I’m leaving my 20's soon - lessons I've learned (and trying not to panic 😬)

Um...I've been vlogging for almost a decade? The end of my 20's is nigh! Let's talk about it. (✏️Video Notes Below ↓↓↓)
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[@khalilahd.]

Girl I just turned 25 and relate to this fear! We constantly compare ourselves to others at our age and it can be debilitating. Love your outlook on growth and where you are 💛

[@AhsanteB]

Thanks girl! You get it

[@AVISIONMUSICTV]

No big deal. My life got waaaay better when I turned 30. I've had my most memorable experiences in my 30's and plus you don't look a day over 20 so you can be 20 for a long time🌹

[@AhsanteB]

Haha, thanks! I'm looking forward to my 30's for sure!

[@s-wo8781]

I'm in my 30s now and I hate how I never had fun in my 20s and still haven't now. I just want friends and to be with girls.

[@AhsanteB]

I feel you - I have been GRINDING but my goal is to take more time to chill, definitely

[@maremarechiqk]

I turned 30 a week ago. I’m still experimenting and not super self assured. It’s a journey and I’ve learned it’s best to not have rigid expectations ✨. Love your channel 💕

[@AhsanteB]

Thank you! Agreed, it's a journey for sure!

[@mimirobin]

whenever I start panicking about not ~ achieving ~ enough, and doing trial and error instead of having an "adult straightforward" ladder of success, I turn to the 20s toolkit series which Leena Norms is doing. cannot recommend it enough.. and power to you for having both curiosity and constant learning as well as confidence as main angles on life,, definitely goals 🙌

[@AhsanteB]

Thaaanks - I love Leena's series too! Her videos are so good.

[@MA-gp4oz]

Girl!! I could definitely relate !!!!

[@bettyreads222]

love this reflective moment. being 31 i'm at the place where i've realized that life is really about taking care of yourself and strengthening connections with your friends and loved ones. 20's was a learning moment, i had lot of fun and was messy for sure, lots of stumbles lol and i'm glad to have picked myself up and learned and grown from my experiences.

[@AhsanteB]

Yessss, so true that life is about nurturing your relationships and taking care of your own wellbeing.

[@doodledoughnutscrafts]

I've been watching your channel for a couple years and I see + take your insight as an older sister perspective ( hope that's not weird to say!!) I'm entering my 20's, love what you have to say always!

[@AhsanteB]

Aw, thank you! *fills with warm fuzzies*

[@taongangulube3662]

Couldn't have articulated the experience better. Awesome video!

[@AhsanteB]

So glad it resonated!

[@patriciablue2739]

Blessings to you. Just found your channel. I was a Montessori teacher with two kids in my twenties. You are good hunny. It’s never “figured out” but you are a critical thinker. Big kudos. Mistakes are a plus. You learn. I stayed single thru all. You’re good. 38 is more perfect!

[@AhsanteB]

Thank you!! Always figuring it out as I go!

[@AhsanteB]

What defined the decade of your 20's? Or what are you looking forward to in your 20's?

[@kibrika]

Honestly, your description of your experience felt really relatable. I entered my twenties with a real "I have the right view on how the world works" conviction, and a ton of not glamorous mistakes to happen. I think for me it was relationship figuring out first, and the job situation I'm still not sure about at 36, but overall life's good.

[@user-dy1rs1jl4c]

I went to Rio de Janeiro a few months ago. I now recognize the place in the scene where you go up the stairs! Never knew you were showing a famous set of stairs - Escadaria Selaron.

[@AhsanteB]

Yes! You got it!

[@_Bianca]

Ahsante! This is soo beside the point, but every single video I watch of yours you are wearing something that just makes me think, "Where did she get that!?" Where did you get the (jean?) jacket you're wearing? What is the style called? I love the droopy billow sleeves.

[@Brownfox1981]

I'm 41. You're still young.

[@ZadenZane]

I remember how dreadful it was going past 26 and not qualifying for a Young Person's Railcard anymore. it felt much more like an ending than a beginning.... Oh but you sound American... not sure they even have Young Person's Railcards on the far side of the Pond...!

[@AhsanteB]

Oh interesting! Yeah they don't have those here in the US (at least not that I've seen) BUT they do kick you off your parents health insurance when you turn 26. So still a depressing moment, lol.

[@jadude119]

I turn 30 this year too- Time flies! #1992

[@AhsanteB]

Indeed it does!

[@adventuresightion3917]

I just turned 20

[@AhsanteB]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! WELCOME!

[@Nori426]

I will be 20 next week and I’ve been panicking 😯

[@AhsanteB]

Happy Early Birthday!! You got this! Here's to an adventurous decade

[@Nori426]

@@AhsanteB Thank you so much! 😀

[@IncredibleStan]

I'm 34. Once you hit 30 you don't notice much accept for health stuff. I highly suggest picking up a workout routine if you haven't. Also, you start to feel really detached from the younger generations. Music, slang...It starts sounding extremely foreign. Other than that...its alright

[@AhsanteB]

I was definitely trying to develop a daily jogging routine before I left my 20's so that it would be an ingrained habit by my 30's - mission accomplished! I'm starting to notice my body aging and it's WEIRD.

[@IncredibleStan]

@@AhsanteB You are ahead of the game! Keep it up!

[@KarolaTea]

My take is that you're still young if you're under 50. My back is starting to disagree, but shhhh.

[@AhsanteB]

Haha - my cracking ankles and knees aren't too sure either

[@e3erockstar08]

You’re turning 30?! 😨😨😨You still look young enough to need ID for liquor. I hear that’s a good thing.

[@AhsanteB]

Hahaha