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[@grny28]

OMG, Gavin is a mirror image of his dad. Collette you are such a natural comedian. I just love this family.

[@ColetteKati]

Thank you so much!

[@TimothyWallace1953]

@@usernametaken7971 Our Lord and Savior loves and forgives each of us. Please be kind. Faith Love Forgiveness Amen 🙏

[@ashtonv3915]

@@usernametaken7971 come on now, if you can’t say something nice, then don’t say anything at all. She trying to move on from that. No need to remind her of the past that can’t be changed. Tomorrow is always a new day

[@sayitshay]

@@usernametaken7971 he does not he says nasty things on instagram

[@junezs]

I agree! He looks like a whole man!

[@TimothyWallace1953]

When the heck did Gavin grow into a MAN!

[@ColetteKati]

I know right!?

[@denisaforeverinlove]

yet, Colette looks like she is 20

[@moodyfan4ever]

FOOD

[@lcuyy72]

@Believe on Jesus Christ for Eternal Life same!!

[@mr.b6374]

Gavin is 17? wow its been a hot minute since we have seen the family, May You Continue to be Blessed always!!!!

[@VolosVibes]

If you'd follow Shay on instagram, you will see how big everyone has gotten. Rocktard and Brotard are really daring gymnasts now :P

[@mommaberti8124]

I completely understand 110% so much I am in tears listening to you. Thanks for posting this today, I really needed to hear it.

[@ColetteKati]

🥺❤️🥰

[@funkycows00]

Love what you said about pride and shame being two sides of the same coin. Such a valuable statement! As much as we don't like to admit it- its our own ego and narcissism that can often push us to both extremes. You always have such thoughtful things to say Colette- am deeply inspired by you.

[@ColetteKati]

Yes that is so true! It took me a long time to admit that I was self-righteous but yes hell yes I’ve been self righteous 😂 working one day at a time yay!

[@sickkris]

I watch your little videos every morning. You help me and encourage me more then I could ever express. Thank you

[@littleblondemop]

Gavin is so grown up now it's so cool that he enjoys cooking. It looks like did a good job the food looked great.

[@CentennialCripple]

That closeup peak over the glasses with the hat is giving me throwback "Ugly Dragon Face" character flashbacks 😂

[@xoPinkButterflyxo]

I’m in therapy too, we’re just talking about this right now 🥰. What a great video, its always nice to see a vid from ya!

[@sara_santxs]

Thank you for this video Colette, it’s exactly what I needed. 💕

[@coreydrew1090]

I’m crying just listening to your videos. So much respect and appreciation for you.

[@mrsl0305]

Yeeeessss! You are not alone. I always feel like I can't keep up. With being a mom and a wife I am always behind and stress when things don't get done.

[@eyeCandeeh]

i just love love LOVE!! YOUR Videos! ive watched u since i was a teen livving at my parents and here i am with a blended family of my own, and i remember of all the goals i aspired to be so much like you, its such a breath of fresh air watching u and how awesome you are !! ur msg today brings peace apon my life! love you so much! megan from new zealand

[@rebeccagreen8381]

Came to the channel to watch the puppy vlog but left with so much more. Thank you Colette, you have no idea how much I needed to hear these words today ♥️♥️

[@michelletobey7876]

Yesssss!! Agree so much with everything you said. A few years ago that could have totally been me in the pink sweater. 🤣 it took some major health issues to create some serious “fall on my butt” humility and to make me accept help. I’m loving all your videos!! ❤️❤️

[@ColetteKati]

Thank you so much for sharing! It’s interesting how often it does take a major life thing to wake you up

[@CandyPantsProduction]

I broke down in tears cause I'm struggling and barley able to hold it together. I can't live with this constant anxiety anymore. I have been trying to push through it instead of getting help. crying from your video I realized I need to do something about it. Thank you for making this video

[@ColetteKati]

Yes you are worth it! I truly hope you reach out and get help even if it’s scary, keep trying, you can be free from constant anxiety I promise! 💗💗💗

[@ShinyEvergreens]

"pride and shame are actually two sides of the same coin." Yes that's so true, I've never heard it put that way

[@zaramiller6568]

Progress over perfection. I'm learning too. Thank you Colette for sharing.

[@robindominguez158]

Thank u so much for this video! I needed to hear it right now.

[@saracummins1]

Thank you for helping me. Glad you're "back" and the new you is extremely inspirational. ❤️💋🙌🏼

[@_LaRayne_]

I completely understand and can relate. I hate asking for help. Def my biggest critic. Rarely talk about what's going on and just deal with it all internally.

[@AmyBlakewood]

Wow Gavin is 17! I just realized that I have been following this channel for such a longggg time!

[@PrincessPeyten]

OMG Gavin has grown I can’t believe he’s 17❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺

[@JayCreates]

I'm nearly jumped on you for doing hello fresh Californication stepford wives, but then the message was for me 😂💜☮️

[@laurabaumel689]

I sooo needed this! As a newlywed and wife I feel like I’m failing if I don’t make dinner or have the required things to make dinner cause I hate going to the store and I’m so busy with other responsibilities. I can be so negative because if I didn’t rock my responsibilities as I wife than I feel horrible

[@vemovasnena]

Girl yes!! Im 26 and have been struggling to not feel shame in still relying on help from my parents for certain things. Somehow we were taught that once you graduate college you shouldn’t need your parents anymore...im learning that I am still young, and its okay to not do EVERYTHING by myself :) thanks for the reminder ♥️

[@llanasofiall]

5:04 gosh at first I found this sweater girl funny but in this part I realized that's actually me! oh no haha

[@McCracken257]

I love you so much! Thank you so much for bring a smile to my face! I am glad you are getting help and bettering yourself and getting these videos out there. you are doing some awesome work! Keep it up! Hope you are having a wonderful day!

[@jess-cq4sr]

Colette, I’ve been watching you and your family since I was in middle school. I am now graduating college this semester and I should be studying for my last final of undergrad. This is just the video I needed, over the last week, I’ve been struggling with my self confidence, calling myself a failure, saying I’m not smart enough, I’m not good enough. And I want to apply to grad school and get my masters, but in order to apply I need references. I keep running the scenario in my head that I send an email to two of my professors and ask them to be a reference for grad school and they will say no. They’re both really nice professors, and although classes are hybrid, I still made an effort to go to in person classes so I can develop a relationship with them. They also know my name which helps and I did good in their classes. The application deadline is next Friday and it would mean the world if I got into a grad program. Idk how to overcome this fear of rejection, even though it’s really important. I love watching your videos btw, you’re such a positive person that the world needs right now

[@ColetteKati]

You’ve got this Jess! What is the worst that could happen? They might tell you no, they might even tell you some things you could improve and then your even better off because you learned something. Even if they were totally mean to you that doesn’t mean that you are any less amazing than you are! But let’s be honest you do have a good relationship with them I think they will support you. You got this I am so excited that you are going after your dreams!

[@jess-cq4sr]

@@ColetteKati OMG, you don’t understand how much your comment put a smile on my face!!! I should shoot them an email and ask them. All my friends and family have been telling me to ask, but the fear of rejection is prevalent. They keep telling me that it’s part of their job and they want to see their students succeed. Getting a masters is a step towards one of my dream jobs, which is becoming a professor myself or a senator to the state of Texas LOL. In all honesty, thank you for the encouragement and positivity. Every time I watch one of your videos it makes me reflect on myself , and they remind me that I need to be kind to myself!

[@raywhatsthisfor1283]

Hey there.. try not to worry too much!! You are only in control to a certain extent!!! The rest is up the God or the world!! I'd say.. send them an email and explain that you've been dealing with quite a bit, and tell them you need them ASAP. But tell them that they helped you and still talk about them to others because of thier support. Like Collete said.. what could hurt?? Nothing!! Good luck with your future!! And remember to just relax and breathe!!

[@jess-cq4sr]

@@raywhatsthisfor1283 thanks for that!!! I try to tell myself that my life is in God’s hands and what ever plan he has for me will fold out. Life is just a bit confusing right now, but that’s typical with any major transition in life. All I’ve ever known is academia, I love learning and challenging myself. I also feel like I have a lot more to learn, which is why I want to go to grad school. And I am going to ask them, it won’t hurt me. It’s just for the first time in my life, I have had to deal with the chance of being rejected

[@jayneholmes5704]

Thank you, I needed this today.

[@LarryDLaneYT]

This was refreshing and pleasant. It's great seeing more content from you in my feed. Keep up the great videos!

[@20salihamidzic]

Thank you Colette. 🤍 I needed that. You are amazing!

[@ceceostosh4882]

Only you can make an advert fun to watch. I love your videos!!! Sometimes I don't see your new posts, but when I do I watch all the ones I've missed. I live for the loving Vibes I feel through the screen. X

[@shynncat9647]

I really love these videos ♥️

[@U2bSurfN2]

Commenting on your Instagram post about “Agnes” I get sores on a regular my whole life. 10 years ago a doctor turned everything onto a home remedy AND IT WORKS AMAZING!! As soon as the sore sparks, or as so as you catch it, get a chamomile tea bag as hot as you can stand it and press it on the sore for a few minutes. Do this a few times a day for a few days and it cuts the sores life in half 🤗 Hope this helps!

[@carol2girls]

Colette you need to take care of yourself first!! I broke my left wrist oct 25 still in brace so I need lots of help but only from my girls. Bathing, washing my hair, etc normal day activities. Getting dressed was a struggle at first.

[@leavexmealone]

Great message!

[@wesleyspilly3087]

@Colette Kati I’m 16!! I love cooking too!! I’ve been following you guys for years!! I love these weekly vids!!

[@ptkr2272]

*You're on a roll and it shows. I'm concerned about the girls as Avia is driving while distracted and piercing her own hears with a ? safety pin? She told you that she was going to do so and your reply to her is that you'd laugh if they were uneven??? Then the two girls and yourself go shopping, Emmi sticks her middle finger up in Avia's video and you laugh hysterically!!!*

[@raywhatsthisfor1283]

Ok.. I haven't seen distracted driving?? Also.. she used a needle of some sort... I didnt see the videos, but all you can do is make sure its CLEAN... and even!!! I'm sure she did it.. do you know how many people peirce body parts without professional assistance??? And who cares what finger HER daughter has up?? And why.. did you see what happened before.. and why??? No you didnt... so just relax and worry about your own existence... and things you can change!! I am all for taking the keys away... as soon as extra passengers.. Radio.. or even when the Phone becomes an issue!!!

[@kirkwood512]

Love you and your family Colette! Gavin is a man now! Great job cooking Gavin!!! Looks delicious!

[@katiejones7477]

Love it! 🤣🙊 whyyy do we do this to ourselves! I love when people are real with me but man it can be hard to accept our flaws and just love ourselves as we are! Working on this daily

[@ColetteKati]

Yes it’s a constant struggle right!?

[@katiejones7477]

@@ColetteKati Amen sista!!!

[@shayt543]

Tessa! Loved this! Haha yes hello fresh is awesome!!

[@feebeci]

I keep wishing ghat these were longer !

[@ColetteKati]

Wow thank you! I always try and I make them short because that seems to be the way people are consuming content these days, but that makes me feel really appreciated that you don’t mind the longer rants 😂

[@fionaly7832]

Your hello fresh looks so different from ours in Germany! Love you

[@justinf3278]

I feel you... literally just having these vibes... We're all learning Takes practice... thanks. Good lookin out. 🤟 kris

[@thinkwhatsyourlife5908]

Thank you katilette

[@sondrasix5503]

Thank you 😊

[@PiggyAzaleea]

It's nice you're doing self care and working on you. I dk what's going on with you and Shay. Regardless, I hope he is working on himself to be a better partner and make better choices. Not just you. He can do some work too!

[@ieasha5303]

Love you collette totally agree with u 🥰

[@dakodajohnson4541]

Shaytards Christmas special 2020??

[@WatchDoggyDog]

So hilarious! And relatable...HAAAAAAAAALP! XDDDD 🥰😍Thank you and I Love you Colette :)))❤💥

[@uniquemonke]

Just 30 seconds before watching the video, I was thinking of how much I’ve been failing at dishes and working out this week 🤪 I really struggle with perfectionism as a mom/wife.

[@Jackert86]

Lmao you are amazing!!!

[@madtingz2288]

Missed you Collette ❤️

[@wakemeup9835]

Thank you ❤️

[@jolbags]

How did Gavin grow up to be a Trump supporter??? What happened!

[@shynncat9647]

How do you know?

[@jolbags]

@@shynncat9647 from his Instagram, he's pretty vocal about it

[@PiggyAzaleea]

Usually because people in the family and religion.

[@kaylawilliams588]

Thank goodness for the girls! And little daxton likes Biden more than trump (from Avia’s Instagram while back) so he’s smarter than the men in his family already. Lol

[@raywhatsthisfor1283]

Hey.. everyone is entitled to their own personal opinionS!! Even a 17 year old!!

[@Scarlett0000A]

This is wonderful I am so thankful for you I am this way too.

[@HealedandThriving]

17?! Oh my goodness❤

[@zipdrive3638]

Do you ever think to do something drastic with your hair, like cutting most off it can look amazing with your face

[@Opuskrokus]

Don't be silly!

[@raywhatsthisfor1283]

Hahaha.. hmm.. I know her sister did!!

[@zipdrive3638]

@@raywhatsthisfor1283 she can look amazing! It's true, some pixies cut, can look amazing on her

[@zipdrive3638]

@@Opuskrokus really its true, pixie can look amazing on her

[@Dudeonwheels]

Why does the fact that Gavin is 17 make me feel like I should be in a retirement home?

[@kendallandkelsey32]

i watch the ads for you because you da best

[@tinnalnberg3765]

Working on this too ❤

[@_LaRayne_]

I have that same tapestry in pink. 😍

[@erinkelly2834]

Hello :) it’s nice to see you up here more :)

[@carol2girls]

I never knew you had you tube!!! I’d would of been following you ages ago.

[@toptipsindentistry1170]

Love it 😀

[@carol2girls]

Where did you get those awesome cooking sheets ?

[@ColetteKati]

My wedding day almost 18 years ago! 😂

[@carol2girls]

@@ColetteKati darn lol but since I sent that message I found some I liked just smaller then yours. Only married 18 years. Lol I’ve been married 37 years

[@o1kutie89]

Love this! Xoxo

[@dannydanny9875]

Lifting us up with every Video, Collette ^_^ or Kat till lah teh :-P (old video refrence)

[@100akerwoods]

Yes keep making vids I’m watching every one

[@bigfootnintendorazr]

That's true

[@alexandriacampbell9997]

Colette was like a mom figure to me

[@BranMuffin365]

Omg Gavin is such a cute lil younger Shay

[@zeishasjourney]

❤️

[@YcatsVlogs]

gavin looks so much like shay

[@CherryBerry48]

i been telling you this forever

[@MsSomeKT]

My daily dose of one of my favorite souls. 🥰 Needed this after the day I had. Offtah! I love what you say, pretty much always. If you haven't check out Berné Brown TedTalk called The Power of Vulnerability. It makes so much sense.

[@ColetteKati]

Yes I love Berne Brown her books have given me so much insight about shame pride and perfectionism, thank you so much for the suggestion I will go listen again!

[@Ms.OliversLife]

Gavin is so handsome!!!

[@lilfiremomma]

Feel that way everday! I feel like a loser if Im not so call a perfect mom/ step mom and wife

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

Good video

[@arremangamelpicoapeos9853]

You are such a special, decent, beautiful woman. I can only hope to find someone at least half as decent as you at some point in my life. Only strong souls can give so much. Don't neglect yourself.

[@brunildatorres5648]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780]

AMEN 🙌. wait....SONTARD IS17! When? how?...Stop😄❤️

[@siyapatel9313]

Why did U, Carlie, and Kayli stop uploading on “The Mom’s Views”?

[@ColetteKati]

We were all struggling trying to balance it with everything else in our lives so we decided to take a break, thanks for asking!

[@siyapatel9313]

@@ColetteKati Do you think that you will find a time to make videos on “The Mom’s View”, in the future?

[@AlexJPetrov]

This ad was not unpleasant for me. I got to see Gavin, he cooked something healthy and it was looking nice. It blended into the video so well that I didn't felt it as an ad. As for the topic. We all need help. I try to ask for help only when I can not do something without it but when people say no it's really hurtful because I rarely ask, it is only when I really need it and never for something illegal (like I have been asked and said no). But they have that right and that helps me to become more independent and to cope with refusal better. And it's very nice when somebody says yes and we help each other.

[@cryingaboutbooks]

💞💞💞💞💞

[@MrAyoungblood]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@jennamyers2960]

wow Gavin he is tall tell Gavin to say hi to him

[@rubaaaaful]

I hope GAVIN is not BULLIED at his college :(

[@Sassygrannyvlogs]

Lolololololololololololololololol love it

[@CraigEmpson]

Some of you know my Son Gavin ...... yea but who this dude stoo.... oh wow thats him haha. I am shocked at how different he looks, of course his face has changed with the long hair he is unrecognisable to me.

[@johntragier7430]

Who hurt you?

[@313Elonmusk]

What are u mufti menk

[@slimpikens]

Gavin likes to eat more than cook

[@TimothyWallace1953]

Without Devine Forgiveness, I would be condemned. Faith Love Forgiveness Amen 🙏

[@Songwriterbehindthecurtain]

I’ve heard that you and shaycarl is back together again that’s why that you need help.

[@777mantikor]

And you is good english speaking!

[@jazmines3907]

how much you think they paid her for this?

[@sayitshay]

I wish gavin wasnt such a hardcore trump supporter

[@Justsomebody009]

❤️