I Lost My Child In A Hit And Run | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 119 | Season 3

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Relebogile Mabotja

Relebogile Mabotja

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@xolingwane4070
@xolingwane4070 2 жыл бұрын
To think I got a call last week Tuesday that my daughter had an accident but she came out without scratch 😭😭😥😥😢 Lord Jesus Christ thank you... may God heal you aus Candy 🤗🤗😭😥😢
@kellyalexander7347
@kellyalexander7347 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesus 😊 there is nothing more painful than losing your child
@lindih111
@lindih111 2 жыл бұрын
I like that you speak with her in her native Sepedi,especially in a sensitive matter as this...💜😓🙏🏾
@tammialevisnus4259
@tammialevisnus4259 2 жыл бұрын
She's a true mother and definately not a mother by chance, so loving, kind heartwarming lady❤
@kagisoletsolo
@kagisoletsolo 2 жыл бұрын
One thing about accidental death is that you never heal from it, the trauma lives forever , I still remember the day I lost my brother to a car accident like it was yesterday
@Sunshine26
@Sunshine26 2 жыл бұрын
As a young mother this hurts to watch, our babies are literally our first and only true loves. To lose your son in such a gruesome manner, it hurts, praying for your healing Ma❤️
@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz 2 жыл бұрын
She is a great person. The way she treats his widow and grand daughter. She is a very good person
@jozimashego1699
@jozimashego1699 2 жыл бұрын
I wish all in-law will b like Sesi Candy🙏
@TK-in4ix
@TK-in4ix 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot fathom Relebogile's strength to hold a space for someone's raw grief and allowing silences while Candi goes through this. Much respect 🙏🏽. May Candi find peace 💕
@nommyhairbeauty_products2267
@nommyhairbeauty_products2267 2 жыл бұрын
yhoo like she is very strong
@mmalehumo378
@mmalehumo378 2 жыл бұрын
Candy is a very good speaker and a story teller. Condolences to our sister, we love you.
@bellasetona
@bellasetona 2 жыл бұрын
No parent should go through this😭Her emotions are so raw. I hope one day she finds closure.
@zizimagadla7216
@zizimagadla7216 2 жыл бұрын
It will take time shem.. Just when u think u've recovered, there are always triggers.. May she find strength to endure the pain.
@mahlatsemasha2308
@mahlatsemasha2308 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh I can’t even begin to imagine how hard this job is for sis Relebohile🥺 Mama Candy🥺❤️I pray for your healing. I hope God grants you all the strength you need to heal from this.
@nwakhubayi
@nwakhubayi 2 жыл бұрын
My brother died in a hit and run in 2012 , he has his skull open I was in denial and remember fainting on the day of night vigil, I saw him on suturday and denied because it didn’t look like him , he was soo swollen . I am still in denial even now 10 years later , it hurst so much to think about it , for parents it’s worse . Came across an accident 2 weeks ago at home , stoped and helped unfortunately I was with my mom . She was triggered it pained me to see her like that , she said she remembered her child (my brother) . Indeed it’s painful to bury your child . May God give you and all of us who is going through such pain strength to live with it . Sending much love ❤️
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for this gorgeous woman the way she lights up when she speaks of her son..my son was famous
@nompumelelomahlangu360
@nompumelelomahlangu360 2 жыл бұрын
My lil bro died in a car accident last year September, the wound is still raw. Worst experience ever. Thank u for sharing your story mmeCandy. Be well.
@innocentiamanokolediga8489
@innocentiamanokolediga8489 2 жыл бұрын
Okay this is sad. I lost my older brother in a car accident too in 2017. We still don’t know what happened. He was 27, he was like a father to me and we were super close. I have not healed!
@nommyhairbeauty_products2267
@nommyhairbeauty_products2267 2 жыл бұрын
i dont think will ever heal love, i can see the pain in my fathers eyes we also lost our brother last year through hit and run
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
I love how proud she is of her son's achievements it's so beautiful
@sizakelediya3872
@sizakelediya3872 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my brother in car accident worst thing that ever happened in my life. He was by himself in a car and flied pass the big tree and stopped by the river luckily the hunters in the morning there were curious enough to find him. Because he fallen down in the bridge it hard to take from. What break my heart my mother saw him in that state. My mother was never the same, I struggled with her and I still am because she never the same person. I miss that beautiful soul every single day, there space in my family that will never be closed by no one.
@kelello-liau
@kelello-liau 2 жыл бұрын
I am seating here watching ausi Candy and just mesmerized by her beauty and very stylish...I pray for her healing...🙏🙏🙏🙏
@fatijoannpeu1938
@fatijoannpeu1938 2 жыл бұрын
I'm literally heart broken. I can feel her pain in her voice and see it in her eyes. This is too heart breaking. She can never forget but I pray she finds the peace, closure and strength to overcome this pain
@nozisamela3083
@nozisamela3083 2 жыл бұрын
This pain I know all too well. I was 23 when my first born was run over by a car. That week after the accident I was operating on autopilot. I went to identify his three year old body (it was two weeks before his 4th birthday), did all the funeral arrangements, chose the coffin. But, came the day after the funeral, people had gone home, I was supposed to go back to work, reality kicked in. Yhooo, to this day I don't know how I did not end up killing myself or end up permanently living in a psychiatric hospital.
@Bongsipo
@Bongsipo 2 жыл бұрын
Xolo cc phola momy... May your Angel continue to rest in peace 🙏
@Jane-dw7px
@Jane-dw7px 2 жыл бұрын
May baby rest well 💜
@nompumelelomahlangu360
@nompumelelomahlangu360 2 жыл бұрын
Nxese sis.
@pointa2b388
@pointa2b388 2 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I love how you love your daughter in law, you are not limiting her, the fact that you will be having other grand children,
@ingelosikazi
@ingelosikazi 2 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart. I hope you find healing aus Candy 🥺💛
@deekaym
@deekaym 2 жыл бұрын
No parent deserves to loose their child…this is so heartbreaking 💔 May his souls continue to rest in peace 🤍
@zizimagadla7216
@zizimagadla7216 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a hardest and painful experience a mom can go through 😭😭. May you find strength to endure the pain.
@montysibanyoni9027
@montysibanyoni9027 2 жыл бұрын
It's been 9years i lost my younger brother but still when. I think about him or look at pictures of him i just cry feels like am dreaming
@tendaimashingaidze7823
@tendaimashingaidze7823 2 жыл бұрын
Phew l watched through to the end The mum's emotions are still so raw....some wounds surely don't heal.. they just stop bleeding and we live with the scars😒
@TheBonnza
@TheBonnza 2 жыл бұрын
My condolences to aus Candy,my son was in an accident 3 years ago,I thank God every day for his survival,but from that day,I am struggling to let him off my sight,even went on depression I am so sorry Candy
@tintswalombekwa2214
@tintswalombekwa2214 2 жыл бұрын
From the day I gave birth to my princess ( first born child) I have been struggling with accepting that death will come ... I can relate to u not wanting him out of your sight but I find comfort in the word of God. Because truly we can't control what happens to us and bad happen to Good people... The Burden God has laid on man kind is too heavy.
@cherylcarrelson5830
@cherylcarrelson5830 2 жыл бұрын
Mme Candy is such a well spoken woman...Am in love with the language shes speaking.. wow 🥰
@Pixiehollow97
@Pixiehollow97 2 жыл бұрын
Big ups to Sister Relebogile😭😭😭😭 May you continue to do your Wonderful work❤️
@theeelephantbeauty
@theeelephantbeauty 2 жыл бұрын
This was so emotional to watch, mama Candy love and light to you and the family, hopefully that person one day meet up with his doing. God is for us all
@kheylam
@kheylam 2 жыл бұрын
Wow...imagine taking care of Lucy ..rare gem..God bless you maa
@BridgetteMokwena01
@BridgetteMokwena01 2 жыл бұрын
You can see that it still hurts her,wishing her much more healing Aus Candy ❤
@chiefer1325
@chiefer1325 2 жыл бұрын
It's hurting her deeply...like it happened yesterday. Sad
@nompumelelomasango3880
@nompumelelomasango3880 2 жыл бұрын
Losing a child it's very painful in every way,l so wish l can share my sister's son story 1 day washona kabubuhlungu that child
@thusimphahlele5085
@thusimphahlele5085 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to you and your family. I can sense you are still in pain. 🌸Deepest condolences 💐
@nompumelelomasango3880
@nompumelelomasango3880 2 жыл бұрын
@@thusimphahlele5085 Yoh it's very painful, such a sweet child killed by a hand grenade ekhaya cabanga ukuthi yabuyaphi till today we don't know
@Yassmiinn.
@Yassmiinn. 2 жыл бұрын
@@nompumelelomasango3880 haiibo sisi 😭😭😭 the trauma yoh. I'm so sorry
@phumimanqabashe42
@phumimanqabashe42 2 жыл бұрын
" A child should bury his parent, not the other way around" sending love, strength and light to ausi Candy
@loleahmamabolo6914
@loleahmamabolo6914 2 жыл бұрын
It's nearing a month since the death of my niece. I'm truly heartbroken by mam candy's story. I see her pain through my sister's eyes who lost her precious angel. It saddens me because this pain doesn't fade. Prayers to all who lost their children. No parent deserves to bury his child. Ke kotlo ebohloko.
@raesetjemuroa3767
@raesetjemuroa3767 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry sisters,Is painful. May God heal you..You are very stylish nd beautiful
@tendanipelaelo6293
@tendanipelaelo6293 2 жыл бұрын
Some life stories are just too painful. How do you hit a human being with a car and run away? Some people just don't have a conscience
@chiccoponela3688
@chiccoponela3688 2 жыл бұрын
A beautiful woman with a beautiful heart.
@femimasinga6346
@femimasinga6346 2 жыл бұрын
My sister nd her two daughters died in a horrific accident in January even today Im still numb I still feel like they goin to call me or watsapp, I knw ur pain mommy, healing nd strengths🙏🙏
@yozareason1803
@yozareason1803 2 жыл бұрын
I cried like a baby 🙆even though I don't have a baby, somehow I felt her pain🤗😭
@annahmanone9565
@annahmanone9565 2 жыл бұрын
Sis Candy you are so sweet my dear 😍😍😍 sis Lebo you handled this story very very well thanks sesi ❤️
@mjngope
@mjngope 2 жыл бұрын
I think Relebogile is strong, I've binge watched a lot of shows in the past couple of weeks and I would've relapsed.
@Skhonza
@Skhonza 2 жыл бұрын
😥😢😭😥😢😭💔💔💔 Phephisa my dear!! This is soo sad. I understand the love she is talking about, our kids are everything to us.
@marientalphysiotherapy3325
@marientalphysiotherapy3325 2 жыл бұрын
Eishhhhhhhhhh 😭😭😭 how do you even comfort such a pain, sjoeeeeee 😔😔😔😔
@winnietakalani8186
@winnietakalani8186 2 жыл бұрын
Its painfull, you remaind me of my grandmother who lost her child (my mom), i grew up without knowing my mom, my father was not part of my life, but by Gods grace i grew up, im now 50 somethimg years,, when it comes to people they are the omes who told me that my grandmother is my mom
@pointa2b388
@pointa2b388 2 жыл бұрын
The story hurts. Aus Candy is looking so beautiful
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing story. Beautiful woman I'm in awe
@witnessramatsetseramatsets3671
@witnessramatsetseramatsets3671 2 жыл бұрын
I did experienced the same pain for two kids the pain of a husband and your childrens are not the same.
@sanelisiwebhengu9403
@sanelisiwebhengu9403 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my mother to a hit and run & the guy is out there living his best life! Bribed the investigating officer and that was that.
@phumzilelanga3207
@phumzilelanga3207 2 жыл бұрын
Askies babe 😥
@thandokaay797
@thandokaay797 2 жыл бұрын
My baby sister also passed on years back,they always told my other younger brother the same when he asked where is Mabongi.They’d say “She’s in Joburg,she will be back soon”. Strength to you mama❤️🌺🙏🏽
@boledielizabethmaake8369
@boledielizabethmaake8369 2 жыл бұрын
May she continue to find strength from God always, Sesi Candi you are a very nice person. Relebogile you are excellent with what you are doing. may God continue to use you more and more , great show
@muswa3805
@muswa3805 2 жыл бұрын
Speechless💔💔
@gladysmkhize4085
@gladysmkhize4085 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lebo
@leepilemantjane8391
@leepilemantjane8391 2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad to watch !Sis Candy💔.Strength to everyone who has lost a family member to a car accident
@kudzienicolle
@kudzienicolle 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness...this was heartbreaking to watch 🥺🥺🥺
@gofaoneelizabethmallege903
@gofaoneelizabethmallege903 2 жыл бұрын
I love her strength 🙏To just be able to talk about her son go le botlhoko yaana.It is well mama May God heal your heart.Your story is healing to some of us who are just 5 months into mourning the loss of my 2 year old nephew 😢
@mandszwane7544
@mandszwane7544 2 жыл бұрын
People who commit this kind of crime should also suffer the same fate. I mean, how do you sleep at night knowing that you killed or injured another person and did not stop to help them? 😭💔
@SelfTaughtDataAnalytics
@SelfTaughtDataAnalytics 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't stop my tears from rolling 😔😔😔
@siphiwemasina2183
@siphiwemasina2183 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Bonangish
@Bonangish 2 жыл бұрын
Sending love to you and all those lost their loved ones. 😍😍
@phumlailoveuzozibininatura9852
@phumlailoveuzozibininatura9852 2 жыл бұрын
It's too much painful this story 💔 let's hope she's healing cc 🙏 I'm watching from saudi arabic 🇸🇦
@gugungcobo3480
@gugungcobo3480 2 жыл бұрын
Ooh no sorry mummy This is heart breaking 💔
@msm5887
@msm5887 2 жыл бұрын
The pain of a mother 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
@simphiwemabuza3229
@simphiwemabuza3229 2 жыл бұрын
Ohh nkosi yami 💔💔💔 yaze yephuka inhlitiyo yami... No parent deserves this, it hurts to me also 🥺🥺. God's will hurts sometimes 😔
@Dizzy12346
@Dizzy12346 2 жыл бұрын
Sis Candy , we love you mama 😭❤️
@mogaumampa1195
@mogaumampa1195 2 жыл бұрын
Mama Candy im so sorry for your loss, may God give you strength to carry on every day
@missp3186
@missp3186 2 жыл бұрын
In life we all go through the most!
@immaculatakadyanji5927
@immaculatakadyanji5927 2 жыл бұрын
Sure.
@linahletsoalo8943
@linahletsoalo8943 2 жыл бұрын
Lehu Lea bhora hle. Time doesn't even heal. Can the team pleace interview those that lost their kids in the pools at home? May we all find healing as we have lost loved ones at some point in our lives... ❤️&🕯️
@quelquun2018
@quelquun2018 2 жыл бұрын
People have pools but yet they can’t swim or teach those in the house, how to swim🙄
@tryphinah
@tryphinah 2 жыл бұрын
The is an episode about losing a child through drowning.. Check the episodes from 7 months ago
@thusimphahlele5085
@thusimphahlele5085 2 жыл бұрын
The interview is there. Check the page.
@Eunice139
@Eunice139 2 жыл бұрын
No pain can be compared to a pain of loosing a child 🥺😭😭😭💔I lost my son two years back 💔💔it still feels like a dream 😭😭💔
@Yassmiinn.
@Yassmiinn. 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Nkosiyami. Take heart ❤. I am so sorry.
@kellyalexander7347
@kellyalexander7347 2 жыл бұрын
To lose a child in anyway is painful you never get over it till the day u die ,there is nothing in this world that can take that pain away 💔 bless you ma sorry for your loss
@tendaimashingaidze7823
@tendaimashingaidze7823 2 жыл бұрын
I am a very emotional person, the introduction and title alone makes me wonder if l will be able to watch the whole episode 🤔🤔....let me unpack and see how far l will go 🇿🇼🇿🇼
@selaelojacqueline233
@selaelojacqueline233 2 жыл бұрын
U are a brilliant mom rakgadi bana ba Limpopo ,it's painful to watch
@motheorantho9422
@motheorantho9422 2 жыл бұрын
So touching
@matlaleniannah6208
@matlaleniannah6208 2 жыл бұрын
Sesi Sikedi,find it in your heart to forgive urself so dat you can find peace and comfort
@asandambebe5201
@asandambebe5201 2 жыл бұрын
I can fell your pain Mama💔💔💔💔💔💔I am crying as I am listening to you it is not easy 😭😭😭may the lord bless you with your grandchildren 🙏
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
Omg it's like its happening now.the woman is traumatized.prayers for you mama
@kerlymanera1033
@kerlymanera1033 2 жыл бұрын
Ausi Relebogile how do u deal with 3rdparty trauma? , u arevery strong in these interviews.
@sihlendwandwe5777
@sihlendwandwe5777 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢 it's very painful to loose a child
@sihlesithole9254
@sihlesithole9254 2 жыл бұрын
Still bubble namanje so sorry about what happened to her.
@TheLadyInAcademia
@TheLadyInAcademia 2 жыл бұрын
🥺❤May God continue to give her all the strength and comfort.
@tebogorailo498
@tebogorailo498 2 жыл бұрын
ebotloko thata no parent should bury their child , may she find healing hle..
@tresornkinsikuaku2992
@tresornkinsikuaku2992 2 жыл бұрын
I can never ever imagine the pain of losing a child, she is still crying like a it happened today, yho may God help you to heal sister
@palesapearlkgarimetsa8140
@palesapearlkgarimetsa8140 2 жыл бұрын
Love and light to Candi,losing a child unexpectantly is devastating and I also share my story about this on my channel
@bonnitasabella1100
@bonnitasabella1100 2 жыл бұрын
Such a painful story to tel as a mother😔😔😟💔💔
@tshiamom5977
@tshiamom5977 2 жыл бұрын
Eish this is hard… Yoh just hearing her cry.
@mohauwamorena
@mohauwamorena 2 жыл бұрын
Mama o bua ha monate hle. It's just unfortunate that this time around she was talking about an unpleasant occurrence. Lebo handled this extremely well...as always. I expect nothing less from this show♥️🍃🙏
@beniesmatsetse2202
@beniesmatsetse2202 2 жыл бұрын
This show will drive me crazy one day
@lucynapwaro5725
@lucynapwaro5725 2 жыл бұрын
Some one wrote” u can bury , your parents ,friends, husband ,wife , but not easy to bury your child” no parent should bury they own child, Sisi Candy thank u for sharing yo story, the more share , you will find yo healing 🙏♥️.
@KhumiNongTravelingandLifestyle
@KhumiNongTravelingandLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
Much grace; love and strength to sis Candy 🙏🏾💙.
@Celebbabies2022
@Celebbabies2022 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless Aus'Candy 🕯️❤️🙏🏽
@dephine8815
@dephine8815 2 жыл бұрын
Someone recently posted a pic of aus Candy on Facebook and I was thinking she had lost weight and admiring how beautiful and young she looked.Little did I know that she lost her son in a hit and run and she is diabetic.May the Lord continue to comfort her and family🙏🙏🙏❤
@sibulelengwenze3783
@sibulelengwenze3783 2 жыл бұрын
Grand daughter shares a birthday with me 15 March 🥰🥰♥️ very touching story 🥺👏🏾
@kamogelolive
@kamogelolive 2 жыл бұрын
Love and Strength to her 🥺🤍
@moitoimotloung3946
@moitoimotloung3946 2 жыл бұрын
Sesi Candy please be strong and pray for a healing 😢We love you
@Liz-jw9rf
@Liz-jw9rf 2 жыл бұрын
oh mommy, I am truly sorry for your loss, may God grant you strength
@motlagomangmankgomelaphela1051
@motlagomangmankgomelaphela1051 Жыл бұрын
I was crying while watching this, its so painful
@xolingwane4070
@xolingwane4070 2 жыл бұрын
Sooo sad to watch, very... very 😭😭😭😢😥
@nomathamsanqamatai7549
@nomathamsanqamatai7549 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 😞 😔 😟
@mantelekhitsane8935
@mantelekhitsane8935 2 жыл бұрын
Awo mama the pain is still new 😭😭💔🕯may God heal you 🙏 but I'm clad he left u a grandchild
@masiyamothwanga
@masiyamothwanga Жыл бұрын
Loosing a child is one of the reasons why I dont want children, I'd never heal from such, it doesn't make sense and its unfair.
@mohauwamorena
@mohauwamorena 2 жыл бұрын
I see you Alude Arts earrings 🔥🎉🌈 Let's unpack!
@msm-u9l
@msm-u9l 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Alude Arts! I also buy from them! 🔥❤
@mohauwamorena
@mohauwamorena 2 жыл бұрын
They are amazing hle 🔥♥️ Hopefully more people will go check them out
@patriciathandi4493
@patriciathandi4493 2 жыл бұрын
She's a humble and great person ❤️💕❤️
@lungisamsutu8353
@lungisamsutu8353 Жыл бұрын
Such a good soul
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