I’m One Decision Away from a Completely Different Life & The Struggle To Choose is Real

[@BenjaminCEzike]

Decisions as adults is always something to think deeply. One decision tool I always think about is from Ben Carson book (can't remember the particular book), where he said 1) What's the best thing that can happen if I do this, 2) What's the worst that can happen if I do it. 3) What's the best thing that can happen if I don't do this, 4) what's the worst that's can happen. It helps with clarity. I have also had to try to reinvent myself this past years. I japa-ed to an European country in 2022, and just a year after, I realised I need to re-japa again. Not been an easy decision, cos the more we grow, the more our decisions could have heavier consequences. I enjoyed your video.

[@Nonnybwoy]

I just finished my youth service. I’m thinking of staying in Nigeria or leaving. The craziest part is I have no one to talk to it about.

[@dabike_]

I can relate to this so much, I had to make a career change recently and it was one of tge toughest decisions of my life. I felt like I wasted 5 years of my life in school because works associated with it didnt just fit into my life at that time. I remember that was my major prayer point entering into the day. And he really came through for me. Even though I dont have the complete picture yet, I can say I made the right decision with my current career. I have a lot more clarity and sense of direction now. Prayer really did it for me. And Ive learnt to always turn to him at crossroads like that. I hope you get all the claritu you seek. Love your videos so much 😘🤎

[@omahubani2107]

Omg I have a feeling Cassie might be going back into medicine 💪💪💪. I hate making decisions because I fear they won't yield the desired results and then I end up making no decision at all😢

[@cliffcee1428]

Funny how I felt the same way, medicine over here is blood money. I feel like I will wake up someday, apply to med school, and take a student loan. Whilst passion is fun and sometimes easy, I think we're never too old to try something new, something different, or even make a mistake. Thanks for sharing Cassie.

[@goodnewschibudom6695]

First of all,Happy 1 year anniversary n’Obodo Ndi Ocha 🥳🎉. That Career decision !! it’s also heavy like when you want to get married. May the Lord be our guide and guard.

[@RitaAnyanwu]

When I first moved countries I was faced with the same decision; to practice HR which I’m experienced in or to kickstart a career in Human Physiology which I have a degree in. It was a real dilemma. I changed my CV at least ten times. Applied for jobs in both areas. I applied to both and got a job in HR. Then continued in HR. I think you should keep applying to both areas. Write the qualifying exam for medical doctors and put out your media portfolio as well. When one comes, depending on how you feel about it, you’ll make a decision. I was over the moon and relieved when I got my first HR job because deep down that’s what I wanted. If I got a job in human physiology I probably would have gone back to apply for HR jobs while practising physiology.

[@Skinbaddie__]

Happy Canniversary!!! You are glowing. Ermmm about the decisions idk tbh. it's tiring to have to always be on the edge as an adult but asking God for guidance always and just letting things play out for themselves works for me, at least, a bit.

[@tolulopewilliam-abe8209]

Amazing video as always. Decision making is turning out to be my least favorite part of adulting. Unfortunately can't trust others to make decisions about my life 100%

[@ramieofori-adarkwah3118]

Cassie your skin🤩. You're pretty.

[@iteabwayi4347]

Ma I really appreciate what you and your husband did for me in time of my sickness,🙏 may God almighty reward you people for me 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@akosuashirley]

you got this Cassie cos God has got you!!!

[@aliceumurerwa2097]

Here is what I do, I will always pray about it because God's word says Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs3:5-6 I also sometimes do this. I ask myself 4 questions. What's the best that can happen if I do it? What's the worst that can happen if I do it? What's the best that can happen if i do not? What's the worst that can happen if I do not do it? Write it down, and whatever weights more will help me make a decision.

[@goodnewschibudom6695]

It’s your tea face at the end of the video for me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Well, we are not stuck with our decisions forever, we always pray to get it right but when it isn’t going according to plan we still have room to change but then we still have to face the consequences tho.

[@priscilliaharry8902]

Love your videos, I’m not a tea girlie but I make mine with ginger, lemon,star anise, and cinnamon I add honey to sweeten it, I find that it relaxes me and it’s not so bitter. For decision making the Holy Spirit plays a major role in that for me .

[@fisayoagunbiade]

Skin is skinningggg

[@ololadecreamy]

Happy 1st year anniversary in Canada 🇨🇦 , I don’t know how men do it too 🤷‍♀️ once i get home too,I have to off everything 😅

[@ajakaiyegodson]

Hey Cassie, you are so exceptional. Your storytelling skills and you edit so well👌🏾 Take your flowers 💐 Also you looked so beautiful in that wig or is it bone straight you girls call it😅 See you in the vlog

[@maameaddae9479]

Every decision has consequences... Could be good or bad. But with prayer and God, it will work out. I hope you do well 🙏

[@rhapsodydailies]

You dont just need to follow your instincts but talk to the holyspirit about the next step to take about life because he knows it all and knows how to guide us best!Nice video btw

[@tosinabatanshitta]

Trust and surrender all to God, and He would direct your path as spoken in Prov 3:1-12. Worry never solves anything. Abraham would have turned out better if he completely trusted God. Pray about your decision and ask for directions. Looking back in a few years, you would see that it could only have been God. All the best dearie, sleep well like Daniel in the lion's den😊.

[@MademoiselleEse]

POV: its the lemon peel you boiled that’s made your tea bitter. 😅

[@CassieDaves]

Ohhhh that makes some sense and sounds possible. I’ll boil some with and without the peel next time to see if that’s it. It didn’t even cross my mind to peel it because I drink lemon infused water all the time and don’t peel the back, but I don’t boil it, just dunk it in cold water.

[@MademoiselleEse]

@@CassieDavesyeah! it gives “agbo” vibes.

[@Toyosi_O]

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[@nanakukua4598]

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[@Thulare_Ramokgopa]

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[@onyinyechiebirim469]

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