I have tried to leave my husband 12 times, served him divorce papers and he still fought for us | LN

The truth of this story is, that Santos loves Venus and Venus loves him right back. The couple has been together for 21 years and might pass for what everyone would call, "Couple Goals".
But the other truth is, Venus has packed 12 times ready to leave her husband, and even served him divorce papers twice. On the other hand, Santos has drunk and slept outside only to walk home in the morning and have his young daughter open the door for him only to ask, "Daddy, where are you coming from".
So, how has their marriage survived the test of time?
Why would Venus fast and pray for her husband for 15 years and why did Santos decide to fight so hard for his wife and children?
Let's all find out together on this episode of LNS
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[@LynnNgugi]

Good morning team LNN, What message do you have for this lovely couple? Feel free to reach them on Santos: 0722842424 and Venus on 0722816167 Also feel free to Subscribe to Venus KZbin channel here kzbin.info/door/DLG6Ozl2ZNa3b-Z5Ue_Cxw We thank you for your love and support💛💛

[@jeddymoon3803]

Wanna thankyou them for showing us that marriage still works...

[@michellekungu8536]

Lynn you look amazing.🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for this platform. Thank you to the guests.

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Counseling is a good thing and it's often not for sick or mad people but for everyone. Therapy is about one's mental wellness. I am a Counseling psychologist and can attest to what Venus is saying 100%. Big up my colleague Venus and your amazing hubby, Santos. It is well with you.

[@bettiedaytoday9389]

Lynn aki I haven't finished watching this story,but pls bring this woman to the show again,she is a vibe and has alot of wisdom about marriage pls let her come back

[@gracewagaki966]

@@bettiedaytoday9389 please 🥺 I support you dear

[@marynjoki3658]

In my opinion. I think you both started not at the right place. If you had done the ndoa counseling to prepare you for marriage. Maybe you would not have gone to your home 12 times. I also believe, God would not direct you to sin by yoking yourself with someone who is not a believer. Lastly, I do not support parents sending back their daughters when they come back home just because there was a big wedding. I am happy that your marriage is working but let us not glorify some things in the name of being real. Some things are just mistakes that we should avoid as believers. It is a great talk because a lot of marriages are in these kind of situations but for those who have not yet gotten in this institution. Just avoid some things.

[@atienolynne]

Flipping into comments to see who has noticed Robert Burale's image 🤔 😀 Very interesting story ... keep sowing Lynn 🤗

[@faithmbithe1155]

Yeah he looks like him kabisa

[@gracenzomo9386]

Copy n paste of burale

[@nekoyevayola801]

He looks like Robert

[@annewangari3466]

I first had to listen to what names he has as he looks like Bulale.looking closely their looks are slightly differerent.

[@puritymurimi4480]

I thought it's him

[@kobbykanyu148]

Marriage is work, but it shouldn't be confused with 'kuteseka'😂.

[@wanjikumuragu5113]

Exactly... I can't do all this work for now 😂😂😂

[@stellachepngetich8043]

@@wanjikumuragu5113 me too😂😂,

[@doreenkanje9839]

I tell you sijaoleka but nikifikiria challenge zenye watu husema I stop kupenda woiii 🤣🤣🤣🙈

[@wanjikumuragu5113]

@@doreenkanje9839 take a bottle on my bill juu weuh

[@Zee-qm3vr]

This very comment shd be pinned. Kuteseka mi siko. I love myself too much to endure pain in the name of love. Pain doesn't have to be physical, emotional pain kills too

[@djZezeman]

The world is full of confusion,, some will tell you to pray for your husband or wife to change, others will tell you that you can’t pray for your cheating partner 🤔🤔 so which is which 😞😞, choose your confusion wisely 😊

[@sharonmamatwins]

Me and you the same whatsapp group..I've learned to choose my confusion, sometimes we pray for someone's rib

[@payingitforwardwithcarol]

The man was willing to change. Not everyone is willing to

[@truphenafredrick8431]

Hahaha confused

[@margaretwangari5422]

Wee umesema ukweli yoooote🤣🤣🤣

[@shikuliz4134]

Very true let's choose our suffering wisely 😂

[@hanifahmulindwa6899]

Watching from Uganda 🇺🇬 greetings our neighbors from Kenya 🇰🇪 please vote wisely

[@bellaolum9768]

Thanks @Hanifah, we will 😊

[@ananciataodindo7044]

Thank you 🇰🇪❤️🙏🏾

[@janetkambo804]

God will guide us Hanifa Thank you.

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

Thank you dear

[@michaelkaguthi5685]

Sure,we will

[@Africanvillagetee]

It was toxic until it wasn't toxic anymore. Not every one can deal with toxic relationships fir 12 years

[@pollynjonge2087]

You said it.

[@teresiamaina9573]

True......

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

👏👏

[@kidsentertainmenthub4126]

👏👏👏👏

[@neemamwiksmwanzia4617]

painful

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Lynn indeed you look absolutely amazing in that dress....together with your warm ❤, passion and commitment to your cause, you are a 99.9% fully packaged woman. No doubt the man in your life or shall one day be, shall be a lucky one. I pray that he never hurts you. I affirm you 100%. Keep it up. The guests are equally amazing and blessed like you and God's grace is sufficient for all of you 👪 👏👏 Behind the Camera there is an incredible, shy and very competent clue led by the awesome Ochieng that your fans Lynn never get to see despite the fact that they carry a substantial amount of contribution to your daily content. I personally acknowledge and affirm them. It's never easy to package such captivating and educative content day in day out without sheer hard work. Ochieng accept my sincere affirmation of your role in this globally acclaimed masterpiece-content. Big up man..

[@rosemarydavid3871]

Congratulations to you Lynn..love this show to end.. God bless you good people and bring them back many times.

[@omatomusic1885]

Wow! I have learnt a lot today. I was once a victim in a toxic marriage and the partner was not willing to change even after trying every way possible to work things out🤔 I had to quit and even forgot everything about the past marriage 💪 I am happy and proud to say today that after moving on, good things came into my way👏👏 I have a wonderful wife ,handsome son, have a good paying job and many projects that were stuck by then are now complete and others are still going on. I really thank God. There is no more stress,drama,ulcers. What a blessing of a perfect family from the Creator❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@faithmulewa4595]

Wooow,all the best

[@margaretmacharia7330]

its not perfect as you can see she has been trying to leave. the African men #hould learn to appreciate their wives

[@vincentomondi5612]

Wow blessings bro

[@Impossibly_gorgeous]

If your former spouse is still alive your current union is adulterous by biblical standards.

[@sakuraesther6309]

@@Impossibly_gorgeous But it is forgivable . Eiiii you guys dont even call out physical abusers like this

[@katepetals]

As much as I appreciate their vulnerability, I see alot of glorified red flags only for her to brand them religious names. I don't get how she calmly say that infidelity is "part"of marriage struggles. The moment she said that a friend offered to help her when she wanted to seek legal council only for her to castigate her and call her names yet she is the one who sought help. You were gaslit to think in a certain way, and just because you do, doesn't make it true / correct. So many red flags but she's trying so hard to turn them green.

[@GeeksGumbot]

Hahahha

[@bethmainagakunga4017]

Have been married 22yrs also and have parked twice but hv fought for this marriage to stand with GODS grace am still here he loves me and the children sooo much ..its not easy but its doable..i have four children 2girls and two boys

[@LynnNgugi]

Amen and Amen...we are here for these kinda testimonies❤️❤️

[@infuse_keepingyouinformed]

I love this. Only God will make you stand, fight in prayers

[@janehughes6927]

I have been married for 25 and have never packed my bags that doesnt mean we never fought we did since marriage is not a bed of roses.

[@CHD1718]

God bless you 💞

[@joycenyambura6054]

Lynn you are heavenly sent.i almost walked out of my marriage today then came across this video it just touch me and will truly fight for my marriage.God bless

[@njokimunene588]

May the Grace of God be sufficient for you Girl... Nothing is impossible With our God dear.

[@rosebellewaihenya4888]

Why does marriage in an African context feel like the guy living his best life and the woman hurting everyday. A lot of women come out of these marriage with terrible diseases, I feel like a lot of his bad behaviours was hidden or put out as domestics. I would never want my daughter to sacrifice her life for a man hoping that he’ll change. I’m happy that she’s happy but these are the marriages that are making women suicidal.

[@mende72]

This is what I commented. I also wonder, with great wonder! Something is truly wrong!

[@teejayangel6638]

Very true and good observation. But am glad that more and more Kenyan men are changing and have seen a need to change that narrative, which is good for future generations. There's hope for Kenyan marriages, and I hear your concerns, there's no way am going to allow someone's child to marry or be married to my child and I've spent time and resources allowing God to teach me to bring up my child in a Godly way while you checked out of your child's life never teaching your child as I did.

[@kammusic22]

@@teejayangel6638 true, some parents are just sending their kids to their parents .

[@susanmbataru7163]

Know yourself first na ujipende,,,,no one is responsible for your happiness except you...na upunguze expectations....You can only give what you have ....

[@staceyobiya6523]

Your soo right.women tend to suffer more while men enjoy their lives.

[@lilywhite8029]

Can we just appreciate how young and beautiful they look. Wow! I want my marriage like this

[@praizesjovial209]

Yeah they look wow❤💕, amen to that. I want my marriage to be best, though I know nobody is perfect BT we are perfected by God.

[@lucynjuguna9653]

Unless you are ready to go through what they have

[@lilywhite8029]

@@lucynjuguna9653 I think it is in the mind. Not forgetting yourself because you are married. A good skin routine, some movies, some good intimacy and taking it easy.Above all, maombi

[@naomim104]

Benjamin Zulu needs to review this😄....there are certain tears that you can avoid. Kindly don't start your relationships this way. Their "luck" may not be yours.

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

Amen!!

[@Farmingisgood]

Sure

[@NLRita]

Relationships, Christianity and Kenyans we can be so interesting. A few minutes in- "I was a church girl (because that's what I was taught, by a family which left me with trust issues (read childhood trauma), he was a raha guy (read character development)...but 'God told me this is the one'...and then I shikiliad for 21 years as guy found himself" 😅. No thanks. Women, let's work on self love, self worth, self awareness and maybe these trauma bonds will not be passed down to the younger generation.🥶. I am very curious about whether the kids are going for therapy and especially the girl children, what's their perception of marriage ?

[@DorisWanjohiGifttv]

Waaa more reason why we need Benjamin Zulu in our homes speaking with a loudspeaker system daily

[@odionugbiyobo2316]

The man in this story showed commitment and he also took responsibility which is not common in some African men especially when they are in the wrong. The lady is just exceptional in understanding and in knowledge. God bless your beautiful marriage it takes two.

[@carolinekolom5510]

A friend that cares will take your word as you put it….. sending you money doesn’t mean your friend was bad. I feel you should withdraw your words……

[@michaelalando]

I have a friend whose wife left him 17 times, going back to her parents. (She secretly told me this story - not him - after my wife had left me for the second time). Each time he went back for her. When she took off the 18th time and he went for her, her mother told her: "if you leave him again do not come back here." The lady was ultimately very grateful for the advice and especially that her man had gone back for her again and again and not given up. AT the time in the 17th year of their marriage, she was advising me not to give up - which I had done as a man fed-up after 10 years of marriage. They remain happily married and to watch them lovey-dovey you couldn't believe all that had taken place.

[@annnjuguna6560]

Amazing!!

[@aqulinamusyoki4216]

Like me every year like twice l back to my parents, because my bbe heartbroken me.telling myself enough is enough and found myself again back to my marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔

[@marthangili2455]

BBC Africa

[@spectra.4840]

@@aqulinamusyoki4216 Work on you're cminication skills,so.that you can clearly and effectively share with him what you want and don't want what you feel basically effectively communication around all issues.

[@spectra.4840]

@@aqulinamusyoki4216 Am an introvert and would always withdraw and go silent instead of addressing issues,then run back home,but once I identified my weakness,worked on myself we are in a better place now,very happy celebrating 27 years and 4 babies.

[@janengari827]

This was the best couple's discussion ever. Thanks Santo and Venus. Many blessings.

[@divinegirl5670]

Why do african women have to suffer and go through struggle love this much until the men grow up??

[@bancymunene3436]

This was a wonderful conversation. my take home.... 1. pray, pray, pray. 2. Don't lose yourself in marriage, love n build yourself as much as you can. 3. Don't be quick to pack... answers to prayers take time. 4. The devil is not happy with a successful marriage, he will try to steal, kill and destroy. Refuse, God has provided a life in abundance for all of us. 5. Ask for help, don't die alone. 6. Communication is key. 7. Read number 2 Thrice.

[@hendrinanzwala7266]

I read #2 many times. Very very important.

[@josephineokwoyo9155]

Amen

[@saloshaddy248]

Good student

[@wanyamuthimookariuki2012]

Numbers 2...God has a good plan...yes keep patience..

[@perismonchari5378]

The gentleman looks like Robert Burale's brother........God bless the family

[@lorrainemwangi3526]

😀😀😀 I was thinking that in my mind he could pass for his brother

[@faithmbithe1155]

Kabisa he looks like him

[@jaynenjenga3718]

Yeaaaaa... Lol!

[@marthamwangangi5433]

Ithout its him

[@faithaudi3061]

Very mixed feelings here 1. As a parent you do not chase away your children when they come back to you, first just welcome them embrace them and give them a safe space until they are ready to talk or ready to go back. 2. She calls the so called friends who were ready to help her with money to sort her divorce as not a friend. This lady made her decision to leave she filed for divorce and she did not have the money and a friend was there for her... how then do you call the same person not a true friend???? As for the salvation good for both

[@jpwabob8149]

Asking same question....in my opinion that was a friend in need.

[@gracewahome7667]

@Faith Audi sorry i dont want to disagree with your comment but i have understood her 100% coz i have gone through the same with the so called best friends! Sometimes we need to be wise coz they may come in so quickly in the name of friendship to help but secretly they envy what you have and they can do anything to help you loose a good chance in life or in this case a good partner.

[@faithaudi3061]

@@gracewahome7667 when friends are there for you you call it envy when they say no you say "not one of them was willing to help" the friend did what she asked for she asked for money what else was the lady supposed to do??? Tell her to stay? Then thats when shes a friend?

[@mimikimanga3126]

Me too naona anaongea sanaa but it’s jst her lucky that huyo cheating husband didn’t infect her with diseases and she didn’t die due to depression and leave her children while yo man gets another wife woiiiiiiii Afu anamlaumu huyo mtu as bad Frnd akati ye mwenyewe ndo kampigia na kamwambia amefikia pabaya she needs money for divorce 🥺yan alitakaje sijui mtu amwambie endelea kuoambana hadi ufe juu ya marriage

[@mimikimanga3126]

@@faithaudi3061 aki faith me huyu mmama hapo amenikwazaaa hata haeleweki

[@ideasruleourworld]

Dear Lynn,well done. I feel this couple needs to start a KZbin channel on marriage so they could help other couples

[@TheMillenialClub]

I love the humor Venus have, she's just funny 😆..

[@gladwellnjenga2872]

I'll comment later but before I forget LADIES when we pack to leave....let's not leave the CAT behind 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shamaglory8934]

😂😂😂🙌

[@beverlyseko965]

Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LynnNgugi]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@roryntamale1414]

Dead🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣cat

[@stellahwanyoike7865]

😅😅😅😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@babygurlll968]

If africans dont suffer in marriage then its not a successful marriage🤣🤣

[@86liljo]

😒😒😒 imagine.

[@serahkimani8562]

1. Make sure your marriage is from God(helps you avoid a lot of trauma and heartache) 2. When you build your spouse, do it whole heartedly and also make sure you grow as well !

[@wanyagahostrich2443]

Lynn leo unatesa kutesa na hio dress 👗 u look mwaah 🥰

[@immanjeri9242]

This year my marriage has been crazy and very tough and was almost leaving. After listening to you guys I have decided to fight for my marriage. Thanks Lynn for bringing them on this show.

[@dianakilonzo5617]

But know what you are Fighting my dia he is willing to fight with you otherwise think well you don't end up leaving your kids or kid motherless

[@WhatsPoppin-z]

Ukiskia tu mwanamke anasema her marriage is tough, jua tu the man is doing all sorts of nonesense. Sasa fighting for marriage anataka kuomba na kuforce therapy with a man who is living her best life. Endeleeni kufight

[@luvaipatrick]

@@WhatsPoppin-z Wow, I didn't know women are angels, so, kukiwa na shida kwa marriage, mwanaume ndio mbaya? Righteous one!!

[@WhatsPoppin-z]

@@luvaipatrick yes. I hope that answer satisfies your narrow notion.

[@luvaipatrick]

@@WhatsPoppin-z I won't engage you further, it's a waste of my precious time.

[@MinAaliyah]

I would listen to this woman Venus over and over again without getting bored... She's such a vibe 👍❤️❤️

[@namusanaakiiki7347]

God is great and powerful. GOD Almighty IS a GOD of all the flesh nothing is impossible for HIM. Jeremiah,32:27.

[@emeldahnjoki7045]

I listened through almost without a blink. Purpose is strong, beautiful couple, beautiful story.

[@janemusyoki7846]

When Venus said "I thought I was gonna get married to a pastor" then Santos laughs his heart out😂😂

[@abainelydia9456]

"Accept, Adjust and Advance" "No one is perfect" Such a blessing to listen to such amazing people. And the way LN explores their knowledge and experience is so magnificent.

[@jamilasalim7165]

Watching from Iraq grettings my fellow Kenya's

[@jeffgachiri6072]

A lady who has done this repeatedly can do it anytime..sometimes financial security is wht makes such women stay

[@janemusyoki7846]

As if venus is not financially stable...zip it insecure man

[@janetkageha9878]

I have been married for exactly thirty years,and this session has teach me alotand it has made me know that I have alot to work on to my marriage and family as a whole..

[@joywkimathi]

In the African context of marriage most often than not women suffer the most while men live there best lives. Especially in their youthful years. Coming to think of it your late 20s and 30s should be the best years to spend together. I assume it's when your getting babies, working, investing it should be the time you understand and work as a team. Its just sad that people realise themselves in their 40s and 50s while your heading to retirement and probably you've missed a large part of your partner and your children preteen years which are essentially to forming their future believes.

[@felistawangari4146]

Bitter truth and Quite unfortunate!

[@anik8204]

This story… First, not all marriages have this degree of drama. Biggest red flag was her marrying someone, clearly knowing his lifestyle but hoping to change him. Two, her father sending her back home is nothing to laugh about. Luckily there was no physical abuse involved. Three, all I hear is an emotionally immature young bride that threw tantrums in various ways trying to elicit a reaction from her husband. The two were incompatible from the very start. A major component in any marriage. In my opinion the only thing that saved this marriage was the husband’s calm nature. I’ve been married over twenty years and as a woman even I got exhausted listening to her drama back then. Yes he had issues but, she married someone who did not uphold anything she stood for, then proceeded to blame him for not living up to her standards. I also cannot agree with the idea of encouraging women to spend years of their married lives miserable, praying that someone will change. Meanwhile your own life is passing you by. Marriage should be harmonious from beginning to end, even with day to day life challenges. But choose compatible partners. Finally, regarding man caves… they need it. Let them retreat from time to time and leave them alone. Women, occupy your time with other things in the meantime. He will eventually come out mentally ready to engage.

[@achiengomondi6594]

You do have some interesting takes on it.

[@lovelydays1412]

I agree 💯.

[@Impossibly_gorgeous]

If a man gets a man cave then women should have places where they can get away from him and the kids and come out when she is ready to engage. People need to stop handling grown men with kid gloves. He should get the same energy he puts out

[@bigjoebj4639]

You nailed it. My opinion is that, she's selfish and a control freak. The majority of men hate conflict and confrontation especially with a woman. Man cave is our only safe heaven at that point. She even tries to pull him from his man cave.

[@hellespont1]

@@Impossibly_gorgeous women already have those spaces through their circles of friends which every woman does... That is her woman cave. Men don't normally confide on emotive issues with their comrades and use man cave to weather the storms of personal issues...he needs that space to resolve the happenings within himself before sorting it with the spouse. Anyone who cares about him should let him deal with issues internally until when he is ready... It's similar to asking a woman not to talk to her circle of friends yet thst is her system to weather the storms. Pointing fingers solves nothing.. Understanding is everything. Men and women are different with different needs and behavioral patterns. In the same way you think having a man cage is being treated with kids glove is the same way men think need for constant attention by women is being petty... Appreciating each others differences is the solution

[@keziahwahu3016]

Oh no baby this ain’t it ! Struggle love should not be worn as a badge of honor ! We need to stop glamorizing struggle love . Women , esp African women have been groomed to go through the fire , to the limit , pushed to the wall , being dragged through the mud by their men just to prove their love in the relationship. Men expect their women to put up with things they know very well they wouldn’t put up with if they were in that position. The amount of times a male will cheat on his woman and then pray and beg for her to stick around and work through the pain and stay with him . If the script was flipped , would your partner have endured that pain and stayed as well ? Yes love can be hard , but it’s not meant to be difficult. Same way it’s meant to be simple but it’s not always easy . Stay away from relationships that keep on attacking your peace . Love isn’t a constant battle . We need to raise our kids to know better ! I wouldn’t want my kids to see me going back and forth all those times in the name of fighting for my marriage . No no !

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

Amen Mama, there is no badge of honor for tolerating such abuse! When the man would have discarded you the first time you did anything!

[@felistawangari4146]

Well said 💪,a prayer item for the rest of your life nhhh NO!

[@sheewamungu3010]

The two of you looks so good together. Wish you the very best.

[@anjelineadhiambo5954]

This is what love really mean. They all made an effort and that's why they're where they're. Am inspired as a woman. thanks Lynn am natured

[@katekarume8338]

The relationship between human beings and pain ……

[@rosebellewaihenya4888]

Or a relationship between two people who are not equally Yorker. The bible preaches against marrying unbelievers.

[@MinAaliyah]

Beautiful Couple with an amazing story. I'm inspired. Thanks LN for the great show... I'm a single Mum and still trusting God to have a family. when the time is right he will make everything beautiful ❤️

[@sylviaakinyi310]

😂😂😂😂😂😂ati alipack everything mpaka paka nimecheka yangu yote huyu ni Moto wa kuotea mbali

[@86liljo]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ananciataodindo7044]

Wishing you all my fellow Kenyans back at home to vote wisely and maintain Peace Amani my lovely brothers and sisters ❤️🙏🏿🇰🇪🇰🇪lovely story and a fantastic couple

[@anneketu6860]

Yes ✌️ Lets pray 4 peace

[@ananciataodindo7044]

@@anneketu6860 Yes darling we should ☝🏿Tuko pamoja

[@ritahqueen4821]

You better come on ground and vote

[@janewanguiwamuyu4079]

Sorry for being out of topic, someone answer my question please are Kenyan abroad allowed to vote for Kenyan general election??

[@hustlernationisunstoppable4083]

@@janewanguiwamuyu4079 will be voting for president only

[@philisimbuga8307]

They're an amazing couple.thats what we call couple goals.i really enjoyed watching them expressing there feelings towards each other.may God bless that union

[@JulietMigwiInspires]

Venus and Santos, so great to hear your story. I was there 21 years ago when you met, you still look so good together😍 I have loved how vulnerable both of you were as you shared your journey and the wisdom you have garnered in the process. I can see and testify of that character development. Look at what the Lord has done!! Surely, there is hope for marriages after listening to you. Can't wait to hear about the pillars of marriage🤩 Lynn, I love how you guide and direct conversations. You are a beautiful and wonderful host!🥰

[@loreenjoyce4006]

BUT THERE ARE SOME MARRIAGES THAT YOU CANT ENDURE. OTHERWISE MARRIAGE IS BEAUTIFUL AND WORKS. ALL THE BEST,AS YOU CONTINUE IMPACTING LIVES.

[@eddnamakori3591]

Never look for a pretty face it will turn old one day, Never look for perfect skin it will wrinkle one day, Never look for colourful hair it will turn white one day and lastly Never look for perfect man/woman no one is perfect instead look for a royal heart that will love you and Never change

[@sherryrazan8690]

Perfectly said....💯

[@jeddymoon3803]

Marriage is not easy. It takes compromise, sacrifice, and revealing yourself to another person. However, if you are willing to work and submit to the process, it Mostlty promises great reward.

[@susanmbataru7163]

I really needed to hear this, I feel encouraged.

[@hmackennatv3989]

This is what I have wanted to see for a long time…a show with healing 👏👏👏👏

[@wanjirusspace]

Thank Lynn for this particular episode. The couple has taught us a lot about marriage. I love their vulnerability, the fact that there is no perfect marriage. it takes hard work to make it work and both parties have to be willing to cooperate. Good job Venus and Santos.

[@mikesgenerators2068]

True my sister, we should learn to accept and amend the marriage we all accepted to love

[@kobbykanyu148]

I wouldn't send my daughter back to circumstances she is running away from. She should always feel like she can come to me. Going back should be her decision.

[@ananciataodindo7044]

Exactly but God has his ways of things if you do listen till the end Venus is the dramatic type so I believe her father knew his daughter 😄

[@Miz-B]

I was just thinking how effed up sending her back sounded to me.

[@susankhayanga]

@@Miz-B h. Y

[@susankhayanga]

Mbbm Mmmmh Jbm

[@judithopili7445]

Very educative

[@jeddymoon3803]

If someone or something is meant for you,surely it will will stay

[@janiimutugi3942]

💯

[@teresakiruthi4261]

Very true

[@CHD1718]

Amen

[@lyrickyms2408]

I know Santos,we grew up in the same neighborhood.Thanks for sharing your story.... marriage is a beautiful blessing.

[@damariskaroki5455]

Lilly?

[@suzzykaroki6518]

I love this couple and the fact that their marriage worked after alot some of us were not able to be patient on. I've learnt alot and May those who are entering into marriage learn from this couple, as well as those in marriages already. God bless you more ❤️

[@phoebemukhwana3058]

Amen

[@sallyakinyi3638]

Did they just say they are above 40s ....ooh my they look very young..am so happy for them and thanks for encouraging us

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Love keeps you physically young

[@lydiahnduta]

Marriage is not battle, wise people make it work! This is proverbs 31 woman really we don't submit foolishly, this type of man is thorn that Paul had, God couldn't remove it! 😰 He changed him at his own time! Life lessons! Kudos Lynn for positive story! You're absolutely smart 🙏

[@naomikoinase1154]

Lynn you look amazing. Everything on point .. hair, Dress, shoos, The face! Aiiiii you are beautiful 😍

[@LynnNgugi]

Thank you..wacheni Mungu aitwe Mungu..kwa hii show lazima ninge manifest🤣💛💛

[@naomikoinase1154]

Awwwww!!!!! Aki I'm going to print this comment. 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gracekamau3263]

@@LynnNgugi looking stunning 🤩 my dear

[@Okeezy-v7g]

That dress mama, it must be happy being worn by Lynn. 🔥

[@lidiahmukiria8553]

I want to know what happened to that Lady whose her hair was plucked,and the sweet daughter please ...

[@LynnNgugi]

Hello Mukiria, we will be bringing you that follow up soon💛💛

[@kasyokakano]

Sure,we are waiting for that

[@margaretnjau1595]

Me too

[@zimbazimba1000]

There’s a lot of enlightening information in this episode. Truth be told all this is true, however sometimes one is dealing with a narcissist in the relationship and that is a totally different ballgame. Narcissists don’t change.

[@philipndiema2228]

This marriage survived because the couple had passionate love for each other and Mr Santos was not physically abusive.

[@Gichiritrizah_Ke]

This lady is just a vibe. Her energy is on another level and I can see how passionate she is about marriage and making marriages work💖💖I 've learned a lot.

[@Wanjamburu.23]

She's brilliant. Each of them are very aware of what they at individual levels. The good thing is he was willing to change for the better. Marriage is very tricky. You came in there not knowing your temperament or his, dealing with issues of the past,then the package of children, inlaws, friends,finances, drunkardness and so forth only God can help. Its never easy.

[@essietapewa9044]

:God did not creat marriage for them to break" .....wow this got me♥️

[@rosegallus4048]

Blocking him on whatsapp as he's typing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's epic!

[@mercy.joseph]

From every LNS shows have watched...just learnt that we should put God in everything we do...a single prayer can move a mountain.

[@esthernyokabi3225]

Can we count the number of times that Santo has reffered to his wife's point or remarks 🤗🤗🤗.. simply beautiful ❤️💕

[@paulinemaina9695]

Am in my twenties and this is the best platform I get to learn more and more things about life. I love it when Santos says you can lose 80 when focusing on 20 .

[@light7933]

LNN CHANNEL ❤️❤️❤️ & BENJAMIN ZULU CHANNEL❤️❤️❤️

[@paulinemaina9695]

They are so educative

[@dorisgakii6896]

manze ata mimi that really hit the soul 😃..a deep take home!

[@maureenwanja9708]

My mom says you can lose 9 when chasing that 1

[@MAYWAHITO]

I have my own reservations about this, but I leave it here,.

[@tripletsfoundationfpb9852]

Am encouraged marriage is not a scam, true love exists

[@komuramuziagnes342]

True. After undergoing toxic marriage with the daddy of my kid, God blessed me with one. Love u Akiiki

[@Yvonne7220]

True I believe love is such a beautiful thing

[@limitlesswoman1540]

Mmmh, toxic narsistic scent here, she has been subjected to the norm untill she feels that its oky, well happy for them and all the best but weeeh!issa no

[@estahadassah9470]

Thank you for this discussion 😍. That was the shortest 2 hours that I've watched. The kiss 😘 was wonderful; keep that love burning 🔥.Today I complimented hubby on his outfit 🌟. It's important to tell your partner what hurts you about his behavior. It's equally important to do things for him that he really likes 💞

[@sharonnzuki2747]

Beautiful story there… As you pray for a husband, pray and wait for one who is ready to become a husband not just one that wants a wife. After and while praying, WAIT! The art of waiting not just praying is something that has been lost by our generation. Waiting! Yes he might be the one, even God may say he is the one. But more than just getting married, you must not marry him until God thoroughly trains him on becoming a good husband, leader, a good father and priest of your home!! Amos 3:3, shall two walk together except they agree….. life is too short to spend 12years of it praying for character change. Meanwhile, Lynn Ngugi and Zulu are such a blessing to this generation ❤️ listening to their wisdom will bless you

[@seseih-Barney]

Dear ladies... An elderly woman once told me..you know how we love marriages and comfort when we are in our 20's n 30's.its the same comfort men. Want in their 40's n 50's.so if a man misbehaves earlier on in your marriage n changes years on...it's not answered prayer...it's now that he needs comfort and a home to come back to...and heshima ya society...ati ithe WA ng'ania na kuitwa function za wazee

[@NLRita]

He actually said this.

[@lillianwanjiru887]

Word!

[@Nancymutahi66]

How many were waiting for an introduction with "Churchill in it😂😂 "marriage ain't a joke ..that's all I can say for now...it needs two partners who are ready,focused and with the same goal to create an empire

[@carolinenjuguna16]

Very true

[@joyritakarimi1828]

Thanks Lynn for this show I have learnt a lot. I have understood myself better because I have been raised by abusive dad who instilled alot of fear in us and I think this as been hunting me for many years...and now I have to work on myself... Venus she is blessed she is such a vibe...

[@eddnamakori3591]

Trust me or not most of our friends secretly hate us

[@erib254]

Very true, only God is the true friend.

[@yolisamrso9827]

True

[@annkariuki1108]

Aki these great lady amenifungua macho...mimi nikikasirika,nakuaga kaa nimezitupa..lakini nimelearn the importance of keeping calm when am angry nisiseme maneno itahurt my partner for the rest of his life..thanks for talking about this great couple ..hamjui mmesaidia watu wangapi?b blessed

[@Thegoldenone01]

A whole marriage sermon right here🔥🔥💯

[@Karol_Lynne]

wow!, she's so beautiful.This episode gave me such positive vibes .Marriage does work

[@gracegachagua5997]

Wow! so inspiring and insightful

[@Theincredibleme-98]

Lynn is elegant man......♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@thisandthat1523]

This is Low self esteem, struggle love ! There is NO medal, honor or dignity about " enduring" deliberate pain caused by another. Have self love, DONT fall for it.🏌🏾

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

Absolutely!!

[@jayneeeeeee]

True

[@keziahwahu3016]

I agree !

[@elizamuriuki9442]

I have been looking for this comment. Thank you

[@yolisamrso9827]

Let people live their life the way they know how

[@jlmchannel5579]

Lyn you are tesaring for real❤️❤️❤️, about marriage is not a walk in the park but with God it works . Married for 10 years now ,weee ! 🤣🤣🤣. May God bless marriages 🙏🏿

[@suziemsoo6725]

I love them this is love ❤️💯 growing together and understanding each other.....😂😂😂😂I love her dramas and talks nacheka tu

[@ashlykho5663]

I agree with what Venus is saying about friends....I lost my son's dad because of my best friend.. only bathday gift ilifanya mwanaume aniwache na mtoi till now my boy is a 2rd yr in university I cry to date friends friends be careful always

[@stephutooni]

I wish my wish can read this.

[@stephutooni]

Thank you Ashley.

[@letenjoylifewithjesus8592]

Me am victim of going for 20 and almost lost 80 but thank God I changed my mind and went back to my husband.

[@OFFICIALCHARITYWILLY]

It's a shame the dad chased her. Just shows how people live for the society. Sad

[@michaelalando]

I know many daughters whose fathers know them to be spoilt brats. Not all are but many are. One woman was leaving her husband because her best friend's husband had bought her best friend a VW GTI. This first woman had a Toyota saloon which her husband had bought her from showroom "firsthand" just shortly before and she got filled with jealousy. She did not talk to her husband for two months until he bought her a GTI too. That is a spoilt brat and there are many, many, many spoilt brat stories.

[@infuse_keepingyouinformed]

If he didnt chase her, you couldn't been hearing this today. God works in many forms

[@michaelalando]

@@lifewithtshidiedza381 a good percentage of parents in modern Africa value their daughters and will not tolerate them being physically abused. But if your daughter feels mentally abused - in this case both she and Santos were suffering mentally - and so returns to the ghetto with two kids for you to take care of henceforth instead of dealing with the problem it shows you why society decays. The solution in life is not always giving our children what they want and pandering to their feelings. Good advice is critical for persons, family and society to progress. Thankfully Mr. and Mrs. Chengo ultimately chose to work it out together instead of running away from "problems" they had created.

[@infuse_keepingyouinformed]

@@lifewithtshidiedza381 I totally agree with you, but the best part of this story is there was no physical violence at all. For physical violence we cant even get that time to talk.

[@michaelalando]

​@@lifewithtshidiedza381 did you count how many women killed their men last year or so far this year? If you married a violent spouse (usually these are elopements based on looks, lusts and sex and/or money and not on God's Standards, Teachings and Wisdom - they are come-we-stay immoral relationships) flee the first time they strike you or shows a hint. One slap is enough. Infidelity is also grounds for separation if you have not been withholding sex from your partner or using it as a weapon which many do and then cry out when the spouse finds sexual replacement. But if your spouse hides behind alcohol because he/she finds it difficult to deal with your madness when he/she is sober, it is not a signal to destroy the children's shelter - the home - when there is the option to humble yourself, take a step back, calm down and work out a solution.

[@victoriamalaki8673]

Venus, youre very lucky to have a man who supports you especially through taking care of you and your children. Thank you for sharing.

[@smt4720]

Blessed 🙌

[@TheMillenialClub]

I like Santo's personally....Calm, collected and a good listener 😊

[@marywambui2555]

Everyday at 10am, I have to login and check whether Lynn you have posted any Video. Le me sit and watch this incredible show

[@nolayasopiato]

Same to me here

[@doreenmwenda939]

Tuko wengi kumbe😄😄

[@jennifergicharu4392]

Lynn u luk gorgeous 🤩

[@ruthpearl2439]

I sat down, listened ,learnt and kept it all in my heart just like Mary the mother of Jesus when she was visited by the angel. Great interview

[@julius7546]

Wow! I love that, like mary kept everything on her heart.

[@Kasweetie_254]

Good morning team LNN, wishing you peaceful elections 🙏💘 Kenya ni yetu sote,tudumishe amani🇰🇪

[@jeddymoon3803]

True..We are praying for peace

[@Kasweetie_254]

@@jeddymoon3803 yeah ✌️💯

[@doreenmwenda939]

Love, peace & unity to our nation🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@rachelhirbo3440]

She's 💯 right we need to work on ourselves...

[@cynthiamarere4762]

Awesome Awesome session with the Kyengos! Can't wait for the next!

[@wisdomlife]

Where there's ego, there's no God.... Am learning a lot!