I Hoped That The Doctor Was Wrong | A Mothers Stillbirth Story

[@jwest649]

Winter has the most compassionate face and you know she truly feels the pain of the precious mother.

[@charlotte_stevens]

I can't think of a kinder, more loving and genuine couple to host this wonderful podcast! You're doing good work Winter and Lee. Thank you for creating this safe and vulnerable place for families to share, grieve, learn and support each other. I love hearing about all these beautiful babies and I want to thank all the parents for sharing them with us. Much love to everyone 💕💖💜💖💕

[@myheartisinjapan3184]

They truly are the loveliest couple.

[@psychonauty2020]

this is the legacy of their precious baby as well❤

[@pattiboudreaux8720]

I just lost my “baby” even though he was 40. It was extremely unexpected. My heart is shattered. It hurts at any age. It was on 8/9/23 and I’m still grieving. It hurts so bad. 😢

[@MinaMcKay]

I'm so sorry for your loss 💔

[@sandyrice3559]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My boys are 36 and 39, and I can't even begin to imagine the pain and heartbreak of losing one of them.

[@christinablair1978]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

[@lisamarie6362]

😇💔

[@diannaboffer7706]

Many prayers for you, my son passed 9 yrs ago ,he was 33. The pain of losing a child never goes away, you just learn to deal with it.

[@NelaB588]

I lost my son November 6th, so not even 3 weeks ago. Watching this was so hard because you talking about decreased movement and not realizing what that could mean hit so hard because as a first time mom I didn't know how to understand that and others kept telling me it's fine you are over thinking. My ultrasound was booked to check on a minor concern about uterine wall thining and babies size was slightly off, but instead I found out Noah's heart had stopped. I am so sorry for your loss. I want to thank you for sharing your story as it's helping me cope right now and it's helping me see that I am not alone in this terrible grief. I go through so many days where I am mad at myself. Where I feel I should have pushed more when I felt things didn't feel right and he wasn't moving as much and I was told it's fine by doctors and other moms and that he just didn't have as much space to move. Ugh my heart just breaks for all the families who have gone and are currently going through this type of pain and grief. I'm really struggling and it's so hard to see, imagine or feel that there will be life after this experience. 😔😭

[@Lilly-ev7ll]

I feel you. I've just been through the same on November 22nd. Lost my little girl due to my waters breaking and getting an infection. It's almost too much to bear, I completely relate 😢

[@lisamarie6362]

So so sorry for you, mommy. God bless your little angel baby who will always live on in your heart ❤️

[@micpern872]

Perfectly stated. The licensed people do tell you it's ok when u notice slow movement...NO IT'S NOT! I think we should demand they listen to heartbeat, check for position, and do another anatomy scan, if ANY suspicion, schedule emergency C section that very moment! Sick of our insurance system. Another important issue for another time.

[@micpern872]

​@@Lilly-ev7llI'm hoping they started you on meds immediately to prevent infection and while an emergency C section.

[@indilubbe8940]

I'm so so so sorry for your loss. Is there a reason these beautiful babies hearts stop beating?

[@growinggenerationshomestea516]

Such a beautiful baby girl. Iam so sorry for your loss. I lost my 4th shortly after birth 23 weeks alongand my oldest daughter at 21 years old and her daughter she lost a year prior to her death at 15 weeks. We watched on ultrasound as her heart stopped. I hated all the things people would say trying to make me feel better. I can never forget those moments

[@sharonpinkerton8297]

I am so sorry for your losses❤❤❤

[@lisamarie6362]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your baby is irreplaceable and will always live in your heart. One day you’ll meet again l.

[@2115virgo13]

My daughter went through this. It’s devastating. Prayer and hugs! Rip little angel!

[@mistyknights8624]

I have been there and pray for all families that go through child passing

[@mikec.6086]

I am sorry for you and your husband. I lost my daughter in 1993, full term stillbirth. She was perfect in every way. There was no explanation as to the reason she died. I think of every single day. A almost constant thought. Her passing changed my life completely. I hope you don't experience any more heartbreak. I will pray that you find peace.

[@millyriley9615]

What a beautiful baby thank you for sharing her pictures so sorry for your loss x

[@aimeecowan1105]

Having been through this myself, I can say that you never get over it, but with time you can close the door on it so that it doesn't dominate your thoughts anymore. You are then able to open that door and look at it as much as you are able to bear.

[@shoutingfactory3694]

Thankyou for sharing your sweet baby with us. I'm so sorry for your loss ❤

[@nalinibhatt4690]

This loss of darling baby has broken my heart. Sorry you parents lost Adrian. Can't imagine what parents have gone through. My sympathy with you. Adrian is in our heart. He will come back to you. God has to bless you.

[@christierebe3134]

Wow, my heart breaks for this family. I am so glad they were met with kind people along this journey which hopefully made such a traumatic event a little easier to endure. May God bless this little Angel, Adrian and her loving family. 🙏🏼💔

[@BevJHAR]

Those OB doctors really are gifts who take their jobs to heart.

[@josieclaridge4798]

What a heart wrenching experience. Mothers have to be the very strongest of all. You did your best and she was loved and wanted

[@jacquelinejacobson6789]

My ❤ goes out to any mother who loses her child, whatever age.

[@hwhittiest1]

Thank you for saying that, I just recently lost my son who is 47 years old.

[@kimmyk3640]

Your story is beautifully told. I'm sending so much love to your family, and so sorry you lost Adrian. ❤

[@ms.krueger2660]

She was so beautiful!!💜. So sorry!!

[@MandyLucas-bh8lh]

So sorry for the loss of your precious baby now with the angels sending you all my love and thoughts Godbless you allxxx

[@StephyRae83]

I am so truly sorry for you and your family. Watching this podcast broke my heart. I've never been through any type of loss, but my sister in law had a loss and I went with her to her anatomy scan at like 19 weeks, and that's when she found out she had lost her baby it was devastating to me for her. 😢

[@carmenthorpe6243]

So sorry for your loss ❤. So sorry to all the parents that lost a child.

[@nikkih.1142]

No words can stop the pain but ur baby was absolutely beautiful and i pray for ur entire family.stay strong and ur amazing and thoughtful 4 sharing ....u cant imagine how ur story has helped another persons situation...💕💕💕💕💕

[@jackiebaumgart611]

I’m an RN of 20 years and I love babies, but I knew that I would never work in labor and delivery for this very reason. I knew that if I ever had to take care of mom and baby after something that devastating that I would have to quit working as a nurse. I’m grateful that the staff took such good care of you and I’m so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine how that must feel.

[@pinacoloda226]

So sorry for your loss,such a beautiful little girl❤ accept my deepest condolences and may you find comfort in our Lord. Fly high little angel💖💖

[@christinem.carter-wanner5304]

God bless this family

[@janinecarlson6118]

My heart breaks for Rebecca and her husband & family. I feel as though I know Adrian. She was a beautiful lil girl. Those cheeks! May God bless you and heal your pain. 👼🙏✝️💔

[@SweetMelissa73]

I watched all about Adrian Jewel from your husband's perspective while sharing his story with Lee. Adrian Jewel is absolutely Gorgeous. Just know your precious baby girl knew nothing but pure Love ❤❤. You & your husband have hugged & kissed the face of a beautiful Angel 👼🏻. My heart is broken for you & your beautiful family 💔

[@margaretconnery7422]

So sorry on the loss of your beautiful baby girl Adrian, my niece has a little girl called Sylvie and when you mentioned the name i could only smile. Adrian will always live in your hearts ..God bless you as a family. 😊 💞 xx

[@lindabishop7266]

My ❤ goes out to u sweetheart as I also sufferd a still born son born at 40 weeks Matthew John xxxxx

[@tanyabrown9839]

Beautiful name for such a beautiful baby. Now I'm feeling confused though as I remember someone telling me that babies movements often slow down just before birth due to it being such a tight fit in there.

[@StillAPartofUs]

According to experts in the field of pregnancy: “They don’t run out of room; they actually just move differently. The types of movements may change, they may have more jabs, fewer rolls, but movement is movement and babies should move up to, and even during, labor.”

[@TammyAllen-n1v]

Dido Winter & Lee! So appreciate you both. Lil Adrien Jewel looks so much like her Mama 💞

[@CC-hz1qm]

4 days before a scheduled c-section. This shouldn’t happen! I’m so sorry Mama! 😔

[@shermicasmith211]

I lost my son almost a month ago and it hurts like hell

[@xoxogabrielle25]

So much love to you… 34 weeks with my fourth and last son, Aurelius. At my routine check up there was no heartbeat. It still hurts…

[@prehistoricpleb]

Beautiful baby, she looks so peaceful ❤

[@oliverjackson5998]

I lost my son last week........ stillbirth, its the worst pain ever

[@catherinerose1607]

I’m so sorry

[@Tweety22.]

Sending hugs ❤ I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby boy 😢

[@MandyLucas-bh8lh]

So sorry for the loss of your precious boy now with the angels sending you all my love and thoughts he will never be forgotten because you loved him so much rip little manxxx

[@southerngirl7425]

So many truths here.... I learned of death @ 19 when my Daddy died.... And Yes it's daunting to learn what Death is like and entails.....I've never lost a child but I did have to leave all 3 of my babies in the hospital and go home without them....each time I literally thought this is what it's like to leave and Not have a live baby.... My heart goes out to you I'm so happy you've got other children to bless your lives.... ♥

[@maureencunningham9995]

Im so sorry to hear about your loss of Adrian. What a beautiful little girl. I had stillborn little girl who I named Joanna at 28 weeks in December 8th 1983. I celebrate her birthday every year by lighting a candle in church. She would be 42 now. I think about her every day. In the uk there is an organisation called Sands who help you with issues with stillbirth. I went on to have another daughter Sarah born January 7th 1985.xx

[@pinacoloda226]

She is gorgeous I am so so sorry😭💔

[@rfc5587]

Sending your family love to yous and your beautiful angle i to lost my baby at 25 weeks he lived for 14 weeks and i feel and no your pain am so so sorry

[@ciscokid0110]

When I had my children in the 80’s, movement was never even mentioned. Nothing much was. It was basically, yes you are pregnant, yes you are in labor and no, you can’t have pain meds.

[@annabrahamson4320]

We didn't have scans in early 80s either if you had a normal pregnancie. My doctor did tell me to monitor movement though.

[@corinneharvey1663]

That is so true! No pain meds except iv Demerol and visteril which only made you drowsy.

[@holliethomson6147]

Iam so very sorry for your loss 😢💔 my heart breaks for you all. I’m sending you all so much love, peace and comfort always xxx❤🙏

[@Valentine3e]

ThankYou Rebecca , God Bless You & Your Precious Family ✨🙏🏼✨

[@susanhairtwirler8810]

Stillbirth isn't talked about enough, but i feel pregnant women need to be educated more. It may get a brief mention in prenatal books but nobody will take about the elephant in the room. Its seen as bad taste, being a Debbie Downer but if it could save one baby and a family a lifttime of heartache then it is so worth it. These interviews should be used for education purposes for students.

[@delphinium5555]

I haven't watched the video as yet but I may do so at a later date. It is a lovely idea. God's blessing on all those who have endured the agony of losing their child. It is the worst pain imaginable. Forty years ago for me and it has never left completely. It just eases over time.

[@judymcgowan2881]

49 years ago for me. My daughter was stillborn at 39 weeks. My Angel baby Wendy Renee. 💕🙏 🕊️I was 24 at the time with two older children aged 6 and 4.I wasn’t going to have any more babies as I had my girl and boy. And did not want to maybe go through that again. But god sent me a surprise rainbow baby 4 years later.❤🙏

[@micpern872]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Disheartening. Worst ouch ever. When she said she didn't find a heart beat, I burst into tears. My throat 🤧 feels like I swallowed a whole watermelon. She is such an adorable baby. I'm sorry momma. 😢 Hard interview.

[@iangeorge2361]

My heart goes out to you. My daughter had a loss in October 2020. a little boy at 33 weeks he passed 2 hrs before he was born. My daughter was called Tahlia after Talia Shire who plays Adrian in the Rocky movies.

[@christinablair1978]

Adrian was a beautiful child, I'm so sorry that she couldn't stay longer.

[@deborahanne2700]

Winter is a dream interviewer💓

[@vickie30]

Nothing worse than carrying a baby to full term and its born sleeping..

[@pammerle1691]

I cried thru this. Adrian was a Beautiful baby and now a beautiful Angel in Heaven. I don't know your beliefs, but I believe that the Second Adrian passed God ever so Gently took her and made her ABSOLUTELY PERFECT in body and health. God then took Adrian and laid her on the lap of his Most Precious Angel to be Cared for. Adrian is carried by Jesus now in TOTAL PEACE, A ETERNITY OF PERFECTNESS AND EXTREME BEAUTY FOR ETERNITY. I think you brother in law is with Adrian and spends All day EVERYDAY WITH HER. Another thing is that when one passes they can still be with you all and she watches over you all. It bring me away from my tears knowing she is with your Brother in Law and SAFE and at PEACE. She knows you and all of BOTH families and knows your LOVE FOR HER. One day when God calls you home Adrian WILL be there waiting for you. She WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR DAUGHTER.

[@peggyallman7647]

Did they have ran autopsy ? Just curious if they found out why she passed.

[@tatatravels22]

Im sorry mommy. Adrian is very beautiful 😊 I lost my daughter too to stillbirth at 38 weeks last June 7, 2024. We were flying it and suddenly she is just gone, my beautiful Maya. It is very difficult to comprehend such a thing and I feel it is very cruel. ❤ fly light our little angels.

[@Marlene-k2e]

RIP sweet Angel

[@lovememe3847]

I loss my baby on June 04 2024 at 32 weeks. KeiMari Que Corbin my little angel.👼

[@Tweety22.]

My heart breaks 💔 for you sending hugs and healing light your way ❤️

[@manishakamble1612]

I pray to god please give back my baby❤

[@michellefrench6617]

Adrian ❤

[@lirpa1981]

I had a miscarriage around 12 weeks. During Covid I was at the appointment alone. An hour away from home. I go back and the doctor sets up some lab work for me we discuss little things and she says “ let’s see if we can find a heartbeat. It was my 7th pregnancy and I had heard all the heartbeats by 12-13 weeks but was very anxious about this pregnancy. She tried for a few minutes and simply because she had tried and couldn’t find a heartbeat she felt it would be best to grab the portable ultrasound machine, to just take a peek at baby. The doctor wanted to give me a little peace of mind but for some reason I became incredibly clammy and my heart started to race. I instinctively knew something would be wrong. Sure enough baby had no heart beat. Baby was measuring just one day smaller than should’ve been so it happened within 24-48 hours of the appointment. So I was alone. An hour away from home. Covid was new. The doctor wouldn’t even put her arms around me to give me a hug and all I wanted to do was run as fast as I could out of the building and magically transport to my house. Oddly on the way to my appointment I had realized I forgot to apply mascara and in the car alone driving to my appointment I said out loud “ I hope I didn’t forget mascara for a reason” it was so strange. I ended up being prescribed medication to induce the miscarriage at home. 2 days later hemorrhaged and nearly died. Alone. In an emergency room. Because covid restrictions wouldn’t allow my husband to come in. Thankfully the chaplain found my husband and brought him in because he didn’t think I was going to survive. My hemoglobin was a 4 by the time I was rushed into the OR. Praise God I’m alive.

[@Marlene-k2e]

RIP sweat Angel

[@NomiGrove-dg1ew]

I didn't know you could have a csectiom with a stillbirth...

[@Tweety22.]

Yes they actually take the baby that way it's usually upto the parents

[@sternschnuppe4668]

❤😢💞🙏😇💖

[@lynnchapman9988]

❤️🙏

[@lauriewromar5478]

I think that baby looks just like you mama.

[@cleosingsgreat]

She is beautiful. My daughter that we lost was also born in November of '21. 🫂