i quit my $350k job as a lawyer.

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Cece Xie

Cece Xie

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i'm quitting - 0:00
intro - 0:21
short interlude - 0:58
reason #1: i do not want the partners' lives - 1:54
reason #2: it's time to take a risk - 5:56
reason #3: ownership - 9:50
what's next? - 10:53
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❓ F A Q s ❓
how old are you? 30 ('91 baby)
which schools did you go to? yale (undergrad) and harvard (law school)
what did you major in? economics
what was your gpa and lsat score? 3.86/176
what sign/MBTI/enneagram are you? aries, ENFJ, 3w4
are you sure you're not a virgo? no part of my star chart is virgo or an earth sign, i swear

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@TMM-N
@TMM-N 2 жыл бұрын
I recommend you 1. Breast implant 2. Double eye lid operation
@evanaraj
@evanaraj 2 жыл бұрын
I recommend you learn how to treat people with respect and maybe get out of that rock you're under.
@ocularpressure4558
@ocularpressure4558 2 жыл бұрын
That was rude
@toxicyasuo2897
@toxicyasuo2897 2 жыл бұрын
wtf lmao
@ocularpressure4558
@ocularpressure4558 2 жыл бұрын
@@toxicyasuo2897 I know rite she’s like crazy hott n smart 🔥
@benjones6932
@benjones6932 2 жыл бұрын
Pin of shame I see. So uncalled for
@chiaraA.
@chiaraA. 2 жыл бұрын
becoming partner in a law firm is like winning a pie eating contest and the prize is.... more pie
@fruitypopwhickle6806
@fruitypopwhickle6806 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣True.
@erices621
@erices621 2 жыл бұрын
and way more money...way more
@BK-dv3hh
@BK-dv3hh 2 жыл бұрын
Lolllllll
@colors6692
@colors6692 2 жыл бұрын
@@erices621 Like you'd know🤦🏿‍♀️🤡
@janco333
@janco333 2 жыл бұрын
The reward for hard work is more work
@noelakine
@noelakine 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, the American education system is truly baffling. How someone can earn 350k and still be shouldering student debt is beyond me...
@richardparadox163
@richardparadox163 2 жыл бұрын
If a person is making that much and after 4-5 years still has student debt it usually indicates that they haven’t prioritized paying it down either because of financial irresponsibility and they don’t think it’s a big deal, or more likely the interest on their debt is low enough that they would prefer to make the minimum payment and invest the money instead to earn a higher return. For doctors/lawyers their student debt is almost like a mortgage, they borrowed a large amount up front in order have an income stream and use that to pay back the money over time.
@haute03
@haute03 2 жыл бұрын
@@richardparadox163 Yep. You're spot on. I know people with a household income of $500k and crazy student debt that they could have easily paid off years ago. They don't want to prioritize paying it down because they enjoy the lifestyle their salary currently affords them and don't want to "cut back".
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 2 жыл бұрын
She needs better financial planning
@BoldBrandFlakes
@BoldBrandFlakes 2 жыл бұрын
@@richardparadox163 Exactly, if the lawyers she's talking about in the video are still "paying on their student loans after 20 years" then it's most likely their fault they still have debt. People assume just because someone has a financially viable job such as a lawyer or a doctor that they're financially literate as well, when in fact these people can be just as reckless with their money as a person making minimum wage. How many doctors we see driving around in $100,000 luxury cars with houses beyond their reach still in student debt? Plenty honestly. No matter how much you make, if you aren't responsible financially then it's irrelevant.
@gratefulliving4155
@gratefulliving4155 2 жыл бұрын
Beyond
@MrHavoc313
@MrHavoc313 2 жыл бұрын
quitting a job is the most "stressful stress reliver" there is XD
@chocolatebunny3221
@chocolatebunny3221 2 жыл бұрын
Not with that price tag! I would’ve sucked it up if that was me. I grew up poor and would kill for a high paying job that I can pay off my student loans and buy a permanent home for me and my mom.
@chocolatebunny3221
@chocolatebunny3221 2 жыл бұрын
@@abikleinsmith thank you. I’m just really tired of the struggle. I’ve stressed and worried myself into an eating disorder. I don’t want to struggle anymore
@ievolcisum
@ievolcisum 2 жыл бұрын
Same situation as you. I have to recommend fixing your eating because I've made some dumb mistakes because of my struggle life mentality. You come first, not your dreams of home ownership. Not even your mother. You go first, and that includes your health, mental and physical.
@ShortenMonteCristo
@ShortenMonteCristo 2 жыл бұрын
2 worst things in the world: having a job and not having a job
@chocolatebunny3221
@chocolatebunny3221 2 жыл бұрын
@@ShortenMonteCristo ain’t that the truth!🙄🙄🙄🙄
@neilsingh5311
@neilsingh5311 9 ай бұрын
I’m a lawyer who loves my job. But I have a lot of colleagues who hate theirs, and they tend to have one thing in common: They never liked the study of law in the first place. I see comments on this video from other lawyers who tell young people “never go to law school!” This is so misguided. If you don’t study something you genuinely do not like, you’re probably going to be miserable. Law school isn’t the problem. Making bad choices for poor reasons is.
@mdumairmdumair5183
@mdumairmdumair5183 5 ай бұрын
white and case , kirkland , allen and overy and all big law are the worst firm ever don't ever work their
@Fercho01
@Fercho01 4 ай бұрын
I just made a similar comment. You have to love the practice of law. And it’s not for everyone. It’s just not.
@RR-nb4rr
@RR-nb4rr 2 ай бұрын
This is untrue. You can enjoy law but then realise corporate firms don’t care about your ability…they just want you to make as much money as possible and don’t care about your needs! You can’t know at 19 that these jobs milk you dry and don’t care about your health or needs
@Erika2
@Erika2 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Cece! I quit Big Law 2 years ago and it was the best decision I've ever made. It's scary to leave a big paycheck and the prestige of Big Law, but I think you'll find that it's worth it to pursue your 'why'!
@yao9598
@yao9598 2 жыл бұрын
That's why I follow Erika!
@Itsdanielpeng
@Itsdanielpeng 2 жыл бұрын
Can we get Julian to reply too? haha
@sylviacutie3649
@sylviacutie3649 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video, but question: what was your journey on getting a big law job? What field of law you were in? How does one make over 300k in law?
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
@@sylviacutie3649 i’ll make a video about all this, but the top law school to biglaw conveyor belt is incredibly easy. biglaw salaries are public and start at $215k now, i believe
@sylviacutie3649
@sylviacutie3649 2 жыл бұрын
@@CeceXie thank you! The thing is I have a premed background and I am currently working in the medical field, and I recently graduated from college. I am studying for the LSAT and Gre, but I think I might just apply with the Gre. Is the Gre good for law school? What is your take?
@WhiteBoardFinance
@WhiteBoardFinance 2 жыл бұрын
Big law is similar to investment banking. Long hours. Big pay. You ultimately sacrifice a lot and don’t know why.
@NickGeorgiou
@NickGeorgiou 2 жыл бұрын
Big pay
@triggerfish2711
@triggerfish2711 2 жыл бұрын
Long hours lmao you act like they're out there doing construction work. I can pull off office work all day and not complain about it.
@rlt3257
@rlt3257 2 жыл бұрын
Well good for you but remember everyone is different. As an intern in a big law firm in France there are months where I begin at 9am and finish at 2 am... The most I had to do this was 3 months in a row... I can tell you, I was depressed and I don't have to specify that those months were stressful
@guy5140
@guy5140 2 жыл бұрын
@@triggerfish2711 You sound like someone who hasn't done a lot of office work. Its not physical but its still tiring in a different way
@agentbubbles782
@agentbubbles782 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed. The quality of life is very low.
@malama8981
@malama8981 2 жыл бұрын
An uncle who was a partner in a big law firm advised me when I was young not to go to law school. Best advice for me, careerwise. His rationale, I was meant to do something else (I have multiple grad degrees) Long story short, followed my passions... Today, I have everything I ever wanted (health, wealth, happiness, and freedom). You are a bright young lady and have a lot of options. Best of luck!
@yqf051
@yqf051 2 жыл бұрын
So what did you end up doing ? Did those grad degrees help ?
@miked3371
@miked3371 2 жыл бұрын
hahaha almost every attorney i spoke with before going to law school told me not to do it. I thought it was an industry joke, or at the very least, said in jest. well, 1 year fresh out of law school and working my first job as an attorney... i can say the attorneys I spoke with we're not lying, the job is so demanding and every minute of your day has to be billed, the billing requirement is what hurts me.
@kawaiikoibito3268
@kawaiikoibito3268 2 жыл бұрын
Can't leave us hanging like that! What did you end up doing?
@malama8981
@malama8981 2 жыл бұрын
@@kawaiikoibito3268 I ended up a business owner and investor (it's what I am good at). The first half of my life was to please others (parents). The second half, to discover my Why (are you here, what gives you satisfaction, etc). Hold on to your dreams people...
@malama8981
@malama8981 2 жыл бұрын
@@yqf051 became a business owner (tech)/investor. Today, semi-ret, started a non-profit and mentoring the next generation. Grad degrees helped open doors but for pure education, you can learn as much or more on YT these days for free. Find your Why and follow your dreams (the road less traveled) Best of luck!
@BlueNJ1905
@BlueNJ1905 2 жыл бұрын
Been a lawyer almost 9 years. Decided to quit and built my own business. I am here after 6 years and been doing well....^^
@ClayMastah344
@ClayMastah344 2 жыл бұрын
Super proud of you!
@kawaiikoibito3268
@kawaiikoibito3268 2 жыл бұрын
Great job! What kind of business do you run?
@BlueNJ1905
@BlueNJ1905 2 жыл бұрын
@@kawaiikoibito3268 entertainment business :)
@lagrandemarie8695
@lagrandemarie8695 2 жыл бұрын
Good job
@aalegalfocus
@aalegalfocus 2 жыл бұрын
@@BlueNJ1905 Congrats!
@LindseyA.
@LindseyA. 2 жыл бұрын
I have a similar story! I quit my job in supply chain after 6.5 years when I was 30. I was making a salary I felt so proud of. I had so much anxiety putting in my 2 weeks, but It turned out to be the best decision. I have never looked back or dwelled on my decision! Luckily I got married soon after and was able to get on my husbands health insurance. A year later I am now a stay at home mom to a 2 month old. The feelings of hard work, reward and accomplishment I was used to in my career, I now get with (trying) to be the best mom!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
i love that!! supply chain probably has a TON of transferable skills, too :)
@Rebecca-ck3qq
@Rebecca-ck3qq 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I hope I can accomplish something similar to this someday! That’s so amazing! Happy for you ☺️❤️
@TrancEndingMedia
@TrancEndingMedia 2 жыл бұрын
There is no higher occupation than Mama or Papa
@limlim481
@limlim481 2 жыл бұрын
@@TrancEndingMedia lies. anyone can be a parent.
@maimayme
@maimayme 2 жыл бұрын
@@limlim481 doesn't mean they would be a good parent, this takes work.
@jenc8953
@jenc8953 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you for quitting. It takes a lot of courage to do what you did. I’m debating leaving nursing. Healthcare has many cracks and the pandemic has only magnified them. I’m fed up with the culture of nursing, being treated like garbage by management, and having to beg for time off. I never signed up for abuse when I became a nurse. Can’t wait for the day I can quit this sh&#.
@alexanderfrederich7993
@alexanderfrederich7993 2 жыл бұрын
That was exactly what i said to myself before quitting my job as a nurse! Take enough time to take the right decision!
@spicychad55
@spicychad55 2 жыл бұрын
I hear travel nurses are paid more and nurse anesthesist get paid way more and the NAs don't interact with patients as much
@jenc8953
@jenc8953 2 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderfrederich7993 I’ve thought about it for 10yrs. 🤣🤣🤣
@aalegalfocus
@aalegalfocus 2 жыл бұрын
@@spicychad55 same here. I know of some Nurse Practitioners who are making great money and enjoy their jobs. Good luck to @Jen C.
@betsyclarke185
@betsyclarke185 2 жыл бұрын
I have recently started thinking about not being a nurse anymore, but I feel stuck. I’ve been doing cardiac rehab nursing for the past 17 years & I’m burned out!
@avitony35
@avitony35 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so articulate. I hope you keep us updated in your journey. Good luck. Sending good vibes and many blessings
@FrankHuynh
@FrankHuynh 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone's quitting their job! Good on you for leaving - only good things comes out from leaving, best of luck
@paypermoney
@paypermoney 2 жыл бұрын
Not always easy leaving a high salaried job. I know many people who wouldn't. But congrats and I hope you become successful!
@jonsl2000
@jonsl2000 2 жыл бұрын
If true. Could be feel good click bait
@iireeena
@iireeena 2 жыл бұрын
congratulations cece! you've been such an inspiration throughout my whole law school application process and your rationale throughout this video was so eloquently laid out! very excited to follow along as you navigate this next chapter in your life~
@Calcifurr
@Calcifurr 2 жыл бұрын
These reasons are why I stopped pursing the careers that I initially wanted. As I got older, I realized what was more important to me & how the specific careers I wanted wouldn’t really allow time for that. I’m heading into a different career that will not make me rich, but keep me stable with good benefits and allow me to have time for my partner, family, and friends. This career is also purposeful and meaningful to me which does matter. I will now also have time for my hobbies too. Financial security is important, but spending time doing what you like to do & spending time with those you love is priceless. You don’t need to make a lot of money to be happy.
@sincerelysandi
@sincerelysandi 2 жыл бұрын
Smart human you are☮️🙏🏽💰 to you and family.
@kass8707
@kass8707 2 жыл бұрын
what career are you heading into if you dont mind me asking?
@meghan4975
@meghan4975 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Cece!!! As a law student with a similar mindset to yours at 22, your reasoning & path really resonated with me. I’m so excited to watch you follow your dreams & passions!!Oh, and to buy your BOOK !!! You’ve got this!!!
@JimyOfficial
@JimyOfficial Жыл бұрын
Hows law schooll going for you?
@david5544g
@david5544g 7 ай бұрын
Do you think there's a gender pay gap?
@bashirauwal5825
@bashirauwal5825 Жыл бұрын
After nearly 9 years as a registered nurse, I retired two years ago. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work every day. No amount of money can buy real happiness Lol. But, friends, I'm not asking you to quit your work or forsake your business, but rather be wise!
@bashirauwal5825
@bashirauwal5825 Жыл бұрын
@Olivia Jayden While I was still in the service, I prepared for early retirement, earning roughly $2,000 per week from my investment portfolio and working hard to establish new side hustles and extra income
@bashirauwal5825
@bashirauwal5825 Жыл бұрын
@Brown Jones There are numerous investment options available, including real estate, exchange-traded funds (ETFs), stocks, and cryptocurrency, but my best suggestion is to hire a professional to guide you through the process
@bashirauwal5825
@bashirauwal5825 Жыл бұрын
@Brown Jones I recommend the services of Jennifer James, she's a licensed financial expert and she has been very helpful in my financial journey
@bashirauwal5825
@bashirauwal5825 Жыл бұрын
@Jacob Zate You can reach her on telegram
@bashirauwal5825
@bashirauwal5825 Жыл бұрын
Jenniferjames001
@ThatAndreaLife
@ThatAndreaLife 2 жыл бұрын
Love how honest this is! The reasons are exactly the reasons why I didn’t even pursue big law. I learned early on about everything you said and I realized early on I would much rather make less money but be happy. I make just under 100k as an attorney in MN but I have a pretty good work life balance, My supervising attorney looks to my opinions and advice about staffing, diversity and firm life and I am truly happy. You’re right, I know SO many attorneys paying off their loans 20+ years after law school. I accepted that will be me and I love comfortably. I go on vacations and treat myself once in a while and work for my future, not jsut to pay loans. So happy for you and look forward to seeing all you do!
@aalegalfocus
@aalegalfocus 2 жыл бұрын
Great to hear. Cost of living is also a big factor, so making an impressive salary in NYC/LA could mean less buying power than a lower salary in another city.
@david5544g
@david5544g 7 ай бұрын
Do you think there's a gender pay gap?
@CallieWilson
@CallieWilson 2 жыл бұрын
congratulations!!!! so proud of u💖🥺 i can’t wait to see all the accomplishments u make along the way, forever my inspo!!!!!💖 ILY
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
ILY!!! so blessed to have you in my life
@saucymoccasinbeats6717
@saucymoccasinbeats6717 2 жыл бұрын
OMG NOW WAY GIRL! GO YOU!! SO PROUD OF YOU AND SO PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO SO MANY AND MOSTLY ME. I LOVE YOU GORL
@cathyli5234
@cathyli5234 2 жыл бұрын
You go Cece!! So proud of you and excited for what’s to come!
@kaydfisher
@kaydfisher 2 жыл бұрын
Go Cece! I'm so excited to see where life takes you next. As a first-gen law student heading into the big law life, I really appreciate your content!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
thank you!! it felt like entering wonderland when i entered these “elite” spaces bc it can be hard to navigate. biglaw can be very helpful, but remember to not lose yourself!
@cladmgp
@cladmgp 2 жыл бұрын
THE WAY I OPENED KZbin AS SOON AS I SAW YOUR IG STORYYYY. CONGRATULATIONS, CECE!!! WE ARE TRULY HAPPY AND WITH YOU ALL THE WAY!!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!
@clarkepeoples
@clarkepeoples 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh Cece!! I am so excited for your journey and to see all that you do in this next chapter. Signing up for everything on every platform right now!!!!!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
omgosh clarke THANK YOU!! your day in the life vlogs are such an inspo for me, i can't even
@MournfulBlackness
@MournfulBlackness 2 жыл бұрын
Excited to see where life leads you! Thanks for sharing
@tinabeee7350
@tinabeee7350 2 жыл бұрын
I’m really proud of you and I’m so excited to see what you do in the future. Congratulations for taking back your life, Cece.
@ericamejia3748
@ericamejia3748 2 жыл бұрын
Love the transparency. Thank you for your testimony.
@lauraacolaa
@lauraacolaa 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Excited to watch you pursue your dreams!
@AmarisIsabelDiaz
@AmarisIsabelDiaz 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your next adventure! I can't wait to see what the future has in store for you, and I look for to reading your book!!
@mariacaceres2454
@mariacaceres2454 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats Cece! As a naive college student, your content has been very refreshing to watch! Can’t wait to follow you on your journey!
@karlkky7738
@karlkky7738 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Ive been having this thought forever.It does takes a lot courage to sacrifice what youve achieved and start anew.But deep down you know youre doing the right thing.Congrats youve set a good model for us!
@gonursing-rn2182
@gonursing-rn2182 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Chasing your dreams is so important. I also decided to jump head first into starting my own KZbin channel. Taking risks and following your passion is scary but can be so worth it..
@TamannaIyyani
@TamannaIyyani 2 жыл бұрын
So happy and proud of you Cece!!! Wishing you all the success and happiness in all your future endeavors.
@ClaireMeri
@ClaireMeri 2 жыл бұрын
While I am only legal staff and not a lawyer, I agree that working in law is incredibly isolating and I love how you’ll be speaking out more about it. So excited to follow you in your newest journey!!
@John-mh7eb
@John-mh7eb 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Enjoyed reading this and very well researched. Loved your way of managing your down side risk!!! Best of luck.
@helenyang8258
@helenyang8258 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Cece this video is really great. I love how well spoken and open you are. Best of luck in your next endeavors!
@daniella456
@daniella456 2 жыл бұрын
Aw your book is going to the lawyer version of The Help:) good luck with everything!! I’m rooting for you and thank you for being inspirational and honest!
@Zibsticle
@Zibsticle 2 жыл бұрын
You're so switched on and eloquent. You will be amazing at whatever you pursue! Thanks for taking us all on this journey with you 💫
@a.sydney5036
@a.sydney5036 2 жыл бұрын
Harvard... it's a given.
@MRkriegs
@MRkriegs 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck Cece, keep ur head up and enjoy your new journeys!
@kathleen_oneill
@kathleen_oneill 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!! That’s amazing!! So excited for you! ♥️♥️♥️
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
thanks kathleen!! ❤️
@ayanashiggs928
@ayanashiggs928 2 жыл бұрын
So proud of you for making a decision for YOU! I am so happy for you and can’t wait to see what you do next💕
@chloeshih
@chloeshih 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is such an insightful walkthrough of your thought process. So excited for your next chapter of writing, content, and more CeCe!! Supporting you all the way, girl!!!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
thanks so much, chloe! i remember watching your quitting tiktok video and enjoying it a lot, so i'm so honored that you watched mine!
@chloeshih
@chloeshih 2 жыл бұрын
@@CeceXie omg! tbt haha. I’m honored you’ve watched my video too. You’re probably extremely well connected, but happy to help you out any way I can! Enjoy transitioning out of biglaw life for now!
@fo0lishdoubts
@fo0lishdoubts 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not even in the law field but this is still all so interesting to me. I wish you the best of luck and success, Cece! Came here from TT and subscribed.
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@omg_itsbethany
@omg_itsbethany 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing cece!! I’m excited to watch your journey.
@ninoskasuarez6627
@ninoskasuarez6627 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats Cece. I’m excited to see what is to come for you. I enjoy watching your journey and TikTok. I’ve learn so much from you regarding how to be organized.
@alfredouyang3742
@alfredouyang3742 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on making the decision! This is so inspiring to hear. I’ll be one of the many loyal fans of your incoming book!
@samanthascoppettone2684
@samanthascoppettone2684 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!! Can't wait to see what's in store for you :)
@SelfMadeHundredaire
@SelfMadeHundredaire 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so never-endingly glad I quit being a lawyer. The job sucks on virtually every level and I struggled for years without success to find even one redeeming quality to the legal profession. So I made a drastic career change to dentistry and I'm so glad I did. My worst day as a dental student is still better than my best day as a lawyer. Also, it has to be said: law school is a goddam joke compared to medical or dental school. But the challenge is so much more rewarding than any paper-pushing I ever did at a firm. So congrats on making the best and smartest decision you'll probably ever make, Cece.
@awpetersen5909
@awpetersen5909 2 жыл бұрын
Hiw old are you? How many years to reach a degree. How do you finance yourself?
@tonyawilliams6983
@tonyawilliams6983 2 жыл бұрын
The dental school debt isn’t worth it imo
@ibebored5307
@ibebored5307 2 жыл бұрын
how long did it take you to go to dental school? how old were you when you graduated?
@MadisonFalco
@MadisonFalco 2 жыл бұрын
Did you go to physical school or online?
@aalegalfocus
@aalegalfocus 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, good for you, Robert. I thought about quitting and pursuing medicine/dental school years ago but knew it would take many more years of schooling. Many dentists in my area are only open 3-4 days a week and seem to be doing well. Plus when the work is done, you don't have a cloud hanging over your head worrying about patients' problems for months.
@elanamott5617
@elanamott5617 2 жыл бұрын
Go you! I worry all the time about taking financial risks and this was a perfect time for me to hear this!
@munwu
@munwu 2 жыл бұрын
congratulations on taking the risk! i really related to the 'safety net' you spoke about and wishing you lots of luck on your new journey!
@normg8503
@normg8503 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! A huge congrats for your amazing courage! I'm not in the law field but just wanted to say what you are doing is so incredible! All the best! : )
@MrSafetyForever
@MrSafetyForever 2 жыл бұрын
So grateful I found your channel! Sharing your experience will certainly benefit many with similar life challenges. Take Care
@markhuitron9803
@markhuitron9803 2 жыл бұрын
congrats! i think you’d also do really well helping hs + undergrad students who are first - gen also. 🤩
@jennweintraub2352
@jennweintraub2352 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck moving forward! As someone just finishing up a PhD program now and considering law school in the future I'm so interested to see what you do next!
@Mdot-eu3fo
@Mdot-eu3fo 2 жыл бұрын
You speak so articulate, your very inspirational as well. Keep up the grind😊👏
@kaya1194
@kaya1194 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Cece! You’re such an inspiration and I’m excited to see all that’s in store for you :)
@sweetfunnyangel
@sweetfunnyangel 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on this journey 🤍
@vetiarvind
@vetiarvind 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats Ce, your story is inspiring. I once quit a $100K job and i still have mixed feelings about it during the harder times when i'm running my business but I'm glad i did it. Life's too short to wonder "what if". One thing i do know is that it's not as "risky" as you think. Your experience isn't going to just go to zero. Good luck in your journey and regards from chennai, india.
@consuelochavez740
@consuelochavez740 2 жыл бұрын
i love that u r so strong and articulate power to u , i am subscribing
@kristinadube7032
@kristinadube7032 Жыл бұрын
I see last names like yours when I do research alllll the time! Don't let that stop you at all!!
2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on pursuing what feels right for you! Beyond inspiring!
@katelynshannon2611
@katelynshannon2611 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!!!! Not a lawyer, but absolutely love your content for ‘behind the curtain’ on working with big law.
@Vic9994546
@Vic9994546 2 жыл бұрын
The fact you gave up a seemingly good situation is amazing because you have wisdom to appreciate the present and life rather that life that is comfortable and unhappy
@parkjnine
@parkjnine 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being vulnerable, authentic, and unapologetically yourself. This is a great video for everyone but particularly young Asian Americans in conservative/traditional households. You are amazing!
@carly78910
@carly78910 2 жыл бұрын
literally slay! so excited for you cece :)
@priscilaqr7162
@priscilaqr7162 2 жыл бұрын
Cece, While I am not a lawyer, I work in finance and a lot of what you said really hit home. Thank you for your video. I really needed to see this and hear this today.
@leme9006
@leme9006 2 жыл бұрын
Youre amazing and crazy how the pandemic made so many professionals blow up on tiktok and rethink their traditional careers. Girl boss!
@david5544g
@david5544g 7 ай бұрын
Do you believe in a gender pay gap?
@bitcomet
@bitcomet 2 жыл бұрын
Love how real you are. Congrats and will support you in any platform!!
@ctb3386
@ctb3386 2 жыл бұрын
I've been a solo for 21 years and ready to give it all up. Great video and thank you.
@aalegalfocus
@aalegalfocus Жыл бұрын
Is retiring early an option for you? I'm solo & would probably just slow down the practice over time.
@kayseacamp
@kayseacamp 2 жыл бұрын
This is how I feel about leaving my job in insurance. I've been with my company for 11+ years and have become entirely disillusioned with them and have accepted that I won't see the change in work culture that I've tried so hard to achieve. I initially had plans to leave after 1Q 2023 but my husband has decided to get out of the military that same time so I'll be staying on until he picks up a civilian job. I can't wait for the day that I can give my notice. It'll be soooo freeing and terrifying at the same time.
@hayleyarnott7114
@hayleyarnott7114 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so excited, impressed and proud of you for taking these steps and can’t wait to see what’s next! *subscribed
@apolloaster
@apolloaster 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your testimony to life Cece, Godspeed!
@sarahjihyun
@sarahjihyun 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Cece! Thanks so much for sharing this💕
@lifeofdrew3182
@lifeofdrew3182 2 жыл бұрын
Girl that’s so badass, I love your decisiveness that’s amazing we need more people like you on the planet wanting to make a change and willing to sacrifice for it. Keep doing your thing!
@CareerGameChanger
@CareerGameChanger 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Cece! Im ex-big law too - not going to lie, I do miss some parts of it (aka the office parties, international travel, etc) but overall, no regrets - my life is my own again and I earn just about the same but with way less stress. Wishing you the best! x
@CareerGameChanger
@CareerGameChanger 2 жыл бұрын
@Macy I’m a tech and legal consultant
@flawlix
@flawlix 2 жыл бұрын
The pandemic killed all the fun stuff you mentioned anyway. Big law is just the daily grind and terrible hours now.
@aalegalfocus
@aalegalfocus 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats- glad you are doing well with a lot less stress!
@david5544g
@david5544g 7 ай бұрын
Do you think there is a gender pay gap?
@hackerandpainter
@hackerandpainter 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU ❤ GO CECE! KEEP US UPDATED ON WHATS BOUND TO BE AN INCREDIBLE JOURNEY. im inspired 🥺
@moonchild7052
@moonchild7052 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats! I’m super happy for you and your big heart. Love from Australia Xoxo
@cinsday
@cinsday 2 жыл бұрын
I love this ! It’s so insightful and inspiring and really puts things into real life perspective ☺️
@kaela7798
@kaela7798 2 жыл бұрын
i totally get your points regarding work hours and wanting to make a difference. these are actually the points i grapple with on deciding to go to law school!! i really want a healthy work life balance, but because i want to make a difference it will definitely require long work days especially because i want to be a public defender or prosecutor. good luck in your next journey!! i wish you the best of luck and am manifesting that yale acceptance for you
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
PD/prosecution can definitely be a lot of hours, but remember you can also always take your experience and long hours somewhere to elsewhere and still make a difference. definitely do your research but there are periods in life where grinding for X years pays off multiples later on. and tysm!! i love teaching so hope to continue doing that in any manner, even if just on youtube :)
@LeahAllstar
@LeahAllstar 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!! You are one of my favorite creators on the tik tok platform! VERY excited for the newsletters life vlogs and study vlogs 😏 happy for you in this new chapter!!!!!!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
thanks leah!! your support is so meaningful to me
@princessmanasseh3951
@princessmanasseh3951 2 жыл бұрын
Love the ending audio!!
@cierracaudill2927
@cierracaudill2927 2 жыл бұрын
Such an inspiration for chasing your dreams and taking a risk. I came from Tik Tok, but I’ll definitely be staying for the KZbin updates! Can’t wait to see where this new adventure takes you!
@Streetslovepasta
@Streetslovepasta 2 жыл бұрын
Your very well spoken and inspiring . As an 18 year old student currently studying computer science rn I’m confused asf
@mxa2028
@mxa2028 2 жыл бұрын
how do you like cs so far? i’m thinking about majoring in it
@Streetslovepasta
@Streetslovepasta 2 жыл бұрын
@@mxa2028 it’s very fun but can be tedious at times with the course work. But I’m sure you will be fine trust me , if I can do it then u can too
@chamham6734
@chamham6734 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly don’t do it if you don’t like it. Even if your parents get mad so what. I waited 5 years for college. Worked retail in between. Now I’m perusing school doing what I actually want to do. Everyday is what I want to live because I’m living on my own terms! You have all the way up to when you die to live.
@chamham6734
@chamham6734 2 жыл бұрын
Keep going strong my guy.
@Streetslovepasta
@Streetslovepasta 2 жыл бұрын
@@chamham6734 thanks boss
@deesplash7087
@deesplash7087 2 жыл бұрын
Not sure why this was recommended to me, but you’re presentation was on point and worthwhile👏🏽
@carolinaazevedo4213
@carolinaazevedo4213 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck on your journey! Hopefully we will be able to buy and enjoy one of your books in a few years.
@LeFuseTv
@LeFuseTv 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats, I’m still debating leaving my job - but I have a mortgage & have to find a job just to cover the basics first The level of stress is really not worth it
@kmoots8447
@kmoots8447 2 жыл бұрын
I am so excited to watch your journey! I'm a master's student right now but have considered going to law school. I am excited to learn more about big law, but also just to watch your content :)
@tiredtechie
@tiredtechie 2 жыл бұрын
OMG the ending edit of Issa on Insecure is perfect
@april_eacape77
@april_eacape77 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you girl 👏🏻. The stress sometimes not worth it. You can do other amazing things
@gloriasantos5657
@gloriasantos5657 2 жыл бұрын
Respect because It takes a lot of guts to make this kind of particular decision
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
guts AND a sizable safety net! thank you bunches--i'm really scared but also excited!
@MJ-gr4kg
@MJ-gr4kg 2 жыл бұрын
Wish you many more blessings, taking a step of faith is always great!
@wealthbuildingstory
@wealthbuildingstory 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! This resonated with me so much! ✨
@3allieleigh
@3allieleigh 2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you!
@lindarocha2484
@lindarocha2484 2 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring! I’ve been stuck between going to law school to make my parents proud or pursuing a career where I’ll still have time to do things I enjoy and spend time with loved ones ❤️ I think In the end that’s what life is all about. So happy for you!
@saraharn1541
@saraharn1541 2 жыл бұрын
Cece - so cool to see you creating content like this! I’ll keep an eye out for your future books :)
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
ahh thanks sarah! :)
@nicolebtch
@nicolebtch 2 жыл бұрын
amazing and thanks for sharing congrats to you Cece!
@Munchiie
@Munchiie 2 жыл бұрын
Love it !! Nothing but happiness and success to you !!
@Munchiie
@Munchiie 2 жыл бұрын
You inspired me to make my jump .
@Tec_Two
@Tec_Two 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, the student debt of professional careers like lawyers and doctors is insane! Still paying off school 5 years later. Congratulations on seeking your own dreams. I hope you find your niche and do well.
@Tec_Two
@Tec_Two 2 жыл бұрын
As a foreign attorney coming to NYC, I struggled to find a job at all and it took a toll on my mental health and career progression. The entire big law culture seems to be so insular that outsiders just can't break in in the traditional sense. I'm jumping through a "foreigner hoop" doing an LLM now, and I am enjoying it a lot, but the doubts remain. Will I find a job as a foreign attorney in New York? I'm now looking to new tech like web3, crypto and DAOs to find a place in the future.
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
an LLM will definitely help! the market is also really hot right now, so you're doing this at a good time. it's definitely harder than being a U.S. lawyer, but it IS possible! you got this
@thelastmoonsoldier
@thelastmoonsoldier 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing this! 28 yr old Bay St lawyer here - great overview and you echoed so many of my own concerns about long term practice. Excited to watch ur freedom!
@CeceXie
@CeceXie 2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much! :)
@Amina-cw1em
@Amina-cw1em 2 жыл бұрын
Bay Street like Toronto? I'm from Toronto and associate Bay Street with Downtown Toronto. Congratulations on your success at 28!
@flawlix
@flawlix 2 жыл бұрын
From the title alone I’m already here for it (currently still in Big Law myself, 6th year)
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