I’m way too comfortable

[@ChrisS733]

Margaret I will be 76 on Christmas Eve and I’m dreading it, another year older with more years behind me than ahead of me. I get scared and anxious. I’ve always been fit and strong but now find I can’t do what I did when I was 70. I’m very lucky I have a husband who is 72, he’s still fit. Make the most of your early 70’s because things change. I still drive the car but it terrifies me so I avoid it as much as possible. I have two young dogs and they keep me reasonably fit. I live in Cornwall, England and our King is also 76. The years have flown by since I reached 70. It’s lovely that you’ve got your kind sister Karen. My sister lives 200 miles away and I miss her. I love watching your videos, I lived in my son’s garage for 10 months when I was 53 and it was hard. I hope things will start moving again soon. Your patience is incredible x

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I do have twinges about time that I have left now that Squish is here. I get it.

[@WillowNook]

I bet it's beautiful there! I feel the way you do and I'm only 50 lol

[@cherylcampbell472]

I try to embrace my aging. How fortunate we are to be a part of each day we are here. I think of those who didn’t get the opportunity and it kicks my negative thoughts right out of my head. As for leaving a party, I’ve learned to be more in the background and cherish each hug goodbye. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Good outlook!

[@clionamm]

I'd never use my dish cloth to clean a spill on the floor, but only because I know how often I mop my floor! Lovely chat, as always 🙂

[@Spot4art]

I’m almost 74…blessed to have my husband of 53 yrs here. We never know what is around the next turn. 70 was the big number but thankfully I changed my eating, dropped 35 lbs and feel like I’m 20 yrs younger. Family is everything to us. We never had kids but we have 6 kids in our family to love. Our blessings are so many. Love your channel. Fellow Massachusetts citizens here.❤️🇺🇸

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

That’s wonderful, so happy for you and your husband.

[@royewith8925]

You are Great! You say what I feel. I’m 81 and in my mind I’m still 40. I love the story of your little granddaughter and her helmet. So sweet. She definitely has a crush on her neighbor. Keep up the good work. You are a joy to watch. 🥰🥰

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you so much!

[@karolynlove2796]

LOL on the space heater discovery!! That so sounds like what I might have done! Maintaining our sense of humor is essential at any age and I do laugh at myself quite a bit! I really have always looked at my age as "just a number", but as it creeps up every year (which, by the way I'm happy about!), I do think more about my mortality and not being here for my family. I also take care of my 2 great-grandsons about 1-2 times weekly. I love the time I get to spend with them and they do keep me feeling young...especially lifting them and going up and down stairs, sitting on the floor, playing, etc., etc. The oldest will be 3 in March and the youngest will be 1 at the end of January, so I'm kept pretty busy. Am I tired at the end of the day? Absolutely, but it's a good tired and I keep getting more physically fit as the time has gone on. I, also, get a little anxious at gatherings if there are people there I haven't met yet, but I also say goodbye to those that I do know before leaving and...yes, it takes me another half hour to get out the door! Oh, well, that extra few minutes I consider well spent! Sorry for being so chatty...I haven't been able to tune in for a bit and I'm so glad to be here tonight cause I enjoy chatting with you!! Take care!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

love your post. Sounds like life is good! Thanks for writing.

[@joanpotanko6351]

Hi Margaret, I am glad you are so happy. I was glad to hear your chat today. I always look so forward to listening to you. Take care and so proud of you and your great weight loss. ❤️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you so much!

[@MarchandP]

Hi Margaret, My sponge is only for the dishes and countertops. Paper towels for spills on the floor. You light up like a Christmas tree when talking about Squish! I can tell you are getting anxious for the house to get done, I don’t blame you for wanting to get settled. Congratulations on your new jean size! here in Margaret you seem like you would be a social butterfly! Enjoy your visit with your sisters. I sometimes just pop out and sometimes I tell all bye. As always I enjoy your talks! You stay well and enjoy your cooler weather, I’m so happy it’s finally getting cooler in Texas! ♥️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I have an alternative personality for different situations, I swear. It’s concerning sometimes! lol

[@JenMct-xi8xp]

🎉🎉🎉 on the Calendar!😂😂 on the coffee directions.. I call them my “ Shady Pines” moments .. lol. No big plans for thanksgiving, doing the turkey beast too! My grandson will be eating pizza lol. Still recouping from the horrible flu! Have a great week!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Glad you are recovering!

[@CarrieCollins-tq6vs]

Happy Sunday Margaret! You say what everyone else is thinking! Lol Hope progress starts back up soon but I love it that you are getting to stay with your sister. Hope you have a wonderful week!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I know. It’s a good thing, but I am looking forward to being in my own place.

[@r-anne7375]

Ooooooo I would never use a sponge from the sink for dishes on the floor !!!! 😲 A paper towel for that.

[@MIMI-D]

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT 😂 Sponges are nothing but bacteria spore spreaders .I have told my daughter a hundred times stop using sponges. I even had her smell it she still uses them. I even gave her dish rags. I know ppl keep them way too long. I wonder if they don’t know they are wiping that back on their dishes. 🤢 all those nooks and crannies

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

That’s probably smart!

[@amyfaith2350]

Yea, totally gross.

[@LynsAlteredArts]

Yep, paper towel for floor spills. Actually I don’t even have a sponge in my sink anymore. I had a whole big pack of those Scotch-Brite sponges and then I discovered Scrub Daddy and I haven’t used to regular sponge since.

[@jillfortune1790]

It's not killed me yet. Ooooooooo😮😅

[@lanajackson3730]

Margaret, I’ve been watching you for a yr. now & love your wit! I have been MIA for about 2 months with medical reasons. But, good news, my husband & I just got back from being in AZ. &. VA. Beautiful weather and peoples. I really missed my YT people. You look fabulous, keep up the good work! 👍🏻😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Welcome back. I’m glad you had a good time!

[@gretchenburns6729]

Thanks for the chat, I always look forward to your videos.❤

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Glad you enjoyed it.

[@BR-kk9qu]

I enjoyed this video. Thank you for always being authentic. You are a blessing! - Belinda

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thanks!

[@LynsAlteredArts]

I don’t really go to any social functions not that I have social anxiety, I’m just an introvert and people exhaust me, but usually I’ll just say a general goodbye waving to the room “bye guys I’m leaving” and that’s kind of it.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Covers all the bases!

[@willowgirl2635]

I tend to escape a function but I always thank the hosts before I do. I would never leave without thanking the person who invited me. My Mother would have had a conniption if I used the same sponge for floor and dishes. I noticed straight away that you had lost weight, well done. Love the slippers I use to knit them myself, they can be super slippery though on hardwood or vinyl floors.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I agree about the slippers. I won’t make any for Squish. It would be like watching her on a skating rink!

[@marinamiller1740]

Thank you for your post Margaret🥰 I enjoy my cuppa tea while you’re enjoying your cuppa tea, just like having a chat with a friend and neighbour, and it’s also interesting for me observing the traditions you have over Christmas, like making those calendars and knitting those slippers. Come February I’ll be 76, and though I’ve never looked my age, boy! since I turned 70 for some reason I have my moments😳 Here in Scotland our weather is only now turning cold and wintry, we’ve gotten used to having so much more rain all throughout the year than we ever had before. Sending love and best wishes, take good care of yourself💕💕💕

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thanks so much for sharing! I’ll join you for tea next week.

[@hollydemelo8201]

Congratulations on the calendar and your slippers are still my favorites! Regarding social interactions, you know how much I get it! At any gathering, I’ve always said goodbye to the hosts (Mom instilled that as good manners) and anyone else nearby I just kind of wave and say a general goodbye to. I have to hold back the urge to just run out! lol

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I get it for sure. We have to do something for the Holidays. Got any place you want to visit? Will have to be a weekend very soon please.

[@hollydemelo8201]

@ Yes, that would be nice! I’m sure we can find some trouble to get into! 😂

[@hildatyburczy8221]

Margaret, I loved the comments about saying goodbye! My late husband who was a jokester would always say when we were leaving family functions, ‘here goes the goodbye tour’ a quote from an episode on Everybody Loves Raymond’ 😂. He was absolutely right because we are huggers and kissers and a 10 minute goodbye would be an hour! I love your Christmas calendar idea. I would love to do that with my family but too late now…. So nice that you get to occasionally stay with your sister Karen and give Michael and family space! About getting old, I’m 81 and I have found out this year that I’m not as spry as I used to be but in my mind I’m 20 years younger!!! 😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank goodness that our minds don’t agree with our bodies!

[@judyblakely7450]

Hopefully, this time next year all of this will be in your rear view mirror and you’ll be all cozy in your new home. Have you thought about an electric blanket or throw to help keep you a little bit warmer? Congratulations on your weight loss that’s amazing! Yahoo‼️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I have an electric mattress pad. I haven’t used it yet because once I’m in bed I am toasty warm.

[@omazlife4229]

Spot on, Margaret - I agree that the importance of the number is related to how you feel. This is true for me... but I don't mind celebrating the big ones! Loved the video today, as usual 🙂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Wonderful!

[@WillowNook]

Tattoo story would be fun. ♥️the stories.

[@jeanjacobs9965]

Greetings Margaret! I put salt in my coffee too. I so get the social anxiety thing! I've left my shopping cart in Walmart more than once because I couldn't handle it. I live in the South, so you can't sneak out without everybody calling out their goodbyes! Love and blessings ♥️🙏

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Yes. I'm so glad you shared that!

[@BetsAnderson]

I just exit an event because of anxiety. I love your video's and you. It's like visiting with a good friend. Thank you for sharing your life. I don't mind looking like an 'ouma', because I'm a proud ouma. Blessings from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

You are so welcome! Blessings back to you!

[@santievandermerwe]

I saw your video coming in last night (we are ahead of you in South Africa) but I decided to save it for today. I watched it over coffee and breakfast. What a treat! I also have social anxiety. I will normally just say goodbye to people in my vicinity, or the host or coordinator for the event. But there are times when I do just leave. I am still almost young at fifty five, but I don't mind growing older. It only means I managed to stay alive for another year 😄

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

That is a great way to approach it. So glad you enjoyed the video.

[@VenitaBouldin]

I just love seeing your video's and they really make me feel like I'm sitting right across from you and talking, I'm 63 soon to be 64 the number has never bothered me, but my health is scaring me, I'll take it as it comes, Congrat's on the size 10 that's awesome, and about events, I normally hug and say good bye to the ones who invited me but I'm like you with social anxiety, oh I dread going to any of them but once I'm there I'm glad that I did go and usually the first one to leave, I don't have any plans for Thanksgiving but I'm having a 65 birthday party for my husband December 1st. have no idea what food to have lol you have a great week also

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Nice post. Thanks and you have a great week too.

[@kathywebb6536]

Hi Margaret, congratulations on the weight loss. I know at our age it’s very difficult to loos weight. I’m sure if you didn’t have your beautiful granddaughter your mood and self worth would be at an all time low. Your being blessed in so many ways. I envy you having the little granddaughter that keeps the spirit going. Hugs. K😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I know. I am so lucky.

[@lmak4380]

Congrats on weight loss! I have been doing keto and walking since end of August and down 25lbs… 55 to go. I too must eat to live and not live to eat. I cook/eat food that is unprocessed and nutritious and don’t snack. No sugar, flour, potatoes or rice. Feel more energetic, mentally alert and mood stable. I have heart conditions so am realistic not to go overboard on exercise or anything really… balance and moderation working for me 😊 Home made gifts are the best!! ❤

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Good for you! You sound like you have figured out what works for you! Give us progress reports from time to time please.

[@NancyStinger-ll6wt]

Hi Margaret Happy upcoming holidays. !! I was reminded of my mom who was never sick had a procedure and passed a week later when she was 90 . Life is not always fair is it . I used to be an escape artist when I was young lol but now it depends who is in the room I feel so fortunate to be healthy and told I don’t look my age whatever that means 🤔 I notice you have 10 k subscribers 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Squish is so blessed to have you . Congrats on the size 10 that’s awesome. I know what you mean I can’t turn down anything sweet but I’m getting better . We all know how to manage our own food habits . Enjoy your week ❤️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Great post. Thanks. Have a good week.

[@susansalvucci4281]

We call that an “Irish Goodbye” - when you just sneak out to avoid drawing attention and having to say all those dreaded goodbyes. 🤣 I’m turning 70 next week. It’s a weird place to be when my head says I’m 47. I also watch my 18-month-old granddaughter but I haven’t lost weight like you! Enjoy your channel very much and can’t wait for your home to be completed.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Happy Birthday! Thanks for posting.

[@carolynyoung8958]

I always say goodbye to everyone, my wife gets so irritated with me. Even when I am on a video call with my nephew!!! I’m what my gran always called a Gas Bag 😂😂😂. It’s so nice to see you chilling at your sister’s place! Not long and you will be relaxing in your new home!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Boy, I hope so!

[@kathleenmckeithen118]

Wow! Margaret!! You went from a 16 to a 10! That is great and has to feel great! As far as leaving friends when a group is together goes, I always, and most of my friends do, say goodbye to each person. Most of us taught school together and we live in the south, so we say goodby and hug each other. You get really, really close as friends when you've taught elementary school together for years. We have all gone through the births of our children, sicknesses, loss of loved ones together and more of a family than just friends. Not to mention all we went through as a sisterhood of teachers. I am with you on missing Christmas decorating at my house. My second born child, a son, would have been 53 on November 12 but passed away last February. He and my daughter always came to my house for Thanksgiving and Christmas but, since he's gone, my daughter wants to have both holidays at her house. Oh, well time and tide wait for no man.😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

It sounds like you have a special group of friends. These holidays will be difficult I’m sure. I will be thinking of you.

[@winnieharleyriley]

Good to see you Margaret. I wait each week to see how you are making out. How are the kitties doing? I admire you so much for watching Squish daily, lol I watched my grand children once a week, ten years ago and it is tiring....wonderful but exhausting! You are making " deposits" in her memory bank, wonderful bonding. Take care, till next week.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you so much! Nice post.

[@carolynyoung8958]

My wife is Polish and we do Polish Christmas on Christmas Eve and British Christmas on Christmas Day! Oh good lord Margaret, I am an emotional eater and I am so proud of you sticking to your new eating habits! I wish you’d share your tips ❤

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

No tips, I finally stopped shoveling food into my mouth!

[@Mawxnine]

Margaret, I was 80 on the 5th of this month. I am like you, I don’t feel old. As for gatherings, I love getting together with former colleagues. We always have a great time and hate to leave. I am a social animal so I love doing things with people. I am one of those people who likes to feed others. So I would be like your sister. I am the older sister, that may be a factor in the care giver attitude! That’s just me! Isn’t it nice that we all have our niche? Have a good week!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

love this!

[@stephaniecossette7491]

I put salt in my coffee, too. And cocoa powder and cream. NO SUGAR!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Sounds good!

[@Spot4art]

Salt butter and milk in my coffee.

[@RosannHague-pw3eq]

I usually say goodbye to people I know. Then I might wave and say "Bye" to the rest of the room. With the age thing, it only bothers me because I feel that time is running out. I'm 62. I feel like I'm in my 50's but I always think about how time is going so fast. Love your talks. Also the serious one you had about your relationship with your son. You expressed yourself very well.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you so much!

[@jillcarlson2076]

60 was the number that kinda bothered me. When I was quite younger, I thought that 60 was OLD. That feeling passed quickly and so have the years since. Life is good. 70 won’t bother me. 💗

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Nice!

[@JacquelynHerron]

Boy I really admire your strength concerning food. I know what I need to do and it is so hard for me! I need a Squish to run around with! Keep up the good work, you look great. Now to maintain. I haven't thought too much about my age, 70, but do dread getting older. I really don't think about it so much these days. Plenty to keep me busy here. Have barely thought about the holidays. They will be here soon and then into a new year before we can turn around. I have noticed as I get older the time seems to fly by.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I understand your feelings. (I think) And time is flying by!

[@kayeprescott8228]

I was looking forward to seeing your lighted candles that you bought and had on your Christmas tree last year. I ordered some last year from Amazon because I liked yours so much❤

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Oh I forgot about those. Darn it!

[@nancyjason446]

LOVE YOUR SISTER'S PORTUGUESE ROOSTER!!!!! BLESSED TO HAVE A CLOSE FAMILY! 🙏😻💖

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@joanneobrien9186]

I now babysit for my 4 month old grandson. He is a blessing. His mom was told she was geriatric and not able to have children. Thanks to a wonderful doctor she was able to get her pregnant with the help off my son! My husband and I do it together only two days a week. My son works in the house. It is the best!im 73 years old but don’t feel that way at all.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

What a beautiful story!

[@therealnancycarol]

Hello, Margaret! My crisis age was 21. I was inconsolable. I was going to die of old age before nightfall. Age never bothered me after that day. I can't express enough my gratitude for not having to eat another family holiday dinner or sit at a table listening to my father talk endlessly about anything, while I looked across at my mother's frowning face. I could see the little, warped wheels turning in her head, cranking out as many lies as she could fit into any seconds she might find to get me alone to speak them and pretend they were true. After many years, I decided she was insane. They weren't the optimum pick for parents, but I feel it was pretty unfair to give me two bad ones. I have a cousin who once said, "I don't know what to say about your mother. There's just no excuse for her." That sums it up pretty well and verifies my feelings as being pretty disgusted by it all. Anyway, I'm pretty eager to avoid any social situations and will escape ASAP without speaking to anyone if possible. As an only child, I'm pretty happy now. I have finally gained my freedom and privacy. Margaret, I've decided to leave that abysmal conglomeration of negativity there to be read or skipped over if you wish. My life hasn't been good or bad or average. I went through a lot for 63 years to get where I am today, as I'm sure most of us have. I could fill a library with books about my 24-year marriage to a psychopath. All I can say is it wasn't boring and I'm fortunate to have survived it. Maybe. I think the majority of us were unhappy and traumatized. I also think people who say they loved their childhood have been visited by aliens who replaced their memories with fake ones. No offense to the "happy" people. I just love having these little chats, don't you? I feel as though we are completely alone and no one is listening, even if we are on a talk show. Kinda heart-to-heart girl talk! At least we've weathered the storms and are sailing calmer waters from now on. Now I know why you're looking so lovely. Nevermind the why or how. You're infatuated with your new life and your granddaughter. It's good things spilling into your life and you deserve each and every one. Thanks for listening. See you next time. Peace and happiness! 💕💕💕

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

You have a gift for putting things into perspective. I also often look at people who wax poetic about their childhoods. What the heck? I like your explanation. Aliens makes the most sense! I can’t remember where you are from Nancy. Are you in the US?

[@therealnancycarol]

@MargaretbeingMargaret Lol! Yes, South Carolina, near Greenville. That's the upper Southwest corner. I was born in Cleveland, Ohio.and moved here in '78. At least that's what they told me. They did lie a lot.

[@SueSymonds]

Margaret ,I admire you sticking to your guns,,food has always been a problem especially with a family,they don’t understand how down we feel by our weight problem,,,but your weight is fine by looking at you,,so well done you,,,just be happy in your skin,,❤

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

So true and Thanks!

[@sunshinegirl4101]

I must agree with you Margaret about aging, I just turned 82 but feel 60 and did not think much about it. Like you said, if I would have health problems, I would think differently. I also think if you are getting squish a drum set for Christmas, I think it will wind up in your living quarters. I also say good bye to everyone…..

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

not a drum set..thy would kill me! Steel tongue drum. They are soft, gentle sounds.

[@elizabethclark8374]

Hi Margaret, Happy Sunday ( and next week) to you!! I have always wanted sisters. I had 2 older brothers ( no sisters) but I have blessed throughout my life to have good women friends - that have become sisters ( in my heart). I really enjoy watching your vlogs! You have been very supportive of me regarding the financial detachment of my only son (Eric-38). He is doing well-thank the good Lord!! I am just enjoying planning the baking that I am going to do for Christmas presents for people. I have never liked to cook but I really like to bake. Keep up the great vlogs! Elizabeth in Texas

[@elizabethclark8374]

Hi Margaret, I just heard about your success of going from a size 16 to a 10. Great work!! That is so fantastic!!! I did tell you that within the last year I have lost 60 pounds and right now I am happy to be maintaining that loss until January 1st then I am going to go gang busters back on Keto. I have overcome booze addiction (36 years without a slip), nicotine addiction (14 years) but food is still a challenge!! Basically, I have an addictive personality . It is a challenge

[@elizabethclark8374]

The last comment about my addictive personality is from Elizabeth in Texas

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Hi Elizabeth. I would enjoy baking more than cooking, but either way I make a huge mess and hate the cleanup!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I understand. Kudos to you! I hope you give yourself the recognition and self love you deserve!

[@MariasMinute]

I also love to bake and enjoy gifting tins of my homemade cookies for Christmas.😊

[@dloveofgod8269]

Hello Margaret!! Lol on the dish sponge 🧽. Yes can use it on the floor but then replace the dish sponge with another. 😅Yes, I'm like that, always have been since went to nursing school in the 70s. Lol. Wear house slippers inside. With the c virus I now spray the bottom of my shoes with lysol when I come home...no I don't mask just aware of cooties on floors ( especially days I visit the nursing home). 😮 I love your sisters, so sisterly. My sisters both live far, Florida. Am going on 73 I feel 45 or 50 but my body has been dealing with disability for years but I manage & my mind still keeps me young internally. The # s aren't my focus just the abilities or lack of. Age is relative. When I was in my 20s -50 was very old to me. Ha! Good for you for getting out & about! You're blooming & Squish is rejuvenating. One of the people I visited in the nursing home celebrated his 100th bday in July called me a youngster. (He passed away Friday & I miss him. 😢) You've done a great job with your eating. It's inspiring so am working on cutting out carbs. Yes, I need to get a new relationship with food so I can stop eating for comfort when stressed. So proud of you! Woo-hoo size 10. No plans other than the usual. Your house will be done before you know it! Have a great week! 🤗💕

[@MIMI-D]

This helps me when I’m feeling snacky. My son told me to think about eating an apple and if I don’t want that then I’m not hungry and to get a piece of hard candy or eat the apple 😂

[@MIMI-D]

Cutting out Carbs completely is not sustainable and when you start back you will gain it back quicker than it took to lose it because you are basically like a piece of dry pasta. Try to eat carbs that don’t puff up when cooked like pasta. Potatoes cooked anyway boiled,baked,mashed or fried with just enough oil are good and a 1/2 cup of rice also oatmeal is fabulous for keeping blood sugar levels steady. Take it slow you know you better than anyone. You got this ❤

[@dloveofgod8269]

@MIMI-D thank you for the advice. Not totally but I deal with pain & inflammation in my joints & carbs turn to sugar really irritating my condition. But I like rice which has over 30 carbs in just half cup. So being smart to eat more greens, veggies & protein. It's not just weight as I'm maintaining but 30 lb lighter would definitely improve my quality of life. So am adjusting. Thank you 💕

[@dloveofgod8269]

@MIMI-D great advice!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I read your posts 2 and 3 times. I so enjoy them! Thank you for taking the time to write!

[@francesstlawrence8820]

Love the knitted slippers Margaret ❤is the pattern for them still available? I love creating and crafting 😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I will put it up.

[@francesstlawrence8820]

Thank you 🙏 😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

it is up under the community tab

[@jeannineenos2758]

Yea, I’ll be 69 and I’m dreading 70. I could cry just thinking about it😢. Great video Margaret! I say good bye to the people I know.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Keep reminding yourself that it is a meaningless number with NO power over you.

[@dollydaydream5839]

@@jeannineenos2758 Getting older is a privilege

[@lollys9041]

I’m an escaper…that’s if I go at all. I used to feel obliged and have always been a people pleaser but now I am into my 60s I try to convince myself that I will do what I want to…that only works some of the time…guilt is a terrible thing, self inflicted mind you. I have such trouble with my eating, a yo yo dieter all my life my weight has skyrocketed over the last few years. I am an emotional eater and the last two years have been stressful with bereavements and family illness and helping caring for loved one who are ill all excuses I know but I I have never been able to crack the cycle. I know it’s detrimental to my health and well-being but still the yo yo. Every day I wake up and say…ok today is a new day I’ll try my best. During lockdown I started running, well jogging and by the end of 9 weeks could run for about half hour without stopping then got a back injury which put a break on that. Grrrrrr. Anyway you have inspired me to try again to do something positive for myself. We are still going though the looking after a close relative after a major op and I am waiting on scans for a health issue, nothing major hopefully. But at some point something is going to have to click in the old brain. Thanks for the inspiration Margaret.😻🙏❤️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Boy, do I “get it”. This time I am NOT dieting. Made the decision to eat what works for me and then just stop. I know it is forever!

[@dedelovesbling2313]

Congrats on the weight loss. That's fantastic! I started a health journey a month ago and I'm down 12 lbs so far with many more to go, but at least I've started. As for saying goodbye, I always make sure to say adieu to at least the hosts. Sometimes I stand at the door and say goodbye out loud, and whoever hears me it's all good. PS - I also have social anxiety. I find that a lot of people do not understand social anxiety and keep trying to pull me into situations that make me uncomfortable. Grrr!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I understand. I had to have many serious conversations with my sisters, but once they finally heard me they have been very supportive.

[@deborahsalinas5907]

I have a tendency to escape most of the time. I usually say “I’m leaving now” to a couple of people but never everybody there if there’s more than six people there especially if I don’t say much to them during the event that brought us to the same place such as family gatherings which usually includes my niece’s in-laws. I feel rather awkward around people I don’t know well. Have a great week ahead, Margaret!🥰

[@hildatyburczy8221]

Me too, never been very comfortable with people I don’t know well! I’m kind of an introvert….

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Isn’t it interesting how most of us get anxious but hide it well. (or at least try to!)

[@juliathomas6512]

Enjoyed watching.🌻

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

So glad!

[@marymcq2]

I smiled when you used the sponge on the floor. My mom did the same thing and we all survived 😂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you!

[@doloresnash287]

Most generally I say good bye to everyone, especially if its family. But once in awhile at other functions I'll tell the host good bye then just leave.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Agree.

[@tarjaniemi6233]

Escaping, for sure!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@AngelaMinor-k6k]

My niece does our family calendars.

[@patsyballantyne9886]

I am permenantly subscribed :)

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol. thanks

[@janebrady1389]

That was an amazing weight loss congratulations 👏⭐️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you so much 😀

[@tinasteer2507]

We have a rule “Whatever happens at grandmas stays at grandmas”. They’re 19, 17 and 8 years old and this rule still stands.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

love it!

[@Katie-rz9dp]

I have to say.......I'm a professional escapee ! I hate hoopla and would just rather disappear into the night. I'm turning 70 in April and have mixed feelings. When I was in hospital with my broken ankle, I remember thinking I'm in a room with old people......then it hit me. Geesh....I'm one of those old people now.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol. It is astounding to realize that we look like our peers!

[@tinasteer2507]

I totally agree with you and food. I don’t eat much at all and I eat almost the same thing every day. I have one piece of cake or similar with a Cappuccino while out shopping and that is the only thing outside my usual meals. I need control over what I eat and at 69 I don’t have much of an appetite and it works for me so each to their own.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

It sounds like you are doing great!

[@LauraRoss-dy3nn]

Oh my dear Margaret that is gross using the sponge for dishes on the floor. Yikes 😂 Also about age I remember thinking at 60 it bothering me that if I'm fortunate to live to 80 I only have 20 yrs left. But now at 70 I just laugh and it cracks me up to say I'm a 70 yr old woman. Doesn't bother me. Well you explained it perfectly. Because we feel the same. No matter the age we are still ourselves. In truth tho I feel like I'm 45-50 at the most. Size 10 jeans holy moly congrats. I'm a 16 still. I always say goodbye to people the kind of dread going around to 30 people I'd like to just sneak out. 😂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Love this…we definitely think alike!

[@LauraRoss-dy3nn]

@MargaretbeingMargaret Aww yes I think so . Wish we live near each other. Also I was thinking when I watched my little one my son and daughter-in-law also asked that she not watch TV. Well of course I put up a little bit of a fuss I said listen my loves I have her 9 hours a day you have her for 2 hours. They got home at 5:00 and she was in bed by 7:00. So I eventually got my way with some cute little educational type shows. And obviously at the age of your little one she's not going to sit still in front of a TV for 8 hours a day. So maybe they'll come to a compromise. Good luck with that lol. First time parents are adorable aren't they 😂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@barbaraowen6137]

Re Christmas decorating…..save all your spirit for next year when you have your own place

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

You got it!

[@conniecline201]

Oh my goodness my maiden name is Rose

[@Mandy-q6c]

I say pre-dementia, when have those 🤦🏻‍♀️moments. But those are making me get house organized but working on kitchen floor/cabinets so seem like more of them.

[@MIMI-D]

My Great Aunt made a pair for us every Christmas. Her’s had a Pom Pom on them but not the fold down part. Sure would appreciate a pair more now than when I was the age of 10-20 😂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

LOL. yup.

[@jennifertaylor5776]

Hello Margaret, oh my gosh, you and I are feel are made from the same mould if you know me, I love you spunk I love you joy I love your excitement you inspire me Margaret. God bless you.🙏🙏🙏🎄🎄🎄💕❤️👋 2:54

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Oh thank you. What an incredible compliment.

[@joycemoore7336]

I love those slippers. Can you share the pattern?

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I will look for the printed instructions.

[@marymcq2]

I would love it if you shared the pattern also😊

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

pattern is up on the community link

[@dollydaydream5839]

I remember having a panic attack thinking about being 30...take me back now!! No other age has bothered me though since. I feel about 45 in my head anyway 😆

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@Britbabe53]

I'm the exact same with food. Being very strict with my food and have cut out sugar, carbs, alcohol.... Watched the latest KZbin vid of Diary of a CEO with Dr. Seyfried and I know I'm on the right track for preventing cancer and it will be my plan if I ever get it as well.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Good for you!

[@JuanaC.]

I’m Spanish so you say goodbye to everyone sometimes more than once.😂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@camilledugas3428]

I say good bye to everyone,but if no one is looking I will leave

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@melmurphy0103]

Hi Margaret. Nice you at least can visit/stay w/ur sister. Got to be hard in the basement all the time....especially in your sons & daughter inlaws house. Hopefully plumbing will get done asap. BTW I say 'good bye' to everyone.....I'm Irish it takes us soooo long to leave😉 Congrats on ur weight. Thanks Margaret

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

It's been awhile since I've had a " good bye" that long!

[@melmurphy0103]

U made me laugh@@MargaretbeingMargaret

[@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts]

I wish I knew what it was to have a sister😢 I have two brothers and I am the oldest.. but I do have three daughters, and my son who is the oldest😊 I went to my churches Thanksgiving day functioning yesterday. I was so exhausted. I fell asleep at eight woke up at 5😮to be 20 years old again.😢 my grandma used to make those slippers for me. I used to love them.😊😊 I’m so glad you spending time with this sister. I just got back from church. Also have a blessed week my friend 🙏 OK I used to escape. But if it’s family that I haven’t seen for a long time I say goodbye to everybody..At church, I just say a general goodbye because there’s like 50/ 60 people there and I know them intimately so it’s a goodbye and then I leave❤

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thanks for your post! Always look forward to them.

[@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts]

@@MargaretbeingMargaret little pearls of wisdom😂😂 from one senior Worcester, MA

[@pattydixon6510]

I always say goodbye, always say hello. Little niceties matter. Also, I am old, lol.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@sharonborton195]

If it is my family I must talk and hug everyone! if is people outside I slip out! not sneek, I slip!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

love it.

[@jillcarlson2076]

I hate first day hair! Maybe when you get into your own home, you may find time by next Christmas to make slippers. You have a LOT on your plate and your mind! Blessings for you and yours. 🦋💗🙏🥰

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Hope so. Thanks and same to you.

[@camilledugas3428]

I usually cook for Thanksgiving and we have the normal things except I make Milton with shrimp. This a veggie and homemade cranberry.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Learned something new!

[@jennifersimon4066]

I always say good bye to the people I know at any event because I always am disappointed when I am someone and find out someone left before I got a chance to talk to them because they snuck out.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Hey lady! Happy Holidays!

[@dianegribbin3582]

Hi Margaret any chance of sharing the slippers pattern please.x

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

yes I will.

[@deniseedwards7536]

Like you said , either way😗

[@kayeprescott8228]

Loving that picture on your sisters China cabinet of the red poppies in the cobalt blue container❤️ I also have two sisters that are very dear to me. We have two younger brothers but they’re 11 and 12 years younger than me. One of you brothers is sweet like my sisters but one is just like your ex-husband.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

That says it all!

[@labnurse1]

If I haven't seen them in awhile, I say goodbye to them. If I'm at church, I just leave

[@Mandy-q6c]

Also do have the name of the pattern for slippers? Love to try my hand at

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Yes, I will put it up.

[@tammywilliams4958]

You are soooo gosh darn sweet ! 😊❤❤ Can I say that lol ? You are ! ❤ Love Love Love your channel. Look forward to seeing the next video already 🤭😀 Take care and have a truly wonderful blessed week ahead ❤🌻🌻

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Thank you so much!!

[@tammywilliams4958]

You are so very welcome 🤗 Have a wonderful week ❤️🌻🌻

[@roseseifert8939]

When my stomach tells me to stop eating I stop most times. I've taught myself to take a tablespoon of most things. We are celebrating Thanksgiving today.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Happy Thanksgiving!

[@joannecurrey860]

When it’s time for me to leave an event, I say goodbye to the hosts and then quietly escape!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Sounds good to me.

[@kathleen3581]

Seventy threw me for a huge loop! As for leaving, I’m famous for my Irish goodbyes, I just sneak out.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

That’s a great way to put it!

[@MariasMinute]

I too don't feel my age, but its caused me a few falls lately. I'm finding I just dont have the reflexes and physical strength I used to. My mind says you're still young and can do this, but my body says nope.😁🤷‍♀️

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol. I hear ya.

[@nancygreen217]

Wow…went from a 16- a 10….congratulations! I’m picturing you trying on 16, then 14, then 12 and how surprised you had to be….love those slippers, wish I could knit like that, I tried that once, one foot was too sml, the other was too large 🙄. White Turkey meat and vegetables would be ok! I lost 25 lbs 10 yrs ago and found I feel full not long after I start eating and not interested in 2nd helpings. When I turned 80 I was shocked…80? How could I be that old, now I’m 85 and I kind of laugh about it…like it’s a joke on myself!!

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

love it! Aging certainly is a surprise!

[@barbararhinehart915]

Good morning, Margaret. Did you have help in losing all the weight, or just good old self control? I love following you through the building of your new home. Have a great say!

[@barbararhinehart915]

*day

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Just me deciding “ enough is enough”. I would take help in a micro second….but I hate going to the doctors.

[@WillowNook]

Least you have sisters to escape to. I'm all alone. Kiddo left nest and I just sit. It's weird cause I like my house. I go to guys house I'm dating and it just still doesn't feel like home. I am home in my home and without my kid it doesn't feel like home either. My mom past few years ago and so I don't have place w family to enjoy break or company. Life sure is interesting sometimes . I really was unprepared for most cards handed to me.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I hear you.

[@maureenkenney1005]

Weird putting salt in the coffee. I don't use the sink sponge on anything else. December puts me to 80, yikes, although I feel great. When leaving a party I generally say good buy to everyone, hugs and kisses to family and whoever is running the party which if family can take a loooong time. I'm surprised to hear of you anxiety. Someday I'll tell you my story. Have a great week.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Gosh darn it, I better see you before Christmas!

[@maureenkenney1005]

@@MargaretbeingMargaret Most definitely!

[@sharonborton195]

I seldom use sponge, but when I do it would not be used on the floor!! And I don"t have any pets now?

[@Mandy-q6c]

Ok now that thru video. 16-10🎉 good for you. Stouffer’s has a small Turkey/mash potato meal that isn’t bad, eat when have hankering for turkey. Yes say Good bye to people because want host understand appreciate the effort they put into event. Love looking at all decorations people put up, enough for me

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

I agree

[@jillcarlson2076]

I say goodbye to people. I have always even when I feel like running! Lol 😂

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

lol

[@camilledugas3428]

You sounds so much like me, I do that all time.

[@grammybear4226]

🐼 Big Panda Bear Hugs from a 71 yr old grandma in Texas, USA and by the way l'm subscribed and l hit Like. 🐼 ❤ l'm not a bot, l'm handicapped)

[@AngelaMinor-k6k]

I say goodbye and I love you because we are not promised tomorrow.

[@MargaretbeingMargaret]

Nice!