Since I turn 84 in August, this has just become my new anthe! In my head, I'm only 35, and wish I'd known then what I know now. I wear only comfortable things, no matter where I am, and say whatever I want. A people-pleaser my whole life, now I lean back and say f**k it! 😹
5 ай бұрын
I love this so much, Kath! You've just captured what this whole video is about!
@olib7745 ай бұрын
Well done, ! Love your attitude ❤❤ Inspirational 😂😂😂😊😊
@jadeblues3575 ай бұрын
Way to go, Kath❤ May you live to 104 if you choose to😊
@CountryLifeEngland5 ай бұрын
I’m turning 70 and love this channel. We were the Heavy Metal and Hippy Babes. OMG? When did I give up home grown weed for Dry White Wine? Kill me now.😱😵💫⚰️🪦
@sarahmott88765 ай бұрын
Well said, sister!! ♥️🇦🇺
@justme67735 ай бұрын
Best song and Joan Jett impression EVER!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@cymbolichuman4335 ай бұрын
I'm 67 and I have found joy in this old lady life. Thanks for reminding me.
5 ай бұрын
Rock on, you wonderful thing!
@patriciaschuster13715 ай бұрын
Thank-you for singing what I have been feeling what I am at 72!
@silvershadow0134 ай бұрын
I don't consider myself a little old lady. I retired and now work construction, building boardwalks, doing repairs, working outdoors in all kinds of weather and riding my motorcycle. From time to time I crochet and sketch. I'm almost 70 but I'm too busy to get "old". Work keeps you moving. I will admit it takes me a bit to get moving in the morning these days, but I just keep going, just a wee bit slower....😄
@patriciadolphin41615 ай бұрын
Ooh a new song lovely I preffer getting older but not all the aches and pains amd I feel 21 in my head but my body feels more like 80 lol .
5 ай бұрын
That brain to body disconnect can be a 'fun' one!
@itsjustme74875 ай бұрын
Patricia, I can relate to that.😅😂😅 ouch.
@melodirozell60404 ай бұрын
I'm 70. Thank you for making me smile and getting old easier! Very cute!! LOVE IT!
4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad, thank you!
@Uniquelyyours15 ай бұрын
I'm 72 and I feel the same way. Thanks for sharing this, Shirley, it really made my day.
5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad, Uniquelyyours1 - thank you!
@kalayne67135 ай бұрын
72 here too. Ageing is not for the faint hearted, but the alternative is worse.(Love the pill bottle shaker...let me know if you need more!).
@vickiefell24245 ай бұрын
🎉
@cynthiaanderson145 ай бұрын
I will be 65 in October and I love this! Thank you!
5 ай бұрын
So glad you liked it - thank you!
@nancycurtis73155 ай бұрын
So will I! 21st.
@ginajennings16645 ай бұрын
October 16 for me, I will be 64.
@ceceyoung74625 ай бұрын
Hell yeah girl!! Turned 60 a couple months ago and this is my new anthem!
5 ай бұрын
Woohoo!!
@ronjaj.addams-ramstedt102316 күн бұрын
*waves* in also 60, and loving this song
@janadeubner98835 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love it! Why do I feel like I am in my thirties in my head, but most days feel like I am 110 in my joints??
@marilynmitchell36025 ай бұрын
Awareness never ages❤
5 ай бұрын
The shell may be creaky but a beautiful pearl is within!
@enVee5395 ай бұрын
@janadeubner....👏 I need to spread this bit of wisdom wide and far.....thank you!
@audreylittle62295 ай бұрын
This is gonna be epic I can feel it already 🤣😂🤣
5 ай бұрын
Aw, thank you!
@audreylittle62295 ай бұрын
Definitely can relate!! I love it!! Thank you for another great hit from another awesome song!! You ROCK!! 💜😊🕺💃🤘
@jaynekittycat92525 ай бұрын
Those faces Shirley. 😂😂😂❤🇬🇧
5 ай бұрын
😆
@rallful4 ай бұрын
An 84 year-old ancient Briton and his 58 year-old daughter completely identify with this! Keep up the good work Shirley!
4 ай бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@lindagates91505 ай бұрын
Sure beats the alternative ❤😂🎉😅❤
5 ай бұрын
Dead right!
@happyhermit31415 ай бұрын
A dear friend of mine who passed at 91 would have LOVED this!!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@shaykatz56485 ай бұрын
Another top 10 hit! I recently turned 78 & must say the Joys of Aging are much better than pushing up Daisy's!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks - and I completely agree!
@JamesMcRae-vd6vq5 ай бұрын
Totally wicked and totally awesome 😊😊😊
5 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!!
@jameslevens21215 ай бұрын
Thanks for this song, Shirley. Songs don't get better than this! Well done.
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, James!
@KodieTheAussieBrony945 ай бұрын
Will be 30 this year, but will always love the old classic rock artists, including Joan herself
5 ай бұрын
Awesome!
@beverlydeardurff53665 ай бұрын
Getting old is just part of life. It's not related to a number, but it's how you perceive the journey. Young at heart ❤️. I always look forward to your KZbin videos. My mom's 93 years old!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@amybradley25145 ай бұрын
72 here and I feel this! YEAH ME!
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, you! 🤘
@elainebates69675 ай бұрын
Oh yeah, fantastic! Smiling and laughing. Lots of Love, Light and Laughter Forever!
5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@saffron18455 ай бұрын
Oh Shirley you are bloody brilliant. I'm going to be 69 this year and have embraced socks and sandals with my elastic-waist pants. Still have a landline - no cell - don't even have a microwave, vacuum or iron. Do and say as I please, rock on!!!❤🍷 Cheers!
5 ай бұрын
You rock - socks, sandals, elastic pants and all! 🤘
@Beadle5535 ай бұрын
I've just fallen and I can't get up 😮 Loved the song, pretty much the way it is!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, @Beadle553!
@mythal06205 ай бұрын
Very, very cool, Shirley! Great singing, great lyrics, I love this song! 👵
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@ShirlBussman5 ай бұрын
😂😂Love the song...don't love getting old. I wish I had your talent. Thanks Shirley. ❤❤🥰🥰🤗🤗🌹🌹
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Shirl
@ShirlBussman5 ай бұрын
You"re quite welcome. I so enjoyed it. 😍
@critch19015 ай бұрын
Great as normal Shirley. Brilliant. Love Chris x
5 ай бұрын
Many thanks, Chris - this one was fun to make!
@ivettekittyfamily5 ай бұрын
I love it. I love it. I love it. You guys are the best. You’re the best. You’re the best. Take care honey. Have a great weekend and God bless you. Keep on with her. I love you. You just made me smile and laugh. I needed it.❤😊
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@victoria7t5 ай бұрын
Love this song parody and the video is hilarious! Another great one from you!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you again, Marylyn!
@Opa_Andre5 ай бұрын
I turn 60 this year and all those things are so known to me. Those vinyl, sometimes even shellac records used in jukeboxes. Landline phones with dials instead of keys. Nowadays the crisp health, you sometimes feel the joints crack already when you get up in the morning. And all the advantages these days, especially in terms of cost... No more need to chase after every short-lived fashion trend. You need less alcohol to get drunk and the hangover lasts longer. You need less time to clean, your eyes don't catch every speck of dust - where did I leave my glasses anyway? 👴
5 ай бұрын
Thanks, Opa Andre. I considered doing the video without my glasses on to look more like Joan Jett, but it's a recording of when I actually made the vocal and percussion recording, and I needed my glasses to see the words! 😆
@tina45015 ай бұрын
I didn’t know you knew me so well! But this song describes me perfectly ! I couldn’t stop laughing ! You have captured us older Kiwi woman perfectly !, Thank you
5 ай бұрын
Takes one to know one! 😆Thanks, Tina.
@arzukalyoncu36565 ай бұрын
The whole problem stems from weather conditions ☀️Let's forget the pain in our bones. Songs sing about us and we sing too. Result: The energy of music erases diseases and old age. We are happy with you, Shirley Şerban. Greetings 🖐🏼🎼🎶🌐🪁🌈
@arzukalyoncu36565 ай бұрын
When we use a funny metaphor like "getting old" in our language, it means drying off with a towel. So 'getting old' means getting wet in some cases. When my mother had a pain somewhere, she would say, "It's the weather." Looking with humor gives us joy and freedom in life. I admire how you combine songs with humor.🙃🌐❤️💖😀
5 ай бұрын
So glad you liked it - thank you!
@jillosullivan4005 ай бұрын
Great!!! I'm in the old bracket but hasn't stopped me at all!!!!!!
5 ай бұрын
Good!!!
@janiceprunier74775 ай бұрын
Love it!! I love your originality and talent! Thank Shirley!! 💕
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@natalietilsley44835 ай бұрын
❤😂 absolutely love it I'll be 51 this year and I have arthritis but I haven't got the false teeth or curlers pension or hairnets but I still feel like a pensioner but I don't mind 😅😅 Shirley make some more songs please they're hilarious 😂 and brilliant
5 ай бұрын
Thanks, Natalie!
@louogilvy4505 ай бұрын
Absolutely brilliant Shirley! I used to love this song n played it over n over while doing my homework to my dads disgust!😂😅 love from across the pond in Scotland 🏴
5 ай бұрын
Awesome, Lou - thanks!
@candyvance29835 ай бұрын
Shirley, you are an amazing woman and I LOVE your vids. Keep 'em up! Oh, yeah ..... I'm 76 and love I elastic pants.
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! Elastic pants ROCK! 🤘
@FionaKelleghan1115 ай бұрын
I love parodies (have given professional talks about them), but have never met a genius like you. It's not a gift, it's a talent, honed over years. Not just the fantastic voice, but the wonderful visuals. Your expressions here are priceless - I really can't put a price on them. You're an all-star!
5 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks so much, Fiona.
@michaelhoskins8325 ай бұрын
This is a hoot. Thanks, Shirley.
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Michael!
@tj921able5 ай бұрын
Great job! Hilarious 😂 as usual. Thanks for sharing this. God Bless You and stay safe 🙏 ❤️
5 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😁
@marknesselhaus43765 ай бұрын
Just about 68 here and I love your facial expressions Shirley. You can really rock 😀
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Mark!
@AllanHerrod5 ай бұрын
I resemble that! Wonderful concept and brilliant performance. Thanks, Shirley!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Allan
@35345385 ай бұрын
"cough, cough, YEAH" - Hey, are you imitating not only Joan but me too? 🤣 The pillbox (?) macara is such a nice detail 🙂 Great parody, as always 🥰
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Tina!
@nancycurtis73155 ай бұрын
I'd love to stay at your BnB, but I don't think that I would be sane, when I left!!!! This had me in stitches, as asual. Great work, Shirley. Love it.😊😊😊😊
5 ай бұрын
😆 Thanks, Nancy!
@tantefee39685 ай бұрын
Yes YES Yes !!!!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@DiannaWright-j1j5 ай бұрын
I loved this !!! it's so true.
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@maywashere5 ай бұрын
Turning 60 this month, this song gave me a reason to smile! Your videos always need a few plays!! Thank you!
5 ай бұрын
Happy big birthday to come - woohoo!!! 🎂
@m.m.5215 ай бұрын
This is my Top top top favorite version of that song . This song will never get old Thanks to you Shirley !! I’ll turn 68 soon and thinking to have a party for my 70 with that version of the song !! Maybe I’ll choose it also for my funeral 🧐🤣Love you so much Shirley ! You are a given in our daily life !! Take care 🥰🥰🥰
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, M.M!
@JessieBastet5 ай бұрын
I agree with every word of this! I like being in my own skin much better now then in my yester-years. Finally being at peace is the reward. 😊💖😊🕊️ Edit: Oh, and thanks for providing so much laughter!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@andreacrashe98945 ай бұрын
*Kia ora & Morena Shirley, 'standing ovation & clapping loudly' BRAVO Shirley, that is another fabulous parody song as you sing a Joan Jett song🙂 Well, one may be gently going thru life.... but I am still 15 yrs old in my head.... as I hoon about riding my motorbike in real life (as I flash about the goldie card). 🙂nz*
5 ай бұрын
Keep hooning, Andrea! 🤘🏍
@andreacrashe98945 ай бұрын
*Always... well for as long as my eyesight holds up 🙂.*
@dianaswan76555 ай бұрын
Brilliant ❤What fun...74 years young here
5 ай бұрын
Yeehah!!! Thanks, Diana!
@titichartay72165 ай бұрын
Great song - old enough to just remember when i was young. Can still rock hard - for about 5 minutes😊
5 ай бұрын
Rock hard..... then a good cup of tea.
@titichartay72165 ай бұрын
Settle for some comfy pillows & my legs up !
@sharennyberg77955 ай бұрын
Brilliant Shirley as always!! Thanks
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@joan.nao12465 ай бұрын
So, so, ssooo happy that Ms Algorithm just now introduced us!! You're hilarious, skilled & cleverly relatable - I shall be binging your channel instead of housekeeping 🧡💜💚💙💛
5 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard, Jay - and thank you!
@margojohnson42245 ай бұрын
Perfect once again!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Margo!
@franceshurt35175 ай бұрын
Thanks Shirley, you've got me down to a T cheers baby!!!🥰🥰😘😘💞👍👍👍👍🙏
5 ай бұрын
Rock on!
@colinhorwood3635 ай бұрын
I don't like getting old boy you know how to make me enjoy my life knowing that if I'm feeling down I can just put one of your videos and the day is full laughter and no more Mr sad guy.
5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad, Colin. Laughing is just more fun!
@Marowyn5 ай бұрын
Wonderful!! A theme song for those of us in a certain target population!! 😆
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, @Marowyn!
@littlemissyjo85505 ай бұрын
OMG My new favorite song!
5 ай бұрын
Yay! 😁
@angela-fl4gs5 ай бұрын
I ❤ you Shirley! 😻😻😻
5 ай бұрын
Aww, thanks so much, Angela!
@angela-fl4gs5 ай бұрын
You will always be my number one. I'm still here. Your biggest fan.👊
@angela-fl4gs5 ай бұрын
Can you do a parody of Kim Carne's voyeur or looker?
5 ай бұрын
I don't know that song, sorry.
@angela-fl4gs5 ай бұрын
It was back in the early 80's. The name of the movie is Looker. Albert Finney is the star actor. It's an awesome movie. The song I'd love to see you do a parody is in the beginning of the movie. SAAD sings it. It's called Looker. KZbin it. They even have the lyrics.
@spgard295 ай бұрын
Love love love this! Great job, Shirley!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@womanofsubstance87355 ай бұрын
Shirley, you is Baaad! And you're right: getting old (73) is okay . . . except for the various inconvenient little infirmities that sneak in . . . and technology (I too prefer landlines, Lol). Love this video. Joan Jett will be pleased and amused!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Woman of Substance. You is baaad too!
@mrider1005 ай бұрын
I'm 63 and thank you Shirley ❤😀
5 ай бұрын
You rock!
@Lorraine-oh5hv5 ай бұрын
Love it! So accurate 😂 ❤
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@susanashcroft26745 ай бұрын
Brilliant. 😃👍
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Susan!
@janehansan9665 ай бұрын
Another HIT , spot on‼️FANTASTIC parody‼️🥰
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Jane!
@mauriciolee73492 ай бұрын
This parody song is SCARY & HILARIOUS at the same time. I have seen some young people lookeddown on old people and said "You're too old". Years later, they grew OLD too and faced the same health problems like other seniors! Thank Shirley for making my Life Fun Again with this song.
2 ай бұрын
Thanks! Age gets us if we live long enough - might as well enjoy it!
@mauriciolee73492 ай бұрын
Yes! There's a saying "Enjoy while it lasts!"
@csh431665 ай бұрын
Excellent!!!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@SusanAlexandriaAnderson12 күн бұрын
Love it! I turn 61 and couldn’t be happier.
12 күн бұрын
That's wonderful - as it should be at every age!
@ronfogarty38885 ай бұрын
Very nice shirley thats very cool keep up the good work
5 ай бұрын
Thank you kindly, Ron!
@kellyschiller81665 ай бұрын
Holy shit, gonna be amazing!!!! Auntie will be notified 😂😂😂❤
5 ай бұрын
😆
@Joyce-bg1jh5 ай бұрын
I love it!❤️
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@shortythenut15 ай бұрын
Sounds like me LOL Love it!
5 ай бұрын
😆 Thank you and rock on!
@DrSweat5 ай бұрын
Spot on Shirley! At 69 I couldn't agree more!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, @DrSweat!
@kathyboyett77475 ай бұрын
That was soo good, and very accurate! I just turned 60!
5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday to you! Rock on!
@daliyashohat13205 ай бұрын
I can't wait! Anything you do is phenomenal. My parody of the same song. (I love) Tuna Rolls. (Tune: (I love) Rock 'n Roll - Joan Jett ====================================== (music) I saw a lot of rolls, standing there on a shelf. The waiter said that I had to help myself. Some were short, some were long, But I knew something was wrong. All of the tuna rolls were gone. None left for me, Yeah me. All of the tuna rolls were gone. None left for me. Yeah, me. Chorus ===== Hey, you. I love tuna rolls. So, make another one on a fresh roll, maybe. I love tuna rolls. So, don't you take your time, make one for me. NOW!!! The waiter was a creep, who wouldn't play the game. Offered something cheap, that was not the same. He told me take it home, Eat it in an ice cream cone. So, I said, " Leave me alone! Let me be. Yeah, me. And, I won't be buying here, Even if It's free. Yeah, free Chorus ====== Because, I love.. (music) (Repeat from: He told me to take it home..) (repeat first 2 lines of chorus to fade.)
5 ай бұрын
Well done!!! 😆
@daSKITTELZwer5 ай бұрын
Awesome ❤❤❤❤
5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🤗
@sabernyari85745 ай бұрын
Love the song and the original, well done.
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@DagmarDollmaier5 ай бұрын
You blow me away with your creativity! Fantastic job as always. I once bought one of your sweatshirt merch (something about a hot potato, in red) and never received it because I never receive anything by post in Russia (my name is very American) but I keep watching for the postal worker who stole it. LOL Regardless, money well spent!
5 ай бұрын
Oh, I'm so sorry that happened to you, Dagmar. Are you sure it was delivered? I can try to take it up with TeeSpring if it wasn't.
@DagmarDollmaier5 ай бұрын
I absolutely know it was delivered. I've never received anything I've ever ordered in Russia so no problem on your/TeeSpring's end. It was money definitely well-spent for your endless entertainment, and I'd do it again. 😺
@kthippie60045 ай бұрын
So funny! LOVE it! 😂
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@lzeph5 ай бұрын
Me too! (65 next month) It just keeps getting better...
5 ай бұрын
Awesome!
@catwhisperer2175 ай бұрын
Joan Jett (one of my all-time favorites, BTW!) would probably absolutely love this and appreciate it, I'll bet! I wonder if there's a way to share it with her?? 🤔 This parody is fantastic!! 👍 I can totally relate! I'll be 66 in September: my mind still functions pretty well, but my body says, "Are you nuts?!" 🤪😳
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@JessieBastet5 ай бұрын
I wondered the same idea! 😊
@rachaeljohnson32175 ай бұрын
Too cool sister!
5 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🤘
@Jeannemarie-uj8lq5 ай бұрын
Love your song❤
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@nancycurtis73155 ай бұрын
Can't wait. Greetings from across the ditch, in Victoria. 😊
5 ай бұрын
Thanks, Nancy!
@olderendirt5 ай бұрын
65 and loving this! Yeah! 😂❤
5 ай бұрын
Yeah!! 🤘
@CatCmdr5 ай бұрын
So glad to see and hear you, Shirley!! 💙🌷💙🌷💙🌷💙🌷
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, @CatCmdr!
@richardlincoln84385 ай бұрын
Marvelous singing voice ! Ingenious lyrics. Thanks again Shirley. Looking forward to hearing what You come out with next. Best Wishes to You and Your Family.
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Richard.
@marianlincoln90085 ай бұрын
YEP, I prefer getting older, it beats the alternative. SO Ill take the aches and pains, they remind us were alive and have either had a great time in our youth doing on occasion some truly dumb, but seriously fun things. Or those aches and pains are a reminder of how lucky we were to survive our growing pains and the 2 statements that always come before the truly brilliantly dumb moves of youth .. Those phases are "Hey, You all Watch This", and "HOLD MY BEER".... small prices to pay for having a life we can look back at and laugh at ourselves I tell my kids and Grandkids . IF you can Laugh at it... You can Survive it! Cant Wait to hear your new song
5 ай бұрын
Good thinking, Marian!
@conndapierce58695 ай бұрын
I found this today and I turned 67. Perfect birthday song. You are great
5 ай бұрын
Happy birthday to you, Connda! 🎂
@gabriellew64675 ай бұрын
YES! Now live to these words from when in your mid-thirties and life is a ball! 😊❤
5 ай бұрын
Not just in our thirties! Life is a ball whenever we choose for it to be. 😁🤘
@ChrisW.-ge2zn5 ай бұрын
This song, this lyrics, this style, this mimic....you nail it, Shirley.
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@BROUBoomer5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video; I now have a new anthem. Growing old is a privilege not given to all. I'm here for it, aches and pains, grey hair and all. 👵☮️🖖
5 ай бұрын
Yeah!!! 🤘
@harmonsimmons6194Ай бұрын
I just came upon Shirley Serban's parody videos and find that they take me back to the early 80's and Weird Al, whom I saw at a local venue in the earlier stage of his career. I love Weird Al, but Shirley puts the female spin on everything and ... I love it !!! Tell it like it is from the viewpoint of a woman, hell, I was a big fan of the great Helen Reddy and I appreciate seeing a woman's take on both songs and the world. Keep going Ms. Serban ... keep going !!!
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! That's the plan. I'm a big Weird Al fan too.
@jenwick87085 ай бұрын
Really good. You have a great voice and I agree with the lyrics. I'm 67 and am very happy 😊
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@avivabillington55145 ай бұрын
❤😂💯 that's why the t-shirt "growing old disgracefully" has my name on it? 🤣😁 I love early dinner & not internet games either. "Mod cons" now t really my thing
5 ай бұрын
😆
@wendyroman49445 ай бұрын
Love it! 😂😂😂😂
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@paulabundesen96765 ай бұрын
Oh Shirley- those wigs! You’re a riot! My favourite lines: “it won’t be long till you’re just like me”, and the yowl You go girl! You had me laughing out loud with enjoyment! Thanks for making my day!
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Paula!
@debbie45035 ай бұрын
Shirley you knocked it out of the park, again! Love it! 🤣
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@amyarnold20975 ай бұрын
Another awesome parady!! Great lyrics, great Jett impressions, great song!! Loved it!! ❤🎶❤🎵 You are truly gifted with such creativity!! ❤🎵❤🎶❤
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Amy!
@carmenryan14535 ай бұрын
I don’t like getting old. I wouldn’t mind if it weren’t for all the aches and pains!😱
5 ай бұрын
I don't enjoy all the aspects, but many of them, especially feeling the freedom to just be myself, I love.