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Hey my Lovelies!
Here's a little update, it kind of made me sad to watch but I think it will be good to look back in a few months time to see how much has changed.
Lisa x

[@Chowdeen]

Girl, the way you feel is the way we all struggle. That's not a dig as if the way you feel isn't real, hard or important. Its just, know that your not alone. Everyone is fucking terrified of "being an adult", mortgages, responsibilities, money worries, "Am i achieving?" "Am I good enough!" I think its important to always give yourself a bit of a break. N be like "im doing my best, that is good enough" Downers happen, they totally suck, always fight them. Good to see you bk chick!

[@SugarDougy]

Hi Lisa, from across the pond and around the world, you have more support and appreciation than you know....Incredibly brave and i think that type of honesty is greatly respected. If you ever want to talk, sometimes a stranger is the best medicine. Good luck, please be in touch.

[@lilyannwilde2024]

Thank you for being so open and honest, I love your channel, and I’m so sorry people have been unkind. I hope you put yourself first and take care of yourself. 💜👌🏼🙏🏼

[@alishabethspencer2307]

I’m in a very similar situation too I live with my bf but he works 12 hour shifts most days and I’m currently unemployed. I volunteer twice a week in a charity shop it gets me out the house cos I don’t have anyone I bother with really like friends and I don’t always get along with my family so it can be lonely at times too. Keep doing KZbin videos tho you’re doing great xxx

[@dydyl]

I myself used to be the same, could not chill if the house wouldn't be tidy. But think of it this way: if you die tomorrow and your life flashes in front of you, do you want to just see clips of you cleaning? Having some hobby would help finding friends that are interested in same things you are. You are so fun and such a cool person. You could start doing more KZbin related stuff, for example. Like collabs or joining forums with other content creators and build your presence more in this platfom...you have so much unused potential and you could esily triple your subscribers in a year! Hope the doggies are doing good, hugs from Finland :)

[@Lozzie23]

I think you really can't go wrong in using your channel to talk about anything and everything, there will always be people that will listen and care. And in the meantime while you decide what to do with your channel, it's a good outlet for you to vent and just talk about whatever's going on in your life. You seem like such an upbeat, positive person, yes we all have to fake it a little sometimes, but you have a good mindset. You seem be aware of when you aren't feeling great, and just know that it will pass.. keep your head up, it will always get better with time. As for having anything for yourself, it sounds like you owe yourself a treat. Try and think of something that you'd really like to do or achieve and look into making it happen, it might not be as difficult as you're expecting it to be. Once you start planning you will have something to look forward to. Btw just want to say that to be able to run a house by yourself is actually an achievement in itself, you are already ahead of many others just by having your own place! Your last video was the first video of yours that I saw, I just thought I would let you know people are watching, and there are people that do care. Look after yourself and your doggies x x

[@emilyrebecca2970]

I missed your videos so much! 💗 I struggle with mental health too and it’s so encouraging to see you talking so openly about it. I’m so sorry you received negativity - you definitely didn’t deserve that especially as you’ve been so open. Last few months have been very hard for me, I’ve been through a breakup and ive defiantly felt lonely. But I love listening to your chats, they are so comforting! Don’t feel guilty at all, take your time, be kind to yourself! Lots of love Xxx

[@ifloetic]

love your honesty. you're right, you don't have to apologize for taking a break from youtube or explain yourself. also I agree that if I knew that a close person was struggling, I would definitely contact them. sending love ❤

[@Melanie-kl2gl]

btw this video rang so much with me but instead of dogs I have a toddler lol, I think you're so honest and a lot more of us are lonelier then we know!

[@tylerking3167]

I would say personally keep making the videos and you are reaching a global audience. Life isn't easy but never give up . You have to remember the Internet is full of trolls but equally they really nice people . Life's about the positives and negatives . Take the smooth with rough. If anything upload much more such . Definitely don't let it go yoy have 22k followers and just get used to some trolls will tear you down . Life has no blue print . Just look forward to summer hauls and makeup tutorials and please do the Qs&As section. And if you want to come on our radio station inbox me . Plus your incredible and keep uploading . Don't give up always believe in yourself. You will pass your driving licence test . What cars you looking to buy?

[@liviblades]

it's really nice to see you back it's perfectly fine you do what you want to do it your channel, your hair is definitely growing longer

[@pinkfloss86]

U don't owe anyone anything apart from keeping yourself healthy and happy. Some people don't understand how hard it is to make edit and upload videos when u work full time. I struggle sometimes with my channel which is why my subscribers count doesn't seem to go up but that's that way it is. I'm not going to pressure myself to upload loads when I work and don't physically have the time, I used to do driving lessons but they terrified me. Good luck on your driving. It's something I'm trying to talk myself into doing again. It's so nice seeing u make a video again and I look forward to the next one whenever that may be xx take care xx

[@suzannemccoll6235]

I live alone and I’m also single. Im close to my family but I understand the need to have something for you. I do a lot of volunteering, have you ever considered giving it a try? I do mostly charity events such as race for life and things like that. You have fun and meet loads of people. I love event volunteering and its made me realise what I want to do with my life and its given me a purpose. I also got a part time seasonal job with cancer research that I do around my full time job and I love it! ( sorry for the long post)

[@loveisblonde92]

I'd really recommend watching The Learner Driving Centre videos on KZbin, they really helped me learn to drive and kinda prepare for my lessons. Also if you worry that people can smell a 'doggy' smell in your house, you should get some fridge odour neutralisers, they're like £2 in wilkinsons, and they just absorb any odours, maybe try dotting some of those around your house😊

[@yourstyleishot]

Im the same Lisa, Im at uni, i live with a very good friend but i do feel always lonely. my life consists of working and going to the gym. I never do anything with my evenings because i dont know who to ask or what to do. Im here for you gal

[@Jayden-gp6ft]

Lovely to see you back Lisa, looking forward to your next video

[@lovinglife6526]

Oh bless you. I love visiting my friends and the last thing I think of is their house. I love them for them and their dogs. Who cares? It’s the person who matters. Everyone’s standards are different just need to accept a person for who they are. True friends won’t care about your surroundings. Friends visit me also and it’s a pleasure. I’m a bit anti social no pubs or clubs, so my few friends mean so much. Have you thought about dog walking mates? Dogs are a sure bet to meet like minded people. Doggy play dates !!! Try a local fb page, my local dog community is huge... i was a military wife so spent many weeks and months on my own. Think about what interests you and find like minded people. Fill your time when Dan is at work so you don’t feel like you are wishing your life away waiting for him to come home. Any work mates? Old friends who have lost touch? Keep fit class and coffee after when you know them better? Befriending other lonely people, although you may feel too young for that. Meet up with Dan’s family? Dogs are fur babies, and only other dog mums understand. Hang in there, it will come right 😊

[@LeeAnnMoss]

I know how it feels being lonely hun. Is there no hobbies you could look into? I hope you keep doing videos you break up my long days and love your videos xx

[@emmamulholland4858]

Glad you are back Lisa 💕

[@elliottdodson50]

Dunno how I found this video, but here are my views: If you enjoy making videos, then there is no way you should stop making them! Make videos whenever you want, don’t add the pressure of having to upload every week. If you feel too pressured, make videos you don’t like, then they become a chore and you lose passion. Life is too short to not do things you like doing. Do what makes you happy, and cut out all the negatives you can. Never apologise for anything! :) I’m sorry you are struggling with mental health, we are living in an ever harsher world; people are lacking in empathy. A good way of combating your bad feelings is to do activities that make you feel good. Eat well, go to a kickboxing or jui jitsu class or some group activity and you will form strong bonds with other people who feel exactly the same as you. Put yourself in challenging situations and personal growth will ensue. Don’t worry about your driving lessons, don’t be afraid of making mistakes. No one has ever learned without making mistakes. Learn at a pace that suits you, and you can’t go wrong. You’ll get there, you just have to keep at it and don’t give up!

[@bobbyjones7354]

We all get lonely at times, but I have 2 chihuahuas and they love me and I love them.... They keep me company and busy. There is always going to be a slight doggy oder... Burn incense... Or scented candles... I sweep/mop often with pine Sol floor cleaner. (I have ceramic tile throughout my apt.... Except for carpeting in the bedroom.... ) Don't worry about what comments ppl say about doggie oders.... Your pets love you.. They don't argue with you... (lol) good therapy as well... Do what you need to do.... We are here.... 😄😎🤓

[@Mandy.J]

I have a black Labrador who farts for England and 2 beautiful cats and I adore them both my house smells of animals and I don’t give a shit, if people don’t like it then they don’t come round life’s too short to please everyone. I passed my test in a manual car but due to disability I now drive an automatic and my god it’s so easy. Have you thought about trying an automatic car you would probably pass your test in like a month which means you could get a car and get yourself out of the house with your beautiful dogs life is too short Lisa take it by the horns and enjoy yourself you are a beautiful young lady xx

[@LDOK21]

U already gave us enough. Just be happy. Watched you for years and years i just dont really comment. U dont ow us anything. :)

[@LeahAutumn]

i love watching your youtube videos regardless of your video content :) such a honest young women who is all about real life ..... id rather watch your videos than these crazy highly edited just for money videos :) wishing you all the best for what ever is in your future :) xx

[@bryonyedmondson1965]

Ok so: 1) don’t regret buying your own home. It’s an incredibly sensible financial decision and the best investment in your future. Even if you and Dan get married, buy a house together, have kids always try to hold on to your own home too. Best case it provides a comfortable early retirement for you both, worse case it protects you and your children from financial hardship and homelessness should your relationship not work out. 2) just because you own your house doesn’t mean you have to live in it. If you are really lonely perhaps think about renting it out and moving back in with your mum. The money you save could go towards home improvements/a car etc. 3) a lot of your problems seem to be linked to the dogs. You don’t have people around as you worry about the smell, you don’t go out as you don’t want to leave them. If they make you truly truly happy great, if not maybe think about what you want from life and what you are prepared to compromise on. Oh and your hair looks fab! Xx

[@chelseascott1992]

I love your hair at the length it’s at now. It really suits you.

[@sharonshort5401]

Lovely to see you back xx

[@liviblades]

You know I don't live too far away and I know you come to Coventry sometimes so if you ever wanted to we can go for a coffee

[@bekkyn80]

Lisa i can honestly relate so much with you, it will help so much when you can get a car for more freedom, Also as you love hair, have you thought of doing a short course in hair as a hobby type thing..or even doing that for a charity thing ?

[@bodaciousqueen]

It’s ok don’t be embarrassed by a dog odour I have dogs too so I’m nose blind to it lol. Just make friends with other dog owners take the the dogs on play dates. Pretty sure everyone that has dogs is nose blind to the dog smell so you can go to each other’s house’s and not worry

[@GottaBwhoUAre]

I hope you continue to make videos. I love your vlogs especially.

[@cathayy1]

Hi I just wanted to reach out to you to say your not alone in your problems, I have the exact same problems as you or did have at one stage and Iv found it very hard at times (and still do) to cope with life and my mental health. I think we would actually make good friends! I’m doing my driving lessons, I adore dogs (I had 3 at one point so I’m used to doggy smell) and I live with my boyfriend but I don’t have many friends and family around me either (all of whom still haven’t been to see me since I moved out) so it does get lonely and I live in Birmingham. Just try work on hobbies or things that make you happy, I know it’s hard to go out when you have doggy responsibility but if you wanted a day out you could try arrange someone to check on them in the day or stay at yours whilst you go out? Having dogs is the best but they are a big tie unfortunately but there just the same as kids. If you ever want someone to rant to feel free to message me x

[@jodie1371]

So happy to see this in my sub box

[@kimberleylouise8457]

Aww :( sorry to hear you're feeling this way... is dan not able to move into your home or is it to do with work commitments on his part? Xx

[@jacquelinede6682]

Beautiful :) x please keep making videos

[@shawndamichelle639]

You have two dogs and your house will smell like dogs. It’s something I had to get use to when I got my dog and my partner had a dog. You should ask your vet if there’s a deodorizer or whatnot that is safe for your bullies. I can understand feeling as if you don’t have much of a purpose. I started a new job in a new state and I know like 5 people, and I work with them all. It’s hard to make and foster new relationships. Especially as an adult. My BFF and I are struggling with that now. It sounds like you need a hobby. Whether it be something like picking up a new book, working on some makeup skills, joining a meetup group (the group gets together periodically and does functions together). Good luck on the lessons.

[@shawndamichelle639]

Walking the puppies and listening to podcasts or audiobooks. A new thing I’ve been into over the past year are unsolved mystery type things. I watch a few mystery KZbin’s and have a couple podcasts dedicated to true crime.

[@StudioBlixje]

Missed you!

[@Melanie-kl2gl]

I think you should do a completely different vid! like a house tour? :D

[@dianaray1470]

If you’re going to continue with KZbin you’re going to have to realize with the good comes the bad 😘. Yes stop apologizing. No need. You do you boo !

[@lisamarie3613]

Love your videos Lisa ❤️

[@dichang3]

Doggy smells are the best!!!

[@sarahmulhearn3403]

I love your hair colour what shade is it?

[@kimberleylouise8457]

Ooh lol, just got to the very end & seen why he hasn't moved in yet xx

[@patriciahatton8988]

Your a good dog owner hun x I share a house with my sister hun and we don't have visitors I also get embarrassed so I feel what you going through. Your a beautiful woman hun. I have something that has integrated more in my life is my Paganism now been pagan for 10+ years. But I don't class it as a hobby with my spirituality

[@shikore22]

Your so beautiful i wana hug you ^^

[@liviblades]

I'm sure there is a vent especially for dogs and people www.meetup.com/topics/dog-walks/gb/m9/tamworth/

[@Amariehome]

Mwah! you look goregous for the record hun xx

[@Amariehome]

instantly was like Lisa's hair daum! xx

[@shelley698]

Ill come visit amd go on an epic primark spree with you !!

[@user-vh9jn9du6w]

по русски можеш говарить?

[@MsZombiekilla]

Your never lonely I’m here 🤤

[@allioradar7837]

Hello , You are cute beauty lady

[@michellewoodrum7880]

Lisa, you really need to cut yourself a little slack. True friends will never care what your house looks like. And having two dogs, no matter what you do there will always be a little doggie smell. But I’m sure it’s barely noticeable. Anyone who has made a comment to you is an ass. On another subject, your hair is looking great! Loving the length. Keep your head up! Things will get better. A suggestion is getting into exercise. Not to lose weight, but go help release natural endorphins that will improve your mental health. Just a thought :)

[@lisagault8572]

Lets be friends! You have 22k Subscribers thats a lot of potential friends :) I wish my house smelt of dog, one day!

[@hamoudmoha019]

U look pretty