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[@judyyougotthis]

“I couldn’t save them.” But you did. We all have a limited time on this earth…you gave Stubbs and River the best way to cross the Rainbow Bridge. Had they not been with you, their time and crossing would have been so much much worse. You did save them, my friend.

[@MissionFreiheit]

THIS!

[@abbye8482]

So so TRUE!

[@briannenurse4640]

This, exactly.

[@tthom2459]

I tried to convey the same sentiment . . . but can't beat this - Judy. I do my best to feel this way when I lose a pet. I am comforted knowing that I gave them the best life I possibly could. . . and I want to also make their passing as easy for them as possible too. Lee can/should feel gr8 that he has chosen this amazing, caring gift of love.

[@kstrongtree22]

Well said!

[@naomiarram5187]

Lee, you gave them THE best life they could have possibly had. You did it all. They died in comfort, in a happy home, surrounded by love. That's about as good as it gets.

[@lynnpowell4152]

Lee, don't give up!! You are loved by your fans, and your pack loves you. I know how heartbreaking this is for you. Maintain and carry on, my friend!💖💖💖💖

[@cherylmanatt8213]

You are absolutely right.

[@joannesferrati3076]

Ah, my friend, this is the circle of life. Make peace with the everyday of the life. You are enough.

[@evamarek5205]

Totally agree. You gave them a happy life filled with love and joy. I hope this - and your beautiful memories - gives you solace while you actively grieve. God bless🙏.

[@TheNeelonRokk]

One hundred procent this. You give these animals love where they didn't get it before, you give them life where they wouldn't have gotten it before. You are the best thing these animals could have ever hoped for. Stay strong and keep doing what you are doing, the world needs more people like you.

[@lynnaharlan2729]

I lost three dogs the first 3 months of 2023. My Tiki 18 yrs with me, my Olive 8 yrs with me, my Oola 10 yrs with me. I thought I would die from the pain. It was devastating. I still have two. Mike a one eyed pug, a rescue, and Amber one yr old. Cry it out. It does help. Your dogs love you as much as you love them. And I love you for what you do and who you are!

[@Gaylen2200]

We hurt when you hurt. Please grieve as you see fit. We are with you and love your love and kindness towards these loving creatures. We miss them with you ❤ they knew love before they crossed over

[@lindalikely3208]

Every time I loose a pet, I say I can't continue to do this. But then I remember the great joy they brought me, and I do it again. I can live with the pain if I have to, but I can't live with the joy they bring. Each one takes a piece of your heart when they go. But each new one adds to your heart. I never stop crying when I think of them and I thank GOD for them. Praying you heal.

[@lisamurphy2209]

You are a very kind and genuine person. Your heart is always open to your animals. You give them there best life forever long you have them. May you find some peace in the beautiful memories you have of them. 🙏🙏

[@Rosietoes65]

Lee you gave both of them the best life they could ever hope for. It's so hard when we lose someone we love, but please try and remember you made their lives wonderful and I truly believe you will one day see them again.

[@nancyp.3743]

Lee Asher - The day, many years from now, when you pass over there will be a stampede of immeasurable joy coming right at you….to welcome you home. 🌈 Peace to you and your amazing heart.

[@rebeccacroft1203]

What lovely sentiments Nancy. I’m sure Lee appreciated it! …..A stampede for sure!!!♥️

[@dorothysay8327]

Yes!! Yes yes yes. This is the TRUTH. !!!

[@mereej8924]

oh that is so beautiful it makes me cry...

[@lurindacoates5625]

This is absolutely true 💕💕

[@lethiapage4767]

Amen.

[@annamack5823]

"Pain is the price God puts on all things." Lee should remember his own words: "Even if I have my heart broken 50 times, I've still saved 50 lives."

[@patriciariller3020]

You gave them A life of such love and happiness. You're doing the Lords work. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!🙏💕

[@psa7211]

Isn't that the truth. The lives saved is worth more that the pain of the loss. There is all the joy in the doing. But the loss still hurts

[@sandraschofield9520]

God doesn’t put pain on us.. he may allow it for our growth.. but doesn’t put it on us. The enemy comes to steal and destroy.. but I ( Jesus) have come to give you life and life more abundantly ✝️❤️👑🔥🙏

[@laur83]

it’s endlessly noble and selfless what he does. of course it’s amazing to live with loads of dogs and know that you’ve rescued them and saved their lives, but along with that, to have to lose them eventually as well, i don’t know if i could endure that pain time and time again as this man has. yet he continues to rescue doggos. bless him ❤

[@sukichi332]

Give this man a medal, he’s the real thing, his love of dogs shines through him

[@marutagruer6944]

Absolutely agree.

[@marutagruer6944]

You were GIVEN this path cause you are ment to help these animals.

[@nessy2000]

He already has many medals, his animals and their love. There is no better recognition in the world!

[@trudiewessels9562]

I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember you give these animals a second chance in life. Thank you for being their guardian angel

[@jeng8401]

You have such a big heart. It just shows how empathetic you are. Take your time to grieve and take care of yourself first. You're an amazing fur Dad who is needed in the world.

[@justmepraying]

Amen 🙏

[@SandrineMuller]

Dear Lee.. Did you see how your babies are stressed out when you are crying ? They are here to support you and give you all their love. Xena gave you kisses. They are all so grateful that you saved their lives. I am so grateful that you saved their lives. We are all so gra and thankful that you exist Lee. You are an angel. God bless you ❤️😇🙏

[@jeno264]

😭😭😭💖💖💖

[@shaw5641]

I think that's the most beautiful thing anyone could say, "...so grateful and thankful you exist..." and its the truth. 🥰

[@Babesinthewood97]

They want to comfort him. It’s not necessarily stressing them out. Crying must be tolerated.

[@justmepraying]

Amen yes

[@sherrykiskunas3601]

The dogs are responding to his pain. That's the wonderful thing about animals, we feed off of their pain being alone in a shelter, they are just feeding off of his pain. It's a beautiful thing ❤️

[@elizabethstolle1793]

Never apologize for your immense empathy ❤️❤️❤️

[@elliegould9613]

Oh Lee! I'm so very, very sorry. Remember how happy you made these dogs when you rescued them. Then remember that becuz of you they have an even happier place to be now. Think of how much you helped them. You have such a tender heart that I just love. I want to send you many, many BIG hugs and tell you you are well loved from all of us. Never apologize for sharing your pain. You need to do that. You have tons of wonderful memories to hold on to and review whenever you feel the need.

[@karanfield4229]

The flip side to being such a compassionate person, is that you will feel loss deeply. You make such a difference. The ripple effect. We appreciate you very much.

[@charlenecrouse9929]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@evelyncortez8643]

Beautifully stated. 🤧🤟🌌

[@ma797]

Exactly! Empathy is hard.

[@shaunaanderson7387]

"I couldn't save them" Lee, YOU DID SAVE THEM!!! You showed and made them feel a love they never felt before. They were warm, happy and ever so loved! YOU did that Lee Asher! YOU DID THAT!!!

[@kimlast7968]

Well said 👍👍👍👍 Blessings to you

[@rneustel388]

Agreed with many tears 😭

[@shaunaanderson7387]

Blessing unto you all as well! Lee Asher is an amazing man and he needs to hear it and know it! He has a genuine love for animals and is clearly amazing with dogs/animals. This man was meant to save the lives of animals that need it the most!!! Have an amazing day everyone!

[@joanhaselman444]

YES!!

[@fabiennefappani9531]

The love you have for your animals is very strong and God knows it. He also puts young animals on your path so that they know love before joining him. Don't blame yourself, you loved them and that's what they wanted. Each of us has a moment to spend on earth, more or less long, and the main and most important thing in life is to know love, the joy of loving. Keep doing what you're doing, it's your life, it's your path and you're doing it very well. I send you lots of love and light to continue it. God is with you !!!

[@JJ9er]

I can't believe it took me this long to find your channel. My son had me watch one of your videos for the first time in September, and now my wife and I watch your content all the time. Watched the video for Janey two days ago and couldn't stop the tears from coming. I know you hear this all the time, but I just wanted to say that I have the utmost respect and love for you and all you do for every amazing pup and animal who comes your way. Thank you for sharing it all with us and being so open to the world with your heart and emotions, brother. You're in my prayers, man.

[@abbye8482]

The dogs that are trying to get your attention when welling up, they are saying "Look Dad! We are still here! We need you and we love you!" Lee, we humans love you too. I'm so sorry.

[@nikkorain680]

The Circle of Life. Never quit. The last days, weeks, months, years you gave them was ALL love . They will be chatting up the wonderful Asher House beyond the rainbow bridge. Well done .....

[@cynthiawashburn771]

❤🤗❤🤗❤

[@brendapeterson1956]

Well said!

[@kellyroberts7268]

Word up!!!!

[@cecelialistowski7686]

Lee they had a happy life with you. You save them from being lonely you save them from being pain and pain you gave them love they passed away was love. Please think positive I feel your pain but you had to think that you gave them love they were would never have if they never met you. I gotta keep you in my prayers and I will always pray for you so you don’t have to deal with all that pain yourself.

[@lisearmour261]

You gave them such a fine quality of life. A much better life than before you met them. They went to heaven happy

[@manguscarpenter9519]

I feel your pain. I saved a dog 8 months old after being his on interstate. Spent $8K putting him back together. He was my protector..friend... companion... my family. He died 13 yrs later and it's been 3 yrs and I still cry. I miss and love him. If it wasn't for people like us they'd have no happy ever after. You've given them a life no matter how short. Thank you for being that wonderful person. They all need you. Blessings.

[@Gaylen2200]

So very true! There will be wonderful blessings for loving and caring for God’s creatures, you will be rewarded for the love you shared.

[@FJDP924]

I would rather have two years of love than 75 without it.

[@MikeySkywalker]

Georgie Carlin once said they having a dog is like adopting a guaranteed tragedy. What he didn’t say, is, it’s worth it for all the joy they give us along the way.

[@janethensel9667]

Lee, how long was River with you to be blessed with such a great final pack life?

[@joanhaselman444]

Amen

[@ellencerevic5126]

I’m sorry for your lost. It’s never easy to lose the ones we love. I have a small rescue we have lost 25 dogs/cats over the last 20 years. We have 15 right now. Every month we have a lost of someone we will always love them. But that’s ok we take in the ones no one wants. The blind- the deaf, heart problems- 3 legged. But we love each everyone for every how long god gives them to us. We try to take the pain away from what ever they went through. All we can do is love them every day & every minute. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lizkrafft4343]

Bless you! I wish I could rescue, I would do the same. Blessings to you. 🙌 🙏🏻

[@karenhardy7964]

It is the hardest thing for me to deal with; saying goodbye to a selfless, loving, giving animal. I know God has them in heaven. People have died, and have seen the animals , awaiting us. This world is temporary, and difficult. The corruption must pass into the incorruptible and eternal. Animals are innocents and will be in the presence of the Creator. We must make that choice. 🕊

[@saskiahuisintveld1007]

I had a dog like River. Her name was Blanca. We adopted her at 9 years old. The moment I met her, we connected. She became my soul mate in an instant. She lived with us for 2,5 months. 2,5 months of freedom. And than she died. It broke my heart. But because Blanca opened my heart, I adopted two new dogs. R.I.P. Blanca♥️

[@stanky6261973]

RIP, Blanca.

[@22mattbaer]

I am a 42 year old retired Army veteran. Death is a very difficult truth for most people but the truth is death is as much apart of life as anything else. And you're giving so many dogs a great life. You've earned so much respect.

[@jacobfoster9185]

Well said Brother. He keeps saying he has a lot of animals..I had a lot of Brother Devil Dogs and I was closer to some than others but I feel the weight of each and every one of their deaths. Especially because they were all better men than me..and even the 4 who came home with me..3 have killed hemselves and all because of the same failure in Afghanistan. Sorry off topic. I just meant to say I understand losing Brothers and knowing you'll lose more. I hope that you and those you care for are happy, healthy, and safe... even though you're Army. LOL SEMPER FIDELIS

[@KS-bl11111]

Genuinely. Thank you for your service.

[@bonniemiller4041]

Really good advice!

[@bonniemiller4041]

I am so sorry for ALL of your losses. Wars are the worst. Afghanistan should have been a success story. Sadly, it was not, and the way that we exited that country is a stain on our country. Thank you for your service.

[@jacobfoster9185]

@Bonnie Miller God bless you. I don't deserve your thanks..every single brother I lost on the last day was a better man than myself. I failed. The whole village was lost including the priest and nuns but most importantly the kids who were targeted simply because they were taught by the missionaries to read. Don't misunderstand I AM grateful for the opportunity to see my miracle of a Daughter grow up but it also reminds me of Anahita who at 8 years old I couldn't save. I carried her for over 24 hours but wasn't fast enough. Sorry for sharing but it's easier not knowing you. I pray that you and those you care for are happy, healthy, and safe. Semper Fidelis P.S. it WASN'T the Afgani but Russian paid "men" from Pakistan. I apologize for any words that are out of context or poor punctuation and misspellings I lost my hand in Afghanistan so now I dictate rather than type and the program is not perfect. Hold close those you love. I know they're blessed by your presence. Take care.

[@michele6873]

Any person who has deeply loved a pet understands your grief. I only recently found your site, but want to thank you for sharing the beautiful life you're creating for yourself and your animals. The first video I saw was of Mildred. I was so moved by how you immediately took her under your wings and nurtured her. I have shared her story, and the update, with others. May the joy and love you've bestowed on your pets be returned to you ten-fold.

[@kaybutterbaugh9179]

You have been the best friend to these beautiful soles, dogs, calf’s, birds, etc. you have given them a beautiful forever home, and rescued them from a cage. You have shown them unconditional love, and given them a piece of happiness they would not have ever had. We ( my husband and I ) have rescued 3 cats and 3 dogs in the 32 years we have been together. Remember all the good.

[@shell150675]

Lee, you have NOTHING to apologise for. You give your animals the best life when you share your home with them. Know that River and Stubbs were happy and loved you very much. You could not have done anything more for them.

[@desireeray4765]

Exactly 💯% what I said, he gives them the MOST beautiful life, love and home that I just adore him. God bless him! If everyone had a heart like his what a wonderful workd this would be!

[@shirleywashington4969]

God Bless You… and give You the strength to continue to do All You do for these animals…and when these times come, and they will,be grateful for the unseen friends who are there to listen and support You… much ❤️ to You….

[@sharonb4135]

"Compound Grief" Dear Lee, After many years of volunteering with hospice patients, combined with losing friends, family and beloved pets, I experienced what you may be describing. Each death and loss became increasingly painful and my grief grew more profound. I finally shared my emotions with one of our hospice bereavement counselors. He taught me the concept of "Compound Grief," and that what I was feeling is commonly experienced by those who lose many loved ones. I empathize deeply with you and hope you may be open to considering talking with someone trained in the area of bereavement counseling. Non-profit hospices typically offer bereavement counseling to anyone in their community at no charge, regardless of whether the lost loved one(s) are people and/or animals, and regardless of whether the lost loved one was served by the hospice. Peace & Love to you, and all the beautiful spirits connected to the Asher House.

[@edrabogucki401]

@Sharon B • You are SO right! 😢💔🙏🏻

[@deborahs2593]

Oh my, you're so right. The sorrows pile up over time. Eventually I found the way for me was to stop fighting or avoiding the losses. It sucks. Feeling the hurt is a wrench. But there's peace to be found by going with it.

[@laurens5909]

I mentioned your name in my comment, but have no idea how to tag you or make reference so that others can easily find your comment. 🫤 🙂💕✌️

[@NYKeyWordz]

Thank you for sharing that 💖

[@dizzledazzle9709]

Good and valuable info. I didn't know this. I definitely struggle more with grief of pet loss more now as I get older. World is so unstable, scary and life in general is so much sadder. Loss of a pet is just too much to bear. I can't imagine the utter torture of losing a child. But for those who don't have kids, pets are our best mates. We assume we'll have them for many years. Sadly there's no promise of forever.

[@patricianyiri8879]

Lee you have given all these fur babies a great life with lots of Love and Care . May God bless you for being soooooo kind!!!!!!🕊🐱🐈🐩🐶🐕🐎😇👵

[@kleinds1961]

They are there with you looking over you thinking how grateful they are to you for your love and care. They will never leave you where ever you go.❤ They love you and so do I thank you for what you do.

[@makikomi]

I just love this quote from author Dean Koontz: "“Dogs, lives are short, too short, but you know that going in. You know the pain is coming, you're going to lose a dog, and there's going to be great anguish, so you live fully in the moment with her, never fail to share her joy or delight in her innocence, because you can't support the illusion that a dog can be your lifelong companion. There's such beauty in the hard honesty of that, in accepting and giving love while always aware that it comes with an unbearable price. Maybe loving dogs is a way we do penance for all the other illusions we allow ourselves and the mistakes we make because of those illusions.”

[@cassynicole7615]

My favorite author for many years.

[@carolinechew9155]

Thankyou for sharing that.

[@FraFra1990]

Thank you for this beautiful quote

[@bluiz9648]

Beautiful! Thanks for sharing 😊

[@elishianneclark8896]

So well said... They are so worth the grief, but it sucks!!!

[@Maria-og8sd]

Whenever you feel the pain of losing one of your animals, remember that they were able to live their best life because of you! You saved them, loved them, took care of them, you gave them a family and you gave them yourself. They were able to live happy lives, short or long, because of you!

[@gloriathornton9124]

Lee, River is chasing birds in Paradise... and little Stubs is grazing in Paradise on Eternal Living Grass now. Their Souls are Eternal and still hanging out with their brothers and sisters but You WILL Be With Them Again. What A Party It Will BE, All Your Babies Will Rejoice With You... Hugs and Love from Across The State Line. If ever in SE Washington State, during a rescue or mission, come by Benton City Farm, JT Farms off Hwy 225, we will feed you and your babies and send you home! Okay edit here... Lee, your compassion level, is just off the charts. You ARE The Gift That Keeps Giving. Let All Your Memories, let them Heal Your Heart, WHAT You Are Doing IS Right.

[@KS-bl11111]

I rescue small animals, and this video was monumental to me. I give all my adoptees the best of everything (medical assistance, best food, enclosures etc etc. When they pass I cry like I've never cried before out of guilt for "not doing enough". THANK YOU FOR YOUR VULNERABILITY ...rescue isn't clear cut happy endings. We just want them to have the best life in the interim.

[@joanhaselman444]

Thank you for all you are doing, too!

[@paintworthyinmi]

“Sometimes we don’t want to heal, because the pain is the last link to what we’ve lost” JM Storm It’s okay to feel this, it means you’ve loved greatly. It’s okay to be real. Much love and peace to you.

[@lianemarcus6392]

Just saw this reply, it is absolutely true and feel this after losing my beloved dog a year ago. Yes, almost afraid to let go of the grief because it is my link to him.

[@pksmith1275]

@@lianemarcus6392 When you are ready, replace the grief with good memories which are also a link to your dog. Life will be much sweeter. Peace and happiness to you:)

[@missybelmont9830]

Omg, I grieved for 7 years, you are so right!!!!

[@lorileeolmsted3869]

“Sometimes we don’t want to heal, because the pain is the last link to what we’ve lost” JM Storm. I understand that, and it’s okay for the very short term, but staying in that place of mind isn’t healthy. At some point you have to get beyond it,so you can get to the happier place of mind, where we can ENJOY reminiscing about them, telling great stories about them, and allowing ourselves to continue to love them. There’s always going to be that ache of missing their presence in our lives. I have found that what works best for me, when I’ve had to face the hardest part of being a pet parent, is to remember that at that point in their life they are suffering. Often times they have been suffering much longer than we know, because dogs especially are great at masking their own suffering in our presence. So when I know that their pain is that which is not medically able to come back from, whether due to age or illness, it’s not only my job as the parent to fix this, but out of love and duty as their best friend, to help them over to a place where they will no longer be suffering. It’s the most selfless act of love that I can ever do for my best friend. Every one of my kids is still with me spiritually. Sometimes I can feel them with me, or swear I suddenly hear their voice, and when this happens I am filled with warmth, happiness, and gratitude for the time we had together, for them choosing me to be their special person.

[@erinsue5]

@@lorileeolmsted3869 thank you for this comment. You have made me finally realize it is time to let the pain go. You have no clue how you just helped me. Thank you and bless you!!!!

[@gagags1115]

Never apologize for hurting and grieving the loss of these little souls you rescue. You’re a lovely human being.

[@jackieskaggs1767]

My heart and love are with you Lee. You have such a big heart. Your animals know that and receive your love. God bless you in this pain.

[@KawaiiyukihanaSmiles]

With all of our love and prayers, my family and I are crying with you. We love you and all that you do. Our deepest condolences…please know you have an entire community to lean on.

[@summerishere3124]

I think that all anyone wants at the end of their life is to know they mattered and they were loved. what a beautiful gift you have given them. ❤

[@TJ-bn2cn]

❤️❤️❤️

[@timmyshundesalon1979]

Please dont apoligise Big Guy., your an Angel and the world needs so many more Lee´s...I have lost many "Animals" in my life too and I can feel your pain.....wasn,t planing to cry tonight but did with you....My prayers, thoughts and best wishes are with you...

[@user-dx8dq9qv4k]

Dude, never apologize for showing and sharing your emotions. You do an amazingly beautiful job but also a hard. You do you bro ❤

[@mercy229]

I am so sorry for your loss! I am so honored you chose to open your heart that is holding so much sorrow with me, “us”. I pray Gods peace be with you. You have such a heart of gold. Hugs my friend, hugs.

[@DRCHuntersBlueflame1674]

For those of us that have been following you for awhile, your loss, is our loss. Your pain, is our pain. Your sadness, is our sadness. We just have to remember that being around so much life we are bound to be faced with just as much loss. No matter what, we are family and together we can fight through anything. Just keep saving those angels.

[@alifeintransition9782]

Well said Daniel!

[@joanhaselman444]

Amen, Lee, you heal so many human hearts, as well as make the lives of these wonderful animals so very happy. God Bless you and Bless you!

[@VitalityMassage]

Lee you are so strong to do what you do. I lost my beautiful golden. Her name was Chakra. I cry at her grave. Losing just one dog almost killed me. She was my everything.

[@dean9235]

Sorry for your loss. Animals are better than people.

[@justmepraying]

@@dean9235 yes indeed they are I believe God shows us how to love through animals because they love unconditional ❤

[@dean9235]

@@justmepraying yes we have much to learn but a lot of religious people turn his word around and use it as a way of abusing the animals. Examples are they are for our use (used and abused in anyway they see fit). We have command over them (used and abused in anyway they see fit). We are here to govern them (used and abused in anyway they see fit). Another example is a Christian safari company that organise trips to shoot elephants and all of the other beautiful creatures and they think it's ok because they manipulate the Bible's words.

[@justmepraying]

@@dean9235 God gives us the opportunity and freedom to love everything and everyone it's just us humans that mess everything up 😢

[@dean9235]

@@justmepraying or manipulate his words.

[@user-px1hk9ku1m]

Im so sorry Lee, it know it hurts so bad. When our love is so deep , so is our pain ....we pause, we remember, we heal and we do it over and over again. God Bless you with comfort on these days of loss for all the love you give so freely. We get to love them Lee...that's all I can say. Keep on Loving and they love you back unconditionally. You make their lives so beautiful and love them all in ways they've never known. Keep on Loving 💜 💜 We love You!!!

[@susanwall6103]

We have to remember what we did to change their lives while they were here. I know you will never stop, I know I wont. 💕🐾 thank you.

[@cindypalmer10]

Don’t ever be sorry for being so real and loving your best friends so much. So sorry for the loss of Stubs and River…and all of your losses. Your babies are all so blessed to have you. The world needs more humans like you. Thanks for sharing your heart. 🙏♥️

[@kittyk.klandasions7008]

And dont forget his BELOVED BEAUTIFUL STELLA 😢💔💖💖💔

[@cindypalmer10]

@@kittyk.klandasions7008 I’m a new follower. Didn’t know about Stella 🥲 So sad.

[@meredithgies9080]

I 100% agree.

[@nickic8759]

Lee, i lost my little friend this week too. They are not in pain or suffering, it is those of us left behind that feel the pain of the loss. It has helped me over the years to recognise that simply because someone can't be seen in the physical, does not mean they are not still with us....guiding us to help others, sending us love. I talk to all of my animals (visible and not) every day. Keep singing to Sammy, talking to River and thinking of Stubbs as you are cuddling the ones that you can see. It hurts like hell but you will prevail and transmute this energy into changing the lives of more little ones. Death is not the end. Love you Lee. ❤ xxxx

[@waltervega8730]

Thank you for this comment! I so believe in what you're saying! My Chihuahua passed away 3 years ago and i still sense her and feel her. She comes to me in my dreams and i feel her laying next to me in my sleep at times. I wake up crying, but it's more of a happy cry because I know she's still here with me.

[@nickic8759]

@@waltervega8730 100%! It sounds like a twee belief but I truly feel them around me too. The irony is the sooner you let go of your loss, the sooner you feel them around you again. Energy cannot be destroyed after all so…🤷🏽‍♀️ Sending you so much love ❤️

[@pointblankperiod8310]

Lee, I completely understand your grief and utter heartbreak you feel every time you lose one of your fur babies!!! I've felt the same exact way when I lost mine too and the hurt never leaves your heart because they were and always will be so loved and cherished!!! Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and just know that you have so many people who understand and support you, always....sending you lots of love and hugs❤❤❤

[@coreencasey5109]

Your doing the most therapeutic thing by talking about your grief and not bottling it up Lee. Your an amazing human being and if everyone could be like you the world would be a perfect place. ❤

[@mellodeedavis2098]

It’s so hard to loose a friend, especially the 4 legged ones. They show unconditional love! Sorry for you loss.

[@dranderson6071]

They show unconditional love because we treat them better than we do our fellow men. Feed them, protect them clean up after them , love them. Nobodies in a rush to force their dog to grow up fast. But children get rushed. If we start treating each other better maybe things will get better

[@michelemcdermott75]

Please don’t apologize- we are with you for all the rescues-happy times and we are with you for the sad times. All I can say is my heart hurts for you. 💔 I don’t have any words to sooth your hurt. I wish I did.

[@naomiarram5187]

Well said

[@sueczerniak1266]

Sometimes, there just are no words.

[@user-cr7tv8rq1z]

Lee, never apologise for loving these dogs. I feel your pain as I have lost 3 wonderful dogs, my heart broke each time I lost one, because of the pain I said i would never have another dog, then I missed the love they give you so much I went through it all again and again. Their love for their owners is so special It makes it all so special. that's why we go through all the pain, in the end we know we have given them the best life they could have. Please don't ever give up the sanctuary because the animals need you. Much love.

[@annagotthardt]

Lee, I know this was posted several months ago, but I was too emotional to respond at the time. Watching this again, I want so badly to wrap my arms around you to draw the hurt from your heart into me and to reassure you that you are doing the very best that anyone can. Since you made this video, you've rescued so many lost souls that now have a daddy that will do everything he possibly can to ensure the rest of their lives are the very best they can be. The changes I've seen in Matilda and Rocky are nothing less than miraculous. Your love for them eases the pain in my heart and has me checking in several times a day to see how you and your babies are doing. God bless you and the Asher House.

[@tomw7797]

Grief is the price we pay for love. I’ve been rescuing animals for many years and losing them never gets any easier. All we can do is remember why we do what we do

[@Darkangel-hy8ev]

This man is breaking my heart, i wish i was there to just give him a hug!

[@naudianeels1328]

I know. Can't stop crying 💔☹️😞

[@cecelialistowski7686]

You love your animals that’s all that matters that you love your animals. I can see that you love your animals and I love you for loving your animals. My heart goes out to your big time when you’re in pain.

[@SWB6]

@Cecilia Listowski when you arrive at heaven's gate, the stampede of canine love will hit you like nothing you've ever experienced. God bless.

[@GM-jw2gq]

I cried listening to this. I feel like I've know your girls and boys too. I too have lost 6 animals in my life and I always say I won't get another, but God tells me different. There is always someone to be saved and loved. Just like us human beings. I hope you do read this Lee. I love all you and your family do for these special souls. ❤

[@pamb2734]

I loved River and I always found myself looking for him, I even commented about seeing him! River always looked like he was happy and that’s because he knew you loved him! You took him in to give him an opportunity to live out his best life, I think he did! In spite of his illness you gave him a chance for happiness! He was a beautiful baby, thank you for loving him so much! You do not need to apologize for loving your babies!

[@elizzy8754]

River was definitely happy. Look at the shot of him down at the water trying to "eat" the waterfall. River was loving every minute with Lee and the pack.

[@bbrown9381]

Please never apologize for your sensitivity, authenticity, or emotions. You did save them...you gave them unconditional love & sanctuary. It sucks that joy & sorrow are a package deal, can't have one without the other. To feel things so deeply comes at a cost. Thank you for having the courage to share your struggles. Please allow yourself the time & space to grieve. Take care Lee.

[@kimhaveman3628]

River and Stubbs were sooo loved! They knew that joy of having someone love them unconditionally! You are an amazing person! I have lost my best friends and there is nothing worse. You have the biggest heart!

[@cindyneeper]

I have the remains of my animals in rock shaped urns out in my garden. Even after 20 years I still miss my friends.

[@maryjohnson3947]

You honor them so much with your love.

[@marimuller9530]

What you need is a lovely lady to also give you love and back you when you are feeling down. There is nothing more beautiful in life than 2 people helping each other going through loss. You deserve it!!❤❤❤❤

[@andydufresne5297]

C.S. Lewis was right: "The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before. That's the deal.” (This was in reference to the death of his wife Joy, who died of cancer 4 years after they fell in love and married.) What he meant was, the price you pay for experiencing happiness with someone now is the pain you suffer when they are gone. Thank you for the work you do, Lee. Know that you make a difference, not just to your animals, but to so many of us who follow your videos.

[@littlepixieme1]

What is grief, if not love persevering?

[@mellvee]

@@littlepixieme1 I really love that. I've lost so many human loved ones in the last few years, and I've been given a ton of platitudes and advice, meant to offer comfort. Your comment is the most profoundly apropos statement I've ever read, and I appreciate it so much. I know what loss is, and I know that I'm only a heartbeat away from another one. I have a senior dog that is the furry love of my life. He has tracheal collapse and degenerative disc disease, so we're just keeping him as comfy as possible and tryin to prolong a high quality of life as long as we can. He's in good shape most of the time right now and we can definitely say he's healthy and happy more often than not, for today. That's temporary, though, and the day will arrive where we have to make the decision that will take him from me permanently. I can barely stand to even think about that right now, but I'm trying my best to prepare myself - I know you can't ever really prepare for your heart to be broken, but I'm trying to get used to the idea while he's still here. Thank you so much for your comment. I will remember this when the time comes to walk my little man to the rainbow bridge and let him go so he can cross it. Thank you. 💙

[@maryzambrana7141]

I surely hope that Lee reads and rereads the quote from C. S. Lewis. So very profound. Lee's video is one of the most tender, sharing his very deep pain. Most of us have lost a pet, friend, relative , etc. Tears our souls up. Lee's follow up video is something to see. 🤗🐾

[@avanellehansen4525]

Yes. Grief is the price of love

[@alisoncasinelli565]

What a heart he has. ❤💓💗😭🙏

[@kittyk.klandasions7008]

PLEASE CONTINUE TO VENT TO US LEE WE ARE PART OF THE ASHER FAMILY TOO!! AND WE ARE HERE FOR YOU HERE TO FEEL UR PAIN AND YOUR JOYS WITH YOU!! THANKYOU 💖💖💖

[@lisalbseiso4629]

❤️❤️❤️

[@rox9831]

I agree with you. I have rescued horses, llamas, donkeys and dogs and cats. I've done this for 35 years. It is hard every time. You have to allow yourself to grieve each time and work on not blaming yourself. Remember the life you gave them. Know that you will be united with them some day. You my friend will have masses of fur family greeting you on the other side. Remember that when you are down. Be easy on yourself, you grieve hard because you love so hard. Good bless you and all that you do❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@heatherburrell]

Perfectly said. Thankyou for being a hero for those you've rescued 💖

[@brendamodrell904]

Lee you’re a wonderful person to take in all these animals. Your doing a great job I only wish I could do it. I wish animals could live as long as we could. Please take it easy they all know your trying to help them . Try & take it easy sending big hugs to help with your sorrow. We’re here for you. ❤️❤️❤️

[@kassiealbertin1061]

It's never easy losing fur kids, I'm still grieving the loss of two of my corgi's that we had to put down last year. I miss them every day!

[@peggynulsen1365]

We lost our two Pembrokes at the end of 2020...officially making it the worst year ever. The hole in your soul after the loss of beloved pets is unlike any other kind of loss. Even though we have new dogs in our life, whom we love very much, they are not replacements for those two Corgi Clowns. But Lee, those of us who have a passion for dogs (or any other animal family member), we always have room to love again after loss. And yes it does get harder as we age , the crushing sadness can seem unending. For myself, I try to turn that sadness energy into loving another energy. Rescue people ask a great deal of themselves and sometimes I am sure losing one of your fur babies , for whatever reason, can cause you to question your chosen path. Grieve fully, dear man. Then turn to the rest of them in love and know you have chosen your path wisely and have many supporters as proof.

[@anaschulz8084]

You don’t have to apologize or explain how you feel. Anyone who has ever loved a very special fur baby understands exactly how you are feeling.

[@simplyme5381]

Never ever apologies for having a heart and caring! ❤

[@tracyorfield9251]

I've never wanted to hug another human being as much as I want to hold you right now. Lost my rescued baby in January and know exactly how you feel. So sorry for your loss.

[@sandragarcia-qv2or]

Mee Yoooooo 😢😢😢😢😢i m understand😢😢😢😢😢😢i m sorry❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@idkanymore6634]

grief is a reflection of love, you’re a good dude

[@karadiberlino]

💯💯💯💯💯 Best way to put it! ❤️

[@naudianeels1328]

Definitely 🙏💔💯😞🙏

[@sharongeeves6993]

Never apologise for feeling hurt. You gave River and Stubbs a much better life than they would have had if they weren't with you and the pack at Asher House. They knew they were loved whilst they were in your care. You are a very caring and wonderful person.

[@tahnihandal9328]

You are not alone. The rescuers and all of the compassionates are suffering terribly. Love 💗. Spiritual grounding. Thank you for helping this world.

[@jennifercronk4086]

We love your honesty and vulnerability

[@beverlywallace9187]

Unfortunately, the pain of loss is the price we pay for the joy of loving animals. I agree, it doesn't get easier, and in some ways that's a good thing. If it got easier, it could mean we didn't care as much. Please take comfort knowing you did your best for them and they knew your love. And your community is here for you. You have chosen a very difficult path, but it is so important.

[@orphu88]

Losing friends, especially best friends, is devastating. And the pain is the other side of becoming vulnerable and opening our hearts to the love and joy they provide. I hope the joyful life you're choosing balances out the loss.

[@briandoyle3507]

We understand your grief and pain.Just enjoy each and everyday you have with your beautiful friends.Treasure the wonderful memories.God bless.

[@Ms.L.]

Lee is an angel. 💜

[@lizcassettai7459]

I'm crying while hearing and seeing Lee in so much pain. He keeps saying sorry. He has nothing to say sorry for. I wish there was a way to make the loss of a loved pet not so unbearable. It doesn't matter how many times you go through it. It never gets easier. Only time lessons the pain. Rip Angels. xxx 😢😟💔

[@frugivorebear]

I have to imagine that the Cow goes to heaven and says "hey everyone. Earth is changing. I was born as a boy cow and I got to live an amazing life. Albeit short, I was loved and cared for and made so many friends". Peace be upon your heart.

[@debbiesmith4418]

Just seeing this today a year later and I rescued 369 dogs and I love them all. We lost a few too. I will always remember what my father told me. We never get over loosing them but we do get used to living with out them and we have to carry on and save more in their memory.

[@beccamaeowen]

Time is such a different concept between us and dogs, Lee. Your dogs value and cherish and are so thankful for the time they have with you and the great times for them have to be so much more monumental than their bad times ever were. I had a dog for only 9-10 months before he passed suddenly from a rare blood disorder. It still tears me up to talk about him. And it'd been 5 years. These videos are such a great "scrapbook" to be able to look back on. Grieving is okay. It's healthy. I know this video is from a year ago, but I hope you still see these comments. I admire your honesty and transparency with loss and tough times. I wish I could share that heavy grief with you to make it feel lighter. And boy do I wish I could do what you do!

[@caroline0515]

The important thing to remember when you lose an animal is that they were surrounded by love. If not for you they might have died in a shelter by themselves. With you they had a family and they had love, even if it doesn't last as long as you might wish PLEASE remember that. You are their joy and for how ever long it lasts that is all they care about. I firmly believe that and especially after they have been in a shelter environment, and they KNOW what it is like to be alone, when their time comes they are with family. You give them that.

[@mathildalaan]

So true! They know and it is never easy to lose a loved animal. He loves them so much

[@justmepraying]

Amen yes 🙏

[@rebeccaborn8314]

Loved what you said to Lee. Thank you ❤️

[@desireeray4765]

Yes! My sentiments exactly. Hugs to Lee. The world needs more like him!!

[@kbo991]

Lee: I feel your pain. I cried throughout the video. Please don't apologize. You gave them a home, love, and safety. Remember what your work means to these animals. If it weren't for you there would be no greater rescue. It is beautiful to see that you have a huge heart. Keeping you in my thoughts.

[@pamelamoroni8221]

You gave them the best life❤and they loved you so much. I’ve been crying right along with you. I lost my dog Abbie 6 years ago and I still think of her and miss her everyday❤

[@heatherburrell]

Even the most experienced and knowledgeable rescuers can't save every animal, no one is superhuman or able to prevent every situation with those on their care. You always try, always, and you love so hard. This is why it feels devastating after every loss, and every person who loves and cares goes through this. Thankyou for always being you, and loving and trying so much. Everyone needs time to grieve and get through loss. Those who have passed on leave their paw/hoof/clawprint in your heart, to be there as your guide forever.

[@gaz740]

Don't ever apologise for having feelings of loss. They are your children...even though we all know they are probably going to cross the rainbow bridge before us, it doesn't make the hurt or loss any less painful. All of us who are animal lovers know exactly how you are feeling Lee. If you weren't an animal lover you wouldn't feel this way and its so obvious how much love you have for each one of your family. We're with you buddy. X

[@czechraiser]

Dear Lee, I live overseas separated from my entire family and I have lost nearly all financially while having two maybe three strokes. I had six cats, all rescues, though now they are all in new homes while I try to recover. People like you are what give me hope in life; without you, each of those beautiful babies would never have experienced the joy and love you have provided. The pain you exhibit here is part of what makes you a beautiful person not just the animals you save but people like me in need of hope. thank you.

[@diane5908]

Gordon g, sending you good healing thoughts. Hope things get better for you very soon 🌹

[@sharlynejadyskico1240]

I crying with you Lee….I fée every single words you donne….

[@iluvsoho2]

Our pets go to Heaven to wait for us . Jesus said so.

[@melissahaire7058]

So very sorry for your loss!! Any loss is absolutely heartbreaking and emotional!! Doesn't matter how many animals you have at the sanctuary, they are all special and hold a precious place in your heart!! I am so, so sorry!!

[@lisacamden4340]

Lee God bless and keep you. We are all praying for you 🙏💙🌷

[@taragamblen1703]

Lee. I am literally crying listening to you and watching your pain. It's so real and anybody who says it gets easier doesn't understand. I've adopted seniors and had them for maybe 2-3 years, adopted ex-bait dogs that became big fluffy couch potatoes and lost and at 52, I've lost more than a few. It always hurts and I watch your channel all the time because it's so wonderful with what you do and the unconditional love you all have. I still feel the pain and loss up to 10 years later, so all I can say is the fact that you continue really shows the kind of person you are. I have pictures of all of them on my wall to remind me why I adopt and why I'll do it again.

[@kinley.-.]

You sound like a wonderful soul. I hope you continue to help animals and that you have many more years ahead of you

[@bobbymenon4057]

God bless you

[@francespeto3305]

Bless your wonderful soul. Great things happen to great people

[@mthoutt8177]

You a special human being ,and keep up the great work that you do 😇I look forward to seeing your videos.Your truly a blessing for all animals 💕

[@cantweallgetalong]

TY!

[@pamelatayler8881]

If only everyone in the world was as loving, as genuine and as decent as you are Lee. You are a Special Angel walking this Earth and spreading Love. Thankyou for being You and every Loving Thing you do ❤❤❤❤❤

[@jbayne7761]

You are an inspiration Lee, a positive force for good. I wish our babies could live forever too. Your sanctuary and you make a difference to the animals you help. I admire the commitment you have made, knowing that it comes with immense pain. Hang in there cause your amazing.

[@annew8365]

I don’t think there’s a right way to grieve, Lee. It’s important to acknowledge how you’re feeling. I’m so sorry that Stubbs and River passed away. I’m glad they got to experience your love and the love of your pack and that you experienced their love. It’s a lot of dogs and a lot of love and the physical absence of that love is difficult and painful, as you know. I often wish I were better at connecting with the love and presence that transcends the physical realm. I wish you comfort and I send you a big hug. RIP Stubbs and River and Sammy and Stella 💕🐄💕🐶💕🐶💕🐶

[@desireeray4765]

Wow, I love what you said as that's how I feel about connecting beyond the physical realm. I do feel it often. Could tell you stories that give you chills. Life goes on beyond this realm, but I'm so grateful for this like Lee who make this physical realm so much better for others. What a beautiful soul Lee has.

[@ttno2024]

If anyone could give them the best life and the best love - it would be YOU, at the Asher House!! You showed them what LOVE could be!! So keep doing it!!!! They need YOU!

[@suehart6399]

Most of us feel just like you do when we lose a family member and adopting any more just seems so hard.once we give ourselves some time to grieve😥 and that doesn't ever leave we some how manage to find love again in our hearts. So we go and find ourselves a new family member to love and cherish for as long as they want to stay with us . Your not alone Lee. ♥️♥️

[@kathconserv]

You do such an incredible thing for these animals. You’re an angel.