i “put myself out there” for a month and all i got was MORE insecurity??

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@whoashell 4 ай бұрын

“my security is no longer built on lack of rejection but rather in trust of my recovery from it” this video has a great message and also brought me comfort. thank you so much for sharing yourself with the world katherine :)

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

thank u sweetiest sweetie girl 💗

@MaddieDragsbaek 4 ай бұрын

another kath banger absolutely overflowing with wisdom and good editing.......... i love ur corner of the internet

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

and my corner loves you too….

@crisantema5672 4 ай бұрын

Talking to your friends about how you like to show up is sacred. Yes sometimes it will reveal that some people are less aligned to you than it might have seemed but those who get it… it just makes the relationship so much more intimate and special when you know you can always be honest about your feelings and be accepted regardless and those feelings taken into account with so much care

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

i only want caring people around me !!!

@WormOnARock 4 ай бұрын

recently moved to a new state where i know no one and was brutally reminded that pUtTinG yOursElf oUT theRe is often awkward and hard and may not be fruitful for a while, which is sooo infuriating. but this is helping to convince me that that's okay:) also your b-roll is so gorgeous and mesmerizing

@Whatever_works 4 ай бұрын

I just want to give you a high five because you have such a good energy and motivation is your inspirational value

@Whatever_works 4 ай бұрын

I’d like the chance to be an audience member to your mic night if you’re willing to share where that is in Seattle?

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

“motivation is your inspirational value” neeeed to put that on a greeting card

@gabrochelle 4 ай бұрын

I feel so lucky to be going through my 20’s at the same time as you, feeling such similar things. thx for spilling your thoughts. you remind me what I really value vs letting my inner anxious spirals win!

@halebarely 4 ай бұрын

Katherine, your videos always come at a perfect time for me. I've been struggling with putting myself out there and trying to get comfortable doing things alone and you hit the nail on the feelings surrounding that!

@NZBeautiful 4 ай бұрын

This video came in perfect timing. I’ve been struggling with friendships lately and feeling rejected, so this was the reminder I need to “put myself out there,” initiate plans with new people, and move on swiftly when rejection inevitably happens. Rejection is redirection ❤ choose love over fear & live your truth.

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

KEEP IT PUSHIN!!!! encouragement is everywhere!

@crescentchelle 4 ай бұрын

thank you so much for sharing this

@GnomieTheHomie Ай бұрын

dang you're truly so powerful and inspiring with the way you live your life to the fullest! thank you for bein you!

@TheCeg3303 4 ай бұрын

This is literally what I'm going through right now to a tee. Thank you for making this video I feel like I'm not alone// feel seen. Being left out/ being the one who wants to hang more is a shitty feeling!! Keep hosting and inviting people out babes

@lemniskait 4 ай бұрын

I am so grateful to find your page again! As a follower during your college years I gained a lot of wisdom from your videos while applying to college and now a few years post-grad your videos came back to me at the perfect time. Thank you for offering us all a little bit of peace and inspiration in the not-knowing. You just gotta get your reps in!!

@youmeteacofeee 4 ай бұрын

the "i'll end you" bit had me lolll XD the whole rejection thing, mm it's encouraged me to carry a different perception on my own insecurities, my desire to try Tinder, to submit for publications in various journals, and just take myself out on day dates to explore the new place I'm in (also, your new hair is just *chef's kiss*)

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

@heatherlarissaharo9166 4 ай бұрын

Really loved the editing in this one.

@rrenatabp 4 ай бұрын

tldr: the only way out is through!! love the discussion. I fully believe that in order to actually deal with your insecurities you need to look them in eye, and allow yourself to feel them and question yourself and why you feel the way you feel and not always just pat yourself in the back and go 'oh poor me' you know?. No amount of running from situations which make you uncomfortable will work out because running just makes the thing you're running from have more power.

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

ONLY WAY OUT IS THRU 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

@varya_k. 4 ай бұрын

when i watch your videos, Kath, i feel like you just take the time to think about things i'd like to have more space in my anxious brain to think about. so thank you for doing the work for me haha. i resonate with a lot of what you r saying

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

i will ALWAYS be thinking on behalf of my anxious peoples…..

@Catluvr543 4 ай бұрын

It feels like I just watched a movie. Chills in the end. Love seeing the progression and your thought process!

@LJCecilia 4 ай бұрын

thanks for this, katherine. i'm struggling with some self talk around acting career progress or lack thereof at the moment while also deciding on whether a switch of dayjob will help some of the overwhelm and lack of executive function. this entire chat helped me. i should say it scared me and then once i sat with that and listened through, i realized in this small microcosm i can do something hard. appreciate your lens on things, always

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

the doubt can hang but it can never move in !!

@ArchV8 Ай бұрын

@Katherout, is Seattle freeze real or nah in your opinion?

@gigilina1782 4 ай бұрын

if you’re into astrology, i’m willing to bet there’s a lottt of activity in your 11H (10H as well, but relevant in a different way!) i’ve watched you for years, and social life & friendships have always been foundational for you. i’d recommend learning from the sign that rules your 11H, any planets there, aspects, etc because it will clue you in as to how you can alchemize the energy, it hints at the lessons you’re meant to learn-life has challenges, but we learn how to navigate. proud of you! happy for you!

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

i’m going to be sending this to my astrologically minded comrades for consult

@Summer77-z2n 4 ай бұрын

I love that you keep trying. Stay true. 💖

@evanimago 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, Katherine. Your videos are so lovely and inspiring to me, because I'm also someone who has to make a constant effort when it comes to these things, and while it's still quite scary, this gives me confidence in the fact that despite the struggle I WILL grow if I keep it up. Hope I can be at this stage in a couple of years

@jubiterr 4 ай бұрын

I love it here, thank you for sharing Kath!

@xfronwenzyoucamex 4 ай бұрын

Really insightful video! This was good reminder for me that even more confident people have their moments of insecurity. Lately I've been feeling like insecurity is a sign that I should give up but now I know it's a sign of what I need to work on.

@SyreLikeAFire 4 ай бұрын

i loved the message at the end so incredibly much!

@MattyLiam333 Ай бұрын

Seems like a very down to earth and normal chica.

@evabrazil13 3 ай бұрын

If I would have known you had a show at Laughs, I would have loved to come see! I've been watching your channel for years and am a Seattle girly too :)

@aarond9563 2 ай бұрын

Loved this... once again

@eltorocal 4 ай бұрын

You'll be just fine, young Lady.

@dev.morrison 4 ай бұрын

Always look forward to your videos!

@TheSlinq 4 ай бұрын

you don't need exposure to the world, the world is full of lots of pretty hateful stuff. What you need is a small group of people who you know will stand by you no matter what. Once you have that you can just stay indoors all the time and be happy

@handitover. 4 ай бұрын

idk how to explain it but that intro, it feels a lot like what its like to have schizophrenia sometimes. like that zooming of the wine glasses, and hooo those waves on the sidewalk with people biking over them, made my stomach drop hahaha

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

i like surreal psychedelic scenery so that checks out

@handitover. 4 ай бұрын

@@Katherout its a very fun intro and lovely video ❤❤

@Lion_McLionhead 4 ай бұрын

Weight lifting would send this channel to the moon. Unleash the Kath beast.

@jasmineb87 4 ай бұрын

it's always worth it

@megaartchannel 4 ай бұрын

Is there a meet up in Seattle in the end of October? I will be there for a conference

@Shearose107 4 ай бұрын

People need to learn that they are loved, they are beautiful but need to ultimately get over themselves. We will never become the center of everyone else's world and should really just stop in thinking we're that important. Live your life, enjoy yourself, and mine your business.

@jasmineb87 4 ай бұрын

the rewards come even on sundays!!!! 💌💌💌💌

@gigilina1782 4 ай бұрын

the positivity got toxic and the body keeps the score 😭

@LaytonObserves 4 ай бұрын

Okay, this video was so hyper-specifically resonant I think I'm going to throw up. (Love it)

@megmaxino 4 ай бұрын

Loving anything, people are afraid to love anything, I feel. Because there is risk of loss. There is risk of losing that someone, or that place, or that thing. But what is liv]fe for and what is it to be human than to love everything that living has to offer? To heck with it, honestly. That's why they always say that the happiest people can be the saddest. It's also true that the people who emit the largest amounts of love can in-turn also feel immense amounts of pain. To heck with it, honestly. Let the risk the loss, let the pain be bittersweet. Better bittersweet than having had not lived at all. Because bittersweet means YOU LOVED and YOU LIVED. You loved and you live. Just let yourself love and live, Kath. I'm here for you, always, and I need you to know that

@meowster22 4 ай бұрын

There are no steroids for putting yourself out there LOL love that description

@a.w.5617 4 ай бұрын

@katherout there's a song called "Rainbow" by Kacey Musgraves that really encompasses the emotions you talked about in the start of the video. "Well, the sky has finally opened The rain and wind stopped blowin' But you're stuck out in the same ol' storm again You hold tight to your umbrella Well, darlin', I'm just tryin' to tell ya That there's always been a rainbow hangin' over your head" hope the positive moments continue and the ups and downs level out. :)

@Katherout 4 ай бұрын

oh golden hour is one of my favorite albums of all time i love playing this song on piano !!