I Left Her: HER REACTiON

[@tribetyler]

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[@jnlione1]

Awesome, awesome video guys!!!! Totally amazing!!!!

[@jnlione1]

Definitely , hands down THE BEST VIDEO to ever come from your channel!!!

[@mcfishyfirst253]

Tyler Shelton omg it’s like the movie #canthardlywait

[@clearcontentment3695]

Can’t wait for the sequel

[@amandakay789]

I just stumbled on this video and wow.. Absolutely Beautiful.... She has one of the most amazing smiles I've ever seen, what power she holds in that alone... If she only knew..

[@arinapopa3754]

Imagine having somebody who loves you like this man loves this woman

[@sharonruff3837]

Yeah. Wow.

[@annaunverhaun4943]

very unlikely for me XD

[@lordmongo511]

I hope this isnt a diss to your man

[@katclayton3163]

Arina Popa I’ve got that and I’m so extremely grateful. My fiancé has never left my side. Fast forward we’ve been together for two years, and we’re having our first baby. He was there through the thick and thin, literally, and still loved me every step of the way. I wanna be like him.

[@takemetomarz]

Arina Popa ikrr

[@britniburdon7601]

The way he kept looking at her during the “film” he made to make sure she was okay it the purest thing I’ve ever seen. You can tell how much he really loves her.

[@sebastianskii7512]

This Xmas I wish I could experience the 'love' thing. I never felt loved or loved someone in my entire life.

[@mittelinak.9595]

Mr. Devor does that matter 🙃🙂

[@kabeisha7664]

Mr. Devor why? because they misspelled ONE word? you sir, are ugly for that.

[@kabeisha7664]

Mr. Devor okay rewrite it then

[@kabeisha7664]

Mr. Devor lmfao idk if you noticed sir but i haven’t been capitalizing anything because it’s the internet and i’m not worried about it like you are :)

[@tiffaraffi7749]

He teared up when it said "Haylee almost died." And how he is looking at her. True love.

[@imhighduded8386]

TIFFA RAFFI and she didnt even react

[@sabserab]

She regrets not being thin anymore lol that vid got her so pissed. She doesnt deserve this man

[@allergictohumansnotanimals5671]

sabserab dude you don't know that stop judging how people react to emotional things not everyone sobs their sadness away

[@NoMoreQQ]

@@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 how she talks about still fighting it every day and catching her limiting herself still, means even though she says she technically is recovered I do believe she does still want to be skinny but she also wants to be healthy and happy. It goes both ways, I also do believe she was very sad from the video, not mad in any way like the other person said.

[@mel-mz5se]

sabserab what the actual fuck

[@carolinerangen478]

For her husband to understand her fight and keep cheering her on IS WONDERFUL and he too is a fighter.

[@kevingerlach7517]

Love is like that, does not want to let go. Seeing beyond a moment of frustration, hurt and helplessness. Love is more than a Moment, it is a lifetime.

[@yvonnerolley9676]

And dependency

[@suzymoroka297]

@@yvonnerolley9676very dangerous codependency

[@mexbiuri]

It kills me how emotional HE gets, you can clearly see how much he loves her.

[@wishtheyunderstoodme]

If you dont love someone like this, you've never really been inlove. Its simple

[@olive8693]

@I like Potatoes doesn't feel like a lot of work if you're making it for your favorite person

[@jasminelove101]

I like Potatoes when u love someone, your effort for them becomes timeless. You don’t focus on the time,u focus on how they will feel. A love like tht is just so special

[@tracey72610]

sensitive guys are very sweet and caring, i suppose

[@jon222-r4j]

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[@torrirenee826]

the fact that he keeps looking at her to make sure she’s okay literally melts my heart.

[@laughlater4562]

Seriously. 😫😳

[@xasprinn8044]

Yee

[@zm8077]

He’s perfect for that. Unconditional love

[@user-gi6sn6cv9z]

Literally? Are you okay? Cuz, that's not a good sign :/

[@StarsNight123]

chill_tf_out yeah alright “relationship expert”. Just stick to yourself

[@TronciM]

This shows how emotional males really are; we just keep it all inside. There's nothing wrong with opening up about your emotions people, it makes you stronger :)

[@Baky_T]

Women who really grew up know this already 😊 That's what I always say: As long as a man is himself, there's no need to pretend emotional expressions 😊

[@Lucy-wd4bm]

I wish men didn’t feel the pressure to keep it inside

[@ZekeNacion]

Which is wrong and needs to change.

[@tomhendri1933]

@@Baky_T thank you

[@matthewstreacker7402]

I don’t keep it inside

[@ljslw]

There is a saying “behind every successful man stands a strong woman”. This video is proof that behind every successful woman stands a man who loves her, and together their love can conquer all.

[@ti20g]

Such a beautiful comment ❤

[@stinkfinger1942]

It's true, that's how Women have always been the ones in power.

[@mikey92362]

That makes no sense. A huge percentage of successful men are single. Especially if they're smart.

[@kindofschinzelphrenic]

@@mikey92362 blah blah blah and meh meh meh

[@idksmthng]

@@mikey92362 Source: Trust me bro

[@TraceyJeanne]

“I left her”could be what he named the video she’s reacting to And the video is talking about her anorexia, she left her & Often people refer to anorexia as Ana, that’s also where ‘her’ can come in

[@luxxury9736]

or maybe 5:05

[@thesmellofpizza]

thank u

[@uj12678]

Tracey Jeanne ah

[@LarryS378]

@@Abby-uk7rv dude is clearly making the video about himself. i don't know why or if there's some context i'm missing but... her story is her story mate - why does it have to focus on him so much (i ignored my problems and it was so bad for me; I left her; I see her as strong etc.)

[@LouisThorp-b9m]

@@LarryS378 read the message of the OP and you'll understand why.

[@redvorchannel]

This hit so hard. My husband stuck with me through my 15 year battle with drug addiction mixed with anorexia. The hell I put that man through but he refused to give up on me. Today I have 2 years clean/sober and healthy and we have been married 20 years. This was a beautiful video & it reminded me how blessed I am to have my husband and my life.

[@jigglehugs]

Sounds like a great man and congrats on your sobriety. I hope you’re both living your best lives.

[@axxli29]

redvor channel 1076 congratulations on being drug free and healthy for 2 years! That takes a lot of strength ❤️

[@redvorchannel]

@@axxli29 Thank you so much ❤

[@Jfeliner]

redvor channel 1076 I wish I had your strength. I’ve been with my partner for going on 7 years now, we began dating at 19 and my ED began when we began dating. He’s been there for me since day one, I don’t know why he’s stayed with me this long, like you, ive put him through hell when I was at my worse, we’re both very lucky ❣️

[@e2renee]

Love sees what we often fail to see in ourselves

[@fynnroberts3392]

Just as it hit the emotional part, where he said “I love her” it switched to an ad and instantly shouted “let’s play shadow legends” and I burst out laughgn

[@wuthemaurine735]

reid shallow leggings

[@Elisa-wn3im]

SAME HAHAHA

[@shilox]

Welp, I had a stick figure dancing for a game

[@criplydickly1309]

mine was “i love her” then it switched and said “9/11”

[@kailao6507]

I got a why don't we ad 💕 ten what am I song 🌹

[@KeyboardPlaysGames]

"what we were struggling with, was so much" - It wasn't her Anorexia, it was theirs. Powerful perspective to tackle issues as a couple.

[@a.deadgirl]

My man helped me too. There are still good people out there. His problems are mine, mine are his. He taught me that

[@shaym4306]

Endless good people out there 🤍

[@AtomicDog-v2d]

Every health or mental disorder is a shared experience with whomever the ill person is close to.

[@lillilyyyy]

Made me sob. Thats a husband right there.

[@joinmeforasmile4464]

She’s so tense.. I can see how intensely she focuses on absorbing everything in this video and how she’s restraining her emotions.

[@slitzch0_0]

@@alejandronunez7650 bruh you obviously arent able to notice the body language, instead of insulting her be more observant of not just her face, watch the full thing attentively. She's not heartless or fake, nothing is wrong with her. If anything you are in the wrong for speaking like that about her for no reason. The video is literally about her, she was trying to maintain her emotions so she wouldnt start crying. Stop being an asshole.

[@practicalgrowthacademy3189]

@@slitzch0_0 well said❤️

[@joaquimmiguel8910]

@@slitzch0_0 I respect you so much you said it right with all the words RESPECT

[@enquvist]

Alejandro Nunez How can she be both heartless and fake ? You’re saying her heartlessbess is fake ? Someone who suffered anorexia and nearly died is shown a video detailing it and you decide she has to act a certain way. You’re calling her heartless because she didn’t cry watching a video about how she nearly died? You’re an absolute deadshit. You’re the asshole not her.

[@lovedandlanguished]

@@slitzch0_0 maybe calling him an a-hole is a bit harsh, not everyone is wired the same: studies find that more empathetic people are more accurate at reading emotions, so maybe it's a skill that not everyone can just "get" or "see" or innately be good at. As for the "a-hole" in question I hope he just takes what's written here as a way to maybe not leap to conclusions in the future, cause maybe there's more to the picture than he thinks he sees. Obviously. We all can't be so ignorant.

[@alicemnightingale]

Imagine having someone who notices how broken you are inside

[@Revilo-zo1bf]

If only

[@Shay-ul2bg]

I think a lot of people can relate

[@Steph-wt1gp]

Alice Nightingale my "boyfriend " helped me through wat I was secretly suffering he helped me get my self esteem up

[@aisha-hh9rp]

Alice Nightingale never had that

[@cocokaka8183]

Never in my entire life someone notice

[@xbrix94]

that is one lucky girl. that’s a man who loves his woman.

[@spoiledmilky.]

bri herigan yes so lucky

[@mimachka]

Yes! I was thinking the same. She is so lucky

[@leannmarie3687]

You can FEEL the love in his face

[@thr4iam151]

Exactly!!!💞 Love is a key to epifanies! Are there any more like him out there????? 🙄

[@infjjedi3335]

I’m a 50 year old woman sitting with her first cup of morning tea crying like a child. THIS is SO BEAUTIFUL and my tears are prayers for both of you ❤

[@GRiDSWiFTZ]

Him looking over at her almost every second. That’s what gets me.

[@09Nipz]

He doesn't know how she will react. He's also maybe nervous about the finished work. Then she's really stoic, though, rigid and tense. It's interesting. Many read it as lack of emotion -- as if the outward reaction is all there is to emotion -- but some emotions cause us to be like this. Her lack of reaction to me says it was hard to watch and she doesn't want to share those emotions with outsiders.

[@cassandrahughes2897]

@@09Nipz that might be plausible if she knew the camera was there. He recorded her reactions without her even knowing so this is just her genuine reaction..

[@ang3licfire843]

😭❤️❤️💞💞

[@808stateofmind2]

Yeah, the mix of emotions and thoughts... the unseen effort it can take to control them or even know which emotion are okay to let in and which thoughts may lead down a toxic path.. it can be all overwhelming! I wish I could be with the girl I love right now.,,,, wish we could be married, wish I didn’t isolate myself to such an extreme once she left, wish I wasn’t so loyal that as soon as she said she hated me, I hated me too,,,

[@nellieshoals]

He wants to see her reaction. To validate that he can emotionally affect her... idk that that's a good thing.

[@sirih4085]

Oh poor thing. She was trying so hard to hold her emotions in.

[@babymammoth6254]

Do you think holding emotions in might have been part of why she got anorexia in the first place?

[@rikiforever420]

@@babymammoth6254 Yes, I do.

[@arismatold_me6753]

I've always thought the term poor THING is pretty derogatory.

[@sirih4085]

@@arismatold_me6753 oh no you poor thing

[@drewdavis4207]

Lol

[@gingin4663]

I get so scared of marrying the wrong person because it is possible, I’ve seen it happen. I just don’t want that to happen to me. I really hope I marry the right person in the future

[@SuperTzippy]

Amen!!!

[@AndiPandiBee]

Thing is they won't be the wrong person in the beginning. That's something that comes after. When you're with someone and you want to marry them. They are the right person. But life changes people and can pull people apart. You're never guarenteed an great life at all times.

[@ulosen]

Maybe if you are scared you are predetermined to hold onto a bad relashionship in the future. Breaking up or a divorce is not the end of the world. If you get remarried to a better fitting person it is a positive thing

[@lv5310]

And if you marry the wrong person it's not the worst thing that will happen. You could overcome that.... unless they kill you lol....

[@C-SD]

Take your time! You don't have to get married because you've been dating for xxxx amount of time, or because you've gotten pregnant, or anything really. You don't ever "have to be" married. Its OK to take your time, and its OK to not ever want to get married. Do it for you, not anyone else, and you have to keep communicating; keep working together on your relationship. More info than you cared for, I'm sure. Nm me if it bothers you, that's not what I meant to do.

[@markf9871]

I'm 63 man & had quiet tear all the way through this. (don't hold in tears...) So So so good. She's amazing & Man, So are you. Good Man.

[@foxyroxy2712]

Who else was holding onto their breath waiting for her to tear so it wasn't just me and the boyfriend crying in the background ...

[@sharlawilliamson9609]

Yep

[@LoriL0RI]

No problem for the 1k likes

[@jillianolson5369]

sameeee

[@jungkooksyou]

LOL SAME

[@user-bj6ht4ks2v]

Yes 😭

[@sumayyaamos8069]

Imagine being loved by someone this much.

[@CasinoGin1]

Imagine that someone is out there looking for someone to love this much. You just need to find each other. Be a good person, be amazing, be happy, be kind to others, be comfortable in your own skin, be out there doing things with other people. You will find each other. ;-)

[@lilykelley2290]

@Jim Blogs not true at all. i’ve been with my partner for almost 3 years. in the happiest i’ve ever been. you just have to find your person

[@bc7319]

We have been married for 32 years. It can happen. But, truth of the deal: Imagining and expecting to be loved that much cannot be an entitlement, everyone has to strive to become that person that can be loved first as much as possible. Too many people jump in and out of relationships without working to make themselves the best possible version of a good person first or learning how to give expecting nothing in return.

[@Ass_of_Amalek]

B C yeah, I've seen a lot of people spreading this idea of "they need to love you as you are, if they want you to change they don't love you" and it's always sounded like a really counterproductive excuse to avoid self-improvement. everybody who is good at anything got there by striving to be better, and they still are.

[@Anon1370]

i cant never imagine that in all my years ive never once felt it so i dont know anyway my cat loves me lmao

[@andredinhus6687]

"Love isn't about finding the one. It's about being the one" -My Grandpa Edit: I just learned that the quote was originally by Creig Crippen, but I first heard it by my Grandpa

[@liatariwidodo3674]

How sweet.. 😊

[@blkbarbie2671]

Your grandad is inspirational damn

[@bobbyweirddick6556]

Yeah but if you don’t get on with the person or love the person, you can’t truly be the one. Be honest with your self.

[@liatariwidodo3674]

@@bobbyweirddick6556 thats why we should being the one. Dont you get that?

[@heiditownsend5865]

Aww

[@joyjones8782]

That was incredible! He found his person early. She is lucky to have someone that loves her so much!

[@lisalarouge6309]

And he is lucky that she loves him so much also.

[@asdw3341]

He is one in a million or a billion even. She is one lucky woman let me tell u.

[@SR-xk5ih]

NA. AF. I know I wish I could find a truly good man like this

[@ubayyd]

Hope everyone was like this with their relationships 💔

[@yume5441]

its not that rare, you just have to find the right person for you 💕

[@haileyandgabistyles]

So is she. There honestly aren't a lot of people as open minded as she seems

[@snipeuallday]

I'm not trying to belittle anyone as this may seem but this a completely inaccurate statement, anyone who thinks this hasn't explored themselves or others to truly find their significant other. This is one of the hardest things in life to find, that's why people think it's 1/1,000,000 whether its just a thrown out statement or not.

[@b068593]

she’s so lucky to have a man like this, i want to be this lucky too

[@buttersbunt]

he's lucky to have her too Q_Q

[@drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380]

Bro! It’s true I sadly have to break up with my girlfriend because she is the completely different then these nice people!

[@CMchyy]

blessed🙌🙌🙏❤

[@shqipe4801]

thats what i be sayin bruh

[@MabelRD08]

Me too!

[@brandon1437]

Be honest. We all clicked on it thinking he’d be recording her reaction of them breaking up. And we all left with near tears in our eyes

[@saraj.amann.52.71]

Yeah... wth?

[@Boroboo1]

Why near 😇

[@denachtconducteur7070]

Yes and also he promoted her company at the end and put more than enough commercial moments in the video.. bet he studies marketing haha

[@Lauren.335]

Me

[@gracehills5986]

i’m 4 years late but i found this at the perfect time. i’ve been “recovered” from my eating disorder for about 5 months and im seeing myself slip back into that life and i needed this to flip that switch and tell myself that i can’t almost die again. my heart is not doing good (i also have a disability that affects my heart) and adding an eating disorder onto it will only cause my body to get closer and closer to the last straw. thank you for posing this and sharing it, you truly don’t know how many people you’ve helped with this.

[@barborella5420]

You deserve every seconds life has to offer to you so pls be safe and kind to yourself. I wish you a long, healthy life, full of love and happiness 🤍

[@Crispycrisp-ko8xt]

Keep fighting, we need you in this world...please keep believing that!❤❤❤

[@ivynjoki]

He keeps looking at her the same way you look at your friend when you make them watch something and eagerly wait for a reaction.

[@jillianesguerra7]

Ivy Njoki and he aint getting any 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@ivynjoki]

Jillian Modelo him on the inside->😠

[@Dafairkidd12]

It’s almost like that’s what the point of the video is

[@ivynjoki]

Darien fair it’s right in the captions.

[@bardarians]

She had no reaction my dude

[@turtlesovertrains3667]

Lol I thought you were going to divorce your wife and record her reaction

[@hybridstarlet7844]

Lol me too! 😂😂😂

[@shelovevanilla]

Same 😷

[@raksh9]

My thoughts exactly. Feeling a bit ripped off.

[@alejo3acosta4]

Same, I'm disappointed.

[@tobieeck9676]

Ah this gonna be some good content. ...wait a sec what is this?

[@LilJeepgirl81]

The fact he could see her beauty in the worst time and helped. What a good man.

[@febca6920]

totally agree 🦋 We all need someone who sees beyond the debris and help us get back up to save ourselves. 🦋💗

[@Justa25000]

Do you have a brother or twin? I Want someone like you in my life

[@user-ib7wy4oq9e]

@@Justa25000 LMAOOO

[@alexandramouhou5919]

So rare these kinda men nowadays

[@praveshmaharaj4387]

you can find that too but since women only go for looks and only want model tier men you wont get true love since you base your relationship decisions of something shallow.

[@K33LMACHINE]

As a husband married to his wife suffering from anorexia and bulimia, this made me immediately start crying. Thanks for making this. My wife is now healthy and pregnant, and we expect our first child to be born in just a few weeks. It's possible to beat an eating disorder with the right support system. Don't ever abandon someone you love. It will always work out. Keep fighting.

[@therealjesterguys]

As someone who currently has a girlfriend with anorexia, this means a lot to me. And I’m sure it does to her too Edit June 2023: Hey this 3 years ago wow! Just a little update for everyone, my partner is considered to be fully recovered from anorexia nervosa. She enjoys her food again, has developed a love for cooking home made meals and is a healthy weight and is eager to gain more around her thighs. I'm very proud of her :)

[@mj4r]

Della Sheri can you explain what anorexia means, I’m not sure and don’t make fun of me for it

[@bunnie168]

Teent u can still have anorexia even if ur overweight or at a healthy weight

[@claraharris1793]

@@mj4r anorexia isnt just being underweight. It can be intentional or not. Theres anorexia (non intentional) so people who think they're just going on a diet or people who are so stressed they cant eat, and theres anorexia nervosa( intentional) where, in most cases, people struggle with body dysmorphia(unreal depiction of your own body) and believe the only way out is to starve. It is a mental Illness that can be super dangerous and hard to over come( I know first hand).

[@kurniadichandra]

fighting ! u can do it 🤗

[@mj4r]

clara harris thank you for explaining ❤️

[@cadenhoogeveen8175]

Her reaction isn’t bad. It shows how much she’s paying attention and listening to every word.

[@mo-pb5ek]

Caden Hoogeveen 1000th like

[@LilAquaticVision]

Ok

[@cadenhoogeveen8175]

moses mo what does that mean

[@-jax-3631]

@@cadenhoogeveen8175 he was the 1000th like

[@cadenhoogeveen8175]

-jax- oh ok thank you

[@lulubreadddo]

I think "she's a fighter, and now she's a leader" hit differently, I'm crying

[@therealunslimshady471]

I would like but it’s at 420-

[@kingreecesss7302]

*sadness noises* l

[@Donutjaz]

Lourdes Juarez i know right

[@zapbck8492]

Nice to see a wholesome loving couple overcoming obstacles together. Also props to her for overcoming her eating disorder.

[@JoJoMaMa_]

She’s got herself quite a man there... beautiful.

[@summernights1555]

3.2k likes but no comment 🤔

[@WillieGee1970]

True Genuine Man

[@mrunique4871]

It certainly is .

[@JohnJr901]

Everyone should find a connection like this. Working through things can be difficult and some let challenges push them apart. For those that find the courage and humility to fight through the tough stuff… they get to enjoy another level of love.

[@SeguralooVe]

This guy is a total keeper. Wow, she is beyond lucky to have a guy like that by her side. He loves her indeed.

[@praveshmaharaj4387]

you women just go for looks you too could be this lucky if you didnt friendzone guys you dont deem attractive enough

[@softiesofiesoso]

@@praveshmaharaj4387 not all woman acts like this, sometimes we just didn't meet someone that we could get along, me myself didn't have the opportunity to have any male friends or anything..

[@tyffaneelavely8087]

no it shouldn't be looked at like that. This is what every person should be, and expect from those they love, and chose to share their life with.

[@matthews852]

He left her for an 18 yr old Polish exchange student 6 weeks after this video..

[@doudoulefol]

@@matthews852 seriously??

[@ilysebell7074]

This guy's parents did an amazing job raising him. It shows.

[@shoejoe3518]

ya they raised a real narcissist and mediocre film maker!

[@michaelstimpfl9814]

@@shoejoe3518 no need to be jealous of someone else. why are you hating on others? you could spend your time doing something to become more successful, so you don't have to be jealous.

[@inTruthbyGrace]

adults need to take responsibility for their own behavior. you know NOTHING about his parents .... all you know about here is HIS BEHAVIOR so... credit grown-ups for being grown-ups quit blaming mommy and daddy for all your problem,

[@isabellaperezcadiz3646]

​@@inTruthbyGracebro, are u ok?

[@durimuramon1620]

@@isabellaperezcadiz3646 His succes is his succes. You can have best parents and still be idiot or opaque.

[@fr1g1db1tch]

Its great to see something so positive on youtube. This is not just a story, but a reality for many people.

[@bula138]

“I met my wife when I was 12 years old” Instant tears

[@jesslane4363]

I met my husband when I was 6

[@qlvinc]

Jess Lane what... 🥺🥺😱😱

[@kaiserbeelzebub4th]

I met my wife when i was still a sperm.... Wait a minute... Then that means...

[@jotomato]

FBI OPEN UP

[@DrPebis]

Y'all get married young

[@ChizurUBabY]

"she's a fighter.... And now she's a leader." i burst into tears.

[@desireeholloway3353]

Omg yes! 😭😭😭😭

[@suhailldiaz1616]

Your storytelling and cinematography is top notch. Haylee's reaction was the same as all of us watching it for the first time. The message delivery was so powerful and it will help others out there who are struggling. Both of you should do speaking engagements to schools and bring more awareness to the situation.

[@tiffanyroseangeles7517]

Suhaill Diaz absolutely agree w you!!

[@diper911_]

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[@ironres2cue169]

Stfu you ugly skinny bitch not everyone is not eating it’s only girls who do this think about everyone’s else’s opinion

[@MsSomeKT]

Yes! I've been saying this for years! True master of his artistry.

[@maylaasperachiorean6303]

She is so lucky to have him. The way he looked at her is, he truly cares and love her❤

[@Rustypoptartt]

She’s really good with holding her tears back I couldn’t

[@breathoffreshair7795]

Deja Arguello you can tell shes def trying. Deep frown and big eyes, unmoving, i do the same lol

[@choppinmywaydowntown6144]

@maryjane you're a sad person

[@Smittenx3]

@maryjane are you stupid?

[@pierrearr]

@maryjane Have fun being a bitter asshole for the rest of your life.

[@nellieshoals]

@Parts Unknown Seriously. How do people not see this??

[@a.l657]

Anyone else thought he was going to break up with her on camera from the title?

[@ukaramuslasher464]

A. L yeah bruh you’re not alone I thought the same thing I thought she was scared because he was going to break up on camera😭

[@Bobbiii0.2]

Proper clickbait title

[@latjjtal]

I don't think it's meant as clickbait. Overall I got the feeling that the guy has a serious ego. First, he decided it's his job to tell her story and he tells it from his perspective. He talks about how it affected his life and his relationships. He kind of implies that he saved her from her own social isolation. This definitely distracted me. Overall it's a good video and it brings attention to serious issues. But, it would have been better if he was less of a focus. It's kinda creepy how he keeps looking at her for reaction. I started to count how many times he drank coffee and tried to measure how much coffee he'd get each time. Is he fake drinking by the end while looking at her for reaction? That's insane! ;)

[@princessstarwatcher4652]

A. L same

[@sodisgusteen]

A. L ya that’s called clickbait 😂

[@dalilahtrevino6793]

lord give me patience to wait for a man like this one.

[@statixlaw5675]

In the meantime, become worthy

[@nicolasreyes2190]

You can help your partner improve. If you're waiting for the perfect partner while you yourself are not perfect it won't work. This couple grew together for years and years and years... They're together since 14. I guarantee you he wasn't so perfect from start... He grew and she had a big role on that... And viceversa.

[@yeshalloween]

You have to BE and SEEK and GROW and IMPROVE. Then you’ll attract

[@odetothemasses]

Aside from the people above, be yourself. Someday you will find someone, whether Male or otherwise, and you will fall in love. If you feel you have some things to fix, go ahead! But not to the point where you lose yourself inside. 💕

[@davidsizemore718]

Give me the patience to be a man like this one.

[@m.canida96]

What a God send he is for her !! That is the true definition of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!! Prayer to Hayley to stay on her path of healing and prayers to her Husband for standing by her side !!💕🙏🏻

[@jonmoneymaker329]

I'm a therapist, almost 40 years in the profession. This is an amazing story, well told, and most importantly a message of hope. Also, the bond and commitment you have as a couple shows that together you're better equipped to handle whatever life has challenged you with. Thank you for this.

[@mikdadis]

Moneymaker=therapist 🤫

[@jonmoneymaker329]

That's really my last name....

[@user-hw3nq5vb3h]

@@jonmoneymaker329 PFTTT bad last name

[@docthorr]

@@jonmoneymaker329 daym... hopefully you have the skillset to cope with the inevitable mockery people might throw at you. Cheers ! :-)

[@gabm1707]

him: “I met my wife when i was 12 years old” me: *starts crying*

[@Ang3lBag3l]

ME TOO

[@zyprexza]

LMAOO

[@555-h1u]

lmao can’t relate but must be nice :’))))

[@rq1716]

🤗

[@k1onie421]

. p e n I s. Periodt

[@armenis7]

To all those saying she is not crying. That girl has ran out of tears.. Been through a lot..

[@lizarapp243]

It’s also incredibly hard to listen to how your actions have caused pain. Either for yourself or others. I try not to cry so I don’t burden them anymore with my own pain

[@OnyxMoon81]

@Heloise O'Byrne Maybe but if you can't see the sadness on her face at times you must be blind.. anyway, you either feel it or you don't ✌🏼

[@Willo_1647]

That's her story, his story, their story.. what an amazing story it is. The strength she found to battle, the help he gave when others didn't and the love they have for one another just shows in the video he's made and on her face as she watched. He kept checking to make sure she was on and you could see that love.. Keep on going Haley, you're an amazing woman ❤️

[@abriannarodriguez9030]

She’s so blessed to have a husband like him they are so cute

[@Sasuga_Skky]

They are blessed to have each other

[@connorbell09]

Who tf is they

[@flaminga_x7627]

mz daily fan page I’m saying 🤣🤣🤣

[@rq1716]

Indeed a great man amongst men.

[@tyffaneelavely8087]

how we all should be to one another. Shouldn't be seen as a blessing. That's just sad. Everyone should be this loving, and thoughtful to the ones they love, and even more so to strangers who may be going thru something even worse.

[@icecreamisMine]

Why did KZbin recommended this to me? Why does KZbin want me to cry? Wtf KZbin

[@namastemoon7442]

You made me laugh through my tears. Thank you!

[@CatGarthley]

I’m currently watching this at 4 am and I’m feeling the same way

[@coraxoxo]

it was recommended for me too

[@ZombieMan1997]

KZbin wants me to recover.... But it's hard when I'm alone.

[@thayevangelista]

tyler: "we have been married for over 2 years" haylee: 3 years ~delay~ tyler: :)

[@coraljones537]

me: reads comment ~delay~ me: :)

[@uriapark8848]

11:36 Tyler : :) ...☕️... :))))))

[@allyaltanhan7604]

@@thayevangelista 2.9k

[@ladyjay5551]

haha my thought process is, it was 2 years when he was filming, but with editing etc, it was probably close to 3 years by the time she actually saw the video.

[@nextime6071]

He said “ over 2 years “ so its technically more than 2 years

[@derryshore5586]

Hey girl hang on to him, he is a keeper, and a lovely young man

[@MrKillroy26]

I dont know how this ended up in my recommendations but I’m glad it did. Edit: I’m glad so many people feel the same way.

[@bambam477]

Killjoy26 same, same

[@xxxxxxxx7423]

Same to me too

[@kissesforyoursoul]

same lmaoo

[@topangafrances2234]

Killjoy26 same man

[@maartens9933]

Same

[@thepotato1141]

This is how many times he looked at her to make sure she was ok ⬇️

[@feelitnowmrkrabs1840]

him constantly glancing over to see her reaction is me when i show my friend a funny video

[@gummywazhere7435]

total me too lol

[@weetardedcat2112]

And them you realise the video isn't as funny and you thought it was...

[@justinbelling9321]

@@weetardedcat2112 then you think alittle more and realise the twisted humour you posses 😰

[@cheeselover4351]

@@weetardedcat2112 ikr

[@pc6054]

@@weetardedcat2112 and then u desperately try to cover it up by searching for another funny video but the moment is over and now he looks at your other friends phone and u just sit there like '' why am I not funny''

[@Psychiatricnerd]

The part where the friend says that just like an alcoholic “it’s still something you have to battle everyday” is spot on. It creeps in the back of your mind like a shadow. Just when you think you’re past it, something provokes the old habits.

[@edsanchez6173]

Beautiful. Thanks for that. “Kindness is the language the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” - Mark Twain

[@Herocaa]

❤️

[@zahraf5367]

That’s such a beautiful quote that’s actually very true too❤️

[@kayceewhite]

Ed Sanchez What a great quote!

[@esperanzaserrano8608]

“Literally no one will know” Now everyone knows

[@lyssray2094]

Yeah

[@mcgil8891]

Ikr 😂

[@tamaralemire2044]

Esperanza Serrano I thought the exact same thing 😂

[@kimberlycorbin5968]

😂🖒

[@helenrogers1400]

Esperanza Serrano , And thank God for that.

[@anamiladze9587]

Him looking at her whole time to get her reaction is the cutest thing ever. just look at his eyes and heart in them

[@acer696969]

yes i saw that, he even started to cry a couple times,,,,but the thing that concerned me was she had no reaction at all during the whole film

[@DIHANSvsv]

Yes... I notice it. I love how he cares about her reactions. He was almost crying when he said she almost die...

[@maceydowner9461]

I know 🤩

[@indigoblue4791]

He shows more emotion on his face but you can still see the deep effect it has on her. Love is a wonderful thing and when you can look back and see it demonstrated for another, given fully and completely it warms the heart and whole body. They have a strong story and l hope it keeps them both strong and united. 💟💟💟

[@Green-lk1cp]

That video was moving. He is so perceptive and aware of what she has suffered. The film itself is beautifully constructed. Such a respectful, artistic tribute. He really honours his partner. It’s a sort of therapeutic gift.

[@sarahm.1632]

Haylee, I’m so proud of you for overcoming this extreme hurdle in your life. It proves you are strong minded and strong willed. You and your husband make an excellent team. Keep fighting the good fight. Even though those of us stand in solidarity with you, because we know that everyday is a battle, just know you’re not alone. Best of everything to you both.🥰🥰🥰

[@dreama7673]

As a survivor of an eating disorder, I understand her reactions. She was holding in that emotion so much, waiting to see what the video was about.

[@candi4202]

Glad you survived 💜

[@helenbekind8486]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@telliiii2289]

The way she admires your work is so sweet she looked so straight faced the whole time but she wasn’t being emotionless she was simply taking in your work for every thing that it was making little remarks that she noticed which was beautiful you two have a true connection and that’s amazing I bawled my eyes out watching this video and you’ve gained a new subscriber I absolutely loved this video

[@Stopim100]

No words need to be said this comment says it all

[@cassandrarussell5558]

🖤🖤

[@YasuTaniina]

I'm really annoyed at the title. It's been recommended to me for ages and I've been avoiding it for months because it sounded awful and full of too much drama. If I had known it was going to be a sweet story I would have watched it earlier.

[@lilanholy]

Same!

[@She-gribble]

Bruuuhhhh, i've been ignoring so many times.

[@mariebernier3076]

@@She-gribble I'm still ignoring this clickbait sh"t bcuz of the deceit.

[@bicooo1]

Omg same! I’m not mad anymore because it’s so beautiful but it maybe should have another title

[@jason.simone]

I felt similar but also wondered if it had some deeper meaning to him. It seems like the guilt that he carries is that he left her alone when she was battling one of the toughest times in her life.

[@coffee1207]

Just saw this tonight, 8/25/23...I'm so tired from work today.. emotionally spent.. this made my WHOLE day worth it ❤ sending my best, best wishes, and hopes to you all. Thank you

[@wesna213]

Stay strong, you got it all :)

[@picklesbruh]

Where did u order him😭😭he’s literally perfect, i wish i had a person that cared for me like this

[@theunicorn621]

There's some super kind and beautifull person out there. But they are not many !!

[@AlbaDoggy]

For real!!

[@Hearbout.c]

Clorox Bleach same

[@brrrrrrrrino]

Me too 😔

[@MacenW]

And I wish I had a girl to hang out with me everyday like she did... Just to be comforted and loved, I'm just worried I don't have the money...

[@esther1765]

"...3 years..." and then that little smile in the back after realizing he got the number of years wrong... HAHAHA love this

[@C-SD]

"Literally no øne will know" lol

[@ErikGrimsmo]

I assume he laughed because it took a year to produce the video and Haylee didn't know there was a camera recording her reaction. I bet he told her right after

[@whitty1232]

@@ErikGrimsmo she knew she was on camera

[@caitlindean4682]

I wanna say girl marry him; but she already did

[@alexandragarcia820]

Girl have a baby with him 💀

[@evelynelder307]

Coming from someone who struggles with an eating disorder for 20 years, this hit home so deeply ❤

[@jaymoe9805]

I wonder why this was in my recommended for so long.

[@HannaH-ig2zj]

Me too

[@wicked2364]

same

[@taylurdonadelle]

Same

[@karely1318]

Yeaj3

[@allidelacerda9272]

same

[@NazeMayo427]

Everyone needs to stop hating on her reaction. The emotion is in her eyes. I can see it.

[@glrogers67]

My wife is the same, she dont show much but she absorbs it. She was in a really bad relationship, and she has a hard time showing emotions, but I can pick it up. That's what matters!

[@mrviewtiful3859]

Where exactly?

[@NazeMayo427]

@@glrogers67 yeah. Everyone is different and absorbs things in different ways. More people should try and be aware of that.

[@shanecevitate8393]

Not to mention the fact it’s really uncomfortable having people mention mental illnesses that you’ve struggled with. It’s embarrassing and painful when my partner brings it up. I’m so ashamed of what I did to myself and I can’t really show how bad it hurts, it’s just drowning inside my head in my own shame

[@cl3109]

Americans are used to people screaming and faking it af. She was moved and happy and I guess he knows it, that's good enough.

[@alefnull]

him: "we HAVE been married for 3 years.." her: "it's ok, nobody will know. literally nobody will know" him (& all of us): lol

[@eir1an938]

alefnull i’m your thousandth like 🥺

[@alefnull]

@@eir1an938 oh damn. i had no idea this comment was getting so many lol

[@juantagle3738]

I was your 2.2k. This escalated pretty quickly

[@AnikóAmáliaVeres]

@@alefnull Niiiice 💞💞💞💞

[@jk-xh9vm]

i was ur 3k

[@annaliadesigns]

Its amazing how in her darkest time when she was alone and visibly sick, that was when he knew he loved her. Not when she looked her "prettiest" or did something super nice for him, but at a moment when she needed help and he knew that he needed to be the one to help her. Thats true love right there 🥺

[@iffi5303]

so no one's talking about how he looked 25 at 14

[@nissan2829]

Or it could be that those pictures were taken when they became adults.

[@sacredalien8011]

@@nissan2829 they were adults when they first met in school?

[@kingjulian9069]

hair does that to us dudes honestly we’d rather look 5 years older than look like a little kid it’s why most boys try to get facial hair we hate getting treated like a little boy we’re men ladies ;)

[@JustMe-mz3te]

Who cares?

[@glingo2glingo988]

@@JustMe-mz3te 👌🌹

[@soccerkylie202]

Not even kidding my church played this video during a service. We did a week of mental illnesses. Amazing video

[@kiara_7822]

i love your church

[@2ndchannell]

Haha church 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣sheep

[@hibye-by3yb]

@@2ndchannell I wonder if what you say corresponds with what you truly believe after giving it a good deal of thought or you're simply saying what everyone around you says.

[@waleedahmed8010]

@ekim andersom it isnt! People have different approaches to it.

[@waleedahmed8010]

@ekim andersom its funny how im born in finland as a muslim i guess then. Plus as i said people have different aåproaches on religions and you clearly are against religions, that can be considered as racism.

[@daisydinah2852]

"she almost died " ... he scratched his eyes trying not to cry

[@lemongrab23]

time stamp?

[@3213-d4o]

You probably already know but 6:31

[@ddaisymartinn]

Daisy Dinah my name is Daisy too!

[@avabird01]

He loves her!

[@nefariousnymph8622]

I teared up when he said that

[@i_sly_4479]

Had to stop myself from crying like 7 times. This was so amazing and it hits hard because it's so true. Great job on the editing and material for this video! Your both gorgeous souls and I'm so happy she's recovered and where she belongs, right next to you!

[@dylanthepickle6428]

Hey kids. THIS is what love is. Not that romantic crap you see in the movie.

[@michellemichelle5202]

Well, there’s nothing wrong with romance. But yes, there needs to be sacrifice and true attentiveness

[@psylopanda2841]

This Is some crappy romantic thing that could be on a movie or something stupid like Gilmore Girls... No hating tho... The guy is a really creative dude and im happy that they have a good marriage...

[@mandoky1647]

Well him caring about her and her condition is romantic in a way.

[@haa4990]

@@mandoky1647 for everyone to see him the way he portrays himself. That whole thing is strange..

[@daniellakshan]

true true

[@hollyniederer8581]

To everyone saying she isn't crying. She is. Inside.

[@ebok98]

Sometimes it’s too deep to cry

[@johnwill8980]

How do you know??

[@hollyniederer8581]

@@johnwill8980 she seems to be a very strong person who is fighting showing her emotions. But she has them .

[@tyrawoodruff9835]

Women are so good at masking their emotions you generally won't know

[@krisnnademillemariano3941]

At the end she did say she was holding back tears

[@drteddy2609]

In his defence, he said "we've been married for OVER 2 years" when you're married for 40 years, that's still over 2 years, so he wasn't lying! 😅

[@mxbuns8454]

40??

[@leilaa1235]

PrincessPetals no no. They’ve been married for OVER 2 years, so that includes any number above 2 :)

[@KikiF7]

That’s called double speak

[@mxbuns8454]

@@leilaa1235 ohhh pftt im dumb lol

[@reledpeak3324]

PrincessPetals don’t worry I read it 7 times to realise what she meant

[@Theodicy101]

As a healthcare provider with also a master's in psych, I applaud your video. It was excellent...a wonderful, loving tribute to your wife, but also educating everyone and giving hope to those with eating disoders and to those who care about them. I notice that this was posted 4 years ago, and I'm hopeful that the years have been kind to you both and that you all are still together and still just as much in love--or more.

[@c.reneecourtney5171]

The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so touching.

[@koppilork]

That is called acting, he is the one who set up the camera.

[@sagittariuslady2846]

@@koppilork you people never have anything nice to say shut the hell up

[@hahah4305]

@@koppilork you gal tell that it comes from his heart why would he make such a emotional and real video and then act on it? You clearly have no respect

[@hahah4305]

*can

[@ceaddacasarin3015]

The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so creepy.

[@nicoleb1475]

People saying she’s not reacting obviously can’t read body language.

[@laststanding5791]

Nope

[@aveaillium8754]

Who is saying that?!

[@nicoleb1475]

People in other comments...

[@aveaillium8754]

@@nicoleb1475 That's just weird.

[@linnyroro3177]

Dumtum42 you never get over an eating disorder just like he described in the video. You deal with it everyday and everyday is a struggle not to slip back into it. I’ve been fighting mine off and on for almost 20 years. It got really really bad about 8 years ago and I almost died but that doesn’t mean that I still don’t struggle with it everyday. Its always in the back of your mind calling your name and telling you that you’re failing because you’re enjoying a meal or your pants look like crap on you. Its f-ing hard!!!

[@jamiealldayx]

Not sure how this ended up in my recommended but wow this is incredible 🙊

[@gisellehooks]

Couldn’t agree more!

[@TerrifiedTaylorGaming]

Same.

[@kittycat418gaming4]

Same

[@jackeemccullum]

Sammmmme! But loved ittttt i stopped doing what I was doing to watch it

[@PlatonicKuchi]

This was in mine to

[@madwhitehare3635]

Drenched in sweat….not surprised. Demons don’t like being revealed. Keep going Hayley. Say some prayers and you’ll be released.

[@moparman1962]

She was THINKING and FEELING things as she was watching the video, deep things, and she was REACTING to them internally...her mind literally revved into overdrive and her body reacted as though she had been running...FROM her sickness and TOWARD sanity and rational thought.

[@RoyalPurpleDinosaur]

@@moparman1962I’m not getting into an argument with either of you, I’m just clarifying, The original commenter wasn’t calling HER a demon, rather her disorder. Which, whether you are religious or not, is kind of accurate loll :)

[@rellcapone2763]

Who else clicks and goes straight to the comments while watching

[@markking-hazel3326]

Every time

[@trevcon3]

I do

[@sagittariusmoon1043]

I pause it before reading 😂 ,, total spolier

[@mrjackelbox4418]

Here here

[@TristanWilliamsonMusic]

I normally do, but I wanted to take in the entire video

[@niziangely5469]

I wish I had a boyfriend who cared that much about me

[@katydonado6216]

Or at least have a boyfriend🥺

[@yogirlsakura6065]

Lmao

[@donnamq07]

Me ✌️. ❤️

[@maggie-xf3vw]

hard for me to watch stuff like this because i know i’ll never have love like this. it hurts 😅

[@LeYtBGtainosambabati]

Maybe you had but friend zoned him hahah

[@that_missing_link]

This woman is so lucky to have someone like him

[@Mgiraldo87]

I've seen this several times and can never get over the beauty and heartache of this story. I'm so glad you guys shared this because so many people are suffering silently and don't have someone there to help lift them up.

[@daniellemartin6374]

The love he has for her.. need that in my life

[@sophearyouk4129]

Sometimes we have that but we let them go

[@Surelinefoams]

Like with myself I waited for her like 15 yrs then moved to states and the end was from her and she still regrets...

[@sophearyouk4129]

@TAKKAS DERMAWAN PASARIBU oh never, I was talking about guys who let me go lol

[@nv8949]

Sopheary Ouk lmao

[@tactnastyv2]

Video: “she’s a fighter, and now she’s a leader” Ad: “MIKE BLOOMBERG FOR PRESIDENT” shit let me slightly tear up in peace.

[@baileyburns6226]

Garrett Vincent so inconsiderate 😂😂

[@zeldeus6803]

G e t P r e m i u m

[@sugamylove2954]

Meeeeee 😂😂😂

[@bellal3167]

Yo, that happened to me toooo😂

[@julianvillegas6058]

Ew Bloomberg

[@anggel999]

I didn’t actually think it was possible for people to marry their 7th grade crush but ig it’s true

[@kellysutherin7548]

Lonely Shoelace I’m engaged to my 7th grade crush ❤️

[@comeonheydaddy2921]

@@kellysutherin7548 how

[@kellysutherin7548]

Ashlie Ace sheer luck that late in life we meet again after high school

[@stefuhni]

I'm married to my 7th grade crush. We started dating at 16, and we are 29 now.

[@SiSi-oi2or]

my parents did !!!

[@nicolelela7423]

So authentic and pure. They are soulmates this is just a beautiful love story between 2 genuine people. So happy for them both.

[@kevinbaird7277]

This guy should be making movies.

[@berfinbalikci332]

@kcimos why?

[@kevinbaird7277]

@@concerned1 Great comment, thankz.

[@Yotrymp]

This is a movie

[@dalebecause2467]

Need lots of money to make movies...I know...I did it....

[@sunilnarine6313]

No

[@sophia-sb8bm]

The way he keeps looking at her to make sure she’s okay is 🥺

[@tribevibe9209]

💙💙💙

[@kyndness]

He totally was trying not to cry. I’d be doing the very same thing.

[@cjschmitt4882]

He was looking at her for reaction; approval of what he created...sorry

[@nanetteb4038]

He is so sweet!

[@acegamer2220]

@@cjschmitt4882 fact bro🥺

[@ericmann2303]

She is a miracle!!!! My wife almost died of anorexia. They had no idea what or how to treat her in the eighties. She no longer struggles with her disorder, but she came close to death several times. Your wife is miracle of God. He blessed you both with each other.

[@livmarlin4259]

She"s a MONSTER!

[@b.j.loveislove9090]

It makes my heart feel good that your wife battled and eventually won being still with you. My niece did not... the disease won 🙏

[@USER-ZB2YT]

I'm glad she's doing better now

[@USER-ZB2YT]

@@b.j.loveislove9090I'm really sorry for your loss.. Rest in Peace🪦