I quiet quit my job.

I did it! I quit!
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TIME STAMPS //
0:00 - leading up to this moment
2:22 - the build up
4:40 - being chronically ill at work
5:17 - cognitive dissonance
6:38 - mistreatment & harassment
7:10 - resisting my therapist and myself
9:29 - so i quiet quit
15:05 - delaying my actual quitting
16:35 - applying to other jobs
18:16 - deciding to go a different way
21:25 - WHAT NOW??
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[@dentalfloss3930]

TBH, as a European, I think “quiet quitting” is a bit of a weird term for “setting boundaries”. I think not taking calls at midnight or responding to emails on Saturday is only healthy. I am available to my employer between 8-6, everything outside of that is up to my discretion.

[@buddyryan875]

depends on your line of work and country culture... if you are in the US making a big salary the expectations are very different

[@FuegoJaguar]

As an American I think exactly the same.

[@emilyinnetherlands5295]

As an Asian, worked for American listed company in Singapore, and married a Dutch (European) husband and now living in Netherlands (in Europe), I can related to all sides of this discussion. You know, my Asian friends now working in Silicon valley Tech company used to say "the Europeans are so lazy comparing to Asians and Americans because it was just so slow there. In summer, everybody is gone on holidays. " But the reality as I see it is that "actually the dutch people around me all work very hard, no lazy ass". The only difference is Americans and Asians work all their waking hours, but the Europeans "draw boundaries". And so I draw my own conclusion that on this spectrum of "hard working", the Asians and Americans are probably on the end of too hard working to the extend that human got burnt out and not sustainable. And the Europeans (depending on which country you are talking about) maybe to a small extent, can work a lit bit more.

[@buddyryan875]

@@emilyinnetherlands5295 your comment was an excellent comment. I've worked at a global US based company for 15 years I've worked with every region for years at a time. I'm currently working with Europeans. I believe with this channel host is talking about is the "fight or flight" mode that your body can not turn off. You become so unaware of your state you are in "fight or flight" 24 x 7. Then your management and co-workers expect you to continue delivering the same way you have. I can related and have battled a similar thing myself recently. Thru prayer and belief in Jesus He has set me free of this

[@foxycon9059]

@@emilyinnetherlands5295 we need more efficiency in our work, not longer working ours... I am working with Japanese, and let me tell you of how inefficient they really are, lots of unnecessary tasks created just to make the employees stay longer at office.

[@JennJustLeft]

"Quiet Quitting" is what Europeans just call working. Source: American currently living and working in Europe. I lol'd when i heard that term. I was this overachiever back in the SF Bay Area selling my soul for pennies. Now I've found a work culture that values personal time above all else.

[@Katherout]

neeeeed that

[@GretaZ-dd3lu]

Seriously, that needs to be our default culture. We need to agree en masse to stoppit with all the "going above and beyond" for corporations that are looking to automate our jobs anyway.

[@martinaasterkyjakova7553]

​@@Katherout Hi from Europe, just came here to say what Jenn just said :D Quiet quitting just sounds like regular work

[@AmandaPandah]

I mean I think that depends what country in Europe you're in...

[@LaLaLaurino14]

THIS!!! I’ve been learning Norwegian and learning more about Norwegian culture and one of the things that has stuck out to me in Norway is that it’s vital for Norwegians to have a work/life balance. It’s common for people to get off at 4pm so they have the rest of the day to spend with family and friends. I also learned you aren’t seen as a hard worker if you stay past your clock out time, you are seen as someone who doesn’t prioritize themselves or their family time. BLEW MY MIND. and Norway is merely just one example, soooo many European countries value humanity over your ability to produce a product and I haven’t been able to look at America the same ever since. We really said we have freedom and ran with it, without ever second guessing what true freedom looks like, we just took what we could get and called it a day.

[@alaura6149]

All the things described here as "quiet quitting" have been my work ethic from the start of my career. I graduated into a pandemic and that definitely came with a sense of disillusionment and mental resignation going into the workforce. But I wonder how many more of us there are that will approach our jobs with a "work to live" rather than "live to work" mindset from the beginning rather than feel miserable and absolutely burnt out years into it.

[@kingstarscream3807]

People exist with a "live to work" mentality?

[@meganrichter9748]

"Quiet quitting" just sounds like having a healthy relationship with work. I don't understand why everyone doesn't work this way.

[@misguidedghost1111]

Exactly! I feel like the term quiet quitting is so unhelpful because what she is explaining is not 'quitting' at all. Its literally working your job without been taking advantage of by your company.

[@bremarie3442]

Exactly!!!! Moral of the story is when you see that your work place is toxic "like when they added traveling to her job description and didn't modify her work load" you have to run. I wouldn't call what she explained "quiet quitting" because it implies that doing your job isn't enough. In some companies that may be the case, but that should be the exception not the rule. Tip: When you get a new role stay on the market for at least 2-3 months in case you didn't pick-up on the toxicity during the interview. If you been in a toxic work envir. (like most of us) and you already know its not something you want to deal with (lets be real some people will deal with it- for yrs); because you rather be happy & not feel burnt out everyday then the only option is to leave. It sucks and you will feel like you are doing something wrong. Talk to people you can trust, who can give you that confidence to transition to another job.

[@ampersignia]

If you’re a knowledge worker and your analysis, code, note writing, back-and-forth comms, etc stuff in advance of a significant change affect other people weeks or months later, it can be very hard to just do the minimum. Because people will call out “what about this?” later and it’ll be on you if that thing went wrong. To be low-effort consistently for like a year makes you the bad guy for a ton of project holes. It’s exhausting feeling like the bad guy just because you didn’t plug every faulty hole in a system or a project in advance that costs everyone even more time or actual millions of dollars. It’s not as big of a deal to do the bare minimum as restaurant waiter where the customer’s interaction lasts a maximum of 2 hours and contributes like $60 of revenue. It’s hard when doing the bare minimum translates to literally millions of dollars. On top of that, it’s awkward as hell going through weekly team project updates if you try to just be average. Average can look “bad” in my workplace because everyone else is so productive and our team is supposed to be the experts. It makes me wonder if I’m just shitty or if there is a culture of overwork. I can’t always tell. So I’d choose to try to keep up and work more because I don’t want to be fired for underperforming.

[@bremarie3442]

@@ampersignia I understand what your saying. All industries aren't the same. We are more referring to work balance & boundaries. Both ends of the spectrum exist, but if your job description requires you to be a high performer then your likely being paid for that type of skill & you know what it is. Either way I feel that work culture is usually either proactive, reactive or somewhat in between. When it's reactive your constantly putting out fires, things can be extremely disorganized, ppl are stretched too thin & then on top of that you still have your job to do which is usually hard to get through with since all departments are very busy. So there's a difference in working in a reactive work culture for a specific job & taking that same job to a different company & being in a proactive work environment. More people today prefer work life balance. Understanding that if there is a deliverable that needs to be met you will stay later, but the work culture doesnt make you feel that you need to answer emails 9pm because the company is proactive so it can wait until morning

[@kristina3threat]

We are in Seattle too. My husband did the same thing after being at Amazon for seven years. He was HUGELY burned out, quit and spent about 6 months focusing on his mental and physical health (he had over a year’s worth of rainy-day funds to cover all our bills and mortgage). When he finally decided he wanted to go back to work, it only took him two weeks, and now he’s working at a place that’s two promotions above where he was at Amazon and pays better to boot. Do what feels best to you and don’t worry about the naysayers that are not in your position. YOU know what will work!

[@Katherout]

bless you 😩🥺

[@JustRosieStorm]

I quit my job without a new one a few years ago and I can not express how incredibly beneficial it was for me. I was in a similar situation to yours and I needed time away from everything. Looking back there are a few huge things in my life that I absolutely love that never would have happened had I not taken the time. The one piece of advice I would give is to not be hard on yourself if you think you’re not doing enough with your time. Do exactly what you want to do in the moment and don’t stress. Be free and have fun :)

[@Akirameowxp]

I had no idea I have been quietly quitting since the start of my career 😅😂. One a serious note, it’s pretty amazing seeing you grow into the person you want to be. I have been watching you for a while and I have seen you change in the best way possible it’s truly inspiring. Thank you! I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do in the future. 💕

[@lauraelise5095]

Me too. I’m like oops. I always run errands during the day and take longer breaks but so does my whole time. Life > work 😃

[@jessmess7981]

Me too lmao i love running errands after lunch bc it helps w the food coma plus it breaks your day better

[@andreaurueta8669]

Trqqqq

[@awolowiecki720]

literally experienced all of this when I quit my job early 2020, woah. The resentment I got from coworkers when I said was taking my own sabbatical - snarky comments like "you're too young for that" - that was eye opening too

[@ZaidsMusic]

It’s incredible how you articulate such an underreported experience. Never heard of “quiet quit” before but I related to all of it. Proud of you for taking the steps you need to realign your life & we’re so excited for what’s to come!

[@Katherout]

thank you!!!!!!! :’)))

[@kaseyspohn8302]

I’m glad you’re sharing your journey. I went through the same things and quit my job in October of last year. I was unemployed for 3 months and did the inner work in order to be able to go back to working a basic ass job. New mantra is to work to pay my bills and that’s it. I now have 4 days off every week, make enough to pay my bills, and take much better care of myself than I was a year ago. Thank you for sharing. I love your videos. Thank you for the support.

[@TimothyWard]

Kath, thank you so much for the shoutout and sharing a clip of my video! You rock! Stay abundant.

[@Katherout]

your video was so helpful for me, Timothy! Keep on creating xx

[@MsWicked19]

I ironically subscribed to you years ago as an overachiever wanting to learn to become even better, and after graduation and the pandemic, cannot help but think the feelings you have are universal. There’s an “a-ha!” moment not every overachiever gets to have, when you wake up and realize your values have changed, and you want to liberate yourself in your present state, with all life has to offer, with the ability to place conscious effort into dreams or pursuits you may have unknowingly put on the back burner for some time now. Thank you for articulating your feelings and thought process to get to this point. People need to know.

[@elizabethkeeman2966]

Your so brave Katherine. Hats off to you for taking agency and putting the next best step into your life. This was not an easy choice but you really did it!! Well done. I am in the same boat at the moment and chronically ill but also have 2 kids and wanting a home for them.. To make this move now was the best thing for you. I believe my time will come as Im quietly hoping for the universe to listen. Xxx

[@seonaideadie5049]

This video has really resonated with me. This week I handed in my notice and instead of feeling excited for the future and my new job, I just felt relief. I worked for one of the ‘big four’ (if you know you know) on a graduate training contract. I have spent the last two months crying everyday at work, being made to feel small and bullied by seniors and managers, concerns around my development which I raised over six months ago coming back to bite me (telling me it’s my fault), always being told to ‘take responsibility for my work’ without getting a solid answer as to what that meant, not being paid for overtime but spending 2 hours a day finishing work after hours only to be told I wasn’t doing enough. On top of that, I am having to sit exams when not in busy season meaning I had so little free time to develop and enjoy all my passions outside work, also not being able to take holiday when I wanted as I’d already been assigned to engagements. I have become a shell of the person I was before working there. I have chronic anxiety and stress as well as extremely low self esteem, I now take medication and go to counselling. When I handed in my notice, I thought people would care, turns out it has made absolutely no difference whatsoever. I’d built it up in my head as this big thing and no one cared. Moral of the story, don’t spend 22 months in a job you hate, telling yourself if I just work harder, just stick it out, push through, if I change myself maybe I’ll be accepted. Life is too short.

[@Katherout]

the relief is CRAZY

[@kelseymay4791]

I’ve been watching you for yearsss and I’m so glad you’re staying true to yourself on this

[@Katherout]

❤❤❤ thank you kelsey

[@taylorlien569]

I've been unemployed (not by choice) for a second and I don't think I will look back on this time fondly in most ways but it did give me so much clarity that I will always be grateful for that. You are such an inspiration to me and the way I want to conduct myself professionally and personally.

[@sondraguardado2751]

So happy for you!! There's truly no better feeling than that of taking time off after quitting a job that drained the life out of you. I didn't realize how "not myself" I had felt for so long until I finally disconnected from a toxic work environment. Wishing you lots of fresh air and PNW hikes in this new season of life!

[@lina-daniel]

I’ve been waiting for this video‼️‼️‼️so proud that you took the bold move to quit and do what you want to do.

[@Katherout]

THANK YOU 😭😭😭

[@nathalieparmentier5012]

Hell yeah Kath 👏 I'm 3 months in to a self-funded break from work and it's brought so much clarity. Wishing the same for you!

[@Katherout]

YEEHAW my fellow unemployed person

[@nataliadenisiuc2819]

You’re absolutely courageous! I’m feeling a little emotion listening to you open up about this because I was in exactly same situation. It felt insane to go ahead and change up my whole life and even if people said it’s not the best decision - I knew it will work for me. Just like it will work for you! The amount of strength you give us all Kath, it’s incredible. By you being vulnerable - we get to be vulnerable, and as a result of those two things - we all get to be brave.

[@Katherout]

[@Ready4TheWeek3nd]

Yes! Good to see you doing what’s best for you. So much of this resonates. I also work in tech sales, it grinds me down everyday. I quit last week! I have no new job to go to. It’s scary but also liberating and it just feels right. 🙌

[@Katherout]

YAHOOOOO CONGRATS

[@itselaika4lyfe]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your thoughts with us. I'm so happy for you for putting your own happiness first! Wishing you a restful sabbatical!!

[@Katherout]

thank you sm elaika!!!!!!

[@torio8818]

Wow you are so brave and congrats for taking the plunge to show up for yourself. As you were talking at the end about being able to retire or take time off every so often finally made me understand and validate why I wanna be a teacher and could never could work 12 months a year. Thank you for sharing as it really helped me think about what I want when I enter the workforce next year.

[@butterbeer8651]

Proud of you Katherine! Follow what aligns with your soul more. You put the work in and deserve some time for you. Cheers!

[@tiffanyferg]

proud of you!!

[@Jenny-uy5qd]

Wow, this video really hit home to the point I wanted to tear up. Thank you for capturing so many of the feelings and experiences that I have felt over the past two years and putting them into words. This felt truly cathartic and I hope will inspire me to follow through with the necessary actions to put my life and health first and deprioritize work from the "center of the wheel," so to speak. Looking forward to hearing more about this journey and have complete faith that this path will lead to good. Also love the haircut!

[@Katherout]

get it out of the center!!!

[@claraduhon1476]

congrats, Katherine! it’s so inspiring to see you make the right decision for you.

[@saraennis1402]

Loving this personal growth and authenticity. Good for you!

[@Katherout]

❤❤

[@ChelseaAriel]

I relate so much to your story especially the part about the harassment you faced and how the job basically did nothing about it. Smh. I’m so happy you are in a better place. I hope to get away from where I work soon too.

[@showherwork]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience here. I sobbed through almost the entire thing. It really spoke to me. I have been in the thick of quiet quitting (which I didn't even know there was a term for) and trying to convince myself to just leave and take the break I know I need, but it's been a challenge. So happy for you that you were able to take that step!

[@Katherout]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@olivia_leigh1]

YESSSSSSS! I quit my corporate job 6 months ago (bc chronic illness) without going right into a new one and its been the best possible decision. I didn’t realize it was possible to love life this much and look forward to the next day until I left! It was definitely a weird change at first but so worth it. funny enough, I’ve also started embroidering. Proud of you ❤️

[@BrielleJuliet]

Okay congratulations!! Even from just a viewers perspective, it was clear just how HEAVY this job was for you. I think a break will do wonders for you, it can be so helpful to have time off after leaving a stressful & toxic worth environment. Sending you love & the best vibes!!!

[@Katherout]

heavy is RIGHT. i'm so much lighter now ☺☺

[@nitzans]

So happy for you!! Your videos are so validating because I have been feeling very similarly over the last few years, especially since moving to Europe. I'm finishing grad school and moving into the work force soon, and the work-life balance here is so much healthier and more sustainable than in my home country which is a relief because the rise and grind lifestyle would destroy me

[@Katherout]

!!!! where in europe?? i am always wanting to experience another cultural relationship to labor

[@nitzans]

@@Katherout the Netherlands, where most people take August off and set up an auto-reply email and nobody ever calls you on the weekend 😇

[@Brishti8]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences ! I took a leave of absence/sabbatical this spring and it was a really restful and transformative period for me . I’m glad you’re taking time to reset and wish you all the best on your journey ✨✨

[@Katherout]

thank you catherine 😌😌

[@b1con411]

Thank you so much for what you do. This video, and the "I no longer aspire to have a career" video, so drastically changed my perspective on work that I honestly don't know where my mindset and life would be right now if you hadn't posted them. It's just so incredibly comforting to hear someone voicing the same thoughts that have been swimming around in my own mind and to see all these people in the comments sharing similar experiences, especially since I don't have many people in my life who can relate. After a pretty circuitous career path post-college, I ended up quitting my job in January with the knowledge that I wanted to apply to a training program that would set me up for a career I knew I would find more enjoyable/fulfilling than what I had previously been doing. It's because of people like you (and, of course, an immense amount of financial privilege) that I felt comfortable in my decision to quit without having a program acceptance or another job immediately lined up. Taking a few months off -- something I would have found incredibly daunting and anxiety-inducing a few years ago -- was absolutely wonderful. I'm starting the training program today and, for the first time in many years, truly looking forward to what's ahead in my life with excitement, no matter where my career ends up taking me.

[@jeaninevanlente3520]

Thanks for sharing your story. I am on a similar path. I also quit my job in June for a self paid sabbatical until October. I was the high performer in my team at work, but other than a pat on the back it did not pay to be a high performer. After a request for part-time over the summer was denied (as expected), I handed in my resignation. I am enjoying my summer now. Take care, you deserve to make YOU a priority.

[@oliviamarie5285]

I’ve been obsessively checking my notifications for this video and I’m so glad it’s here. Love youuuuu 🤩 I hope you find what you’re looking for during this restful time in your life and I can’t wait to keep watching your videos.

[@Katherout]

hehehe finally got it up!

[@dontworryudontgottastaythesame]

WOOOO love this. this whole idea resonates so deeply with me. ur the coolest & it’s so affirming to feel seen in this way. 100% support u in this & i feel so happy 4 u. love and light

[@fogaasolomona-afoa4850]

Everything about this video is ittttt!!! I cannot express how much I appreciate you making this because a sis is going through it now.

[@Katherout]

so many of us are 😭

[@celestial_stuff]

Wow. That was truly inspiring. This is the healing we all need. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@Katherout]

thank you for watching xx

[@amaraj98]

Love this for you! This just made me realize that I have been quiet quitting for some months now.

[@MissPamaLama]

This video was so good. I just finished a Tech boot camp and considered Tech Sales as an option. I may need to go back to the drawing board. Thank you for being transparent.

[@Danysian]

I was unemployed from May 2020-May 2021 and even though I wasn't able to really go anywhere or spend as much time with friends as I would've liked, it was honestly a great time in my life. I was not stressed from work, I could sleep in as much as I wanted, and I could just do what I wanted when I wanted like going hiking on a nice Tuesday morning. I'm working now but have been sort of in this quiet quitting mode for a while. I have really not felt any kind of fulfillment from my work and am always thinking of something else I could do that makes me feel fulfilled. Maybe this video and your journey can help push me to do so... Thanks Katherout!

[@janaynmelis5250]

Wow! I've just started learning about this concept and now you are talking about quiet quitting as well. Thanks again for being so transparent with us.

[@Katherout]

always xx

[@NettySaso]

omg this was amazing and sooo helpful, thank you

[@cuzeke]

Congrats!! Excited for you to enjoy your newfound freedom and happiness

[@bay_7117]

Yessss girl! I went through the same exact thing working at a major tech company as a HR Business Partner... From the burnout, to making the decision to leave, to coming to terms with judgement from others, I ultimately had to go with my instinct and make the best decision for myself! I quit in May and am currently enjoying my break. Words can't explain the peace I finally feel and the time I have to rest, reflect, and slowly figure out what's next for me. I know not everyone has the means to do this but I agree with normalizing that it's ok to take a breather in between gigs if you can/want to. Enjoy your time off and can't wait to hear your journey!

[@Gina091696]

So proud of you!!!! We stan doing what is best for you!

[@Katherout]

❤❤❤

[@apollorussell738]

What a great story!! Very inspiring

[@elmaazhdehakosh277]

Wow! I just loved this video a lot! You're such an inspiration for getting closer to our authentic selves, thanks!

[@thejuliwithani]

Yes! Good for you, girl. Loved this video.

[@melissalam1173]

Only just reading the title of this video right now but I'm SO proud of you Katherine. You do what so many of us can't or aren't brave enough to do. So excited for your future!

[@Katherout]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much

[@edenlouise51]

I’ve been watching you since your freshman year vlogs! Good for you for coming to this conclusion and going for it!

[@Katherout]

thank u eden :))

[@beatrizramos5849]

Have been waiting for this video!! Love love watching your journey

[@Katherout]

❤❤❤ thank you beatriz

[@Yourrrr]

woo big decision!! proud of you :) sounds like you're gonna have a funnn summer

[@hclo323]

so proud of you!! excited for you to finally take this time for yourself

[@Katherout]

thank you :'))

[@MWrong]

I am only 9 minutes in but wow.. thank you for continuing to overshare with us. Every time I watch a video I sit back and really truly think about things in life and work etc. appreciate you for that and for being vulnerable with us

[@Katherout]

❤❤

[@mayaibarra5230]

Girl we are on the same wave and this video has been so reaffirming for me!!! So thank you. I am leaving teaching after only a year of doing it. Similar to you, I sped through my degree and graduated in 3 years to save money. I was an honors student and overachiever throughout. Then I went directly into a very high stress job with minimal life experience. I realized I needed to take a step back and figure out who I am as a person when I’m not working. What are my genuine interests? So I quit and am taking three months just working part time until I go back to a full time job I love (nannying). So far I’m mildly failing because I keep taking on more dog sitting and babysitting jobs that I’m offered which is slowly adding up to full time work, but I think it’ll get easier as the weeks go on to ditch that money-hungry mindset. Also I’m thankful my part time work isn’t nearly as stressful as teaching was. We’re in the same boat 💕✨

[@Katherout]

ah yes the money-hungry mindset... how do we find the balance of earning what we need but not falling prey to always maximizing profits...

[@shumonjohnson6077]

So proud of you!

[@taylor9654]

I feel very seen right now, 100% relate on your work experience although I’m fortunate in that my company isn’t that much at odds with my own political and social views. You’re one of my favorite creators and I appreciate you sharing this inside look into your life!!

[@Katherout]

ugh thank u so much for watching/commenting!!!

[@spacedog6229]

Been following you for many years and I just wanted to say that you are really inspiring. I hope you enjoy your time off. Much love

[@Katherout]

thank you :)

[@JustAGrl007]

Very relatable video!

[@taylor3342]

I quit with nothing lined up in April. It has truly been the best, most compassionate decision I’ve ever made for myself. Though I haven’t traveled or done anything too extraordinary it has been a transformative 6 weeks. It’s hard to put it into words, but I’m sure you will do so beautifully in the months to come. I would re-up the advice I saw another commenter give: don’t put too much pressure on yourself with this newfound free time. There is so much rest and reprogramming going on inside - honor it. If you have a 3 day long KZbin binge bender or don’t get around to doing yoga everyday, it’s ok! I’m so proud of you for having the audacity to trust yourself and take the leap!!

[@melkyboi]

needed this ❤ proud of you!

[@Katherout]

thank you :-)

[@actartine]

Congrats! I did the same in April and it’s amazing. Can’t wait to see you savor this time.

[@Katherout]

❤❤❤ savor is the exact right word

[@natashasohni7276]

I resonate with this so much. I am so happy for you!!!!!! 💓

[@Katherout]

thank you so much natasha xx

[@TheBlushingGiraffe]

I resonated with soooooo much of this video! I too choose unemployment for the majority of the past year, I was a burnt out primary school teacher who desperately needed time off, not tutoring, not going to another school etc. just having a damn break. I’m lucky and blessed that my husband supported me in this and after 8-9 months I’ve decided to go for a whole different direction, career path and hopefully a more balanced future where I’ll be making more money and having more time - we can pray!!! Haha. Good luck lovely, you’ve got this, may your break be exactly what you need to start a beautiful new direction!

[@Katherout]

ah i'm so glad to hear this!!!

[@UdoADHD]

Okay this inspired me to make a video response to this. I honestly think it’s detrimental to call this “quiet quitting” for a number of reasons

[@CinnamonBlast]

So proud of you 💗

[@user-jx9ln5qo9q]

Omg your hair looks amazing like this

[@ananastea]

Girl, that was so interesting! I am new to the channel but great job on the video! And maybe it’s the age thing, but I’ve been having similar thoughts. I am on the verge, trading a lot of my time for quite a lot of money now for 6 years now, and it is seemingly getting better with raises etc but it takes up more and more of the precious time, my 20s are just slipping by. It requires a lot of courage to quit and it might be not the most practical thing, but I know that feeling trapped is not good for your head. Completely unsure of what to do and scared to regret, trying to find balance in what is there now. But I still am so encouraged by people that decide and quit like you did! That might mean something.

[@NFSMAN50]

The one and only Katherout! Proud of you for quitting the rat race my friend. Never sell your soul to a company, job that doesn't care about you at all

[@Katherout]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kokojournal]

Hi Katherout, thank you for sharing your story. :) This video really resonated with me because I went & am going through almost the identical experience. I had a corporate job for the past 6 years, burned out and wanted to leave, tried job hunting because I thought that's what I was supposed to do, but then realised it's not what I want to do, and decided to quit without the next job lined up, which of course took me ages to finally decide. I was interested in making content and filmmaking so I ended up going to summer school on documentary in London and spent 3 months traveling in Europe. The time I spent in Europe was truly the happiest I've been since I graduated from college, meeting incredible people and building truly meaningful friendships, traveling solo and feeling scared but excited, and I felt like I've accomplished and learned so much more in those 3 months than the past few years. I recently started actively looking for jobs and with the pressure to find a job and not being successful so far and being questioned why I left without the next job lined up by interviewers, I was starting to question if it was the right decision or if I made a foolish impulsive decision even though I am truly happy with taking the time off. So you made me feel less alone and encouraged me to stay positive. Thank you

[@joymae]

I love your editing it’s very unique with the internet 2.0 sound cartoon. Not sure how to call it. I think it’s normal for tech sales girlies to feel burn out, rage quitters, and travel. Very relatable. Been there

[@mariafernandatarazon409]

You are truly an inspiration to me❤

[@WhereTheLocalsRoam]

So proud of you for doing the thing! You have to do what’s best for you, and taking time off to reevaluate sounds like a great plan. I had a job a few companies back that really took advantage of me, had my traveling so often it almost wasn’t worth having my own place, and then tried to force me out so they could re-hire someone in a cheaper state. I showed up the next day and handed in my notice. I had no plan, but I had enough saved so I took three months off to travel for FUN, think about where I saw my career heading, and ultimately found a job that was a much better fit. Whatever’s right for you is what matters. I hope you enjoy this well-deserved break!!

[@figsandoranges]

A while ago when you said that you no longer look for fulfillment in your labor, that really stuck with me. I wondered if you were right, but I kept hoping for some kind of fulfillment in my work and eventually found some. I think that you are amazing for making a brave decision and I hope you find fulfillment this way.

[@Katherout]

loved this!

[@tatianaeng4766]

the topics you touch on in this video aren't talked about enough, in my opinion. thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us ♥

[@ElizabethGilbert2]

Real question: what is the difference between quiet quitting and good work life boundaries/balance?

[@_janetta]

I feel like quiet quitting is when you quite frankly just don't care anymore. You're burnt out and just doing whatever - pushing boundaries in the process. Maybe because you realize you've been "used" for your work ethic, maybe because you're just not connected to your work anymore. Really insert any reason here that makes you not care nearly as much as you once did. Work life balance is more like you still care about what you do and how you're seen at work and your role gives you the ability to create that balance without getting flack for it on the back end. You can work hard and leave satisfied and not drained of life. At least that's how I see them 🤷🏾‍♀️.

[@thunderandreign]

I dont functionally see a difference either. Ive literally never done more than what i was required to do when i worked 9 to 5s and it made no difference, i got praised for good work all the same and didnt get in trouble for not going "above and beyond." 🤷‍♀️

[@kurthummelstan]

agree with what janetta said! my (uninformed) take on it is that quiet quitting is acting in away that you couldn't necessarily justify to your boss if called out on it. like even though a lot of companies may want you to work later, if you only work from exactly 9-5 then you can justify that those are the hours you were hired for. whereas like going to run errands in the middle of the day, if you were called out on that you can't really justify why you were doing something else during work hours. of course if you read stuff like david graeber's bullshit jobs you'll realize that you most likely won't be called out on it in many many jobs, but that's my theory lol

[@__mcat]

i think the difference is quiet quitting is where you're accepting of the strong possibility of losing the job eventually one way or another, the approach really is "fuck it," que sera sera, etc, etc.

[@TheBeatlesToday]

Just so I don't echo the dozens of other comments saying how proud they are of you (even though I AM PROUD, GIRLIE!!), instead I'll gush about how amazing your hair looks! I'm loving watching your curly hair journey; I've been growing out my hair, so it's been getting less and less curly as it gets longer and weighed down, and your shorter cut is making me reconsider!

[@Katherout]

omg thank you! with my newfound free time i'm finally filming my routine so that'll be up on tiktok soooon :)))

[@violet5159]

I also jumped into a career (marketing) straight after college out of fear and convenience. After two years of jumping from agency to agency, I realized my personal values conflicted with my line of work. So I took almost two years off and worked at a dog daycare while I saved up to go to graduate school to get my masters in social work!

[@sarahs9553]

So happy for you!!

[@patriciawoodward9121]

I am very proud of you! Thank you for this video! I hope that I can quit my job soon!

[@tarynmarie9066]

New subbie. You had me at 'burnt out, left-leaning over achiever'.

[@vilonflagle]

I really love this exploration of your journey. I found the video by Timothy Ward a few months ago and I was like woah there's a name for it!? When I was 20 I joined the military in order to bypass the whole "you need experience to get an entry level job" idiocy and to avoid student debt while still receiving training. I chose a highly technical job and when I got to my first station I was high energy and filled with ideas. Over and over I was told "sit down, shut up, do your job, that isn't how this works" so. Less than 2 years into my "career", I was essentially forced to quiet quit. Then I was harassed by upper leadership because of it even though I had tried to offer contributions but I wasn't playing the right game I guess. After 6 years and a severe mental and physical breakdown later (that I did not seek help for), my contract was finally up. I was immensely grateful for lockdown because I had already quiet quit and I was like ok finally maybe I can recover from this awful burnout. I wasn't able to fully recover and now we're back to 4 days in the office 1 day of telework and am seriously conflicted as to how I'm going to proceed. I'm so excited I found a channel that so profoundly mimics my own conflicts and desires and will be sending you all the healing vibes. Highly recommend planting your feet in some gorgeous PNW grass after an afternoon rain :)

[@dwidas6323]

I've been watching your channel on and off for years and I just wanna say that hair and brow glow up though ✨ But also congrats on doing what's best for you

[@Katherout]

L M A O it was honestly hard watching some of the old footage

[@rmfickfack]

Just stumbled across your channel and I absolutely loved this video. I just quit my job in an overly taxing field after a decade and it was a scary leap, but it was so necessary and thus far, SO WORTH IT. I also did a bit of quiet quitting over the last year or so because it was so clear that it didn't matter. I relate to you so much! Enjoy your time off. I've just subscribed and I can't wait to see what you do with this self-funded sabbatical!

[@Basil-ex6zy]

So happy for you and proud of you! It’s not an easy decision to do what’s best for yourself and what you want. Made me feel better about my own decision - I’ve just finished my undergrad and couldn’t afford a year off before my masters, and have been working part time throughout my whole degree. Exhausting. So, I took the plunge and decided to quit my part time job and make it work, and give myself a month off before starting my grad degree. I just want to sit on the floor for a bit!! Life is the most important thing and the sooner we realise that and deconstruct from the capitalist hamster wheel, the better! Good luck with your time offfff

[@Katherout]

SIT ON THE FLOOR!!!!

[@ampersignia]

Related to this more than most videos on KZbin. I went through/am going through the same thought process of convincing yourself that there are reasons to stay at this job - existing pay, raise just given, waiting for equity to vest, benefits, team change, seasonality, etc etc all the possible reasons you would delay. And I related to wanting to be fired or laid off, or rejected from job interviews just so the universe could decide for you. Then you could have an easily-explainable reason to others for why you prioritized yourself and took time off working altogether. Like “oh yeah I was laid off… that’s totally why I didn’t have a job for 3 months. Not at all because I just deserve to not work literally every single month of being alive as an adult human on planet Earth.”

[@serenavoice66]

Gooooo girl gooooooo goo get it ! Last week I had a 3 day work week and my mental health has never been better!!!! Working 8.5 hours a day 5 days a week a recipe for depression and anxiety and I will stand but that NO MATTER what ANYONE says!! Thank u sm for speaking out about this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@marcusliou2812]

Loved loved loved this video

[@zahavasantos902]

Ahh we support you ❤️

[@Katherout]

❤❤❤

[@madelinemerlic5276]

Take that time off! Was unemployed for several months last year and this year and it was absolutely amazing❤️

[@Katherout]

and so i've HEARD!!!

[@briabyrd2835]

I decided to drop out of college this year in early April after I had a month long depressive episode. Everything you said about the bare minimum and the fear of uncertainty and safety was really keeping me in a place I didn’t belong. I’m so happy to hear someone’s story that is similar to my own and I can’t wait to see what we both do during our rest period!!!!! Thank you for helping me find someone that gets what it’s like. ❤️

[@lananhnguyen9235]

My love and support are with you girl. It's not an uncommon ideas to prioritize your well being. Your doctors, therapist and youtube comment section are here to root for you if a little spice of external validation is needed. Also you mentioned ennagram type 3, I would really love to explore the subject of Ennagram if you bring it to your channel

[@Katherout]

maybe i'll talk more about enneagrams on tiktok or something! not sure i'd have enough to fill a whole video

[@vanessaajohn]

You have that post "I feel freer out of this situation" radience.

[@Katherout]

EXACTLY!!!

[@JCResDoc94]

16:10 designed to give you just enuf to never quit or be happy. -JC

[@rowenazuercher5363]

I relate to this video SO MUCH and honestly it came at the perfect time for me.

[@Katherout]

i'm so glad!!!

[@MatChrysan]

I've been struggling a lot with my anxiety, especially at work where I don't enjoy it as much as I should and I put myself under a lot of pressure with the whole overachiever mindset. I especially get the whole I can't quit yet bc of XYZ and I can't quit without having a job waiting mindset and worrying about what everyone with think. Thanks for sharing your experience so openly, you're a good role model to look to to help me form my own way.

[@Katherout]

i was stuck in that mindset for a long time clearly so be easy on yourself and know that you'll get there!!!

[@msnappykid5578]

True happiness comes when you spend your time how you want to spend it. Live free! Best wishes