I’m Having a Baby and I Have No Money!

[@asiaanderson5556]

Dave knew damn well she wasn't married 😂🤣🤣🤣

[@cherylbroadenax1006]

He is showing the viewer what not to do. Man folks are so quit to judge people at the top.

[@treasurethetime2463]

He went straight in.😂😂😂

[@galford76]

He was definitely setting up the classic Ramsey “Oh …” 😆

[@Jigbunu]

He damn well did. Just wanted to rub it in and make a point

[@calebmallen]

Well, it's the elephant in the room that needed to be addressed 🤨

[@ehderguyyashootadeerorno2313]

Women, this is a prime example to make sure you lay down with a respectable man. I've seen it happen too often to good women. You don't need a "bad boy" or you do not need to fix him. Pick a hard working responsible person who will help you raise your child together.

[@ryanj357]

They'll never learn lol

[@Alex-mj5dv]

That’s not exciting though. But.. they make their bed, so to speak.

[@Dan16673]

This is a good woman?

[@ehderguyyashootadeerorno2313]

@@Dan16673 I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Who knows maybe she is part of the issue.

[@Chet_24]

Chad is undefeated

[@lilylife4426]

Dave is so kind to this woman. If someone makes a baby outside of marriage with an unreliable "partner" who is excited for the baby but doesn't want to contribute a penny financially should let you know you just helped a loser carry his DNA into the next generation and he knows it and that's why he is excited. It's sad to see women procreate like that.

[@dorino9057]

first of all, you call women golddiggers then you say we actually don’t want money make your mind up which one is it?

[@lorirogers9304]

Baby isn’t even born yet!

[@cur244]

Maybe she doesn't believe the government should be involved in her personal life and isn't interested in marriage. The righteousness is dripping. I love how people say they don't believe the government will help them but then are big on marriage.

[@curiouscat3384]

@@cur244 Righteousness? I think she's just passive. She hasn't been able to build a career OR find a decent guy. She can't explain how she's having this "rough patch" so she's obviously not living according to a detailed written budget

[@kasession]

I disagree slightly with the order. For me, rent comes first. Yes, food is important, but I've always said I can find food. Utilities comes in maybe second or third.

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

When budgets are tight, food banks are a great option especially if she goes to more than one. The basics of the four priorities was that wifi was not on it. She can go to a local coffee shop or library for wifi. Some communities, like mine, have a citywide online provider.

[@anndennis7163]

She also better make sure 'her' money isn't supporting the boyfriend. He needs to get out and contribute to the household. I suspect that is where that last bit of money is going and that is why she was a little deflective.

[@tonytoni1150]

Rent, insurance(car and renters), utilities, Food, Gas 🚙

[@nmc1859]

Agree

[@isabelbecerra9258]

My uncle always told us” pay your rent or mortgage first! You go hungry if you have to but rent and bills are priority!”

[@treasurethetime2463]

Where's your husband? 😂. Dave goes straight in.

[@cutehumor]

Savage Dave!!

[@10RRASK]

He knew the answer before he asked it 😂

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

I think most of us knew before Dave asked. 😕

[@formula112967]

But he STILL blamed the guy.....he always blames the guy.

[@SpoonHurler]

​@@formula112967well, we aren't allowed to hold women to a higher standard

[@scottsanders2474]

She claims the "Daddy" is "excited" about the baby but is not contributing financially in any way. I don't think the word "excited" means what Kathy thinks it means. She should have danced all night.

[@ghisellesimon162]

I thought about this comment been in her shoes more than I can admit and excitement doesn’t equal not paying excitement means I’m stepping up to plate and providing and were gonna do this together. Respectfully.

[@virginialangford6257]

The to be father is not obligated to support her or the baby until there is a viable birth

[@sjaykay9884]

Sometimes you’re in a situation with a person and they change or reveal themselves after time. You can’t account for that. But knowingly laying up with a lazy person and getting pregnant by them isn’t someone else’s fault. It’s yours, and now that baby will suffer. Baby can’t live off the father’s “excitement”.

[@LatterDaySteph_]

Many people are great at being great in the beginning and if you’re lucky enough, it has a shelf life for 3weeks-6 months. There are a lot of nice guy abusers and men who treat their woman worse during pregnancy and after.

[@glidkomer]

Ladies make sure you can FULLY afford the responsibility of a child on your OWN before getting pregnant.

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

What the fuuuukkk is that advice???!! What in the WORLD!!?? Orrr.... maybe just maybe .... DON'T have a child altogether without a solid partner, that has PROVEN to you that he can support you, financially, mentally, emotionally and physically?? Maybe NOT have a child out of, I donno, wedlock?? You are literally shooting yourself in the foot so hard rn it's is beyond fking dumb!! I'm laughing! In no way should you prescribe to anyone to be a single parent alone!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️☠☠☠

[@marysaltlife1427]

I'm a woman and agree--from abstinence to the pill, there are birth control methods. Women have to protect their bodies and futures appropriately.

[@michaelsorensen7567]

Better to refuse the deed with any many who's not committed

[@michaelplunkett8059]

Don't have a child with someone you have no committment with.

[@rltreasure]

How about doing all this before getting laid!

[@chesspwn7457]

It's situations like this that I'm reminded of the 3 guides to guarantee avoid poverty. Graduate high school, have a job, don't have kids out of marriage. Like you're willing to make a baby with a guy, but aren't willing to commit to him or share finances. It's one of the fastest ways to mess up your life and yet so common.

[@teeeteee000]

Don't play in the sack with a man child who doesn't want you. Women with low self esteem and self-worth end up single on public assistance, raising juvenile delinquents.

[@jameshudkins2210]

Women have many ways to avoid being a single Mother. A child of Divorced or Never Married Parents has a much worse outcome at all income levels.

[@proverbs31woman31]

@@jameshudkins2210I’m a child of divorced parents, hear I sit happily married to my husband of 15 years all 4 of our children we had together. We have a loving home. I thank God everyday!!

[@joesmith3590]

Get and stay married is the biggest one.

[@rustyshackleford6637]

I have a huge Wang

[@blackspiderman1887]

It never cease to amaze me how people who are struggling with money decides to have a kid

[@nancysmith2874]

Probably not planned baby

[@thorneto2742]

@@nancysmith2874 All babies are planned. They don't just spawn out of nowhere.

[@corvairlover]

Are you saying she should have killed her child? If you think of it that way, that's how she decided to keep her child. Now if you are asking why she had relations, then that is a great question. Adults should think more about the people they are with and their current situation before sharing a bed.

[@drn13355]

That makes no sense. None. Are you saying every person that has sex is planning to have a baby? Ha. @@thorneto2742

[@floresnashvilledrummer]

She didn't decide to. Just being irresponsible. And of course, she chose to do it with a lazy SOB.

[@sasukesuite1]

I’ll never understand why women intentionally pick the worst men to have children with.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

Easy, the "Bad" boys make them tingle., Poindexter does not, until they are post wall.

[@GoJojo-lv6zi]

I'll never understand why men have unprotected sex with women knowing they are incapable of supporting a family and will be the worst possible parent to that child -- an absent one. He should've been more responsible, chosen better, and made sure he knew the woman (and her beliefs around religion/children/abortion, etc.) before c*mming inside of her. I will never understand why men do this.

[@slonikvasa]

Cause they are so charming and unpredictable and promise you the Moon

[@The-Dirty-Straw]

​@@slonikvasaNot even. Many don't even try. I get this cliche, but it's not a reality. Many are deader than a rock.

[@rollingdudes8859]

They LOVE BAD BOYS and LOSERS and HATE GOOD GUYS and WINNERS!!!

[@carpenterkyle69]

Guy has no job , no house , no future , and girls out there be like , put a baby in me …😢

[@hornetguy9063]

“I make $40/hour as a plumber” “EWW CREEP” “I sell weed and occasionally DJ at parties” “OMG PLEASE MAKE CHILDREN WITH ME”

[@alinatamashevich3354]

YES, typical

[@derekstamper362]

@@hornetguy9063that’s racist to say that lol 😂

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

🤣🤣🤣😩😩😭😭 jesus!!! Hahaha I don't know Wether to laugh or cry!! But you got me @carpenter

[@karlabritfeld7104]

And you never made a mistake, right?

[@djpuplex]

She followed all of Dave's rules. No no you haven't.

[@DudeMuscle]

Someone needs to box her ears

[@drewo6388]

Yeah she followed pretty much none of them. She's having a baby before being married, is clearly not on the same page as her baby's father in terms of finances, certainly doesn't have an emergency fund established, has a car loan, and thinks her next logical step is to get a credit card to pay these expenses.

[@cesaravegah3787]

Yup, I think that having a kid on such conditions fall under the "no play house" category.

[@woodside4life]

She forgot to add “sike!”

[@Bethelgal42]

Exactly! Dave would say to stop playing house. Time for this guy to grow up and care of his future wife and baby.

[@YouSoCute2000]

She is 27! Acting like she is 16! She had all those years child free to build an actual profitable career...she has no one to blame but herself

[@Riggy931]

God, people like you are insufferable. You know nothing about her life thus far other than what was shared. And there’s millions of young people getting paid shit because of people like Dave and his buddies that think paying certain people a livable wage is unreasonable. Who exactly is she trying to blame other than herself? She made this call to attempt to improve her situation.Your need to judge and condemn less fortunate people you don’t know ought to be explored with a psychologist not in KZbin comments.

[@michaelplunkett8059]

She needed 9 years of college to cut hair? 30 hours a week and she makes $300 a week cutting hair? That's $10 an hour. The math is wrong. Go to Burger King and get a raise.

[@carolr7823]

@@michaelplunkett8059 I doubt that she's only making that much. Hairdressers get tips. I doubt that she is reporting that income.

[@antoinettepeeps1]

I never understood why Dave suggest not paying rent first. Housing is the hardest thing to secure again once it’s lost. There are lots of organizations to help her with food and gas/electric support. She may need to tap into her resources if she’s really drowning like this with no helpful partner in sight.

[@SweetEssie]

It depends on the state, but in states like California, the eviction process can take several months due to the number of cases and the number of houseless people that they don't want to add to. Since evictions can take a long time, it's best not to prioritize it above food. Also, if you're looking at Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, shelter (safety) falls after physiological needs like food, water, and warmth.

[@antoinettepeeps1]

@@SweetEssie If you are lucky, the process may take months, but an eviction stays on your record for a minimum of seven years. Even without an eviction, housing is hard to secure at the income mentioned. The courts don't care about the number of unhoused and are not taking that into consideration when choosing to enforce eviction. It would be nice if they did, but its just not a consideration. Additionally, In the Heirachy of needs, shelter is added into the base level of physiological.

[@strat1080]

Well. He has food first which is obvious. You will literally die if you don’t eat. You can’t live without utilities and thru can be shut off quickly. It takes a long time to get evicted and actually lose your housing. You clearly didn’t think things through the way Dave did

[@janetslater129]

The problem is that those resources may not be able to provide, due to so many people needing help. The baby's father needs to step up his game and start forking over some $$$.

[@GordonSanders-f6i]

Put him on child support my ex wife did it to me

[@MagicianNoriginal]

Wow! I just watched this in November 2023 and am overcome with Dave Ramsey's and his team's empathy and kindness to help a pregnant woman in this situation

[@karlabritfeld7104]

He's a kind man unlike many of his listeners.

[@Bob-yh7ir]

We live in a day and age where men and women have easy options for birth control and this still happens on a massive scale. Just complete ignorance and lack of concern. What is this dynamic with women choosing the bad boys? The man child instead of seeking a quality partner? I just don't understand that self destructive behavior.

[@johnlanier3616]

None of us can understand women's obsession with irresponsible men.

[@kbanghart]

I mean, lots of conservatives out there speaking out against birth control, so .....

[@bonitacaldwell1679]

So, our mothers taught us, "If you do not control your fertility, you can not control your life." Birth control is part of your life. Getting pregnant was not a concern for her.

[@littlesongbird1]

not in ohio

[@kbanghart]

@@bonitacaldwell1679 nah, conservative parents don't teach that

[@luminous6969]

So you chose to procreate with an irresponsible guy and now you're shocked that he's being irresponsible? 😂

[@cbyt8759]

I don’t even think she’s shocked, which is kind of worse

[@djpuplex]

Birds of a feather. I'd say she pretty irresponsible herself.

[@Arizona_lilly]

💯 these guys been showing signs like this and girls sleep with them. He got no money some guys don’t work what can you get from him ? When he has nothing .

[@asiaanderson5556]

She herself is also irresponsible.....and broke

[@mikenelson8377]

A lot of women are attracted to irresponsibility ‘cause of prior trauma 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

Mom made a baby with a lazy man who did not marry her first, and lazy man is not paying. She needs to file now for child support so it is in process when the baby is born. Wait... I wonder if she is supporting the lazy man? That could be where any budget excess is going? Being evicted on a 15-day notice is tough. Depending on state laws, they may be able to get her out in 30 days since she technically does not have a dependent child. What a mess. 😕

[@robloxvids2233]

Bet he had a really cool motorcycle though!

[@dorino9057]

first of all, you call women golddiggers then you say we actually don’t want money make your mind up which one is it?

[@FreeAgent797]

And the crazy part about situations like this is that they choose to ignore a ton of red flags that showed that he wasn't fit to be a decent parent and they STILL think it's a good idea to procreate with guys like these. Unbelievable...smh

[@megalodon1726]

She slept with a financially unfit guy because she's financially unfit herself. People attract who they are.

[@dorino9057]

first of all, you call women golddiggers then you say we actually don’t want money make your mind up which one is it?

[@thegenxgamerr]

Young men, always make sure you have protection. If you’re with a woman and she says she’s pregnant and has your child always ask for a paternity test. If it’s your child, you need to step up and do the right thing and help take care of the child. you don’t want to be in the situation? There’s only one way to prevent it.

[@Jack-pd4ps]

A don’t get the cheap protection

[@curiouscat3384]

Don't trust the woman to be responsible with birth control. I had a married friend who was happy with 3 kids. His wife deceived him two more times and the poor guy is supporting a family of 7 now, even though he told her no.

[@Mountainhippiedude]

And be aware that even if paternity test proves you’re not the father, the court can still mandate you pay child support.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

Maybe he isn't making good money himself.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

@@Mountainhippiedude No they can't.

[@MrTmenzo]

Did she falsify paystubs to qualify for a 1500 apartment only earning 2500?

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

The living situation with baby daddy was not questioned. They may have qualified together or the landlord was desperate. Also, she was in beauty school, she may have had another job prior.

[@westbccoast]

I like how Dave was trying to blame the landlord for her mistakes. 15 days she is lucky, notice is normally served after 10 days, you need to pay your rent or you out. Yeah definitely likely lied on her application.

[@chuckgoodman3828]

@@westbccoastThat’s because in Dave’s world, women aren’t responsible for their bad choices, it’s always someone else’s fault!

[@westbccoast]

@@chuckgoodman3828 Amen brother. He always takes the side of the caller. Rent is #1 and should be paid first. 10-15 days is pretty standard. I wonder how Dave would react if his tenants didn't pay their rent on time.

[@susanedghill609]

@@westbccoast I agree rent should be higher on the list.....food and utilities can somehow be navigated better...but rent .... you lose your shelter you can't accommodate food/utilities anyway......

[@k.s.k.7721]

One subject that wasn't raised was to find an adoption agency and parents waiting for this woman's child. I cannot imagine how hard that could be, but for her baby it may be the most loving option.

[@hanney3194]

So much judgment. She admits she is in a predicament. Now she is asking for advice on how to get out of it. Congratulations on the baby! You are going to prove to everyone how strong of a woman you are!

[@richardjohnson1261]

I agree. The woman needs help, not criticism. We're past that point. Thanks for saying it. My words would have been less family friendly. Cheers

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

I judge people and expect the same in return. Congratulations it’s not mine. Avoiding single mothers since high school so nothing to prove to me.

[@MichaelCorleone562]

She's quite the catch for potential suitors

[@dorino9057]

Exactly. first of all, misogynists call women golddiggers then you say we actually don’t want money make your mind up which one is it?

[@Dogbehu]

Why is rent #3 and utilities #2? If I'm about to get evicted, what do I care if the lights are gonna be on?

[@ElePranaityte]

You need light, water and heating until you are evicted, right?

[@AlyssaTaylor9]

My husband is in military med school and just his psychiatric rotation. One lady came in after having a nervous breakdown. She had two very small children, both under 3, and was working 2 part time jobs on top of her full-time job in the Army to support them and it was basically breaking her mind. The baby daddy, also a service member, provided nothing for the children and apparently the reason she wouldn't get him to is because she felt guilty asking. While I truly hope she has healing and gets those babies the monetary support they need from their father, I cannot imagine reproducing not once, but TWICE with a man-child who will not support his own children despite a full-time income. I think my husband would die before he voluntarily stopped providing for us.

[@genxx2724]

I can’t believe our military is tolerating all this foolishness.

[@howlbeast]

Woman are naive and foolish at times.. they don’t learn the first time neither the second time

[@carolr7823]

It is really easy to have his wages garnished by the military. All she needs is to put the paperwork in for that.

[@carolr7823]

@@genxx2724 They aren't. She didn't apply to have his wages garnished.

[@genxx2724]

@@carolr7823 The biggest piece of foolishness to which I referred was her having two part-time jobs in addition to supposedly keeping our country safe by being paid to serve in the military. That should not be permitted. I also do not think that anyone who has two small children can serve effectively when the other parent is also in the military. This should not be permitted in my opinion.

[@robertogonzalez819]

I just don't get why some women see a super lazy guy and go, 'Yep, he's the one! Maybe he'll change when we have a kid.' ..................I mean, seriously?

[@curiouscat3384]

Alcohol and libido does it every time

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

Some women and men are attracted to, and/or attract, "strays." Strays are always "funny" or "nice" or "just need a little help out" of whatever crappy situation their poor choices have gotten them in. Some people honestly go through rough times and it is temporary; they are doing what needs to be done to get out of it. Strays seem to be in a constant state of mess: sporadic work, money issues, health issues, transportation issues, no place to live. Encouraging or praying for a stray costs nothing, handing them money is like flinging it into a fireplace. 🙄

[@michaelwoods4495]

This illustrates the value of keeping our pants on.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

Getting with the right men, not Chad/Tyrone

[@harrisonwintergreen1147]

It's strangely impressive how she made so many bad decisions all at once

[@tonytoni1150]

Just like a child

[@KingCobra023]

She just graduated to being a hairstylist…at 27

[@Jigbunu]

Didn’t realise it needed a degree!

[@wufflerdance9481]

​@@Jigbunulot of states it does to legally work for money....sadly:(

[@pep590]

People of all ages become a hairstylist. It's an occupation that all ages join. C'mon KingCrack

[@MichaelCorleone562]

Parents must be proud 😂

[@rollingdudes8859]

Parents EFFED UP big time!!!@@MichaelCorleone562

[@BrianaBudgets]

Why would lights and water come before rent? If you get evicted you won’t need lights or water.

[@terriparker6199]

Don’t worry tax payers will pay for it all……this is what’s wrong with society…….

[@robertperry814]

If only medical science could discover what causes pregnancy and how to avoid it...

[@nmc1859]

If only ...

[@Lost-f3s]

hahahaha

[@pep590]

I heard it's in the water.

[@biboebbs624]

abortion

[@johnparker4484]

Oh shut up. Children are wonderful. She and the dude just need to mature and build a life together.

[@ebonneenelson2325]

I will never understand why women give babies to men who do not have their lives together. Ladies please stop ignoring your “intuition” about a man. And this message comes from a child who’s father is a loser and my mother knew that when she got with him. She’s not embarrassed about it to this day but I am!

[@curiouscat3384]

Well good for you, seeing the situation for what it is. I wish you great success and satisfaction in your future :)

[@kbanghart]

Who is giving a baby to a guy?

[@TheSonyExperience]

Im not sure why they call it “intuition”. It’s just common sense. If the man ain’t shit, you should be able to infer that he will be an ain’t shit father. It’s not a special female power to use common sense.

[@kbanghart]

@@TheSonyExperience exactly. And why do some people assume men shouldn't have the same intuition?

[@TheSonyExperience]

@@kbanghart idk why woman have to attach super power status to normal human attributes lol

[@CM-jb7fs]

How are George and Dave not getting this? $2,500 a month pre tax would probably leave you with just enough to pay for a $1,500 rent payment and maybe some food. This is impossible to live off of with her rent that high

[@dixonrae]

i am always baffled by the way neither dave nor his team differentiate between gross vs net. maybe they live in state w/no income tax? 🤔

[@jameswright4420]

@@dixonraeeven if they do (which I do) the federal income tax takes plenty of disposable income off the table. And yes, Dave and his boys seem oblivious to that a lot of times.

[@WendyW7508]

I have noticed they typically ask how much are you bringing in? If they give gross amt they aren't listening

[@sleepyjoe1685]

It doesn't matter if she takes Tyrone to court. He will never have a job to pay her any money.

[@lisacraft9929]

Tyrone! I see what you're saying! good one!

[@paulstandaert5709]

2500/mo X 12 months divided by 2080 hours is $14.42/hr. Is it net? Is it gross? A person could probably do better stocking shelves at Walmart.

[@AliciaMcIntire]

Give up the baby. There is a family out there that would love and care for them, and you aren't in a position to give this child a good life. Sometimes, the best way to love a child is to recognize when to let them go

[@carolr7823]

ICAM. A loving married family would be the best thing for this child.

[@christiney.2615]

I understand girly. I pray you will get out of this and have supplies for the baby❤

[@TheSilvertrigger]

thats how chad and tyrone roll!! 🤣

[@shenekkarogers2854]

I agree with the Chad. 😂😂😂

[@poemsthatdontsuck5410]

Sounds more like T-rash tbh

[@Jigbunu]

Amen to AMs

[@felipeoliveira2219]

This video is the perfect example of how nuclear family is falling apart in this country....

[@tonytoni1150]

Exactly, women for the most part, don’t know how to pick a decent man. I see this everyday. Their problem now.

[@sherryberry65]

No. You pay your rent first or you’re on the street and everything is worse.

[@annt2685]

Maybe she’s giving money to “Bubbba”??😂😂

[@Arizona_lilly]

Yep that’s what happens

[@curiouscat3384]

For sure, food and gas and cigarette money.......

[@kayn2756]

If that's the case, then she deserves to be evicted. Maybe she can learn something. 😂😂😂😂

[@catherinep2034]

Maybe that's why he's excited about the baby? She might get government payments that he can use himself?

[@alinatamashevich3354]

@@curiouscat3384 Or other "tobacco" products and ThunderBird

[@divinemessenger2030]

I’ll never understand why people don’t use protection especially when they’re not in a good financial situation. As soon as a I realized how expensive raising a child was and struggled with deciding if I even want children, I made sure I got on BC and always made my partner use protection. I’m 25 and still have no desire for children. I grew up watching my mother struggle and it’s not fun. No child should have to suffer due to their parent’s lack of planning. I see so many friends and people I went to highschool with popping out kids left and right and still living in their parents basement complaining that they can’t get ahead yet they have no college education, no career, or decent paying job. Most of them don’t even know how to budget. It’s really sad. You really gotta be careful who you procreate with and WHEN you procreate. If you can’t afford it, you better wrap it up! PERIOD.

[@carlaritchie331]

🎯

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

I have always avoided marriage,single mothers and the drama/baggage that comes with it since highschool. My girlfriend and I don’t want kids or marriage and we been together since meeting on Air France flight in 2001. She is debt free with wealth,homes,assets,etc. like myself long before we met but she’s in Italy. We also don’t need each other financially. Both retired in our 40s. Just share life,world travel,interests,activities,hobbies,etc..

[@carlaritchie331]

@@blackworldtraveler3711 hope you had a vasectomy to take the responsibility seriously of your convictions. Freedom is a good thing, unwanted surprises with responsibilities that last a lifetime may not be for you.

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

I couldn't have said it better myself darling!!! Well done!! A 100000% agree!! And me being 35, I STILL don't want to have children now, am going to be living with my boyfriend in the states now, and we are both on the same page about kids!! You have to 1) be absolutely sure that you are a good person and dealt with majority of your past traumas and fk ups, and 2) be financially stable and then some!! It's literally a fking suicide mission to be procreating with some fking loser bum good for nothing when he can't support for sh*t this poor woman!! I'm kinda mad at her too tho!! She also LET this happen!! If I made the mistake of even falling for bum and getting pregnant I would terminate it immediately!! In no way she should have let this happen!! Sue his arse so hard!! He's a loser and she's d*^mb as fk!

[@TimeisUp22]

She needs to look into getting an RV and CNA license. She can get it in 4 weeks for 25 an hour and its free

[@jaqueitch]

The lady gets knocked up out of wedlock. Well, that might just be the problem....

[@milakuzmanic3313]

YEEEEEEEES !!!

[@RepentImmediately]

It's also usually a problem within wedlock.

[@marknewton6984]

No excuse today.

[@njfuentesrespecter81]

Years ago when people were shamed for premarital sex and babies out of wedlock, we didn’t have this problem

[@wholesome122]

We still had it just not as widespread

[@ruthirwin8222]

My mother would have disowned me if that happened to me and i knew that

[@Eric_Bassett]

People also got married ALOT younger back then. You can’t expect single working adults in their mid 20s and beyond to stay celibate waiting for marriage in this day and age. The dating market today is absolute garbage.

[@cristianomarinelli3252]

Yet somehow teen pregnancy rates have been declining since at least the 90s 🤔

[@rollingdudes8859]

We need the GREATEST GENERATION now more than ever!!! They were the last generation to have their SHIT TOGETHER!!!

[@SS-fs3wo]

A lot of apartments file after first missed payment because they don’t want the delay when renters don’t pay.

[@namelesswalaby]

you can tell that Dave hasn't rented in a long time because 15 days late is pretty much standard, at least in every rental I've ever had in Indiana.

[@miaq392]

Let me tell you DO NOT have a child unless you are in a stabled relationship/marriage and financially stabled. I was married and financially stabled but I married the worst person a person could marry and procreate with. This person almost had me lose everything I worked very hard for. I tried to get him to do good in life as he didn’t have much when meeting him when I was in the service. Sadly, he did not want to, which led to abuse and drugs. I had to take the necessary measures to protect me and my son and he still hasn’t changed. I take a lot of blame but ladies and gentlemen don’t do it.

[@brianmeegan6384]

You realize that would reduce pregnancy by 50 % ?😂😂😂

[@DoriZuza]

@@brianmeegan6384That sounds like a good thing

[@CENA896]

Once that baby is here I would use the hair style as a side hustle and try to find a job on the books with benefits and definitely dad needs to start paying up wish her the best luck

[@brooklynzoo81]

Excited but not contributing financially, how nice. 🤦‍♂️ what a great guy.

[@dyates6380]

Yep. In my neighborhood in a suburb of Cleveland there are ten of these women on every block. 2023 and we're still seeing this. Almost six decades in. She graduated in June and is a hair stylist and is pregnant with some loser who hit it and split ........... Sounds about right. Life choices, both good and bad, have consequences, and she's MORE than old enough to know better. I hope it works out for her, but you know, big daddy government will, as usual, fill the "void" ...... NOT good for any of us, especially the kid and as I said, almost SIX decades in ......... same old thing, but she sounds like she's got a good attitude regardless. I hope things work out for her.

[@ricana1160]

What the decades have to do with this?

[@hornetguy9063]

And do you think mom will teach that child to “not do what she did”, or will she normalize growing up in a broken environment? I think we know the answer to that

[@workinonit9562]

@@hornetguy9063 Mom will probably say ; I don't want an only child so she will do it again :=(

[@hornetguy9063]

@@workinonit9562 wouldn’t be shocked if it happens again when she’s, like, 40. It’s not uncommon in poor communities for women to have crazy age gaps between their kids, because it gets them a whole new round of sweet bennies from the government

[@elcheekoful]

Is that Cleveland,TN?

[@fauxbro1983]

Baby daddy dont know if hes the dad lol. Dont sign nothing without a paternity test

[@st101005]

Right on brother!

[@hornetguy9063]

Yeah I mean I seriously doubt he’s the first man to have rode this horse without a saddle. Who cares if she’s mad, she obviously isn’t even special enough to stick around with until the kid is born.

[@pep590]

I hear dat! She may be playin.

[@saelaird]

A career boss babe with baby rabies at 27.... One night stand with Chad and ... I think we know how this ends. She didn't pay anything except the WiFi for Tinder.

[@katydid917]

Most women have to have careers because men can’t support a woman and children these days. Maybe men should make better money and then there wouldn’t be so many women getting careers lol.

[@AimeePoppinBabies]

Ive seen several of my highschool friends end up in this situation and it never turned out well for them. Lucky ones are living with mum and dad still. Yikes. Hopefilly she can be the exception.

[@Ja50nkAt]

Followed all the rules except the one where you have a baby out of wedlock. Sleeping with a "lazy" guy and having his baby is on you sister. How about don't have 5ex with deadbeats.

[@dorino9057]

first of all, you call women golddiggers then you say we actually don’t want money make your mind up which one is it?

[@donaldlyons17]

@@dorino9057 Some people want everything!!!

[@jessicanoble1834]

My heart swelled when I heard Dave say, “I’ve been 27 and scared. I know how that feels.” 😭❤

[@memphistiger4647]

🎶Papa was a rolling stone .Wherever he lay his hat was his home!!🎶

[@Jigbunu]

Will be her home too soon by the sounds of it

[@GixxerRider1991]

@Memphistiger The Temptations have a song for almost any situation in life. Great track.

[@marknewton6984]

" They do run run run..."😅

[@jaqueitch]

The first thing she needs is self-control...

[@curiouscat3384]

Did you mean "birth-control" ?

[@curiouscat3384]

of course @@solarexcrement-he6qb

[@jimeagle5509]

Rules for life: - do nothing this lady is doing Thanks ~Jim Eagle

[@tonytoni1150]

Thanks Jim!

[@GratefulDeb270]

Bless you, Dave!

[@rbraxton00]

Wow, it’s a lot going on here. Can you move with family. The father of the baby shouldn’t want to see you on the street. You need a job, commission is not going to work. She doesn’t sound concerned at all! Yes, Uber and Uber eats. She must have other options, because I’d be crying if I was on the edge of being evicted.

[@JesseGraham-l9s]

Women love broke men because they have the most time to give them attention LOL

[@profit822]

They like projects they can fix him 😂

[@hornetguy9063]

@@profit822and then when they fix him, he gives them the ick and they end up cheating on him with a guy who resembled the man that they used to be

[@alinatamashevich3354]

And those in prison/jail. Go by one on visiting day, see for yourself

[@marknewton6984]

​@@alinatamashevich3354Gross

[@richardjohnson1261]

I feel for the young lady. She is in a tough spot. And dad, I use the term loosely, needs to step up. Finally, Dave, your being very generous... respect. As far as the rent, I learned recently, the hard way, in the state where I live eviction proceedings must start almost immediately after the renter becomes delinquent. The property owner cannot hold a delinquent renter responsible for rent owed beyond the current month. It's called being "Renter Friendly". It can make it tough for people in a tight spot. Good luck to her.

[@KathleenMcNe]

I must have missed the Ramsey baby step recommending that a single woman with significant debt and inadequate income get pregnant by a man with no money.

[@jeremyduncan5166]

The side hustle thing isn’t working out very well for me either anymore, I think it’s my new location and also the apps aren’t giving as many bonuses these days. I feel for you! Wish you the best! Congratulations on the baby, babies are blessings in every circumstance, all the hard work will be worth it ❤

[@michelejohnson6459]

This is not true.

[@jeremyduncan5166]

@@michelejohnson6459 What is not true?

[@JB-fq9dp]

It sounds like our tax dollars will be supporting her and baby for the next 20yrs+.

[@Jack-pd4ps]

Yup.

[@tmi4507]

Not if there was an abortion

[@kay22100]

@@tmi4507I’d rather my tax dollars go to helping her raise her child. What’s up with you baby killing people?

[@lisaowen7617]

​@@tmi4507Glad she didn't choose that option.

[@TimeisUp22]

People on welfare work and pay taxes as well. And lets not ignore the fact that the child’s father isn’t working. Had he supported his family she wouldn’t need to go on welfare. Be mad at him too.

[@joann5157]

Baby daddy is going to have to step up. If he doesn't do it voluntarily, take him to court.

[@mbank3832]

great, i am single and already have to pay for someone else' kid with my tax dollar

[@christophercarrigg3775]

Quit the side hustles. Get a waitress job five nights a week.

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

Waitressing is a lot of hustling around on the feet. Depending on how her pregnancy is going, there might be a reason she is doing the delivery jobs. On the good side, parties usually tip well when a waitress is noticeably pregnant and gives good service. 😉

[@christophercarrigg3775]

@@user-mv9tt4st9k I was a waiter for 12 years, I surely know all this. And pregnant girls kill it waiting tables. She could make some good money over the next couple months before she goes into labor. It's also a great way to build her clientele for the hairdressing

[@xjadecrimsonx8895]

I think Dave sometimes overestimates how much side hustles like Uber or Door Dash or similar things actually bring in. Also, that amount will be greatly affected by where you live. Not saying that those are bad options and I agree that those can be good options but some of his numbers that he throws out are crazy.

[@nicholasselke5214]

Side hustles like that are only good if you don’t have to rely on a single penny from that income

[@pennyhartleben6123]

My friend did 1 of those.she said the gas and maintenance was expensive

[@tashawilliams8093]

It's interesting how the guy is never held accountable when a woman gets pregnant like he had nothing to do with it.

[@CarrieV9]

When I was in high school, they brought a teenage mom into the school to talk to us. That, and the emergence of AIDS pretty much made sure I wasn’t going to make dumb decisions.

[@shawnanderson7858]

sending my daughters this video...

[@matthewgardner2144]

Good thing she doesn't work for Ramsey Solutions -- Dave would fire her in a heartbeat!

[@scam661]

1500 a month for a single person is insane in Indianapolis. Having lived here on my own for years you can find anything from 700-1100 that is perfectly above average close to anything you need. 1 bedroom of course but the bum isn’t with her so that’s all she needs.

[@nicholasselke5214]

Exactly. My rent is under $800. I can certainly afford more on just one job (I have two jobs because I don’t want to take out a loan for flight school). But I don’t need something more expensive, so I don’t get something more expensive

[@georgewagner7787]

Wow that's great. In New York apartments start at 2k

[@scam661]

@@georgewagner7787 yeah, enjoyed my visit to NYC but couldn’t figure out why anyone but the wealthy would ever want to live there for those prices.

[@AudraZapoticky55]

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[@Annis-co7vu]

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[@Madlyn55]

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[@Annis-co7vu]

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[@Madlyn55]

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[@diceportz7107]

Babies do not have to cost an arm and a leg. Babies do not need all the bells and whistles. my kids took baths in the sink. We didn't have a playpen, bouncy chair, or disposable diapers. The crib was a family loan, as was the high chair. She is late to the party. As soon as she found out she was pregnant, that was the time to go into save mode.

[@XXnickles]

Unfortunately, they do! even with minimum expenses they are expensive. Just go and check how much giving birth costs these days. It is crazy to think how much they cost, and the little time parents actually have to raise their children...and I am not justifying the entitlement of mother parents here, I am just talking about plain basic care (food, bed, medical expensed, and education)

[@curiouscat3384]

Babies do cost an arm and a leg without insurance and I'm skeptical she has insurance. And then how is she going to juggle 3 jobs with a newborn - sure can't afford childcare. She's screwed unless she can move back home with mom & dad.

[@Jigbunu]

Disagree! Yea babies themselves are not massively expensive but it’s the cost of not being able to work/ child care that is as much as a whole income

[@dyates6380]

You must not live in the "low rent" district. NO ONE lives like that in America anymore. Benn shopping at Sam's Club lately? None of that goes on when single mothers get probably 50k in government benefits a year, PLUS rent and whatever else. You don't even see a kid in my neighborhood who doesn't have braided hair and little Timberlands that they'll grow out of in a few weeks - even as young as one year old. You must be as old as me because that's how my parents, out of necessity, HAD to live, and we took those same values. Not anymore, not since the great LBJ.

[@rebeccashields9626]

@@XXnicklesthis woman will be on Medicaid the birth will cost her exactly zero dollars.

[@GuitarGuy650]

This woman sounds like a teenager and is about to be a mother. Let that sink in for a minute... 😂

[@Sizukun1]

Why would the 'father' bother paying child support? She's about to be eligible for $80,000 in welfare nonsense from the taxpayers.

[@hornetguy9063]

Can’t wait for the call to Rachel in 25 years from this woman’s kid, asking for advice about what to do with his or her single mom that can’t afford rent and claims they’re too old to work (at 52)

[@MsValiG]

And will ve more, since the taxpayers insist on banning abortion. Low lives will have 10 kids for you to support

[@jimmymcgill6778]

Dave would file an eviction too in 15 day.

[@pep590]

Sorry you got evited. Hope you have a tent.

[@mikesmith-wk7vy]

My cousin got a degree or school to be a hair stylist , she did it for a while working for a major chain department store but now she works at a restaurant because it didn’t pay and just does hair on the side

[@shreddedWheatz]

I feel like some important details are being left out here.

[@marknewton6984]

Many

[@pennyhartleben6123]

Why doesnt rent come in before lights and water?if you are evicted you wont have any utilities

[@mybdayis420]

Hear me out: Protection

[@marknewton6984]

Hear me out: Don't Go In!

[@poemsthatdontsuck5410]

Another young woman making great choices. Say hi to T-rash for me

[@buddykerr1]

Guaranteed he's already moved on his next future baby mama

[@alinatamashevich3354]

@@buddykerr1 She was not his first!

[@johnlanier3616]

I'm surprised she's having such difficulty being that she's a strong and independent woman.

[@aimeevargas4016]

Lol

[@Dan16673]

Dat poon duh

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

OUCH.

[@workinonit9562]

I say WOMEN need to protect themselves at ALL times, you are responsible for yourselves in the birth control department, use 2 or 3 kinds of birth control if needed and boy oh boy do I get hammered with this attitude, I am a woman and I hear that it is not only the woman that needs to be responsible. I say if you don't want a baby at this time then it IS your responsibility! I feel bad for men nowadays.....

[@nicholasselke5214]

@workonit9562 or, if they’re neither trying for a baby nor are both willing and able to accept the risk of getting pregnant, it shouldn’t be about using protection, but rather keeping their legs closed. The only time I feel any sympathy for a woman getting pregnant is when the activity that led to the pregnancy was not consensual. But if she consented, I don’t feel bad for her Same goes for men that now have to step up and pay child support. Should’ve kept it in his pants

[@hadenanderson563]

Does the father have to pay child support before the child is born? I'm really asking.

[@richardw3470]

Never heard of that and she probably can't sue for aid/support from him til the baby's here. Doctors are expensive plus the vitamins, tests, etc many recommend. Then there're things at home in preparation for the new little inhabitant So this is where our tax money comes in. She can get aid ($) which the rest of us are paying for because you can't get blood out of a turnip even if a judge orders it. Bleed, Daddy. Personally, I'd give it up for adoption and if Daddy won't agree, give him custody. Ten to one, it'll actually go to his parents if they'll take it. Foolish girl. Unfortunate tax payers.

[@CouchMan88]

What’s she going to do when she gets closer to delivery and after birth? Doubt she will be able to DoorDash 8 months pregnant or with a newborn as a single mom. Also, if you take every $4 order driving 10 miles to deliver you can work all day and never make any money. She doesn’t make enough to pay rent let alone have a child. I wish her well, sounds like a bad place to be in.

[@paulatristan8189]

Sorry Dave but for me Rent comes first then utilities then food etc.

[@mikesawyer4707]

The chances are very good that when she has that face to face conversation with "bubba" He will just hit the road. I hope I am wrong but I have seen this situation play out before. God bless this young women and her baby.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

He is gone now!

[@carolr7823]

Give the baby up for adoption. Do not expect everyone else to support your kid. If you can't afford a kid, then don't have any. You can try to get child support. However, don't have kids with deadbeats.

[@Tyrantking7]

27? She's sounds like she's in her 40s.

[@tbaer4894]

Is there a pregnancy center that will offer in kind services or knows of agencies that might help. Also there may be an Embrace Grace program, an organization that works in churches to walk along side single mothers.

[@isay207]

Taxpayers will pay

[@pennyhartleben6123]

No that was the lies of the prolife.woman are on their own.abortion should be legal.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

Dave needs to learn the term "Judgement Proof". Ole' Bubba, not going to pay anything

[@bigcahuna42366]

Her rent is 60% of her income which explains why she is behind on her rent and auto loan. Extremely tough to live on $750 per month after the rent and car payment are paid

[@heman7767]

Dave is not really up on the real estate market landlords and lisas. There is not much wiggle room past 5 days anymore if you're late on rent rent. And there's a lot of good reasons for the landlord side for that. As you can figure I am a landlord.

[@Jenda-ld8dj]

You ain't a "Lord".

[@henrychinaski3720]

I believe Jesus said “the poor will always be with you.” This seems true. He neglected to mention, though, that the stupid will always be with us too.

[@FortuneSeek3rz]

Some things he didn't have to say...

[@zevoni]

Having a baby with no money 😂

[@mustangthings]

It happens all the damn time. Poverty makes people horny as hell.

[@ykook7000]

People literally do it every minute of every day in this cesspool of a world

[@marknewton6984]

So bright.