I Just Came Out

I want the world to know!
Here I share with you my coming out story because hey, everyone's is different and I figured I would add mine to the growing pile.
If anyone out there watching this feels alone, or angry at themselves or is just hating life, please do not hesitate to contact me, I would love to help anyone I can.

[@luket.6356]

I literary just came out and then watched this

[@liamhurst5763]

me too bro

[@Koma7Wolf]

Me too

[@NixDreamtIncorp]

I am in the same process myself and actually in denial on some parts. Reading up some of those negative comments, all I can say it is don't let those get to you! Be strong and keep your head up high because that is what I tell myself.

[@markuyar1]

the world needs more people like you. props! :) i'm happy you're happy!

[@madic2990]

Thanks for sharring this with the internet :)

[@crossworlds1]

your story is so understandable, and kinda sad, i can see you been up all night thinking to ,that's what is so true , thanks for telling ,and your not alone

[@90scoolll]

you're right , we should see hope everywhere

[@gregoryin07]

I love your story and the music. I have to say it is so hard to come out. I've come out to friends and family but some friends still don't know yet. I'm not going to tell them of they don't ask. The funny thing is that your friends and family know before you do.

[@davidjose89]

I like your story , I'm David too. and thanks for sharing and being who you are . greets from Bucaramanga, Colombia

[@VenusLovestar]

I am so glad your family was understanding even if it took them a while. Your cute too!

[@thebirdboy1]

im so proud of you coming out is one of the hardest things you can do good for you

[@StraightActingGayGuy]

LOL, your eyes look fine. This is a really awesome video! I agree with you, it's really an outstanding feeling being able to tell other people you are gay and not keep it as a secret inside. I actually came out to my entire speech class during a speech. It left me with a feeling of "wow, did I just do that" but also its a real self-confidence booster. Plus when we live our lives openly, it shows other people its okay and normal to be gay. Thank you so much for contrubuting this to KZbin Erik

[@firewolf222]

i found your vids today and I love them

[@SteAndKel]

i JUST told my parents... like literally half an hour ago. i was just like you... terrified... thought no1 wud accept me... and i was shocked at how much every1 was happy for me n stuff. do it =)

[@Couver87]

Nice video. I couldn't imagine coming out and being mormon, I give you major props dude.

[@yoka955]

You're a really cool guy. I　wish i had friends like you :)

[@MrJason300]

Thanks for sharing and nice background song too lol

[@oxforddictonary]

aww, i'm so happy that you're happy....and you are adorable/hott !!!

[@ando1135]

children and im her only child. Maybe someday, i'll muster up teh courage to come out to my family. any advice on coming out?

[@CalebWandering]

I had a similar experience of not realizing I was gay until much later than most ( at about 18 or 19). I also had/have a deeply religious background and much more (what are traditionally thought of) as non-gay, more masculine mannerisms. Perhaps there's a connection. I don't know. I'm just glad to see someone else with a similar story.

[@TU154]

nice thoughts! well done -keep up -we keep track of it :) and let's try to manage our lives the best way possible

[@jumbobobcleo]

could this guy get more sensuous? holy shit. what a heartbreaker. fortunately, i dont think he knows it yet.

[@hpiercy19]

@Yudanashi Thanks so much. I don't think my parents will disown me but i really like your suggestion on starting the conversation. I think i'm just gonna get it off my chest as i am SO sick of having to hide a part of what defines ME. Once again, thankyou soooooo much! :)

[@fanofjapanandmusic]

1. the music you play in the background is beautiful 2. I just came out to my mom :) 3. I think youre beautiful and im not afraid to say that now. even thought im saying it through YT :)

[@hpiercy19]

@Yudanashi I am 17 and I am currently beginning the process of coming out..god it's hard. I think because i've supressed my true self for so long (3-4 years)it seems..strange. I'm still trying to work out whether to tell my friend or parents first and how they'll react. The more i confront my TRUE nature the more i seem to be almost scared. Right now i think i'm just worrying about everything that could happen :S Do you have any hints or suggestions that you think make the process a bit easier?

[@TU154]

@mercabee Quite true- Dave, I am sure you are a cool and honest and a wonderful guy, so keep up the spirit and enjoy life as it comes with as less hate and as much love as possible. Greets from Alicante, Spain.

[@tsaosimon]

wow...wondering how life has been in the LDS community now a few years after you have come out? I quit the church and moved country after realising that I can't change myself and I had to pick one. What's the church's response to you (and others alike) who have managed to stay in the church and also accepting who they are? p.s. love your background music...where is it from?

[@oxforddictonary]

@MEATYOKERRable because there are other ppl *kids/teens etc* who're in need of some support...ANY support....and hearing stories like this gives them that. It's a life preserve. It's a way to form an accessible community to ppl who may not have access to gay friends/community/counsellors etc. There's also nothing "deep" or "dark" about admiting who you really are. Friends would appreciate and respect his courage for being honest with them. It's hard being a minority, but having support is key

[@hpiercy19]

@Yudanashi SHIT, that was extremely difficult. I don't think i've ever done anything so difficult. I sat them down at 9pm and told them how i felt about my sexuality, and that nothing would change it. I explained that the reason i was telling them was because REALLY, it isn't their problem, however i believe honesty needed to be exercised in order to strengthen our relationship as a family. I think they were disappointed but not shocked or openly angry either. I guess time will tell.

[@tsaosimon]

wow...wondering how life has been in the LDS community now a few years after you have come out? I quit the church after realising that I can't change myself and I had to pick one. What's the church's response to you (and others alike) who have managed to stay in the church and also accepting who they are? p.s. love your background music...where is it from?

[@JeffRebornNow]

@Yudanashi There's nothing overtly gay about you at all. Your looks and voice and mannerisms are all perfectly masculine. I suspect MrSpermat was just being a smartass. But let's assume, for the sake of argument, he's correct. Why would that matter? I think your dad is a wise man, and was correct in saying he wants you to be happy and to be the best person you can be. That is a truly loving parent. God bless, and have a wonderful productive life.

[@dandotcom1989]

i thought i going crazy and hearing inspirational music in my head.. but anyway nice video.

[@quantumbits]

5:15 -> Especially Great Message!

[@Atlavocat]

It's been a year - how are you doing? I wish I were younger, you're really cute.

[@officialkanyau]

At 2:18, "About a month later my mom came out." I was just about to search for your mom's coming out video, thank God you clarified the statement. Damn I'm so gay!

[@IliketheTitanic1]

@MrSpemat That supression, dearest.

[@tsaosimon]

wow...wondering how life has been in the LDS community now a few years after you have come out? I quit the church after realising that I can't change myself and I had to pick one. What's the church's response to you (and others alike) who have managed to stay in the church and also accepting who they are?

[@hpiercy19]

@Yudanashi I will. I think i'm going to do it tomorrow. :S

[@sulimanalkhudairy]

Is that Black Swan in the back round!!!!

[@tiger1tony]

@ebonics4everyone - if you're such a homophobe, why are you watching these coming out stories and spewing your hate? If you can't love your child for who he or she is, then you don't deserve to be a parent.

[@kevinskates13]

I felt like this video sums up alot of my life. I am 21... Just realized I am a gay bear. :) Loving it

[@oxforddictonary]

@MEATYOKERRable Right, so if you had had such a support like youtube growing up and positive role-models in the media or in everyday life, then you wouldn't have felt such "humiliation" or like a misfit. I was born in the mid 80's and my generation and one's that followed are shifting the world consciousness in a big way. We're knocking down old school mentality and bringing peace & unity to the world. The world needs revolution and we're here to help that along, basically...in a good way :-)

[@trap-wolf]

My god. It looks like you're in the hospital. Because of you're shirt. The whiteness. Background. The lighting. The sad music. And the fact that you're telling a life story as if to make amends. U:

[@heidiarchuleta]

@Yudanashi I cant believe you spelt Archuleta wrong D: this is quite upsetting seeing as hes amazing? and my idoll(:

[@tattooskin72]

Have you ever watched the movie Latter Days? Probably one of the best gay themed movies I've ever seen... even though it is sad at quite a few parts, it has a happy ending :)

[@sosome57IHateGooglePlus]

@NataliePorts LOL, did you choose your sexuality?

[@ratsintheireyes1652]

I came out today as someone who is genderfluid, my parents had about the same reaction as your parents. Except they really didn't care, which is cool, I guess. Have a great day!

[@Nico_Transformations]

Interesting story but the music in the background makes it really difficult to focus on what you are saying

[@blainebill39]

@Yudanashi It thrills me to know that you will be able to lead an authentic life as a gay man, and will even likely be able to marry the person whom you love, if you so choose! Yeah!!!! May G-D Bless You! Blaine

[@blainebill39]

@Yudanashi His family at the time was dogmatically religious, and the pain of the closet was unbearable for him. He took his own life in 1983! Thankfully that was a long time ago and much has changed. Things are happening for LGBT people today, the likes of which Bobby and I could never conceive! We're not quite there yet, but full inclusion is within sight!

[@oxforddictonary]

@katiefedele "michael' is the character played by Hal Sparks lolll look em up!

[@TheAndrew35945]

I love when hot guys come out lol

[@dboyfff]

Did you say you were a psych major? How about law school? Continue and do something post grad. That's the great thing about being single you use your time wisely and are productive at anything...you don't need college for that...we have amazon.com...ebay and public libraries and Kiwaniis...etc with really cheap books.

[@ando1135]

i hate how its so hard for us gay people to admit to the world for who we are. if people and religion was more tolerant of every people, it would make life so much better. I commend you for coming out. I only came out to a few friends and they were supportive, but i have yet to come out to my parents. Thats gonna be really hard because they have the old fashioned way of thinking and i feel like im going to be a disappointment to them, especially my mom; she always talks about wanting grand...

[@SonyFoLife]

it seems to me, the more of these i watch, its not being gay, its not coming out, its when you realize it thats the weird part. same kinda for me. maybe i make a vid. also u were hella fast about comeing out.

[@TheJamesmattin]

He looks so much like my ex, Daniel.

[@GodCreatesGays2]

If anyone needs proof as to whether or not being gay is genetic, consider this: most gays, like Yudanashi, are intelligent, kind, and cute as a button. It must be all part of God's design! (Great video, BTW!)

[@UnscrupulousAgitator]

I am a follower of Christ (Christian ... if u must). and it makes me so mad when anyone is judged and condemed in the name of God. The "unrighteous" are going to hell". REALLY?!? What about those who judge and turn ppl from God?!? When u r perfect, go for it, untill then ... shut up. U do more harm than good. I am not perfect. My beliefs are mine. I am too busy working on myself to be worried about what others believe. Life would be boring if we were all the same. Peace

[@rickyc7195]

wtf is that beeping sound

[@MEATYOKERRable]

@oxforddictonary Alright, fair enough. However I myself have been a minority. In other words an outcast my whole life. Though I would love for garner support for myself and reach out and to others in my similar situation, I could not tolerate letting the world know about my humiliation. Hence, I can't understand why young men come out of the closet online and tell the whole world.

[@TU154]

@ilj007 indeed. good that there are such gay guys - I am looking for one like that around here :) Good luck to u all!

[@mauquim]

have you realized that your left side face is different from the right? '-]

[@kristoff350]

Sleep is for the weak.

[@psfanboy79]

@ebonics4everyone hmmm lookin at your activity I gotta wonder bout you, this comment u posted dont quite add up....

[@izumozorc]

apparently my parents were afraid that I was gay when I was little, guess they were right

[@sleekcartim]

morman & gay? stay strong man! check out my channel. im not morman, but uploaded a great show called: "anyone & everyone" that has a wonderful supportive (of their gay son) morman family.

[@imgonnahurtugood]

GAYS UNITE!!!

[@wickedbeats930]

im the only gay in the village

[@fpoerulezzz]

comment flagged for hate speech.

[@SalRoyale]

well I'm sorry getting a gay marriage isn't exactly as easy as getting a straight one. In 44 of the other states, there is no "post-marital" sex because many aren't allowed to get married.

[@MEATYOKERRable]

David. You must have felt that you were free-falling. But dude....No offense, but Why do you kids have to reveal EVERYTHING on KZbin? It's bad enough to tell your deep, dark secrets to your friends... Why to the whole world???