I Still Love My Heroin Addict Daughter | Our Lives: Mum, Heroin and Me

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2 жыл бұрын

Kate is a 49 year old interior designer. Her daughter Hannah has been addicted to heroin since she was 17, with no sign of getting better or wanting any help from her family. This Documentary follows a year in their lives struggling to maintain their strong bond and battling the difficulties of addiction.
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@AnnabelleXD
@AnnabelleXD 5 ай бұрын
Her mum seems like a trained psychologist she is so emotionally intelligent. She would be a great counsellor or psychologist. What an amazing woman.
@EZRecordschannel
@EZRecordschannel 4 ай бұрын
wait , that was her mom the whole time ?!
@miriammatos-martinez
@miriammatos-martinez 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@amyyoung2804
@amyyoung2804 Ай бұрын
I'm sorry but I think part of her problem is her mother. They are too enmeshed. Her mom is not helping her by giving her money for drugs and catering to her every whim. Her mom ia very codependent and its very unhealthy.
@alixemass2012
@alixemass2012 2 жыл бұрын
I was a heroin addict for almost 20yrs. This WAS my life . I have now been clean since 2012 wih the help of Suboxone. I run a coffee house , have a bank account, home, bought my first new car in MY name 2yrs ago. Have a beautiful 5yr old grandson and life is amazing
@steffiet3862
@steffiet3862 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats to you! Getting a hold on addiction is not easy, and there are so many things that can send one back to that life after you are in recovery. I wish you the best in your daily life, nine years clean is wonderful!! 💖💖
@VelvetyMoon
@VelvetyMoon 2 жыл бұрын
Are you still addicted to suboxone?
@MiZzBee1
@MiZzBee1 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, bless you! ❤
@sharonbyrd8625
@sharonbyrd8625 2 жыл бұрын
I am glad u got clean and can enjoy ur life now. I spent 20 years n a bottle. Bless you always!!!
@calathomas4681
@calathomas4681 2 жыл бұрын
@@VelvetyMoon educate yourself… drug addiction and the lifestyle that comes with it can not compare to taking a daily medication to increase quality of life…. Congratulations on your sobriety
@malloryflores7089
@malloryflores7089 2 жыл бұрын
Her mom is the most understanding parent I've ever seen! I was an addict for 20 years and I was a heroin addict for 15 of those 20 years. Now I've been clean for years and I work at a drug and alcohol abuse treatment center helping addicts. I'm married with a beautiful home. Recovery is possible. I thank God everyday for blessing with this life.
@lululoubarini435
@lululoubarini435 2 жыл бұрын
bless you
@abidjans8433
@abidjans8433 2 жыл бұрын
ur awesome !! i want to help others with recovery as well !!
@Tamar-sz8ox
@Tamar-sz8ox 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ sending you a hug
@lululoubarini435
@lululoubarini435 2 жыл бұрын
@@Tamar-sz8ox thank you
@leroysmith8226
@leroysmith8226 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you darlin
@natalierozean5989
@natalierozean5989 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful, intelligent, empathetic understanding, yet REALISTIC mother. An Angel. If only we all had such loving support.
@j.metcalf7890
@j.metcalf7890 2 жыл бұрын
She’s living in a dream world..she is literally the most unrealistic person…possibly that ever existed..Liberalism is the real disease
@schoomzer
@schoomzer 2 жыл бұрын
@@j.metcalf7890 I totally agree, but we won't get much agreement on this thread. I think that Mom should just give all of her stuff to her daughter's loser boyfriend. That way the loser boyfriend won't have to steal from her. Lol
@principecaprincipeca2243
@principecaprincipeca2243 2 жыл бұрын
She is a problem, an enabler.
@barbarahren5208
@barbarahren5208 2 жыл бұрын
No, she has LOVE and UNDERSTANDING. Her doughter is an adicct but its also as loving as her mother, she wrote a let ter I took to much from you, I love so thats why I will back off! Amazing... As doughter as mother.
@principecaprincipeca2243
@principecaprincipeca2243 2 жыл бұрын
@@barbarahren5208 I disagree. The mother was part oft the problem. She should have seeked help for herself. No loving mother would by drugs the her addict child. Her husband was right from the beginning, but she didn't listen. Sje forgot all about her husband and other doughtier who needed love and attention too. I'm not surprised they didn't want to be a part of this.
@lindsayrios5506
@lindsayrios5506 2 жыл бұрын
This mother is such a sweet lady, and understanding. It’s rare that someone who’s never been on drugs in there life understands why Ricky robbed there home
@russsboy
@russsboy 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you all right I have the same case in Russia
@cherylcolautti5401
@cherylcolautti5401 2 жыл бұрын
A mother that buys drugs for her daughter is not understanding. An understanding mother marches their daughter to seek medical and rehab assistance
@lindsayrios5506
@lindsayrios5506 2 жыл бұрын
@@cherylcolautti5401 i was talking about what she thinks of her daughters bf, and yes I agree as a mother you should do all you can to get your kid help. But unfortunately she can’t March her in to a rehab and MAKE her get help if it was only that easy. U can’t help someone who does want help and it’s not 1st grade it’s rehab :/
@lindsayrios5506
@lindsayrios5506 2 жыл бұрын
@Asherah ok, thank you Karen
@cherylcolautti5401
@cherylcolautti5401 2 жыл бұрын
@@lindsayrios5506 oh yes I fully understand that
@jeanhafenecker2451
@jeanhafenecker2451 2 жыл бұрын
Her mother is a saint. She realizes what’s she’s up against and has no unrealistic thoughts. It touched me how the mother still wanted a relationship with her daughter. No screaming ,yelling and saying hurtful things. I admire that she has accepted it and chooses to keep her time with her daughter sacred.
@mimithemermaid3860
@mimithemermaid3860 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to the mom. It’s such a fine line between being supportive and being an enabler… Even though she claims it progressed because she started with weed, her mother said her first rehab was for alcohol. Some people are just pre-disposed to addiction. But I don’t think it’s fair to make people think that anyone who smokes weed will end up on heroine.
@PM-mm3pz
@PM-mm3pz 2 жыл бұрын
The weed defense never ends
@melissavickery2236
@melissavickery2236 2 жыл бұрын
@@PM-mm3pz I never went to a rehab. I did it on my own. But some need rehab. My fiance is 3 yrs clean of drugs himself. He does drink every night, which he is also working on. He is borderline alcoholic but I try to be understanding. He does not become my father and get abusive. He is an amazing dad, he takes care of his family. If he wants to have a few beers at night. I am okay with it. We both have turned our lives around and been eachothers rock to make that happen. He is starting his own company making damn good money. I will be a RN in a few years and be at a point, i never thought possible. I dreamed about it, but i figured I screwed up too much in my life to deserve a life like I have. I don't deserve my son but I am damn grateful God allowed me to get pregnant. I was 28 when I gave birth, was diagnosed with fertility issues and it has been the biggest struggle
@sylviasanchez5646
@sylviasanchez5646 2 жыл бұрын
I guess what she's trying too say is that Some ppl start off with marijuana and as time goes by they need and want Something stronger So they try a different drugs and Somehow end up like Hannah?? However I think everyone is different and Kno exactly what they like and don't like but most importantly they Kno they don't want too destroy their lives!! My Son started Smoking weed when he was 18yrs old and he's now 36yrs Old and he never had any interest in trying or using anything other than the marijuana, and I thank the Lord for that everyday because It has too be heartbreaking and painful too See your only child destroy their lives this Way 💔
@Eric-lt3xq
@Eric-lt3xq 2 жыл бұрын
But the didn t know she was pregnant!
@Eric-lt3xq
@Eric-lt3xq 2 жыл бұрын
The mum
@malahathillman9329
@malahathillman9329 2 жыл бұрын
The mother is so educated about heroin use . She should be so proud and I truly hope Hannah and her boyfriend get better
@coffeecrimegal5968
@coffeecrimegal5968 Жыл бұрын
Educated?? Yea ok! Here honey, my loving daughter take my purse and take however much money you need for your heroin! Then we’ll go get your hair done! Do tell the dealer to hurry though… SMH!! She’s an enabler and makes excuses for her spoiled selfish weak daughter.
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 11 ай бұрын
I don’t think they have the incentive to
@user-bu5cm1ix7c
@user-bu5cm1ix7c 2 жыл бұрын
Heroin is a great escape but a great escape to nowhere.
@nikolausz9433
@nikolausz9433 2 жыл бұрын
Heroin is the devil with the smile of an angel!
@user-bu5cm1ix7c
@user-bu5cm1ix7c 2 жыл бұрын
@Will Swift computer games are art,its not bad, anything can become an addiction if you are blind,but i love video games
@vershawnsea9219
@vershawnsea9219 2 жыл бұрын
Basically
@jaffa3910
@jaffa3910 2 жыл бұрын
I was a heroin addict for 15 years then my poor mother passed away,it was such a shock for me thats when I went to rehab and got clean. 😥
@cweisslife
@cweisslife 2 жыл бұрын
Kate is the definition of unconditional love. I hope so much it has paid off. 🤞
@itsmenoname2247
@itsmenoname2247 2 жыл бұрын
a mothers love is the strongest there is
@freeeggs3811
@freeeggs3811 2 жыл бұрын
No it isn’t, she left her on the streets.
@debbiepotter4592
@debbiepotter4592 2 жыл бұрын
She didn’t ‘leave’ her on the streets. Hannah decided she wanted to live in the streets. It was her choice
@freeeggs3811
@freeeggs3811 2 жыл бұрын
@@debbiepotter4592 Yeah probably because her mom is trying to control her, on one would choose to live on the streets.
@johnmadsen37
@johnmadsen37 Жыл бұрын
She should try some so she can better understand it.
@mayaa_yoo
@mayaa_yoo 2 жыл бұрын
This is my mom and my life in 2009. Then I decided to go to rehab for 28 days and to the clinic on the Naloxon anti-drug blocker. 11 years later I am the mother of a five year old very intellectual girl and I am afraid that my destiny will happen again. I wish you all the happiness of this world and until she decides firmly nothing will change, just love her as before mom is mom!
@kathymorris4553
@kathymorris4553 2 жыл бұрын
I used the same thing and have 14 years sober from drugs and alcohol. This medication saved my life and sanity. I know own my own home. The Baha’i Faith also gave me the strength and understanding I needed.
@gloworldyt9036
@gloworldyt9036 2 жыл бұрын
Wow go you guys currently struggling right now with opioids addiction hopefully I can accomplish that one day.
@kovy689
@kovy689 2 жыл бұрын
Hannah?
@rawdata678
@rawdata678 2 жыл бұрын
I really understand what u and your family have been through. U must be extremely proud of yourself and even more thankful for how much that sweet lady loved you. Now U have been a testimony of what real love Is about. Be the next example for other. Much love and respect from Italy.
@Jesussavedme
@Jesussavedme 2 жыл бұрын
@@kathymorris4553 try Jesus 💜
@Yolanda_Ortiz
@Yolanda_Ortiz 2 жыл бұрын
My Ex husband was and is still on herion he recently OD on fentanyl mixed with herion. For 17 years I was there by him begging him to change. He'd go into recovery programs and then come home and go right back. One day I asked please stop he replied to me this is my life and I like it. Took our 3 children and left. It's been 26 years I left him. Hes now 63 and still hooked. Our children are excellent young adults. I'm proud of them. My daughter asked me why didn't you show us to hate him. I'm married two more children and am happy
@Bbpierced
@Bbpierced 2 жыл бұрын
OMGosh Evelyn…… this was my life. I don’t ever want to travel that road again. It was the worst roller coaster ride ever.
@Yolanda_Ortiz
@Yolanda_Ortiz 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bbpierced I wish you so much happiness... I don't even want a cigarette smoked around me. My life was so sad all I did was cry after him. What a waste.
@zeek4749
@zeek4749 2 жыл бұрын
Good thing you left and saved your children 🙏🙏🙏
@davazz9586
@davazz9586 2 жыл бұрын
You should have left him 16 years before you did
@mochimochi7669
@mochimochi7669 Жыл бұрын
Bless you. While I wasn’t on drugs, I was an alcoholic. My husband saw my struggle and was there through the withdrawals when I finally quit. He watched me cry, shake, sweat, etc for a long time. I’m sorry your ex did not quit or get help. I’m glad you’re living a better life now. I wish you and your family all the best.
@eagates287
@eagates287 Жыл бұрын
Her mom is amazing, but also completely codependent and a huge enabler. You cannot love someone into recovery.
@NinaBaby210
@NinaBaby210 Жыл бұрын
“You cannot love someone into recovery” Say it louder for the folks in the back! This is the straight truth; no chaser!
@laraminimi275
@laraminimi275 Жыл бұрын
The only person who can change anything is Hannah and her mom not being supportive of her won‘t change that. She has to have the will to do it and neither love nor hate will help. This is literally basic addiction knowledge.
@LOve-bq4gc
@LOve-bq4gc Жыл бұрын
Eh not 100%. She allows her to live homeless- that’s pretty tough love. Codependent?? Yea, I agree with that. And she enabled a few times here. But she seems to me to be allowing her daughter to hit rock bottom, all the same.
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 11 ай бұрын
Correct The mother is going to head into another nervous breakdown if she keeps on like this. She needs to emotionally detach herself from her daughter’s addiction.
@percypottsjr.2261
@percypottsjr.2261 2 жыл бұрын
kate is a loving mother..ive put my mother through the same thing...seeing this after being off the needle since 2018,makes me appreciate my loving mother even more..MOMS are the BEST
@tristenw8620
@tristenw8620 2 жыл бұрын
Keep going
@cloudedbyagonystoppinglies219
@cloudedbyagonystoppinglies219 2 жыл бұрын
Well you’re lucky. I didn’t even do drugs and my incubator doesn’t talk to me. She’s always been emotionally distant and cold. It’s been five years since the last time I tried to speak to her. She started bringing up things I had done as a teenager over thirty years ago. (Not cleaning my room, getting a ticket for having an open wine cooler in a parked car) She SUCKS.
@user-ty9jx2qc3v
@user-ty9jx2qc3v 2 жыл бұрын
Любви достойна только мать!
@keeper6458
@keeper6458 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you....and yes.. I dont know what I would do without my mom....
@amandaowens1769
@amandaowens1769 2 жыл бұрын
I've been clean since 2018 I didn't start using til I was 34 after I lost my mom and dad I used for 3 yrs it was the worst time of my life so grateful to be clean and sober
@vanessapoulin3523
@vanessapoulin3523 2 жыл бұрын
As a recovering addict, I can tell you that the mother is not helping. I hope the end of the episode she learns from this because enabling is going to just feed her addiction. It was not until my mother died, my father took me in and gave me weekly urines. But before that I was on the streets and begged and begged to stay anywhere, no luck. I did not want to get clean. Until I lost EVERYTHING, including my sanity, I couldn't get clean. I moved in with my father who is in recovery, and at first it helped. Until he started stealing my Suboxone. I then relapsed because my father enabled me. I moved out and started using again. It was not until I was ready to kill myself that I dragged myself to get help. By myself. No one to help me. Tough love is the only way. I'm speaking from experience.
@AnnaInWonderTube
@AnnaInWonderTube Жыл бұрын
Vanessa, thank u for sharing your experience. I would like to ask you, if u feel comfortable to answer: why would anyone won't Iike to get clean? Is it a self destruction mechanism? Being an addict is obviously not an easy lifestyle
@magdalenauzarska2132
@magdalenauzarska2132 Жыл бұрын
I disagree with u. Remember everyone is different. Not everyone needs to be kicked out and homeless to go for help.
@cadavher
@cadavher Жыл бұрын
@@AnnaInWonderTube because being clean means facing the problems that led to the addiction in the first place. It means staring at your trauma head on, instead of numbing it. For those who started because of trauma like being SA'd, abused etc, it's mental anguish that the drugs take away. For those who got hooked after being in car accidents, or other bodily harms, it's not wanting to deal with not only the withdrawl symptoms (which feel like you're actually dying), it's knowing without them you will always be in pain where the bones were broken etc. There are two kinds of addicts, mental addiction and physical, and often overlap. Both are not easy. It takes an incredibly determined mind and a LOT of understanding and proper help to not only get clean, but stay.
@micheleboris2851
@micheleboris2851 Жыл бұрын
Yes. I was searching for someone else who understands codependence. We must get off the merry go round of denial.
@MYTB-rs5yz
@MYTB-rs5yz 2 жыл бұрын
You can never help someone that doesn’t want help. I fed my addiction for 5 years and no matter how my loved ones tried to cure me it never happened. Until one day I decided to get clean. 6 years clean now. We all have the strength to overcome anything.
@eleoneserenity6568
@eleoneserenity6568 2 жыл бұрын
I wish that there'd be anything a person could do to get to that point of thought. I'm really glad you made it, I can only the imagine the sheer willpower it must have taken! It's been more than ten years for me, and somehow I've never got to that point. I thought hitting rock bottom would cause that need to recover but it didn't. I'm on suboxone now and life got much better, but being clean still feels unimaginable. Keep up the good work!
@cynthiadavid5282
@cynthiadavid5282 Жыл бұрын
Excellant video the mom was so sweet this should be a wakeup call for all addicts
@albertawheat6832
@albertawheat6832 6 ай бұрын
@@cynthiadavid5282 It would be better at this point...To start looking for the dealer. No ?
@__kaatryna
@__kaatryna 2 жыл бұрын
I am a recovering fentanyl/heroin addict, I got sober when I was 22 years old. I am now 23 (turning 24 next month) and have been clean with the help of Suboxone for 13 months. Watching this film was like watching my own life as I struggle with addiction and my mom doing her best to support me and love through out it. I can relate so deeply to both Hannah and now, the feelings her mom has. This made me incredibly sad, but also so grateful for my experiences and sobriety. I wish the best for Hannah and Ricky and I hope that they find their souls again. 😔❤
@shanonsplantsplantingthyme5663
@shanonsplantsplantingthyme5663 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your 13 months. I too have been sober with the help of subs for 3 years. I work a program (AA) and enjoy my life now.
@samatarMohamed
@samatarMohamed 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats keep up the good work and love your mom every day
@jecykoross5193
@jecykoross5193 Жыл бұрын
Am proud of you and keep it up 💗 mob love from Africa Kenya.
@anagonzalez8300
@anagonzalez8300 Жыл бұрын
I have never try any type of drugs even though I have been in though situation in my life. Can you explain please what makes you consume drugs? I get very curious why people do this?
@tanyagerrard3053
@tanyagerrard3053 Жыл бұрын
@@anagonzalez8300 it's mostly from trauma of past etc many suffer undiagnosed post traumatic stress order can also be brought down through the family dna lineages
@jeffr7237
@jeffr7237 2 жыл бұрын
I've been on suboxone for several years now. I'd rather be on suboxone and have a steady life, then go back to opiate addiction and the everyday ups and downs of when you're gonna get your next fix! It's not worth it! If you're reading this and still struggling with addiction, never give up! Keep fighting! ✌
@loriallen7366
@loriallen7366 2 жыл бұрын
This mother described everything so Perfectly!!! I could feel the pain in her words -I’m in recovery and I know my Mom felt exactly the way her mom does… remember that we do recover !! And I pray that Hanna finds her way to sobriety ❤️
@skittlessunshine5518
@skittlessunshine5518 2 жыл бұрын
Same here! I’m an alcoholic, started when I was 21 and I’m 33 now. People assume it was a party phase because of my age but after years of trying to drink socially….yea I’m an alcoholic. I can’t believe some of the things I put my family and friends through. Especially when I was withdrawing. I didn’t care about anything but another drink. I’m happily sober now and I’m happy that I know what my purpose is in life. My career is an aircraft mechanic which I graduated from in November, my PURPOSE is to help others that go through addiction. Congrats on recovery!!! ♥️💙💜💛💚🧡💗
@Lorea464
@Lorea464 Жыл бұрын
That mother deserves a gold medal ❤
@mpunx
@mpunx 2 жыл бұрын
This was my life for years, my mom helped me on and off for years. I was an addict was for almost 10 yrs, I have now been sober for over 20 yrs.. all thanks to my mom.
@Tamar-sz8ox
@Tamar-sz8ox 2 жыл бұрын
Good on ya ❤️
@jalisabailey3628
@jalisabailey3628 2 жыл бұрын
Girl!! All thanks goes to the Good Lord above.
@woutervanlent5181
@woutervanlent5181 2 жыл бұрын
What do think now about drug dealers ? I watch a lot of interviews with dru addicts in America ( AML ) and begin to HATE drug dealers . How can you do that to someone ?
@madigoldstein2855
@madigoldstein2855 Жыл бұрын
This mother is crazy I was an active user of heroin and opiates for 13 years and it took me ten treatment centers the last one being long-term where I was a resident for almost a year. But also, my mother and whole family showed me tough love! They enabled me for so long and they were done. My mother would NEVER let a boyfriend who was using with me anywhere near her home or nonetheless, smile about him because he's "keeping her safe" like wtf?? He's actively participating in her path to death! Because we all know as adicts, that if u don't get clean..eventually..u will die. I'm like dumbfounded. This mom needs to get it together man.
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 11 ай бұрын
Honestly, I feel the same way you do. This mother is OVERLY INVESTED in her daughter’s addiction. Her daughter straight up doesn’t want to get clean. You can’t force or love somebody into sobriety. This mother is emotionally draining herself for no reward whatsoever.
@silvana8246
@silvana8246 6 ай бұрын
SO AGREE
@jasonwithnell84
@jasonwithnell84 20 күн бұрын
She's not crazy bro. She could die tomorrow. She loves her.
@kittykatia754
@kittykatia754 2 жыл бұрын
I follow her on Instagram and she's been clean for years now ♥️
@laurensells7103
@laurensells7103 2 жыл бұрын
That’s great!! Thank you so much for the update! I’m so glad that she escaped the vicious cycle and now can truly experience how beautiful life really is!
@veronicaleyba929
@veronicaleyba929 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God. Thank you for the update. There's hope. I am clean a year off meth.
@queenof3790
@queenof3790 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!!!
@queenof3790
@queenof3790 2 жыл бұрын
@@veronicaleyba929 i know we dont know each other at all.. But i just wanna let u know.. Im so so so proud of you babe!!!! You got this!!! 💘💘💘
@nikkiyas1679
@nikkiyas1679 2 жыл бұрын
What is her Instagram
@lorindarenteria
@lorindarenteria 2 жыл бұрын
My first drug was alcohol. After that, marijuana, meth, then cocaine. I've been clean and sober 29 years. I stopped before I started losing everything. My 3 sons and I lived in a women's shelter. Had I not stopped then, I would have lost my boys. I also stopped associating and dating anyone using drugs. Cocaine was my drug of choice. I did snort heroin once, I didn't care for it. My kids saved my life. My youngest son, who was a 6 month old baby when I quit, is a heroin addict. He's 30 and in prison for 3rd time. I totally relate to this mom. I am this mom. His addiction has put a toll on my health. I have crohn's disease, stress causes flares. He had been living with me off and on his adult life. I've made it clear that he can't live with me when he gets out. I can't handle being around his drug addiction. He is very schizophrenic when he uses meth, to use less heroin. He's done rehab a bunch. He's tried suboxone too. I sure hope this stint in prison will help him stay clean this time, when he gets out.
@angelfrankenfine
@angelfrankenfine 2 жыл бұрын
wow. Hannah's mom is a godsend. an angel. what a wonderful mother
@neonnyx2728
@neonnyx2728 2 жыл бұрын
I wish they had this type of rehab in the states. No one really supports someone who's struggling like this it's either jail or getting kicked out when you go to rehabs and you have stuff. I understand but giving someone somewhere safe and help and the same time whiling they're working on themselves. It's amazing and Hanna's mother is amazing. Everybody who's involved is all amazing people and I truly respect everyone involved.
@tay138
@tay138 2 жыл бұрын
Love you neon! 😘
@manzoorbhat4875
@manzoorbhat4875 2 жыл бұрын
It's true😔
@748xxjxxexx9
@748xxjxxexx9 2 жыл бұрын
It wasn't a rehab she was living in a boarding house that allows residents to use drugs. We have them here in Australia also. Staff come by weekly to check the rooms (mainly to see if anyone's dead or a meth lab isn't up 🤣) but yes, America would be a much better place with boarding houses. You wouldn't have so many homeless people if you're government cared about you the way Europe and Australia do.
@748xxjxxexx9
@748xxjxxexx9 2 жыл бұрын
@Gcoolsnow I couldn't agree more! 😭 It's really really sad. To think of all the addict's who would still be here today and probably CLEAN, had America followed our lead. Did you know that it cost more per homeless person in the US per year that if they were properly cared for with government housing?! It cost MORE to ignore the problem like the government in the US do. It's really shocking that they know this yet still continue to do nothing. People don't realise how much more it costs them to not help these people. I watched a documentary recently on homeless in America and that's when they stated the costs compared to assisting with basic housing and addiction meds. It's huge. The crime is so much lower in places when homeless people get social housing and government money and Medicare. I'm so sorry you're people suffer so badly there. I often speak to other addict's in the US and I don't know know how they do it. I'm constantly telling people here in Australia how lucky we are. I still don't think most people here on welfare understand how much better off we are. Addiction is an illness. It should be free for addicts to get treatment. At the very least their methadone for free and social housing. It comes back ten fold when you see how much less these people are on the street doing more crime so they are not sick.b
@vershawnsea9219
@vershawnsea9219 2 жыл бұрын
True. We're so behind on stuff like this. This is wayyy to helpful and compassionate for this country. Well mabey start doin it 10 years from now. Agonizingly slowly. State by state..
@sirjames7800
@sirjames7800 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a mother like her. Her daughter is blessed for having her.
@tonyallen9131
@tonyallen9131 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing the pain her mother's going through really brings home how much my 25+ years on heroin must of been for my dad, he stuck by me the whole time even though a 5 year prison sentence he didn't miss one visit. He was a single parent and went above and beyond more than he ever should have everyone told him that the only way was the tough love way but he never did, he would always say blood is thicker than water, he passed away 2 years ago now and he never got to see me get clean and the guilt and pain I now feel is crippling and if there was a way i could show someone that pain before they actually had to go through it then at least there would be one positive out of all the negativity. The crazy thing is that there isn't a drug strong enough to mask the pain and guilt i feel it's like his death stopped me from being able to get high and I'm now a year clean but still miserable.
@Alexandraincognito
@Alexandraincognito 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry for your loss. I've been off pills and drugs for 2 years now, but my depression and anxiety has kept me away from friends and family. If nothing else, your comment made me set up date to meet my dad next Tuesday. I've been putting it off for a few weeks now. Sending you lots of hugs!
@amandafeliciano542
@amandafeliciano542 2 жыл бұрын
Tell your story. Talk to schools. Talk to clinics. They would welcome it. Save someone else!
@amandafeliciano542
@amandafeliciano542 2 жыл бұрын
Better miserable than high or dead!!!!
@rinaelsayed901
@rinaelsayed901 2 жыл бұрын
Tony you have (must) to forgive yourself in order to live and give the very best of you to others, I’m absolutely sure that your lovely Dad forgot you before his passing, why? Just because his great love for you!! Smile and Live your best, your Dad is already so proud of you!!!!! Blessings 🐶
@Alexandraincognito
@Alexandraincognito 2 жыл бұрын
Tony, if you ever wanna talk, let me know!
@haze6647
@haze6647 2 жыл бұрын
"he take a very good care for hannah"... Rick casually pass the needle to her.
@oroszvari777
@oroszvari777 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s ridiculous.
@user-xq4st9ie7r
@user-xq4st9ie7r 2 жыл бұрын
It worked didn't it?
@wilhelmvg9978
@wilhelmvg9978 2 жыл бұрын
She’s going to do heroin with or without him.
@jordynnguyen4316
@jordynnguyen4316 2 жыл бұрын
People have different love languages Addicts giving each other drugs is their way of caring. It’s obviously not “helping” but the love, support and safety net is.
@reachstar7828
@reachstar7828 2 жыл бұрын
His way to take care of her.
@jessiebellamy1137
@jessiebellamy1137 Ай бұрын
Death is easier than overcoming an addiction. The withdrawals hurt so bad it makes you wish you were dead. I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone in life. Shout out to anyone who has overcome an addiction. We are recovering everyday. I'm glad she has her mother, she is the definition of a mother, never give up on your child. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@kristiwetsel9531
@kristiwetsel9531 2 жыл бұрын
the letter she wrote was very special .. knowing what she was causing to her family in her addiction . Not many addicts can admit that , I've been an alcoholic and one of the hardest things is admitting
@niozella1041
@niozella1041 2 жыл бұрын
No matter how old my kids grow, they will always be my babies. In my mind, they are forever young, in my heart they are forever with me.
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 2 жыл бұрын
True statement. But don't let the use you.
@mrmanifesto
@mrmanifesto 2 жыл бұрын
Mom obviously loves her daughter but she just seems like an enabler
@dwanedexter7685
@dwanedexter7685 2 жыл бұрын
I am an ex-addict, and even if her mother didn't give her money she would have gotten the drugs by engaging in illegal activity, so shut up.
@schoomzer
@schoomzer 2 жыл бұрын
mrmanifesto Mom is totally an enabler. Most of the commenters on these drug addiction threads are former or current drug addicts, so their perspective is quite different.
@principecaprincipeca2243
@principecaprincipeca2243 2 жыл бұрын
That's not love. That is being an enabler. Very twisted relationship. They both are just selish. Even her husband could see it. I feel sorry for her sister and the husband. They are the victims here.
@teejames5098
@teejames5098 2 жыл бұрын
I must say I agree with you. She's an enabler, that's not love.
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 2 жыл бұрын
@@teejames5098 She is no different than any other mother. Have compassion please.
@hannahtolley1793
@hannahtolley1793 2 жыл бұрын
I would give ANYTHING to have her mother. i hope and pray she got clean not only for herself but for at least her mom.
@Leosmommy19
@Leosmommy19 2 жыл бұрын
Her mother is a great mom but she is a huge enabler. She said she doesn't know what will trigger Hannah to get better, but without her mom's support, money, and constant care, she might just open her eyes and see how good she had it.
@laraminimi275
@laraminimi275 Жыл бұрын
Tell me you know nothing about addiction without telling me you know nothing about addiction lol
@Leosmommy19
@Leosmommy19 Жыл бұрын
@@laraminimi275 😂😂😂 ahhh good ol KZbin community. One can never satisfy everyone🤷🏽‍♀️
@claytonfain9878
@claytonfain9878 2 жыл бұрын
It baffles me how understanding of addiction Kate is…when talking about the burglary and how she perceived their feelings was just mind blowing cuz she hit the nail right on the head. Not trying to make excuses but what she said is exactly what runs through every addicts brains
@claytonfain9878
@claytonfain9878 2 жыл бұрын
@Gcoolsnow congrats on your clean time I have about the same amount. Heroin is a whole different ball game when it comes to addiction
@claytonfain9878
@claytonfain9878 2 жыл бұрын
@Gcoolsnow as you and I both know
@TheMerFree
@TheMerFree 2 жыл бұрын
As a mother, it's heart-wrenching to even imagine what it would be like for my daughter to be out on the streets doing heroin, knowing full well she could die any day of an overdose. It's a dead-end. God help them.
@mscris503
@mscris503 2 жыл бұрын
I lost two of my adult children to addiction, two years apart from each other, no matter what, do everything in your power to get them clean. Loosing a child to something preventable is the worse pain.
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 2 жыл бұрын
My hear goes out prayers.
@sueridgard9068
@sueridgard9068 2 жыл бұрын
That's so terrible. I am so sorry for your losses. How do you manage keep going?
@xoxoxoxoxo7997
@xoxoxoxoxo7997 2 жыл бұрын
Can't imagine what you went through and still going through
@faithhughes2795
@faithhughes2795 2 жыл бұрын
Chris your life sounds like mine with the battle if heroine of once child or children I also have lost 2 sons thru this addiction Warren in 2015 and Dereck in 2016 also ended up in streets as it became a war within the family and as a mother I tried but also health issues just couldn't cope as much as I tried. They both ended up with septacemia thru dirty needles. What a pain full death I belief and so I carry that too my grave one day. I stil have another whom stil fighting sane addiction and he has got a younger brother who wants nothing too do with him as he has seen what they put me thru and ofcourse being mom I stil try. Kate you a better mom then me as I couldn't see them destroy them selfs and it was hartbreaking too deal with. Hannah don't choose another country I'm in SA.and drugs is every wher here aswell. I pray for all that suffers thru this addiction .
@faithhughes2795
@faithhughes2795 2 жыл бұрын
My sons were 34 years of age and 32 that I lost
@LilRed65
@LilRed65 2 жыл бұрын
My brother and I did h together and we both overdosed but I survived and he didn't. I'm in recovery for three years now. I miss my sweet brother Chris 8/4/1972-9/9/2018 RIP
@joyful_tanya
@joyful_tanya Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for the loss of your brother. My son's name is Chris.
@mandyjuelz
@mandyjuelz 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is the definition of a WONDERFUL MOTHER. I lost my mom 10 years ago, I hope Hannah realizes that she is blessed with having an amazing mother.
@mikestroud9969
@mikestroud9969 Жыл бұрын
There is nothing stronger than a Mother's love for her children. NOTHING. ❤️❤️. What a beautiful Soul 🙏🙏💯
@WarrenByrdSpeak
@WarrenByrdSpeak 2 жыл бұрын
Mom in this doc is AN A-N-G-E-L. I wish her and her beloveds LOVE.
@BayouBellePhDBe
@BayouBellePhDBe 2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing like a mother’s love!
@hollyroxy25
@hollyroxy25 2 жыл бұрын
Her Mother is an amazing compassionate, empathetic, understanding woman. If only more people were like that. And she’s absolutely correct, if it was prescribed the crime rate would virtually disappear. That’s what they did in Switzerland & they had incredible results.
@sylvianorthling1223
@sylvianorthling1223 2 жыл бұрын
I've been sleeping rough in Oslo during the winter, and it's terrible. I was addicted 2 heroin as well, but since I've started on methadone in Jan. 2018,Ive kept an apartment, been cleen from heroin( I smoke some weed sometimes), and I've not been in contact w police or gotten any more crimes on my record the last three years. (No more prison either) Methadone and subuxone/nalokson shots really help a lot of people. I've gotten some trauma, and still have a lot of anxiety but I've Got a drug-consultant and a psychologist I talk to regularly.... I never got my son back tho, he is twelveyrs next year, and I have no way to get in touch with him bchis father took him and went underground when I left him after being 2gether for 12 yrs. Even tho he was an addict as well, on heroin longer than me... sure hope mom and daughter from this show is doing good today.
@celestialchaoscustomsoaps2653
@celestialchaoscustomsoaps2653 2 жыл бұрын
Please look into kratom tea. It might be a better option for you. The meds you're taking can cause so many unnecessary side effects. I'm speaking from personal experience with suboxone specifically. Much love and luck to you from tx🖤🖤
@jayjayn007
@jayjayn007 2 жыл бұрын
Is there no social welfare to give you a home in Norway? I always thought your guys system was better for such things. Trying to stay sober while in such circumstances is never easy. And would make being sober much harder. I remember being in Oslo at the main train station and seeing the dealers and junkies everywhere. It was very open. My heart goes out to you. Stay in good company and stay strong. Work on being completely sober and then I hope you're then able to get your son back.
@ruthquetant7375
@ruthquetant7375 2 жыл бұрын
I'm OVERJOYED for you ‼ I pray ther ees comes a day that you will be reunited with your son
@eddvcr598
@eddvcr598 2 жыл бұрын
Great work, Sylvia. Keep up the good fight. You deserve to be well and happy.
@harrisshob5819
@harrisshob5819 2 жыл бұрын
so u r addicted to methadone then?
@jaysouljohnson5150
@jaysouljohnson5150 2 жыл бұрын
At least she found sobriety....unfortunate about her boyfriend.( it's part of it,really) If anyone is struggling with addiction,you don't have to live that way anymore. I love you and you matter. Sobriety is amazing...trust me!
@geenagreybull5359
@geenagreybull5359 2 жыл бұрын
😭 ty.
@LoLuvLo
@LoLuvLo 2 жыл бұрын
This is a old doc and when i had watched this the first time, Someone posted her social media pages and she had gotten clean but went back to drugs unfortunately
@TJHutchExotics
@TJHutchExotics 2 жыл бұрын
@@LoLuvLo I would love a follow up documentary on this wonderful mum and her daughter
@vershawnsea9219
@vershawnsea9219 2 жыл бұрын
Wat happened to her boyfriend
@jaysouljohnson5150
@jaysouljohnson5150 2 жыл бұрын
@@vershawnsea9219 died fom a overdose.
@lolalecounte1460
@lolalecounte1460 2 жыл бұрын
The mom in this documentary is incredible, and strong. The mom is beautiful. l love the way she uses her words to express her feelings.
@Adrieballard44
@Adrieballard44 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t care what anyone thinks, this is beautiful. Mom, you are amazing, strong, and brave. Daughter, hold mom as long as you can, embrace her love. You only have her for so long. Send love and keeping you all in my prayers. Ricky, stay cool 😎
@alexishemeon
@alexishemeon 2 жыл бұрын
are you serious? how do you know this?
@ashleecharters3838
@ashleecharters3838 2 жыл бұрын
I was addicted as well, from the age of 13.5 now I'm 33 been clean for 4.5 years now. Hardest thing I'll ever go through but with help of the suboxone I'm doing awesome. Partner, own unit, savings and a new car. Hope they end up getting help they need.
@woutervanlent5181
@woutervanlent5181 2 жыл бұрын
SO happy to hear that Ashlee ! How good of you that you could stop after 14 years . Well , you are rewarded now . Good luck !
@meaghenstandlee6644
@meaghenstandlee6644 2 жыл бұрын
Same here I'll be 33 in a month congrats on your recovery it's literally the HARDEST thing I've ever been through ❤️❤️❤️ remember to be kind to yourself daily
@Waltham1892
@Waltham1892 2 жыл бұрын
The mother is addicted to the memory of a daughter she no longer has. I feel for her, but her actions might be making things worse.
@darklexx2659
@darklexx2659 2 жыл бұрын
YEEESSS
@rebeccahattal7668
@rebeccahattal7668 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, mom is fooling herself if she thinks coddling and being there to pick up the pieces for her daughter will make Hanna, beg to go to detox and rehab. Mom is kidding herself. You have to cut ties for Hannah rock bottom
@ericagammaitoni9230
@ericagammaitoni9230 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I thought too.
@adunk4u253
@adunk4u253 2 жыл бұрын
^this.....can relate 💯. The moment my therapist told me I was just as addicted to my 2 adult addicted daughters as they were to drugs 💡
@mariahcraft5230
@mariahcraft5230 Жыл бұрын
Her poor mama, a mothers love is definitely unconditional. She’s so sweet and understanding. I hope things get better for them (i know I’m watching this YEARS later lol)
@shanabenjamin8945
@shanabenjamin8945 2 жыл бұрын
My sister's and I are in year 40 of this with the men in our family. Please hold my family in your prayers 🙏
@jasonwithnell84
@jasonwithnell84 20 күн бұрын
The mother is a loving wodeful woman. There is no tough love out of it.
@taylorfarry5286
@taylorfarry5286 2 жыл бұрын
This was one of the saddest things I've ever seen. the dysfunction, the chaos, the heartbreak, the self-destruction. I hope the mother and daughter find their way...separately then can come together. 🙏
@damonlee226
@damonlee226 2 жыл бұрын
The Mom has to stop bailing her out, and giving her rides and buying her house items. She has to know what it's like alone 100. Her Mom is a saint and is unable to stop enabling bc of how young she is. She will be fine, and will find out sooner the harsh raw reality of having no parent.!!
@AmandaSharp-vl4zy
@AmandaSharp-vl4zy Жыл бұрын
Disfunction is the perfect term to describe this relationship
@wildnfurious8586
@wildnfurious8586 Жыл бұрын
Seeing how understanding and supportive everyone in this girls life is is really wholesome and heartfelt. This girl has a lot of potential. I don’t think enough people make the effort to understand those struggling with addictions… I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum and it’s just so so heart wrenching. 🙏🏼💔
@DetroitFettyghost
@DetroitFettyghost 2 жыл бұрын
I am 39 and been addicted to heroin and fentynl for 20 years. I just can't pull Myself out of it. PTSD and severe depression are so out of control in my life it is what fuels my use, I'm self medicating. Molestation from ages 4-6 and alot of other gross traumas fueled my problems since a very young age.
@limegreen1548
@limegreen1548 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for you!!.. Im praying for you!!..
@susansparanormalpennsylvan81
@susansparanormalpennsylvan81 2 жыл бұрын
dont give up, my friend went to rehab 43 times until she got sober from H, you can do it, they offer therapy etc..
@karenkramer3760
@karenkramer3760 2 жыл бұрын
I pray you get well. Sorry you had to go through all that trauma
@DetroitFettyghost
@DetroitFettyghost 2 жыл бұрын
@@karenkramer3760 Thank you Karen 💖 I appreciate you.
@incantationsbykaryn
@incantationsbykaryn 2 жыл бұрын
@TfromtheD(Detroit) I understand that T very much, I am 48 years old and I finally got 7 years clean, however, my PTSD and mental health issues, OCD etc have been hugely exacerbated by my use and myself medication. I thought I was totally hopeless but for some reason I was able to pull strength from all the horrid things I had been through and I was almost angered by them at that point and so I just kept pushing. I ended up being in treatment for almost 3 years because I knew I needed it. It was 9 months for the actual treatment and then in a halfway houses and then three quarter way houses and I got out of all of that and purchased my condo, a car, not all at once of course, LOL. I feel your pain and I know you can do this. I have seen you on other channels however I've never gotten a chance to speak with you. I admire your honesty, that was the biggest thing for me and today honesty is everything to me because I know without it I will be right back where I was but 10 times worse, you know it's a progressive disease so every time you go back to it it's always worse. Are you able to have a safe place to stay right now?? Is there anything I can do to help?? Please do not hesitate, I will not enable but I will go to the ends of the Earth for anyone who needs help and wants it. You seen the s*** show that's going on, I pray for you that you get better and that you ask for help when you need it hey there's nothing wrong with asking for help, I wish I would have known that 25 years ago. Namaste and please message me back in the comments if you want to talk or there was something I can do.
@sibyllestr1980
@sibyllestr1980 2 жыл бұрын
This is the right approach to how to care for people with a substance abuse disorder. Her mother is an angel! Her capability of loving exceeds my imagination!!! This documentary should be seen all over the world
@marcyangela9298
@marcyangela9298 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but there's a fine line between supporting and enabling---that fine line has been crossed here. The woman at the hostel said it best, there's no need to get clean when nothing changes/no loss occurs. If you're willing to throw away your marriage and it impacts your own personal way of living, that's enabling. This is just sad and triggering for me as someone who lost my best friend to heroin who had a mother who enabled them in similar ways. I truly hope this girl is still alive and that her mother learns that sometimes when you try to do good, you do more harm.
@nancywilson7112
@nancywilson7112 2 жыл бұрын
TOTALLY IN AGREEMENT…
@charlottejune5997
@charlottejune5997 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree.. That daughter has no intention of giving up her addiction, she's using her mother for money to buy drugs and lieing to her about going to rehab.
@murphy1011
@murphy1011 2 жыл бұрын
@@charlottejune5997 a lot of people used to say that about me and I’ve been sober for 9 years. Either you’ve never been an addict or you have been and it didn’t humble you in any way, which is rare. If you’re going to say stuff that sounds this ignorant, maybe it’s better to just keep your opinion to yourself.
@charlottejune5997
@charlottejune5997 2 жыл бұрын
@@murphy1011 I have never been a addict and never will be well you are one of the lucky ones that was able to get out.. I have every right to my opinion.. It seems that other people agree with me too, you should not start in the first place, knowing that 1s class drugs like heroin is addictive, total stupidity.. In the end its her parents that are suffering.. Listen to the mother talking..
@ericagammaitoni9230
@ericagammaitoni9230 2 жыл бұрын
My ex husband was an addict & after living that mess for 15yrs, I can say I totally agree. Addicts learn to manipulate & lie-its part of the whole addiction. I don't know any addicts who got sober and stayed that way by people who conducted themselves like this poor Mom. She is codependent...which is very common in an addicts world. Both need help. In my opinion, I dont think anyone knows exactly what will get people off drugs. Lord knows societies have tried everything imaginable....from being tough to now decriminalization in some states. None of it works. Best thing is to never ever do it. Easier said than done...but something thats easier to stay away from if its considered wrong to do...
@codelist6121
@codelist6121 2 жыл бұрын
Difficult to understand what the mother is going through, unconditional love to her daughter.
@principecaprincipeca2243
@principecaprincipeca2243 2 жыл бұрын
Destructive love. That is not a healthy relationship.
@Enigmalove-hl4qc
@Enigmalove-hl4qc 10 ай бұрын
Дъщеря и е неблагодсрна. Има момичет лоито посягат към дрога ,но те са малтртирани от роители, а тази наркоманка хана неблагодсрна късметлийка, че има прекрасна Майк
@SimonLacey-MySleekDesigns
@SimonLacey-MySleekDesigns 2 жыл бұрын
Opioid and heroin addiction are a completely different animal. You get hooked very quickly. Depending on how long you're in it detox takes weeks. Addiction is like a light switch. Once you turn it on it never turns back off. You have to learn to make better choices. Takes a lot of time and effort. Good luck to this young lady and family. Merry Christmas.
@sawdogbill
@sawdogbill Жыл бұрын
I have never struggled with drug addiction but my older sister did for years, i was too young to remember or even know. she struggled with it badly, in and out of hospitals because of OD, but she is now in her 30s. she owns her own home, is a manager at a store, has two great kids, a great fiancé and is 1000% clean. Im so proud of her, I look up to her so much because of how strong she is. she encourages me to keep going and dont give up (i struggle with various mental and neurological issues), and i know that isnt even comparable to the horrible grasp addiction has, but her resilience and determination motivates me. anyone who is struggling with drugs right now, recovery IS possible. relapse will happen! its a part of the process, but it doesn't mean that you cant recover or are a faliure. i know im a rando in a comment section, but i am so proud of you for coming this far and i believe in you and love you
@matieurod752
@matieurod752 11 ай бұрын
Beautiful!! God bless ! I read your comment after all so not rando lol
@jdtv...9134
@jdtv...9134 2 жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart to see people like this God bless her. I live not too far from Philadelphia and there's a neighborhood called Kensington and it is arguably the largest open-air drug market in the country and there's thousands of attics all over the place. You can find plenty of videos here on KZbin. I haven't put a needle in my arm since 2015
@jennyoneill8879
@jennyoneill8879 2 жыл бұрын
I work near there
@superdupersnowflake
@superdupersnowflake 2 жыл бұрын
This mother is an angel she is so understanding , I hope to be as kind and understanding to her as she is to her daughter and through this film I think all of us can feel some of her kindness to try everyday ❤️
@louisesmith2355
@louisesmith2355 2 жыл бұрын
Just watched this . I love how honest Hannah’s mum was . I wonder how they are doing now . I would love to know . I have been sober 8 years and I know that the unconditional love I have from my family and grown children is a huge part of this .
@JD-zh5nv
@JD-zh5nv 2 жыл бұрын
Unconditional love does not exist.
@nanipanini
@nanipanini Жыл бұрын
@@JD-zh5nv it does
@JD-zh5nv
@JD-zh5nv Жыл бұрын
@@nanipanini of it does unconditional hates rides by it's side.
@chronicallycassandra8907
@chronicallycassandra8907 6 ай бұрын
​@@JD-zh5nvUnconditional love just means love without conditions. So no matter the circumstance you still love that person no matter what. So yes, you're right. Of course Unconditional hate exists. Some people are racists or homophobes or bigots and some people just hate EVERYONE.! So yes very true. I think though the 2 do not go hand in hand. To say you cannot express Unconditional love and hate at the same time. For to be experiencing one would directly cancel out the other. You cannot truly love with hate in your heart and you cannot truly hate if you have any love!
@JD-zh5nv
@JD-zh5nv 6 ай бұрын
@@chronicallycassandra8907 I'm not trying to provoke you but I seriously doubt anyone has really really damaged you. I could be wrong (I often am). But things can happen where you may have thought it was unconditional love but when someone does something bad enough to you or yours or does something so heinous you can't bear to even look at them without throwing up ...
@chromeo3945
@chromeo3945 2 жыл бұрын
Her Mom has the right idea. Decriminalizing drugs us the only way to truly fix the addiction epidemic. Addicts need to feel like part of the greater community, not cast-out from it.
@amrahfusion
@amrahfusion 2 жыл бұрын
But would it make them stop? Only physical and psychological withdrawal can heal an addict!!
@m.l.b.2908
@m.l.b.2908 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Decriminalisation means the focus can go on treating the health problem that is addiction, rather than wasting time and resources treating it as a criminal problem.
@jellabean
@jellabean 2 жыл бұрын
I can't agree with this. Oregon has very lenient drug laws that make it legal to carry a certain amount of any drug on you without it being illegal. My 16yo nephew passed away at a 20yo woman's apartment after she gave him weed laced with fentanyl. The police couldn't do anything because it wasn't illegal, dispite the fact my nephew thought he was only smoking weed given to him by someone he trusted. She did nothing for 45 minutes while he OD'd in the bathroom, until a friend of his went to check on him and tried to revive him with narcan and CPR until paramedics got there. That woman has had 11 ODs in her apartment, 2 resulting in deaths of minors, and the cops' hands are tied because of the stupid law. It protects dealers and junkies, it doesn't help. I was addicted to heroin from age 17 to age 20, I've been clean since 2005. If it were legal back then, I likely would not be alive today.
@AsamiUWU0
@AsamiUWU0 2 жыл бұрын
If it was legal there would be so much more addicts, that doesn't really make sense. I agree that addicts need support but only when they want it they can get it. Some people just don't have will to get out.
@megan807
@megan807 2 жыл бұрын
The thing is, they can’t be part of a community when they are chasing heroin and a high all day. That’s all they spend their time on. They have to find money for it and then do it. They can’t contribute any other way to a community or household or anything. It’s so sad.
@aliyamoon80
@aliyamoon80 2 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart. Addiction is such a horrible thing, and my heart goes out to her mother and family. Thank you for sharing your life. I wish them all the best.
@CommonWealther
@CommonWealther Жыл бұрын
As the mother of a heroin addict, I made the difficult decision to resort to "tough-love". The only times he would call, was when he was homeless, hungry and broke. He destroyed his career and he is now a thief. I haven't heard from him in almost 4 years, because I closed the Bank of Mom & Dad. I can't locate him and no one knows where he is. Anytime I heard he was in jail, I was happy that he wasn't using, somewhere. He is my first born and I love him very much. He also won't contact his brother, unless he needs money. I don't know how to move forward. I need to know if he's alive. My own health is very poor and I know there isn't much time left. I can't let go until I have answers. 😭
@Itsmeyoualreadykno
@Itsmeyoualreadykno Жыл бұрын
Cutting someone off isn't always the right answer... Maintaining big time boundaries is important. I'm sorry you worry ❤️ hope you can find out how they are.
@PSeitter
@PSeitter Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. God bless you ❤️
@sedrikkahudson
@sedrikkahudson Жыл бұрын
God bless you 🙏🏽
@user-cz2lf2et4g
@user-cz2lf2et4g 2 ай бұрын
And now nothing ...you just give up😢
@constancebohler8029
@constancebohler8029 7 ай бұрын
I have no illusion about addiction and how difficult it is to get clean. And yet, I cannot believe that this mother is helping her daughter to get clean. The longer the daughter is treated with velvet gloves, this kid has no reason to get on recovery road.
@naturalTJ
@naturalTJ 2 жыл бұрын
Her mom is very sensible, rational, realistic and such a beautiful soul. God bless her
@chhakchuaklalhmahruaia4243
@chhakchuaklalhmahruaia4243 2 жыл бұрын
I was addicted to heroin for 20 years, i stay clean for 7 years now... mom please just let her go, u do whatever u can to put her in the right track...she know good n bad... If she doesn't want it you can't do anything...just let them be whatever they want...
@majaibrane
@majaibrane 2 жыл бұрын
I dont know why from all addiction documentaries i keep coming back to this one. There is something about it that hits home for me
@JessSinha
@JessSinha Жыл бұрын
I live in America and am in love with her mother’s accent. So melodic and gentle, like Lady Di.
@stevenkramer1975
@stevenkramer1975 Жыл бұрын
This poor girl has the most loving, caring, non judgemental mother enabling her daughter into an extremely early grave.
@janiceharbin5046
@janiceharbin5046 Жыл бұрын
HER MOM IS A PRECIOUS ANGEL
@allanrizon2184
@allanrizon2184 2 жыл бұрын
great Mum I've ever seen.hopefully Hannah will change her Life in the very near future.i cried not because of Hanna's situation,but because Hannah has a great supportive and very loving Mother.
@AimeeDenise_bct
@AimeeDenise_bct 2 жыл бұрын
So much respect 🙌 to you for sharing your story to help others heal. 🦋 It's a true calling. I absolutely found my purpose in telling my story of borderline death ☠️ and life implosion 🤯 to healing my brain and body to get my life back! Much luv! 🕉 You can heal!
@solanum6039
@solanum6039 2 жыл бұрын
This documentary is from 2007. Hannah has been a lot better for many years. Please film an update! Or do another version of this with another addict. There are so many young women and men out there that are addicted to drugs and they need to be heard too.
@_lithp
@_lithp 2 жыл бұрын
This channel didn’t make the documentary. They merely license documentaries and show them on KZbin.
@sharonneethling5468
@sharonneethling5468 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting us know. I am so happy that she is doing better
@xoxoxoxoxo7997
@xoxoxoxoxo7997 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. KZbin is full of old documentaries. Need new ones
@solanum6039
@solanum6039 2 жыл бұрын
@@_lithp I get that. But they posted this like this had been filmed just recently, just generally in the way this video is presented, the title, caption etc. I think it’s pretty important to state that this is a 15 year old (!!!) film, wether they produced it or not and they didn’t in any way, on the contrary: It even seems to me like this channel is actually trying to sell it as new, which is just kinda shady in general and also bad because the protagonist is in a very different place now and people won’t realize that watching the video.
@princesssharkie
@princesssharkie Жыл бұрын
Does Hannah have social media ?
@melissasheard1981
@melissasheard1981 2 жыл бұрын
This mom is such an enabler. Addicts will say whatever they need to, too pull at your heart strings. Yes he feels like you his family because his family probably put healthy boundaries in place and won't speak to him until he's clean.
@mikeheaton8424
@mikeheaton8424 2 жыл бұрын
Addicts are master manipulators ! Don’t enable them , with their stupid lifestyle !
@anagonzales6442
@anagonzales6442 2 жыл бұрын
It’s very sad to see her mother providing drugs for her, instead of rehab and other positive resources .
@carlosluisliquiros8218
@carlosluisliquiros8218 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@nebula982
@nebula982 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao she offered her everything incl rehab she can't force her. And giving her money for drugs isn't because she's disconnected from reality, she knows that her daughter may go down even go down a darker part to get her hit. Some of you people are so damn disconnected and unable to see the complexity of a situation
@ericagammaitoni9230
@ericagammaitoni9230 2 жыл бұрын
Well, she made her a hair appointment for her birthday so its important...😒
@cray8on
@cray8on 2 жыл бұрын
I am baffled by everyone talking positive about the mom. Message to mothers who think this: if your kid becomes an addict, this is not what you do. You don’t let their significant other rob you cheerfully, you don’t give them money for drugs & you must try to break contact if rehab fails. You can’t force them to rehab either. An addict has to be ready whether it’s hitting a new rock bottom or a wake up call (friend death, overdose scare, etc). Source: recovering addict who is fortunate to have a family that did everything right, eventually.
@wifemotherconservative3432
@wifemotherconservative3432 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%! It's bizarre these comments saying how wonderful the mom is! She was completely useless as a mother!
@teecee919
@teecee919 2 жыл бұрын
Research shows that’s inaccurate
@cray8on
@cray8on 2 жыл бұрын
@@teecee919 I’d love to see the research then
@ericagammaitoni9230
@ericagammaitoni9230 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. She literally causes herself heartache and stress...trying to get her heroin addicted daughter to scheduled appointments to get massages and her hair done? 🙃 Bringing cleaning supplies & helping her clean up a place she will be squatting in? This Mom was enabling... I feel she needs to put her foot down a little more. No wonder her Dad and sister didn't want to be in this documentary..Mom is over the top. I have 2 young adult sons and tried to put myself in her shoes. I hate to say it, but I think I would be somewhat like her though.....as far as desperately trying to see my son daily because I'd need to know he was ok. However I know from much experience that most of the time, nothing you do is going to stop them. I also know from very personal experience, that for some, getting them up against a wall does work to get them to make the choice to get clean. This Mom coddles this girl too much.
@alexandraahlen2201
@alexandraahlen2201 2 жыл бұрын
Finally someone said what I was thinking. There's nothing wonderful about a mom driving her daughter to meet up with a dealer and giving her daughter money for heroin so that her daughter can sit still while having her hair done
@nicholestroup1770
@nicholestroup1770 2 жыл бұрын
This mother is so kind, understanding, realistic, patient loving morher.
@jayjayn007
@jayjayn007 2 жыл бұрын
My advice to any addicts watching is delete every contact you have who uses (delete your social media apps too) and move to the middle of nowhere. Hang out with clean and sober people only. That's what's worked for me. Make a year sober your focus. I left London and ended up in the middle of nowhere in South Africa and now a year and a bit sober.
@VividlyVapid
@VividlyVapid 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Almost exactly how I got clean, but USA.
@jayjayn007
@jayjayn007 2 жыл бұрын
@@VividlyVapidwell done and continued strength to you.
@ktm250sxUbeazy
@ktm250sxUbeazy 2 жыл бұрын
You got a couch I can crash on my guy. I'll buy a ticket today
@VividlyVapid
@VividlyVapid 2 жыл бұрын
@@jayjayn007 thank you very much sir. Much love to you, and all the love I can muster for an internet friend 💕
@jayjayn007
@jayjayn007 2 жыл бұрын
@@ktm250sxUbeazy I keep replying with my contact details but the messages keep getting deleted on KZbin. I think they have a block for such things. If there's any way I can help a fellow sufferer I will. I know the nightmare I was in - overdoses and I jumped off a building from paranoia I was experiencing at the time. Stay strong and make that step into sobriety. It's worth it.
@Danniedorito
@Danniedorito Жыл бұрын
The person behind the camera is a saint. Not judging just talking. Hannah is so lucky to have a mother like her. I'd give anything to have mine back even just for a couple of minutes
@bonnypurac5923
@bonnypurac5923 2 жыл бұрын
Mum is absolute angel so understanding and caring and is going through hell.I know because I did the same to my parents. The sad thing is nothing changes until the daughter is willing to.I pray for them both may God watch over them and keep them all safe.
@ericadgaf
@ericadgaf 2 жыл бұрын
I hope she is clean & sober, & living her best life today. 07 was a while ago, so I hope & pray she’s well & doing wonderful things!
@basedgamerguy818
@basedgamerguy818 2 жыл бұрын
we all deserve to have a mom like this.
@septimaserpent
@septimaserpent Жыл бұрын
Honestly. Made Me Cry. It's So Bittersweet Seeing Them Hug & Seeing Them Give Kisses Left Me Awestruck. It's Sad Thinking Of How My Mom Pulls Away From Me & Gets Annoyed Any Time I Even Brush Up Against Her Or Try Sitting Beside Her. She Does Everything She Can To Just Make Me Go Away From Her & Refuses To Acknowledge How She's Made/Makes Me Feel. She Is Constantly Avoidant Of Delving Into Any Points Of Contention Or Any Concerns That If Addressed Would Only Aide In Mending The Relationship & Providing Opportunity For Learning/Growing & Understanding...It Just Hurts My Heart Seeing What I Lack & Have Constantly Strived To Create For Myself & Even For My Mom If She Just Allowed Herself To Try....😔💔
@chanley313
@chanley313 2 жыл бұрын
Prayers for everyone who struggles with addiction. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@MiZzBee1
@MiZzBee1 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.❤
@magdalenauzarska2132
@magdalenauzarska2132 Жыл бұрын
I have never seen mother so supportive, forgiving like she is!!! Amazing ❤
@sherryheckman3010
@sherryheckman3010 Жыл бұрын
God bless you mom for continuing to try to help your daughter. I would have gave up on her a long time ago. I hope and pray she finds her way to recovery
@ranihendra8088
@ranihendra8088 Жыл бұрын
What a sad thing to see our own child using drugs..!!!! It's a heart breaking for a mother. ..😖😭 May she lead a right path in her life. 🙏🙏
@barbaraperry2595
@barbaraperry2595 2 жыл бұрын
I had kids picking on me and bullying me too......this is pretty common.....even today...sticks and stones may break my bones but WORDS WILL NEVER HURT ME....THIS AND GODS LOVE GAVE ME THE STRENGTH TO STEP OVER ABUSE
@sallyrose9507
@sallyrose9507 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to this and many more mothers going through this. I’m a mother who has struggled going through with my daughter for approximately 18 years, I continue to try and that’s what a mother does if a mother gives up so will the world. I now say to her now I don’t have one care to care about but two. Her child has been removed from her care. 😢
@mallori6610
@mallori6610 Жыл бұрын
Wow this mother is amazing and the way she treats her daughter Nd her boyfriend with respect and love will be what saves them one day! Punishment and cruelty don’t cure addiction. I wish the best for this family and hope they find peace and sobriety ❤️
@ashleysilva6005
@ashleysilva6005 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't save them they don't care , until they want too it's when they loose everything when they do
@Enigmalove-hl4qc
@Enigmalove-hl4qc 10 ай бұрын
Тоя да го разкара вреди и
@minhtue5274
@minhtue5274 2 жыл бұрын
I pray for Hanna to find her way to get over it, her mother is so empathy, God will not let her mother down.
@LimoneneDaddy
@LimoneneDaddy 2 жыл бұрын
Wow what a loving and understanding mother!! ❤ great video I wish Hannah and Ricky the best You can just see the pain in Hannah's eyes and her face
@codeman1419
@codeman1419 2 жыл бұрын
U Must have missed some of video cause Ricky passed away unfortunately
@LimoneneDaddy
@LimoneneDaddy 2 жыл бұрын
@@codeman1419 I don't think I actually finished the whole thing but damn that sucks
@scubasteve7022
@scubasteve7022 2 күн бұрын
The thing non addicts don't understand is you feel like you're dying in withdrawal. The drugs are literally like you're attached to a ball and chain. But if youre lucky enough to break the habit, it is the most freeing experience. There is hope for everyone.
@terrybunsey8015
@terrybunsey8015 2 жыл бұрын
This absolutely breaks my heart, God Bless u all… 🙏🙏🙏👼🏻😇❤️❤️❤️
@eladiogarth1926
@eladiogarth1926 2 жыл бұрын
I pray here in Jamaica for all addicts..... It is an illness like any other affliction that changes your health.
@pamelagibbs3992
@pamelagibbs3992 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to everyone in this family ❤️😢
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