I reminded my dad this.

[@nonames4ever]

You owe him nothing, i wouldn't even talk to my dad if he didn't pay anything for my mum

[@hamdibejtja7103]

It's not only that, he also wasnt present in his life

[@CharlesRay-rt7jb]

You do owe him! He is authority

[@bobobobob2]

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[@totitelevisionshow]

@@CharlesRay-rt7jbhe’s not authority, their only connection is blood and even that is weak.

[@SuprS1lly]

@@CharlesRay-rt7jb what authority? Lmao

[@foolforyou1228]

Let the people who think they have the right to berate you look after him, he obviously means so much to them

[@rosesophieblack7287]

They’re always like that. Mine was an abusive POS, in and out of jail for abusing us then disappeared. The day of my 18th birthday he called my mother demanding to talk to me cause he wanted to sue me for parental support cause “ he has no money “. Years of drinking made him “ unable ” to work and he thought he’ll freeload off of me. He even got a lawyer, but when the lawyer heard he was in jail for abuse on me 3 times and that I was currently staying at the psych ward ( spent there 3 months after an attempt ), on top of that I was a student on scholarship he said he’s not taking my father’s case. My aunt from my father’s family side told my mother everything. He still called me when I got out and was threatening me. Then when he died I had to pay for a lawyer to sign off everything that I could inherit after him, which was loads of debts, including his unpaid child support. I guess according to law it’s okay to try and pass unpaid child support debt on the kids it was never paid to 😂

[@mothertrucker936]

What blows me away is dad’s wife thinking that she has any say, any impact whatsoever. Dad should never have imposed his idea. The man really has no shame

[@hopeausbyn1734]

These Cows always think somebody cares what they have to say.🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Sasu123456789x1]

OP definitely doesn't owe that father shit. The audacity for him to assume that he would be moving in with OP when he has other kids to ask is ridiculous 🙄

[@karaiko]

You owe him nothing. Have police on speed dial if they try to enter. Get a restraining order too to prevent them from physically able to be anywhere you are or the property. Is it possible to still get child support back pay? Hope so. If the judge finds out he reneged on the child support, that may be grounds against him from renting.

[@Random_yshorts]

Is your dad Toji???

[@MsIndigoNY2]

Nothing is what Dad paid as you were growing up..... Nothing is what you owe him in his time of need. Nope.

[@ravennatasha731]

If any other person wouldn't want that person in their home then that person is the problem and anyone who guilts you into "stepping up" can step up themselves if they have so much to say.

[@DixiePhifer]

He FAFO. You owe him nothing.

[@andruyscha]

Think I need a hospital bed too from laughing so hard

[@rM-xk9ob]

You don't owe them, your Dad or his wife or his other kids. One of her kids or his other kids can help the. If I was you I would go NC, make your own family. He probably thinks he should have gotten the house. You DO NOT OWE HIM ANYTHING.

[@thetruth1223]

Actions have consequences live life like a DB you get what you get... op owes the donor nothing......

[@Lucky_Soleil]

People forget the past can effect the future/present

[@PleaseBringTide]

Ok the dad’s a pos yes but are we gonna talk about how delusional his new wife is? You hear your husband never paid child support and apparently has multiple failed marriages/baby mamas… what makes you think you’ll be supported?

[@angiebarker3539]

You don't owe him anything

[@lionessoftor4139]

NTA The ax forgets the tree remembers. He made his bed he can lay in it. He should be grateful you even talk to him.

[@ruihaharawira369]

The audacity of the Dad asking if he and his side piece should move into OP’S when he didn’t pay Child Support and the side chick should keep out of it nosy old woman

[@michellealjunaidi8471]

You don't owe him anything. He's only around because he wants something.

[@eveesix9683]

They both have multiple kids, and none care. That's all I need to know about the kind of parents they were.

[@Lovebug-ut8mx]

He made his bed let him lie in it!!

[@teona819]

His contribution to your life can be measured in mililiters. He can stay upset.

[@CharlesRay-rt7jb]

You mean kiloliters and that the OP needs to give in to there pride

[@MiaMaraa]

I thought sperm is smaller, but okay 😂

[@dessahlifesa5694]

Similar situation just don’t talk to him or the wife easiest solution cause than you can’t be the A hole because he already did it to you

[@doyscherr]

Not the A-hole.

[@venezolanatrini]

The audacity

[@angiloves]

You dont he can figure it out. You know damnwell he wont pay a cent and good luck getting them to leave once in. Walk away

[@PolishGoalkeeper8]

And her child,so its not yours.

[@standing3404]

He shouldn't have ever assumed you would allow him to move into your house. His wife needs to mind her own business and kick rocks. He needs to speak with his other kids

[@joseconstanza8277]

Yes his dragging out his past cus if he didn't pay child support why the fuck would he expect him to pay rent?

[@mrchelsea7171]

Nta

[@kazzuo32]

Soo people do shitty stuff expecting others to forget? Nope

[@TheGrandy123]

NTA