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Hamza Unfiltered

Hamza Unfiltered

2 жыл бұрын

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@db2ez_
@db2ez_ 2 жыл бұрын
“Sometimes You Must Hurt In Order To Know, Fall In Order To Grow, Lose In Order To Gain, Because Life’s Greatest Lessons Are Learned Through Pain.”
@zafiruzoma6234
@zafiruzoma6234 2 жыл бұрын
Bars
@_4L
@_4L 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful dawg
@temporarilyjeffrey7826
@temporarilyjeffrey7826 2 жыл бұрын
Dayuummm..
@dangomangothe1941
@dangomangothe1941 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!
@businessisboomin7252
@businessisboomin7252 2 жыл бұрын
Who's the owner of that quote?
@amaanislam
@amaanislam 2 жыл бұрын
"If it’s endurable, then endure it. If it’s not endurable, then stop complaining. Your destruct will mean its end as well" - Marcus Aurelius
@ahmedhussain8407
@ahmedhussain8407 2 жыл бұрын
same! I started with 6k and now 39k...happy I started with Sonia
@shautsaterkaamanex7150
@shautsaterkaamanex7150 2 жыл бұрын
started my investment with her with a sum of 750$ now I'm at 4200$
@benjaminfranklin2776
@benjaminfranklin2776 2 жыл бұрын
Bitcoin to the Moon 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🌝🌝🌝🌝 Kuma Inu and Hina Inu are hidden 💎💎💎💎💎
@craigmertz1994
@craigmertz1994 2 жыл бұрын
How do I get into these if I'm in newyork?
@craigmertz1994
@craigmertz1994 2 жыл бұрын
Is it too late to get on the Seedify whitelist? I’m trying to save over $5k so I can start
@ITzSa3d
@ITzSa3d 2 жыл бұрын
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering" -Nietzsche
@ayebarberfuckmeup4689
@ayebarberfuckmeup4689 2 жыл бұрын
Not the other way round?
@jahdzki7490
@jahdzki7490 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayebarberfuckmeup4689 yea thats what i thought lmao
@chilliobones5348
@chilliobones5348 2 жыл бұрын
Nietzsche was kinda insane tho
@bencitodifferent2797
@bencitodifferent2797 2 жыл бұрын
RIP DMX
@sinaydos4754
@sinaydos4754 2 жыл бұрын
That's defeatism bro opposite of self improvement
@haneenidreesahmed7908
@haneenidreesahmed7908 2 жыл бұрын
"Don't commit to low quality women just because you're in love with them," - Hamza, 2022.
@GaganDeep-lm8zr
@GaganDeep-lm8zr 2 жыл бұрын
Hamzas is a type of storyteller who makes a group gathering alot more interesting
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
He is good at telling stories.
@doctor_J
@doctor_J 2 жыл бұрын
“To live is to suffer But to survive, that is to find meaning, and to suffer” -DMX ( slippin)
@Nele_NES
@Nele_NES 2 жыл бұрын
Ayo I remembered that song, when I heard that bar first time it hitted home you know, DMX legend though my top 10 fav music artists
@existentialbowlofnoodles2495
@existentialbowlofnoodles2495 2 жыл бұрын
Shouldn’t it be the other way around
@p0dushhka
@p0dushhka 2 жыл бұрын
but isn't he literally quoting Nietzsche -"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering"
@vincentsckopp1918
@vincentsckopp1918 2 жыл бұрын
Its a Nietzsche Quote and DMX quoted him in Slippin
@triple75
@triple75 2 жыл бұрын
deffo a rip off of a Nietzsche quote lmao
@IronEducation
@IronEducation 2 жыл бұрын
My suffering was good for me, for it taught me to pay attention to your decrees. Psalms 119:71
@evolgenius1150
@evolgenius1150 2 жыл бұрын
Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory God will reveal in us. Romans 8:18 He that sow to his flesh shall reap corruption, but he that soweth to the spirit shall reap life everlasting. Galatians 6:8 Bible is FULL of the good wisdom these guys teach and its thousands of years old, no wonder the degenerate culture hates it. I can find tons of scripture on being a man of worth, a masculine man who delays gratification. Who chooses the right path. Having the faith to step out in courage and go after the dream God himself put in their hearts. The culture wants to destroy us, and hide the truth. They tell us lies saying "obeying the Bible is old nonsense for people who dont understand that vice and sexual sin is liberating and progressive. Your life is bad because not of your own choices but because youre a victim." This culture is blind. :( It pains me to see them so lost. I understand beause I was once very lost and totally dead in my sins and addictions. But God heard my plea and Im a completely new person.
@AngelGarcia-oy3yj
@AngelGarcia-oy3yj Жыл бұрын
​@@evolgenius1150 💯💯💯💯💯💯
@thecreator7256
@thecreator7256 2 жыл бұрын
“A man who suffers before it is necessary, suffers more than is necessary” - Lucius Annaeus Seneca
@brandonnotheroic
@brandonnotheroic 2 жыл бұрын
Holy shit I understand this
@businessisboomin7252
@businessisboomin7252 2 жыл бұрын
This hit deeply into my soul bro....gonna screenshot it
@emmanuelbuachie1592
@emmanuelbuachie1592 2 жыл бұрын
Can you explain?
@kayamcanmetin5023
@kayamcanmetin5023 2 жыл бұрын
= work smart not hard
@p0dushhka
@p0dushhka 2 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelbuachie1592 I've found some examples on reddit: TurboTortuga·3 yr. ago I like to use cycling as a metaphor. Sometimes I go cycling. I generally enjoy the ride except for a steep hill at the end of the ride - I hate that hill! If I think about that hill on most of the ride, simply dreading and having unpleasant feelings about the thought of me sweating up that hill, then I suffer even before I reach the hill. Consequence: I end up suffering mentally on the enjoyable parts of the ride, but also when I actually reach the hill. JihadDerp·3 yr. ago When a kid is going to the doctor for a flu shot, he'll cry and flail and scream because he knows it's going to hurt. But a lot of times, the doctor will simply distract the child with a toy or joke and give the shot while they're not looking, and the child doesn't even realize it's happened. The kid freaks out because he thinks the shot is going to be painful. In his mind alone, he creates and reacts to pain that hasn't happened yet. These are really basic and you can go deeper than that, but the general idea is that You should not suffer before the thing happens. You should not worry so much that you suffer about something that might happen in the future. i guess. something like that. :D
@valentinomig
@valentinomig 2 жыл бұрын
I was floored by the vulnerability in this video. Thank you for turning on the camera and bearing your heart for all of us to see. I've been studying your videos for a while and your honesty motivates me to open up more in my own art
@jreverie7018
@jreverie7018 2 жыл бұрын
well said
@Surito
@Surito 2 жыл бұрын
30 seconds in and I feel like Hamza Unfiltered videos are literally like a big of chips 40% content and 60% air like him staring at the camera intensely and breathing
@RunnitupBeats
@RunnitupBeats 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@businessisboomin7252
@businessisboomin7252 2 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, perfect way to up your watch hours
@flame0814
@flame0814 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh the first time when its not necessarily a bad thing
@db2ez_
@db2ez_ 2 жыл бұрын
Hamza ASMR channel 😂😂
@shaymccarthy4868
@shaymccarthy4868 2 жыл бұрын
It’s actually better than highly edited fast paced vids tho isn’t it
@ZA-td8hf
@ZA-td8hf 2 жыл бұрын
"Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor" - Alexis Carrell.
@akh803
@akh803 2 жыл бұрын
Al-Hasan al-Basri (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Do not resent the calamities that come and the disasters that occur, for perhaps in something that you dislike will be your salvation, and perhaps in something that you prefer will be your doom.”
@danyal6211
@danyal6211 2 жыл бұрын
"Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men."
@yaniedb4641
@yaniedb4641 2 жыл бұрын
The honesty is beautiful bro. It’s amazing how you’re able to be this open with this large of an audience. Hats off to you.
@sheikhskype
@sheikhskype 2 жыл бұрын
لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear
@jeweerly2319
@jeweerly2319 2 жыл бұрын
Yet people kill themselves daily but ok
@arih3133
@arih3133 2 жыл бұрын
just curious, why there are people still commit suicide if that statement is true?
@hussain_abbas7789
@hussain_abbas7789 2 жыл бұрын
@@arih3133 people do suicide on stupid things,doesnt mean that that stupid thing was too much for the soul
@turnaroundanddie118
@turnaroundanddie118 2 жыл бұрын
@@arih3133 first you need to believe in life after death,because if you think that this life is all there is,you're just gonna end up killing yourself the minute things go bad,and people often underestimate how much they can take.
@tonyaltobello6885
@tonyaltobello6885 2 жыл бұрын
@@hussain_abbas7789 my brother in christ their suicide proves it was too much
@marcosf8875
@marcosf8875 2 жыл бұрын
“Hard times create strong men” 💪🏼 We should be grateful for the suffering and shit cards we have been dealt as this is how we will grow
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
What if our suffering emanated from our own stupidity ?
@marcosf8875
@marcosf8875 2 жыл бұрын
@@conversationcorner1837 then we learn from that also, and take it as a lesson to prevent it from happening in the future. This should also be accompanied by learning from other peoples mistakes to help prevent running into the same roadblocks, problems, etc. “men learn from their mistakes, wise men learn from others mistakes” I also want to say that the self inflicted suffering should not lead to you growing resentment towards yourself as this is even more damaging, instead, practising healthy habits on a daily basis such as meditation, should grow and improve your mental health, in turn helping you to make better decisions. And just becoming more self aware. It’s also normal to fail at things and then suffer because of it if that’s what you’re also referring to, it’s all part of the journey. I hope that helps.
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
@@marcosf8875 It does help. Thanks.
@BRUH-us9yy
@BRUH-us9yy 2 жыл бұрын
real shit creates real niggas real niggas be straight chillin straight chillin makes bitch niggas bitch niggas start some real shit
@Rocky-zv9co
@Rocky-zv9co 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to watch this while I study later. I seriously love your videos man - the unfiltered ones moreso, but the main channel ones are also good. You opened my mind to a whole new reality man, and your interpretations brought a sort of perspicuity to my life, now I've been getting back on track and actually getting sh** done, mainly due to the fact that I simply didn't respect myself as much as I thought I did, and now I'm starting to more and more. Truly grateful for this channel, I added that to my list this morning with a couple other things.
@emekajr
@emekajr 2 жыл бұрын
@Noodle Boi very true
@attainascend
@attainascend 2 жыл бұрын
Andrew Tate lol
@boxhbbb3530
@boxhbbb3530 2 жыл бұрын
47:30 that gives so much context for your relationship with Jade. Would of never thought the details of your last days would be like that
@dylanclemnt
@dylanclemnt 2 жыл бұрын
Hamza, I went through a lot of trauma when I was young also and in recent years have been diagnosed with IBS. For a long time I feared food and living normally and it only became progressively worse. When I decided to consciously take control of my life and live differently, the biggest shift being that I came back to the Lord, I came to understand that IBS isn't a disease, but is a symptom of my really bad anxiety and stress due to negative mental health. Sometimes I still have a flare during really stressful periods, but I'm no longer on medication, eat like a normal person and have faith and trust that I can live my life as I intend to and let the "special program" as I like to call it, finish. So, despite the pain and hardship I had to deal with, I am so grateful it happened. It led me back to God, it made me mentally stronger and when I do experience flare symptoms, I try to see it as a blessing and indicator of my mental state and immediately consciously work on my mental health. I never comment on anything, but I'm very appreciative of your content bro, and hopefully this story can help someone else out. Bless
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
Does your condition require you take painkillers ?
@Nele_NES
@Nele_NES 2 жыл бұрын
"Life is suffering, that's what makes it beatiful" I made that quote by myself 2 years ago when I was going through my puberty depression (15 years old back then), still have it in my KZbin channel description and when I found self improvement and Jocko Willink then I came to fully know meaning of my own quote, but also I've had personal problems plus bullying in school and I was kind of raised to be kind, not like a pussy but I can say as coward, that's what made be grow up and to mature a lot more than other kids. Btw I'm not native english speaker, but I'm two language minded person (serbian and english), and was back then also. "Life is suffering, that's what makes it beatiful"- summary not only of this video, but also LIFE. Evolve people, it's our time!
@Calisthenics_Enjoyer
@Calisthenics_Enjoyer 2 жыл бұрын
,,passion aint compassionate''-Neffex. And thats the beauty of it
@b.dimitrieski9642
@b.dimitrieski9642 2 жыл бұрын
поздрав од Македонија!🇲🇰 ❤️ 🇷🇸
@the_altairgaming2446
@the_altairgaming2446 2 жыл бұрын
I am actually going through many issues you went through so I really appreciate you for being someone who’s guiding me towards the light instead of descending into chaos in the face of adversity
@god1284
@god1284 2 жыл бұрын
These long story videos are honestly the best and the most helpful videos I've ever watched.
@whatwouldkealiido4819
@whatwouldkealiido4819 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. People who had it easy don’t know what its like to be at the bottom until time catches up to them. I suffered as a kid. I had no 2 front teeth as a kid. Said 3 words a day. Afraid to smile and laugh. Got to a very dark place in my life as I seen others who had it easy enjoy their childhood. But all that suffering guided me to the gym, and finding peace within myself. And a source of income that can make me millions at best per year. And I look back at those guys who had it easy and they aren’t on self improvement. Also the guys who made fun of me for not having teeth lol. Its getting to adulting time and I spread awareness of it but there own ego stops them from growing. Not saying im better than them cause im not. But like Hamza said, im grateful to have gone through that suffering.
@0piumaeternum
@0piumaeternum 2 жыл бұрын
so i have a genuine rebuttal and a question to ask. what about those who didn’t have to suffer/struggle? there’s passion, fire, and drive within the struggle and it’s up to those who have fire lit under them to shine. but what about those who didn’t have to go through that? where do those kids find their drive? the quote “strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak mean create hard times, and hard times create strong men” is a good example to use from this. how do the weak men “find” the hard times that create strong men around them?(because they didn’t organically come from it.)
@whatwouldkealiido4819
@whatwouldkealiido4819 2 жыл бұрын
@@0piumaeternum they go through hard times after living a life thats easy to them. They find their purpose and what matters in life. No its not money and girls. Your purpose goes deep to as paying your family back. You can only stay at your parents home for 200$ a month rent and play video games for so long before having a light bulb light up in their head. But struggle also has to deal with how they were raised. If there wasn’t a sense of being disowned by your parents if you don’t do something with your life then you wont feel the struggle to make something happen. There is a lot of kids who are not well educated and struggle because of it. They just need the right coach and mentor and open mindedness to make a difference in life
@suhasganesh7570
@suhasganesh7570 2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you brother
@lyacinthum5299
@lyacinthum5299 2 жыл бұрын
What do you work in ?
@kaizer6771
@kaizer6771 2 жыл бұрын
Hey I am struggling a bit financially rn can you tell me about something that will make me some money. Even 500 a month would be great for me 🙏
@Deron1017
@Deron1017 2 жыл бұрын
This is a topic the education system needs to teach us, so many teens my age just have a nihilistic view on the world and anything that doesn’t gratify them instantly
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
No one's a nihilist when they need medicine for themselves.
@benfaulds6680
@benfaulds6680 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you hamza I really needed to hear this right now
@pitoblogg
@pitoblogg 2 жыл бұрын
“Man’s spirit advances when he’s tried by suffering”. - Abdul Baha
@von6413
@von6413 2 жыл бұрын
I actually relate to these stories a little. Thanks for sharing man.
@QuantumIsLive
@QuantumIsLive 2 жыл бұрын
legit when you posted this I have been suffering ever since haha. im so damm proud how well ive handled and learned from this downwards slope recently, alot of things going wrong out of my control but im grateful for it, cause I know i'll look back on it and a planting point for the newer me. what I did was write down every bad thing thats happened over this past week, and at the end of it I wrote why I was grateful for everything going sideways this week
@soraelgango94
@soraelgango94 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for reminding me of the importance of gratitude, bless you man
@LindormAce
@LindormAce 2 жыл бұрын
if you don't suffer you'll never experience true joy
@afandifitri
@afandifitri 2 жыл бұрын
love your vids bro
@lacplesis484
@lacplesis484 2 жыл бұрын
love your vids bro
@GiaGRitter
@GiaGRitter 2 жыл бұрын
This was insanely vulnerable. Thank you for sharing this.
@klafvds
@klafvds 7 ай бұрын
"Profit from that suffering." Lmao, 10/10. What a legend.
@keeeelly333
@keeeelly333 2 жыл бұрын
I’m grateful for all the suffering I’ve had to go through 🙏🏻❤️
@DashNothing
@DashNothing 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the honesty. The stories about your exes I felt to my soul
@JustCesarrrr
@JustCesarrrr 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video, its so well rounded, profound and speaks volumes on the importance of challenge in a man's life.
@meli4535
@meli4535 2 жыл бұрын
needed this today hamza,thank you.
@ALEX-eh6qk
@ALEX-eh6qk 2 жыл бұрын
Saw this last night and I didn’t watch it. It’s wild how things float into my life seemingly when I need or am ready for them. I’m 21 and this year has been the hardest of my life from roommates, to jobs, financial independence and school as well as self development. I’ve been getting my teeth kicked it. All of these factors where bearing down on me so I gave up and masturbated to run away. I knew what I was doing. I’ve gotten to the point where porn can’t control me but I gave in. My life isn’t hard at all I’m just weak but I will grow stronger. I will succeed, there is no other choice but ever once in a while I break down and that’s ok. If it’s a sign of improvement. I’m going to get to my mountain top and if you see this I hope you do to. It’s hurts and your sore but go at your own pace consistent and steady. We got this.
@Taken1st
@Taken1st 2 жыл бұрын
Dude has such a positive mindset ;) awesome lets all suffer and grow bring on the gains💪💪💪
@Jdot2tact
@Jdot2tact Жыл бұрын
When u said she was red and swollen my whole heart sunk. Can’t even imagine the feeling of seeing that in person. Insane amount of courage and security in yourself to share this bro. You’ve been the biggest inspiration to my self improvement. In half a year I’ve completely changed my life. YT channel coming soon too
@ilcondottierocartografo6770
@ilcondottierocartografo6770 2 жыл бұрын
This is so wholesome, God bless bro
@parthu1646
@parthu1646 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this.
@dfikas
@dfikas 2 жыл бұрын
Man, you change the way my mind work in seconds. I'm really grateful for this
@justinceronio3994
@justinceronio3994 2 жыл бұрын
I really related to that story Hamza, thank you so much for sharing it.
@miguelflores-ir2wq
@miguelflores-ir2wq 2 жыл бұрын
I'm thankful you sharing your story ✊️
@Rabushiri
@Rabushiri 2 жыл бұрын
Learning to be more greatful and having a positive mindset might be my favorite things about self-improvement 。
@skuadratti8055
@skuadratti8055 2 жыл бұрын
Damn.... You were describing me the whole time... I feel everything you did every day, and I did nothing about it. I just keep sulking and saying to myself that "it's just how it goes"... This was one hell of an eye opener. Thabk you
@Daniel-Deshaun
@Daniel-Deshaun 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve had nothing but bad luck the past two years and it keeps continuing today but I’m so grateful for all of it. My phone broke yesterday. Good- now I don’t have an addiction bar in my pocket. My car’s brake pad fell off last week. Good, now I’m walking everywhere and enjoying nature and can’t take women home. Every single event of suffering has given me so much growth and gratitude and now when I eventually get to where I want I’ll appreciate that much more because I know what it’s like to be at the bottom
@hwmusic2116
@hwmusic2116 2 жыл бұрын
I connected a lot with this, never done worse than I am doing right now but I also for the first time I have a goal, was nice to hear I am not alone in such a honest way
@JD-bq1vy
@JD-bq1vy 2 жыл бұрын
This really pertains to me rn! Thank bro 🙏
@BigMannyFitness6719
@BigMannyFitness6719 2 жыл бұрын
Motivation is temporary Discipline is eternal ( do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it )
@megansvane4877
@megansvane4877 2 жыл бұрын
I thank you for being real and I truly appreciate and love that you came across my life and it's true you have to suffer in order to grow ... I am living that right now! True facts in my live currently...
@Excaliburmerlin
@Excaliburmerlin 2 жыл бұрын
This is the exact video I needed rn thank you big dog
@jesseumweni6403
@jesseumweni6403 2 жыл бұрын
For most of my life, I had to endure suffering, but I always looked at the brighter side of my life and found that instead of self pitting myself,f I reflect on my failures and find a way not to make the same mistakes.
@TrossDolfei
@TrossDolfei 2 жыл бұрын
I went to uni in the UK (i'm swedish) and had a very similar experience bro .. Unfiltered is what youtube needs, keep it up and you won't stop growing. Much love.
@calvas1452
@calvas1452 2 жыл бұрын
this video is a blessing rn
@yeckio4805
@yeckio4805 2 жыл бұрын
“Don’t show weakness to women” why would anyone put up with someone who doesn’t let you be yourself?
@ChillStuffTV
@ChillStuffTV 2 жыл бұрын
I was able to show a tad bit to my current girl. We been on and off for the past 2 years. You gotta find that person who you will have forever wrapped around your finger
@_4L
@_4L 2 жыл бұрын
I think the best analogy that I’ve heard was that you should love your girlfriend like you would love your daughter, not like your mother.
@yeckio4805
@yeckio4805 2 жыл бұрын
@@_4L lmaooo I want a gf not a mom or a daughter
@themarathoncontinues4211
@themarathoncontinues4211 2 жыл бұрын
@@yeckio4805 the point is that you could cry in front of your daughter, but you wouldn’t expect her to solve your problems/ask her to do so. You’d find a solution and move on.
@jaedii7287
@jaedii7287 2 жыл бұрын
"why would anyone put up with someone who doesn’t let you be yourself?" That's a path to weakness if you don't keep yourself in check
@HarleyFletcher777
@HarleyFletcher777 2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your honesty. i can tell this wasn't an easy one to make.
@AV4Life
@AV4Life 2 жыл бұрын
Bro, them breakup / rejection gains are the absolute best. Straight facts.
@broly77799
@broly77799 2 жыл бұрын
i was a weak child both physically and mentally, i had it soft. Since i was 12 i’ve been suffering with problems i didn’t even understand. 17 now, less struggles, still have them, still fighting. from where i’ve come from it’s BEAUTIFUL to look back. My wisdom is smt im incredibly proud of, and my strength to persevere no matter what. keep going lads - just as i always will... because u suffer... it won’t hold u back in the long run but if u use it as fuel ur gonna be the greatest in whatever u want to pursue and u won’t be average or settle for mediocrity STAY HARD
@orhanmadiassani
@orhanmadiassani 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks you for your honesty
@griffix2841
@griffix2841 2 жыл бұрын
If everything burns down, don’t fall with it, take that fire and conquer the world, suffering is your greatest weapon -Karim
@zorg621
@zorg621 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the content and the stories. Very relatable.
@henrykid1393
@henrykid1393 2 жыл бұрын
I had depression for 3 years in my early teens and can't thank the experience enough because I know that the suffering has made me a strong-minded person today.
@user-ln7sm3oe9e
@user-ln7sm3oe9e 2 жыл бұрын
gb
@danteminardi9364
@danteminardi9364 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about this concept earlier today, saw the video title and couldn’t help but smile
@Billbobjoe63974
@Billbobjoe63974 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied when I was younger and nobody thought I was the victim. I can say that being bullied has made me a stronger person.
@menot8325
@menot8325 2 жыл бұрын
There's good point in there. Dopamine and pain are regulated by the same area in our brain. Feeling good or bad is always about brain balancing itself. When you disengage in a pleasurable high dopamine activity such as video gaming or eating junk food, brain starts to balance itself by inducing pain on you. There's no way you'll stop video gaming and not feel pain. It's not about your mentality, it doesn't care if you're 100 lvl on stoicism. It's brain chemistry and you can't force it to stop. Another point is that if you use high dopamine activities as an escapism, as soon as you'll stop you will feel every negative emotion you were running from but coupled with guilt and that pain from brain balancing itself. And another thing. Breaking habits requires conscious effort. It takes energy and can make you tired. There is one true crime case about son killing his own father with an axe, completely destroyed his father's frontal lobe, but not killing him instantly. Father woke up with his alarm, went to the bathroom, brushed his teeth, shaved his beard with his jaw hanging on skin. He couldn't realize he was hurt, he didn't have any brain that could think. He then went to the kitchen, sorted his email, then went outside to get newspaper, accidentally locked himself out, but took a spare key from a secret place near his front door, opened it and only then collapsed and died. This case terrified me in a sense that we are not even actually "alive" the majority of the time were awake. So think about how much our brain doesn't want us to think, it tries to save energy all the time. Thinking and making effort takes a lot of energy. To change your whole day requires you to think 100% of your waking time. You'll be dead tired by the end of the day, and you need to be prepared to push through that pain. I'm not trying to over explain what Hamza said, I just thought it would be useful to share my two cents.
@menot8325
@menot8325 2 жыл бұрын
@@generalkai2417 google the murder of Peter Porco. He was only 52,too, so it's a very sad case in many aspects.
@connors6thclone552
@connors6thclone552 Жыл бұрын
I’m been sick with a gastro infection and I going to take this mental attitude to heart
@wanieg7206
@wanieg7206 2 жыл бұрын
bro i like the way you give as the message ,,,,keep on the good work
@Anson_cheng28115
@Anson_cheng28115 Күн бұрын
Had a period in my life where I was going through a lot of hopelessness and depression. I'd lie on my bed in the dark during midnight and put on1 of these videos and just drift off knowing that everything will be okay. Thanks Hamza.
@FallingFeeling212
@FallingFeeling212 2 жыл бұрын
Damn man things are just clicking right now im loving the videos man makes me happy knowing im doing some things right.
@ceejay3113
@ceejay3113 2 жыл бұрын
this was such a great video man, thanks for being so truthful :)
@BurakDemiryt
@BurakDemiryt 8 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for the video Hamza. I found very meaningful things in what you said.
@Mysterious2887
@Mysterious2887 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for this lesson
@joonjonj3w
@joonjonj3w 2 жыл бұрын
Bro that gut feeling is so true!!
@yunou37
@yunou37 2 жыл бұрын
To lift your cross... Thank you for the wisdom Hamza.
@ainsmas361
@ainsmas361 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson entered the chat
@yunou37
@yunou37 2 жыл бұрын
@@ainsmas361 lmao
@brianohanlon848
@brianohanlon848 Жыл бұрын
This man is going to lead a revolution. I would follow him into battle any day.
@miguelflores-ir2wq
@miguelflores-ir2wq 2 жыл бұрын
I can feel every emotion is that story, I feel sick remembering what I've went through
@qualityvideos1
@qualityvideos1 2 жыл бұрын
“Do not pray for easy lives my friends, pray to be stronger man” JFK
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
I'd pray for both.
@alen-commentnazi8774
@alen-commentnazi8774 2 жыл бұрын
Bad quote. Better one is by bruce lee: Dont pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one
@schormu
@schormu 2 жыл бұрын
@@alen-commentnazi8774 literally the same thing
@bushey_won
@bushey_won 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Hamza
@asaadalshahin6519
@asaadalshahin6519 2 жыл бұрын
Hamza’s a real man for never lying, respect
@AkKa4774
@AkKa4774 2 жыл бұрын
I’m suffering right now😂😅, but I know It’s gotta get worse befor it gets better , Thanks for your vids bro, your like the older brother I never had, love listening to these longer videos when working out 👊🏽
@thelifeofrj1695
@thelifeofrj1695 2 жыл бұрын
It’s funny before I even clicked on the video I already knew what you meant with the title of the video … suffering / going though hard times builds character and builds a foundation for your future self if you can figure out how to overcome the hardship and not dwell on the past
@afsffaffdgsg2344
@afsffaffdgsg2344 2 жыл бұрын
Been on self improvement for around a year and my life was by far the best it had ever been and it just crumbled for no reason , i dont know what i did to cause it but i fell into the worst depression ive ever had and i really dont know what to do and i feel so incredibly lost and hopeless,my discipline is so low that i can barely make myself eat and im going back to my old skinny boy days, i really hope i get myself out of this because im not doing good mentally right now and im trying so thank you because if i didnt see your videos pop up every time theres a new post i would probably have quit self improvement and maybe even wouldve killed myself, thank you hamza, i really really do appreciate what you are doing.
@adeola7823
@adeola7823 2 жыл бұрын
Bro same, this last few days have been an all time low. You've got an IG?
@RDE594
@RDE594 2 жыл бұрын
you got discord or snap we can talk there?
@nibbax7772
@nibbax7772 2 жыл бұрын
How and where do i start?
@RDE594
@RDE594 2 жыл бұрын
@@nibbax7772 Watch hamazas begging guide for nofap and restoration and impvement!!!!
@danielpineda6942
@danielpineda6942 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you man
@donovandec574
@donovandec574 2 жыл бұрын
what a great video. on the topic of jealousy in relationships. theres only 2 ways to go about it. either you implicitly trust your partner or you dont. ive lived my relationships in a way where i implicitly trust my partner with absolutely no feelings of jealousy. now, that being said, when shit hits the fan, im forced to compartmentalize my feelings with that in mind. I might have an awful breakup where she admits to cheating, but for the 8 or so months we spent together I was on cloud 9 and she was constantly worried id sleep with other women and being unhappy and jealous. at the end of the day, the relationship for the majority of the time, as it affected me, was wonderful. I can't say the same for her.
@kavikumar2311
@kavikumar2311 2 жыл бұрын
Hamza i love the way u tell things it makes my improvement so efficient ❤
@oh033
@oh033 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for mentioning the ibs situation man. I got ulcerative colitis 3 years ago and I finally have the will and gratitude now to try and fight through it through working out and ditching my old habits. I had some traumatic damage in my childhood and teenage years so possibly my diagnosis had to do something about that. Ulcers correlate to stress but Ive also had other auto immune issues in the past so your point definitely stands.
@d0ct0rx81
@d0ct0rx81 2 жыл бұрын
Bro this is so strange but I can totally relate to the weird taking a shit symptoms, in terms of paths yours is very relatable to my own, childhood trauma and falling to the grasps of instant gratification, I am truly inspired and fueled by your journey, this way is difficult but no matter what I will not quit I swear
@ivankolobov9502
@ivankolobov9502 2 жыл бұрын
As much as I agree, I have to say that not any kind of suffering is profitable. Some just drain you of your mental health resources without teaching you anything in return. Both occur.
@minimumx4481
@minimumx4481 2 жыл бұрын
I have dealt with suicidal thoughts since I was about 11, started to self harm at 9. I'm 18 now and last week had one of the lowest times I have had in months for no reason at all it just happens. Never been tested but I can quite confidently guess I suffer from depression. However, when I do get out of these times I use them as fuel. Kind of like "if my own brain can't take me down neither can this run" or something along those lines.
@inksword6029
@inksword6029 2 жыл бұрын
@@minimumx4481 yeah and it's not very helpful is it? If that mindset was helpful you would not have to deal with those thoughts anymore, this is just blatant coping
@reiner5712
@reiner5712 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for those who never had to suffer
@conversationcorner1837
@conversationcorner1837 2 жыл бұрын
They will be in for tough times at some point in time and would find it hard to deal with it.
@chanceyarborough3813
@chanceyarborough3813 2 жыл бұрын
Finally someone to tell me what I tell myself, it’s a lot better to have someone say it
@azaeladel
@azaeladel 2 жыл бұрын
Hamza, your life stories are not cringe in any way. Trust me, the story told in this video about the girl was truly interesting. I just had a cringe moment in my own life, and listening to your story, I actually felt some kind of connection through that story. It felt like I was talking to my best friend just now! Wow.
@mejoryo1679
@mejoryo1679 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@Shayster918
@Shayster918 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know you had this channel, this some raw content❗️
@valio1ful
@valio1ful 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. The relationship story really helped me with recent events with a girl. Thank you, Hamza, for being more than helpful, as always.
@jyuu6409
@jyuu6409 2 жыл бұрын
Lad, hope it went well
@edward10619
@edward10619 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Hamza.
@domsanchez8666
@domsanchez8666 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing hamza talk about his girl texting his friend reminded me of the time I was with my ex and she was texting a guy that jumped me, and I was just thinking “wtf am I doing here” shit hurt deep
@kingcrimsonrequiem3171
@kingcrimsonrequiem3171 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words
@user-oz7mq8gh8n
@user-oz7mq8gh8n 2 жыл бұрын
You are a genius with those titles. I love how you make them extremely clickbait but not clickbait because it's literally the topic of the video at the same time.
@Adrene
@Adrene 2 жыл бұрын
Hamza, you are the realest guy on this site ! the level of transparency is admirable! you're helping so many people with your honest and authentic content, just know that!
@gregorysargusburger4435
@gregorysargusburger4435 2 жыл бұрын
Long form Hamza is silver tier #1. I only day that because I know as he grows hes only going to get better. One of my favorite channels hands down.
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