I'm Discouraged, What Should I Do?

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Brendon Burchard

Brendon Burchard

5 жыл бұрын

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Brendon Burchard is the world’s leading high performance coach and one of the most-watched, quoted and followed personal development trainers in history. He is also a #1 New York Times bestselling author and in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook, with over 10 million fans across his pages. O, The Oprah Magazine, and Success Magazine have both named him one of the most influential leaders in personal growth and achievement.
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A #1 New York Times, #1 Wall Street Journal, and #1 USA Today best-selling author, his books include High Performance Habits, The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket.
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@osse1n
@osse1n 5 жыл бұрын
*Doubt is a sign that you are about to learn something new.* Face the challenges, fears, overcome them to become better and wiser in all aspects. Self-doubt pushes us to continue our personal growth.
@WendiBlum
@WendiBlum 5 жыл бұрын
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me love your comment! 🙌
@InnerVisionStudios
@InnerVisionStudios 4 жыл бұрын
It's so easy to get discouraged now a days. We appreciate this video Brendon to help us out of our slumps
@ErikaK
@ErikaK 5 жыл бұрын
Failure is an opportunity, see it as a step that you need to take that's gonna take you closer to your goal. Don't get discouraged if things don't go your way, keep trying, over and over again. Believe in yourself ♡
@irisgonzalez-caulder2561
@irisgonzalez-caulder2561 5 жыл бұрын
Erika K I love Brend💛n Burchard healthy heart healthy mind. Erika thank you for your comment trust in myself and trust in my Lawyers.
@drewe9514
@drewe9514 3 жыл бұрын
We learn when we lose.
@ju4nita
@ju4nita 5 жыл бұрын
Deuteronomy 31:8 The lord your God will personally go ahead of you and he will be with you, do not be afraid or discouraged 🔥❤️
@Frenchylikeshikes
@Frenchylikeshikes 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you. About a year ago or'so, I was barely coming out a long depression that lasted for years. I watched a lot of your videos at the time. I do remember one advise of yours that struck me and that I did not get at the time: get momentum, and don't lose momentum. I do get it now. Thanks.
@tammannabadage9630
@tammannabadage9630 5 жыл бұрын
You are my superhero Brendon. Can't stop watching your videos. Lots of love to you😇😇🥰🥰
@PortoBelo511
@PortoBelo511 5 жыл бұрын
I like that picture of looking to the future and take the best.
@mangmiketeamtaiaha7256
@mangmiketeamtaiaha7256 5 жыл бұрын
Future me...."more buff, looking good" you made me laugh. Your energy is very inspiring Brendon. ....🙏
@RainbowWoods
@RainbowWoods 5 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU BRENDON!!! This video is amazing, and comes to me at the perfect time! I admit I have been feeling discouraged these last couple of weeks, and I am going through some huge shifts, which are disorienting. But I am extremely excited to hear these tips and I know they will help me when I put them into practice! Especially interested in learning what my future higher self has to say to me because he knows things I definitely don’t know yet, and is at a level of success and happiness that I can only dream of! And he knows what I need to do. Thank you so much. My planners have been sitting on my desk waiting for me. Time to actually make use of them. You are an inspiration, and I send you and Denise much love. ⚡️🙏⚡️ ⚡️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖⚡️ 🌈x
@catstickler
@catstickler 5 жыл бұрын
Brendon, let's be honest. That person, that mentor, I hear when I'm lagging is you. It's why I ALWAYS have a copy of "The Charged Life" on me. I open it to a random page and read it, and I get exactly what I need in the moment.
@Khanyisile3
@Khanyisile3 5 жыл бұрын
I love this! I have been attending interviews for more than a year now and lately, I have been feeling down and kinda discouraged, but listening to this video has encouraged me amazingly. I do my best to stay positive and motivated, but they're days when the spark is not as bright as other days. Thank you Brendon.
@alexiataylor3789
@alexiataylor3789 4 жыл бұрын
I have been listening to you speak while I’m in the car after work or on the way to work and listening to your advice and hearing you rationalize everything gives me enough encouragement to continue the day. It give me peace. Thank you for doing these videos!
@msbrightside_
@msbrightside_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you @Brandon... your words motivated me previously with work and now my mother passed away 2 months ago and this video brought me back to reality, thank you...shared this with my 2 sisters also
@noumankphotography
@noumankphotography 5 жыл бұрын
I Love you. My favourite mentor, my friend in hard times. Lots of hugs to you. 🌹🌹
@mrs.maestra173
@mrs.maestra173 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I recently didn't perform like I used to. I was at the lowest I've ever been. This video had been a godsend.
@yasminsalama8758
@yasminsalama8758 5 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for 7 years now and everytime im down or going through tough times with my studies, i watch one of your videos and feel soo much better, i really think you deserve all the best... Thank you and thank you in advance because i know i'll need you later sometime again and again
@FreelancingwithFaith
@FreelancingwithFaith 5 жыл бұрын
One word -- OUCH! That was really spot on. Thanks @Brendon for always knowing what to say. Sean Cannell already told me not to compare myself with others but I must admit it's still something to work on. 🙏😍
@jayfroneman
@jayfroneman 5 жыл бұрын
Disappointment and discouragement is really just a term for our refusal to look on the bright side. If you want to be motivated, let me know!? ❤
@2QTSuzie
@2QTSuzie 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your insight and support. I've been utilizing your counsel for years, it's only getting better. Thanks and may God/universe abundantly continue to bless you.
@PodMatch_com
@PodMatch_com 5 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos. (I’ve seen them all) love this one! I share almost all of your content in the Creating a Brand Community. It’s a private group/tribe/mastermind on our own custom social media platform, full of launch me nor is it people who are just wanting to live the best version of their lives. We all appreciate your content. Thank you so much for sharing this one!
@thefreedomclasswithdebbiew191
@thefreedomclasswithdebbiew191 6 ай бұрын
Thank you, Brendon. Your voice has been such an encouragement to me throughout the past decade, and your message is priceless.
@wspmjw
@wspmjw 5 жыл бұрын
Brendon, I appreciate that you don't swear and you serve your community so very well. Thank you for all you do and keep the great stuff coming please? #extremevalue
@sophiadamary476
@sophiadamary476 5 жыл бұрын
Much Thanks Sir. This topic is all about me. Am happy to have got this message. It's now up to me to rise up and move on. Thanks once again and be blessed more.
@nicolarose1327
@nicolarose1327 2 жыл бұрын
thankyou for this Brendan really helpful and ive been doing the things you have suggested and feel loads better. It is so important to have the right people supporting us especially on these spaces x
@thomasnorton4015
@thomasnorton4015 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for inspiring me through all of my discouraging times, Brendon. You're to thank that I'm going after my dreams today.
@graciecanil8482
@graciecanil8482 5 жыл бұрын
You have the ability to make people feel better, I'm discouraged right now, I just failed after my first attempt to start a business, but will not give up. Not now. Thanks for your words. :)
@TheIvylee1
@TheIvylee1 5 жыл бұрын
Aaaah this would’ve been so great a few days ago. Great episode. So important to reach out and to be honest & vulnerable and say we’re having a bad day. That’s one thing I don’t do...up until now 🙏🏼
@justonesmallpieceofadvice
@justonesmallpieceofadvice 5 жыл бұрын
You are one of my mentors, I will read or listen to your stuff daily... Thank you... I published a daily journal and recommended you as a mentor on my back cover of the published book. Thank you for doing what you do.Cheers,Kelly
@thegrandadmiral6185
@thegrandadmiral6185 5 жыл бұрын
The best Mr.brendon! I wish i can explain to ya how i achieved what im doing know becuase of you!
@Zarghami
@Zarghami 5 жыл бұрын
Losing teaches you things that winning never will, embrace losing.
@vesnaswanson2600
@vesnaswanson2600 4 жыл бұрын
Brendon, your video is so inspiring! Thank you from my family and me! 😇
@davidmamusic
@davidmamusic 5 жыл бұрын
I love this community. Right now I'm looking at 1007 likes vs 4 dislikes and I'm making it 1008. Lots of people here with great faith, values and certainly a great teacher! Looking forward to meeting you again live, Brendon. Until then, go out there every single day. Live fully, love openly and kick some serious @$$ today :-)
@yangyu4489
@yangyu4489 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this video man i needed this more than you know!
@InAPerfectWorlddd
@InAPerfectWorlddd 4 жыл бұрын
felt a little discouraged about my channel 💗 as i watched this, i noticed this video was made on my birthday and when i looked up at the clock, the time was 2:22.. definitely a sign! thanks for the advice!
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 жыл бұрын
Really helpful and excellent advice Brendon. This is such a valuable video.
@BrixsDNAfortnite
@BrixsDNAfortnite 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing message, Brendon. Really missed this king of videos from you. By the way, please make your supplement able to international shipping. I’ll love to try it.
@kathleenkastner
@kathleenkastner 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video Brendon! Thank you for your help and inspiration. 🙏💖
@cindycastaneda8606
@cindycastaneda8606 4 жыл бұрын
Brendon I absolutely love the High Performance Planner!!
@khalidslimani9934
@khalidslimani9934 5 жыл бұрын
I was a guy that people tought will never feel discouraged but now that’s all I’m doing sleeping and waking up to doing again all bzc of fear of others judgments
@WendiBlum
@WendiBlum 5 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL stuff my friend. 🙌 Bam... Do what makes you come alive. I love the visual of the racehorses wearing blinders to focus on their own path without getting distracted by the other horses. 🌍😊💙💪
@davidstone8312
@davidstone8312 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir. Thank You. 🙏
@sarajinki
@sarajinki 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing. Thank you so much.
@maureengarry
@maureengarry 5 жыл бұрын
Breandon, you always know what to say. Thank you.
@SocialMediaLove
@SocialMediaLove 5 жыл бұрын
Merci Brendon for this Monday Boost. ❤️
@mdtsmith
@mdtsmith 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This was a great help during COVID-19! Gaining perspective.
@subhasishnathdev
@subhasishnathdev 5 жыл бұрын
Only God knows Brendon, how much I needed this :) thanks :)
@gaasyendietha5070
@gaasyendietha5070 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video! Exactly what I needed
@adilo233
@adilo233 4 жыл бұрын
I love you for this advice on the time just need it
@whatithinksingh
@whatithinksingh 5 жыл бұрын
You always come in time Brendon . U r best .
@fenskamusic
@fenskamusic 3 жыл бұрын
Needed this. Thank you Brendon. 🙏🏼
@meganfonseca7341
@meganfonseca7341 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, just what I needed today!
@fabianoalbuquerque7594
@fabianoalbuquerque7594 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Brendon. Very nice!
@insaneinnocent7589
@insaneinnocent7589 5 жыл бұрын
This is ingenious : " Let your future highest self coach you to next level"
@airaormond1017
@airaormond1017 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice for everyone. What a blessing.
@Dant3Bear
@Dant3Bear 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so discouraged right now, I have no career, just got out of a long relationship, I feel like the world is crashing around me and I have no motivation or drive to get going again my mind is just swimming with doubt and regret and failure, I feel I'll never make anything of myself
@yangyu4489
@yangyu4489 4 жыл бұрын
set up a daily routine with positive habits, eat 3 healthy meals a day, exercise 3-4 times a week with cardio and weightlifting, and write to-do lists for your next day every night before you sleep. set up reminders on your phone that reminds to do all of this every morning and night. use trello to track your daily and weekly progress. start with small consistency so you don't lose yourself in the void of anxious thinking. all of these things will help provide positive feedback loops that will make you less anxious and more likely to accomplish tasks to move you in the right direction again. godspeed brother.
@veroniquediogo6030
@veroniquediogo6030 5 жыл бұрын
Don't try to make decisions based on your current funk! 👍🏽💪🏽 wow! Sooo good.
@user-dh9iw2zu7d
@user-dh9iw2zu7d 5 жыл бұрын
That is not only quite interesting and motivating, but helping to learn english and practice my pronunceation and listening skills!
@DesFAlday
@DesFAlday 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed this today. :)
@pearlm1618
@pearlm1618 2 жыл бұрын
amazing content, thank you for sharing it Brandon🙏❤
@isharaperera419
@isharaperera419 4 жыл бұрын
Your style is great Brendon!
@mashoorkhan
@mashoorkhan 5 жыл бұрын
This is the biggest problem for me also.. fear.. discouragement.. always trying to learn duscouragment and fear..
@khimcaballes8039
@khimcaballes8039 4 жыл бұрын
I love him so much!
@rami1513
@rami1513 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech, thank you.
@acjunio990
@acjunio990 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brendon. Thanks alot.
@MarGkEnvi
@MarGkEnvi 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saving me✌️
@thanapongs.375
@thanapongs.375 4 жыл бұрын
Very good advise, thanks Brendon
@reignofaragon6890
@reignofaragon6890 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brendan! You are on point like ALWAYS!
@reignofaragon6890
@reignofaragon6890 5 жыл бұрын
A question. What do you do When you do share and you get negitive feed back? Or a slam... Thanks
@RyanS-iq1wj
@RyanS-iq1wj 3 жыл бұрын
your words are gold compared to other time wasting youtube vid out there. just wanna say thanks u. :)
@lydiakaa5451
@lydiakaa5451 5 жыл бұрын
"Don't compare yourself to other people" literally me, when I haven't done well on my exams while others are doing better..
@zizukz
@zizukz 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. Very positive ;)
@newjerseydeals
@newjerseydeals 3 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely brilliant.
@JMACXO
@JMACXO 5 жыл бұрын
8:15 me everyday 😂 Great advice as usual!
@bharathib3176
@bharathib3176 5 жыл бұрын
Love ur 3rd point 👍
@margaretannwoods4869
@margaretannwoods4869 3 жыл бұрын
This was so awesome!
@allygong
@allygong 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@emeraudehime2431
@emeraudehime2431 4 жыл бұрын
i teach professional Japanese students English and I recommend your videos to them because I also want them to be reminded of healthy emotional and mental habits.
@hamadagentle7783
@hamadagentle7783 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks brendon
@gbflater
@gbflater 4 жыл бұрын
Being vulnerable takes humility
@MindNow
@MindNow 5 жыл бұрын
*Have a strong why and know that it’s part of the process* 🙏
@g.a.chamilakumara2483
@g.a.chamilakumara2483 4 жыл бұрын
thanks brendon 👍
@alisof222
@alisof222 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks brendon :’)
@keliciabrown9068
@keliciabrown9068 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@freelandfitness
@freelandfitness 5 жыл бұрын
excellent video Brendon
@maysounsaadi1484
@maysounsaadi1484 5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant future self exercise!
@thanapongs.375
@thanapongs.375 4 жыл бұрын
"Future Me Concept " I like it
@its_dade
@its_dade 5 жыл бұрын
Really love your content. #hpx
@paintingzoneart4026
@paintingzoneart4026 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@mattmartin3622
@mattmartin3622 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
@darkmercyiceheart
@darkmercyiceheart 5 жыл бұрын
Dude, you have to know tah you videos come to me in the very moment I need them, with the message I need.
@janbottner6081
@janbottner6081 5 жыл бұрын
me tooo
@janbottner6081
@janbottner6081 5 жыл бұрын
me tooo
@janbottner6081
@janbottner6081 5 жыл бұрын
let´s connect us
@Caz723
@Caz723 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@DarienneEmpire
@DarienneEmpire 4 жыл бұрын
My future highest self would come give me a hug. 😊
@user-fz9lv2ls7b
@user-fz9lv2ls7b 4 жыл бұрын
I do compare myself to others but not in the results we get I do in the effort and hard work they put into what they're doing while here I am can't get myself to do anything productive 🤦
@safiraaafir
@safiraaafir 4 жыл бұрын
1. Don’t compare yourself with others 2. Adopt a learning mindset 3. Take advice from your future self 4. Share your truth with others 🙏😊
@howedelamitri
@howedelamitri 5 жыл бұрын
Brendon, you rock! You're going to change the world
@rudzanimathoma5240
@rudzanimathoma5240 5 жыл бұрын
sir I love you so much
@skunko1871
@skunko1871 5 жыл бұрын
I am a 15 year old homeschooler. I don't have many friends, and only one I can remotely open up to on this level (but he lives far away) . My sister is very needy and is having intense struggles with concerntration, so my mother spends most of school time with her. This means I have been left to once a week 10 minute online meetings with teachers, and my own devices. I also live in South Africa where the education standards are way lower than the cambridge checkpoint I'm doing, so I am not used to the level of thinking that I am doing. It burns me out really quick. I am having major problems trying to get myself to do the work. How do you motivate yourself to get stuff done?
@jamiem2444
@jamiem2444 5 жыл бұрын
I was also homeschooled without much help. Try to get your hands on a relatively new GED book even though don't technically need it for a while. That is a good summary of everything you'll need, so you know what you'll need to focus on a lot more. Also, maybe you can talk to your mom and see if she would be willing to schedule an hour with you once a week or so, and you could just be prepared to ask her the more difficult questions so you're able to make the most of your time together. I hope this helps, and just try not to get discouraged!🙂👍
@sofiama9249
@sofiama9249 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question please , how can I be a good listener? Always when I’m listening to someone talking ideas stats coming distracting me to the point I’m not-listening anymore , I hate that please help me to focus and listen with my ears not letting my eyes distracting me I hope you understand my question
@misterinternational1739
@misterinternational1739 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice, if you could please do a quick clip on being less competitive I’d really appreciate it. Basically, reining in the “win at all costs” “losing is dying” i.e the hyper competitive mindset
@giovanycardenas8842
@giovanycardenas8842 3 жыл бұрын
Nice tan Brandon....💪💯💪
@paquitok.7219
@paquitok.7219 4 жыл бұрын
Do you have video on a burnout?
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