Things I remember saying to "get back" to reality - "Don't emotionally react to daydreamings" - "Don't argue to daydreamings" - "Don't justify to daydreamings" - "Nothing about that is happening"
@jamjamjackz8 күн бұрын
I'm still a maladaptive daydreamer and i have been daydreaming for about 9 years now. Yep, it definitely did ruined my life. Even after daydreaming i start to feel bad about myself because i've always think that "i could've spend my time doing x instead of just daydreaming". Rn i'm trying different various methods to try to get rid of it. Of course i can't completely erase my addiction but i can at least try to control. Thanks for sharing your experience
@ImKidriani18 күн бұрын
Write down whatever you are planning on dreaming about(have a book where you can write down your thoughts the moment you feel the need to imagine start writing)
@justinel_m5269 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video ! You can't imagine how much it means to many of us. Btw I understand that daydreaming makes you guys upset because you feel like you wasted your life, but don't worry too much ! It's a chapter. Not the full story. Life isn't made for being perfect, it's made for growing and you can't grow without making mistakes. It is already a great step to be conscious that daydreaming isn't healthy for you. Keep in mind that it is an addiction, and as every addiction like alcohol or cigarette, it requires a lot of courage to free yourself from it. But when you are free you'll live your life at its fullest, you'll make up for the lost time, acheive all of your dreams, and become the best version of yourself. Because this maladaptive daydreaming era will have taught you the importance of living in the moment. So go take action NOW ! Love you all X3
@angelacarli396812 күн бұрын
Thank u for sharing, I've lived with md my entire life; been doing it since I remember and I've reached 22 still doing it every day and it's a literal addiction, I don't know how to stop. I hope to get better moving forward
@akusesampson17949 күн бұрын
I recommend u watch the secret life of walter mitty. It has helped me improve mine, so I hope it does same to u
@angelacarli39688 күн бұрын
@@akusesampson1794 Thank u so much!
@AmonlinchrisJauresMessou8 күн бұрын
Thanks you it's very helpful to see someone who lived the same situation than me
@CrinGerer29 күн бұрын
that’s actually really scary… i used to do that for a while and that made me feel so uncomfortable and anxious about my life
@Aashi-fz1ik8 күн бұрын
how did you get rid of it
@CrinGerer8 күн бұрын
@Aashi-fz1iki tried to control myself. also i overwhelmed myself with a lot of tasks. but this girl in the video (themnilia) recently just posted about how to get rid of that, maybe her vid will help you
@Aashi-fz1ik8 күн бұрын
@@CrinGerer thanks
@celesticbeing.6 күн бұрын
I struggle sm with this,I started when I was around 6 years old and now I am turning 20 in a few days...
@bvdl02516 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Your Speaking is good.
@piyushmaan730521 күн бұрын
Hey I spent 5 years now I am 21 but still can't stop it can you please tell me the way to recover
@hunteremilia9 күн бұрын
@@piyushmaan7305 heyyy i posted a new video with solution. maybe this will help you🩷
@bvdl02516 күн бұрын
How Did you overcome it?
@hunteremilia9 күн бұрын
@@bvdl025 hi! i posted a video about this! in short: i just tried to avoid triggers and focus on my reality.
@АнастасияХамаюнАй бұрын
What is your native language?
@God.is.good.Ай бұрын
We have all done bad things, lied, and insulted... All of this is not pleasing to God. We are distanced from the perfect God because of our actions, but God loves us and sent His son Jesus, who is the Son of God. Jesus Christ was rejected by people who considered Him a liar and died on the cross. But on the third day, God raised Him to show that God pays the price for our sins. If you do not accept Jesus Christ as the payment for your sins, you will have to pay the price with your actions. Every person is a sinner, and no one has a life free of sin. The Bible tells us that we have all sinned: Romans 6:23 [23] For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus. Jesus Christ is the only payment for our sins, so accept what He has done for you. Jesus Christ is our first love.
@MaamHypatia29 күн бұрын
So what I spent 11 years
@MadelynMedbury-x9r12 күн бұрын
There’s no need to be rude
@MaamHypatia12 күн бұрын
@MadelynMedbury-x9r I'm not being rude I'm just saying no need to be dramatic
@GloriaMkhabela-x7b10 күн бұрын
I spent 12 years maladaptive daydreaming
@MaamHypatia10 күн бұрын
@@GloriaMkhabela-x7b see it's totally normal
@GloriaMkhabela-x7b10 күн бұрын
@@MaamHypatia it's not I tried to stop it for years no luck guess I'm gonna be like this for the rest of life