I'm pregnant

[@catanyag]

CONGRATULATIONS! I'm a bit sad to see your old videos gone, because I think a lot of things can be learned and a lot of people can be helped by seeing the full path you took to get here. It's very rare that something like that is so clearly and personally documented. That said, I respect your privacy, and especially your decision to not make public your future son's childhood before he even has a chance to learn what social media is. Regardless of whether or not you see this and decide to make your past content viewable again, I am wholeheartedly wishing you and your family the bestest of the best!

[@Mixipixyadatzme]

I prayed for you Daisy! How wonderful to hear of a little baby being born! "Dear Father God, please bless Daisy and her husband and their little baby. Please help them to know you, please open the eyes of their understand to know what is the hope of Your calling and Your great love for them. Please give them the fear of the Lord and save their souls. Please deliver them from the hands of the evil one."

[@vikkitoria97]

Daisy, you're going to be OK with formula. If you're really concerned about gut flora and transmission of antibodies, consider getting just a tiny bit of pasteurized human donor milk--even a few drops on your baby boy's tip of the tongue. You're going to manage this just fine Daisy. Even without breastfeeding, you will still snuggle and nurture this boy and feel all the maternal instincts you need to feel. Clearly this is a wild ride but I have no doubt you can do it. Don't worry about the trash corners of the internet judging you. LOTS of women cannot breastfeed and that does NOT make you any less of a mother. There are so many moms who choose not to breastfeed for a myriad of reasons. I know it's easier said than done, but please don't let this keep digging into your psyche. Proud of you lady :)

[@xchristinex001]

I 100% agree with all of this. My mother was severely unwell after I was born and was physically unable to breastfeed. I was formula fed from birth and it was all fine, I was perfectly healthy and my mum never felt it made her less of a mother or less of a woman to not breastfeed her kid.

[@kevintse2870]

But try to get a bottle that mimics the human breast. It’s better for the baby’s teeth.

[@victoriatutwiler1557]

Milk from the donor bank is expensive and requires a prescription. It's $15 per 3-4oz or was 5 years ago. I'd moreso find someone you trust that is at the same stage as you and see if they would donate.

[@kevintse2870]

@@victoriatutwiler1557 pretty weird request tbh… unless you’re like joined at the hip I wouldn’t even ask.

[@hanflancocopan]

My friend was able to donate some of her milk for my baby when I had breast abscess surgery when she was 3 months old. 🥴 It was so helpful. I know that was kind of pure luck but if you do know someone, it might be worth an ask. It’s not totally uncommon. Some women even have extra milk frozen from producing more than they need.

[@jonesch73]

I am religious and it is a miracle. I also believe that God has a huge plan for you and your baby. Praying for you all!!👏🏼💕

[@JesussyTwerkin]

This is a dude

[@BeccaRaptor94]

@@JesussyTwerkin Daisy is a woman. Did you not watch the beginning of the video?

[@JesussyTwerkin]

@@BeccaRaptor94 nah there’s no coming back after that

[@Rick_Cleland]

@@JesussyTwerkin *_Huh...??_*

[@18JasonM]

Daisy, we met in Cornish’s class back in 2019 when we were randomly paired up for a project, and the content you make and the stories you tell are truly powerful. Again, congrats!!

[@JCResDoc94]

thats fun. love it when that hapns, bc everyone is online making _something_ now. -JC

[@Dmchadra]

Yes I remember you! Hope you’re doing well :)

[@Drungra]

My wife and I met in July of 2018. Married in December 2019 and then got pregnant in March 2020. It was tough having a baby born only around 11 1/2 months after we got married as there were a lot of places we wanted to go and things we wanted to see. It was also hard because we were still learning about marriage and how to love each other better in that new form of relationship. I would say having a baby has been one of the largest catalysts in our relationship, but at the end of the day, it has been beyond worth it. I think no matter when you have kids, it's gonna be really tough on your marriage (something I wish I knew going into parenthood), but as long as you love each other and both have a solid foundation of what your relationship really means at it's core, then it's still a brutal, wild ride, but the most fulfilling ride you will ever ride in your life. My wife recently gave birth to our second child, and as much as it is just as hard as the last, we just have grown so much as individuals and as a couple since then. I guess what I'm trying to say is prepare for a lot of pressure on your marriage, but don't be afraid. Just make sure to remember you love each other, even when you feel like you want a divorce. You can either go with the flow of feelings and let the pressure crush your family, or you can hold fast and let the pressure solidify you as a family. If we can do it (two teenagers who met three and a half years ago and have two kids now lmao) then you can do it too! Cheers

[@rgonzalez7170]

Hi Alex my story is similar to your, we met, we married, we had kids really fast and was as har as it looks an more (especially on the first child, well, second is hard too and the third is not so different than the rest, but anyway, if someone tells me what I past take me to where we are right now I'll do it again for this results. I love my kids (almost 19, almost 15, and almost 13)I wouldn't change ANYTHING, ANYTHING, all of the things have make US (including the kids) more stronger family, life is difficult BUT IS WORTH of living it.

[@Drungra]

That's so great to hear, holy cow. Just so happy to hear that everything is going so well

[@lavigne6281]

Congrats Daisy! I'm genuinely happy for you. What a change of both direction and fortune!

[@denisecat2708]

Congratulations!! It feels like the perfect capstone to your detransition - a wonderful miracle. Please don't beat yourself up over breastfeeding. There was a whole generation in the 1960's that received shots to dry up their breast milk - my mother was one and here I am over 50 years later, just fine. Also, becoming a parent really pulls you out of yourself, changing the center of your universe from you to your baby. I'm so happy for you and Jason.

[@taniacurbelo868]

Daisy, you are more important and your testimony is more important than you may think. Do not stop making videos. Prayers for you, your husband and baby. God bless

[@LaytonObserves]

What a journey you've been on! Congratulations !!

[@BrittanySimon]

Omg Layton! Why do we watch the same people?!?

[@elusivemayfly7534]

Hey there, Layton! 😊

[@LaytonObserves]

@@BrittanySimon Great minds think alike and all that :')

[@sharbean]

I'm good calling it a miracle. Congratulations! Everyone has flaws that they have to work on throughout their life and weaving that work into relationships, marriage, parenthood is a big part of a successful journey. May God bless you.

[@raeraeofsunshine]

thank-you for sharing! i love your videos, and perspective. i am also 23 (and desisted, I thought I was trans for about 5 years) and in a similar place in life where gender ideology has fallen away and I feel like i see myself and others so much clearer! I also am in about a 2.5 year relationship and I can relate a lot to your experience (which is RARE as I am sure you know). I would love if you keep sharing and posting! I am so excited for you and your family!

[@TheKarenKeener]

You are introspective, not selfish. It helps you have empathy for others. It will help you if anything. You’ll be fine.

[@amelia-yv5nt]

i’m sure that Whoever is in charge knows your and your husband’s heart, and will walk next to you through all of this. Bless your son, bless your family and may he be a blessing to you both🧡

[@allisonsoucy3208]

So happy for you! And not going to lie, I love watching you rambly videos, and personally dont find you self involved but rather introspective!

[@th3n3wk1dd]

Congrats, The unknown is always scary. My dad told me he hyperventilated when he found it I was coming :) I was the first born. he also said it never got easier. He loved us and worked hard but remember, there is two of you. It's not just you, Your significant other is there as well to help as much as he can. Take care.

[@CatieD]

Congratulations on your wedding and your son❤ God is so good. Your bravery and honesty are so inspiring. I'm excited for your future. Keep us posted, you're a miraculous light ❤ Also I can relate to the crazy fast pace of changes- my now husband and I met a little less than two years ago (april 2020) and I'm now 22 weeks pregnant with his child! Pray for us.

[@stevenfreebairn2553]

Though I can't speak directly to the experience of motherhood, I can say as a parent: These little ones change you forever. From the moment of birth, your priorities rearrange and your life is eternally altered. I'm so excited for you, and I hope and pray your pregnancy is smooth. One piece of advice: Before Jason Jr. shows up, go out on a really fun trip, or at least a well-planned date as a send-off to pre-parenting life. Good luck!

[@JCResDoc94]

even bill burr. it hapns to literally everyone. -JC

[@donnahugo1247]

We are all scared when pregnant it’s normal

[@Ryan-xo9tf]

I was literally just wondering today what you were up to. So happy for you; God bless.

[@elusivemayfly7534]

Same here!

[@TheKarenKeener]

Awww! I am so sorry you felt scared about your pregnancy. I promise you are so intelligent and insightful, you will probably feel like I did when I started out as a mother. It felt like I was cheating in a lot of ways. It’s going to be awesome! I am so excited for you!

[@TheKarenKeener]

Also, I thought both of mine were girls. I was surprised at their birth to have boys. Boys are super fun to raise.

[@spiritmatter1553]

Being in your early twenties is what makes you "extra, extra fertile"! You’ll be glad later in life that you started your family early in life, I predict. I’ve enjoyed your videos when I’ve found them, and this is good news. Congratulations to you and your adorable husband.

[@annemarietalbott]

Congratulations! Life is a miracle! I’ll be praying for you ❤ P.S. when I first came across your channel I admit I absolutely binge watched. I know I was brought to tears multiple times while watching your life story progress, for sad and happy reasons. I hope some day you’ll compile them and make a doc or something. Your journey, though broken and hard, is one that has emerged into beauty. It all made a deep impression on me. God bless you and the coming stages of your life!

[@ejb6822]

just wanted to say i'm happy that you didn't delete the old videos, because they might become a great point of reference for possible upcoming reviews of your own. apart from that, they'll remain an interesting source for what personal evolution can look like, so i hope that they might pop up again one way or another.

[@erikaamerica4546]

Being a parent has been a blessing for me, I know it will be for you too🥰

[@nikkiseiler7542]

Crying right now!!!!!! Literally sobbing!!!! Oh the joy!!! “Miraculous” is absolutely the correct word. You have a one-of-a-kind gift of creation growing in the only designated space he could ever grow in - your particular, specific and chosen womb! Don’t give up on the thought that Jesus may be who He claims to be and that you and Jason (Greek name for “Joshua” meaning “Healer, the Lord is Salvation”) have the most incredible calling on your lives to bring hope and healing as you walk in truth, continue to face the tragic things of life head on, and share your learnings with this beautiful world. Every blessing to you beautiful one!!!! So so happy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😍😍🥰🥰🥰🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@paulamartinllll]

Congratulations Daisy I am so happy for you and your husband. Just from my personal life I have three daughters and my children are the best thing in my life I wish you the best and I am sure that you will be a wonderful parent Good luck and much love for you and your family. Also I have been following your journey from the early days and happy to see how it is going

[@Stephanie-te8ns]

I was looking for your channel the other day and couldn't find it, so thank you for uploading! Congrats on your preganacy.

[@edwardking1312]

Praying for you! You are so blessed !! We have 5 kids! You will be so amazed, at the love you will have for that baby. Your prayer life will go up unbelievably !!

[@samuelsundin]

You could be the first “detrans family vlogger” lol :) no but it truly is amazing what resilience the body has and I know you’ll be (or probably already are at this point) a very good mom!

[@natalie-pq3to]

I'm so excited for you guys! What a wonderful miracle 💕 Don't get caught up in comparisons or negative comments, you will be a wonderful mother with so many unique perspectives and strengths and abilities that many parents wouldn't ever be able to show for their children!

[@sshaw9157]

Daisy, you are not too self involved. You are just what you need to be. Your ability to be self reflective is a wonderful character trait! Your decision to share those reflections with all of us is a true gift. It helps us so much. Also, you have faced each step of your life with courage and beauty, and you will with each future step. I wish you all the best to you and your family.

[@marybethmikels7736]

Congratulations!! 🎉 I’m confident that you will strive to be an excellent mother. ❤️ Each child is a precious gift from God. It’s true that breastfeeding is best, but if you are in a good, loving community, you can often find a mother or a few mothers who are producing extra milk, have compassionate hearts, and may donate some for your little baby when they hear of your situation. This is the case for a foster baby I have been around. The family was given so much milk so consistently that they rarely had to use formula for months.

[@bjl4165]

Daisy, iu have been given one miracle, trust God for another one that will give you the heart of a loving mother. It already seems like you are growing into one. God knew you'd be a good mother and removed all thr barriers to allow you to become pregnant so easily. Your self preoccupation is something many go through as they are learning about themselves, especially if they are are unusually different. You will grow into a wonderful wife and mother. and your honesty is refreshing. Many people have those issues that just aren't self aware or else, don't express them .

[@east_coastt]

Therapy would help with your feelings of self involvement and will ultimately help your child

[@nataliemiller8221]

Being a mother totally reshapes you- you will BECOME the person your son needs you to be. Give yourself grace and mercy while you grow into your role, be gentle with yourself. The fact that you are WORRIED about being too self-involved already shows you are not too self-involved, you're very self-aware. I had some of the same worries before I became a mother! My husband and I found out I was pregnant *before* we got married- we knew each other for 2 years before marriage. From the very beginning our marriage has been intertwined with parenthood. What fretted would cause distance between us ended up strengthening our bond beyond what I ever imagined, throughout everything we were able to lean on each other. Growing together in the most profound, cherished experience of our lives. It's not light, it's powerful and often very difficult- but everything you do is underpinned by the deepest love you've ever experienced. And you'll go from infanthood, to watching your babies first steps, to watching toddler that almost resembles a child say/do the most adorable, ridiculous and hilarious things before you know it. I remember worrying we wouldn't have enough alone time- but now we literally opt NOT to go on "date nights" (even though we totally have the option to) because we always just miss our daughter & wish she was with us😂. We have all just become a unit. & You find ways to get your alone time at the end of the day, even during the infant stage. Pregnancy is such a vulnerable and tender time, nourish yourself & forgive yourself for being a little self-focused right now ☺️ God bless you and your husband💓 what a BLESSING. I'm so so happy for you and have been following your journey since the early days when you made videos about JP. (I'm pregnant with my second right now, also having a baby boy! & This made me super emotional lol💓.)

[@edwardking1312]

YOU WILL BE A GREAT MOM. Your baby boy will love you more than you can comprehend. Have him will force you starting day one to be more selfless and sacrificial- and surprisingly you will feel more joy than you have ever experienced !

[@notsorry3631]

Oh my goodness, congrats! You're going to be such a lovely momma.

[@amish-landchateau]

Moms have to be “selfish” sometimes- just in order to survive! 🤗Your son, because he is soooo loved, will use your times of “self-involvement” to reflexively develop the personal resiliency we humans need - and then youll come back together in the living bond that you share💞💛 I’m 60 soon, and my baby-boy and wonderful wife are expecting a baby girl, a bit sooner than you’re probably due🤗Blessings on you and your little family🌈🙏

[@amish-landchateau]

*”loving bond” 😉🌞

[@mgpm17]

Very happy for you! I couldn't breastfeed (even though I really wanted to, had planned on it!). I had four children and they are all grown and healthy, so please set your mind at ease. I would encourage you to look into NFP further for your future. Enjoy this time... It is going to be just fine. Everyone gets scared, its a big life change. Just breathe. Miracles happen. xo

[@jmj5388]

Good for you, Daisy, stopping the contraceptives. They are not just contraceptives, but abortofascients. NFP can be nerve-wracking until you get the hang of it, but a supportive and involved husband makes all the difference. God bless you on your journey to motherhood!

[@FUCK1NGAWESOME]

Idk if I'm missing something here, but why not use condoms as non-hormonal contraception?

[@Venaloid]

Very happy for you. I'm glad you're still able to do the things you want with your life.

[@iAvrilFan1]

Congratulations!! You're going to be an amazing mother!! I wish many more children in your life

[@uhsul]

That's great news and I wish you both long lasting happiness & love as you share your lives with your new baby boy!

[@ItsLady_Ray]

Congratulations honey! May God bless you and your family! I hope you have a smooth pregnancy. Don’t worry, your body will change a lot. Embrace each step! It’s extremely exciting! 😆💕

[@Saltysarah32]

Congratulations on your pregnancy! Praying for a healthy baby. God is a redeemer, so it’s so great to see that your hormones weren’t so jacked up after transitioning. He healed your hormones to allow pregnancy. That’s amazing.

[@bishopsknifetrick]

Daisy, don’t let the breastfeeding fears overwhelm you! My mom was unable to breastfeed me due to me needing supplemental iron. It didn’t mess with her and I bonding, and in the end, I was fed and that was all that mattered. You guys have this!!

[@bishopsknifetrick]

Also, you wanna talk about moving fast? My parents went on two dates, were engaged by the end of that second date, married by October of that same year, and then two weeks later, found out that my mom was pregnant, and so in May of the following year, I was born. Nothing religious about it, they just clicked.

[@trishnahorvath2034]

Daisy, this is such amazing news. Congratulations! I know your path is unique to say the least, but there are some universal things about pregnancy such as.. it blows most of us away when we first learn that our body has become this thing that is creating a human. And, it may be that you feel especially self involved, but maybe we all feel protective of a life rhythm that we enjoy. From your videos I can see that you are very self-aware and deeply thoughtful. You seem like a great person and I think you will be a great mother. Regarding breast feeding.. there is a system called supplemental nutrition system, where formula runs through a tube which is attached to the nipple.. designed to give extra nourishment if someone has low breast milk. A friend of mine had breast reduction surgery and when she had her son it turned out she wasn't producing milk. She bottle fed him, but for the experience of bonding she attached this tube to her breast at morning and night cuddle and feeding times so that they could enjoy that bond. I saw her husband use it too, because he wanted that feeling! Just thought I'd share the idea, in case you didn't know.

[@denisadellinger4543]

Congratulations. God is good. I just reacted to an old video of yours and then I saw this one. God has really restored you and you are a mother and a wife. I am glad. Don't give up on the Lord. It will be really important to give your child exposure to a loving God so she won't go through what you went through. God bless you and your family.

[@JettBlast]

Get ready for one of the most incredible moments in your life, Being a parent has been the most amazing journey my kiddos teaching me what love is every moment I spend time with them congratulations!

[@TheKarenKeener]

I will be praying that your pregnancy goes well for you. There are some really healthy alternatives to breast milk if you are interested. Sally Fallon Morell made an awesome book on Nourishing Traditions specifically on Baby and Childcare. I recommend it way way way over and above other parenting books.

[@TheKarenKeener]

@Bok Choy we did liver but it is such an insignificant amount. It worked out to less than a teaspoon per day. In the scheme of things, far better than rice cereals etc and other grains that babies can’t possibly digest.

[@TheKarenKeener]

The natural formula she recommends is raw goat milk based, I believe. It’s again far better than commercial formulas.

[@TheKarenKeener]

@Bok Choy brightness has little to do with health outcomes. Many formulas are made with GMO ingredients which are nutritionally inferior and lead to long term elevated risk of cancer. Along with using soy which is also a big no for babies because of endocrine disruption which I see as a far far far higher risk than the nominal amount of liver. I think the dose is what makes something risky. And to me, the amount of various pesticides, herbicides, GMOs and then even organic soy make most commercial formulas a non starter in my mind.

[@TheKarenKeener]

@Bok Choy re iron: I took blackstrap molasses through my pregnancy for iron and was tested for my iron levels and the physician commented they had never seen such impressive iron levels in a pregnant mother. I ended up nursing so iron wasn’t a concern for us. I don’t recall if the formula she suggested had iron from other sources. I would have to go back and research it again. However as I said previously, under no circumstances would I give infants soy based or other grain based formulas or anything that posed a risk for later hormonal issues and endocrine disruption. “Bright” is a subjective term that has little bearing on health outcomes.

[@TheKarenKeener]

@Bok Choy white rice is not easily digestible for infants as they do not have the enzymes to break down grains until their back teeth start to come in.

[@debradurrant6495]

Congratulations Daisy. Praying for you both and the development of your little son. You are amazing how you are speaking publicly about your journey. God has such amazing plans for your life. God Bless you xx

[@RoundHouse1776]

Your life will drastically change for the better the moment of conception your legacy then truly begins

[@menoa.9485]

Congrats on your baby🥊😀🔥 “Every good and perfect gift is from above…” James 1:17

[@rob_robinson]

The best of luck to you and your family!! I've been watching your content for years and I'm so happy for you both- you'll be an incredible parent! Congrats!!

[@debradurrant6495]

When your little baby is born you will fall in love. You will change from self-involved to precious baby involved. Don't listen to anything negative. You should be incredibly proud of yourself. Hold your head up high. God chose this time for your baby to come into this world. So feel confident.

[@HannahJoy333]

Girl, I’m crying I’m so happy for you 💞💓💞

[@HannahJoy333]

Also, breastfeeding is not the be all and end all. You will be and incredible mother. No regrets! You have lessons you’ve gotten in life. Move forward with the gifts you have been given and acknowledge all of the wisdom you will be able to impart on your son from the life lessons you have!

[@chriskdayton]

Dear Daisy. Thank you for sharing your life travels. It’s wonderful to hear your story, especially with all that’s happening in the world today. My granddaughter is going through transition to male right now and although we don’t agree this will solve her hurts, trauma, and issues we love her unconditionally and hope she will also come to understand and accept her body as you have. Congratulations on this wonderful new life that is growing inside you.

[@biancajezler9124]

Congrats daisy! All the best for you and your family!

[@bookreport101]

Having children changes a person in so many ways. Making sure both parents always check each other and your selfish ways most of the time transfer over to your child, where your selfish in giving them everything

[@jennygordon8450]

Daisy, I am absolutely delighted for you. What fantastic news. Heartfelt best wishes to you both. And you are looking lovely 👋🏻

[@flamlingo3566]

Congratulations Daisy & Jason! Thank you for sharing the wonderful news of your precious baby boy.💙 I appreciate your filling in background for first time viewers like me.

[@taleaina]

Aw you. I remember you. So beautiful, still beautiful, so happy u are okay. Love and light. x

[@carolnacarato4448]

The very fact that you know that you can be self involved and that it concerns you is a good sign because that means you can monitor yourself and nip it in the bud when it rears itself. Congratulations on your baby. Enjoy your pregnancy and everything that goes along with it!

[@sarahkoerner6117]

Very excited for you! Congratulations on this new adventure - you're going to be phenomenal. Regarding your worry about being selfish: being aware of yourself and what you want to improve on is an indicator that you won't stand in your own way. Knowing is half the battle, so they say.

[@lindycasey]

I'm a midwife. All women are self involved and moreover when pregnant. I've followed you for a long time and i am so happy for you. Congratulations!

[@debramcfarland6811]

Congratulations on both counts! I know you have been longing to be a mom, this is wonderful! ❤️🙏

[@AlquimistEd]

That's incredible news Daisy! Congratulations!!

[@stacypastry2440]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! Girl, my brother and I were both not breast fed and we are happy and healthy adults. Don't worry about the past when you have such a bright future ahead raising your beautiful wonderful child ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Please share just a couple of pics when your baby arrives. They don't need to be on social media growing up but it would be so lovely to see your little miracle!

[@elusivemayfly7534]

Don’t be so hard on yourself! I see you as introspective, not self-involved. All human beings are self-interested and also capable of incredible generosity. I can see your self-giving nature 😊

[@joWorld664]

I was literally just scrolling through your channel to check in after I saw your Instagram announcement. Congrats!!

[@wilmahernan]

I literally thought of you yesterday! Oh my goodness, congratulations! A miracle indeed 💕

[@HA-ot5ev]

Congratulations!! It is a miracle!! Good luck with the rest of the pregnancy!

[@elusivemayfly7534]

Daisy, so many lovely things happening in your life! Something that helps me is that I don’t have to take on any giant swaths of my life all at once. We just have to take them hour by hour. You are tough and smart and have a great relationship with your groom. You, Jason, and your son will grow together. You have a lot of folks praying for y’all and wishing you good things. Take care! ❤️

[@rebeccadixon7603]

Congratulations! New life is so precious and wonderful! Parenting is imperative for all of us selfish humans to become less self involved. It's a wonderful, life changing journey!

[@shannony6558]

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you! What a gift from God!!!

[@555faith]

It’s God sent! I have Three children on formula, no problem, …they’re perfect!! You will be a perfect mother because that’s what you are! And you are wise! You are warm and honest! Not selfish, but yourself 🥰 God bless you

[@valerie362]

Congratulations!!!! You actually sound very self aware, knowing you tend to be selfish is a huge thing. Most people get defensive and deny it. So, that's awesome! Also, I think a lot of women struggle with breastfeeding wether they still have breast tissue or for some reason they don't. I did with my first daughter and felt so much guilt and anger at myself for not being better. I was kind of heartbroken about it. I eventually came to believe the "fed is best" slogan because that's all I could do. She's 14 now and thriving, so it all worked out.

[@isabelp4211]

Tons of women can't breastfeed for many reasons, and generations were raised on formula when it was thought to be better, don't stress about it!

[@claudialuna772]

I'm so happy for you and you husband!!!.. I'm sure that you will be a great mom♡

[@Prayer_WarriorBibleStudy]

So excited for you congratulations! You are going to be a great mom/parent!

[@angelfrankenfine]

just finished your detransition video and oooommmmgggggodness! I clicked so fast when I saw this title. CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 👏 💐 🥳

[@Fallout_guy1234]

Is there any updates? I have a lot to comment but just know that we have you in prayer 🙏. I understand you and your insecurities about motherhood. Everyone goes through that and it is the most normal thing ever.

[@ishka3405]

Been going through different detrans stories today, happy I came across your one, much more positive than the others. Congratulations to all 3, good luck with everything 🍀

[@louisecook6483]

Wow congratulations 😍😍 All first time mums are scared when they find out they are expecting to start with. You will be fine and a great mum, just relax and don't try to be strict with yourself as both you and your son will need to find a routine that works for you both. The housework etc will wait. My mother wasn't able to breastfeed any of us kids as her body didn't produce milk so it can happen naturally too hun

[@pothandlepeddlar]

Hi Daisy! I've been watching your videos ever since you made that one about Jordan Peterson & just wanted to say congratulations on your marriage & pregnancy! While I am not personally detrans, like you I am a female who has struggled with gender identity (and still do.) Pregnancy & becoming a mom for me was strange, difficult & beautiful but I wouldn't change it for the world. I know you're nervous but you're going to be fine! Taking care of a newborn is surpisingly easy and intuitive plus you're an intelligent & compassionate person! I wish you & your family all the best! :)

[@m.hughes8605]

Daisy, most first time mothers are unsure of themselves & their ability to care for their babies initially. You learn as u go along. All the best Daisy !

[@Walkinjoy]

Congratulations Daisy!! So happy for you and your husband. God bless your marriage and your little one❤️🙏🏼

[@kuraddohikari]

On top of what was said in another comment about getting donor milk, regarding the baby trying to latch onto your breast for milk: you can get little feeding tubes that go from a bottle onto the area around your nipple, you kinda tape them on so they stay put in that area (or can just hold them there, or wear the bottle like a necklace, there are different designs). Babies are too dumb to notice the difference so don't worry about it. It's just good to have skin-to-skin contact and be holding the baby, it replicates the experience and is a perfectly good way to do "breastfeeding" :)

[@TheSandrineLeto]

Wow! Congratulations! Wish you a safe and easy pregnancy!

[@mylesmacleod4306]

Hi Daisy, Haven't looked at your channel for a while. Congrats on your marriage and your pregnancy. IMO you're not self obsessed, you''re just self aware. Despite your past missteps, I think you'll be a good mom. As for your past videos: of course your choice about taking them down. But they are part of your journey & I'm glad I saw them. Best wishes. Love and Peace, Myles

[@alastairbowyer7936]

Congratulations and good luck. I feel like anyone who doesn't have doubts about the challenges of being a parent is either an idiot or an egomaniac so that's a good sign really

[@emilygetzfreid380]

Hi, Daisy. I just want to add to the positive comments. Congratulations, first of all. Second, yes, it changes things, but I was pregnant when I got married 24 years ago, and we're still going strong. You and your husband are a team, that's the most important thing. And third... the nature of being young and wounded (broken, hurting.... whatever you want to call it) makes us all selfish and self involved. That doesn't mean it's who you are. Selfish is not your identity. I pray that you'll be pleasantly surprised by the woman, friend, wife, and mom that you grow into.

[@christinaguppy4375]

HOLY SHIT!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! I can’t believe I didn’t see this video sooner but I had turned off my YT notifications a while back. I had no idea we were even the same age! I have watched your videos since the beginning and it’s insane to watch your journey. I am so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️ lol the family vlogger comment 😭 but honestly these vids are so amazing ty for sharing your vulnerabilities :))))

[@dahlilance6087]

You are going to be a great mother. You are self aware and self centered and it is a good thing. Your son is going to be a part of your new identity. When you need rest rest. When you are sick take care of yourself. You aren't at the best for your family if you aren't well yourself.

[@roadpizza3470]

You go girl!!! Congrats!! Babies are wonderful!! You are gonna be a great momma!

[@aleishablack]

I’m so happy for you. Thanks for your honesty and sharing your story.

[@SmashMaster]

I grew up in east Germany and my mother didn’t have enough milk. We didn’t have formula in communism, so the mothers donated milk to one another and my mother jokingly said that I’m the neighbor boy’s half sister as the neighbor shared a lot of milk with my mother for me. I’m not sure how healthy this practice is but I guess it cannot have been that bad either…. Oh and… obviously, huge congratulations to you! G-d bless you the baby and hubby.

[@xchristinex001]

Congratulations Daisy! 😊 I'm sure you will be a wonderful mother, purely because you're already anxious that you might not be. That wish to be a good mother to your son is gonna mean that as soon as he's born, you'll be the best parent you can be. I'm not a mum myself so I can't speak from personal experience but I've heard time and time again that everything changes as soon as you have a kid, I'm sure your impulse for self involvement will melt away as soon as you hold your son for the first time. It'll be a natural instinct to want to do everything you can for him and put him first always. It's natural to be scared now because it's a massive change in your lives but I'm sure as soon as he is here, motherhood will come naturally to you and you will do your best. Also I was formula fed from birth as my mum was too sick post partum to breastfeed and it never did me any harm at all. It's understandable to be upset that you can't provide that for your child but please don't think it makes you less of a mother because it honestly doesn't. I'm sure you'll be great! Congrats again, it's so exciting!