I'll NEVER Date A Black Man Again.....WHITE MEN ONLY| Ep. 148

[@Kenganda]

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[@Kenganda]

lollll@@OG364U

[@alithebastardreloaded3737]

I'd rather drag my nuts through broken glass!

[@kcchristop]

I am gonna check it out!!

[@joaopaulo-tz5rv]

so because her people told her she was a gold digger she broke up with the white guy something is not adding u lmao

[@davidmulombo5181]

The problem is you yourself first to check yourself Maman

[@Ismail-cf6xu]

It's cool. Stay where you are. Wishing you the best. -Black Men

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much! I sure will stay in my lane. Stay blessed my dear!

[@torrey2708]

All the theatrics, please stop! And just tell the people you’ve been loving ZADDY since you were in kindergarten 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣🤣

[@jahkarimirza7286]

🤣🤣

[@torrey2708]

@@jahkarimirza7286 🤣🤣🤣

[@petertosh8275]

😅💯

[@saeedmsimmons333]

📠

[@shoshanasmith1631]

Have you watch ALL these Black Male KZbinr's and The Males who follow and worship them. It's NO Secret that Black Men are disgusted and thoroughly Hate and Despise Black Women NO Matter which country they are from. If she likes Zaddy BM like Snow Bunnies! 🤍🐇 🚫👩🏾

[@muk_ray_and]

This episode brings a whole new low to women's level of accountability.

[@muk_ray_and]

Most unattractive trait you can have as a woman is delusionary disagreeability. It's okay to have a different opinion, but atleast try to understand where the other party is coming from, even at the expense of your ego.

[@remmiemale9978]

I have heard your school of thought, but have you taken time to hear my view dear? It might not rub you well but that’s my truth, through experience. Thank you so much for taking time to listen to what I had to share. Thank you for your judgment too. Stay blessed.

[@majamaja8136]

@@remmiemale9978 I support you 💯 I know where you are coming from.

[@politereminder6284]

You want HER to be accountable for THEIR cheating🤔

[@muk_ray_and]

@@politereminder6284 Read between the lines, I only see one consistent problem.

[@gttandpawpawfam3192]

This is why black people stands alone

[@princessprincess7708]

Our skin colour name is not black.

[@joaopaulo-tz5rv]

@@princessprincess7708 semantics

[@Mushimushi25]

​@joaopaulo-tz5rv It matters, Black was given to us by our enemy.

[@koreyp2845]

​@@princessprincess7708King Solomon said he's black like the tents of kedar. If you use the word Nubian that is just another word for black. Same thing with Kush

[@joaopaulo-tz5rv]

@@Mushimushi25 angola zambia tanzania guine bissau was given to us by the colonizers camereoon was named by the portuguese they call the camaroes wich mean shrimp because there was alot of shrimps over there

[@CaribbeanLife2023]

She needs to fully heal her Trauma. Only then can she fully love and accept herself and her history.

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much. What you are saying resonates with my spirit. I will keep your wise counsel in mind. Stay tuned on Kenganda. Stay blessed

[@mrdadar2594]

You can't heal when you are the trauma.

[@remmiemale9978]

@@mrdadar2594 you are not God! Take your unkind words and traumatise yourself! Don’t become the champion of cyber bullies. Because you have a keyboard! You can do better than that!

[@driftaaa]

The sad part is that she is the problem. She talks WAY TOO MUCH. She is irritating, disagreeable, argumentative, arrogant, and stubborn. Keep in mind she never answered why is she still single after leaving black men? Her issue has nothing to do with skin color.

[@robertmkude8234]

The way she presented herself,no African men will take her seriously. Just hit and run girl,that’s all she’s good for.

[@ronniewamala5768]

She wants white men but i don't think they would put up with her.

[@driftaaa]

@@robertmkude8234 I wouldn't even care to pump and dump her. Her entire character was a turn off.

[@anumekasa4439]

She is just a fool no african man will even come near cus she is just a mad woman.

[@anumekasa4439]

Oshay please don,t bring this kind animal that devalue black people here,she has copied western life and vomiting nonsense here.

[@Bringdastorm]

This woman has a lot of suppressed hate for Black men. She also is clearly not 20 ANYTHING! She looks in her 50's. She needs to keep seeking love where she is comfortable.. Leave Black men out of your vitriol..

[@meganakinsanya4702]

She didn’t even bash bm 🙄, she even said multiple times that she loves bm. When does dating a white man mean you have suppressed hate and vitriol for bm. That’s so absurd ! Bw don’t have to date bm, and that shouldn’t be considered as hate

[@remmiemale9978]

You will be fine Mr. Analyst! Being 50 is not a crime and am loving every minute of it! That said, Hate is a big word to be in the same sentence with me! Only a hater can embrace hatred! I refuse to be labeled with that big word! Enjoy it alone! Aging is wisdom, don’t insinuate that it’s a crime! Most of all you missed the humour behind the 25yrs joke, it just goes to expose your level of intelligence. Praying for you. Stay blessed!

[@franchesca7523]

She was vulnerable & funny. She kept me watching. Good luck to her in finding her happiness.

[@sistersofthemaccabees2497]

You're just as crazy as she is

[@emmanuelervin5035]

She is not a Pan Africanist. We call her type Self reformed Swirlers.

[@missethio7394]

You obviously never been to Africa!! Nobody in Africa is a pan-africanist 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JayRBG.]

@@missethio7394I’m in Salone right now and I’m a pan Africanist. Stop lying!!

[@missethio7394]

@@JayRBG. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@remmiemale9978]

Great to note! Stay blessed my wise friend!

[@georginawellman5370]

Of course, she's no Pan-African. She doesn't even know what she had for breakfast not to talk of what she'd have for dinner

[@kcchristop]

I get her point! Some people feel terrible when they are treated worse by their own race!!

[@remmiemale9978]

Finally, a brother who is willing to hear and understand our pain! Thank you so much! Stay blessed!

[@thegift369]

@@remmiemale9978 Y'all need to understand that Blk Men are tired of y'all ish too naw Lol Which is why a lot of them are Also dating out.

[@remmiemale9978]

@@thegift369 if they are dating out of our race why are you all up in arms when we also want to date whites!

[@richiemd777]

​@remmiemale9978 because white people can also treat you bad so why give them a slack? There has to be a desire to worship them or see them as superior.

[@bluetheory2]

​@remmiemale9978 What pain?

[@RedbandJettson]

40 in the face, but 25 in spirit is what she meant yall.

[@remmiemale9978]

Brilliant! Sending you a hug! They lost out on the humour and they think they are intelligent enough to voice their mistaken opinions! Stay blessed!

[@ichooseviolence2532]

​@@remmiemale9978Grandma 😂

[@Hueyn42]

She in her 50s

[@mandyb6414]

He has not think lonely of her, OSHAY. OSHAY is trying to find blame’s with this woman. Every one has a Right to walk away from abuse. Some women choose their mouth and tolerate abuse for physical it’s such as money, house, purse. These women who stay even get AIDS by stay with cheating Black men. OSHAY never say how gorgeous a Black women are, but he is bathing this Dominican women all the praise. This woman has integrity.

[@latijajackson6163]

😂😂oh please

[@richardredmond1480]

This poor grandma is in need of healing

[@remmiemale9978]

Grandma my foot! I don’t even have a child of my own so how did I become a grandma? That said, did you grow taller when you wrote your insult on here? Did you gain some pounds from being nasty in your post? Did heaven bless and applaud you for your great work? Please be kind! Mental health from cyber bullying is real! Don’t act with out empathy because you think you are a world class keyboard warrior!

[@ghusaghusa2135]

If that woman is 25, I'm still an embryo!

[@remmiemale9978]

You will eat your words my dear! Of course am 25! Stay blessed!

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

​@@remmiemale9978STTAHHP 😂😂

[@politereminder6284]

She's 25 ...with experience at being 25 😁

[@ghusaghusa2135]

@@politereminder6284 Yeah, 40 years of experience at being 25!

[@politereminder6284]

@@ghusaghusa2135 no need to exaggerate. Also, there is no shame in experience 🙄

[@poeticwisdom3]

Wow, integrity and sophistication from white men, I think she needs to study history.

[@remmiemale9978]

I sure will. Am only speaking from the sample space of my experience. Thank you for sharing your thoughts dear.

[@poeticwisdom3]

​@remmiemale9978 I watched the whole thing now, it is very entertaining. I think I understand what you mean now, you don't like the games played by the black men you chose in the past. It seems you do understand white men play games, but different games.

[@remmiemale9978]

@@poeticwisdom3you got it right my dearest. But my question is, is it so hard to love without playing games? The heart is too delicate for games! I wish we could all understand how harmful games are to the people who trust us with their hearts!

[@MichelleBrown-vi5zo]

She is a mental case lol😂🎉

[@fin2-em2mf]

Look at what blck men have done to afrika...zimbabwe just signed away 20% of their land to the arabs under the leadership of blck african men...is that not stupidity?? So tell me What sane woman would want a blck man???

[@ivanbata1370]

This episode has captured my attention from A to z,all smiles,that woman is crazy but funny😂😂😂😂

[@FannyMartinez]

She's fabulous!!!

[@joaopaulo-tz5rv]

@@FannyMartinez she needs therapy and not even trying to be mean

[@remmiemale9978]

@@joaopaulo-tz5rvthank you doctor Phil! Am fabulous just like Fanny says! Keep your insecurities far from me! I don’t work well with insecure cyber bullies like you! You hate out spoken sanguine women like me but that’s just your loss! Handle my truth with grace not with hate otherwise, folks might mistake you for a low life and a cyber bully! Stay blessed!

[@godschild4615]

@@remmiemale9978 I knew you were a sanguine the minute I heard you speak, that was why I suggested that book to you in my comment above. I thought you didn't know. I think your perfect complement would be a melancholy or phlegmatic man. Please stay very far away from other sanguine or choleric. African men see the sanguine woman as wayward, combative and a nagger and a lot of the time, they feel very insecure around the ambitious and career driven choleric woman. Oftentimes, they prefer the introverted phlegmatic even if they are phlegmatic too, but not all women come like that. African society has subdued their women far too long that even the extrovert cannot even be their real self, but this is 2023 and they are going crazy that women are not taking that entire BS anymore

[@kerimaabu1359]

My grandmother has a Jamaican friend 2 of her daughters are married to Nigerian men. The oldest daughter is in her sixties she has 6 children with her Nigerian husband and they are still married. The younger daughter has 4 children and lives in Lagos with her husband.

[@remmiemale9978]

Were their husbands born and raised in Nigeria? Thank you so much for taking time to share dear. Stay blessed.

[@kerimaabu1359]

Yes, they were born in Nigeria@@remmiemale9978

[@omzy8700]

@@remmiemale9978I hope you will realise one day that many African men don’t cheat ,in my family all males members are married to their beautiful africans women and none of them has cheated or anything,cheating can happens anywhere in the world ,skin colour will not determine who is going to cheat or who is going to be more romantic.

[@martibmark1972]

As a black man who cool with not like she bad anyway

[@kwameoluwasomi]

So no problem with the black men who cheated on her? Kind of proving her point about our faulty moral compass...

[@anthonyclementson9658]

😂😂😂lol the editing of this video was epic. She is hilarious mun.

[@driftaaa]

Any man that can stand this woman's mouth past 5 minutes is a special person.

[@petertosh8275]

Been saying this. Wow so sickening

[@lamontbarnett8221]

LoL 😂😂

[@ronniewamala5768]

It's cringe watching her embarrass herself like that.

[@remmiemale9978]

Take away your bitter chauvinistic view! Listen, there are men with my character! I am one of the most loved human beings globally by the way. But that said, I hope you cultivate a kind style of sharing your views. Cyber bullying is a crime and we don’t want to find you spending your valuable time in jail! Stay blessed!

[@remmiemale9978]

@@ronniewamala5768but most of all you still watched, right? Cringe along, am not embarrassed for sharing my truth! That said, sending you some love and hugs to uncringe you lest you get wrinkled in the process! Stay blessed!

[@dustyinc.8]

Somebody’s grandmother with A horrible wig on, upwardly brothers from the west wouldn’t dare, WE GOOD WE SUPPORT HER ! Do your thang sister 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ghusaghusa2135]

bingo!

[@remmiemale9978]

Being a keyboard warrior makes you feel invisible but have you ever thought about the effects of your cyber bullying dear? Would you die if you didn’t insult people? Sending you love and hugs and pray you reflect on how insulting another human is way beyond the belt! Grandma here is happy to share her thoughts with you. Stay blessed and stay tuned to Kenganda dear.

[@FannyMartinez]

I hope that made your ego feel like a better person you @Dusty human.

[@dustyinc.8]

@@FannyMartinez Dusty INC, there is A difference and we only deal in facts and revenue 😉😂😂😂😂😂😂, you’re the laughing stock of the ENTIRE TRIBE/COMMUNITY/WORLD!!!!😂😂😂

[@georginawellman5370]

​@remmiemale9978 My guy, find a 70 year old man(white) who hasn't much else to do with his resources and willing to have you at 47. My advice: be grateful when you find one. Notice I didn't say 'if' because I wish you well.

[@gorgeousley19]

Black women are Just beautiful in there essence. It’s amazing to see how black women.

[@ladylabyrinth6345]

she was open, vulnerable, and admitted her lack of undertanding. also very funny. i watched all the way to the end which is rare

[@kwameoluwasomi]

How tolerable she is as a partner is irrelevant when it comes to cheating. Those men did her dirty and a black man needs to tell her that sincerely, emphasising the immorality of cheating. I'm glad the manosphere openly makes light of cheating - let them broadcast to the world that they're all just bitter manchildren.

[@remmiemale9978]

You have validated my discussion dear. Thank you so much for lending your voice to this sensitive topic. When we share, they might hear and change. I know they know what is good. Stay blessed sweetheart.

[@kwameoluwasomi]

​@@remmiemale9978 My black wife and I both think white men might, generally, treat women better. No one should be shocked by your words or feel attacked... unless they're also the type to mistreat women.

[@godschild4615]

@@kwameoluwasomi You got that right

[@latijajackson6163]

So enslaved black women might think differently...learn history.

[@kwameoluwasomi]

@@latijajackson6163 What do you mean?

[@TheChrislondoner]

As a Blackman I really do not care

[@SpongePika]

Swirlers make me laugh 😂😂 don’t like us but our d***s are always in their mouths for some reason 🤨🤨

[@remmiemale9978]

But are you for real? Is your mother proud of the man you turned out to be? Going on the internet and cyber bullying folks with vulgar language and you think you’re any better? Brother please tone it down and be a better human the next time you post! Stay blessed!

[@allanzo101k]

This is a very entertaining episode. She's such a lovely character too

[@remmiemale9978]

You are so kind. Stay blessed dear.

[@MichelleBrown-vi5zo]

She is a good actress I feel like am listening to a story from the Novels lol😂

[@MichelleBrown-vi5zo]

Indeed she can be a good novelist😂

[@remmiemale9978]

@@MichelleBrown-vi5zo you are so kind sweetheart! These cyber streets are full of sad miserable cyber bullies! It’s so refreshing to find folks that use kindness instead of hate! Stay blessed my dear!

[@nyandapatrick2459]

She is talkertive she's definitely not a wife material. In Africa no serious black man would like her to be his wife. First she will want to be in charge of all the family affairs 2 she looks like some who's not Ready to take risks (she's after money)

[@colinmk256]

All sed and done, she got the legzzz! 🔥🔥🔥

[@northernking2604]

Seriously disturbed. Don't bring her back😏

[@aksamhuda7]

She’s not 25 She’s at least 10 years older than that

[@davidngwesa]

I agree. She must in her mid 30s

[@mack3310]

​​@@davidngwesa she's nearly 50 oshay and fanny are in their 40s she's clearly older than them. To be clear not dogging her based on her age shes still a pretty woman. But mid 30s is false!!

[@Kiriza22]

She is my OG, she is not even 40!

[@omzy8700]

She is probably closer to 40s or in her 40s you can tell lol

[@ApoloKabali]

I think she said she was twice of 25.

[@KingPorter]

That French man gave her a courtesy call.😂 that man was already dating someone else

[@philippelindsey5042]

This was sad. This lady seems very nice but she overshared her personal life. Don't let your guests do this to themselves. Stop them, reset the line of questions and lighten it up. It was uncomfortable to watch her dig herself into these holes. One of the biggest loves for Black Women is to give them an opportunity to shine and look their best then talk to them off camera.

[@politereminder6284]

She just owns her own story and has no unhealthy shame about her own story.

[@omzy8700]

She sound crazy ,it’s not like they forced her ,they just tried to understand why she loved white men and why she doesn’t want to date black men no more ,none of them insulted her but just trying to understand her feelings

[@fin2-em2mf]

You are too uptight....loosen up OLDman...

[@AngellMessiah]

It's so hard to follow anything she's talking about. She's all over the place when she speaks

[@ronniewamala5768]

She's drunk and mentally disturbed.

[@thekorsh4230]

She's a trumurtized 304

[@remmiemale9978]

@@ronniewamala5768cyber bullying is a crime. Check yourself every time you are tempted to insult folks via the internet. Sending you hugs and stay blessed.

[@remmiemale9978]

Am so sorry you couldn’t follow, you see, the variety God created includes folks that speak like me. Help me point me to your speaking engagements online and I will understudy how to speak articulately like you dear. Be gentle with God’s creation, you won’t die if you don’t share your unkind thoughts publicly. Stay blessed!

[@ronniewamala5768]

@@remmiemale9978 Nothing personal darling, i hope you heal get the help you need, good luck on your quest finding Mr right but you need to turn it down a bit, no man black or white wants a loud mouthed woman.

[@blacbella7561]

Baby she just gave me life this episode made me 😂😂😂 from beginning to end please bring her back. She's a whole character and I'm here for it 👏🏾

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much for your kind words, these cyber streets are not simple! Stay blessed!

[@FannyMartinez]

I second that motion!!!!

[@blacbella7561]

@@remmiemale9978 you're welcome beautiful and yes the internet is tough to navigate..may God bless you with a man that checks most of your boxes...Your energy is wonderful

[@remmiemale9978]

@@blacbella7561 you are so kind! Stay blessed my dear!!

[@m1k238]

She is bipolar, glad she admitted it. It’s always fun to watch the train wreck not be in one. This was a very entertaining episode, even Joanita could barely defend her.

[@remmiemale9978]

Train record you say? Wow! Shame on you for the cyber bully you are! I hope you get payment for your cyber crimes! Am glad you enjoyed though! Stay blessed!

[@m1k238]

@@remmiemale9978 no bullying here. I liked her. She wasn’t obnoxious at all, just delusional, but eventually admitted that she had work to do. And it’s train wreck, an American colloquialism. Hot mess might have been more appropriate. All love though.

[@remmiemale9978]

@@m1k238 no love comes from an individual who takes time to type unkind words to a stranger! You will never die if you tried being kind as a keyboard warrior! Take time to work on your heart as you navigate your cyber bullying career! You don’t want to end up in jail for your unkind ways!!

[@majamaja8136]

No wonder black men are most disrespected

[@msdiary1885]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Where did you get Remmie? She's the best, An incredible woman☺🤣🤣🤣She's the kind of energy you want to be around OMG🤣🤣

[@msdiary1885]

Probably she hasn't met a man who can handle her. I love you Remmie❤❤❤

[@AutomationbyK]

00:00 - Introduction and discussion about the upbringing of white men vs. black men. 02:04 - Remmie's refusal to date black men. 04:00 - Remmie's personal experience with relationships and heartbreak. 06:38 - Remmie's explanation for choosing to not wait for the right black man. 08:30 - Stereotyping, societal expectations, and perceptions. 10:49 - Remmie's travel history and experiences in different countries. 13:43 - Delving into Remmie's past relationship with her French fiancé. 17:20 - The cost of Remmie's actions and misjudgments. 19:54 - Closure of discussion on Remmie's relationship with her French fiancé. 21:06 - White partner felt connection elsewhere, questioned relationship. 23:20 - Discusses heartbreak; feels she's the consistent factor. 25:10 - Discusses cheating using ice cream flavors analogy. 27:04 - Would leave cheating partner; discusses past relationships. 29:24 - Has a preference for dating white men. 31:57 - Discusses past relationship with a white Christian man. 34:10 - Learned to set boundaries from psychologist. 36:56 - Discusses male ego and chauvinism. 38:54 - Values cultural traditions; fears disappointment. 41:41 - Would love to please family with cultural match.

[@lamontbarnett8221]

I researched everything you said facts

[@MichaelDavis-hk8vl]

GOAT I definitely wasn't watching another one of those.

[@TEEJAY-ej5xt]

As black men we have too much birds 🦢 to nest so if one flew away would not be a problem. That lady is good for entertainment. Bring her back Oshay

[@trey8792]

My good sister, we wish you well on your white journey. May the white man give you all you deserve.

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much my kind friend

[@CharlieDmus]

I felt guilty being so entertained, coz clearly all is not well with the sister. Maybe coz she started dating at age 5. We can only pray for her healing. Very skillfully, and compassionately handled interview though.

[@remmiemale9978]

Doctor Phil, I started dating at the age of 22. Don’t become the expert on my life just by hearing me speak for a few minutes! I tactfully used my past pain to bring light to a very ugly situation. We need to sensitise our brothers to do better. The moral fibre has been eroded. We need to do something, jokes aside. Don’t patronise me for sharing my truth that can help folks out there. How do you explain the high level of single mothers in our communities? The family is broken and you want us to keep quiet? When we talk about it, you call us names! Actually tactful as your post is, you belong to the basket of cyber bullies! You all are criminals for the mental health issues you cause others with your insensitive unkind comments on the cyber streets! You can do better my friend!

[@CharlieDmus]

@@remmiemale9978 I genuinely wish you well. Peace, my sister.

[@-parttimeartist-7379]

I get Lady Marmalade vibes from Remmy. Oshay, you not slick 😂! You know what you were doing letting her come on the show😅. Well played sir, well played!

[@cw5971]

Dates by the hour. You're paying for her time only and not for any sexual contact 😉.

[@RealStellaStella]

Hahahaha 🤣. This is one of my favorite episodes. You should bring Remmie back because she's hilarious. Oshay you shady for the abrupt ending lol.

[@kcchristop]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shhhperry9852]

Not Oshay telling the black woman not to come on the show, and tell us why she only dates white men, while lusting over the only non-black woman in the room… you can’t make this is up.

[@missethio7394]

Since when did oshay do that? People in Africa seem to like oshay specially the females. He is a stand up guy. No wonder why he can’t stand u American women. You guys don’t kno how to uplift ur own men in public platforms 😂😂

[@christopherm202dcfinest2]

@@missethio7394not people in Africa ( KZbinrs in Uganda 🇺🇬). He gets no play and still trick off till this day.

[@michaelomondi-gq5yh]

@@christopherm202dcfinest2 wheres the evidence that Oshay gets no play and is a trick - wheres the evidence?

[@christopherm202dcfinest2]

@@michaelomondi-gq5yh he says it himself smh

[@lindaajide2115]

This woman is funny 😂 I hope they bring more interesting people on the show. Next bring a black msn who only dates white woman.

[@LetsTravellChannel]

Or mixed

[@godschild4615]

Bingo! because there are lots of such black men who are also obsessed with dating only white women and surprisingly treat them amazinly and respectfully too, especially African men who travel abroad and African American celebrities. The unkind comments here from men towards Remmie, shows that black men don't believe or accept that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. But they'll learn, it's just a question of time

[@onefineday7613]

Love this lady! People deal with trauma in different ways - love her energy

[@petertosh8275]

That's why no man can be with her. She doesn't listen she talks over people.

[@remmiemale9978]

You too talk! Who forced you to watch me? Shame on you! The thing is, smart as you are, you were not invited to talk but you invited yourself to listen and judge! Let’s laugh together at the irony of all this! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂! Stay blessed!

[@petertosh8275]

@@remmiemale9978 bomboclaat

[@remmiemale9978]

@@petertosh8275 now your true colors are coming out! Am human not a used pad! Take your cyber bullying techniques to jail where criminals like you belong my dear!! It’s so sad that the internet exposed uncultured and unkind folks like you to the world! You need God!

[@bryantoconnor691]

Her picture should be posted around the world 🌎 and she be officially banded from having access to any black man ever again ! 😮😮😮

[@db6881]

Black men just hit a woman in the face with a brick, yup she's really missing out.

[@kwameoluwasomi]

What about the black men who cheated on her? Perhaps the world's women should be warned that they're willing to grind even a black woman's heart to dust...

[@christopherm202dcfinest2]

@@db6881white men kill the whole familiar 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@trey8792]

@@db6881 don’t believe everything you see on the internet 🤡

[@remmiemale9978]

Smart move my brother! Very smart move! Stay blessed dear one!

[@ellg3441]

The lady made sense in most cases. I think some White men treat black women better, out of feeling guilty in knowing how their community has treated black people.

[@nightwishisthegreatestband6355]

They treat them well because they want to. I am not saying that there are no bad caes.

[@foundationalblackamerican1682]

You need the tire too blacky

[@angelmartin7310]

Lol, no. Guilty why? Guilty for winning? No. WM treat women better in general.

[@garthyahudahandrews8504]

@@angelmartin7310what did you win lol the western countries are financially collapsing and all your resources you stole and exploited in Africa is ending too so again what exactly did you win because you all are getting judged by TMH

[@wildflower7925]

​@garthyahudahandrews8504 They win by cheating in every area of life. Colonising, enslavement, stealing resources, bombing countries, genocide, stealing lands, I could go on, thats how they win 😂

[@vizio6017]

Ain't no way that woman is 25. She obviously lying. She looks between 48 to 52 years old. All that spewing she was doing for 43:22 minutes was old woman baggage. No young chick talks like that.

[@remmiemale9978]

Prove it! Show me the birth certificate of when you gave birth to her. And my dear friend, my statement was an idiomatic phrase to bring humour to our discussion. And please don’t expose your ignorance and bitterness when you write derogatory comments on the internet. The internet never forgets, it might compromise your future plans! Be kind! Stay blessed!!

[@MichelleBrown-vi5zo]

Truth🎉

[@Kiriza22]

I was in school with her. She is way much younger than that. And she looks younger than many other former schoolmates!

[@illmath1]

We still love you Sis ! We won't come for you :)

[@remmiemale9978]

God bless your beautiful soul!

[@skyking3210]

That Aunty ain't 25, get her LOL

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

45 minimum

[@kcchristop]

She is joking!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@skyking3210]

@@kcchristop No doubt but in joke there is always truth with all the joking deflections and diversion and denials 25 is an interesting number to jump to and has some significant meaning, the real story would have been this woman yo-yo-ed internationally between all these black men thinking she is better and eventually left her option an average one-off non black man and is now behaving like options are there but she don't trust the men who are really looking in that direction to save face

[@kcchristop]

@@skyking3210 ugandan women and some women in general are like that with age!!

[@KingPorter]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣THE BEST SHOW EVER TONIGHT!!!😂 Brother Oshay, you did that👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 Have that crazy chick back on the show for entertainment 😅

[@remmiemale9978]

Ooooh boy, you hit hard! Not crazy maybe cray cray can do? Thank you so much for sharing!

[@stefanokello5901]

Its weird how someone would say i am not stereotyping and the next thing they do is exactly that

[@Fadda-P]

Although i dont agree with her stance on avoiding black men, she is speaking her feelings and we have to allow her to do that... she probably loved her black men hard and it hurts more when you are hurt by your own especially if you dont expect it.

[@princessprincess7708]

That's why it is important to leave them and date outside. They are Not special.

[@Fadda-P]

@princessprincess7708 fyi, I am a black man and happy married to a black woman. There is something very special in finding someone who is a true reflection of yourself.

[@princessprincess7708]

@@Fadda-P I doubt you are. Our skin is not black. Look at it properly.

[@Fadda-P]

@princessprincess7708 my wife and i are both deeply melanated but it's ok princess. I don't got energy to go back and forth with you. God bless you.

[@princessprincess7708]

@@Fadda-P doesn't mean the colour looks like the object black. Facts.

[@Kiriza22]

Thanks Remy, OG from Sun. Us the OGs understand very well. The people have to understand that our school gave us a strong base in being independent women. Thank God for Sunsas!

[@lswai6777]

This was a hilarious episode!🤣🤣🤣

[@Wazabanga1]

She will be single for life..Few men can stand a. Motormouthed moman like Male😆

[@ronniewamala5768]

She's drunk, it's even worse.

[@Wazabanga1]

@ronniewamala5768 this woman changed alot..I went with her at the university and she was so much like born again Christian..I was surprised to see her now drink alcohol

[@ronniewamala5768]

@@Wazabanga1 I'm not surprised, some people who are extremely religious end up doing the craziest things.

[@remmiemale9978]

But friend, do they give out PHDs for insults? Who is your mother? Will she be proud to know that she raised someone who insults strangers on the internet?? What will you do when I invite you to my wedding insult champion! This God of wonders and miracles was not confused to create a special someone like me for a special someone who can never be you. Sending you love and hugs! Stay blessed!

[@remmiemale9978]

@@Wazabanga1don’t pretend to have known me personally from seeing me from afar! I have always loved God even if I party!! Take your religious beliefs and enjoy them. Don’t beat me down for enjoying life and drinking wine. That Christian you saw is still the same Christian today. Take your box and put someone else in it not me! Stay blessed judgmental human pretending to know me too much!!

[@pamelalynch2580]

So I see nothing wrong with how she came to her conclusion-I totally understand. I find Oshae to very rude to this guest -he shouldn’t cut her off in the middle of a sentence-let her finish. Also it doesn’t make her the problem because men she dated cheated how about the men be held accountable for their actions. Finally I applauded her for not settling for anyone that could bring something back that not even “Ajax” could remove. Just because one work at the factory doesn’t mean he needs to try every piece of candy because he might end up with cavities(rotten teeth).

[@foundationalblackamerican1682]

The tire for you too

[@pamelalynch2580]

@@foundationalblackamerican1682???

[@foundationalblackamerican1682]

@@pamelalynch2580 you don’t understand. You think this is domestic violence? I pray you never find love outside of America. They will show you true violence lol idiots

[@omzy8700]

She spent over 10 years in Uganda and some African countries and over 10 years in the West and yet she hasn’t found anyone to marry ,don’t you see that maybe she is the problem in the relationship?

[@fistandpen2505]

Too funny! It's all in good fun. She's choosing white but she's not really dragging black men, so all good. Anyway, as a proper Naija man, she is correct.. we will usually want to go back to a Nigerian woman at the end of the day. But if you got a good woman that is Ugandan, or whatever and she is willing to lean into Nigerian culture, then it is less of a problem. I get the feeling the Dominican woman has her eyes on Naija guys based on her reaction, good on her.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

As a naija woman, I prefer white men, nothing wrong with that. We don’t have to date within culture

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much for shading light on our discussion about Nigerian men loving their own! Stay blessed my dear!!

[@meganakinsanya4702]

@remmiemale nigerian men are the fastest African group of men marrying out to asians, Kenyans, white, and Ethiopian women. They don’t all prefer their own, and that’s ok. There’s enough population in Nigeria for people to date interracially or same culture.

[@de_lontekk8019]

@@meganakinsanya4702you prefer white men but stay in black men spaces?

[@Hadda23]

@@meganakinsanya4702am Ke and I don’t like Nigerian men. The Kenyan women who marry them is for their money.

[@blissug4290]

😂😂😂 Oshay "y r u still single?"🤣🤣🤣🤣 am feeling this EP today

[@AP.lovetoAll]

🤨 @40:25 Jonita siding with her says much, BECAUSE JONITA ALSO HAS TO FIX THE TOXIC STEREOTYPING and materialistic, selfish ignorance‼️ The “the girls get it” mentality has nuance that shows the lack of integrity. People aren’t foolish.. generally. From NYC, love to all. Bless.

[@joanitamaaya]

okay thanks for your think piece

[@ghusaghusa2135]

@@joanitamaaya pay him no attention JM. While you do indeed have a touch of "East African women's mindset" in you, ..... I still love you. (minus the arm tattoo) :-D

[@tiha6708]

@@ghusaghusa2135 LOL

[@remmiemale9978]

You sentences don’t make grammatical sense. Next time you want to insult someone, please At least use impeccable grammar! Be kind to others. Stay blessed!

[@omzy8700]

Ugandan women and Kenyan women have a lot of self hate from what I noticed more then any other countries in Africa

[@NjieZiphougarth]

She really needs a medical attention 😂

[@ellg3441]

Exactly 💯

[@ronniewamala5768]

She seems mentally unstable.

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much for your wise advice! Can you please point me in the right direction Doctor Phil?! Help with the bill while you are at it wise man!! Keyboard warrior my foot! Stay blessed!!

[@NjieZiphougarth]

@@remmiemale9978 come to the holy city of touba senegal u will heal instantly no worries

[@cassiopeia962]

Any woman who delt with a black male needs medical attention.

[@blackpanther-kt7xx]

Joanita looking like girl I want a white man too 🤣🤣

[@tiha6708]

sadly

[@kerimaabu1359]

Oh dear, what a confused and exhausting lady.

[@803MUSICGROUP]

As crazy as it may sound....I actually like her....She's hilarious......I mean...she definitely have some things to get through...but who doesn't. I would like to ask as far as when it came to the men she was dating.....did they feel she was too clingy/lovey dovey? Did she come across as to much an alpha type persona to them? Or did she have too many rules and restrictions that only applies to them and not her? ............ And Oshay....you had me rollin' especially at the end....lol

[@aboutthat1440]

She's sounds drunk.

[@remmiemale9978]

Ironically, the men never faced any of what you mentioned above! We were in total harmony until I caught them cheating and I took off! I actually always found out by accident! As you know, they say, a thief has 40 days! That said, thank you for being kind while sharing! These cyber streets are rough!

[@remmiemale9978]

@@aboutthat1440but really, if you didn’t buy me the drink, why are you labeling me drunk! Anyway my nature can come off ranked drunk by judgemental bitter people! I pray you are not one of those! Stay blessed!

[@803MUSICGROUP]

@@remmiemale9978 That's understandable...cheating is never acceptable...and/or should never be. Also...to be fair....everyone has a set of desired standards in that potential special someone that they desire to have in their life....and I'm sure you had "Faithful" in there.... As for my questions...I was merely curious....because you sound like a loving and lively person....edgy....potentially fiesty if rubbed the wrong way in the wrong way. Lastly....There are still great Black men out here....I'm one....not saying it in flirtation...but in fact. Just don't give up on love...Ask and Trust God to bring him to you....Because "a Man that finds a Wife ...finds a GOOD THING...and obtains the Great Favor of God"..... Be encouraged and Be Blessed!!! @remmiemale9978 ❤😍❤

[@remmiemale9978]

@@803MUSICGROUP you are so kind. Stay blessed my dear!

[@BantuBeauties]

She'll be wearing a head wrap and have her fist up after zaddy gives her a reminder of what she truly means to him 😂😂😂

[@KingPorter]

She's right, she should never date ever again

[@remmiemale9978]

Well said! But boy, my discussion must have intrigued you! You can’t stop commenting from the look of things! Stay blessed!

[@eldercraft8912]

Nice topic and format interchange....Joanita's persona is radiant and magnetic as ever! Nice distinguished guest panel commentary...an episode with a casual and not so serious vibe attached! Very relaxing and socially inviting to the viewer!! Great job guys!

[@onemanshow109]

I'm not crazy. I'm just misunderstood. 😂😂😂😂

[@remmiemale9978]

Very true and on point! Sending you love! Stay blessed!

[@Missforexcharts]

i can never choose a white man over our black man,trust me somehow during the relationship u will be reminded you are not one of them

[@hassshoban8206]

When it comes for marriage an African man will never chose her 😂

[@remmiemale9978]

You see? So am right to look elsewhere! Stay blessed dear!

[@amos_eternal]

Fact!

[@astrojio]

this is the greatest episode everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!! bring remmy baaaaaaaaaaaackk

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much for loving it! Stay blessed

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

😂😂 Oh my god she just like my aunts this is hilarious, I haven't laughed this much in a while thank you 😂😂

[@kjs9]

I know that it's a stereotype that WW let men get away with more ish. I guess it's true! But also the fact that she will never love a WM as deeply as a BM

[@ahmedglobal2088]

I’ve been to Uganda four times lived there for one year. Sounds like a sex worker to me

[@tiha6708]

Must be working from the bargain rack

[@remmiemale9978]

Hello Mr. Smarty parts, you forgot to let us know where she Carries out her sex work duties from! What a low life you are to bad mouth a stranger after only viewing her in a discussion on a podcast on one topic! How sad and spiteful is your life? Am praying for you! You need a better life! Stay blessed my fellow sex worker who understands how our business works and is ready to share these facts with the world!

[@LetsTravellChannel]

She reminds me of Omarosa Newman - Trump apprentice and white house counsel. Educated, well-traveled, open-minded, witty, raw, real, mature, funny 😂. Bring her back! Fanny be PULL/ use her western abd brown previllage getting with the traditional African woman program ...that men cheat but come back....Africa changes foreigners 😂😂😂

[@daughterofthedivine]

I love your show Oshay but I will be so glad when you have a black African American woman on your show. Not the celebrity type that social media boost. Bring on a normal black educated woman from the South (from a slave state like Alabama, or the Carolinas). You know “the southern bells”. That’s where you will find the women who are still feminine and are raised to be wives.

[@Kenganda]

Bring them they don't come to Uganda that often

[@daughterofthedivine]

@@Kenganda I would love to take a trip their. Maybe I will plan a girls trip their next year.

[@mikeezeala4115]

You begged her, not to come and exposed herself, but she choosed to come and exposed herself She's Notting but a liar to herself

[@remmiemale9978]

You are so wise, how come I didn’t notice this trap! Thank you so much for your smart find Mr. Keyboard Warrior!

[@KingPorter]

Oh, so....black women everywhere use the excuse "I was young"😂

[@thekorsh4230]

They don't give niggas their all, they give up on us and talk about they give up on us. Black men can do anything for black women but they can't take the fact that some of us will have a side chick other races do it too.

[@roqstone3752]

Only watched the preview...Never knew a man as good to her as the French Fiance she HAD...Where's your Husband ?

[@remmiemale9978]

Am also wondering? Where is he hiding? Stay blessed!!

[@roqstone3752]

@@remmiemale9978 @remmiemale9978 All Due Respect....You have a great personality for Media..Maybe a Pan African CNBc style Business/ News Show like Arise TV or A Slackness show like Melli Monaco ? Salut and Stay Blessed !

[@AtlantisIsMyHome]

Mixed women truly have hatred in their hearts towards full black women… she was really shady

[@KingPorter]

😂😂😂😂 Oshay WITH THE WIN! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thechampionsjourney_pod]

42:40 “ I am here to fight for you!” General Oshay Duke Jackson! Great show👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@fallonmassey4714]

One thing she implied is really true, *Culture Trumps Race!*

[@islandfever825]

Remmy is not 25 she look 40ish

[@kman8446]

Her preference, her choice, her experience lets nt judge her but wish her all the best.

[@demonte87]

Aint no way Oshay Aint no way Oshay you brought a functioning drug addict on the show and have this all over the place conversation that she contradicts at least 6 times.

[@tombimashri8149]

Oh come one have a life don t be so serious. If u not a bad guy why u worried

[@majamaja8136]

Typical black man , quick to insult , acting emotionally charged instead of using the brain to think

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

She pushing 50 yall.

[@daviskimweri8095]

The best podcast by far 😂😂💪🏾

[@MichelleBrown-vi5zo]

Lol

[@danieljohnson2726]

This woman is something else 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BEN-bg3sn]

🤣 😂 🤪 😅 😮😅😢😭😟😩🥶🤯😨😵‍💫😵 were some of many of my expressions watching this episode.

[@remmiemale9978]

Myself too! But it’s all good! We had a great discussion and I was honoured to share my upside down truth!

[@Daddyboy948]

This divested lady should hold the award for unaccountable behavior

[@wildflower7925]

This episode has been entertaining, she made it hard for Oshay to speak, she needs to keeping seeing her psychiatrist 😅

[@remmiemale9978]

I sure will my dear! This world is not easy to navigate, so counselling always points the lost sheep like myself in the right direction! Am glad you were entertained! Stay blessed and stay tuned to Kenganda!

[@wildflower7925]

@@remmiemale9978 Thank you, and take care.

[@sunrise2148]

Bless her heart. I can actually see through the convolution and identify her plea. However, if we are postulating that there is an inherent deficiency in Black men, it is due to Blackness. If it is due to Blackness, it is physiological. If it's physiological it extends to Black women. This would assume Black/African inferiority. I think a discussion on paradigm indoctrination and the placebo effect is in order.

[@conroymckenzie9938]

Your African sister is full of you know what... All talk, and she is loud. Her problems lie within.

[@remmiemale9978]

Thank you so much Doctor Phil, well noted! You saved my future dating life!

[@joshuapeoples6795]

A Black woman preacher... Loves WM.... I understand 😭💯

[@gttandpawpawfam3192]

A lady of the night 🌙

[@remmiemale9978]

Do we work on the same street darling? How could you have guessed so accurately if we are not in the same business dearest?

[@sophiemclarke6556]

​@@remmiemale9978great answer to this rude person.

[@phish2947]

She’s so engaging and fun to listen to

[@AP.lovetoAll]

‼️ @18:00 she doesn’t realize that men who sees her hugging and being “friendly” to other men, won’t take her seriously?‼️ SO ITS NOT A “BLACK” man thing‼️ It’s a YOU thing. Lacking self awareness ‼️ Especially the fact the conceptual, she’s all over the place without genuineness. She tried to feed her point of a “white” man (who else went elsewhere, just with a different strategy) but she lied because she did see others 🤨 ridiculousness ‼️ Gotta just be banter to be on the show in a charismatic way.. but it’s just insulting😐 Be honest with yourself AND the world. From NYC, love to all. Bless.

[@remmiemale9978]

Friend, you are being too hard in your judgment! The next white man didn’t come to fruition because he couldn’t clearly state his interest! That said, why are you labeling me a stranger to you a liar? Being a keyboard warrior doesn’t make you an authority on human judgment. Be kind, I promise it won’t kill you if you make kind comments dear! Stay blessed!!