I Shouldn't Be Alive | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 104 | Season 3

[@edmondeddinations5641]

As a person who knows you personally, I'm proud of your bravery to share your story. May your next TV appearance be that of the world being blessed by your singing talent. God still has a greater purpose for you that's for sure.

[@cryptonews4879]

Ke wa Marulaneng this lady?

[@tiisetjomathabatha5859]

@@cryptonews4879 nah

[@tamarandziweni8862]

Am here for Relebigile's outfit...She never dissapoints😍

[@keno.M]

Right?? She be slaying left,right ,center and everywhere in between 🤣😂

[@nikib2870]

This lady is so beautiful. I had not even noticed that she has a scar on her face until she pointed it out through telling her story. I hope one day she realizes really how beautiful she is and walks around proudly.

[@bayyinahjefferson4558]

Exactly I was thinking the same thing. She is beautiful. But I think that’s very common.

[@BabeBun17]

Remember she has makeup on

[@ntombekhayankoane1852]

....but still it's not that the makeup is doing much difference. She is beautiful because if she didn't mention the scares I would have not noticed them.

[@EDDIESCARDICTION]

@@BabeBun17 She's really beautiful even without make up, i stay with her in Nellmapius.

[@TM-ys1kc]

This show deserves a million subscribers. it's a real gem and 100% authentic. Well unpacked as always.

[@ayandayeni7968]

When she said “I didn’t get the chance to see how God created me”…wheeew🥺that was heavy. May God continue to richly bless you❤️.

[@mishykope]

This show is so addictive😭😭😭

[@madampresident2053]

True heh

[@TapiTTwala]

You too much. Just can't get enough!

[@samukelisiwentombela2131]

Dude!!!

[@valenciaemmerentia9262]

Every show I cry & I learn something....thank u so so much for this show🤩❤

[@SuperSebza]

Hakere

[@busisiwesamantha3714]

It goes without saying.. Your story has made me realize that I may be going through tough times but it gives me the motivation to move on if you've survived so much from an early age it simply means We can overcome the scariest obstacles that life has for us... You are a true motivation...

[@buyiswa_m]

This lady is beautiful, I wish she can see how beautiful she still looks. Wishing her healing and health ❤

[@moosampofu622]

Shuuuu,,this young lady has been through tough times.i wish I could hug & comfort her

[@valenciaemmerentia9262]

😍❤🤞👌U are very very beautiful I mean it out of my heart🙏I pray for u fully recovering.God bless u my darling❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bayandazondi3145]

she is so gorgeous. i pray one day she believes that wholeheartedly

[@beautyqueen8936]

She is a natural beauty.

[@refiloekose2236]

Aowa guys Relebohile is an awesome host. Can we nominate her for something hle. Kamo she’s killing it on 702. We appreciate you Relebogile

[@thulasmo1990]

Wow Lebo, you are amazing...you ask the right questions in the right way. Thank you for this, may this lady heal man, she is indeed supposed to be alive.

[@mathapelokhanye4330]

Joh, Nana. Ur so beautiful and not only on the outside bcos that can be taken anytime but ur beauty inside and bravery is amazing. I am so happy that u realized that GOD carried u through this and has only amazing and beautiful things for u. U will touch so many people. U did not ho through all this for nothing. Keep ur face up and ur faith high. Lots of Love

[@mapasekakubheka6306]

You always think you going through the worst, until you hear someone's story. I commend this young lady for her resilience. Wishing her healing and solace❤️✨

[@Motshidisimadito]

When Relebogile finally told her that she is beautiful I really felt my heart jumping because I was longing to hear that throughout the conversation 🥺 I understand why she feels the way she does but in all honesty she looks beautiful, without telling her story one wouldn't even think she went all the obstacles she did, because even looking at her while she was talking not even for a second did I notice anything wrong with her, she is perfect to my eyes, she's way too beautiful.

[@ramatsobanemahlomoleng6453]

And since I know you personally You are strong and beautiful my sis.. ❤️❤️😊☺️God fearing young women.. You are loved

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

I really feel like a conversation needs to be had with the cousin about what he did. He needs to acknowledge what he did. And family needs to apologize for pushing the narrative that she shot herself...a whole 3 year old? Come on...do you know hpw much effort it takes a toddler to be able to even pick up a weapon...

[@matemabaloyi7249]

I agree. This is so toxic!

[@nkosingiphilethabethe4853]

One thing about most black families? they will 'protect' people instead of letting them take accountability. A 3 year old would rather die in a lie. Makes me cringe, every time!!!!!

[@freebluebutterfly6583]

Ohhh but I've lived in 3 continents & pple may be culturally different but the WICKED spirit is in every race. Good & bad everywhere..

[@blessed74God]

I think we're the original devils. They protect everybody BUT the victim

[@freebluebutterfly6583]

What a BEAUTIFUL young lady. Inside & OUT😍I wish she truly knew it deep inside.

[@hluvukanicindy2385]

There was negligence from the cousin. You can’t clean a gun in the room when there’s people, it’s not like polishing a shoe. & I hate that this lady keeps saying it was a mistake, I feel like she’s trying to justify the situation so much…it was negligence and everyone who sat in the room is to blame for sitting through it and covering the lie.

[@virginiamaseko6449]

I feel like that’s what was drilled in her mind to look at it as a mistake, imagine this happened at 3 and she heard it was a mistake probably protecting the cousin too

[@missp3186]

What your family did was wrong regardless it was a mistake or not. May God strengthen you ❤

[@koketsomantsena]

What a strong lady 🥺 I hope she gets the help she needs ❤️

[@miraclemay24]

You are beautiful ❤scars are your strength. You are incredibly strong, thank you for sharing your story

[@nonkosi8021]

Parents though with lies..Did it occur to them that the child could suffer from self blame, for goodness sake she was also started suffering from low self esteem.. The elders choose to burden her with the horrible responsibility which she didnt have to carry. May she find healing from her trauma.

[@freebluebutterfly6583]

Remember... family can 💜💙 & be so beautiful, but family can also CRUSH each other. I'm a retired counselor...

[@phathutshedzotshifularo3169]

When she mentioned that she struggled when she watched movies with guns I wondered how she cope on 31 December during the fireworks moments 😞😞

[@jabusithole123]

I cannot stop crying 😭 guys!!! This wrong and sad!!

[@lethabomaphutha6775]

You are so strong to have went through all this childhood trauma and still stand tall. I see you almost every Sunday at church and still didn't suspect you went through all this pain. Indeed we don't look like our problems. Thank you for sharing your story Sesi

[@deborahramaphala9056]

You can be a motivational speaker Pls pray for that God Bless you

[@rebotilematabane953]

She's very beautiful. Pholosho you are beautiful. O botse hle❤️

[@lucynapwaro5725]

Thank you for sharing your story, 🤦‍♀️when is this gone stop in families keeping secrets and lying, when the truth comes out it’s so painful and difficult to take in, imagine growing up thinking u shot your self 😭and late u realize someone actually shoot you and they were protecting the shooter , imagine she could have died .

[@TJ-my9nh]

Believe me my sister you are such a strong and beautiful young woman. We thank God for sparing you.

[@sisinyanamojatau3176]

Pholosho you are so gorgeous, never doubt that. You're so strong and courageous. I hope you have a happy life and get all the help you need to be ok❤️. Who knows, maybe we can have lunch one day. I wish you all the best💐

[@morongoamathabatha5282]

I never had a beautiful soul like you Tiisetso you more beautiful maP never ever doubt you self for that an im proud of you Nans😘😘😘😘

[@MrsMax2009]

and she is BEAUTIFUL indeed

[@thandikhoza5794]

I can so much relate and after listening to her story she went through more traumatic incidents, every emotional. thank you for sharing. your beautiful in and outside

[@Cbo_Matakane]

I wish she knew, that when I first saw her I didn’t even notice the scar , the teeth, the everything negative that she has mentioned until she mentioned it.. I just truly saw a normal person and beautiful, elegant lady, admiring the dress and how beautiful it made her shoulder area..enye nenye was last on my mind…

[@keneilwegao5831]

‘If no one has ever told you, you ARE beautiful’ ❤️🥺 made me a little emotional 😭

[@portiajacobs3562]

Ousi relebogile i thank you and your team so much from the bottom of my heart for giving ordinary South Africans a platform to share their stories,,your hard work isn't going unnoticed you truly inspire me to be a better human being cos of how sympathetic and considerate you are when asking your guests hard questions,may that beautiful young lady find peace and healing

[@pheladinare2876]

Lies destroy a lot of people and the truth has its own way of coming out. They protected him and he should have acknowledged his part and take accountability.

[@lebomogoboya8689]

I feel like by lying to her, they didn’t give the cousin a chance to take accountability for what he did, even if it’s a mistake, it altered her life forever so he needed to be accountable a little bit

[@EDDIESCARDICTION]

All i wish for is to make just one song with Pholosho, i can guarantee you guys that she is the best vocalist that South Africa has seen or heard.

[@murielchauke4181]

I see this as a spiritual battle, 2 different incidents but God said No. As much as we love our parents, they also have engaged into other sacrificial agreements & altars knowingly or unknowingly. And trust me they will by all means protect each other.. God is amazing and you are the living testimony 🙏

[@boledielizabethmaake8369]

You are beautiful Pholosho, I pray that God will continue to strengthen you and take care of you.

[@khetimthembu8465]

This lady is beautiful 🥰❤️

[@joymaphanga1786]

You are beautiful sthandwa sami, inside and out🥺❤️

[@patriciajenkinslong1877]

She is so beautiful ❤️

[@zetmbonambi4425]

She is so strong and beautiful.May God give her strength to deal with this.I hope she can get help from professionals. I wish parents can learn to tell their children the truth. She lived long time with self blame,while it wasn't even her fault .The cousin should have apologised since it was just an accident.

[@sihlendwandwe5777]

She's acting strong but u can hear by the voice that she's so broken but she's trying by all means to avoid the pain

[@pheladinare2876]

You are beautiful Pholosho 🥰🥰🥰

[@MmaNoko]

When she said she was having dreams, I can relate. She was in her spiritual world. It happened to me. I had a miscarriage last year. So they took me to theater, after being induced, I slept so they can start cleaning my womb.However, my physical body was at rest, but I was seeing things, I was dreaming. And after, I heard nurses calling my name. I think, I understand what she’s trying to explain.

[@portiashava3023]

Yes definitely it was the spiritual realm , she wasn't dreaming it was happening . I am very sorry for your miscarriage I pray God blesses you with twins .

[@MmaNoko]

@@portiashava3023 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️I receive sesi. I’m taking a screenshot of this. I shall testify. I receive 🙏

[@tamaramusabula6724]

She is very beautiful n her story is so inspiring may God bless her

[@motshabithobela]

Phuluso, you are beautiful....yoh you are very gorgeous and blessed

[@missp3186]

Sis you are beautiful inside and out. You are God's masterpiece and we thank God for your life. The events that took place in your life proves that you are a strong women wish so much beauty😍❤

[@unmutewithnonhli]

She is beautiful, I hope we have a psychologist that sees this and give her counselling. You are God's miracle. God loves you ❤️

[@omolemomohale6865]

This lady is so Gorgeous, a Gem. 🥰

[@lemonade6690]

The Spirit of death really wanted to take this Young girl but Gods hand always carried her❤️

[@gugulethunyoni4398]

Wow. You are a strong lady. And you are beautiful. I pray you look at yourself one day, and see how beautiful you are.

[@thembisachuma765]

They lied to her🙄😭 They still lying. Shame on them😬

[@gracenyatlo6467]

I think the are lying to her and deceiving this family is toxic marm thank God your still alive 🙏 🙌

[@Sunshine26]

Sending her love, peace, healing, strength and prayers. She is so beautiful and strong

[@pattaika3507]

To our guest darling You are beautiful and God's favourite child...@Sis Rele wow you are the best

[@k1k992]

Seriously - you are beautiful. I really cannot see why you think you are disfigured. One cannot even see any serious scars.

[@kabelomsimango5392]

So many unforseen accidents and she survived them all by the grace of God she could have easily have left God has truly called her for something great

[@mphosithole8756]

part 2 comment: It is important to get psychological help, I recently attended breathing through trauma offered by breathing through trauma group, it is interesting how I learned that breathing puts you in a state of peace and how it centers your emotions.

[@helly_b]

She is beautiful ❤️

[@mathapelodimakatso7421]

❤️🙏🏾you are beautiful thank for sharing your story with us

[@thusompobane3010]

Pholosho u are beautiful 😍💖💗

[@ntombindaba806]

That second accident took place in her life for a reason, they shouldn't have lied to her about the first accident 😔

[@freebluebutterfly6583]

accidents happen... & can repeat. SAD part of Life. Women get raped & abused multiple times. 😭😱 & Consider millions of pple all over the world suffering til they die. HEARTBREAKING to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. THE flip side is watching mean pple get blessings after after blessings. ...LIFE - the longer u live it the less shocked & less asking "WHY". There's not always an explanation... Gosh... she's a strong BEAUTY! GOD BLESS HER soul🙏🏽

[@vuvumofficial]

Your Ancestors and God are working overtime shame. You are a survivor…

[@cinisolonelnkomo5991]

God is really great. With time, she will hopefully heal and be strong🙏🙏Relebogile, thank you so much for your words of encouragement to her.🙏

[@Malangenisto]

You are beautiful my sister 😍

[@mphosithole8756]

Pholosho I wish to let you know that you are a beautiful young lady, I note in the comments that you are a good singer, please express that to us as singing is very spiritual it will also help you in unleashing the pain you are going through and start doing motivational talks you will go far beautiful. Interestingly your name is simply the reason why you are still alive it carries such a powerful meaning. MphoS

[@joymafukidze6297]

Hie sis Rebo!woooo I like that personality of yu!they way u are ,the way yu dressed up ,,I admire u all the time 🌹🕊🙏👌💯🙏💙all these for yu cming frm my inner part of my heart!!

[@itumelengselepe7254]

Danm she is soooooo beautiful, I cannot believe that she's does not believe it. She is gorgeous, her eyes 😍. Can someone please direct her to proper therapy treatments, If we have any specialists here in the comments? Also I think her testimony is powerful that she needs to travel the continent sharing it. This girl needs to write a book about her build up to life. Her purpose lies in there.

[@boipusholatakgomo6636]

Pholosho❤️

[@penelopegomez5934]

This beautiful young lady needs therapy. He family failed her with lies. She is so pretty and hurt. You are loved baby girl

[@tabisamlata]

She's so beautiful you know ❤❤❤❤❤ Shame God is always great ❤

[@michellemartin2330]

God has a higher purpose for her and she doesn’t even know it yet! ♥️

[@marciajames9434]

wow beauty is in the eyes of the beholder because I certainly see you as BEAUTIFUL!

[@mhlox654]

My God Her name is “Pholosho” 🙌🏻🙌🏻👐🏾👐🏾 which means “Saved” or “Rescue”

[@victorianemavhulani2519]

What a show.. Hope the producer helped her to get concelling

[@nomsasibanda5877]

You are beautiful don't ever doubt that cc

[@PebetseCarvedForGreatness]

Her name is Phološho. I honestly believe God is indeed Her savior. The true epitome of her Name ❤️

[@o.letsobe5067]

Though she isn't much of a good storyteller, Pholosho has a lot to say about her experiences with cheating death and one could see that she still harbors a lot of anger and pain.... May you heal ma'am ♥️♥️

[@KK-pi3ui]

But why did the family lie😵😵 burdening a baby like that. And that cousin o reng yena???

[@Ladyle4ever]

God is great all the time 🙏🙏🙌

[@zimkhithalangkop7123]

😭😭😭 this is sad ......

[@dikeledimothiba65]

I always think 'what's in a name' and like really?! Her name is Pholoso!! Little wonder things unfolding the way they are. I also feel like my name has brought me events accordingly. Scary.

[@koketsoprinnymashego6411]

Pholosho your name ausi waka... God has plans for you, its not yet time, modimo otlao pholosha

[@samukelisiwentombela2131]

What does the name mean?

[@tiisetjomathabatha5859]

@@samukelisiwentombela2131 salvation

[@Thokozilemtshweni]

You are beautiful!

[@naimamokgadi]

That's true we grew up knowing she shot herslf because that's the story she was telling us we attended the same primary and secondary and she is beautiful and gifted we thank God for protecting her

[@khef3846]

I don’t want to just say she’s beautiful though she is but she just needs the counseling then she can see for herself

[@londziwekhoza6651]

You did not lose your beauty girl....umuhle.

[@raesetjephasha9849]

Oooooooh my love 😍😍❤❤

[@naomimotshwari7778]

I believe in miracles and God has his own way. Unpacked is one of the platform Pholoso will find her counselling services .

[@naimamokgadi]

Am proud of you nana just know o botse kantle le ka gare

[@edithchirwa9917]

Thanks be healed queen

[@thapelopetja3420]

Mangeloi le badimo ba geno ba powerful ngwaneshu..ba gana ka wena..with me even if ibwas to survive, shock would have taken me dwn still

[@lamenthibelang3270]

I am sorry Pholoso for all you have gone through 😭May the Lord heal your emotional pains. Shouldn't you have pointed your scars I wouldn't have noticed. I hope you go for therapy

[@BaoneMoeng]

It was really unfair of her family to burden her with the responsibility of the first accident when she didn’t shoot herself. Imagine being a child with low self-esteem and thinking that it’s your fault that you have those scars in the first place; only to find out that it was someone else that shot you.

[@marykaranja4329]

How is she now? I hope she's doing ok and she's really beautiful.