I'M A NEW MUM AGAIN! | 8 LESSONS LEARNED

[@LajuIren]

Please don’t forget to like this video

[@the_VictoriaOsigbemhe]

I liked the video even before I finished watching. You are so beautiful mama😍. Thank you for sharing. 🥰

[@Thepampereddaughteroftheking]

Congratulations once again ma🎉 I would love to see a video about adoption in the near future if that’s okay with❤

[@obiagelijaiyeoba7871]

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[@obiagelijaiyeoba7871]

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[@Thepampereddaughteroftheking]

@@obiagelijaiyeoba7871 what is funny please?

[@victoriauche1316]

I’m not a new mom, I’m not even a mom yet, married or in a relationship yet 😂 but guess who watched this video to the very end ?! Meeee🥰 I truly enjoyed it.

[@TheTomilobaAremu]

Yes; Usss

[@deborahfolawuyi]

We are in the singles club❤🎉

[@jessicaoladele]

I’m in a relationship, not planning a wedding but I had the best time watching this ❤️🤭

[@priscaisimoya]

Definitely with you on this 😅

[@ruthosakwe1902]

Me toooooooo!!!! 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@bolanle23]

I had my second daughter a few months ago and the lesson that most resonated with me here is “you’re not worth less because you’re doing less”. Stepping out of my big girl corporate job to nurture my 2 little girls made me feel like I wasn’t enough because I wasn’t in a 9-5 role but I learnt quickly that God has recruited me to raise His daughters and it is truly a honor.

[@emeeliagape]

Lessons I’ve learned as a new mum: 1. Pace yourself. Take it one day at a time. 2. It’s ok to let out the tears when they come but wipe your tears and look at your baby again; it’ll warm your heart. 3. Breastfeeding can be hard sometimes. Exclusive breastfeeding is great but if you can’t, it doesn’t make you less than a mum. 4. Take care of yourself very well. Most people focus on your baby so focus on you. 5. Always ask the Holy Spirit to give you strength. You definitely need it. ❤❤❤❤

[@EmikeOsumah]

Nadia doesn't want the drama of what I ordered versus what was delivered 😂.

[@eseanna4015]

Your second Daughter is me, I prayed for a sister and it took 7 years. When my mum was pregnant, my friend said, what if your mum gives birth to a boy? I said, it's not possible cause that's not what I prayed for😂 My sister is 10 years old.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@akinwaleoluwatomisin4299]

I am a first time mom, had a cs birth. My pregnancy wasn’t very easy and I couldn’t work. This made me feel less of myself. I felt the way to make up for it was to make it my obligation to do house chores and cook food. I found my fulfillment in them. I learnt in a hard way to be easy on myself when I was rushed to the ER a week after delivery and spend 2 weeks there. Although thinking about it, it was a blessing in disguise it was also an opportunity to learn. Can we please talk about the way our body changes as women after childbirth? During the first few weeks, to the months following? I saw my full reflection for the first time after childbirth (6 months postpartum) few days ago and I felt emotional as I couldn’t recognize myself anymore. I am bigger and felt out of shape. Thankfully I got a friend who is also a mum of 2 who talked me into appreciating my experience rather than feeling bad or ashamed. I salute every mum out there! It is not an easy job at all. It completely changes you. I am still learning to embrace and appreciate every part of the process. Thank you PL for sharing your story.

[@LajuIren]

This is so true and you’re so strong. I salute you ❤

[@ekperedeborah6297]

❤

[@faithmartins7436]

There's something about Pastor Laju's voice! So soothing 🥺❤️

[@s.h.e.u.n]

I agree. I was telling my friend about it the day we were watching this video at first.

[@dawnimmanuel]

The beauty jumped out at me. I thought I was prepared. 😮‍💨 I also love the new intro montage! 💛

[@estheruko-abasi1889]

Saammmee I’ve taken 2M screenshots 😂😅 and subscribed too Looking forward to more content plus our Happy Ever After (what happens in the ever after) season two 😭😭 I pray PL sees this 🥰

[@GraceMartin-u1o]

Wow I had C-section first pregnancy with my twins, I’ve not rested for a day, I washed myself, sleep less ness, exclusive breastfeeding…God really helped me to be strong. My husband is not in the country, so I don’t even have a shoulder to cry on, I feel like he avoided me…but hey I’m still doing my best everyday, they are 9 months now…praise God!!!! No matter your situation, you can do it ❤

[@gladysantonza]

“Be careful not to compete/compare with people who are not carrying what you are carrying” Loved this!

[@philomenaogbuagu9932]

This stood out for me and encouraged me really.

[@faithalfred6260]

I got teary when you mentioned what your daughter said- 'I ordered for a baby brother'

[@giftemmanuel6823]

This is so insightful, God bless you PL…. I’m trusting God for twins(a boy and a girl). I’ll be back in this comment section to testify, next month.

[@LajuIren]

Amen amen!

[@amyofpurpose]

Wow! My first child who is 7 month old was playing with my phone and opened this video. I believed it wasn't a mistake, and I was right! God wanted me to see this video. I literally made my husband watch it with me too!😅 Thank you so much, Pastor Laju! I TRULY NEEDED THIS! God bless you and protect our Baby K!❤

[@LajuIren]

Glory to God! Amen, thank you

[@LajuIren]

That is awesome!

[@seunpoju]

I had a boy too in 2023 after 2 girls. God is faithful. I am so thankful.

[@fewamiridada]

"my house is full" and "my heart is full". This blessed me in no small way! Be careful not to compete/compare with people who are not carrying what you are carrying” Loved this!

[@christianahadeboye7070]

It's PL's smile for me😌. So contagious! Still in my twenties, unmarried, and never had a child, so...I can't relate. But I learned so much from this video. And I will be back to rewatch it again when the time comes. Thank you, PL❤.

[@ABBAs_media_girl]

Not a new mum, not a mum at all😂. But I’ll share what I learnt from spending time with a new mum: 1. Postpartum depression is REAL!!! People need to understand that not everything in your head is supposed to be voiced. New mum’s deal with a lot from body changes, to sleep deprivation, to constant crying sounds…..which can make them “run mad”. 2. When visiting a new mum, Please eat from your house! Don’t expect to see food. It’s funny how people visit new mums and expect to see food. 3. Watch what you say to a new mum. Resist the urge to over-compliment and make silly observations. 4. Help and be kind. Help in whatever way you can.

[@ibukunoluwa_jewel]

As you’ve taught us to appreciate pregnant women and those who just delivered, thank you for gathering strength to film this. We love you so much, PL. can’t wait to be back here next week Fridayy🥹✨

[@LajuIren]

Thank you so much!

[@elizabethotitoju3245]

😂 I just had my baby and I can totally relate. That “You’ll forget the whole pain” thing is a scam but in all, God is faithful. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@LajuIren]

Congratulations! My pleasure

[@the_tejumade]

Real Scam😄. I don't know why our amazing older women say so.

[@bisolafrancis]

Nadia ordered a baby boy😂 I admire her level of faith so much by the way ❤️💯 It's great to have you back PL ❤️❤️❤️

[@PisgahIyunade]

Thank you for this ma, CS is a lot, my mom had CS for all of us and we are three whereas she had another one when she had to remove fibroid and remove her womb totally, I love my mom and want to love her more because she has been through a whole lot. The journey was also easy for her because my dad is always there for her. But I really don't want to go through all she went through. Mummy, I love you and my dad. Thank you so much PL for this.

[@oluwatobielegbeleye5430]

Not married yet but I'm definitely saving this video for that time and for when the babies come. And you look so beautiful, PL. Thank you for these wonderful gems you've shared with us, ma.

[@blessingonyenyere6384]

Great lesson. Is it just me or this Beauty is just entering my eyes😍😍😍 the wonderful baby came with an extra beauty on you 😍😍😍

[@temiloluwaaduloju8611]

Lord 🙏 please bless me with my own babies this year. I receive my twin boys in Jesus name.

[@LajuIren]

Amen!

[@hubertoviemadise8751]

Amen!

[@bettyokonofua8284]

Currently pregnant and this video just makes me feel like I can do it and everything will be fine. Thank you PL❤

[@FiyinfoluwaDaniels]

"My home is full and my heart is full" PL the part where you said you fell in love as kids and about a decade down the line you have a full home 🥺🥺 I really just thought to myself "God, I want this too". I'll get this too in Jesus name.

[@abolanlegbadamosi1070]

Thank you, @Laju Iren, for sharing this. I had an emergency CS about a year ago, and oh boy, I did not prepare or know the emotional turmoil I would go through. Yes, the postnatal recovery of CS is such a lot, both physically and emotionally. Yes to boundaries! Especially with visits after delivery. We need to normalise people visiting when the parents are ready. I am sharing my personal story with my community as I echo what you said in terms of us sharing and letting people know the realities around this subject. God bless you 🙏.

[@pharmkyma6156]

‘Your worth doesn’t come from what you do but whose you are’ 😊❤️

[@Bellanin]

I literally just discovered the myth of the Hebrew women during my Bible study this afternoon 😂😂 bless you ma ❤

[@Moniiiasa]

That’s the part of the video that shocked me the most! 😮The way people misinterpret the Bible is astonishing!

[@estherjolugba]

The voice ,the wisdom,the delivery is everything,thank you PL,learnt so many things especially the boundaries part.

[@olubunmiiren]

Fine girl A-ZL!!!

[@helenomotayo9827]

A new subscriber gained! Stumbled upon your page and I'm taken...not someone who is easily impressed/convinced...but I'm literally taken by everything. You're such an amazing storyteller and I love you...I mean, everything about your KZbin Page. Looking forward to During Ever After Season 3, of course, when you're ready.💗💗💗

[@esther_tolu]

I just love the calmness, serenity of this video. Congrats PL and welcome back 🥰

[@chikesurumwoha-akwu7609]

Pastor Laju and Wisdom! It’s so good to have you back on KZbin PL! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@LajuIren]

You are so welcome

[@ritaayiworu9075]

Not me worried, if I should watch this video because it been an overwhelming season for me .Waiting on the lord for the blessing of the fruit of the womb has been tough.. So I’m trying to guide my emotions 🥹🥹Lol I’m here ! And I enjoyed every lesson WOG! Thank you and a big congratulations 🎉

[@LajuIren]

You’re strengthened! You’ll come out stronger!

[@Naomi_thegirlGodmade]

They glow and joy when you say "my son" ❤😊😊🤗 Congratulations Pastor Laju.

[@LajuIren]

Yes! Thank you!

[@oghenemegaadesoji]

Watching this video as a preggy taught me so much! I can’t even explain it. So much learning, and correction… every point had a word for me in it and I’m assured that I can do this through Christ. Pregnancy isn’t an easy journey but it’s a privilege I will never take for granted. Thank you so much PL for blessing us with this amazing video ❤️❤️

[@LajuIren]

Glory to God! Glad it was helpful!

[@faithokunlola2389]

I loved watching this💯. I’m going to be back here in 9 months to share that I just had my babies in Jesus name❤️

[@dev_willyy]

Amennn!

[@LajuIren]

Amen

[@OlufolakeOnasanya]

Amen!

[@graceoyeniyi9025]

Amen

[@emmanuellloydodazie3795]

Amen!!!

[@ebereezike3448]

Thank you, PL! Happy to have you back❤️

[@THEGLOBALSEYITAN]

Dear Pastor Laju,your courage in sharing your experience with postpartum depression is truly inspiring. Your honesty and strength shine through, and your openness will undoubtedly help others. Wishing you continued strength, love, and healing on your journey. You’re not alone. Sending you virtual hugs and I hope I get to make it physical one day.

[@SisterAmaka]

I first met you via your blog when you were a mum of 1/just had your second child. To see you grow into the woman you are now is a gift. Thank you so much PL for this video. Love you always. Here's to you showing up more on KZbin!

[@emmanuelagyei8387]

Mommy Laju Iren, I really admire you as a young man as much as I love Pastor Iren 🌟🔥✌.

[@tolulopeelizabeth7687]

Be careful not to compete with people who may not be carrying what you are carrying👌…. Thank you PL👏🏾❤

[@HeyStartA]

“People don’t know what what carrying, but you do. You must be careful not to compare yourself to people who don’t know what you carry” Hmm, thank you PL! ❤

[@adeboroodunlami3623]

Every lesson + your sense of humor >>>> Thanks for sharing!

[@Fiiiiifee]

P.l thank you so much ma! I’m not married yet but seeing this I learnt a lot and I’m going to go say a big thank you to my sister fir birthing my niece and now I understand her better. This is a wake up call for me . Emphasis on every point especially be kind to pregnant women and ask how you can be of help to them

[@Derinbepo]

PL thank you. You’re such a strong woman. Video idea? Can you please make a video on how you balance family, ministry and childbearing. ❤

[@Mmesothemultifaceted]

Thank you, PL Please, we need to hear Pastey's perspective. Please, can you invite him here.

[@kalenuka-bestlifegeng461]

It’s the laugh at the end for meeee🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GraceOjochenemiAchor]

Pastor Laju is truly so adorable❤... The ghost haunting part in the end got me laughing out loud. God bless and keep you ma'am.

[@OpeyemiIbikunle_01]

My worth doesn’t come from what I do, but from whose I am. Thank you so much PL for this 🤗❤️

[@kosiclementina4357]

Im neither married nor pregnant, but i really enjoyed watching this video. It was so insightful. Thank you PL❤❤❤❤

[@LajuIren]

You are welcome!

[@LivingwithTee]

Amen to all the prayers. I too shall testify of birthing my own babies. My home and heart shall be full this 2024 in Jesus name,amen.

[@auntyjoys]

Asides the amazing lessons, PL is too good at this! The way she owns the camera!

[@oluwapelumioluniyi5417]

I am a new mom and all that you said was spot on especially not being ashamed to ask for help. Thank you PL for this video, it is a blessing to me ❤

[@LajuIren]

You’ve got this 👏🏼

[@Tamara-007.]

Congratulations mama🎉🎉 now I know my prayers ultimately should be 'lord save both mother and child' and not feel guilty for not saying 'they'll deliver like the Hebrew women' cuz I've seen things in the medical line too 🥺

[@OreoluwaIshola]

Congratulations once again, PL❤🎉 I would like a video of you and Pst Emmanuel especially on his own view or experiences as a new dad and how he balances it with ministry and other aspects of his life and family

[@preciousakawi507]

Omggg You speak so well and sooooo beautiful We are jotting down things for the future… Thank youuu so much and congratulations 🎉❤️

[@the_mosope]

Just came back here to say that the lessons here are very profound! Thank you so much for sharing this PL.❤

[@Thegoodlife24712]

PL. Thank you so much for this video. Not married yet but I was glued to the video from beginning to the end.

[@LajuIren]

Thanks for the feedback.

[@ayibachinwe4932]

Nadia's faith❤ is something else! I ordered a baby boy!!!

[@olufunmilolaayanda4098]

PL thank you for this video. Especially you taking out time to talk about delivery via Cs. I have birth to my baby last year November via Cs and I must say the recovery process has been a journey. Imagine you have always been in good health all your life, never been admitted in the hospital or even taken drip(s) before and you had to deliver via Cs . A sacrifice you just have to make for the sake of the child. Ma, please I will be happy if you can go through your healing process after Cs in any of the next videos. Thank you ma

[@akinwaleoluwatomisin4299]

You get!!!! This is my story!

[@GiftAbbie]

Looking even more beautiful PL 🤩🤩

[@tochi2811]

Glory🙌. I have never had a baby and Im not even been pregnant but I tap from your blessings.

[@Quinnchima]

Beautiful lessons. The part of boundaries was enlightening

[@lilyo8159]

This woman talks graciously. Congrats momma. God bless you.

[@LajuIren]

Thank you, Amen.

[@godmomentswithtomi_]

I’m so glad you’re back😭😭😭😭. I prayed for this😭❤️

[@seyibunmi3929]

"Don't feel you are not worth as much because you are not doing as much." ❤❤❤

[@mariamekwere885]

I think it is beautiful how some of these lessons are applicable in life and friendship. "To be there for people is a gift." Thank you PL! Love you loads!

[@philomenaogbuagu9932]

I just connected to your Channel last week and I love you already ❤❤❤. Keep up the good work.

[@LajuIren]

Thank you

[@gloryogochukwu6738]

Am happy u shared ur experience I think C's is supposed to discussed more. I went C's for my 1st child my pregnancy was smooth but having a emergency C's was something I didn't expect bcoz I laboured for over 48hrs and I still was hospitalized for abt a month for issues. Omor recovery was not easy at all but now it's a testimony

[@LajuIren]

A whole month! Wow! Thank God for recovery. And congratulations ❤️

[@Lizzie_wonder]

Thank you for sharing with us mom. I love the quality of girls you're raising ma. I hope that sometimes soon, you'll teach us about the parenting tools and principles you use God bless and preserve the Irens. Amen

[@oluwaseunusidamen]

Thank you so much PL for sharing . I am a first time mum and it’s comforting to know that some of my experiences were not abnormal . I also has a c section and the next 7 days after I had my baby were very difficult especially cause my pregnancy wasn’t easy . lol I really have a lot to say but thank you for sharing your story . It has gone a long way for me and I will keep watching this video

[@LajuIren]

You are so welcome! ❤️

[@falodiadeola6223]

I think today is the first time I'll probably hear you speak ma, thank youuuuu so much for sharing this ma🥺🥺 wawwww wawww, there is so much to learn from,you speak with so much grace and it's so soothing to hear you speak 🥺 thank youuuuu maaa

[@susanphilip-atuluku6982]

God is faithful Boundaries Help other women Your heart gets bigger ❤️ I remember crying in the hospital last year after my first child was born, long story. I hope to connect with you more personally since my hubby too recently had a call into ministry, it's been a lot since then but God is faithful. Thank you for sharing ma.

[@veraechoga8494]

I really enjoyed watching this 👍 I had a baby a few months ago and I have really just been overwhelmed. This is uplifting

[@LajuIren]

You got this!

[@rantiminaomi4147]

Being a mum for the second time and also had both kids vis CS i can relate to all you said PL...... thank you for this!!!!! This video really blessed me indeed my heart is full

[@ajewolejosephine9428]

Thank you, Ma for sharing. It’s so refreshing and so much wisdom to glean on. 2024, I'll experience the joy of motherhood in Jesus name👯. Glory to the faithful God doer of all things 💃💃💃

[@titianrono2780]

In Jesus name for you!!!!!!!

[@temitopeadebayo8748]

Thanks for sharing, being a mom is a privilege and it doesn't make other women less.I love the laughter you add in the video Mama.More grace

[@dawnimmanuel]

Welcome back to KZbin, my A-ZL, and thank you for this wonderful video. Solid, solid points shared.

[@ediomiwarden7197]

Your worth doesn't come from what you do but from whose you are❤ Thank you PL and congratulations 🎉😊

[@Daberechi-Blessing]

“Be careful not to compete with people that are not carrying what you are’!!

[@the_mosope]

It’s so great to have you back, PL❤️ I love this new montage too! And you’re so beautiful ma 😍😍

[@ToluwaniUNSCRIPTED]

PL!!!! ☺️☺️. See me grinning from ear to ear. You’re so warm and funny. Thank you for this video, PL. Welcome back, mum 🫂❤️.

[@favourelegbede8018]

Very insightful video. I like the fact that you talked about CS. I had my two children through CS. My husband said he won't tell his mom perhaps she has her own biases about birth through CS. I also like the fact that you talk about boundaries.

[@omotundemasha]

Congratulations, once again 🤍

[@Anthonioclever]

The world needs more content like this❤️

[@thedaniellaukwa]

PL with the wisdom!!!❤

[@Emmanuel_Olatunbosun]

Welcome back Mama, you look so beautiful 😘😘😘

[@Deyemi_]

The vision part is really relatable! I had seen a vision before pregnancy that I should expect a baby boy, but now we are expecting a baby girl. God is not a liar. His timing might not just be the same as ours. Thanks for these lessons PL.

[@ngozionwubolu3491]

Great lessons sis 😘 I learnt alot watching this. Thanks for sharing. God bless you. More Grace and Wisdom 😘

[@justtbella5153]

Thank you PL for sharing your story ❤️ It also shows how well you and Pastey and raising the girls.

[@KidsIgboClass]

God bless your heart PL. Please talk about how to accept an adopted daughter or a foster child. Congratulations again❤

[@fiyinx8459]

What a beautiful video fr❤️❤️❤️

[@Morbolahh]

Mama your voice is too sweet... Please do give us more content See me blushing to your voice... 😊😚😚😚

[@anniebadiru]

I'm keeping this video in my mind for the next few years when I'll need it 🥺🥺. This has been so instructive

[@anatellahhhh]

Thank you so much PN, God bless you ma.

[@marcusruth8257]

God bless Nadia🥺🥺so cute of her. More Blessings on the Family 😊

[@Sue_Usman]

I just love hearing you talk, I’m looking forward to more videos from you… and I love you sense of humor too😂😊❤