i moved out with no job and no plan...

[@SydTheCreative]

I was literally shaking before posting this but... here we are.

[@KeyanaJoi]

You spoke directly to me and almost directly where I am. Thank you so much for your boldness. Every post I get to catch influences me beyond what you could ever imagine. I’m actually in my last semester of Spelman. at the age of 19, and it’s like I have no clear cut way that I’m going as a psychology major also, but I’m willing to jump into the deep end. You gave me hope that jumping doesn’t mean you always fall🤍

[@saltyassassins5816]

I've been out of a job for 5 years. I've gotten to where I'm digging aluminum cans out of dumpsters to make money along with scrap metal. I'm apart of the hidden homeless since September 2018. Mom took me into her home which she was diagnosed with lung and liver cancer may 16th 2022. I'm trying to care for her and struggle getting a w2 job. Yet I feel like existing life do to a brother that's physically abusive towards. The place I'm in I can stay in as long as I pay 700 dollars per month yet I can't do that dollar amount without help. I'm middle-aged and I feel as though suicide is the only way out

[@MissChayBella]

Thank you for sharing ! ❤❤❤

[@imani0nline]

I’m currently having a bit of a quarter life crisis so this really resonates with me I don’t understand how everyone expects you to have everything figured out so young

[@ginsu_pd]

Same here

[@Elise.Celeste.]

Bruh i had a teenage life crisis right after graduating from high school. Never wanted to go to college cause I didn't wanna waste my time on a major I wouldn't like. But then you struggle with the unknown and limbo period I've been in it ever since and trynna figure it out. Lol any advice?

[@jiliciar.1423]

Right, thank you.

[@taihairs]

me 18 , with not having a plan, having a toxic household that’s mentally draining me, no job, no car or license, but knowing if i stay here for long i’ll still be mentally ill. I plan on saving up and just leaving and also getting therapy once i’m set …

[@cya.6616]

omg same

[@pordeka9505]

how are you doinggg atm lovee ?

[@SamanthaDelRey]

how did things work out?

[@lizziemcizzyxxd9105]

Me too

[@emmakimben1718]

This me right now

[@shakhan1999]

"I just knew that I wanted to be happy, have some type of freedom, and continue to create and do the things that I love to do." That's all that I've ever wanted!! 😭😭😭 I am desperately desiring to move out of a mentally horrible situation with my dad and three other family members. I'm so lost and just wish I could leave now but I don't even have a car :( Where could I possibly go from here, I'm so lost. I'm 22 by the way.

[@user-nk3ul3mx9k]

its mentally draining meeeeeee

[@violetmutai1599]

I'm in the same situation too, @shaura S,look, just get a job and save up for basic expenses,and then move out, don't think too far ahead bc you might overthink everything. Good luck

[@SharlenesJourney]

I’m 25 and going through something so similar I’m just so sick and drained everyday it just keeps getting worse I also am behind on bills so I just feel like I’m drowning I’ll never have any freedom 😔 just hang on boo we will all get through this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@magicallyme96]

@@SharlenesJourney same.. 25 over here too and feel so lost.

[@SharlenesJourney]

MagicallyMe I’m so sorry it sucks 😔😔Praying for you we will get through this keep going ♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

[@MoniqueeeeJ]

My mom compares me to my older sister way to many times. She’s even told me that I’m below her. I need to get out of my house, it’s to toxic and it makes me every depressed. Tired of hearing that I’m mental from my mom

[@mr4211]

Same. My mom doesn’t believe I can do anything on my own and I absolutely want to prove her so wrong , and I am going to .

[@mvsvoge]

fr my parents always compares me to all my friends and cousins bruh

[@Butterflyyy1122]

You're perfect just the way you are! Once you'll move out you'll be yourself and it will be so beautiful!! Sending you love

[@dbzraditz2239]

Same

[@autumxxleaves4186]

💖💖

[@J3nnycat]

I’m 38 and still trying to figure it out. Just when you think you’re getting somewhere, you’re engaged, have a career, own a home, and BAM! Suddenly you’re renting a room living with your cat and no clue what direction to go in. How’s that for a midlife crisis.

[@Shefakebougie]

Literally me right now at 30😢 single mom life is kicking my ass I need a new everything

[@Satsusss]

How are you now 2 years later ? I am you 2 years ago. Relationship over after 16 years, I had to move out because it was his house. I am renting a one bedroom apartment and living with one of my cats. I start a new job on Monday, had to leave my job and take one with more hours so I can pay my rent and bills all myself. I didn't prepare myself enough for all of this. Wish I had have put money aside as backup.

[@n.latricia3330]

Transitioning into adulthood can be very unpredictable and unsettling, but it’s a beautiful thing to find out new things about yourself along the way

[@ginsu_pd]

I'm watching this because I'm moving out of home and I have no job and no plan. I'm freelancer, student and but I need to move out for my mental health stability. I'm broke asf I have no plan but I'm holding my breathe that the universe catches me. I'm so scared

[@sndvlnat]

hi, that’s me rn, my mental health is extremely bad because of my parents & they just don’t get it, they think I’m just too sensitive. I’m broke af too and idk how to get out, I have a car but I can’t have it until I put it under my name

[@minhthuphannguyen9061]

good luck with that, im not as brave as you like, my goal is move out in the next 1.5 years but I need to work and save up now for unfortunate events can happen

[@Aleinaongo]

We are one in the same. I’m literally days from my “moving date” and so many things have happened to me in the last two week’s. But I know that it’s time for me to leave. My mental needs it I can’t keep crying everyday lol. I only have a little over 1,000 dollars, some credit cards, a car, and faith. You just gotta do the first few steps then jump and go

[@ginsu_pd]

Update: I've been applying for jobs guys. I keep getting many interviews for different job roles at one record label yet they won't hire me 💔 I am trying to act like this doesn't phase me but it does. I have been buying and paying off my furniture with money I make through my freelance work. I'm almost done with everything but my issue is still getting a job for financial security and stability. My late god grand mother tried to fix things between me and my mum but the peace lasted only a while. I still get those irking jabs at my confidence and insecurities so... It's a must to move out. I am hoping to make my leap next month as my furniture will be paid off then. As for a job, idk. I guess it is what it is!🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ginsu_pd]

@@Aleinaongo I totally feel you.

[@jessicat2304]

This is literally me right now. I have to make a decision in 12 hours

[@jessicat2304]

Update ! I moved, got a job, and a place! Gods timing is always right

[@jakailamaxwell]

Any tips for finding an apt ASAP?

[@garfield4882]

@@jessicat2304 congratulations boo !! how did you do all of it babe !! Did you have your job sorted before moving or you figured it out after moving?? Looking for some tips !!

[@thetiffanyjefferson]

So happy for you! Any tips you can share?

[@michalaisliving4994]

hey ummm do you think you can comment some tips for other people who need them?? pls & thx

[@ally8083]

Being a 20 year old (turning 21 in may!) and about to graduate early with no offers- I needed this video 🤧

[@mercy5628]

Keep fighting! U going to make it💜

[@lupemejia4015]

Omg same! I’m so stressed trying to find a job while I’m in college in order to Atleast have something saved

[@ArianneTiara]

This is literally what I’m going through at the moment. Figuring out the next step has been really difficult upon graduating.

[@parisparis808]

Yes it’s not easy

[@KBittleMusic]

I’m 23 and just hit this place bc I graduated late but yeah thanks for this video I needed this affirmation it’s all a process also fellow ATL wassup

[@Nauticaj]

We’re all still figuring it out lol. It’s a beautiful journey. Proud of you! 💕

[@SimplyKat26]

watching this in March 2022. I feel so sad, im not sure where my life is heading next, my daughter is turning 2 in 15days , just broke off an engagement, im 24 ! on top of other things, im just grateful for content like this it gives me hope and understanding that we all are going through things and are exactly where we need to be .

[@reginahutchinson4057]

No it is never a rant. God is giving you the words to give to me struggling at age 59 to move. Thank you

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

I envy her! Shes 21 doing this im 29 (dammit!) but im determined to get up and out

[@SydTheCreative]

Im glad this video reached you, thank you for watching!

[@ruthibrahim5133]

This video was jst meant for Me thanks alot girl 💃, I m 32 and single, I have a good job and I still with my African parent, my mum is extremely dramatic, I was scared of what people will say if I move out of the family house, I get emotionally blackmailed by mum anytime I try to have my peace and space I love to clean my space and get things done the way I want it to be properly done, worst of all is how my married siblings come visiting and make me feel bad why I am still single, I need to take action like this weekend, get a good apartment, pay for it and go get my thing.. but I need advice how best to break the news to my parent without sounding disrespectful..cos I m traumatize right now and sometimes I feel I need to see a psychologist or a counsellor to heal from the pain I went through especially with my married siblings

[@hellennkani2406]

Hi love. I hope you are okay, I hope everything worked out for you.

[@user-gc4yz7hs2b]

Girly, I hope you're doing okay , but please put yourself first because you're important and your feelings are valid. Trust me , I understand this feeling too well! Family can be soon negative, and the thing is when they come around, you just know you're gonna be judged and feel awful, not being st at their level or being different. I hope you tell your parents that you are thankful for them from helping you but you have chosen to leave in order to focus on school, work, etc. Just tell them you will visit them and that you love them .

[@DivinelyFeminine5]

Going through almost the same thing at 33 , I hope you figured it out ❤

[@ruthibrahim5133]

​@@user-gc4yz7hs2bThank you soomuch, Ur words are comforting and I deeply appreciate sis, I m fine now, and I have gotten my place and they are getting use to the new decision, I visit them when I want to and I m so excited and living a decent life out there..job going fine too, God is good😊🎉 I get my respect too anytime I visit, I take God very serous and face my front, not even mindful or scared of what anyone think or feel about me anymore, hmmn indeed critical decisions must be taken with no fear guys... jst know what you want & stand by it so long as it's a positive decision..

[@ruthibrahim5133]

​@@hellennkani2406🎉Thank you soomuch, Ur words are comforting and I deeply appreciate sis, I m fine now.. and I have gotten my place and they are getting use to the new decision, I visit them when I want to and I m so excited and living a decent life out there..job going fine too, God is good😊🎉 I get my respect too anytime I visit, I take God very serous and face my front, not even mindful or scared of what anyone think or feel about me anymore, hmmn indeed critical decisions must be taken with no fear guys... jst know what you want & stand by it so long as it's a positive decision.. thanks for Ur concern 👍

[@XyonbiX50]

Wow glad to know I’m not alone. chose to get married to my wife and we moved out against what everybody wanted to happen. it has been hard af. And I’m just so excited for the day where we prove everyone wrong because our own parents and family members doubt us

[@SydTheCreative]

There comes a time where we have to make the best decisions for ourselves. Wishing you good luck on your journey! ✨

[@user-gc4yz7hs2b]

It's so disappointing to hear that but I wish you the best and you know what you're doing . Trust yourself and if nothing makes you happy why stay ? Like is too short . Wishing you the best on your new journey ✨️

[@lilkeithb.20]

I’m current 17 and abt to be 18 and I want to move out away from my parents bc they’re so annoying & toxic and atm I have no job, no house, or no money to afford to pay. I wish I can moving out this week but I have to start doing my plan such as finding a job first before moving out cuz there’s nobody can help me with this situation but wtv I choose to do, I hope this will goes as my plan and this advice too! Tysm>3

[@Isiphondende]

I’m currently in this stage…i want to move out but idk if its the right decision to make considering i am unemployed, doing my final year and no plan. At the same time i feel like I’m running out of time

[@lilymn1382]

Plan which state / country you want to go to . And try to set up employment over there before you move meaning applying and passing the interview process , and definitely need some saved money at first

[@seneca8046]

@@lilymn1382 I’m at this point and I won’t be moving till summer (June) when my current lease is up. I just don’t know which state my heart is comfortable enough with being at. Texas was heavy on my mind and research but it doesn’t sit well in my spirit. I will be visiting this month so maybe that will change. If not, I don’t know where to go and I know looking up crime rates and all of that but America is way too wide. I know that I’d like to be in a city. I live in a small town. I wish I could visit everywhere. I am getting my associate of arts (social work) in May. And hoping to get my bachelors in social work in the next two years.

[@pettylabelle7944]

@@seneca8046 if Texas doesn’t sit well with your spirit now, it won’t later. Trust your intuition.

[@_nel_ley_]

I'm here with you. 💕I've been wanting to share my experiences online, like you, as a documentary for myself mostly. If others enjoy it, I'm glad; if I make a buck off it, I'm extra happy. A part of me wants to express myself but I am also sheltering because I don't want to share too much. I've also been listening to podcasts and a lot of lovely people like yourself really am inspiring me to put myself out there. So thank you 😘💖and I'm writing this as a confirmation to myself that I will do it.

[@GabrielleWhite]

Saw your comment and went to your page to support. I hope you'll stay encouraged to create your videos. More of this content is needed.

[@vanvalcortez]

the voice of the Lord radiates out of you!! i appreciate the amount of faith and courage you mustered to take a step in a new and uncharted direction. thank you for being the voice i heard when i felt a whisper that it was time to move on. thank you for your encouragement. May the Lord bless you and keep you!! ((:

[@JSteveni]

It’s the dog panting in the back 😂

[@ginsu_pd]

Girl, I'm 25 and it's crap hard

[@Karlisa]

Love how transparent you were about how anxious you were about talking about this subject. This video was amazing! Wishing you much success❤️❤️

[@TheRealChwazi]

i love your vulnerability in your content. this is motivational and sort of a big wave of relief knowing I’m not the only one feeling the way I’m feeling. please keep moving forward & staying positive

[@defaultusername9]

Great video, you did a great job explaining your feelings and thoughts. I appreciate your effort to be open and authentic even though its scary. It made it more relatable and helpful I think. A lot of what you said felt resonated with me. as a 23 year old who has taken an unconventional path as well, i'm basically in a similar situation. Not really sure where I'm going , but trying to figure it out. Thanks for your kind words and putting the effort into this video. Peace

[@elisazouza]

I wanna move out from my toxic home :( but now I know I have to budget or save up a lot of money 😭 I just graduated and I get asked the same questions and it’s annoying

[@n.latricia3330]

Your hair is so beautiful btw

[@xsinisterxbeautyx]

You are so adorable! I love your hair! Thanks for sharing your story!

[@user-gc4yz7hs2b]

Living with your parents will stunt your growth . However, you do want to leave when your hearrt truly desire the peace and freedom. It is tough out here but with a job and a good car youre good. We all must see the world for ourselves and our parents for so long try shield uss from the uncertainty which prevent us from growing or seeking self adventures.

[@eyecurateproductions]

I appreciate your honesty. My biggest fear is getting somewhere and still not knowing what to do or how I want to move forward. I really just want to breathe and take a minute to slow down so watching your videos, and other peoples, is reassuring me that it's ok to have fear and doubts. that its actually normal and common w making such a big move. but this is giving me faith that it'll all start to make sense, but I have to open myself up to the journey and the possibility of it looking differently than I can even imagine. thanks for sharing your story!

[@GoldCloudd]

Im at a point where I need to move out after dealing with a toxic mother. Im currently getting my masters but I can’t get it if I’m constantly being mentally & emotionally abused. I just don’t know where to start .. 💔

[@SydTheCreative]

I definitely think that if you feel unsafe in your environment you deserve a change. I would start by looking into creating an income that allows you to save up to move, and/or jobs that would pay you to relocate. I definitely know that the process looks different for everyone but it does happen eventually. In the meantime, I would also develop healthy coping mechanisms for your current environment. As hard as it may be, it will help you to sustain. I really hope all improves for you. Feel free to DM me if you need to ✨ Sending you love!

[@ruthibrahim5133]

Please stay safe darling, keep Ur head up...u will be fine ok❤

[@minas.831]

Wow that lily pad analogy is so true as an adult! And “you’re journey for success has to be molded by you”

[@NallahBrown]

I graduated in Spring 2020 and this resonates deep. Life is gonna life regardless, we just gotta come with the grace of acceptance so we can make and work with whatever is available to us. I definitely have hope for 2021 and beyond. Loved the video. We are gonna figure it out sis. 🙌🏿

[@jadanewman1369]

“Mindset is your ruler “

[@storiesbynaima]

Your hair is so cute. And thank you for sharing this!

[@maraL_A]

You look like Marilyn monroe and even Prettier!

[@AlanaISmith]

I definitely felt this! Wishing you much success in 2021 🙌🏾

[@I.am.His.007]

leap of faith. wow. i pray u keep the faith. God has sustained u. dont forget to thank Him. CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@SydTheCreative]

I thank God everyday for where I am in life for sure. Its not always perfect but Im so so grateful. ✨

[@SARA-xh9zr]

Im 30 years old and i still live with my parents

[@MoniqueeeeJ]

Your parents must love you because they sure wants me out and I’m only 23 with a part time job☹️

[@Bthe1only]

@@MoniqueeeeJ awww that's so sad. I pray you are able to be in a good position soon to leave because that's not fair.

[@imjustsayin34]

@@MoniqueeeeJ curious to know why you’re still part time. I’m 23 but I work full time now in saas I’m looking forward to moving out as well as

[@missmaam3765]

@@imjustsayin34 everyone isn’t mentally capable of working full time… I tried it before and struggled with work/life balance. I felt like I was living to work , the 2 days I got off flew by quick and during those 2 days I was mentally and physically exhausted. I flourish in part time positions for that reason.

[@georgiumsidusalien2943]

i know you're gonna get there. your work and videos are sooo good, i wish more people could find it. also, you look sooo pretty.

[@miss.432y]

You look gorgeous in the video, also love the set up 😍

[@jasintamumba3738]

Am also moving out next year July when I write my final exams I don't even have a plan😪which scares me ... after watching this video I am definitely moving out

[@kol628]

I don't know why you not viral by now. Such professional quality. New Sub.

[@Hoppinwithhago]

this was so inspirational! girl i'm in the same boat this helped me a lot! God bless you!

[@syd.....]

I'm a lot like you, I even have your name. Thanks for the message wish I've seen this soon..

[@seekingthelost7]

Hey thanks for sharing. It's okay for us to not have it all figured out. I think that if he had told us everything right away, then we wouldn't need to seek him. Thanks for the encouragement.

[@LifeIsGood49]

Thank you for your videos Syd, they really but a reminder that one should always remember to breathe.

[@LifeIsGood49]

Be intentional, breathe, and trust the process.❤️

[@Exotixa]

Just moved to ATL and doing the exact same thing right now..😂

[@dharavasishth]

thank you for diverting to another topic other than what you planned to say becuz i needed to hear that part kinda even more ❤️

[@yusra.ahmdd03]

God Willing I will move out 1st march 2023. 😤❤

[@RicheRich-vd9xx]

Didja?

[@samiraw1490]

im moving out and have no new job to this city and will just try and make it🙃

[@KatMartin-si4pl]

You have inspired me! Also, you are sooooo pretty!

[@SydTheCreative]

Aw thank you for being here!

[@jazz6422]

You are awesome and your channel is inspiring!!! I wish you the best! Congrats on your envdeavors!!!! How did you learn content creation?

[@MOMO2X]

12:45 was definitely good

[@augustw8010]

I love love love your hairstyle!

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

Hair is super cute!

[@SydTheCreative]

Thank you!!

[@tashamaclin3491]

That was heavy & real 🙌🏽💖

[@Nauticaj]

I love your content 💗✨

[@jordynslove9795]

Hope for 2021 💕

[@ariplexia7233]

I’m moving out soon at 20 no choice just because. So i need tips. So I don’t have fine items or anything like that so when I movie in my place. What to do when you don’t have no furniture? I’m trying to switch jobs to and also I’m bout to take driving school and that shouldn’t take long. Because I’m a fast learner so. What should I do?

[@maherlynmorency2012]

Loved your video. Love your hair😍😍 Soo appreciate your transparency!! Also, what camera do you use?

[@Nob-gd1pb]

She beautiful

[@lzumm]

You still ain't tell us about how you moved out with no job no money no nothing I'm still waiting to hear that

[@OfficialRomeM.]

You’re very beautiful and thanks for sharing.

[@paid2talk298]

Wow you’re gorgeous🥰

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Little sister you look so beautiful

[@Soniahly]

This 🔥

[@Steven-se4gd]

your hair looks nice

[@jesssss12]

What microphone do you use?

[@qwiktips6804]

Click bait

[@eshasinghh8]

how much did u save to move out

[@YoungCub]

You in a crazy nice spot for no job/plan....?

[@chester14rw]

you are so cute what the heck

[@brownlatinaa46]

how come u dont live with parents

[@kokoboo64]

i’m 20, i rlly want to move to ATL or NY and become an influencer/ pursue my career path. i too am a bit of a control freak when it comes to my life and i really want it to go my way but i’ve been proven time and time again that i cannot do that and i can only control what i can! this video helped a lot and thank you so much for sharing your story girly 🫶🏾

[@Kenyan-kitchen]

I'm turning 23 next month...i have started an online hustle so i can get money to move out april bext year four months is enough to save up ❤❤pray for me guys🤍