I'm tired of comparing myself

[@SimonB.]

Men insult each other and dont really mean it. Women compliment each other and don't mean it.

[@casemodder89]

there is nothing but truth in your statement ! 😎

[@boulevard14]

Agreed. But I find men don't insult each other much these days.

[@Hughmancase]

so true

[@metawolf987]

Truer words have never been said.

[@AdamOfCourse]

“Comparison is the thief of joy.” An all time great saying, and a necessary pillar to living a peaceful life in today’s day and age.

[@VladislavBabbitt]

Yes, I was just about to comment the same thing.

[@mauricebolanos4024]

I felt the same way the other day. I heard a quote saying "if you have time to compare yourself to other people you're not busy enough". I should be so wrapped up in my own life and busy learning new things or being productive I should spend 0 time on Instagram comparing myself to others

[@Eternal-ReTuning]

Exactly. Also taking care of others (including animals for example) is a good way to dissolve this comparing rat race.

[@Anthony51234]

I just wanna say no need to compare yourself. You're content is great and inspiring!

[@jerryma3644]

Why should you feel good about yourself? Be driven to be whoever you want to be.

[@benjaminmarjan207]

Hey Keira. Once again you have chosen a very interesting topic, could be analysed from so many different angles :D but I will try to keep it short. I think the only beneficial comparison we could (maybe even should do if we want to improve and become better) is to compare ourselves to our past self’s, to who we were yesterday, to see how we progressed. That’s the only comparison that matters, as everyone else has a different path, a different timeline compared to us. Obviously, this is increasingly hard, especially with social media where everyone is sharing the best moments of their lives and where we can daily, easily see into more people’s lives, then an average person could ever meet during their lives a 100 years ago… so increased exposure is part of the problem. For me it helped, I found it beneficial, to force myself into the perspective of people less fortunate than I’m, definitely reshapes my perception of things and helps me to be more grateful for what I have.

[@JSFGuy]

0:31 You compare yourself to your former self last year that year before and so on that is how it works.

[@BorisJovicic97]

Being yourself is the ultimate satisfaction and then you know you're at peace as well. Love the new hairstyles you've made in the last few videos! Keep doing that,it's gorgeous. 👋💝

[@josephmorgan2947]

Hi Keira, Just be who you naturally are. You seem like a kind, sincere, and genuine person, just go with it. You do you, let them do them. As the old saying goes, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Ironically maybe others are equally comparing themselves to you. Like the song, don't worry-be happy. ⚘️ Especially this time of year. Be self caring and pass it on with a smile, Merry and bright.

[@Bryan-wb7te]

Everyone has a unique personality, skills, and outword appearance that they bring to the world. Comparing someone on one single thing doesn’t paint the full picture. It's true that some people have it all - looks, intelligence, happiness, etc. - but they didn't have the same upbringing and opportunities as most people. Comparing to those people is a waste of time since they were dealt a different hand than you. Also, what brings one person happiness isn't the same for everyone. Just because someone has it all doesn't mean you have to necessarily get to their level to be happy, just do what makes you happy and you'll be just as happy as the people who seem to have it all.

[@OumaimaEt]

Thanks, Keira, for this video! I couldn't agree more! In the real world, I would love to have a friend like you! Keep embracing yourself ;)

[@kevinbautsch]

Don't compare. You are you. That's it. There is a lid for every pot!

[@michaelcedeno391]

The wise beautiful woman speaks again! And your topic is important to bring up. Comparing oneself to others is human nature to do so. The key is to know thy limits. At the same time, we can learn from others as well. I'm thinking the ultimate key is to have peace with yourself. And how to achieve that peace is subjective. The individual has to figure that out.

[@kevinhudson7813]

I think there are healthy ways you can compare yourself, it's just hard to pull it off. I'm a musician, and we definitely tend to make ourselves miserable comparing ourselves with each other. But when I shift my focus away from abstract concepts like fame and talent, I can start to focus on comparing us within the context of the craft. I ask questions like, "what did they do differently here that worked so well? Is that compatible with my style of playing? If not, what could I do differently that would achieve this overall effect, now that I know what could be done differently?" These questions born of comparison open me up to improve in ways I would have otherwise missed. I will never win an international competition, but I am glad international talents exist so I can steal their tricks!

[@camerongarcia1031]

There is no comparison each person has a purpose and no one can do it the same. What other people do doesn't matter. Know they self be they self. Humility destroys comparison.

[@jimmillhouse5912]

In this self-exalting culture we live in it’s important to ask yourself what is necessary and what is ego-based.

[@smiles7631]

But your one step ahead because your self aware. Don't forget that.

[@PenelopeRoosterville]

If I were a person, I would want to be better than everyone else.

[@campfiremusicbyaegf]

With what I went through since December 2013 when ufos invaded and beamed me up and blah blah blah examining room and all, I’m a different human and can say, at least I don’t look like a lizard! 🦎 or an alien 👽

[@user-vn3uq2lv7x]

Deep,but words to live by, great post!

[@MrJohnnyWheeler]

You will always be the best you there ever was. No one can be you like you can. The second you start to feel good about yourself, other people will pick you apart to tear you down so they can feel better about themselves. Just worry about being the authentic you.

[@unwantedk9147]

Comparing to other people is very common and often detrimental to my mental health. Its very difficult to stop, but being self aware is the first step. Excellent video. Love your hair ❤

[@goodgawdgertrude]

First of all- girl, yes. I wish I stopped comparing myself to other people. I’m getting older and the more I think about it, I compare my current self with my younger self. I was always really thin and growing up I always heard “you’re too skinny!” And now I’m the biggest I’ve ever been in my life. I look at younger, beautiful women and I go “they don’t know it yet but that’s probably the best they’ll look in their entire life.” I appreciate the little things and don’t things for granted. I’m sure the younger version of yourself is looking at you in the mirror now and going “wow! Look at me 😁” I try to make little me proud. That helps me focus on not comparing myself too much because someone else might be looking at YOU and comparing themselves negatively. You are gorgeous. If you don’t love yourself, how the HECK are you gonna love somebody else?! 😂

[@TotalFreedomTTT-pk9st]

Comparison is feedback - that is not necessarily bad - but you are right - it pretty quick becomes 'bad' - I think best to not do that - but also we need to produce more solutions for impediments to beauty or ownership or ? whatever the negative is - as usual if you don't solve bigger "living together" issues these little issues are unavoidable

[@Elmasterx0]

I'm in love with your hair, you look so beautiful, ❤ Great video

[@tromo03]

Pathetic Simp comment. And I highly doubt you actually watched her video clip. Dillweed 🙄

[@KDROzzz]

Wanting people to acknowledge the fact that you're right for feeling better than other people because you objectively are is different than telling people you're better than them without feeling like you are because someone else told you, you are.

[@JasmineHesse2001]

Sometimes I don’t even realise I’m comparing myself to people.😂

[@TotalFreedomTTT-pk9st]

I think there are basically two comparison's in play - one is manageable and the other is not -I see a nice shop or yard and mine is NOT so I CAN improve my shop or yard but I can't change my race or ethnic background - again - we can use Technology to remove the immutable issues - glasses for bad eye's - braces - hair coloring - etc etc

[@danmarquez3971]

No need to compare yourself with others; you are awesome. The only comparison, if you must do one, is with your previous self. Are you more cheerful today than last 10 years? That natters. Does it matter if others are better than you? Why?

[@ezemeza1363]

We as men also compare each other. We compare our cars, our stuff, our strength and our size of banana.

[@enjoywriting8207]

A quick 10-15 minute meditation can do wonders in terms of getting 'present'. It's a practice - you do it every day and it also becomes a good habit. I don't like to see Keira unhappy, no way.

[@user-tb4qg2mi4m]

By stating that "I don't compare myself to others, I am still making a comparison to the people I believe like to compare....So no way around it,we all do it.Just some more than others.What I do is avoid (outside of you tube)I don't get on Facebook, Instagram,whatever other forms of social media that shows what other people are doing.I just don't need to see what others are doing.There is even people who post phony pics of them at places that they never were just to make people believe their lives are more interesting than it really is,or more than others.Lol,it is insane,the need to 1"up" others and how people are so consumed by it.I just do me,and let the chips fall where they may....My life is nothing fancy,not at all.But I do have peace ,and that is priceless.....

[@dquanissavage6287]

Keira Lhotan Truly Such A Awesome Video Today!!🔥🐐🐐💎

[@danielmar99able]

We can only fully embrace ourselves when we embrace solitude. Alone is the only moment we get to know ourselves deeply, and it scares the hell out of people, so they rush and try to get company to run away from themselves.. but if you can accept solitude, if you have the courage to face yourself, then there's no need to compare youself with others.

[@hillcatrogers9086]

Comparison is the thief of joy.

[@WokeSpokes]

Compare yourself to yourself of yesterday.

[@joyxlibeau]

Don't compare with other junks. You are not junk. strong one.

[@Rishuu_Gujjar_0]

Must needed advice how you unlock those perspectives so clearly ☺️✌️ keep going cute ladyy love fromn🇮🇳

[@UmutUfuk-gj6cq]

nobody talks about the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki on Talesio but it’ll flip how you see everything

[@lordaedin7139]

Idk i have a different opinion on it. Comparison is the thief of joy but personally it has been a good thief. Keeps me focused to keep on working hard. Keeps me grounded

[@TylerRayMattersRUAC]

Makes me think of things. Like someone could get a lot of money. Then od on a bunch of drugs. In no reasoning.

[@TylerRayMattersRUAC]

Just hope the will didn't say od quickly.

[@TylerRayMattersRUAC]

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[@Ich-h1i]

My first get up from bad is not looking in the mirror, it's horrible!!!

[@midnightblue3285]

I think before comparing ourselfs with the others, one must know thy self, if you are blind to not to know yourself means inner self, comparing is doesn’t make Any sense, couse you are blind on that moment, spiritual eyes must open first and then the rest is inner work and study to know more about your self to enough after you can compare yourself easily and comparing is more make sense after..

[@lorensims4846]

Don't compare. You're the very best of the best, in my opinion. The very best you, at least so far…

[@amahazeleke4306]

I think everyone is strugle with this situation the cure is humbleness and looking who are in a bad situation or helping the poor,praying...it make sense 🤔

[@briansmith2836]

You are young, you will grow out of the comparison nonsense. It is natural for people to compare to others as it is part of our evolution, but as you get older you will find that you will spend far less time comparing to others and just focus on being you and doing your own thing. I didnt have social media as a kid so i think social media is a huge problem for younger people that us older people never had to deal with.

[@ChristopherWatermark]

I just found your channel and it's unbelievable how stupid I am. If I could go back in time, I wouldn't, because that would change the course of events and, let's be honest, I'm kinda a ridiculous fool for this beautiful Keira.

[@tromo03]

Being a stupid fool is exactly what you’ll become if you begin a journey of SIMPING after her. She is a confused, immature 24 year old college dropout who has ZERO life experience regarding the topics she’s posting about. Wake up man. Don’t get her twisted.

[@leechild4655]

We all do but some people focus on it too much. And right, seeing people doing everything online makes you think, why cant I do that, or everyone seems to be a whole lot better than me. I`m such a loser. Maybe thats sorta normal i dont know. I think seeing other people in whatever situation can be looked at as an example of what you could be, good or bad. I think people that are comfortable in their own skin are inspirational. Confidence is an attractive trait. Also, too confident or being co@ky is not attractive. Its a fine line there. I think people who are self-aware and say out loud what their flaws may be, self deprecating, are adored maybe by getting in front of something people may witnessabout you. Beat them to the insult. Its kind of funny too. Comedians are that way a lot of the time.

[@tobiaspeter6805]

Another argument to the video "men are simple (and woman complicated)"

[@GodsLove4Howeverlong]

Hey Gal ❤ I have compared myself to Elvis Presley since I could remember then Tony Hawk then Tony the Tiger I to want to be Grrr ate...❤

[@dark_Kaiba]

take a break from your phone for a couple days. Post your vids, get ur bag, get off the phone. Don’t read comments, emails, and dm’s with the excuse that it’s work. Take a break

[@ismadisupat7456]

Yea at present moment just stay here at You

[@bluewave7120]

This is why i don't pay attention to celebs

[@LeonardoSilva-i5n]

haahahahahahhaah wonderful Kiera, congratulations

[@truepremise2053]

To The Op, Be Confident. Be confident. Zeal

[@flashgordo9485]

All youngsters fall into that trap. He drives a better car, he gets all the hot chicks, hot chicks make me watch their purse at the mall. I need a better job, better pickup lines, better car. (Life isn't about that!) I don't feel jealous about other people's fortunes, and I don't care what others think of me. I care what God thinks of me, and that motivates me to improve myself- no matter what I'm going through. The Bible, and The Four Agreements- by Don Miguel Ruiz.

[@LeonardoSilva-i5n]

keira, im crazy ok, but 4 and 39 early in the morning, I remembered my first love and things changed a lot, I think I'm really going crazy, that's all it was worth

[@Marcus-rg7bg]

For me its hard to stay off internet. Interesting people are on internet. Drunks outside for me. 🤷‍♂️

[@martinaakervik]

Like Edward Hopper’s art? You’re good enough (even without looks) and pretty successful making this huge YT channel.

[@RegularPerson-n7x]

Please don't kill me for loving you so much

[@tromo03]

LOL. Well, that won’t happen and she couldn’t care less. One thing you did do, is embarrass yourself with your pathetic SIMP comment. Dillweed 🙄

[@vizihal]

girl think she is a yutuber, but just broadcasting a slow mentalbreakdown

[@tromo03]

Agreed.

[@WesterfellerDnB]

lmao she just being a girl thinking and speaking loud what she thinking its crazy she gets so much attention tho, but its cause she is really sweet eyed and her way of talking is so unique she is very emotional with her face talking also the way she talks is very nice i love her little breaks while talking

[@enjoywriting8207]

God help me, I'd forgotten about Keira - then she appeared in my feed. I'm glad.

[@tromo03]

Why are you “glad”?

[@enjoywriting8207]

@tromo03 Glad to be reminded ...

[@GoodieWithaHoodie]

You said Waman instead of women and I feel like it was on accident lol. It was funny

[@zooasnunch_sith22]

Yo sister i am a man and I get you even men do it

[@lycanx900]

I compare myself to the future me never to ppl

[@TOPGAKA]

When you are confused, ask yourself, why do you want to live in the eyes of others? Is your existence for others? Unless you are an NPC projected from the Lunar Matrix.😎

[@JasperBloodstone]

You found me and I hope you like that.

[@lorensims4846]

Better is good. Better than someone else is a loser game. It's nonsense.

[@LeonardoSilva-i5n]

frank sinatra and antonio carlos jobim ahuahuahahuahauh dear friend, gob bless you

[@infinityogateachers]

Then be okay with that to. You are beyond comparison anyway. 🥰

[@Searchingfortruth880]

Hard to focus with the difference in height between the hair on both sides :)

[@Jims-VanLife]

You worry too much. Read the book "Think and Grow Rich". Be a Sigma

[@DarrellHayward]

For of Keira needs to find a hobby to think about not space tho of one believe there bullshiting us about that 😊

[@darnelljones6607]

Okay why are you comparing yourself in the first place just be yourself

[@Saifmansour95]

It is easy to talk hard to implement

[@joshdaboss2365]

Eazyer said than dunn

[@JSFGuy]

Let's see how many claimants roll up.

[@sputnikone6281]

Happy Monday my friend, I claim Not to be First on here, so I won't be paying for the drinks.

[@JSFGuy]

@sputnikone6281 😁 Right one of those spam bot copy paste promoting terrorism did that. 🙋

[@fatalheart7382]

God made the ant as well as the eagle. They do not get lost in worrying about who they are. One was meant to be an ant. One was meant to be an eagle. And they enjoy their lives. What you must pursue is who you were meant to be. Because the thing that matters most isn't what experience, or possession, or achievement you get, but what God thought about the things that you did. He is the one you were made for and without Him you'll be incomplete. Nothing in this world matters more than who you become in His eyes. And, no matter what He has made you for, whether to be an ant or an eagle, being able to accept and live the best life in His purpose for who He made you to be is the only place you'll find peace. You have dreams, and dreams are good. You work hard, and work is right. But if you obtain the world and forget God, you'll also have forgotten yourself and life will be empty. Life is both from Him and for Him, and without Him, there is no life at all.

[@nisalk]

You are unique 😊

[@tromo03]

LOL. What specifically, is “unique” about her?

[@nisalk]

@ everyone is unique and it’s in gods timeline

[@georgephillips2600]

I always compare myself to Michael faraday and bill gates

[@EidoloniaMoonwings]

When compared to the 2nd most beautiful woman in the world, Keira, you are more beautiful.

[@BladeObssession]

Unfortunately I believe that women are more self conscious than men. A woman would definitely notice wrinkles or gray hairs before a man would. It does make sense though being as women judge their value on their looks which is sad but true.

[@TotalFreedomTTT-pk9st]

It is not too deep - it is vital - because this comparison issue has become worse - with young girls and boys altering their body parts because the innately sense value and again future survival based on looks - if they had a House early on - and skills to maintain it and a neighborhood of their 'people' - then beauty is icing on a Cake

[@dannyp6419]

ty'

[@ТимурВахромев]

Кира привет.ты похожа на Наталью Ростову ( Война и Мир. Лев Толстой.)❤❤

[@jaassil]

Keira… why women do this so often? I mean, I am a man. I dont remember the last time I did it.

[@drystkrab269]

What is your opinion on the Lily Philips situation?

[@JSFGuy]

No notice

[@neolovesworshipsthegoddess13]

Keira I'm So glad your doing great yeah don't compare yourself Because Everything about You Is Amazingly Beautiful For Real Keira I See You Did your magical Hair i Love it Like I Love You Keira I care sweet one You Won Keira Meow

[@Marcus-rg7bg]

Darn. On the phone.

[@roger2536]

Please talk About female psychology

[@tromo03]

Why in the world would you want her to do that? LOL. She’s an immature, confused 24 year old who is trying to figure out life. Confusing her male Simp audience about “female psychology” is about the LAST thing anyone would want her to do.

[@TotalFreedomTTT-pk9st]

Look in the Mirror in the Morning ! ?????? - are you insane ?! - Are you not supposed to be saying the complete opposite ? like the Mirror is that tool of measurement of the comparison - no ??? yes ???? - Some Amish do not have mirrors so they DON"T focus on looks - and get on with milking the cow or making a quilt - get to gym.... now !

[@tromo03]

Honestly, these videos are for you- you should record them and set them to Private so you can use them for your own self help and maturity. The public does not need to see this. These video clips are not intended for an audience.

[@jvt00278]

Let's talk about your trauma

[@tromo03]

@@jvt00278 LOL. Let’s talk about you posting like a jackass 🤪…

[@lorensims4846]

I would love to talk about this stuff with you personally, but that's just not possible. KZbin will have to do.

[@brunol9786]

Just read The Book of Ego by Osho and everything will be clearer

[@macurban7946]

These are the dumbness comments i have ever read in a comments section. wow

[@Mr.lightskin777]

You can't be compared

[@Kitofthearts]

I am not trying to be rude or disrespectful. Take the camera outside of the home for a different subject. It maybe helpful for you, to read up on Autism & Aspergers Syndrome?

[@JSFGuy]

1:09 stop the cap haha, no you just compared yourself to your former self as in the path of improvement and growth. Compare yourself to last year and the year before.

[@KingofKings-o5j]

God is not happy on what you feel right now. i will give you advise for you to have peace and for you to find what Gods plan for you. play some music random playlist on spotify or on radio. then talk to God/to your heart and i assure you that God is replying on your prayers using the lyrics of the song. you dont have to be so formal on your prayers. God is like us. he is cooler than what you think. you can talk to God like a friend. God loves us so much and he is always there for us. just give it a try and please help me to share it with others. lets help God to fullfil his plan to the world and for humanity. Godbless

[@Loth-n1v]

Comparing yourself to the mirror 😏

[@oliverfavalli1746]

Jjust stop, Keira. Don't take things personally. Nobody cares but you. Maybe if you find a great man, he'll do as much as you do-consciously-because he loves you