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[@TheHuskyFam]

Option 3 lets you enjoy what’s left of your pregnancy given it’s your last one with less stress. Like you said health is always priority even though it will be a tougher recovery. You are a strong momma! You got this! 🥰💪

[@laurie750]

Amen. My Dad was an OBGYN and he wouldn't do EVs. When my daughter was breech, he told me the decision was mine, but he had a really bad feeling about anyone doing one, so I had a section.

[@emilymenard6371]

Love the way you phrased this, definitely agree💕

[@barbarajpeters9851]

I as an RN in L& D saw a few doctors try to turn baby’s but those that settled in their positions for most of their pregnancy rarely like 1:1000 will turn , so plan on a C-section and get it settled in and do it.

[@bettyrickert7272]

Number 3 C Section honey. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️Granny B

[@evadolmat3279]

c section is best choice. My son was breach and it was 40 years ago. Then i had 2 more c section. I am happy i got c sections back then. Sure recovery was longer but in the long run it was the be best decision.

[@caitlinnnnnn1934]

I agree with everyone else in the comments, option 3 of a scheduled C section seems the safest way for both you and baby girl. she’s just super comfy and cosy and loves it in there where she is💕 I suffer with anxiety too and I definitely think the safety concerns with the second option would be too much for me, sending so much love to you whatever decision you decide is best for you x

[@pamowen3452]

As a former Labor nurse and my daughter had a breech daughter. I’ve seen versions work but I suggest a c-section due to all the risks. I’ve worked in that field for 17 years and seen a lot but not gonna tell horror stories. It’s gonna be hard at times but you are so strong Rachelle, you got this honey. The decision is yours!♥️

[@whydoyoucare27]

I had 2 natural and 2 C-sections. I prefer the C-sections. Faster and easier with way less pain!!!

[@brigitteleggett7574]

i had 3 breech babies bum first all natural

[@savannahnielson5650]

I had a successful ECV at 37 weeks and I’m so glad I did! Listening to the Evidence Based Birth podcast episode about breech & ECV really helped me feel informed about what the studies have shown in regards to the risks and success rates of ECVs. One thing that studies have shown is that ECVs are more successful if you get an epidural with it which I did end up getting. For me I figured that worst case scenario if the baby had signs of stress from the procedure then they would immediately do a C-section right then and there. Or I could not do the procedure and still end up with a C-section 2 weeks later. Of course every situation is different and everyone is comfortable with different things but for me the ECV took less than 2 minutes and was a success and gave me the chance to have the vaginal birth I wanted. Best of luck to you & praying for all to go well for you & your baby ❤️

[@marythecontrarian]

evidence based birth is such a good resource! I use them all the time as a birth worker, they have handouts and signature articles for everything it feels like.

[@cindyking5174]

I would go C-section. That way safer to me. Both my daughters were frank breech, feet by their head s butts down. Doctor went in, unfolded them got them out.

[@applusthree8177]

After considering the risks and your past birth trauma and losing a baby already, I would go with the safest option for baby which would be a scheduled c section at 39 weeks. I think it would allow you to relax the rest of this pregnancy and not stress about flipping baby and also give you peace of mind for the next few weeks knowing you have a safe exit strategy for her! Sending love your way ❤️

[@robyncairns3434]

Amen 🙏

[@jenniferpritzlaff9656]

I know I am late but I agree with you. I started watching Rachelle after Brynn because I had a stillborn that had to do with placental abruption (most likely because of short umbilical cord). I am praying 🙏🏼 for the safest and healthy birth. I understand the anxiety and wish I could give her a big hug.

[@kearstenwhite994]

My first was also a still birth and I have had 2 c sections. I know everyone is different but my second c section was MUCH easier recovery than the first. I was moving sooner and felt 10000% better than the first time. Having had the loss, I personally would choose the csection just to have the piece of mind knowing exactly when she is coming out and safely. Thinking of you guys!

[@marlasangels]

As a former NICU nurse I suggest the c section. I know sections are rough but, to me, if God wants her to turn sh will turn. Either way sending you all the love! 💖💖💖💖

[@reginahaley3723]

I am not a nurse, but I completely agree. I ended up with large babies. I fought it for hours( and hours), tried everything and ended up with a 9 lb. baby “ sunny side up”…. She was very healthy, and I was grateful everything was ok. My second was 10&1/2 lbs. I am very grateful that I ultimately decided for another c section. There were no “ birth injuries “which can happen with large babies. They are grown, and happy young ladies. Being safe IS the most important thing.🙏🏼💜

[@beckyz1393]

When you said the three options my mind immediately went to C Section. We all want you and baby girl to be safe! I would have loved to have had a C section with our son. He is grown now but he was 10 lbs 14 ozs. His shoulder was stuck and I had no pain meds. 2 weeks late. Dont know what my dr. was thinking. Just do the safest option. Much 💘

[@daisychain3633]

as someone who works specifically in a breech team in a hospital I can honestly say that ECV is an extremely safe option. The chances of any of these complications happening are SO low, I have seen many ecv’s and only 1 had complications (mother had other risk factors) and we noticed straight away, had a c-section and baby was fine

[@heavenlyblended5563]

I can’t believe I’m saying this because I just tried SO hard for a Vbac because I didn’t want a repeat c-section. I ended up having a repeat/scheduled c-section after our Biophysical profile and non stress test weren’t favorable. My repeat section was INCREDIBLE!! If I were to fall pregnant again I would schedule a c-section in a heartbeat. Ask them if they can drop the drape when baby is born so you can see her and request to have her on your chest in the OR. Both of these things made me feel so much more involved and were not options with my first section ten years ago (or I didn’t know they were). I have heard the external rotation is painful and often doesn’t work anyway but ultimately it is up to you. Love and prayers!! ❤️

[@ericabaltayan5493]

Thissss!!!! My third C-section I watched him being born/peeing on my Dr 🤣 and had skin to skin with him! It was the absolute best

[@heavenlyblended5563]

@@ericabaltayan5493 yes!! My lil man peed right on me when they pulled him out and I saw it all!! 😂😂

[@tara1988]

Hello there hun just wanted to say I agree with the c- section option. The vibe I get from you is your gut instinct is telling you that as well. Trust your mamas intuition as a mama of 6 over here I know we are usually about 98% right!!! At the end of the day you gotta do what’s best for your family. You are such an inspiration to me for things I do with my kids, you’re both amazing parents. Can’t wait to meet your beautiful baby girl!! Hope Justin feels better soon!! Take care!! You got this 😘

[@taylorziegler9766]

I would choose the c section. My first c section was brutal. Going into my second one I was terrified but it was the best experience and completely different. My recovery time was so much better and I was walking right away and much less pain. Then I went on to having my third c section and it was even better! Recovery was amazing and the nurses were amazed at what I was doing just hours after having it. Every c section is different so don’t let your first one stop you from having another 😊❤️

[@charlottesinclair9354]

Especially the fact her first c section was after twins, I feel like this recovery could be easier slightly!

[@kirstenakin984]

I feel the exact same. My second and third c sections were so much better and easier to recover from. Would definitely go with the option that gives you the least amount of stress and allows you enjoy what’s left of your pregnancy.

[@lise5591]

I know recovery from a c-section would be tough with the little ones BUT look at how Emma was already there to snuggle and offer her emotional support. If anything, she's going to try and make recovery a little easier ❤

[@hannyhutchy8133]

I would choose the c section option the safest doesn’t matter how she come out as long as she’s here safe and healthy is all that matters x

[@maddieadams75]

As a surgical nurse and former labor and delivery/er nurse. Consider a c-section, listen to your inner voice. Recovery is longer, but safer for you and the child. Reminder if all other opportunities fail a c-section will be needed regardless

[@jodytigges1830]

Option 3. Safe and healthy birth for mom and baby is the best.

[@suzettegonzalez1231]

I agree 💯

[@tallezrovich5491]

As someone that had 2 losses, when I had my baby boy 2 years ago, I said that no matter what, if something will be wrong, I am going to do C section. And this is what happened. I don't regret my decision, because I have a health baby boy. I think you should go with the C section, just to be on the safe side. I'm sure you will be able to get as much as support as possible, and your kids are good kids 😊. I wishing you a safe and quick labor and recovery 🙏🏻 Sending hugs, and can't wait to see Baby girl 💗

[@mairi2693]

Sounds to me you're already swinging toward having a C section. This would enable you to have a controlled, calm and less stressful birth. The recovery from it is something you will be able to take in your stride ...you are a strong and resourceful woman and you will get through this! 💕

[@MarciaLeeful]

I had to pick a C-section also with two of my children! They were tough calls but ultimately I went with what my doc suggested because I was overdue and my cervix wasn’t at all ready to give birth. He said it was safest for my baby. That’s all I needed to hear. I was scared and wanted to the right thing ! Much love while you have to make those tough choices.

[@stephfreeze9579]

I would go ahead and take the c-section. It’s the safest route to take. Ultimately it is your decision and you’ll do what you feel is right. Personally the c-section sounds the safest option of the two. Recovery is so much harder especially with little ones. I love you and your adorable little family. Safety first.

[@marry632]

Midwife (working at hospital) here: you can change your decision at all times! You have the right to stop the operation while still on the table. I'd personally go for option two, since a vaginal birth is associated with less risks for mama and baby, and in case anything happens during the ecv they could do a c-section right then and there. Although I've never seen anything happen while attempting to turn the baby the risks are obviously there, but as I said you're in a hospital while the ecv is done, so in the safest option possible. The only thing I've witnessed is that sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't and the baby remains breech and then you can still go for the planned cesarian. Fourth option could be: waiting to go into labour and then doing a c-section (doctors are not likely to like that cause it's not plannable), but it would mean that your baby is deciding when to be born.

[@marry632]

Oh and I've been to many ECVs :)

[@corinthiap6044]

I agree with this! I guess it depends on how they do the ECV, I imagine at 37 weeks it’s not under a spinal like mine was. Mine failed, but I was 41+5, and my son was 9lbs 14oz. I wish I had known sooner cause I think if I had it done 4 weeks sooner it probably would have been successful. My c/s was brutal, but I didn’t have much support and it was my 4th baby. It was an incredibly hard decision for me also, I had 1 night to decide to do a c/s or attempt a ECV. Ultimately I knew for myself a vaginal delivery was best, and it was worth the try. Everything was extremely monitored, I was in the OR, with 2 doctors and an u/s tech. They watched his vitals the whole time. So when his HR did drop, they told me and immediately started the c/s.

[@mizlindsayk]

But not every woman has time for a c-section if they allow themselves to go into labor spontaneously. Precipitous labors are not that uncommon. I was told with my second baby to come As soon as I thought I was in labor. After 2 weird pains in my butt that were exactly 10 minutes apart I got into the shower didn't even wash my hair brought my bags downstairs, told my husband to put our toddler with no shoes, full diaper, and still in pajamas In the car ( he still hadn't taken care of those things since I told him to before my quick shower) And we took a 5 minute drive to the hospital. I was rushed to OB and was checked and was fully dilated and ready to go. By then I was feeling the contractions and was pretty sure I was in labor, so...yeah, if I had a breech baby, I couldn't risk it waiting until labor for a c-section.

[@MamaLoRo]

Both my babies were born via c-section. I will say that in my experience, my second cesarean was easier because I knew what I needed to do and what to expect. I totally know that everyone’s experiences are different and all you can really do is make the decision you feel is best for YOU. 💗

[@ericabaltayan5493]

I completely second this!! I've had three C-section births and the first was by far the worst and the second and third were so much better ❤️

[@senior12ch]

I agree I also had three c sections and the more you will know the second even third time lol

[@JessicaBrown-zd5qk]

I had three c sections. 07, 09, and in 2011. My first was by far the hardest to recover from. The other two got easier because I knew what to expect from them.

[@mnmom723]

@@senior12ch I’ve had 3 as well and my 3rd was my easiest by far. My second was definitely better than my first. I’m a NICU nurse as well and I wouldn’t risk the ECU. You’ll feel much better with this Section than with t boys. Best of luck to you! 💕

[@jessicachick490]

Came to say I agree! My second was a breeze to recover from

[@Antonia_s1921]

I would go with option 3, I had a planned c-section for my second and get it was a lot easier recovery for me than my first natural birth (tears, infections etc) I’ve heard horror stories about EVC so I wouldn’t be inclined to do that myself but it’s whatever you’re comfortable with!

[@reginahaley3723]

Years ago, my sister had a ECV with her 9lb. baby. It was successful, he is now 34 years old. I don’t blame you for being on the fence. I wouldn’t blame you for deciding on a c section. Safety is extremely important!! Go with your” gut feeling “, that is usually the correct decision!!💜🙏🏼

[@sueschaefer9267]

I would go with option 3. My mom had placenta previa many many years with my sister and both almost passed. But today with all the science things could be different. I've had 2 c-sections (vertical incision) so I understand your choice.It will be hard, but I will be praying for you and your healthy baby girl. She is, and has been a miracle since the beginning, so God has a very special purpose for her. Listen to Him and He will telll you what to do and will be with you all along the way.

[@KaitlinMcLaughlin_g2g]

3rd option: seems to be the safest for both you and baby! You’ve recovered from so much including a C-section! You can do this!

[@darlynrookes8812]

Option 3, for yours and your baby girls health, I completely understand about the recovery time, but whatever you and Justin decide is completely your decision in the long run, you guys are the sweetest

[@codiehodder451]

Option 3 - Safest and least stressful for you and baby girl ❤️ x

[@debzortiz]

This same thing happened to me with my daughter, I decided on the c-section and I don't regret it. When she was born she was 9lbs 3oz and I have a tiny frame so she was unable to move head-down especially being that big so I'm glad everything worked out

[@lilianabrambila8162]

I had an ECV done with my first pregnancy, wasn’t successful and it hurt so bad! People always say that it’s uncomfortable, but to me it was actually worse than the recovery for my C-section. This time around, I’ll be 37 weeks tomorrow, baby is breech, and I am choosing to not have the procedure done and going straight to the section because of the pain it brought on. Which ever you chose, at the end you’ll have a baby in your arms 💖

[@samanthacarver5209]

My son was breech from the very beginning of my pregnancy and never moved. I made the mistake of getting the ECV and like you was unsuccessful and hurt so bad I tried to tough it out but my son was just too comfortable breech and I couldn’t take the pain. But flash forward to his birth I ended up getting pre-eclampsia so his c-section was more emergency than a normal scheduled one everything happened so fast I could hardly keep up

[@catherine2110]

Same here had an ECV it didn’t work, was very painful had a C- section in the end, couldn’t go through that again, just a personal choice, go with your gut instinct Rachelle, wishing you all the best can’t wait to see your new baby girl ☺️xx

[@erinloewer4681]

I vote C-section! Hands down. Just had to have my 4th C-section, and while recovery is longer, once you know what to expect, I think subsequent are much better! Just get up and move asap. You've got this! Praying for you, your anxieties and your sweet family!

[@Ginabina76]

I've had 4 too!! I dont see many of us!! Hi!!!

[@erinloewer4681]

We're unicorns for sure! 😊

[@suzettegonzalez1231]

3rd option C section would be my choice . Less risk and safer option . I know the recovery will suck but you’ve got this mama you are so strong 💪🏼

[@maryrentscher2316]

Emma’s tenderness towards you is so telling! As young as she is she can see you are struggling and wants to help ❤️ I always like to as my doc what would they do, esp since you trust him so much. Plus it’s comforting cuz they are experienced. We’re here for you love💕

[@blankspace823]

option 3, a c-section sounds safest for both you and baby girl. i know it’s not ideal but everything happens for a reason and her still being breech may be one of them! wishing you a healthy and safe delivery and an easy recovery ❤️

[@222aaliyah]

as a c-section baby lmao, id schedule a c-section. i know you didn’t want to but it gives you less stress and enjoy the last bit of pregnancy. wish you luck on whatever decision you make💕💕

[@michellecrowe7063]

All that matters is a healthy baby and a healthy Mama- therefore I would be leaning towards a scheduled c section. I don’t have any experience with ECV but even a small risk is too much of a risk ! 💜 from Nova Scotia Canada 🇨🇦

[@britterztv]

I'm also from Nova Scotia!!! :)

[@Lscherer4]

I’m also Nova Scotian!

[@annachartres4036]

C-sections carry a lot of risk too!

[@karenhollandsworth9711]

As I listened to your choices, I'd be picking the c-section. I've had them try to turn baby, natural labor was easy next to that! Sending many blessings to you all You're an awesome mommy!

[@palakaaryelakalata]

Option 3, its the safest for both you and baby girl. You're so strong and inspire me. I have a 3 year old son and found out I'm pregnant last week. Can't wait to see baby girl!! sending love and prayers.

[@amelia.kennedy]

I have a 3 year old boy & hoping to be pregnant soon! Thought that was cool haha

[@asiaroseboro7854]

Coming from a momma who has had two consecutive c sections the second time around isn’t as bad I actually wanted to get up and move but was advised to take it easy I hope my little input helps ☺️

[@nikkibbander]

Same, my first c-section was an emergency after 28 hours of no success with induction and baby began declining/failing....my recovery was AWFUL the MOST pain I have experienced (gives me flash backs) 💔 😢....but baby number two was scheduled snd planned and I went in already knowing what to expect.....the healing from baby number 2 was a walk in the park compared to the 1st...lol 🤣😂 I too was ready to get up and go after a day or two of rest but knew my body may not hurt as bad as the 1st time around but it still needed a good 6 weeks of true rest and healing :) Yes I agree maybe when we know what to expect, the next time around may not be as bad...(not true for all, but many....maybe)

[@vikkieessex6972]

Been following your story from Brynn's pregnancy and i've seen you go through so much and grow everyday. I would go for the safest option with least amount of risks so in the case C-section...even more so with trauma on your part already in that area of things going wrong in pregnancy. Let's keep beautiful momma's mental and physical wellbeing as good as they can be! :) Either way you got an army behind you that have your back no matter what you decide! GOOD LUCK BEAUTIFUL MOMMA!!!!

[@Cocodaisy_vr]

Considering all of the risks, I think a scheduled c-section is your best bet! Also, can Emma please star as Annie when she’s old enough to be in a play? OMG she’s adorable with that red curly hair!

[@shannonbolton6005]

Annie!!! Yes. She also reminds me of princess from “Brave”

[@jls3482]

For someone who had a failed ecv, (they couldn't get him to flip) and ended up with a csection. Skip all the pain, and discomfort on you and baby girl, and go for the csection

[@bmay8029]

hey! first I want to say I love your videos and you have a beautiful family! so here’s my experience with ECV. I had it done with my first pregnancy. i believe it had a contributing factor for my still birth that followed. my baby was full term, healthy and right on track. now there were many other factors in it (doctors errors) but the natural factor in it was the cord around his neck. i’m sorry if this is triggering or anything for you. just from one mamma who lost a baby to another, i would suggest the safest rout, a scheduled cesarean. I understand not only the pain of it, but the trauma after as well. my team of doctors suggested a c section with my second pregnancy after my loss. it was the best decision i made. less stress, more “control “ i guess. anyways i really hope this helps! God bless you and your family ❤️

[@ameliaputnam9912]

❤️

[@nerissaglasscock8538]

Such an awful experience to through, but so important to share too. You're so brave for sharing. 😢

[@kristinej22]

Hugs. So sorry for your loss,❤️

[@RNMimi]

As a former labor and delivery nurse and Mom of two babies who were c-sections, in my opinion, just go for the scheduled c-section. I've assisted in external versions before and literally two people will be pushing really hard on your belly to move the baby. She's in that position for a reason so why mess with it and risk having to end up with an emergency c-section at 37 weeks instead of a scheduled one at 39 weeks? Don't stress it! Thinking of you and looking forward to the big day!!

[@JenJenBoBin]

I would go with the c-section - I know the recovery is a bit harder especially with all the "littles" but you know what to expect you've had one before and you have friends and family that I know are willing to help you guys out. Safety first ... you got this mama!

[@andreaatterbury501]

Good afternoon! First time commenting, as a retired nurse and midwife, I suggest Option 3, you have had the experience already so you know what to expect. All the best. Lots of love to you and your family.

[@cathygriffith5852]

I had 3 c sections and my recovery was pretty easy. For you I think it’s a safe option! 💕

[@elisaquintero231]

I’d go with a planned c section any day. Having had my daughter prematurely, not having to have a rushed emergency c section was so good for my mental health. It was still an “emergency c section” but it wasn’t rushed. Let’s you enjoy what is left of your pregnancy. Whereas if you chose option 2, there’s always a risk for a rushed c section. I know you will make the best decision for your daughter. 💓

[@samanthapullen9998]

I almost had an ECV done but she flipped on her own but it’s so scary and stressful leading up to it. But since she’s stayed breech this whole time it might be unlikely that she’ll flip. My daughter had a shorter cord and they were so shocked she flipped herself. It’s hard but maybe the C-section is the right choice because baby seems comfy.

[@mistymedina6079]

I would go for a C-section sweetie. You are under a lot of stress as it is with 3 toddlers and your hubby being sick. I understand that you were quite uncomfortable with your last C-section, however I feel like it will be less stressful. Much love and many prayers for you and your beautiful family 😘🙏💖💖

[@Sophiacreative222]

I know that a c section recovery is extremely hard for you but I think the best option is number 3 and the safest and healthiest for you and the baby ! Lots of love Sophia! 😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@2010chrishope]

You poor sweet mama! I’m so sorry you’re facing this but I am believing for a great outcome for both of you either way! I’ve never had either before but being a nurse and a mom myself, I would say your gut is leading you in the right direction for a c section. I feel you’d have less anxiety and a greater outcome for both you and baby! ❤️

[@user-wg7mv5wv8x]

I’ve never had any of these, but I think you would feel best and safest to have a scheduled c-section. Just they way you have talked about it, it sounds like that is the option you feel best and most confident in

[@jumi4717]

Honey, I had my beautiful Daisygirl in March via planned csection after we were doing vaginal right up to week 39. I LOVED my csection and the whole experience! Recovery was also such a breeze. I found that it really helped my anxiety. Knowing the specific time & date, doctors are in control, quick process, and most of all she will be brought into this world as safe as possible. My advice would be to embrace whichever you choose as her birthstory. It is the way she is meant to come into this world and whatever method, it is joyous and beautiful! I had no pain during any part of her birth or after. I also believed it's best to get up and move as soon as possible. You can do this mama!

[@tracycook7355]

Rachelle schedule choose to have a C-section. Option two did not work for me and was very painful. Give it to God. 🙏🙏🙏 The fact you said about short cord took me to my last baby if I had gone for vaginal breech birth she would have been born with health issues. As she had a short knotted cord round her neck

[@violetabardales9677]

Option 3 has to be the safest for you and baby girl. Gives Justin time to feel better before baby girl arrives and you begin your recovery with husbands help. You got this.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cindysloan6780]

Honestly, I would do the c-section. Seems to be the safest option. Good luck and prayers all goes well for y’all!!

[@coriannedesign]

I love that Emma is comforting mama with cuddles and putting her hand on your head 🥰 I think the C-section is the safest way of all three options you have... I understand that you want baby girl to be safe and I think option 3 will give you that And you have friends that can help while you recover, they could have the kids for playdates so that you and Justin can have a bit of a break 😉 Hope Justin feels better soon

[@luluinvinkelriet3171]

I would also say option 3, but maybe check if your doctor would be ok doing an ultrasound if you go on labor on your own because some babys flip during labor but either way, the most important thing is your and babys health. Hoping for an easier recovery this time and lots of baby cuddles ♥️

[@suzyszamatowicz9228]

C section-feels like the safest for the baby even though the recovery for you may be longer and uncomfortable, but as long as the baby arrives safe and healthy, that’s what’s best I feel. Best wishes on whatever you decide, ultimately, it’s up to you and Justin.

[@suehiggins4616]

I’m in the UK and regularly watch your videos. I can feel your dilemma, but i think I’d go c section I’m naturally anxious and if it were me any extra worries will just make the whole process worse. I’ve had two c sections and yes they aren’t ideal but our bodies are great at healing and as mothers we naturally adapt to coping with kids, husbands, housework and pets! Wishing you all the best 😘

[@shelbytaggartreads2739]

With my first, she was Frank breech and I was given the same options as you, aside from option 1 because of the military healthcare. I contemplated either c-section or ecv and I chose c-section because of the risks involved. She had no issues coming out of the Frank breech position after birth and no hip issues either. Her cord was wrapped around her weird upon delivery so I’m really glad with our choice! I’m now expecting my third and hoping for a VBA2C!

[@michelleflores1769]

I worked for OBGYN’s for eight years, after many years in practice and doing ECV’s in the beginning of their career they decided to no longer perform ECV’s. I won’t share horror stories but I would go with a scheduled c-section if I were you. I’ve had c-sections myself. Even IF you flipped her there’s no guarantee of a vaginal delivery. You never know what could come up during labor and send you to the operating room. In the end, in terms of recovery, you have done it before after twins AND you have a great support system. You’re strong and you’ll be just fine mama.

[@karyssaxo]

I had my daughter vaginally and my son ended up being breech, I didn’t try flipping him at the hospital and opted for a c-section just to keep stress levels low and make sure we were both healthy. Recovery was okay. I was sore and stiff the first few days but it was fine as long as you keep up with your band and medicine. Which I only think tylenol worked better for me. You got this mama ❤️

[@shannonbolton6005]

3 c-sections. A planned one is EASY! That was my last two. I won’t share what I know via friend whose L&D nurse…. but c-section!!! That’s my vote. Side note… Emma is stunningly gorgeous!!!

[@Alienfanclubbeauty]

I know it’s hard to have to change birth plans, but like you said #1 priority is baby girl… plans don’t always go as planned, sometimes we have to do what’s best for our kids and not let your idea of a “perfect birth” get ahead of her safety… the perfect birth is a safe one, which in this case is a C-section. Hoping the best for you and your family ❤️

[@yvonnealexander6075]

Trust your body and God. Your little girl is happy where she is . Enjoy this time having 3 and when number 4 come your lives will bust with that much love. You can do anything your are strong mum. Love from Shropshire England xx Big hugs to poorly Justin hope you get better soon🧡

[@kalyco6211]

Been a long time since i've given birth, but I think the c section seems the most safe for both you and baby. I'm so excited to meet this sweet girl!!!

[@teresajames7891]

Rachelle, I've never had a c-section but I know it's a much longer recovery. With that being said, I vote for letting that precious girl stay right where she is as long as she's not in distress. I'm sure you have lots of friends and family that would love to come help after you come home from the hospital. They can be a blessing to you and you in turn bless them by allowing them to love on your family! GOD BLESS!❤️

[@juliekings7163]

I've never had to have a c section but I know if I had to have one for a healthy, happy outcome I'd have one. Good luck in the rest of your pregnancy 🇬🇧 ❤️

[@kristinej22]

LDRP RN for 14 years and Mama here. Like other RNs I’m not going to share my bad stories but I will say personally I’d never opt for a ECV. I’d do a scheduled cesarean. But I do feel our views can be tainted because of the bad things we’ve seen even if they are rare, those few patients are burned in our brains forever. Best of luck. Can’t wait to see your little girl. ❤️ edited to add…I’ve never personally had a version but from what most patients act during them and from what a lot of them say after it can be painful.

[@Robindigsit]

I wish I could take your anxiety away for you💜 I think I would go for the scheduled C-section and have the safe delivery. 😊 You know what to expect this time so maybe it will be easier 🤞So sorry you have to make this decision. I can't believe how invested I have become in your family, but not in a weird way...lol What ever way you decide we will all be waiting to see and hear this miracle little nugget! 😀

[@vannesareay9435]

So so understand. With your history with little Brynn, whatever gives you the greatest peace of mind. As for your post OP recovery it may go better than you think. You have a good support system. You have good instincts . Take special care.

[@kathybell1016]

I think once you make a decision for a c-section, you’ll feel so much better. Schedule a date and let us know. Much love ❤️

[@lynnfischer7310]

Not many women opt for an ECV so I'll leave my experience here. 22 years ago, I had a version (ECV) at 37 weeks. An OR was scheduled should the baby need to be delivered; however, I was fully awake and in a procedure room. The Dr said he would only try to turn her for 2 minutes...didn't even take that long. I wanted the version because I have easy labors with only a few pushes and I had two children who would be running around at home if I needed to recover from a C-Section. So I had a successful ECV and successful vaginal delivery of a 9 lb baby girl on her due date. However, I strongly feel that you need to go with your gut...so what if you changed your mind from this morning. You need to do what you think is best for you...and given your history with Brynn, the thought of choosing a procedure that could potentially harm your baby is understandably scary.

[@lorrainegilmore9075]

I've had 4 c sections yes longer to recover but the safest way for a breech baby ,my first being breech its all over really quick you will get pain meds that will really help you .Don't stress or worry about a c section my four went great out of your options I would pick elective c section its really up to you ,I think its the safest way good luck to you whatever you pick.xxx

[@Ginabina76]

Another 4 timer! Don't see many of us!! Hi!!

[@lorrainegilmore9075]

Hi 4times all worth it lolx

[@kellybright6688]

I have had 2 c sections and the second one recovery wise was alot easier. I personally think choosing the scheduled c section would be the best option for you, as you said from your past trauma you want to go with the safest option. Sending you all the love as you approach baby girls birth 💗

[@emilygeronimo9043]

Honestly my scheduled C-sections were the most calm and measured experiences. You know exactly how long you have to prepare, exactly what to expect and exactly how recovery feels. ECVs this late term are pretty scary so for safety, I'd say C-section as well. All of that said I had my twins first, (then a singleton who was a repeat C), and a scheduled C because babies were both breech and the morning I went in and got hooked up they did a repeat ultrasound and both babies had turned right at 37 weeks in a 24 hour period. 😂 So you never know, maybe you'll get your VBAC. 😉💙

[@scoutd197]

Midwife here. I would say ECV. The reason they wait til 37 weeks is because she would be considered term then and if she for whatever reason does not like the ECV procedure they can do CS immediately if needed. You have had vaginal delivery before, CS is major abdo surgery, but I assume you have made decision by now and you should pick which is best for you and family x

[@meaganmusick1108]

I personally would choose the c section, I would just rather play it safe. I’m the person that over thinks ALL the risks and gets scared easily. And that just adds extra stress that you could avoid. Love you and the family! Can’t believe I started following you during Brynn’s passing and here you’re planning your 5th birth! Insane! ❤

[@danahenderson3742]

I think you should do what causes the least amount of stress. I feel you’re feeling better about the c-section and causes you less anxiety regarding the baby. God will take care of all of it, and He’ll take care of your healing. Now off that subject, when I saw that Justin was sick with a respiratory infection, I became very concerned. After loosing Beau so quickly to a respiratory infection, it just concerns me that whatever bacteria or fungus is in the yard or somewhere, it just concerns me that it may be hanging around. I don’t mean to be gloomy or a downer, I’m just very concerned. Wondering if the Vet went ahead and ran the testing on Beau. I just think it’d be a good idea to check. Also it kinda worried me when I saw you were thinking of getting a puppy, until you know. I love you guys and don’t want anyone else to be sick. Just extremely concerned for the sweet Swannie family.

[@jolenerenee3584]

So, my baby was breach as well, and my doctor said when she was pregnant.. they did an ECV and she left the appointment all bruised and sore and the baby still didn’t flip. So she recommended that I don’t.

[@KimberleyJaskolski]

Clearly they didn’t know how to do it properly as your not meant to bruise.

[@mamatae1113]

I had two ECVs and nothing even close to bruising… they must not have known how to do it right.

[@MissScrapAlot]

As much as I am terrified of c-sections….this angel baby is a true miracle and I would want my baby born as safely and stress free as possible….Your health can go sideways and hers as well ….choose what’s best in your heart…..it’s a crappy decision but at end of the day coming home with your miracle baby as healthy as she can be should be what’s considered…good luck !

[@bridgetteeilert1566]

I’m a nurse and I would 100% do the first option. I know you said you won’t do that one, but you listed it for us, so I’m just telling you. Your body and your baby were made to work together. You are not broken. Breech is a variation of normal. I also sincerely hope that your doctor listed all of the immediate and lifelong risks of c section for you as well as the risks of ECV. Having a baby is risk, but it does not have to be scary. Praying for peace over your decision today! ❤️

[@karencummings8242]

Yes and did not feel good. Then when I finally made my mind up to scheduled C-Sect and I did not have a hard time. I got a beautiful baby girl who weighed 8lb and 10oz. Would not change any way of deliveries. God gave me these 2 wonderful children.

[@monkeys24680]

I’m 20 weeks currently. If my doctor gave me those choices, I definitely would go with option 3. It does sound safer with what you have been through. My mom was actually just telling me today that one of my brothers was breech up until 39 weeks.

[@twilaklense5202]

I had three children all delivered by cesarean section because I had complications so that was my only choice. I felt at ease and confident my babies were going to be born ok with this type of delivery. It was an ease off my mind. It is done with success. Praying for the choice for you. God Bless you!!

[@mjs4766]

As a NICU nurse I'm really glad to hear you aren't considering option 1--thats just asking for complications. My vote would be for the c-section. The few times I've heard of the ECV being done/working--I feel like a lot of them flip back to breech and a c-section ended up being needed anyways.

[@LAURIEOHIOLPN]

As a Nurse for 29 years.... C-section would be my choice.. If anything goes wrong with the ECV, you would have an Emergency C-section & that is more dangerous in itself... C- sections are typically not brutal.. first 3 days are the toughest, as any abdominal surgery. Prayers for you & your beautiful family.

[@breetown]

C-section has risks too. I just had laparoscopic surgery and gained a new respect for c-section moms!!! I have no clue how you balanced newborn twins, recovering, and breastfeeding! You are a super hero!! I personally would go with option 1 or 2 because I have a tough time with surgery.

[@belindacreech107]

Omg Emma and her hair gets more precious all the time. Sending prayers to y'all.🙏😍🙏😍🙏😍

[@emilyhoniotes2050]

I haven’t had an ECV, but I’ve had a c-section for twins and a vbac. I’m 38 weeks I have a repeat section scheduled for this coming Friday. To me it made the most sense for my anxiety. I knew I wouldn’t do an ECV if she was breech because I felt similarly to you- I don’t know if the risks are worth it. I have so much anxiety surrounding possibly losing her and a c-section is statistically safer for baby, even if recovery isn’t easier for mom. Plus I like that I could schedule it and my mom could make the trip to watch our other 6 kiddos that day. Anyway- I hope you feel at peace with whatever choice you make!

[@Pistolboys11]

I had my baby via elective c-section because he was breech, and had a very smooth recovery, was nice to know when he was going to arrive and could be all prepared and ready to go. I was offered to do an ECV but I decided there were too many risks so chose not to have one. My risks included though- baby was measuring big (was born over 9lb), so was likely to be more difficult to try turn as didn't have much room inside. His head had also been jammed up under my ribs for weeks, he was frank breech, folded in half with his feet and hands up by his face and he hadn't moved positions in ages so I didn't think he was likely to want to turn. I also had an anterior placenta, so there is risk of it being damaged or separating from the uterus during an ECV. My concern was that if I agreed to an ECV, there was high chance it would fail, with all my added risks, with possibility of putting baby into distress and then we'd end up in emergency c-section, likely at 37 weeks when they would have done the ECV, rather than letting him cook longer and be delivered closer to 40 weeks. Happy with my decision and would do the same again given the same circumstances, however if your baby girl is measuring average size and you feel like she's able to move around inside quite a bit still, and your placenta is in a safe area then ECV may work for you. Remember the risk list is always longer than the positive list as there is only 1 positive outcome and that is baby turns (and stays head down) and you go ahead with natural labour. Hopefully your recovery from a singleton c-section delivery would be easier than the twin delivery if you choose to go that way and at least you know what to expect with an elective c-sextion recovery, but a failed ECV recovery could be more unpredictable. Good luck!

[@saraanderson8336]

I agree with the vast majority, have the c-section. Both of my babies were c-section and the 2nd was a breeze in comparison to the 1st. I know it's not what you wanted, but as you said her safety is the most important thing,as is your stress levels. Go with your gut sweetheart and enjoy the last few weeks of your pregnancy x

[@pamelaanderson1337]

No experience with any of these options, but I strongly and respectfully would go with option 3!! Safety is first priority with your precious baby girl!!! Best of luck with recovery! Yes it will be tough and I sure hope you'll have alot of support in your recovery!! Blessings to your beautiful family. Justin, I too have an upper respiratory infection!! It is misery!!!

[@ashleywilliams3588]

Go with option 3, it will take the pressure off you for the next couple of weeks and there is always that small chance she may still flip. I know a C-Section wasn't your first choice but the most important thing is baby girl arriving safely and you being as healthy as possible. Sending prayers for Justin. X

[@ellenmendel318]

So, different situation but with my daughter (who is just a couple weeks younger than Emma, I started watching you when you were still pregnant with her!) I had to have a c-section because my pelvic inlet seems narrow. My doctor told me in the future I could try to do a VBAC if I really wanted to try, but the risk of me needing another C-section was likely around 95%. I'm with you on preferring a hospital birth and baby's safety being a top priority! Fast forward to now and I'm currently 12.5 weeks pregnant with fraternal twins! We're opting to schedule a c-section at 38 weeks (when our practice delivers twins). I feel like it's the least risky option, personally. It's hard when you're given choices but the choices come with a number of risks. If the ECV feels too risky to you, go with your gut and go with the c-section. I know I'd be the same way, like not wanting to possibly choose the choice with more risks and possibly have anything happen. While my losses were early, I had a miscarriage before my daughter, and a chemical pregnancy before the twins. So I'm so paranoid about making sure I'm doing things to keep the babies safe and healthy. Whatever you choose, I wish you the best of luck, a smooth delivery/recovery and that baby girl is healthy and happy! 💜

[@beverlywinter7625]

#3 sounds like the best option to me. Safest for you and baby. Good luck with whatever you choose ♥

[@shari102476]

Healthy mom. Healthy baby. Whatever keeps you both safe is the best choice. Good luck. So close!!!!!!!

[@karengrainger5834]

Emma's little kiss was so sweet at the end.

[@9384cows]

I have had an extremely difficult natural delivery - over 51 years ago and an emergency c-section after being in labor for over 96 hours and almost died. That was 40 years ago today and we are both alive and well. I would go on the safe side and do the c-section. That protects both you and the baby. Please don't take chances. Maybe you can get some friends to help you or maybe hire a college girl to help with the other kids when you come out of the hospital. But please choose the safest way. You will get through it. Best of luck to you. You are in my prayers.🙏💖