I'm Feeling Overwhelmed! I Need Help...

[@bocceball63]

I originally started watching you for woodworking but now I’m watching to see your journey. Whatever this goes I will follow. Just be yourself and honest. I am disabled and love watching and dreaming. It’s encouraging to me. Hang in there and follow your heart.

[@hendrikschepkens6455]

same here

[@thomaskybe5993]

Very well spoken dear friend...the best regards from Thomas, Denmark

[@Tuonico87]

Same here

[@jasontucker6143]

Samurai, I feel like you bro. I would love to meet you and clean up all that wood. My specialty is bonfires, ask any of my friends. Are you in Canada? I would fly up there from TN. I could stay a week. I have tents and tools. Love you man!

[@waltertenboske8147]

Same here. What came to my mind watching your video is the saying 'If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.' Don't perceive asking others to help as a burden, but as an opportunity to be part of your curagious journey. With regards to content: all good KZbin channels I follow have one thing in common: an authentic creator. You bring yourself and that's what that's makes it a great channel, regardless or even because of the changing content as result of your personal development.

[@humpty7457]

Mate - I don’t watch for the woodwork or the shenanigans, I watch because of you. Always honest, forthright, and prepared to take on a hell of a challenge. Maintain the rage, and the perspective, and continue to be you. Feedback? Ignore the haters, hug the wife a lot, and don’t ever cut that tree behind you down. Always hear if you need a chat.

[@PatNetherlander]

Jesse, as a lot of your ‘fans’, I started out watching your endeavors as a great woodworker. But as time progressed, it went smoothly to following you because of… well… you. As a person. The way of the Samurai if you like. The transition to your island and to a more kinda HomeSteading type of channel don’t mind me one bit. The fact that you’re confident enough to share your inner thoughts and philosophy with us shows me how much you’ve grown over the last couple of years. To see you provide for your family, doing what you do best, learning every day, gives me much joy as well. And there still is much woodworkery and building stuff in the vids as well. So all in all. Your doing great! Keep following your path! And never cut that “Samurai-Tree” It suits your channel to the core!

[@LarryTait1]

That tree is you Jesse; it’s a survivor. The odd branch missing, a little bent out of shape, but still standing! Keep it up, lumps , bumps, and all!

[@jonathancalhoun7602]

The combination of your outstanding craftsmanship and deep authenticity is exactly why I’ve kept watching these videos all these years!

[@zoomzoom14]

The samurai needs to know the off grid experience is a lifestyle to be lived and it may take you 10-20 years to be where you want/need to be. But it's about THAT experience! It's never ending... keep going and you will be rewarded!

[@richardpage1162]

Here Here!

[@Lenteroeleveld1169]

Exactly that

[@violentchipmunk]

As a fellow husband, father and a man in his 40’s I hear you brother. We grew up being told that as the Father we were always to be strong and not need help. The struggle is with realizing that we are still human and we all need some help sometimes. I know you will get through this phase. Praying that you get the help you need!

[@ryanmuller4996]

I don't have time to watch the video, are you guys talking about physical or mental problems?

[@danmclean3384]

From a military background I can offer these thoughts. Stumbling blocks are always encountered along the way my friend. Just learn when you fall down 7 times one must get up 8 times while keeping the purpose of the mission alive. Never think arriving at the finish line late is a failure...as long as you arrive with your team intact is the main purpose. So...as you mentioned in this segment complete your journey as a family with your wonderful wife and awesome children who, based on previous videos, love spending time with you at your oasis. Break down your work load into manageable bits and knock each one off remembering to listen to your body. You got this!!

[@quantumleap8888]

That is fantastic advice! Thanks for you perspective.

[@slove120031]

Well said. We all have these struggles throughout life. I also have a military background. Keep the end in focus. Take it one step at a time, we are all much stronger than we think we are.

[@cytopathic]

You are absolutely one of the finest woodworkers I've followed and have now, basically, successfully created two separate KZbin channels. Jesse, you are a winner. You are committed and talented enough to pull off whatever you choose. I hope you find the help you need to complete your current project in the timeframe you desire. I will continue to enjoy watching your wonderful journey in every step you decide to include us. Take care brother.

[@karltraunmuller7048]

I truly appreciate that you're so open about your struggles. I think it's a smart thing to ask for help if you feel overwhelmed, and it's perfectly fine to change course or adapt expectations as you go. Listen to your stomach, maybe scale back expectations, take a step back to reflect and consolidate, gather energy, forge a plan.

[@richardpage1162]

Absolutely. Your clear upset is likely to be fear that you think you might becoming a failure. For the record you are not a failure. One of the bravest guys I know. But we are a tribe and we thrive when working as a tribe with pals and friends and have a laugh. Your just realising this is going to be more than you thought and anyone would feel fear at that. Keep going pal

[@VagiPeti]

I come here to watch your journey, your honest, funny, hard working personality to receive inspiration. To withness your highs and lows, are the part of the journey. And not because you show us a shining, social glaze :D :D :D Thanks for sharing all of these... :)

[@dennismuha]

First of all, I want to say how much I admire your dedication and hard work on this off-grid cabin project. I've been a loyal viewer of your channel for years, drawn in initially by your woodworking skills, and yours is the only channel I consistently tune into for fresh content. While I'm not personally inclined towards off-grid living, your journey has been incredibly educational and inspiring to watch unfold from scratch. I understand that the process of building an off-grid cabin can be overwhelming and stressful, especially when it feels like there's still so much left to do. But remember, it's all about the journey, not just the destination. Your dedication and passion shine through in every video, and I truly hope you find moments of joy and satisfaction along the way. Take a step back every now and then to appreciate how far you've come. Your idea of involving the community is fantastic. As we emerge from the isolation of the pandemic, there's a craving for connection and shared experiences. Opening up the opportunity for people to come and help, not just for monetary compensation but for the chance to be a part of your dream and learn from you, is a wonderful way to build connections and create memories that will last a lifetime. Remember, your viewers are here to support you not only in your successes but also through the challenges. You've got a strong community behind you, cheering you on every step of the way. Stay positive, stay passionate, and keep sharing your amazing journey with us. Looking forward to seeing how your off-grid cabin comes together, and I'm sending all the encouragement your way!

[@clewis3838]

One thing you can be absolutely sure of: out of all the people who watch your videos and love what you bring to the table, there are hundreds or thousands of people who would be HONORED to work along side you. Give everyone a clear picture of exactly what you want/need and what the logistics would be, and you'll make it easier for people to step up. I've been through similar things and felt similar feelings of being overwhelmed. I've learned that the huge breakthroughs and momentum come just after the height of feeling the weight of it. So, you're on the cusp of it really flowing for you.

[@alexmartincarrillo]

You’re the man. Love you brother. Pretty sure you were my first KZbin channel I ever subscribed to 10 years ago. I’m here for whatever ride you take us on.

[@whitetjw27]

My Dad and I started building a 12x20 raised timber frame tiny cabin about a year and a half ago. I understand where you are coming from being overwhelmed with all the work as I have felt that multiple times throughout the build process. I’m still around 2 years most likely until being fully complete. I live in the southeast united states along a river where I pull old growth cypress and heart pine logs. I pull logs and cut them on a friends mill then stack the lumber until it’s dry to use. I’ve used most of the wood I’ve pulled from the river to do the majority of the build from the frame itself to the ceiling of my cabin and beyond. It’s been an enormous amount of work and taken way longer than I anticipated. I’m in the same boat as you where I’m getting to the point of needing help and feeling overwhelmed. I keep at it but progress is slow. I think the most important thing is to not look at the whole picture but just keep your mind set on the next goal and chip away at the steps along the way. When you zoom out and think about everything it’s very easy to get overwhelmed. I wish I was closer or could fly out cause my dad and me would be all about helping a fellow woodworker out. Just keep at it and the fruits of your labor will be enjoyed by all of your family and friends one day soon.

[@cvzphotography]

Hang in there. You're doing an amazing job and working towards something that you and your future generations will be proud of for years to come.

[@jenniferfernando]

Jesse, I am currently folding a samurai carpenter t-shirt as I am doing laundry. I got it maybe 5-6 years ago and have hopped on and off catching your videos now and again. Thank you for demonstrating your fears, your happiness, and your tears. It gives others permission to do the same. There are so many encouraging comments here and I don’t know if you will see mine, but I want you to know that I see you, I hear you, and your feelings are valid. There are many feelings and lessons that I want to share with you to know that you are not alone, and sometimes the most helpful I can be is to listen, to hear, to see the emotions. So thank you for being brave to share with all of us, this video, your past videos, and your next one. Sending much love.

[@poorfellamycountry]

Jesse, take a break from unnecessary complications. Time spent thinking will always save time working. Stop, take a look back, breathe, smell the roses. You got this.

[@ty2864]

My man, your journey is one of passion. I've been watching your channel for years and years, I think the first video I saw was the Japanese plaining video like 10 or 11 years ago.... all your content has been from the heart and it shows. you've gave me the confidence too take on projects that I never thought i'd be able to do. I will be forever grateful for the knowledge and entertainment you have provided to me and I assume many others. Thank you for all of it and I will always look forward to seeing your journey and one day the finish line. Stay safe and keep your head up.

[@kevinwinkle8091]

I left a comment years ago saying that I really loved your work but that the ego and self praise was hard to watch. I remember you messaged back and I don't remember exactly what you said but it definitely rubbed you the wrong way. It made me sad because I really looked up to you and your work and I didn't mean to come off as attacking your character. I have still been following all these years and I have seen a major change in you and your character. There's just something so much more admirable to a someone that can express there talents and yet be humble at the same time. Proverbs 27 comes to mind. "Boast not thyself of to morrow; for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth.2 Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips". Stay humble my friend and God bless.

[@MaxCJ]

I have always appreciated your craft, your humour but also your honesty. Keep doing what you're doing, but be gentle with yourself - it takes a village.

[@brianmontana]

dude I love the channel and its new direction. I appreciate you being open about your stuggles, we all have them and it's how we learn and grow thru them. You are building a beautiful place which should bring many happy memories for you and your family.. Take some breaks, ask for help, but respect the process. I appreciate the content greatly, hang in there, enjoy the seasons, they are all for our good.

[@jonpratt1343]

You got me as a subscriber with the wood working, and kept me with your journey. Your doing great. Oh. Your “tribe” is your family. The rest of us are not important.

[@johnritchie3889]

I need a passport, but I’ll be on the next plane. I retired and started my woodworking journey in part because of you. You, and others like you, saved me from a life of corporate ennui. I’m there if you need a wingman.

[@perrrry]

Make it happen. Would be amazing.

[@markbonner2535]

Jesse, keep doin what you’re doin. First time I saw you was when researching Japanese steel and THAT planing film. Been hooked ever since. It’s you the person that keeps us coming back. I’d watch you sort shells on the beach to be honest, as you’d make it interesting and accomplish something memorable. You should be proud of what you have done, you’ve built things on this planet with your bare hands. Kids and woodwork stuff. What more can a man want! I think you’re an inspiration to men the world over. Keep going, you will get there… and the quality will be outstanding as it’s what makes you tick.

[@johnkollar6707]

I appreciate you being open and talking about being overwhelmed. Too many people ignore it until it overtakes our lives but it’s never too late to ask for help.

[@jean-francoislaporte64]

You took on an amazing life project, a big one but a meaningful one. I struggle with depresion in my life, most of my adult life has been a battle to keep it under a sertain control. My depression is not debilitating at least but I need to stop thinking, and just do what I need to do. I also build timber frame construction that take for ever to finish but, every step is a step closer to finishing, so do what you can, and you will be finished when it will be done. I whish I could help you, I also have my own projects to finish, that my depression keeps pushing the time line... especially that BC is such a beautiful place, I would go back in a jiffy, when I retire in a few years.

[@scrout]

You are the one of the hardest working dudes I've ever seen on all of KZbin. So you're feeling of maybe not pulling your weight is not accurate. You've taken on a huge job, but you also see the time ticking away as we all have as our children grow up so fast. There's only so much time, so I definitely vote to get a lot of help and get the place built so your boys can grow up on the island. It always feels great to say that you built something all by yourself, but as your needs change, sometimes you have to adjust your priorities. You've stored a ton of treasures in heaven already, you have already earned the heavenly, "well done".

[@thevirtualcockpit5001]

From a fellow wood worker. It was this channel and your projects that persuaded me to approach my own work as a journey, not a destination. I've adopted the traditional joinery and tools of the old masters. Outside my front door is wilderness, much like your location here, and it is indeed difficult dealing with the unique challenges of moving off grid. When I hit the wall I look at what I have built over the last ten years and it all comes back into focus. From the heart...thank you for what you have shared, and for the lessons beyond the projects themselves.

[@KSMike1]

I’m reminded of two things: 1) A friend in need is a friend indeed. Your comment about men being raised to not be a burden spoke to me on a level I wasn’t expecting. I’m telling you now - anyone who’s in a position to come out and help, doesn’t want anything in return but lasting friendship. 2) When anyone mentions “offgridding,” I always think of the pioneers who set out from the cities of the east coast, for a new life. They had no idea what they’d face; many died in the effort but even then they pushed on. Why?? They felt there was no choice. So where is your head in that context? Do you want it badly enough that you have no choice? Only you can know. When you have a choice, there’s no shame in turning back. It seems to me you’ve already created the basics that are needed to exist there - so maybe now it’s time to take a couple of weeks off to regroup, plan next steps and re-energize. By the way, that staircase is a frickin’ masterwork.

[@quantumleap8888]

Fantastic comment!

[@markevans7584]

I'm in a similar boat. I've had a remodel business for over a decade. At one point it was pretty successful, my wife hasn't had to work in a decade, could buy whatever tools I needed, etc. something changed in me and I stopped taking challenging jobs and now I'm struggling to pay bills. I feel that working solo is draining me. I worked on a friend's job a few weeks back building ramps on a commercial job. It was non stop hard work in brutal heat for less pay then I'm used to. I had a blast! Being part of a team or community is crucial to us

[@seantarbell3088]

I know exactly what you mean. I am 51 years old now and the pressures of Life can get to you. I have been a carpenter, electrician and builder all my life.I plan to move to Montana and build a post and beam cabin off grid hopefully. I have enjoyed watching your stuff for years now. Thanks for inspiring me to move into the mountains that I love.

[@garymartin1337]

The first video I watched of you,was making the stone sink. Most of us viewing your videos,watch other channels of KZbinrs doing different things. For me,it’s woodworking,cabin building,excavation to name a few. Your content keeps me coming back for more. Don’t feel bad for asking for help, I’m sure you have followers who would LOVE the experience of helping you out . I’ve seen this on other KZbin channels

[@fallenkafiel]

just wanted to write to let you know how much I appreciate the positive influence you've had on my life. Thank you for your concern and useful advice! I’ll be forever grateful. You inspired me during a difficult time when I needed words of encouragement. You don’t even know how much your help meant to me.

[@wade2361]

One thing you are amazing at is talking, and following a long train of thought. You sit and talk with no cuts. Tons of YTbers have to follow a script or they cut/cut/cut and piece together a video. You talk and put together videos like this without cuts and it's compelling dialog. With that said, I feel your frustration. I spent way too many years remodeling a basement. I felt like it should be 1-2 years, but it stretched on due to time constraints, injuries, etc. I eventually finished and we love that basement. Keep going.

[@oscarscholten2059]

Been watching for many years (6 or 7) and have been loving your offgrid experience. You have done an amazing job past years, crafting your dream, accomplishing so many things.

[@silasmarner7586]

You've got a house to build, and that is a HUGE project. Your actual items you've worked on are excellent, and I know it's taking wayyyyy longer. I for one am NOT complaining about the shift in focus. It's you're gig bro'! I support you!

[@douglasladzinski6019]

Hey Jesse, This channel, the work you’ve done, and the story you’ve told have been inspiring for me as Ive gone through school and began my career as an architect. Design and the standard of craftsmanship is incredibly hard work and difficult to handle. I think I t’s really only possible with the support of others around us who care and give love to achieve these goals. When completing my architecture thesis I didn’t realize it at the time, but having my friends, past bosses and family to talk to about it was the only reason I was able to finish it. Having those who are likeminded and those who chose to love you for who you are those who will pick you up when you’re down and just help. I would love to visit your property one day. I’ve does workaways and WWOOFs before, and this may be something that will help you find some skilled help. Whether it’s down in 10 years or 25 years, I hope this project becomes what you want it to be. I wish you luck and peace as you continue your journey.

[@ballardchad]

Jesse, I certainly appreciate your honesty and integrity. It is not easy to bare one's sole especially on such a global platform. Its also not easy to ask for help. And to be honest your video struck a cord with me. As men we are taught to not ask for help, we are taught that we must do all on our own and that to ask for help is a sign of weakness. I do also struggle with combating this thinking and there have been times in my life when I have struggled with the balance of doing something on my own and asking for help. Thank you for having the courage to speak up and to be honest. To me your videos have always been more than just educational they have been enjoyable because of your banter, openness and character. I also love the fact that you are local and maybe one day I'll bump into you at Princess Auto or Timmy's!!! :)

[@aclasstv1002]

You have an amazing community and I know we’d love to help. Why not form a group event or weekend with other woodworkers/ teachers and subscribers? Give it a shot!! You do not need to pay when we all want to give a helping hand!!!!

[@markforrestsm]

Like many others I came to your channel attracted by your superlative woodworking skills and have stayed because of your evolution and growth! As a 63 year old man, I was raised that "cowboys don't cry" and that "philosophy" lead me down a dark road. I survived and it's only been through the help of my family, close friends and professional help that I'm finding a new lease on life and appreciation for what I do have. Jesse, as a man, it's really "okay" to be open and say you need help and you're an inspiration for your openness. Take the time you need to reflect on what's truly important and act in accordance with those things. You're in my thoughts and prayers, take care and look after you - you matter and we love being a part of your journey.. Regards and best wishes from South Africa

[@karcinoma]

Your Channel as long as its gone on for, is one of the most finely crafted on all of KZbin, and brother I ain't talkin about just the wood working...

[@jani8362]

The view is incredible! Stay grounded and follow your path and we will keep watching. We need more people in the world like you.

[@billytingen3567]

First of all, Thanks for sharing your heart. My wife and I retired at the onset of the pandemic and moved from Maryland to Kentucky. Our dream was and is to establish a "Homestead" and a Hobby Farm. In the beginning, there were a list of tasks to accomplish and we found out very quickly that it was going to test every fiber of our being. Because of lumber prices we delayed planning our Home Build. Proverbs 24:27 that says to "put your outdoor work in order and prepare your fields, then build your house". I cleared knee high grasses and weeds on $ acres with a battery push mower and a weed eater...toward the end I purchased a small John Deer mower to help. With solid of rock and clay, we brought in compost and soil and built 50 garden beds on top of the clay. We planted the garden and canned and dried our harvest. It was hard and there were many days I felt sooooo behind but you gotta focus on the task and just push thru. My hardest tasks have been those where I needed help and couldn't get it. Getting help is good. You are connecting with God and nature and that story is much different that the story of the world. I'll pray for you. Peace. You are building on a different level now. You are building a family and a legacy. You got this Samurai.

[@MichaelJones-nn3oq]

So tough to do a project of that size on your own Jesse, the logistics of getting materials up there alone must feel overwhelming. I’d be tempted to borrow some cash however you can, get those foundations in, give yourself a boost and get back into what you love, some serious timber framing. Those Japanese Temple plans are next level. Watched you since the beginning you’ve been a huge inspiration to me, know that you’ve been such a positive influence in so many peoples lives. Trust in yourself mate, we all believe in you. You will get there, looking back at these hard times when you have created your island dream will make it all the more sweet! Big love from the UK

[@soonerwest]

All I want to say is, you are not alone in this journey. All I care about is the fact that you have a good heart and you care!!! This means so much. Your video helped me and shows that we are not alone.

[@John1960Video]

Much appreciated. I’m 74, and I suggest that your cracking open is quite similar to what I experienced at somewhere near your age. I encourage you to watch carefully; when your Soul speaks to you this way, it is inviting you on a journey ofm self discovery. You are wise to notice that quick fixes won’t take you where your True Nature wants to go. I don’t go to church, but I do find that a very simple prayer at bedtime often brings a morning insight to what to do that day. Not a map for the whole “solution,” but revealing the next step. This video seems to me like one of those ”Next Steps.” The prayer is: “God, please teach me what I need to know.” In a crisis I shorten it: “God, please help me!” And yes, opening up to others is always good!

[@parnold641]

I'm currently 32 I've been watching you build things since your spiral staircase rant, youtube says its been about 8 years, and some of the points you made then, on craftsmanship, taking pride in your work have stuck with me both professionally and at home on my own projects, it made me think in ways I wouldn’t have. I never watched because you were the "best" but you can tell that the quality you strive for is exceptional by anyones standard. Your ability to solve a problem is inspiring, and the huge joinery projects you tackled on that deck build, incredibly satisfying. I've always enjoyed building things, and am no where near your level of quality or skill, and people have been impressed by things I've made(ha idiots). I think you've raised the bar on what I expect of myself. Asking for help has got to be humbling for any man, but I can also say the way you put it out there is equally as inspiring as everything else I've seen you do. I've always tried to be a handy person who loves to help people. I don't think I could make it this summer, but I'd love to come out sometime. I've always wanted to come visit Canada, It'd be a bit of a journey, I'm in Iowa, but I've taken longer journeys for worse reasons. Being out there on your land in a cabin or even just a tent, helping and learning sounds like an incredible way to spend a few weeks. Stay strong my dude, always loved watching the things you come up with. Can't wait to see what this call for help churns up.

[@OJ5591]

Thanks for being honest Jesse, sorry to hear your struggling. You needn't be so hard on yourself for being human. What's the point in family/friends/community if you can't ask for help. It's hard asking others for support, but its nothing to be embarrassed about. We're all in this world together, and I'm sure you'd be the first to help a fellow man in need.

[@benjaminuranga883]

As a Disabled Veteran with severe PTSD and a TBI I think I can relate to your struggles. I often watch your content and find myself just nodding my head in agreement. Through the years I’ve become a huge fan of you and your journey. So thank you for this share. I hope you can find some peace and will continue to do what you want and live the life you earn. Through following you a handful of channels (creators) I’ve been inspired to finally live my dream. I start the Northwest School Wooden boat building next month. 🎉! You and your family/channel have played a large part to inspire and give me hope. Thank you Samurai, I’m sure I’m not alone by saying I’d answer the call if you ever needed a hand. Fair Winds and Folloing Seas!

[@troyqueen9503]

The boogeymen is real, did my time also.

[@torbjornahman]

I'm glad you made this video Jesse, and I think you have a really good point when we talk about the lack of love for one each other and the way the society is moving in this money driven, "mind your own business" direction more and more. Dalai Lama has a pretty good view on life - "Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive. Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them". Keep doing your best work, it will ultimately lead your way on the path, I'm sure!

[@joshjoshi1978]

I’m no woodworker; not even close. I enjoy others’ creativity because it’s not something I share. There are so many woodworking channels I could watch. But I watch yours, never knowingly missing an episode, because you have a sincerity, an honesty and an openness which is captivating. I’ve watched your journey and the Chanel change over time - you are as captivating as the the first episode I remember watching. You have a great work ethic and you work hard for your family. I (and many others) respect that. Please keep going Mr Samurai…. I am inspired by you and the challenges you grapple with. I think one way you may consider going forward is dedicating an episode on what your vision is for your off grid location. Give us a wider perspective of your dream and what you want to achieve on the whole project - I think it will help people understand how far along you are and also be enthused by your vision for your family. I think you will find people will love to come join you and help you for short stints and just share some screen time as the only payment in return. Don’t give up Mr Samurai - we all need help and the very best of us, like you - know to ask for it…. Good luck and best wishes.

[@cleavernamehere]

Welcome to homesteading brother, your the only one to get things done. Maybe having a guest star or another creative to come through and help you get a project done. That kind of fun creates new energy over old projects.

[@kingspud1983]

19:18 it sounds like you've been struggling and feel pretty burdened. I haven't watched your videos in quite a while, but I'm sorry to hear that. It's okay to feel differently about your previous passions. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable.

[@willw.birnie8446]

You Rock buddy! You're an inspiration, even you choosing to make this video is going to motivate someone! Stay on the Horse!

[@andrewmay9406]

I follow several other channels, a Dutch fella renovating two buildings in Italy and an English man building his off grid dream in Wales. Both welcome volunteers to help and learn. For little more than the experience, learning and a bit of cuisine. You really have a great deal to offer, and I think the opportunity to share in what you are doing would be of benefit to all. You’ve reached out, why not see what you can embrace.

[@Arloashean]

Who's the guy in Wales?

[@ronnie6079]

Kris harbour

[@joyardley1742]

Kris Harbour is amazing followed him for years 😊

[@nathanielrasmussen73]

@@ronnie6079 Kris and Jesse are my 2 favorite youtube Channels.

[@KipringPayne]

You're not alone. I haven't bitten off a project as remote as yours, but I too am building my own home for my family. It's been a long road - and we are just seeing the light at the end of the tunnel after 3 years of labor (on my own). I too thought it would go much quicker... two years instead of what is amounting to 3.5, maybe 4. Mistakes were made - namely thinking I could work full time and do this on the weekends. Still working, still working weekends - all weekends for the last few years. When I first dug the foundation, I brought my wife out to see the groundbreaking... she cried. All she saw was a mud hole. A big mud hole. She told me she didn't want to see it again until I had something to show. So, I labored for a year - foundation done, stem walls poured, 1st floor poured (concrete home). Was excited to show her and again she saw just a fragment. It's hard slow work. I'm about to take her back after two more years - roof is now on, windows in, back door is in and even now she is scared to see the framed walls as an empty shell. For those years of missing every weekend, it's been hard on my family and my wife. We have three little girls and I know they miss me, they know daddy is building a new home but it hurts. Every day I work, I wonder am I hurting them or am I helping them by doing what I'm doing to build a home - a home we could not afford unless I do what I'm doing (thanks current administration). I doubt any of this helps - just rambling. I hope it helps for you to know you aren't alone. There are others of us who are also struggling and still pushing forward. It isn't easy, nothing of value is, but what scares me - all fathers - are we sacrificing the right things, for the right reasons - to do the right things. I hope we are.

[@ahschornjesus]

Been here a long time, you have very high standards and always execute on them. Judging by the quality of the smaller cabin and the fit and finish there you are looking at years upon years of highly finished work. You're right that it is going to take a ton of work to complete. I work in architecture, high end residential. Some of our projects can last multiple years to actually be 100% completed, and that is with teams of 25 ish laborers on site every day. High standards in building simply take a lot of time, especially if you're burnt on the project which it is seeming like you are right now. Ironically, my advice is to take time to yourself. You are mentally exhausted and carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders right now. Breath, and enjoy that beautiful view you have there. Time away from your work will make it go quicker.

[@christophermcdonough1353]

Great to remind him/ US high end quality takes years, but most importantly the pleasure real craftsman have is the joy that it will last for generations to come and admire!! And all worth it!

[@drummingFelix]

Jesse, you have no idea how grateful I am for your words and message. So powerful and inspiring. I wish you all the best. Greetings from Germany

[@timothynelson4614]

Watching your woodworking videos was great but watching you struggle with every single part of this new journey has been epic. Can’t wait for each new video.

[@fataljalapeno5190]

Amazing video brother! It takes a lot to open yourself up this much to other people and you are doing it on a whole nother level. I appreciate all of your videos and you are growing as a person. Live in the moment and follow what is in your heart. Take a break and do some traveling or put your focus on a specific project.

[@MRBenchwork]

I honestly like the channel more now than I did years ago. I think what you need is an apprentice. In addition to having someone to teach and share your skills with you'll also have a helping hand and the content creation will come more naturally when you're teaching someone in person. That said, I'm loving the honesty and how you are presenting the real life struggles of trudging along while going through a change in life priorities. I myself am going through something similar and appreciate knowing I'm not alone. Edit: While I'm on the other side of the continent (Florida) I'd be happy to fly up (on my dime) (next April / May) and work for 7 days. All I'd ask is that you feed me and give me a spot to setup a tent. I think with a group of 10 people you could probably accomplish quite a bit with a little pre planning. I can share my knowledge of concrete construction, curved formwork, and other general construction knowledge and you can do the same. It doesn't need to be overwhelming, Just setup a discord channel and we (you and your audience) can group think a plan.

[@chrismackay9154]

id arrange transportation for myself, even bring some dehydrated meals for myself too get some training while being another set of hands

[@MRBenchwork]

@@chrismackay9154 That's the idea I had. I'm looking at hiking the AT next June (SOBO) so it would be a good test and tune opportunity for my camping gear.

[@MotoMNMedia]

Expat Canuck here. The videos are equally compelling for the woodworking as you the individual. As a trauma nurse I don’t have much in the way of carpentry skills but my spouse does. We could be available for April/May 2024 to assist if needed.

[@buczo102]

A very nice movie! Movies like this are needed, too. As good as woodworking in your performance. I have been watching you for a long time and I love your carpentry style and I enjoy watching every new construction you create. I keep my fingers crossed for your family and for your plans and dreams! Greetings from Poland!

[@justinphillips351]

I'm an electrician from Metro Detroit, and I'm struggling myself. If I had some extra cheddar, I would help you out in a heartbeat the struggles are real. you're the best!

[@ezek1el1]

I feel you man!! It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, you have done so much on this property and what you have done is so great so far. You put pride in your work I think personally you are living the dream, a dream that most of us can only dream of but you are living it everyday and your family is experiencing it too. What you do is amazing. All the greatest things in life takes effort and time. Enjoy every single bit of this amazing journey. I would go help tomorrow if I didn’t live that far. Personally that’s who I am, i do a lot by my self just like you and I am always ready to go help friends and family. Life is about building!! Keep your head up Jess. The future is great!

[@PhilWaud]

I hear ya bro! Its brave of you to put this out in the open and Im sure you will find that the world and people are kinder than everyone thinks. I like your channel, Ive watched it for quite a few years and enjoy seeing projects that you start such as your old workshop where its a massive undertaking but you chip away with it and make it amazing. Since you started on your off grid project, its certainly changed but the journey is still very watchable and enjoyable. Keep at it, life is what happens when we are busy making other plans! We love ya!

[@jimsjacob]

I’m too far away and on top of that, struggling with Leukemia which robs you of your strength, endurance and energy. I retired as a result and thought it would so cool to come up and work with you. Even behind the scenes just to get the experience and learn a ton. But thought I’d end up frustrating you with my symptoms and needing to recoup for an hour or few…. I know, “you got this” and look forward to further episodes. Hope it all falls into place for you and yours. Cheers Samurai!!

[@dustwoodstudios7580]

I just wanted to say, hang in there, brother. The work you are doing and the stuff you have accomplished is incredible. I don't want to sound like I'm telling you to keep feeding the machine, but I'm pretty sure a lot of us watching this series are leaving our dreams of off grid living through your dream of it. Myself, I wish I had the time to get out there and help, and I hope to one day have the time to go whenever you are ready and get some community help program going. Thanks for opening up about this. It really helps us understand you more 🙏🏻

[@michaelshearer3559]

I would continue to plan out the build, pick your battles, hire out where needed (or work with a contractor) if that is just for foundation work, or truss work that might be too much for you. Excavation, and proper drainage can be a huge task by itself. You know what needs to be done, and you certainly know your strengths. Keep pushing forward.

[@dilic]

I think you can learn a lot from Leo’s approach on rebuilding his rotten boat tally ho. He started in 2017 (!) and only now after more than 6 years he managed to get near the finish line. Project management is a skill on its own which you will need to develop along this journey in order to make your (future) team work as efficient as possible. Good luck with this amazing project! Cheers from The Netherlands

[@adamvajda83]

Was about to comment this as well. Leo really did well to solve his challenges to reach his dream. The Samurai is not the first person to face these types of challenges, nor will be the last. There are people to learn from. I am sure he will find a solution for this situation. However, this video was critical in showing how we all struggle sometimes and that the key to being well in this life is to provide, and ask for, help if needed. Be aware that not everyone is capable to be vocal about this, but need some help realizing the fact. Ultimately, I believe we all keep following the Samurai because of his personality, whatever he might end up doing.

[@misteribeiro]

thanks for keeping the camera still and allowing people to just take in the beautiful scene, you have good ideas and answered alot if not all you're own questions...one of the best yt video i've seen

[@NHdiesel75]

Hey Jesse! Thank you for this and every video you’ve posted. Your work bench video blew me away years ago and have been watching since. After 30 years in construction and woodworking, I still love it but realize it’s not “who” I am but what I do. It was my identity until Jesus saved me 12 years ago. I’m truly grateful to see you changing and growing! I watch your channel because YOUR on it. Like you said, there’s tons of woodworking videos out there to choose from but seeing a human being, a guy trying to make a better life for himself and his family is what people connect with. God made us to be in relationships and community. To connect on a deeper level than just vocation, politics or social class. We’re all broken and we all need help. I’m proud of you for opening up and admitting you can’t handle it all by yourself! It’s freeing to let go of the facade we put up and the person we try to portray to ourselves and others and just admit we need help. I’m praying for you and your family, I’m praying God would bring the help you need in whatever way possible. Continue fighting for what you believe in and continue being honest that that fight is tiring, that is a legacy you can leave behind especially to your sons who look to you as their example of what a man, husband and dad is like. That is the fruit that will last. Thank you for sharing and I hope someday to be able put on my tool belt and work with you and help you achieve your dream!

[@dirkemoore]

Super courageous post man, and well received. You're an authentic dude, and its great to hear someone willing to share the whole story, instead of just the positive parts that won't inconvenience their audience to confront the exact same issues.

[@farcry5299]

I would help in a heartbeat if I wasn’t down under. It’s been amazing watching your channel (and you) evolve. The only channel I instantly click on. Don’t burn yourself out! 1 stepping stone at a time

[@ryan_antonelli]

How do you climb a mountain? One step at a time. If you can, take another step. If you can’t, pause, and without cynicism, appreciate how for you’ve come, and then when you’ve caught your breath, keep climbing! “I thought id have gone further by now” 😊 don’t we all Keep climbing brother The view from the top is always worth the work it takes to get there. X

[@nobodyimportant369]

As some one who has watched your content ever since I saw you build that first stone sink at your in-laws cabin, I gotta say that your work ethic and craftsmanship have always shined through in your videos. Just keep doing your thing man, we are all just along to watch your journey. I was going to comment on how society always tries to tell us that asking for help is a sign of weakness, and that it's just pride talking; but I think you covered that pretty well yourself. Stay the course, brother, you got this.

[@Wrangler98JPTJ]

I feel you on the world shifting Jesse... I too have been feeling the burnout and usually find myself 110% going going going on projects but have been toast on finding motivation lately...Buckin's positivity has been an inspiration for me as well as his advice when the body does not want to cooperate, and you shift your scope of work to cooperate with your body and still forge ahead in some form or fashion even if it is less than your usual pace.

[@clo5eprotection]

Hey Jesse, You probably don’t remember but we met a few years back. It was Makers Central, Birmingham Uk. I told you then what an inspiration you was to me and how watching your videos has completely changed my approach to woodworking. Some of methods I have adopted and it’s had a tremendously positive effect on my business. I do miss the old content, but watching a man live his dream and build a house from nothing is nothing short of amazing. You have taken on a project and faced it head on. A true Samurai, no matter how noble will need help in some battles. If I can get a few things sorted here in the UK, I’d love to come and help out. Warren I

[@shadetreehomestead4276]

Man, it's great to be humble. It's been great watching you grow spiritually with GOD. I have been following for over 4 years now. This is by far my favorite part. Please take your time building this new forever home for your family. Keep fighting the good fight. Never quit, never back down.

[@barryfoxall2082]

Hi Jess. never forget that people watch your videos for the woodworking content but a great deal of the people that tune in - tune in to you as a human being, feeling your pain and indecision, never forget you are an inspiration, stay strong my man, every one of your videos gives someone strength

[@yuriykonarskyy2889]

I definitely agree 100% and think the same way, that we should all help each other. I'd love to come out and help if it was little closer. I live in Colorado. I am sure somebody who lives closer will do it! I wholeheartedly hope so.

[@whatistug]

Dude, you've built a community of passionate makers over the decade + of your KZbin journey. I started my apprenticeship around the time you started posting and your videos taught me to "step it up" and value the work we do. After all you've given as a teacher and mentor, I know many of us would relish the opportunity to come out, meet you and spend a weekend on your property helping out. Thank you for all you've done, and thank you for asking for help. That takes strength.

[@thomas0753]

To answer your questions: Totally agree that being in community is the greatest thing you can do. It is so important to reclaim the truth of manhood, husbandry, fatherhood, and ever important sonship so anything along the lines of that would be supported! Having a place and space to be honest, transparent and vunerable is a such a great idea and ministy that I want to affirm is needed and a worthy cause. Proud of you and all you have accomplished already, praying for provision and protection as you continue your journey. As a Husband, and father of 3 holding down a job and trying to renovate I know your pain of wanting things to move faster but as you have said many times, it is more important to spend the time and journey with your family (which means things will go slower). Thank you for sharing your journey with us, the good and the bad.

[@PolarBeaverWoodworking]

I can come and help you for couple of weeks at a time and also learn a lot from you too. I live in Michigan. I want you to know that I can relate to everything you shared, having experienced similar challenges myself. It takes huge courage to acknowledge your struggles, to talk about them, and ask for help. I started my woodworking business a few years ago, but over time, I transitioned into creating online content and selling digital products. I love this work, but it comes with its own challenges, and I, too, have experienced moments of overwhelm. Please let me know if I can be a help in any way and stay strong brother.

[@robertw.1499]

Keeping ahead of the KZbin algorithm, making sure you are constantly producing all that interesting and inspiring content. Doing this at a level that you can live of the money made on your channel, must be daunting and very stressful. You have all the symptoms of burnout, so it's absolutely right to cry out for help. No sign of weakness, just a sign that you're human with all the flaws that sometimes brings with it. Feel for you man 💪

[@johnnysc9507]

Screw people who complain about these type of personal videos. If they don't like them there's a very easy solution, don't watch them.

[@DarrenSteward]

Jesse your perspective in life is more valuable than you realise, combine that with your woodworking and you’ve got amazing insight into how to create beautiful projects. I can also relate to not wanting to be a burden BUT we all need each other in some capacity, so ask for the help and you’ll be guaranteed to meet and work with people who’ll treasure the opportunity to work with you.

[@MikeBeauchamp]

Man, I know you can’t respond to every comment but I know you read them all. Like others have said, I just wanna offer my support as you navigate your journey. Came for the woodworking, stayed for you, your humor, and this amazing off-grid life you’re building. I’m quite a few steps behind, but on a similar path. We’re still on the grid.. but we’re out in the country, away from the craziness of town, and have the room to build and create a better, simpler life, and taking steps to be more self sufficient. I admire your hard work, grit, and determination this takes, but can also relate that sometimes I find myself questioning my own decisions to pursue this. It’s frickin hard! And it’s okay to say that. It’s ok to slow down and recapture yourself. Don’t let life get by you without living. It’s the journey, not the destination, because the destination is death. I know that sounds so cliche.. but I’ve realized how true it is for me. Nothing here comes off as weak, or “not manly”. We’re all human. And it turns out you are too ;) Hang in there my brother. We are all rooting for you. We are cheering for you. We celebrate your big wins, and we’ll virtually offer support when you struggle. Don’t quit! Don’t give up! You got this.

[@MikeBeauchamp]

And if you feel so inclined, turn on the subscribe feature or the $$ Thanks feature here on YT.. while most of us may not be able to physically make it up there, there’s strength in our numbers and if we can contribute small amounts towards rising costs, pay to get some extra labor, anything helps and I bet a lot more than just me would be happy and willing to chip in!!

[@johanwildros3264]

You are an inspiration to me sharing your whole self! My own experience is that the more I share of myself the more fulfilling life gets. I would love to just share your journey wherever it takes you. Stay true and authentic!

[@psguardian]

You're right, the world is shifting. Doesn't matter what spiritual/religious background anyone follows, it's plain to see if you just look at the world. Your content has shifted from fine wood working to more of a homesteading vibe. Those that still resonate with it will stay, those who don't won't. That's fine, others will come along. Jesse my man, homesteading isn't easy. Your content has shown me that it's as difficult, or more so, as I have imagined. Leaving society & becoming mountain folk is the current life goal for many people. You're MILES closer to the realization of that dream than most of those who share it. Even in frontier days when possible large construction projects, like barn raising, would include many able bodied people from within a days ride. The community would build each other up, because they knew that when it came to be there time of need the others would come to return the favor. Can it be done alone? Sure, albeit slowly. Getting an assist, or multiple assists, is completely reasonable. I hope that you are able to get that assist. Not that it particularly matters but, I'll still be watching.

[@troelsovergaard4115]

Well done Jesse ❤️ Yesterday I watched a video about an Amish community who built a huge barn in weeks, after the old building burnt down. Raising and cladding done in two days by up to 800 people. Reaching out for help used to be normal!! I'll come over from Europe next spring or summer. I'm a trained cabinetmaker btw. Let us know how It's gonna work, and I'm sure a lot of skilled guys will work with you for weeks or months to help you acomplish your dream for you and your family!! All the best from Denmark 🌞

[@travismillhouse8936]

Your spirit warrior is strong! Keep doing you 👍🍺🇨🇦🥓

[@frankmousley1085]

Your work is some of the best I have have ever seen mate. A lot of respect to you opening up about the struggles you face taking on a project that seems unending. You will get there and the feeling will be worth so more from the trouble it took to get there. I hope some locals give you a bit of a helping hand to give you a bit of a community boost and keep the videos coming. Always an interesting watch 👍

[@NeonEleven]

Nobody wants to see woodworking skills . They wanna see a man on a journey. The fact you can put a video together is a skill in itself. Just sharing your journey helps people have hope.

[@MRBINKY85]

I want to see woodworking skills...

[@NeonEleven]

@@MRBINKY85 😁

[@johnerickennedy]

I followed you for many years. Thanks for your honesty, your transparency. This is your Chanel and it will grow and change like you do….. I’m from Mirabel, North shore of Montreal. I’m 52 , With wife and a 6 years old boys. I’m at the same place that you seem to be. Big plans , less energy…Spirituality, faith, respect, family, share……. Continue with this authenticity….. Be blessed 🌺🌼🌺🌸🌺🌼👋🏼

[@ChaplainCross]

Brother...don't look in, look up. A new foundation can be found in Jesus Christ. God Bless.

[@TheSamuraiCarpenter]

The scripture says the hope of glory is Christ….where?

[@ChaplainCross]

@@TheSamuraiCarpenter The answer deserves more than can be captured in this space, but amounts to repent and believe... I'm willing to engage with you to whatever level you are comfortable... Perhaps by another method

[@ChaplainCross]

@@TheSamuraiCarpenter Colossians 1:27 ESV reads, “To them God chose to make known how great among the Gentiles are the riches of the glory of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope”.

[@GOIN2LIVE]

Samurai - the change in content is even better than ever! Appreciate you! Look forward to more videos :)

[@clwnthr]

Drop the salt for some weeks or a month, Jesse. Drop the cooked food. It dries us out. Eat as much fruit as you can meanwhile, and add in avocados whenever you need more, especially in the evenings. You'll feel nothing short of amazing within about a months time only, I'll guarantee you. Stay safe and healthy, mate. Cheers 🙂

[@stevejansen7953]

Brother, brother, brother keep your chin up. I think we all know what it's like to have waaayy too much on our plate. But not enough of us know how to ask for the help that we need. You inspire so many people with not only your woodworking but with your woke way of life & attitude. We should all take a leaf out of your book & get back to nature & to the real world & unplug. Good on you for asking for help & asking others for their opinions & possibly help carry some of the load. I fully believe in you man, as I'm sure almost all your fans do. I'm sure you will be overwhelmed with other like minded people willing to help you in your quest. I'm with you in spirit as I'm in Australia. I love your channel.

[@doyalkrishna5656]

Thank you so much for this well needed message. It helped me out more than you could imagine. I’ll be following you closer and diving deeper into your content. Thank you for the service you give. Wished I knew what to offer. Feel it beamin’ from my soul to yours 🙏🏻

[@ServiceTrek]

you're introspection and instincts are legitimate. everyone has to go through their transitions on their journey in their own time. you are ready for the next path of the journey. good luck. you are a solid man ... follow your heart and mind.

[@Thehandysamaritan129]

OMG!!!! JESSE!!! We seemed to be on a similar spiritual path… the shift you mentioned feels so deeply familiar to me, its been something i have been trying to make sense of for the past few years, I as well am going through the process of realizing that we are more than we have been taught! Seeing the world from a different perspective and realizing that a lot of society is unconsciously segregating themselves which keeps humanity from realizing that we are all one and the same, energy beings having an energetic experience! I’m learning that LOVE, Truth and i would add “Be the best person you can be” would connect so many people as they become aware of what really is important in this life. As for feeling overwhelmed, I’ll ask you the same question i ask myself when I’m feeling that way, “Is it all the things you feel you have to do in this materialistic world that has you feeling that way, or is it because you are realizing who you really are and you’re processing that?” Through my journey i hear time and time again, are you a human being or a human doing? Man!…i’m believing that its more about living in the moment and appreciating the opportunity to witness the present moment. Hope this didn’t sound like a preaching, everything you said resonated with me and i feel it! I would definitely enjoy the opportunity to be a part of the experience you have created! I’m grateful for what you and your family have shared with all of us over the years! Let me know if you wanna PM on this possibility and how we can connect to chat more about it. Love out to you all!!!

[@miquerto]

You said it right with the kindred spirit. I'll follow and watch if you want to keep sharing whatever you do. You and the family are the content, not what you make. The passion is what draws us, and that can take many paths.