people‘s channels. But you are right - it sounds strange.

[@JamesScholes]

@@GobbyLisa99 It's okay, I was only joking in my comment. I just found it amusing your entire video is about having no friends yet you start the video with "Hello friends" If you're looking for an alternative by the way, you can use "Hey everyone" instead. Great video by the way, and it's also nice to see you're using your situation in a positive way and sharing it with others 👍

[@GobbyLisa99]

@@JamesScholes Thank you . Good idea.

[@JamesScholes]

@@GobbyLisa99 Just to add to my previous comment. If you still want to use "Hello friends" then that's perfectly fine too. Just do what feels best for you. Good luck with it anyway 😀

[@fatloser7244]

@@JamesScholes Are you serious? Strangers conducting a meeting will start by saying "Hello friends", it doesn't mean they know the people personally but its a just a greeting to engage the audience. Why are you being so picky and weird??

[@goldenretriever6261]

Japanese?

[@SK-zi3sr]

She looks like Mongolian

[@GobbyLisa99]

No . I'm Chinese.

[@GobbyLisa99]

@@SK-zi3sr It's interesting. Chinese people also think I‘m from Mongolian or other country 😂.