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[@taniaseth2003]

I think we should start a community for girls like us who are depressed or dealing with toxic families and let's just talk and figure out what we can do and help each other.

[@shraddha8461]

Hey. Agree with you.. am also in a very bad situation.. I wish someone could help mr

[@shraddha8461]

Can you come with me ?

[@HellyRs]

​@@shraddha8461I would be great full to get a partner cause I am too running away are u interested ?

[@HellyRs]

@ofdls 18 where are you from

[@PrincessEffect]

​​@O.F De Los SantosI'm 19, I want to move out as well... I'm totally tired. I'm Nigerian.

[@thiswillnotdo6027]

Theres going to be a huge chunk of the older generation who are going to be dying alone, and will act like victims as if they didn't bring this onto themselves after traumatising their kids. All I hope is that the younger generation can break out of this generational trauma.

[@Cheerleader644860]

thats true but traumatize is a big word meaning something tragic or astonishing has happened to the child though. but it is true theyll be alone for not caring enough about feelings of the child.

[@Demonetization_Symbol]

If your kid runs away from home, you're probably doing something wrong with them.

[@wallacerangel616]

Tell that to the narcissistic ones like mines. I am organizing how I’m gonna disappear away from my parents.

[@lynn_luv7245]

And then you don’t have to cry bc you know what you’ve done to your kid, thanks for understanding me

[@maishahazari4233]

@@wallacerangel616 same I ran away from my family

[@freepalestine9777]

@@wallacerangel616 samee istg😞

[@42_10_]

imagine I want to run away since I was 7? 10 yrs old? but again thinking if somebody found me on the street, they will bring me back to them, so hmmmm

[@Mai.glith69]

oh god, i understand what your going through, everything from strict controlling parents to being sexual abused as a kid, still waiting to graduate from medical school and hopefully i get the courage to leave.

[@anitamorin6255]

Same, except I'm waiting to finish up Pet-Grooming school, and leave asap

[@isxpra-4780]

@@anitamorin6255 im 13 and already want to leave my home waiting a graduate is a long time for me

[@bizzz5547]

My parents won't even allow me to leave the city for higher education

[@sahltyy]

Me I got two more year y’all prob less

[@miaa.hated.]

@@bizzz5547 gurl im sorry but im praying u get courage to run away. That is ridiculous.

[@jedikaren8112]

I ran away and move across the country trusting complete strangers at 24. Best decision ever.

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

Wow I’m so glad it worked out for you and you’re happy now! ❤️

[@Qofkidwhrbd]

I want to do the same but I'm afraid

[@jedikaren8112]

Toxic its a big big risk and it often doesnt work. You have to plan a lot. You need to know where you are going, double check they really want you there, be ready to get a job, be ready to start acting like an adult, be ready for your parents to play all sorts of nasty games and throw threats at you. You may even have to talk to the police. Be ready to being very poor for a few years while you gain money and experience. And be ready for freedom of choice. Its very scary at first. Oh and be 18. You cant legally do any of this until you are 18. 17 and 10 months does not count.

[@AMIRA-fq1sh]

@@Qofkidwhrbd same

[@saadiabintaanis585]

Maybe that's what I'm gonna do...

[@priyadolui5674]

That's not strict, that's abusive.

[@FernandoIfillRuiz]

I’m 30 years old and I left my family’s house because I have tolerated enough humiliation and disrespect by my family members.

[@oogaboogass]

As an Indian this is so normal here... I'm fed up honestly 💀 WE NEED TO BREAK THE CYCLE

[@unknown_girl111]

Yeah are u run away from home?

[@oogaboogass]

@@unknown_girl111 it's almost impossible in this economy.

[@Kawasaki6791]

Im indian but my parents are chill cuz i got my phone at like 11 so im not sure about that but i also live in america.

[@oogaboogass]

@@Kawasaki6791no offence but NRI's are not indians.

[@bananakomatsu]

@@oogaboogasswhy do you think so? it is possible definitely

[@tasmeenbaker9912]

Watching this made me realize how normal and chill my parents actually are. I'm so grateful and my heart goes out to her.

[@ask536]

Whats ur age

[@tasmeenbaker9912]

@@ask536 17

[@ask536]

@@tasmeenbaker9912 ok ok dear friend

[@maraisfan4life517]

@@tasmeenbaker9912 mine is 18 hehe 😂

[@fal5069]

I'm so jealous

[@robertlemnaru4293]

Emotional manipulation is the key that’s gonna mess you up the most after you leave your parents! It’s a devastating feeling they give you so you can feel sorry for them! Beware and focus on yourself, no negativity should enter in your life no more

[@chynnaurl]

Definitely agree on this !

[@Sieiwhejwoeusbsb]

100% to the emotional manipulation

[@Rose.Marie.]

Guilt tripping can really mess everything up afterwards and make you feel unable to do anything in life or have enough self esteem to achieve what you need to have your own personality or independence

[@Rose.Marie.]

And they are constantly trying to get back in your life too

[@beniaminmattin7050]

People who run away from their parents for reasons other than abuse are usually narcissists and are actually the manipulators. If someone told me they ran away from their parents then I would instantly recognize that they are a person who cannot be trusted.

[@Imkicelee]

Parents simply need to understand, just because their your kids doesn’t mean you have the right to shut down their happiness.

[@WowSuchGaming2009]

Exactly and you damn sure don’t have the right to beat and abuse them for petty shit like if you going to beat and abuse over petty shit don’t have kids at all the fuck is wrong with parents abusing and hitting their kids in name of discipline it have a negative effect on their mental health it causes the child to want to move out and be distant from the parent if the child haven’t done anything really really bad or not a bad thing than you shouldn’t be on him/her over petty shit like damn I wish mostly black parents got this right

[@haiz768]

@@WowSuchGaming2009 And children need to understand that their parents are in control and they can’t do whatever they want😊

[@esthernartey2026]

@@haiz768and parents need to realise that children can cut off contact with them when they’re old and they can do nothing about it

[@trini2DBone134]

​@@haiz768 and parents to need to stfu sometimes and just LISTEN for once then we wouldn't fucking want to run away in the first place

[@obitouchiha6439]

​@@haiz768 Which is why they should move out as early as 18.

[@paramahussain7844]

You are so strong for sharing your story! You’ve been killing it on your own for so long now! Proud! 👏🏽 👏🏽

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

Thank you love ❤️

[@maha3564]

I've d same situation but I need to run

[@animalparty2556]

Ikr

[@kpsrw350]

@@maha3564 were I need to

[@touma687]

@@DeevaaniWilliams nice video

[@mahakagarwal1212]

I don't feel safe around my parents. Like I have to be careful about everything I say if I accidentally ever talked casually then would call it disrespectful. My parents still retreat me like their main goal is to find me a good husband even though I'm just 16. They almost gave me up when I was child just because I was a girl . I have to run away. I feel suffocating being around them. My dad constantly reminds me that my life isn't just mine. I cannot help bit feel like they own me and I hate it. I can't wait to be 18 so that I can run away.

[@mustardseed123]

Watch videos on Narcissistic personality disorders. Dr. Ramani on KZbin has helped me so much

[@kimseok-jin1751]

Almost everything you said had/still is happening with me except the “gave up on me just because I’m a girl” part and I’m also planning to run away after I turn 18...I’m 15 rn

[@akkiiiiii11]

@@kimseok-jin1751 can i come too

[@kimseok-jin1751]

@@akkiiiiii11 yeah but do you have an account on Instagram?

[@akkiiiiii11]

@@kimseok-jin1751 yesbu t i m not sure

[@Fearlesss55]

People use their culture as an excuse to emotionally abuse and manipulate their children. This cycle needs to end

[@nathilism]

Your mum telling you that she would harm herself sounds like a narcissistic abuse tactic tbh. You might want to read up on narcissistic traits and narcissistic parents (if you haven't already) though fair warning, it can be really tough if you learn that it describes your own parents. I went through a period of grieving - I am still going through it - because I learnt that narcissists are incapable of change and that I'll never have the healthy parent-child relationship I've always dreamed of.

[@aninditaray7244]

To all the Indian brothers and sisters wanting to run away from unique controlling parents... first try to work for sometime , save whatever u get , then leave with some finance in your pocket. Good luck to those who left and trying to stand on your own two feet. Those still contemplating.....be brave and fearless.

[@_sonia1994]

❤❤

[@unknown_girl111]

Are u run away from home?

[@chinitaaa9006]

Your story has really inspired me. I live with very strict parents and the exact same thing is happening to me. They found out about my boyfriend and they put me on lock down; took away my phone (that I was paying for with MY money), made me quit my job, and they didn't even let me attend my own graduation. This all happened even when I was 18. I'm 18 still now, about to turn 19 in 2 weeks, and I still live here... I'm so scared to just leave because my mom says things will go very bad for me if I leave and she will try and find me if I do leave. I am so scared to leave... any advice ? Thank you for sharing for story!

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

I’m so so so sorry you’re going through all this… I am going to be making a q/a video soon because I get a lot of comments and dms asking for advice. Do you mind if I include yours so I can talk about it more throughly?

[@chinitaaa9006]

@@DeevaaniWilliams yes that is fine :) , i would love that

[@gaayas.1562]

im going through this too, you are very young and you WILL make it out. ily

[@chinitaaa9006]

@@gaayas.1562 you're going to get through this too :') thank you so much , i been slowly been working up the courage to get out of here ... i'm praying i can make it out soon ily!! ♥

[@teresadownes2422]

Go to the police when they are at work

[@Mansi1594]

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ As an Indian woman myself, I totally relate with this. I was 17 when I “ran away.” My dad was always abusive, and my family controlled and manipulated my life. When we moved to the States, I decided I was done with his abuse! My friends at school told me how I can get help and told me about foster homes. So a few months later when my dad hit me again I got the courage and ran away. I was in foster care until I was 21. I was very lucky to have my foster parents. I felt safe and loved. I’m 28 now, and I don’t have any relationship with my dad or my family just some cousins and my brother. I have a wonderful fiancé, his family and my friends. So blessed to have them. You’re so strong and brave ❤️

[@michaelsreviews]

I’m sorry to hear you were abused by your dad. It’s nice to know you are now with parents who are loving and kind.

[@San-v5j]

Hey can u please tell me how to run away actually because even I'm 17 right now

[@dabbh97]

This story hit home for me so much. I actually ran away at 21 with my boyfriend (now hubby), he’s African American. My parents didn’t like him at all and was just so out of touch with who I was as a person. I blocked them and ended up not talking to them for a year and half, they were only able to reach out through email. After covid, I decided to give them another chance and we ended up working on our relationship. A few years later, I can say that we have developed such a beautiful relationship based on BOUNDARIES and understanding. They absolutely love my husband and we take yearly trips together now. It’s still the best decision I made to this day.

[@aadtie5633]

You have them a CHANCE lol Delusional Such a wasted child

[@krissyhall2838]

Wow I'm so happy that everything is better!Do you think it was the distance?

[@dabbh97]

@@krissyhall2838 thank you lovely! & yes, I believe distance allowed me to set boundaries and respect for myself with them. I also feel that if I didn’t make that choice, they wouldn’t understand or respect me to this day.

[@iaintyourmama6482]

I hate my Dad. He’s been abusing my Mom for years and all the psychological trauma has really been affecting me. Also the community I live in thinks the abuse is normal and should be practiced. I wish someday I leave my house on my own and start a new life with freedom

[@nathcooks1394]

When we were born into this earth as , sinners . Its not surprising that in our own eyes we seem just but it says we deserve not what we say isnt fair. But there is Good news Jesus died on the cross for our sin while we were yet still in sin , he came to set us free and restored our relationship with the father. God loves you and wants you to come to him as you are but he he doesn't expect for you to stay the same as you are .

[@Rose.Marie.]

Definitely do it! You've got this! And once you get out (maybe through connecting to some helpful resources or a domestic violence line or shelter if need be, ). You will realize on the other side that you are much stronger than you think! (Also don't be afraid, to rely on social workers or trusted friends etc to get you out or to come up with a departure plan)

[@danadanaaa2002]

I understand❤️It definitely takes a toll on mental health. Don’t hate him though. As much as I understand you. It’s okay to keep a distance but never hate him you know cause it will cause bitterness and can block your blessings. Forgiveness is healing. As bad as things might be I don’t know you or what you’ve been through. When u forgive , watch how much freedom mentally you’ll feel. Love you!!!💚

[@kdjoshi726]

It's opposite in my house tbh.

[@irmalair4730]

All the things I remember feel fake even though it wasn't. He might've changed for the better, but the memories still remain. I wonder how she still looks him in the eye, because I find it hard. I wish I didn't remember.

[@Rayna0821]

I ran away at 20 with no job, car or anything and now at 24 I have a husband son and living my best life, best decision I had ever made.

[@angelahopedoungpanya2172]

hi I’m 20 I’m thinking about leaving bc my parents are strict and controlling and abusive, I have no job but have a car but it’s theirs but I’m leaving my car here what’s the best advice I’m just scared they are going to find me since we have shared location but imma turn off all location and block their number is the right thing ? Pls help me :(

[@lilstar3705]

I'm from India Planning to run away from home Abusive parents, forcing me to do what they like , their childhood dream, black mailing me by saying that they would die I don't do what they've told me to do, Home school home college this is were I've been in my entire life , they were to abusive I'm the old child in my home , I don't get any free seconds to spend my life for myself I'm like a robot controlled by my parents They told me to join some courses Asked me to get good Mark's and I joined a group they told me to join and did my high schooling, and took engineering for my parents...I have no interest in engineering...my dad said if you don't take engineering we'll not send you to college My parents always say me that they are ashamed of me being their daughter and always comparing me with some other boys , saying boys are better a _____ like you are not worth to be born .... I'm done with my life Before me dying I want to taste the feeling of freedom

[@hattiedunham8866]

Are you okay? Are you still in that house?

[@AMIRA-fq1sh]

I have a same story like you did you run away yet or not ??

[@kiyookhan3396]

Hey I'm also planning the same. I have the almost same story.

[@lilstar3705]

@@lol_me8 not yet guys I'm waiting for my graduation so I can take my certificates along with me

[@Coolerthanmebih]

hey I hope you're doing better now, I wish you the best :))

[@mercibeau]

i also ran away from home when i was 20. i wish this video was out when i ran away back in 2020. i remember it vividly. my mom was verbally abusive, demanding, and went as far to tell my dad i was “pregnant” and forced me to take photos with my “belly” and even made a fake dating account using my name and my pictures. i remember i was so stressed, i very much started dissociating and didnt get my period for months. i started to get close with a friend i met a work and i remember i started looking for roommates and posted on my private snapchat story that i may have found someone. one of my older coworkers swiped up and told me she had a room available and her roommate was moving out. i told her i wanted to move in, and the rent was super cheap. everything was working out, it was amazing and then i told my friend who i was working with that i wanted to leave and he was my getaway car. it was 8pm when i got out of work that day (my mom did not like that i worked overtime and threatened me to quit my job over the phone that same day.) i remember being silent while she screamed at me while i was at work and thinking well im not going to be living there for long. i got out at 8pm and ended up packing my things in a garbage bag once i knew my mom was sleeping. i remember majority of my things were in a garbage bag already, so i just added some more things. i ironically was in a room that had a door that led to the exit of the back of our house. my friend pulled up and we drove off. the next day my mom went to my job and went crazy, texted me telling me she was going to get me fired. i already told my manager about her so she got banned from my job. for those waiting for the right time to move out, make acquaintances and friends, they will be the ones to help you!! you got this.

[@atomixknight5895]

Where did you go??

[@bamgold4677]

We can be friends :)

[@joshgroom8421]

You do not need anyone's permission to live your life. I am so glad you grabbed your life and own it. All humans deserve this basic right.

[@AntiMasonic93]

Exactly! Our parents don't own our lives. People need to stop making excuses and move out.

[@idrk1507]

@@AntiMasonic93 “People need to stop making excuses and move out” Exactly! I agree so strongly with this. I hear countless people saying “I don’t want to move out because I’m scared that my mum will hit me” What….? JUST DO IT FFS. These are fully grown adults saying this. Speaking as a brown girl

[@shakira7301]

@@idrk1507 it's easy said than done. I think it becomes easier when it hits rock bottom and you have nothing to lose so you find a way to escape 100% but other than that it's definitely hard

[@felinelover1191]

@@shakira7301 so true. I also have very strict parents and couldn't go out to get a job. Which is the very important thing step for me to get away from this house is to get money, like realistically for one to be able to move out is to have MONEY. Literally don't know what to do now I'm so stuck. I couldn't even go out alone without them. It sucks.

[@meesamkhan9064]

I want run away form my house

[@hananelamirat8025]

im going through the exact same thing like exact same the only difference is that i was 14-15 when i got sa. im so shocked rn about the fact that we have the exact same story and you´re kind of helping me so much right now. im just way too scared to do that you are so couragous and strong i admire you very much and wish you the best i wish i was more like you. ill be 18 in a few months but i know it wont change anything i dont want to "live" like this anymore but i dont have the balls to leave

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. You will be in my prayers Hanane ❤️ I pray you will be able to make the right decision for you and start to heal completely. Reach out to me on Instagram if you ever need to talk @deevaaniwilliams

[@patriley5136]

I moved 2 farm to market roads, and two major highways to escape a fundamentalist Christian cult that was going to kill me.

[@elite_n2699]

@@patriley5136 that sounds awful, ur a warrior

[@iz.bren.x]

This is the same thing that happened to me but I was 6-7 and i was also sooo shocked that this happened to other people 2 but ye I ran away at 10 and I became depressed and now I am planning on running away again xx

[@colinpostell7343]

@@DeevaaniWilliams @Deevaani Williams stay at your Friend's home

[@Iam_Erika_elder]

Wow, I felt like I definitely knew some of this but definitely not you’re entire story. I am proud of you girl! West Indian parents can be very difficult and you still made a way. Congratulations on you engagement love. So happy for you and I hope you can get complete peace one day.

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

Thank you so much Erika ❤️

[@hassatoufreyadiallo8148]

From experience parents that are like this are abusing and will make there child go crazy once they leave.

[@yashgole6245]

Over strict and over controlling parents are always bad they are never happy with you no matter how hard you try to improve and you shouldn't blame yourselves if they keep complaining about you and keep beating you scolding you are nowhere wrong and actually they do not deserve a good person like you never keep your mind stuck in that incident of past you did the right thing and always remain happy make the most of the present for a better future that is what you deserve

[@nolimits7495]

What do I do? After graduation, they rushed me in a career, but I'm not ready to work. I need a break for few months to feel energized and be sure about my path.

[@yashgole6245]

@@nolimits7495 Well not sure about that but join for a job make the most of money make your way to the top post and later start your own business were others work for you provide opportunities for those chasing a career you wanted to and later make your parents realize their mistakes by providing millions of examples I am just 22 years old and I am likely to get a job at the end of September I am not an entrepreneur or anything but I know that success is the best revenge

[@nolimits7495]

@@yashgole6245 true, right now I'm in an UNPAID internship and have to travel 3 hours everyday and stay there for 6 hours, that's why I'm so frustrated, I can't afford to lose the big contacts so i feel stuck there. I just jumped in directly after college.

[@yashgole6245]

@@nolimits7495 hmm I know just finished a couple interviews today still nervous

[@WowSuchGaming2009]

Exactly like not every parent deserves kids

[@q1ta]

I am so sorry you had so much trauma growing up, that genuinely sounds so horrible. i am so happy it worked out for you and I am sending you my best of luck and hope for the future ml

[@radwaali1224]

most people who grew up with normal not authoritative parents will think “oh so u had good parenting” but they dont know how much this damaged us and how it can rlly create a lot of anger and resentment growing up i understand this sm because im still living at home with my parents. their somali but very racist anti black and traditional they found out about my plans to move out through my school counselor and made me quit work they dont want me to move out at all like my brother finished collge had a high paying while in college and after graduating and yet they wont let him move out their not concerned about finances their narcissistic and want complete and absolute control over me and my siblings. i get verbally/mentally abused and physically the other day i was sitting and my mom scratched me acorss my face and started hitting me cus i didnt pray on time im 16 btw my sister is honestly just like my parent racist narcissistic self absorbed conceited and an overall tocxic person shes the one who takes over when my parents are not yelling at me or sabatoging my life ik i sound so drmatic and i wish i could articulate how weird and toxic my family is but that would be like a 10 page narrative and leave it at this. im honeslty just so proud of u and rlly look up to u because i think ur a wonderful brave woman and im so happy u were able to recognize how unreasonable ur parents were and how they were stunting ur growth emotionally and spiritually this video is one of the best videos ive come across on youtube not only did u tel ur story and was raw and honest but u did so we felt less alone ur a truly beautiful person

[@dehvoo3655]

Everything is temporary just play by their rules lay low and once you can escape due to financial freedom leave

[@user-wt9xm6xz6l]

Girl try your best to get a full ride scholarship to college and move to a college in another city or state if you can afford and do your best in school to be successful

[@zeejar2141]

Try to finish your high school education, get a scholar ship then move from home. Don't run a way, just play it right. Education is the key to become independent. Good luck!

[@kdjoshi726]

Yup. Sounds like my mom

[@souravrathod7936]

You are awesome. I'm Indian and I know how horrible Indian parents can be. You are very brave. Congrats on getting engaged.

[@jeetk5663]

So true !

[@karmyog2557]

Speak for yourself.

[@kdjoshi726]

@@karmyog2557 Lol we already got a salty kid here

[@MommyEliya]

Same here. My dad is the worst, too much strict. My mom is fine but she told me mean stuff.

[@thiswillnotdo6027]

@@karmyog2557 do you know what "can be" means?

[@IluminaHi]

When I turn 18 I am moving out I am just done with my parents.

[@Fake_Tears]

Hey, same sis, I also do have plans to move out/run away at 18. M From India, wanna team up?

[@dinkle3894]

@@Fake_Tearshey same situation

[@helloworld238gc]

​@@dinkle3894would you mind joining us? If yes then drop your Instagram I'd!?

[@gaayas.1562]

this is very crazy, that EXACT thing you mentioned at 5:55 happened to me. I had alot of supressed memories resurface that I have blocked out from my personality for YEARS to me right after I had a conversation with some friends at the time about my situation and their personal experiences. It was wayy too much for me at the time, I regret pushing everyone away as I always do because of this. I thought I will never ever make it out and end up a mirror of my parents (im still not out), but through this video it gives me so much hope

[@gaayas.1562]

You guys wont believe it i actually managed to escape and currently rebuilding my relationship with them and myself from a distance

[@diamond3287]

@@gaayas.1562 happy for you ! how is it going?

[@dmp1520]

you are gorgeous

[@Rose.Marie.]

@@gaayas.1562 No way I'm so so so happy for you!! Congrats girl ! May everything work out for the best!

[@go.shree.]

As a brown girl with parents migrated from village to a metropolitan city it's hard for me. My dad is super conservative he tells me what to wear, where to go, how to walk, how to talk. Never encouraged me to study he just wants me to sit in the house till i get married. Since childhood he made me feel dumb to crush my self confidence but now i came to know about his true intentions. He is a misogynist and basically doesn't want any woman to succeed in her life. My mom is more educated than my dad but he never allowed her to work. Never go out other than for school or college, at home by 6 pm anyhow, don't wear sleeveless clothes, jeans should be loose and top should be tall, never apply makeup, always walk straight, not supposed to talk to any guy, never talk back even if he's at fault, don't laugh too much, never cry infront him, your mom and you are the dumb one in the house. He says he can treat me however he likes coz I'm a girl i can't just run away from my home they are saving up dowry for me so i owe them unlike my brother. It's hard but i hope i can get out of this bullshit and have some freedom.

[@isabellagirlgang]

Hey girl I really hope you get a job and move out of this situation he is super toxic

[@kdjoshi726]

That's me but with my mom. I grew up in a city whilst my mom was from a village & migrated to city after her marriage. Sometimes I lowkey think the city damaged her but then again feels like she's taking away my freedom by having that same abusive mentality she was projected upon. This is why I sometimes even hate my mom's family

[@Real-comment-unreal-name]

Do yourself a favor and get away from your toxic family. It might be hard in the beginning but it’s always better to put yourself first.

[@thiswillnotdo6027]

get the fuck out. no matter what tactics your parents use to guilt trip you into staying, you stand your ground. Get out. you can do it.

[@joannafernandes2350]

hi, dear, u can learn some courses or skills online, so many are free so you will gain some practical knowledge of things and then u can search for jobs online which are part-time and wfh. please speak to a counsellor in ur college. all the best

[@iamzay24]

i didnt have no childhood growing up. i been abused by my step dad sometimes even by my mom. ive had broken arms and broken nose. im 24 years old now im trying to move out but my things are not working out the way i planned. i dropped out of high school when i was in the 11th grade, i got no job so im trynna do this streaming stuff and make the best from it. i also ran away from my mom 3 times when i was 17.

[@iamzay24]

@@hatemylife2771 male

[@HellyRs]

I just finished my exams and want to run away from this home cause this family members just consider me as their slave not their daughter my brother had moved away but his reason was different (he wanted to get married to a woman but my father didn't liked her family and all..) by reading all the comments of running away makes me feel how bad this world is finding for a real partner who is also running away from home so that we both can run together and support each other and get a bit less scared to live alone

[@HellyRs]

@@unknown_girl111 I'm gonna be 19 now and where are you from?

[@HellyRs]

Idk why my comment is getting deleted automatically idk if this one is also gonna be posted or not if u have something else to talk can we talk there

[@HellyRs]

@@unknown_girl111 please

[@HellyRs]

@@unknown_girl111 and yours¿

[@fitforever22]

Of course children want the relationship with their parents but if parents are selfish and don’t think how their actions are harming the children, then it is better for the child to stop the abuse by leaving. Some parents think they own the children and the children are there to make the parents happy. It is very twisted and it hurts me to see that happening so often.

[@sanjana1026]

I turned 19 recently, manifesting and looking forward to quit this toxic family anytime around September this year and never coming back ⬅️

[@LuhNuba]

Same age same situation same deadlines…we got this girl😌

[@catterpawtter195]

Good luck

[@nikymckenna2260]

How are you, have you been able to leave??

[@ozi1578]

Omg can you update us

[@kookiebts2030]

Any update?

[@michellelam5268]

hearing your story really gave me hope that things will get better. a bit about me: im Vietnamese and Canadian and turning 21 soon. i just completed my third year of university and im planning to move out this September into transitional housing (basically i pay rent and everything as usual but it’s a lot more affordable and affiliated with a non profit organization to help support us with our long term housing goals and mental health). seeing ur story and the stuff u went thru and how far uve come gives me hope that healing is possible. i was talking to my therapist today of how hard it is for me rn bc i have so many thoughts in my head. i know ill miss my family once i leave but i also know that staying is not an option anymore considering everything they put me thru. this may be an irrational fear of mine but im so scared to get into a relationship or have children bc i don’t wanna project my trauma into them or repeat the cycle of abuse that my family put me thru. i always hear that victims of abuse r more likely to become abusers themselves and that rly scares me and worries me bc i want to be a good parent / partner. if anyone has advice or can reassure me, i definitely need it right now :/

[@rndlkb10]

I'm Half Vietnamese Half American

[@reemky17]

you acknowledging your parents' flaws shows that you're aware and that's a big step already. although it makes sense for history to repeat itself (since the parenting style you received is the only one you know of) but having a therapist too shows so so much about your efforts to break the cycle. i'm proud of you and can assure you that your chance of being like your parents is already much slimmer. stay strong and be hopeful. you're deserving of so much.

[@crishnaholmes7730]

@@reemky17do they have something like this in America as well

[@mizzcrazygal]

i needed this. im 28 years old. my parents have forbid me from ever getting married or moving out. we live in a small village with 0 opportunities. i want to leave but they wont let me. im not even allowed to have female friends, i made one and she called me on my phone and my dad was like give me ur phone i want to hear the convo and my mum kept telling my brother to go upstairs ( cus i was in my room talking to her) to spy on me. i do not care about family izat anymore cus im a GROWN 28 YEAR OLD i should be able to do normal things like go abroad, start a family, have friends, go out, find a job. etc LMFAO EDIT: i’m 29 in two weeks & still same situation & i found out my dad hires priv investigators to spy on me at uni cus i’ve moved out for university, i told my parents i don’t miss them & my mum said i’m selfish cus of that, but tbh i’m grown & it’s normal to not always think of ur parents 24/7 lol also met this guy at uni who i live with and, i want to live with him next year as well 😍 anywayyyyy i still have to come home in the holidays, like christmas & half term etc which i really don’t want to cus im enjoying university life in the big city so much. hopefully when i get my degree i can leave 😆❤️‍🔥

[@deepalil1085]

OMG my dad is like this. Don't talk to any man. Don't talk with that woman. I can't go anywhere without permission. He doesn't even find arrange match for me. Always tell me that i am stupid and ugly. I have no interest in anyone now not even in my own life.

[@mizzcrazygal]

@@deepalil1085 omg im so sorry, its sucks sooo much ! i never knew other people were in the same situation as me. if u dont mind me asking where are you from ??? i live in a very small village with 0 potential, no one to meet here only old people. no good jobs. nothing and my father deliberately put us here.

[@deepalil1085]

@@mizzcrazygal i am from Mumbai.

[@AntiMasonic93]

Just leave! Your parents don't get a vote. Save yourself and leave!

[@ColourMePeacefull]

My life is like this too and I’m 27 loving in a Turkish household in Europe

[@hanqaamolintiso701]

Incredible story!!! The family you met was placed their by God.

[@karlaporoj8638]

Proud of you Deevaani and God bless you ❤️🙏🏽

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

Thank you ❤️😭

[@stanleydrive740]

You were so brave, at such a young age. I too was abused as a young kid, always imaging ways to escape. My parents were older & needed care, so I stayed. I never had a life. So very proud of you. Give yourself comforts, & know you are so deeply respected. 💙

[@debbie8231]

I don't normally comment on videos but girl I'm going through the exact same thing as you. My parents are so abusive and strict and will not leave me alone unless I'm with them or another trusted adult, and it got wayy worse when they caught me with my ex twice, who wasn't middle eastern so they didn't approve. Then I also sort of unlocked that memory of having been sexually abused by a family member (who thankfully didn't live with me) it's insane how we had such similar situations. I've saved up some money and I'm going to be moving out in a couple of months with a friend and watching your video gives me so much hope, thank you for sharing your story!! :)

[@ask536]

Whats ur age ?

[@debbie8231]

@@ask536 I'm 18 :)

[@ask536]

@@debbie8231 ok ok your major stay safe and safly leave your home May i know your Instaagram ?

[@bamgold4677]

How did it go ;

[@lafemme5716]

I ran away twice at 15 too. I was raised by boomer parents, so you can imagine how miserable I was dealing with their bigoted, controlling ways. I am 22 now, and they still have very bigoted beliefs. But I moved out at 18, and keep my distance with them now as I continue to heal. It’s ok to love your parents from a distance to preserve your mental health.

[@hemanthreddy4457]

Hey bro Where are you from

[@mehreenhazeeb1]

hey can you please help me by letting me know how you moved out and how you earned enough money to sustain yourself?

[@avaranabraham8507]

I am going through the same thing I came from a strict discouraging racist Indian family .long time ago I just applied and attended the Vancouver film school in Canada doing the animation concept art course my mom on the hand didn’t approve it she constantly told me that concept art is a white peoples course and berated me and telling that I will have no friends and i will not get a job in Canada and give up because I have brown skin with a learning disability. Many years later after moving out of my parents house I felt a lot of confidence got into my dream job and worked hard moved to the ranks as senior concept artist

[@susanna5864]

Beautiful! Congrats 💖

[@bamgold4677]

We should be friends :)

[@scotthearts9634]

Okay! That's what's up! Congrats in all your endeavors! 🥰

[@palvithakur9649]

This video was so relatable to me considering I’ve ran away far far away from my home once because of a narcissistic parent and you are so brave for this!! It is the most painful experience but you followed what your heart wanted and I pray all the best for your future❤

[@bamgold4677]

Hows it going :)

[@bubblesawesome3284]

I’m try to leave myself. They didn’t get me drive but now a days you need a car to get around. So I really don’t know what to do. I’m 21 and I still don’t know what to do. I’m getting so tired of them that I keep snapping at them.

[@niva.sharmaa]

being someone who has been sexually abused multiple times at around the same age and being brown and having strict parents…This is the most relatable video of all time. I developed ticks and ocd as a child because of this trauma and 3years after it happened and i was dying on the inside, i confided in my mom even though i had issues with her and this was the best decision….from then on i did not get justice or am not able to completely forget or get over what happened but my mom gave me my privacy and tried to respect and communicate with me more which now resulted in me being and independent women not trying to run away from home. she helped me keep distance from that guy keeping him away, as far as possible and i just couldnt be more grateful. to all the girls crying right now and relating to this video wanting to hurt themselves… u should know u r not alone and that u will be okay. just one day at a time guys❤

[@19afrafathimada71]

wait why is both of our situations soo similar like im like going throught the same shit.... im also like waiting for the day i turn 18 also its pretty understandable since im also coming from an indian household and can very well relate to all of this more power to u girl

[@Diaryofafreen]

Ayo we can runaway together can't we?

[@HellyRs]

​@@Diaryofafreenme too I'm running away at anytime and need a partner for some help and to get less scared

[@unknown_girl111]

@@HellyRs same

[@yolandagaeta428]

Thank you for share your story. You seem like such a well rounded young lady. I have a 5 year old and it breaks my heart to hear of kids being molested. Your story served as a reminder to be very careful with whom you leave your child, unfortunately look out for family members too. Best of luck in your marriage.

[@hannahmaudee]

It’s beautiful that lily’s parents were so helpful and kind to you. I hope everything turned out good for you. Sending my wishes🫶🏼

[@tooblessedtobestressed8343]

I admire your bravery. My parents was the same way. Yikes. Thank you for sharing your story🙏. Lots of blessings on your new chapter in life

[@athenababy]

It really do be your own family... YOU ARE SO STRONG!

[@ladyah71]

Lily's parents give me hope that they're actually really good people in this world I really think God brought you to them

[@kokii.morebudi]

Unrelated: you’re so pretty 🥺🔥

[@duneshawalli678]

I just stumbled upon the video and I truly understand what you have been through. I am Guyanese was raised the same way . I heated my life for many many years. I am almost 49 years old and these memories still hunted me from time to time. I didn’t have a close relationship with my mom as well even as to this day. My heart goes out to you. This kind of pain will be with you for a long long time. Take care.

[@bamgold4677]

Stay warm and safe

[@twinklepoornima7]

Sending you hugs. Sorry to hear you went through such horrific seasons in life.

[@GabrielleJinn]

I'm planning on moving out soon and I'm honestly so happy for you. I seriously envy anyone that can move out their abusive house it must be so freeing.

[@maamrob]

I have a similar story. I am 21 years old and my parents are controlling me, making me do everything they want, don't want me to decide for myself. I have a black boyfriend and my parents and whole family are extremely racist and against our love. I'm getting so depressed and wanted to run away but I am scared because my parents, especially my mother, become different people when they become mad. Any advice?

[@dehvoo3655]

Lay low until you can move out and then create boundaries

[@makayla1374]

I agree. I’m 21 as well, still live with my parents and I’m afraid that when I find a companion especially one that isn’t the same race as me, my parents will flip especially my mother. And you’re right. Mothers are different when they are mad. At this point I don’t think I will ever tell my mom anything good about me because she will try to use it against me. That’s fine mom. I won’t ever tell you tell you that I’m getting married someday❤️

[@bamgold4677]

I got advice be friends. Ill help free you.

[@prettypretty6528]

Bless your heart girl May God give u a lot of success..

[@aubreymorris6423]

im 13 and my parents are mentally and physically abusive and controlling. i left and it was the best thing ever im finally happy and safe.

[@beccalove8791]

I remember the day I had the courage to leave home. My parents were on vacation and I used that time to move out. I remember being so happy to be on my own!

[@chaseatlanticfan6553]

how’s it going

[@kisa.rr12]

your life back then is pretty similar to mines now except i don’t go out anywhere, no extra curricular or anything i only go to school and then back home, i have never gone out with friends or anything and ofc they control everything i do, clothes, food, everything, this is why i plan to run away and i have a pretty solid plan since i’ve had the idea since i was 10 (at the time i was young and it was more like “i hate my parents i’m gonna run away” but as i get older things are getting worse) i plan to go to college out of state and stay in touch with them but after i find myself a stable job i’m cutting them off, if anyone needs any advice on how to deal with strict parents or anything you can just rely to my comment i hope i’ll be able to help 💗

[@asmaaaaaaaaa]

Can you gave me some advice, am 17 i dont know what to do, also i dont have money to ran away

[@kisa.rr12]

@@asmaaaaaaaaa hey ofc i’d love to help, i’ll give you some basic advice but since i don’t know much abt your situation it may not be as helpful, ok so your 17 so you’re going to college soon so if you can wait until then and go out of state but if that’s not an option then definitely get a job, it doesn’t have to be a great one, even working at a grocery store but save up and get yourself a car, it might not be the best but if you do run away you can live in your car until you find something better , if you can’t do any of these lmk and i’ll try to come up with something else

[@asmaaaaaaaaa]

@@kisa.rr12 thank you, I will try my best 💗

[@khaIid624]

It takes a lot of courage to do what you did and I'm so proud of you

[@thecheesegod2738]

I have an extremely similar story, im glad you got out!

[@rubyxdiamond]

I’m really glad that you shared this personal story ❤ you’re brave and extremely strong for finding your peace! I shouldn’t be so shocked that so many of us share the same stories, but I’m so proud that most of us found a way out! Personally I ran away twice, but my second attempt was a success. And honestly as hard as it was, I do not regret it one bit!

[@bamgold4677]

Hi ; hows it going

[@samiyahbeary5138]

i'm indian too and so are my parents, i was a good kid too.. i wouldn't go to parties, or do stuff out of cultural norms, and my mom and dad were supportive me but i couldn't pursue or get a job even at high school because they wanted me to focus on school and study and i'd just go everywhere with my parents and stay home. my rebellious stage began in high school because i had no control over my emotions- like i always felt like i could never grow or even take care of my skin hair properly due to feeling "bad" if I didn't drive or whatever then I'd be told I'd "regress". I just like driving, but not with them or long distances where my energy is drained out, and I feel confined. I just liked spending less time with them as much as possible since I always felt sad... around them at times, I would never argue with them. One day during the summer my parents told me something that made me snap, and made my perspective that I'm not competent or capable enough, that I have to change.. I can wear a shawl.. no problem and dress properly but to school I just wanted to focus, and couldn't if I didn't dress or feel good for myself.. And I have no problem with covering up, I just didn't feel emotionally good i felt isolated lonely and broke down due to the stress of school and i'd cry in my room. i do love my parents so much though...

[@vilusantos100]

I am always in trouble for something. I am naturally adventurous and social but I feel that my parents really stunted that development. This has led me to make some bad choices in my future about friends and relationships. developing anxiety and depression. I am 19 years old, in one year 20. Why do they still treat me like a child. They expect me to be home before 8:00, and when I stay out for a longer time, they get annoyed and triggered. They tell me that I can have fun or hang out earlier. It’s like they don’t even try to see things from my side. I have never done drugs or even had sex before. Most of my friends are girls. But they still have an issue with it. It’s like they don’t like me having a social life.

[@samiyahbeary5138]

@@vilusantos100 omg same here. i'm so sorry you feel this way. i can totally resonate i just turned 20 last month and relapsed emotionally because if i'm pressured to do something like drive or help them with something like go to a different country or whatever. I just have so much fear instilled in me i don't wanna break them but i want to take care of myself in the process words cant really describe it unless one goes through it and i had to deal with it along with my sibling- they go so against my ideas even when it doesn't affect them. and i still feel like a child and can't grow either, but yet i don't blame them, but during high school it was tough for me because i was just "existing" rather than "living", i just wish i didn't have the fear of ruining my clothes or whatever if i go out with them or something it feels like i can't be myself even if it's the most decent thing- fully covered and if its bright or flashy or sparkly or even dark or too tight they'd judge and i don't even tuck in my clothes..., or even if i wear a leather jacket... it looks raunchy to them.. i can tell with their disapproving glances. and i wish they'd be a bit more understanding, as I do dress decently and loose clothes too, but then when my sister doesn't I have to take the blame for being the older sibling not being "a good role model" but don't worry it gets better :D it always does. because i feel like sometimes im scared to speak up so i dont want to blame anyone and that holds me back. what i wanna do is break free even though people would say its bad or selfish but i just need to be content- yet not alone, i hate being alone and lonely for too long. i need someone who understands me just like in this video her lifestory she was saying

[@noorasakhri6027]

this summer, i was sexually harrased and assaulted a couple weeks after my 13th birthday by a teacher that i see everyday, and im just really traumatized and my mom and dad are so mad at me for not going to school, but i know damn well that if i told them, they will start to make me wear hijabs and oversized clothings, thinking my clothes are the problem. I WAS WEARING A HOODIE AND RIPPED JEANS THAT DAY, i was not asking for it. but yet again my parents dont trust me just as much as i dont trust them. And overall they are just very strict and rude. I never feel loved by my parents, the only way they show me love is through money and forcing me to have "family time" with them which is just watching tv togheter or eating every meal togheter. Everytime i go outside, they call me atleast 20 times, like today, when i wanted to stay in the library for a while, my phone died and when i opened it again i had 16 missed calls. And i totally get it if i never told them where i was or if its a one time thing, but i legit told them where i was, what i was doing and when i was getting home before my phone died. And this happens everyday, i cant go out without my parents calling me every hour or a half. And thats only what happens during the day, but when its anything below 5 pm, they call me every 20 mins And the worst part is that im not allowed to go anywhere except one specific shop and the library. im not allowed to go anywhere else because my parents are "worried". And im also forced to wear a hijab at 16, and i tried telling my mom i didnt want to, but that just made me grounded and not allowed to do anything for a month straight. They took away all my devices and i was forced to study stuff i didnt need to study for, i was not allowed to have any snacks, and i wasnt allowed to go to that one shop or library i always went to. Right now, i got the news that ill be likely to move to america, and when i do, ill get my money by chores and save up to move out when im 18.

[@ask536]

Now ahats your age

[@noorasakhri6027]

@@ask536 im still 13

[@sweetgirl7275]

​@Noora Sakhri wow I'm so sorry for hear that from your story

[@AnuRMusicVideos]

I ran away too! From one girl to another, you're so so strong, sending love!

[@liminoust9665]

Hi can u tell me how u did it? Im pretty young and also i need a good planning on what to do once i leave

[@anthonyporcu2261]

This was a really great video you are a strong woman. I am 19 my girlfriend is 18 we have been together almost 3 years at this point and she is Turkish and Muslim she has very strict parents, pretty much how you describe your parents reacting to Cameron was the same for us. Your video means a lot because I been trying to find someone with a similar story that could just make me feel better and have hope. Thank you and I really hope your relationship with your parents can become better and they could be there for your wedding I know I would want her parents to.

[@Professionalbsdetector]

I am a very similar situation. Turkish with very strict and religious parents. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and they don’t know about it. I have a horrible life and not allowed to go outside or do anything. Im thinking of running from home 😢

[@deyvismejia7529]

thanks for sharing your story, my teen sister ran away today and I hope she is safe

[@aliyasyeda7453]

I'm so glad I came across your account. I'm Pakistani and was raised with very religious parents. I moved out and have been with my white boyfriend for 4 years now. Best decision ever. I'm so glad you are happy with your fiancé now, your happiness should always come first! Sending love from Ireland ❤

[@hatersrmotivators6477]

U mean extremists religious. Not true religious. If they were. They weren't trash. I am religious too but not extreme. I love Islam & respects all religions. They r thinking following culture is religion & is religious. I am Pakistani too. I can feel u bcz my family is like that except my mom. My dad is abusive but very liberal & secular. Culture & religion r 2 different things that Pakistani Muslim parents don't understand. So sorry for u. My mom is very nice.

[@LoL-mu4oe]

@@hatersrmotivators6477 Islam itself is a disgusting extremist ideology with a pedo as their best example lmao stop lying to yourself

[@chandaneedeodat8825]

I love your story. I come from a guyanese hindu family. I came to Christ when I was 17 but I have to hide it from my family and still to this day. My parents are somewhat like yours but different.

[@Kalinga_yodha]

Hindus don't have concept of conversion and leaving religion and actually Hinduism is not religion its way of life but rest all religion are religion.

[@anniebehari612]

Proud of you, Deevaani ❤️

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

Thank you cuzzo ❤️

[@shimmime]

You're such a strong person. Well done for fighting for your freedom at such a young age. You and Cam have all your lives ahead of you. Enjoy your life together ❤️

[@shimmime]

Well done to Lily and her parents too. You are amazing people

[@johnme9020]

I'm 26 and my parents don't want me to move out. But I'm ready. Thank you for this inspirational video. ❤️

[@j_s552]

Wow, I’m super glad to hear I’m not alone with this. I’m only 2 years younger than you and been plotting my escape

[@unpopularopinion4710]

@@j_s552 lol

[@ayanabdi4959]

@@j_s552 me too but im 14

[@crishnaholmes7730]

@@j_s552how’s it going

[@bamgold4677]

You got this

[@quelquun2018]

I can’t wait to leave as well! I graduated nursing school but I failed my nclex so I need to retest. Once I do, and pass, I’m out of there!

[@Inayah-jy8qb]

You are very brave. I resonate so much with your story. I had to break some barriers as well with my parents. I did it by travelling and eventually moving abroad. Best decision ever, our relationship is stable now. I think my decisions to move out left a huge impression on them. There were moments were I did not talk with them. Since then my dad has become more softer. With time I realized things get better as I kept my hope. Sending you lots of love and strenght ❤💪🏽

[@kokii.morebudi]

Wow✨your having the courage to stand up for what’s important to you and for your space to feel comfortable and safe is very beautiful ✨I related so much and I hope I achieve the same outcome 😭🤍

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

I pray for your future God will take care of you don’t worry ❤️

[@amenevaeh]

I just wanna run away to New York and get an apartment and decorate it my style! and find one friend that I can trust and live my life

[@jaylee5089]

same but im 17 and scared.. but i cant deal wit my household anymore

[@bmtzzz2474]

ME TOO

[@invisible_dude1374]

Same but im 13

[@radhikaraj7394]

Thank you for sharing this story ❤

[@bamgold4677]

Hi :]

[@vada3576]

The only thing thats holding me back from running away is money, i’m a student in college and i live with an abusive mother its not common in my country to live on my own if im not married so, I don’t have people i can trust or place to go other than being stuck in her home, she abuses my every once in a while over silly sillyyyyy things and I can’t handle this no more, i want new life where i dont have to deal with her or her anger issues even if that requires trusting complete strangers..

[@DeevaaniWilliams]

I’m so sorry 💔 I pray you can find your way out one day. You don’t deserve to go through this.

[@Lohit-u8b]

I guess you are from INDIA

[@vada3576]

@@Lohit-u8b no i’m a Middle Eastern.

[@vada3576]

@O.F De Los Santos do you have instagram?

[@jfam729]

I feel scared that victims of childhood sexual abuse don't get help with disclosing the identity of the abuser. The abuser who preyed on her could be out looking for other victims right now.

[@MoistCrumpet]

I hope this inspires a lot of other people in similar situations to take action.

[@thegirltee838]

You are so courageous. May God bless you. Many of us are going through this right now

[@manouranoor7924]

You see guys. EVERYONES JOURNEY IS DIFFRENT THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULDNT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER AND THATS ON PERIODTT!

[@adhirajsingh8698]

I'm so done with my home that it hasn't felt like home for a long time now. My parents and sister lead a happy life, but because of my flaws and my inadequacy they have to put up with sadness and disappointment. I don't want to trouble them anymore. I really wish we could just go our separate ways. I haven't felt normal or happy in such a long time. I always feel so alone and scared, I can never enjoy anything. I have no one to talk to about these things, I ruin everything everywhere I go. I just want to quit everything and lead a life of service, nothing else. I don't want anything, I don't desire anything, I have no ambitions, no vision, nothing. I just want to be free of all this bondage to family, friends, society, money, job, status. I have no qualities to succeed in any of these departments. God I just want to be left alone by my family forever. Dead or alive, it doesn't bother me.

[@unknown_girl111]

Give me your insta I'd

[@adhirajsingh8698]

@@unknown_girl111 why tho

[@unknown_girl111]

@@adhirajsingh8698 you want to leave home or not?

[@adhirajsingh8698]

@@unknown_girl111 I do but why do you want to talk to me tho

[@unknown_girl111]

@@adhirajsingh8698 do you have any idea how to leave?

[@jaky411]

Thank you for sharing. The description of your mother sitting on her couch while you are trying to study and or just wanting some space for your self is so relatable with my mother while I was going to a community college near my home as well. Looking back, I honestly regret not taking a gap year from college and instead save up some money from working and rent out a studio apartment for myself (was also near my community college) with other college age room mates. That would have gave me more piece of mind as well as keeping a healthy distance from my mothers codependency😩 I have also had my parents report missing person on file at my community college police department for coming home late at night.

[@khushisinha-qn8wl]

im literally crying while watching this video .....im from india and i want to become a pilot but my father keeps manipulating me and forcing me to go in completely different field ....we are financially dependent on him..i don't know what should i do....may god guide me to help me to remove this toxicity in my life

[@Rellbembry7078]

Honestly, I should've left my family a long time ago. I've been through a lot: being in the foster system due to their lack of raising me. But, going back home didn't change a bit.

[@alexandrarodriguez3057]

I was once 18 and felt the same way about parents i thought they were evil and dint care about me but now that I’m 30 they did care for me and only wanted the best for me

[@allegraanegra455]

I’m Guyanese too and my mom is strict also. I’m in college and still don’t really leave the house. I barely asked and when I did it was usually a no. I told her that the reason I don’t like going to the grocery store or the train or anywhere else was largely due to her not letting me go out even occasionally and she flipped. Wouldn’t even listen to me just was saying how she thought she was doing what she should and she should have just let me do whatever etc

[@amayafnf5867]

I have a feeling I need to run away what should I do? I hate being in the same household as my mom. It's all about the adults and what about me? I've received the cheap things and that makes me angry and disappointed. I'm 18 but I have a curfew of 8:30 pm. I could care less! I can't be vulnerable around the woman who gave birth to me. I was trying to sell my art but I haven't sold a piece today, my frustration boiled over and I ripped up my artwork not caring at all. Why is that I make an effort and that effort doesn't get noticed or appreciated? What did I do to deserve this punishment? I have a hard time trusting God in fact I don't trust him. I'm really starting hate him because he can't tell me why I was born? If he can't tell me then drastic decisions will be made. I'm kinda getting to the point where I can't take it anymore.

[@hatemylife2771]

How can i contact you ?

[@kekedean8962]

Harm herself? Yeah your parents were DEFINITELY manipulators, glad you got out.

[@wendybitch06]

I would've giving her the suicide hotline number

[@hazal._.hart21]

AlMost all of the brown parents are like this , im suffering from depression and being the eldest daughter in a brown family is horrible until an unless your parents chill . Here they just put pressure and responsibility. I'm Just 13 . And i am think of running away . I can truly understand your feelings sis

[@respecthewoman]

Deevaani Im so proud of you for being brave and understanding that you're mental health and well-being was more important than your parents desire to control you. There are so many who weren't given such an opportunity, so many who don't have parents, or even know who they are.... who have no place to go, Who may be in worse situations than us. (prayers for them please). I'm glad you had support. You seem like a well put together, beautiful young lady. Brave of you to share your story. Be well.

[@bamgold4677]

Friends?

[@mesinkafernandes6839]

Love you gurll!!! I'm from India too, From Goa, our society is different yet so conservative,i understand how difficult it might have been for you all those past years❣️glad you have a new life and a wonderful fence 💐god bless and all the very best💞

[@bamgold4677]

Hi how are you :)

[@stardust543]

I'm from India and could relate to many things said in this video . Here the society is so conservative and our parents and relatives put big expectations on kids and force them to became as they want them to be. Nowadays things are quite changing and I wish there comes a time when parents could understand their own kids.

[@reeko9278]

I'm from India and I'm glad my parents aint that way... towards the end it depends on individuals

[@kdjoshi726]

Yeah 90% of my friends have similar stories to share. By the rate we're "changing" I think it'll take another 100 years for us to really develop, both infrastructurally & socially

[@IshitaKumar10]

thank you for sharing your story! i’m sorry you had to go through this but i’m looking forward to more of your healing journey. you’re strength is so inspiring! 💗

[@rathasri4060]

Omg wow. I'm so happy things worked out for you. I am so sorry you had to deal with so much when you were younger. I'm happy you got out of that and had support/love outside. I'm happy you got the chance to be free and welcomed by "Lilly" parents I know is hard when parents are strict. I hope things are a bit better with them. I hope you're better and more at peace. You deserve that 100 percent :) I'm so proud of you girl. God is great and was on your side that day. Not everyone sadly gets the chance but I know when you have a chance sometimes you gotta take it. I am so grateful you did!!!!!!!! God is great🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤Sorry if i sounded rude not my intentions, or wrote some things twice. It takes a lot of guts to be on camera and talk about all of these things. I hope people who are going thru something similar find these. You inspired a lot including me. Not going thru anything just mentally but staying positive. Thank you again❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Joshdifferent]

Firstly you are mad pretty! and I can relate! I am the scapegoat of my family. I moved out about 6 months ago!

[@Joshdifferent]

Dang it’s been 2 years 😮