I’m Afraid I’ve Lost My 14-Year-Old To The Streets | KARAMO

[@lovelynaomi4012]

I love how all of these beautiful children faces light up when Karamo understands them truly

[@Rosierx1]

Yesss ❤ out of all of the Dr Phil shows that i have watched, he has NEVER tried to understand the children…. He would just scream & threaten them just like the parents do & he would even send them off to a “behavioral ranch” for teenage delinquents, meanwhile these ranches would be starving & abusing children smh

[@jamayastevenson]

@@Rosierx1

[@dajhialaniya]

She is so pretty

[@kio1s0nyt30]

@@dajhialaniya thats so out of topic you weirdo

[@stacya1094]

Yesss I was thinking that too❤

[@pheonyxjohnson5966]

As a mom of two teenage girls I had a real problem with one thing, How as a mom do you threaten to send your daughter to a man you don’t even know??? You didn’t know for twelve years who her father was so obviously you don’t know what type of person he is or what demons he’s fighting. At 14 you’re making her work everyday so of course she thinks that she’s grown. Love her as a child!!

[@allencoultas867]

Regardless it’s her biological father.

[@pheonyxjohnson5966]

@@allencoultas867 What does that mean? He’s still a stranger, neither one of them knows anything about him. And as a mother she should care about her daughter enough to get to know the man before sending her daughter to him.

[@k7mryn]

@@allencoultas867 that doesn’t matter.

[@jovanadouglas5611]

She never actually SENT HER TO HIM. She said it to see if she would calm down she’s trying different techniques and words . You probably have never been in a situation like this so you wouldn’t know .

[@jovanadouglas5611]

@@k7mrynI’ve never even been in a situation Like this I have no biological kids right now but absolutely in love with my step kids !!!! Anywho I still understand the mom

[@ParisHarris]

Daughter is so beautiful and highly intelligent. She needs to curve that bad behavior into something good . But I definitely can see her being successful in future.

[@labrea654]

Yea especially if she curves that behaviour.😮😅

[@rakiyamontgomery6507]

uh not true i go to school with her 😭

[@26.stunna]

​@@rakiyamontgomery6507 ong ?

[@rakiyamontgomery6507]

@@26.stunna yes ong she not in the streets they clout chasing

[@26.stunna]

@Rakiya Montgomery she's seems like a great kid just from first glance , not surprised they would lie bout behavior

[@shyyari]

her smile is GORGEOUSSSSS

[@SanctuaryOfLove]

Literallyyyyy it makes me smile

[@kbjones4854]

Let be real, mom plays a major role in this behavior. She didn’t know who the dad was? She is aggressive towards the daughter in her tone. The child clearly said she isn’t heard. We may not want to admit it, but often mothers are children’s worst threat 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@zeewal515]

Your right I have a daughter,and just hearing that the mom wants things done at her time made me realize I am the same but I don’t want my five year old to grow feeling that pressure

[@labrea654]

Some, but the two things can be true. Mom's can be part of the problem but that girl is one in the making.

[@michaelchristinawilson7946]

She wasn't her because she really didn't know how to talk. She thinks she knows everything she thinks she's grown

[@Sonia-oq3uw]

She was not aggressive in her tone at all , she didn’t even yell tht child smh she’s too grown and doesn’t you can clearly see tht the mom love and care she wants her to do better

[@emmaleeparillon8544]

Correct correct correctttttt

[@gabiburns2289]

I think he’s right on it with this one. I was constantly in trouble in school until a teacher realized I was finished way before everyone else and got bored and tried to talk to people. She started giving me more work and letting me read her books while waiting for everyone else to catch up. The next year I got into an advanced program and it was a game changer. Thankfully it was in elementary school so it’s a shame that this young woman is older but I hope the mom pushes her school to help her. Bet she sees a big change.

[@vivineblake1021]

🎉

[@gabiburns2289]

@Verona Ebanks it is really hard to understand what you are trying to communicate but children don’t just turn bad. There is always a reason. As someone who was like this girl I was giving my perspective about school. The older you are the harder it is to get special services which is why the mom would need to go to the school for the help. Whatever you are saying just seems to be vitriol in general and nothing to actually do with my comment so kindly move on thanks.

[@labrea654]

The girl is one if those kids who does what she wants when and how she wants and thinks everybody else is wrong and should see things her way. There was not always discipline in her life because there was none in the mother's. She's a brat who needs to more punishment then guidance she is very manipulative.

[@ariamarshall5161]

This isn’t the same. She has behavioral issues like fighting & being disrespectful & slamming doors/punching doors & drinking/smoking, suspended 100xs??? That all stems from other issues beyond not being intellectually challenged. U & I had the same experience we were simply bored bc we were advanced. I didn’t have behavioral issues I needed to be challenged more. Was never suspended, was never defiant, never fault, never punched a wall. There is a reason she is acting out….She’s being defiant. Not debating whether or not she’s intelligent bc I’m sure she IS, I’m simply saying not being challenged enough so u resort to bad behavior doesn’t make sense. Don’t pacify the issue. Figure out what’s bothering her so she can HEAL!

[@sleepy-peepy]

sometimes kids feel the opposite, too! if you think you aren’t excelling, and nobody has the time/patience to help you, it can be easy to want to throw your hands up and say you aren’t even gonna try.

[@23Lakers00]

This is why being a active and present dad is so important. Mom doesn’t always know what to do.

[@erica-5198]

Dads don’t always know what to do either?

[@jasminasinanbegovic6225]

She's acting up cause it's against her mum, she knows mum doesn't have that strength ti stop her. I really wonder if she would do the same against a man

[@The-Oneness11]

​@@erica-5198My daughter never had behavioral issues until her father passed away. Fathers are extremely important when it comes to discipline and structure. A father naturally fills that role. I worked with my daughter and was able to resolve a lot of the issues but it was not easy and it definitely did not come naturally to me.

[@Itsjustcam365]

@@The-Oneness11my dad is present in my sisters life and she still talk to him crazy I do too I ain’t gon lie sometimes dads don’t know what to do either

[@bendemare5270]

NO . ABUSE. AGAINST. CHILDREN. NOBODY ASSAULT CHILDREN.

[@truthhappiness8874]

She is outspoken for a reason. She's beautiful and intelligent. Mom is not recognizing and supporting her strengths. Mom needs to support her and advocate for her, when teachers try to degrade, derail her and keep her stuck to the labels of her past. She wants to be "Heard"!!! 🎉Vet the dad & find out how he's going to be a supportive parent.

[@labrea654]

You're right. Mom need to act more ratchet. Go cuss the teachers out. Act like a kneegress. Like you say advocate for her.😂🙄🙄🙄.Take the Hoodie off. Means take it off, no gum chewing in class. Don't do it. Nothing to do with being bored. She's full of crap.

[@sabrayachestnut9577]

She can be heard, however it's a right way do it :)

[@CB-pm3ic]

She’s a child, not an adult, she’s supposed to respect and listen to her elders, not matter how inept the mother is

[@btwthatgabby4560]

Maybe, maybe not

[@taylorfields6359]

@@CB-pm3icdon’t have kids if that is how u truly think

[@xithepen]

“nobody wanted to keep her” seems small but it’s language like that that reinforces the daughter’s feelings of being abandoned and unwanted. mom’s gotta do better with her language towards her daughter🥺

[@sintiayuliani9123]

her daughter is GORGEOUS

[@wildfiregirl1556]

She needs to listen to her moms blessings for all.

[@The_unknownuser256]

Righttt

[@lovelylayla2803]

@@wildfiregirl1556 both the mother and daughter need to work on their relationship bc the mom did things wrong as well. a relationship cant grow if both sides arent held accountable

[@michelled8219]

I totally relate to the young lady in this video. Some kids are just too intelligent for the level of learning that they are getting in school. When I was growing up going to school I was also bored and knew the work and I started acting out. My principal suggested skipping me a few grades but my dad refused so in high school I just started skipping class alot and eventually gave up. I did go back to get my diplloma and also went to college. Hopefully this mother can find a resolution for her daughter.

[@lilianasaba9846]

Had to change my son to a curriculum that gives him room to do more work and complete earlier of course depending on how focused he remains. Bright kids are faced with this challenge

[@labrea654]

BULLSHIT.

[@Logantaliaferro]

When myajah said she can’t tell her mom stuff it’s really hard for some teens to do this .

[@jollymollyramram9702]

I think she could be very intelligent but it seems more like an attention disorder of some sort, maybe adhd

[@shamf9672]

I was bored in school too because I knew everything or learned it very quickly… but I also knew better than to act out because of boredom

[@Thecreolegoddess]

I think she may be border line A.D.D. Her body language (no eye contact, rocking back and forth while seated) and her lack of attention / focus are major signs. Getting into trouble at school as well. I don’t think it has ANYTHING to do with her father. Making those slight changes in her education will def help the situation.

[@tonneytone1070]

I think he was hinting at that when he asked if she felt bored at school and she mentioned too bored to finish the classwork. It could be an attention disorder.

[@bmarie1001]

Agreed, she may want to go ahead and get her tested... so many of our girls are labeled "difficult" and "problem children" because ppl don't think we can have those types of conditions. We get overlooked A LOT, and it becomes our fault. I'm 36 and just now being diagnosed w ADHD. Do you know how different things could've been for me?

[@kyrajohnson6522]

You are so right! I just found out at 39. My mom knew, had me tested in second grade and NEVER told me I had ADD! And she was an educator 😒 bc she never “saw the signs”. I struggled a lot got called dipsey or airhead- I was distracted but got 4.0 in college doing everything on my own. We get labeled and told we need to do better bc of the expectations of “girls”. It’s so missed in the American school system. Boys get so much more grace with behavior that’s out of control or different.

[@hashtagslim]

Same with me having adhd I see the patterns I’m not doctor or psychologist, so I shouldn’t be diagnosing anybody but it’s something they should look into worst case she doesn’t have it

[@kayjewels1488]

Well now y’all have me wondering if I have it .. because I can’t focus for the life of me .

[@kamim4981]

she's such a beautiful girl and i feel like she's gonna be able to make a change as someone who can relate to her.

[@Jaye_Beaumont]

Oh, how I wish I could talk to her. I went the way she's currently going at that age and trust it's so much more underneath. I feel that a lot of kids in our community act out because we don't feel we have a safe place to be heard. It was strictly do as I say no questions. I raised my daughter differently, and it worked. Karamo, what you are doing is amazing and much needed. I wish I had these tools as a kid.

[@serarayawa1463]

O81

[@kandb4life]

Karamo did a good job with this. When mom says I need a break, I’m going to send you to your dad 🚩🚩🚩 mom is causing all of this - this girl is parentified and raised in a toxic home environment, hopefully the mom can turn it around because even if the girl gets her life together and is successful - the parent-child relationship may be severed forever

[@jazzyjennshighway]

I love me some dang on Karamo 👏🏽👏🏽 he is so insightful. He hears both sides & really comes up with solutions or “actions” to start with & not just fluffy talk to sound good for a show. To be able to do this in a possible 30 minute session deserves serious recognition. He needs to be honored in a big way for what he does bc he is literally changing lives and saving relationships

[@a.pieceofpie]

I totally agree

[@toccaralane6509]

It hit deep when the daughter said the consequences could be different when you hear me out..

[@alianaraine.3]

Wow. Parents never listen though

[@sunshinebear94]

Watching mothers and daughters on this show is the biggest eye opener for me because I have 3 girls. They still little but it goes to show sometimes the way you parent can be your child downfall or not letting your kids voice they feelings.

[@movingpicturereviews5810]

Such a gorgeous young girl ! I wish nothing but positivity for her

[@galaxygalore1111]

They’ll never admit to the poor up bringing the child endured as a result of bad parenting. Peep the picture she took with her daughter she too busy trying to be a friend more than a Parent. If you don’t discipline with love from birth than the streets will teach them! Plus if she now telling the daughter who the father is; then you was for the streets and promiscuous! But will blame the youth instead of teaching smh. I pray you prevail young Queen❤️

[@Darrencollinsjr]

Im saying. I mean damn. First thing I noticed

[@Harmoni888]

Thank you!

[@creating1_c1999]

and dad is a drifter, which is incomplete for a child's identity

[@thatbemefool]

That photo is the first thing I noticed - Friend instead of Parent. Then she just found out her her Daddy - Promiscuity. Unable to keep a job because of her child’s behavior - POVERTY and instability. **I hope this young ladies moves away from her Mom so she can find the peace and happiness she deserves. She clearly resents her Mom. She should be in therapy instead of on tv. She deserves so much more than what she’s gotten.**

[@labrea654]

​@TheKnow Well said. What that girl needs is professional help not bullshit from Kraminsomore. One of my boys was dixlexic

[@jadebaybee6949]

i love how graceful everybody is being in these comments, you don’t see a lot of that on social media …especially for black women and girls . this is only a fifteen min vid, not her life . and regardless, she’s a child and may not be as in control as we think . i wish them both the best .

[@MM-en3sb]

I love how Karamo gave her a hug she probably needed that hug. You never know when someone needs a hug

[@niicole_tv03]

There’s more to this .. she’s acting out for a reason

[@jaeeluv]

💯

[@tawannaanderson7059]

She is a beautiful girl, and she may be very intelligent, but being bored doesn't correlate disrespect. It takes more than just beauty and intelligence to be a genuine human being she has time to change, but she should definitely understand that attitude won't give her the substance she will need to grow in her life. Getting suspended since kindergarten??

[@WerewolfofEpicness]

possible ADHD which would tie those together

[@TWLogik]

I think the weed doesn't help. Sometimes it makes people impatient and irritable. I would move her to a school that offers more activities and the job would have to go unless the grades got better.

[@CharlesDegraftJohnson]

Weed effects the dopamine within the brain, if she has ADHD she is using it self medicate. Also it really irriates me when people say she need to change her attitude. Unless you have the condition you dont know how hard it is to move through the world. Many people with ADD ADHD commit suicide, its people with your attidude that hinder us growing, its NOT her that needs to change !!!!!, Luckily I had a teacher who realised the issue, because I would hide in the school bathroom all day because I was bored. He saw I had a gift for maths and music, so didn't force me to any lesson I was bored. Also told my parents to go easy on me about cleaning my room etc. I was far for lazy I would work 2 ten hour shifts at a diner at the weekend in addtion to going to school in the week. I saved every penny I bought a new car cash when I was 17 with the money I saved. I eventually I got top marks in all my subjects , even those I did not attend, I did really well for my self working in IT and AI , CEO + CTO for tech companies. Our brains do not all work the same, and it does not make us bad people, it the world that need to educate itself we were born this way

[@serenity3982]

Maybe there’s someone she’s sexually exploring with and it’s disrespectful to her so she’s acting out and needing to numb….

[@LuckyL0ki]

karamo is healing my inner child!!

[@Adoreeliyha]

The mom is definitely apart of the problem. She said she been getting kicked out since kindergarten, she should’ve corrected the behavior then instead of waiting so long. Babygirl clearly is angry and needs a outlet.

[@aic0809]

I loved this particular clip because it really showcases how insightful Keramo is. I love that he quickly discerned that this young lady is bored at school. I even like how he described why she's so good at math. I'm excited for her future and hopeful that, with constructive support from her mother and time to process everything that is going on, she will flourish.

[@lisai.hunter4627]

Sadly, we have many bored students in regular classrooms. Groups are unsuccessful in large classrooms with many levels. We need more magnet advanced schools, and let's stop the dumping of inclusion without resource teachers. Let's stop the behavior problems with counselors and social workers. Just because she gets bored doesn't mean the work is correct. Someone needs to invest her academically and find her strengths now. Thank you K. This young lady has so much potential. Black Girl Magic.

[@GothicccJade]

After watching this video, I'm glad I was placed in honor classes and now IB classes because the "standard classes" was easy for me and I would get bored easily. When you continue to get work done ahead of time and have nothing to do in school for hours it can get boring and thats where the entertaning yourself comes from.

[@iamsunflower2011]

My daughter will be put in honor classes when she starts high school in the fall. i didn't allow her to be put in honor classes while in middle school because all of classmates seem to be failing and stressed out. I think she's more equip to handle the classes now that she's older

[@labrea654]

What's wrong with doodling,writing poetry or short stories. That's bullshit. My daughter got bored but she did other constructive things,not become disrespectful and disruptive. That's kneegrows and kneegresses behaviour.

[@ariamarshall5161]

@@labrea654 exactly. They are trying to pacify her issues. She’s dealing w/something & it needs to be rectified NOW before it develops into issues as a young woman that is struggling thru trauma.

[@wandabrewer4296]

This man is very intuitive and genuine!

[@Myztic71]

My'ashia is such a beautiful young lady, who's just going through a lot of the regular teenage angst plus the introduction of a stranger into her life and feeling like her mom isn't "seeing" her. I don't think she's lost to the streets - she's acting out to be seen. They can turn this around, but Mom has to be willing to listen and be a safe haven for her daughter.

[@AshlleighLynn]

Keep hope alive mom!! Praying for you. I am also a single mother and experienced this same behavior with my daughter throughout her elementary and some of her middle school years.. our stories are really similar.. keep praying and reinforcing good behavior. My daughter is now 18 and has done a complete 360. These years are very hard when raising children. Your daughter speaks very well and appears yo be extremely intelligent. This too will pass 🙏🏾

[@LC-eo4ry]

she smart and also beautiful and she probably feel misunderstood and they need work on that

[@jaeeluv]

💯📌

[@Jlcdb71816]

She is so intelligent and not being challenged enough. Homeschooling would be a GREAT option for her and she’d really have the freedom to excel and pursue passions! #fellowhomeschoolmom

[@labrea654]

Bullshit. What makes you say she's so intelligent? Because she said so. She's full of crap and the sooner she gets tested the sooner she'll be getting help.

[@shereenajohnson2996]

I completely agree! She needs to be challenged more and maybe an online school where she can dictate her daily schedule. #homeschoolmom

[@sharramason929]

I understand this young lady soooo much due to fact it was me in school ... not having a great outlet to keep her stimulated is hard on her... Especially when u show your true talents and ppl try to keep u in a box... young lady break free and show the world u r more than what they think and see on the surface.

[@EsiciaraTvShowAndMinistry]

Teenagers!!!! But I must say, she is highly intelligent and beautiful too. Once you notice at an early age that your kid is a fast thinker or rather has a high IQ, please don't take them to just any school, if you can afford, take them to a school that they will fit in well (thinking speed etc)

[@brittbritt6857]

For this young lady to be so cute it baffles me why she's so rowdy... I think she needs to be in a sport or some after school activitie where she can have fun and enjoy her youth.

[@elishahopkins4062]

And with most schools they hold behavior and grades as things that have to be good to play... good idea there

[@creating1_c1999]

Her father rolled in two years ago. She clearly is above average likely in a school that doesn't meet her high efficiency needs academically. Probably a school full of kids who need adult supervision but otherwise have no idea why they are there.

[@micheleantionette_]

Dang, I'm going through a similar situation with my child but way younger than her daughter. It's really hard being a parent that doesn't receive the support to raise a child and just "figure it out". Try to protect our children from disappointment, harm, etc but somehow children feel a way about something that's personally bothering them that can't express it to be understood by us parents and what we try to protect them from ends up actually hurting them in some way... its hard.

[@jollymollyramram9702]

If you can afford it and she doesn’t already have one: make her take up a hobby. If she’s an energetic girl she could benefit from something active if she’s more quiet then maybe something different - or still somwthing active. I’d also take her to volunteer some times, helping homeless etc. And one last one which is good for you too😊 is to give her a gratitude journal. Just a few tips but I’d expect some push back in the process. Still try to be positive. Good luck🌞🌸🤞

[@sidellesydney2192]

I love how karamo just asks questions and doesn’t judge. He leaves the judging to his audience 😂

[@typicaltip0327]

I've been open to my kids about ME. I never want them to think mom always did everything by the books. This made it easy for them to come to me when they mess up..or feel some type of way. I thank God for this relationship. No lie..some times they come with some stuff and I drink the whole bottle of wine afterwards 😂😂

[@lovinjahqueen]

😂😂 so true

[@Morenitasracing_co]

Facts! Being honest with them is the best way to teach them.

[@typicaltip0327]

@@Morenitasracing_co Now I'm terrified abt this FreakNic series coming🤣🤣🤣

[@Morenitasracing_co]

@@typicaltip0327 lol don’t be ! You was young and living lol no matter if we like it or not our kids gon be at parties doing wild stuff lol I hope they just stay safe 😂😂😂

[@essence____beauty_92]

😮😮😮😮

[@MutedSins26]

Such a great episode! Parenting has challenges and I believe as parents we willingly need to bend and meet our kids especially our teen halfway. They go through a lot it this world and we need to be mindful of that! Still have structure, expectations and discipline but letting love lead the way ❤. These two are gonna be ok!

[@akishaj4338]

Karamo I know you and your team need sleep but Imma need like 100 videos a day 😂 I’m running out things to watch ❤

[@aic0809]

Lol, I feel the same way!

[@stephaniecarter-4490]

Little girls have a hard time with peer pressure, drugs, alcohol sex school isn’t easy

[@aliciacrandall8228]

Such a beautiful young lady. I pray they both grow and flourish! I’m so glad someone like Karamo has entered their narrative!!! 💕💕💕 may they all have life’s best💛

[@JamMasterKae]

fourteen working four hours after 8 hours in school already? i understand instilling the grind, but let that girl rest. her mom doesn’t have work and school and homework and tests. also, her mom clearly doesn’t listen to her when she speaks. she always has an immediate rebuttal and you see the daughter close her mouth and shut down. i see she’s lashing out, but i also see why.

[@editsbykeyy_465]

and let’s not forget how she’s still maintaining good grades in school

[@kshirelle]

She seems so sweet & she’s such a beautiful girl. I hope she can turn it around. Its clear her mom loves her very much. I hate seeing this dynamic 😩

[@annetteodanga]

As a kenyan 🇰🇪 single mum,when i get angry at my girl when she does wrong, I always tell her I will take her back to her deadbeat dad,afterwatching this I need to stop saying that to her😮

[@omwengaomwenga9743]

🇰🇪

[@oliviapinnock8]

Make sure ...

[@gab19guerin72]

Nope! You can’t be bored to the point of being disrespectful. That mouth is nothing like she is showing on this show. Those teachers are catching hell from her and are not gonna want to give her any grace or passes as long as she is disrespectful. She has to learn that her behavior is a NO GO and she has to give to get.

[@material-cheshirekhatter2413]

Y'all really missed the point, If she's misbehaving find out why instead of just instantly punishing her, she probably has an attention disorder like ADHD or ADD.

[@gab19guerin72]

@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 no point missed. She has to understand that everyone is not gonna put up with her poor behavior. Everyone is not gonna dig deeper. A teacher has a job to do with over 15 personalities to deal with in each class for 7 classes. Nawl, she knows what she is doing and she needs to stop- period. If she doesn’t change she is gonna ruin her life.

[@chasityfennessee4094]

@@gab19guerin72 it’s always people like u smh 👎🏾🤦🏽‍♀️

[@syniahare8630]

​@@gab19guerin72 that's true but at the end of the day the point is its the moms job to see what really going on with her daughter no one acts out for no reason theres always a reason.

[@gab19guerin72]

@@syniahare8630 whether there is a reason or not, the teacher should not have to put up with that foolishness. Everyone has something they could be sad or disappointed about. And it is not the fault of those they come in contact with. She has to learn how to act. And she knows how, she just refuses to do it.

[@Kayla-po7fv]

It all stems from the parenting! Karamo never speaks on that enough! If her parenting doesn’t change, she will continue to be the same

[@J.D.B.37]

Mom's energy is alot. I know she be going off at home! The young lady seems beautiful and she probably mirrors mom's attitude and behavior.

[@busibeechannel9108]

Young black girls need more grace. She could be struggling to keep focus because she needs advanced classes. She could also have a hyper disorder that would distract her. She also has a job? Like mom. Chill out on her cause the constant changes she’s putting her through is hard enough. Also meeting your dad after years of absence also hits hard. Wishing the best ❤

[@maryjane2965]

I think this girl is exceptionally intelligent, probably has a very high IQ.

[@alejandromontes8587]

No she don’t Ik her

[@yopajte]

@@alejandromontes8587 LMAOO ALE

[@saphia.7732]

@@alejandromontes8587 LMFAOAOAOAOAO

[@Maedi_00]

@@alejandromontes8587 OMG😭😭😭

[@jollymollyramram9702]

@Alejandro - It’s not “she don’t” but “she doesn’t“. I guess you’re not that sharp yourself😉

[@life.perception.perspective]

I love how mellow he speaks.. darn wish I had someone who would just listen

[@paulamaia953]

People already labelled her as bad girl 🤔so she’s just acting up on that ❤

[@nedgetravels818]

Baby girl is very pretty and has a charming smile. She talks so calmly, I think that's a teenage attitude. Her mom is being a typical Africa American mom. Proud of how she wants to see the best in her daughter and not sparing any inch of misbehaviour. That's so good. I see a young beautiful career oriented girl with the help of her beautiful mom. I wish them well.

[@bad2874]

I have 8 kids and 1 on the way I’m married and me and my husband don’t have kids outside of each other we are a happy family I say this to say None of my kids have got in trouble in school as much as this little girl has my oldest is 10 years old…. And as a mother I always listen to my babies the words mean everything to me allow your kids to be open I grew up in a toxic household and it’s difficult but I make sure I don’t put my toxic childhood onto my kids

[@Itsjustebele]

I love this

[@zara198522]

She reminds me of myself when I was younger. I was disruptive in school because I was bored and in a school that didn't stimulate me. It took one teacher to realise what I needed and it made such a difference. My heart goes out to this girl because she's not in the environment for her potential to be recognised. She also didn't grow up with her dad and yet she is threatened with living with him as a punishment. Make it make sense.

[@cynthialogan5158]

I disagree. Too many parents are trying to be their children friend. These kids now a days believe they are entitled to do what ever they want with no consequences. She tired because she work 4 hrs and go to school so she wants to sleep when she gets home🤔 BS, she ain't too tired to smoke marijuana and be disrespectful. So glad I'm not raising kids in this day & time.

[@whatstheword1478]

Only knew this man 2 years and boom...You can go stay with him.

[@firesign4297]

Her🥰And Her Mother🙏🏿Look JUST ALIKE!!!🥰🥰 Again...Hope They Can Work Threw All.😔🙏🏿🫂

[@starbabi77]

I think she needs understanding ...guidelines...and also rules. I do understand that she should be heard....and I do believe that she is just in need of an outlet....I wish her the best...I don't think she's a lost cause...

[@Skeltonz]

I relate to her so much the older people need to know you have to earn respect can’t just expect it. Do that and see how much better things get. She don’t wanna talk to her mom because it’ll get switched up and an argument will be created

[@AshlleighLynn]

Public city schools are a big problem too. I saw a tremendous change in my daughter's behavior once we moved into a suburban school district. All kids are not cut out for these urban school districts.

[@cherylg2692]

So we're just going to ignore that the mother didn't know the paternity of her daughter until she was 12?!🤔

[@srae7658]

Right

[@foxylilmimi]

they said she only "met" him 2 years ago he could've been In prison or anything.

[@ariellerobinson1991]

@@foxylilmimi Hey girl, well in the beginning around 0:49 she did use the words “I just FOUND OUT he was the father”. So I don’t think she knew for certain rather he was in prison or not girl.

[@jaeeluv]

💯 Wow... Steady blaming the child for everything though😒

[@Darrencollinsjr]

​@@foxylilmimi she found two years ago. Meaning she didn't know

[@MyWords-rg3cy]

My sister and I were both ahead in School, but there was still work to do, no matter how ahead we were, first off my mother did not tolerate BAD behavior in school, there was no slamming doors in my mother's house or yelling at her, at 14 the only place I was allowed to go was to School and church and every place else was with my parents and siblings

[@MamiTT237]

My mother used to do that BS with the threats saying I could get out and in her words “you’ll be coming back to me before I ever look for you!”… and then one day, I was just gone! And then she caught up with me and she was begging me to come home and I reminded her that she told me to leave! And she goes “I didn’t mean it!” I just looked at her and said “yes you did.. you just bullied me into it”… this “mother” telling her daughter to go live with a man that’s only been in her life for 2 years is in for a rude awakening if she keeps up that attitude! She doesn’t have a clue if that man is a rapist or an abuser!

[@harmony4real223]

I can see this young girl is very intelligent & beautiful too. I’m no therapist but her anger comes from the father not being there. As well as the Mama’s frustration. Ooh I can totally understand both sides being that I was a single parent for many years. My only child which is my son he was bored too. Often times we as parents don’t allow our children to express themselves but when they do it comes off as being disrespectful. I was raised old school and I wasn’t able to express myself either. But my Son is who taught me how to treat him differently. Which allowed us to have a great relationship he’s grown now and doing well for himself. The Mama is overwhelmed, and frustrated but she shouldn’t take her frustration out on her daughter to be honest she doesn’t mean too they are just all each other have. Ooh how Ikn being a single parent isn’t an easy job. I made it a point to take car rides together so we both could have a clear understanding of each other, we laughed and cried to get through it positively. Something about riding in the car for Us worked wonders..he loved it & still does..😂! Another thing is that I’m an open minded individual nothing he said scared me. My son & his father had to build their relationship. I neva talked bad about his father and my son neva knew when I was upset with his father either. So all of that goes a very long way. I prayed a lot, we communicated a lot.! It takes time, patience and work on both ends.! I’ll be praying for a positive turnaround for both.! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💛❤️

[@racquiab.6855]

I understand 💯 where this girl is coming from , I go through the same thing with my mom , y’all never understand our side of the story which builds up this wall of nonchalantness and hatred , causing us to act the way we do , and idk about her but my mom is very toxic behind closed doors y’all don’t know what goes on behind closed doors with this girl your just judging and that’s exactly why we do what we do .

[@coresebowser973]

I teach math, she loves math...she just stole my heart! This girl has some good qualities!

[@jollymollyramram9702]

She’s 14 and working 4 hours a day? That’s way too much! What’s her mom thinking?🤨 She needs to be a child and not grow up so quickly. She needs to do gymnastics, take a dance class, go running, paint, draw, read books etc. She’s going to end up pregnant because at 16 she’ll feel like 25. There’s nothing cute about children acting mature and having too much responsibility - it WILL backfire in the future

[@gloriaglobug3799]

What a beautiful young teenager. Mommy should be your safe place. Yes being honest is the best. To open the lines of communication. Being bored is a sign that she may be a GT student. She needs AP/GT classes. These teachers should talk more with her. Let the child be heard. I wish the family the best. She an AMAZING child. ❤❤❤

[@katrinawall7566]

She needs an outlet. She probably has ADHD. She is a pretty girl. I think the mom needs to get her into more activities. They need family therapy also .

[@nicholajackson-fuller8199]

Beautiful young girl I pray every thing work out with she and her mother ❤🙏♥️🙏🙏🙏

[@beverleyhusbands2544]

Algebra...critical thinker....intelligent in a way that people don't understand.

[@sarahanyango505]

Im grateful to listen to this, i think my girl who is 33yrs has the same problem but in our third world country nobody understands such and im so helpless with her situations.

[@patriotcoleman9945]

You make messes in your kids life that you don’t clean up you’ll pay the price. A daughters biggest influence is the example her mother sets.

[@Daisylove83]

It's very difficult for me to see a disrespectful child ..She is soooo sweet and has such a loving spirit! -Sigh...I had to leave the school system in the USA for manyyyy reasons. If parents knew the backend of how these schools are set up they would do two things 1) transfer to private school 2) Look for alternate or homeschooling. The public schools system in the USA is complete trashhhhh (for the most part). Teachers are underpaid and overworked. Are told to have very strict disciplinary rules (not allowing for any kind of students teachers true relationship), they all go by a *guidelines* that's beyond ridiculous and very few teachers can bypass these rules. I mentioned private school because I had the pleasure to visit a few and my jaw dropped considerably at the significant difference! From curriculum, to classroom management, students teachers relationship, parents involvement....The list goes on. Yes these schools are pricy however in my opinion if you can afford it why not?... Education is priceless 👌🏾. -Malaysia sounds like an excellent student 👍🏾. I agree with Karamo that she is more than likely bored...Mom needs to look for an alternative schooling, pick on her interests, and invest into them. Parents needs to get to know their children better. Learn their interest, get involved, and engaged before saying your child is acting up.

[@creating1_c1999]

So sweet? She's on her way to juvenile detention. This video is going to help facilitate it.

[@shan7180]

Exactly

[@nahmiraday464]

It’s so sad that she can’t even talk to her own mom about things because she doesn’t feel like she provides that safe space and is always getting judged by her and others.

[@samirajaffer384]

Sometimes our children need family support or close family friends. Kind of like a tribe. It makes a difference to hangout with cousins. Its not always easy to create a support system.

[@jusalci8575]

While highly intelligent she has needs help to deal with her trauma I just want to hug her

[@labrea654]

Where do you get highly intelligent from.

[@ariamarshall5161]

EXACTLY!!! Ppl are claiming she’s just not being challenged academically. Most of us weren’t challenged & were bored so we were moved to advanced placement. I wasn’t smoking, drinking, punching walls, being disrespectful etc. There is something deeper that needs to be addressed.

[@jusalci8575]

Most time when kids are bored raising themselves this is the type of behavior we see, former teacher here and now mental health professional. She is absolutely highly intelligent that doesn’t mean she isn’t struggling behaviorally!

[@itsyuhgirlkeke]

“ I think she wants to be in the streets” nooo way 😭😭😭

[@maramarabusy]

What a beautiful smart young girl looking forward to the best in her future

[@laurenj6771]

This comment section is refreshing, usually anytime a black child or teenager is in a video about misbehavior, the comment section is full of people saying they should basically beat or torture the misbehavior out of them. Everyone here has empathy and genuine understanding here which is so beautiful to see

[@amiyahcakes]

She's so pretty! I hope she changes her ways ❤

[@ginarosie]

Judging by the fact that she has supposedly been "acting out" since kindergarten, I suspect she may have adhd or some sort of anger management issue. I feel like taking her to a specialist to get diagnosed may help her to regulate her behaviour and help others understand her frustrations.

[@nino-vi6qv]

You never know what a mother is going through ❤❤❤

[@liftedenergy3693]

Children are reflections of their parents. Be open to learn and evolve as a parent and person.

[@jordanwebster-eg4tf]

she’s a beautiful girl she can have a good life i feel she can turn her life around and be the woman she can be she will have an successful life and future i hope this family will be ok

[@fu-gee-laa]

🥺🥺 She’s A Good Kid This Bouta Make Me Cry Lol…. kids Literally Are Not Bad Nobody Ever Tries To Sit There And Understand And Talk To Them… Always Tryna Assert Dominance And authority Like That’s Gona Make A Person Wana Change In A Positive Manner…

[@jaylee2288]

ADHD inattentive is real and to some, it's an unorthodox concept. She is seen as a bad child at school because her teachers were hurt due to her short attention span. "I get bored" should have been a first sign. I work with schools and we still have kids seen as "misbehaving kids" just because of their conditions being misunderstood. My only wish is that she gets proper support. Mom you did well but mis-informed by the schools and My'aisha you are a good young intelligent woman who is misunderstood. Her wearing a hoodie on means she is aware that most people perceive her as that but only because she is self-aware.. She payed full attention backstage but at some point she started wondering around on stage when her mother was addressed and that is when they moved the conversation from her.. Maybe brother Karamo knew but they still need to move her to a school more suiting in dealing with her situation because I see intelligence and major protentional from a very and proper super intelligent young girl that girl that just needs to be in the right environment. Think how they treated Dyslexia kids 20 years ago in the black community. NB. This is in no way a professional advise but I can only hope it helps till she get's an official diagnosis.

[@Your_fav_unbothered_diva]

Or she might be anxious, being in front of a camera makes people anxious. Before we jump to uneducated conclusions please know that anxiety is real and she said she was anxious. So what you said was not applicable or intelligent to what she could be experiencing. She is anxious, so don't say she has ADHD when you have zero proof of her having it.

[@mrstaylor8947]

The daughter is needing to be in a Special School for geniuses- A School packed with different Creativeness, Activities & Competitiveness

[@erisfelder5221]

I feel like karamo was spot on. Both parties have accountability to take & have work to do. The mother has to take a different approach when trying to get the daughter to listen and understand what she’s saying. The daughter has to do the same. She also has to figure herself out , she said she’s bored when in school. Maybe I don’t know, she’s bored at home as well sometimes. I feel they will be alright especially because the mother wanted help🤷🏽‍♀️ most mothers , single mothers at that don’t like to really ask for help. My mother liked to do it all b herself & I feel if she would’ve heard this it would’ve resolved a lot between us. My mother did the crazy things like calling the cops or something of the matter 😅. Going back to the bored at home. I would go to school , work come home and be bored and my mother worked and then didn’t rlly wanna be bothered. So I would like to go out to my friends , cousins, etc. and my mother wouldn’t like it because she would use it as punishment or they were a bad influence. All in all I think they will be alright the mother reached out for help to fix the things w her daughter. And she has great communication from what I can see. The daughters beautiful and very well spoke obviously smart. I loved this episode

[@chademonique228]

Beautiful episode ❤…great work karamo

[@branbranshenanigans1693]

Daughter is gorgeous. I feel like that threatening to go live with daddy is not cool. As a parent a you don't get a break suck it up and figure it out.

[@Chantss_xo]

Not true parents need a break cos our mental health matters too this why ppl hurt children [not justifying it] cos they feel overwhelmed cos if im not mentally fit in my brain how can i take care of a child?

[@peekaboocharlie8502]

The mom is so pretty OMGGGG I love her pants and her eyeliner!

[@Jai.3k]

I wouldn’t say there was no bad parenting I would say she would rather want a mom like a friend then a mom that wants her to be great in all areas

[@TatiMarie_vlogs]

This is One of the best moms on the Karamo Show ❤❤❤❤

[@vivianaskew2723]

I use to make mommy daughter dates. We would alternate the activity we would do. I learned a lot about her during these dates.

[@terrypi4758]

that girl just wants to do whatever she wants to do pure and simple.

[@niaboyd1620]

I'm so glad he mentioned having conversations instead of immediately punishing her at school.

[@amgooder]

Most kids don't like school...bc they have to think....and work... So they say they're bored...

[@homeschoolbriyahonlywatche238]

No it’s not that the work be getting frustrating an we get bored easy if it’s not fun