I Regretted Telling Them I've Started Working In The UK? /Living in the Diaspora 🇬🇧

[@AbdulHealth7001]

Why are some people like this! Her own brother for that matter. It's really painful. I pray she finds a way to heal

[@MamaEgwuejiChannel]

Yes o o o, there are things you need to keep to yourself. Truth must be told.

[@ChySpace]

Oh sure

[@ladyporshtv]

God bless you sis thanks for sharing ❤❤

[@chinonye2]

Inukwa itu order phone😂. My dear the people back home and the entitlement is too much. Am glad most of them are migrating abroad too so they can were anya ha hu ihe ibe ha na ahu. Odiegwu 😮

[@ChySpace]

Exactly. Praying most of them move abroad too

[@Jay-eh6jz]

I have been sending funds to my family since I was 17 years old for 27 years in the UK with my whole family back home. I was only 14 years old when I relocated and had to quickly become responsible for everyone. In the process, my whole family turned against me saying I didn't give enough. I prayed some much for them all to come. They all migrated 2 years now with all their families and they have seen it now. They have started complaining already and I'm tone-deaf. They hurt me so much including my parents. I’m still processing my healing. I have learned to share my wins with my husband and kids and a few close friends in the UK. I don't need any accolades from an extended family and I have also learn to choose who I am Kind to. Family isn't everything like they say and blood isn't thicker than water. My view 😢

[@ChySpace]

It's hurts when they don't understand. Good a thing you have brought 90% of them over. I hope they're packing the pounds enough now and should stop complaining lol. It's well sis

[@richevericheve5156]

thank you so much for sharing true people back in nigeria have no idea how harder it is to live in abroad with so many bills to pay everything cost big and no enjoyment in life pay payt pay always pay

[@ChySpace]

No enjoyment abroad at all. Those back home enjoy and party better than we do here

[@richevericheve5156]

Yes I see that ,some relax with what we send while we work day and night to survive and back in Nigeria they not all some are chilling

[@christyakabike]

Very true because people back home thinks there is river of money flowing in the diaspora,so all they know is you are rich once you are out of the country.

[@ChySpace]

Exactly 💯

[@yuta3699]

I have completely cut off almost all my extended family members and friends back in Naija because of money demands,they are like vampires,I have realized that once anyone from naija relocates abroad from an average to low income background you are no longer part of their tribe,you will be treated like an outcast and an ATM machine,they will never love you again,your relationship will become transactional,these will be very difficult to accept but it’s a sad reality so the better you accept that you are no longer part of them the better for you,their entitlement mentality back home is toxic.

[@ChySpace]

You can't say it any better than this. I felt how disappointed Dinma was reading her lines. It's such a negative expectation

[@applenwaolisa916]

You have say it all thank you

[@mariaelenagarciagroves2364]

Unfortunately I’m agree with you , but that’s for all people that have families living outside their home country. Nobody cares if you are ok they just want the money .

[@truemamle6184]

I do love your stories 😂😂 I can’t wait to listen to it all Well done I like the shop videos I did that one day

[@ChySpace]

Glad you like them!

[@truemamle6184]

@ oh yes I do I have to settle down and listen 🤣🤣🤣 I know when I tell people do not explain to people when you are asked how are you the next question is how is your work is not because they care if you say good the third question is things are not good can you help 🤣🤣🤣

[@treasurekitchen]

Na waa oo! Why are some people like this! Her own brother for that matter. It's really painful. I pray she finds a way to heal

[@ChySpace]

I'm telling you

[@mavyslifestyle8071]

it's sad how ppl back home think we become rich the very moment we travel 😪 😕

[@ChySpace]

Oh yeah

[@jenf9272]

Always avoid discussing salaries as it will be to your detriment...ppl are weird when it comes to money.

[@ChySpace]

Exactly 💯

[@uzoGod_007]

My family is different oo. I send home when i have to send home. When i don't sebd, they know i dont have... Even in nigeria, they know i have not been stingy.

[@ChySpace]

You're so lucky to have them just like mine too

[@beautybyng]

o chii m ooo😮, inu kwa. Abroad adighi easy

[@ChySpace]

Sure

[@uniquegracetv]

Hmmmm momma you see this matter eeh it's well😢

[@NurseJuliaEzeji]

There was a friend of mine that bought the best camera and gadgets when starting her youtube channel, she was surprised to learn that I still use my phone.😅

[@ChySpace]

That's it. They don't need all that starting up

[@kisasharon902]

Am 😂😂😂😂. The iPhone story.

[@ChySpace]

Lol! It's very expensive here dear

[@ogomsseries]

I go block you for my mental and peace of mind,some family members are not worth it sha. Inukwa😂😂😂

[@ChySpace]

Lol! Then na umunna will settle una case

[@TheclaNancy]

African with entitlement mentality, I completely understand this situation because I have been there. My advice never take advice from anyone back home even parents, because they don’t understand the lifestyle and the annoying thing is they milk you.

[@TheclaNancy]

Send phone to airport and then when it gets missing you will be blamed. Someone even said to me, you can pick the mobile from trash abroad 😅

[@ChySpace]

The person should come pick the phones on the streets by himself.

[@roseliam4442]

I sent a cousin to nursing school. Sent money to educate her children. She responded by sending arrows of infirmity to my family. Africans have to ask God to cleanse our hearts first.

[@ChySpace]

@roseliam4442 Hmm 🤔 That was too mean of her

[@kalitestudio588]

😂😂😂 our people eh.

[@ChySpace]

It's well

[@kemiadenubi644]

Even on Social media, stop sharing your achievements. Everyone is watching including your family. Limit sharing your achievements on social media: WhatsApp status, Tiktok, Facebook, Instagram and so on.

[@ChySpace]

That's true my dear

[@Nellysville1]

You're so funny 😅😅 some people with entitlement mentality.😅😅 It's well o

[@ChySpace]

It is well