ouu chillle, YALL KILL BUILT DIFFERENT! I WOULD NEVER. I am very 40/60 on this one. The child will forever be wrong for running up on her mom but the mother was antogonizing her and seems to have a collection of videos doing so. They're both dead wrong but her more so because you cannot resolve conflict with violence. I would have posted the link in the description but due to the nature of the video and the fact that this video actually comes directly from the creator and it appears to be a family channel I have omitted it for safety reasons.ENJOY JOIN MY PATREON! www.patreon.com/theemlle 💚 LISTEN TO MY SINGLE: theemademoiselle.hearnow.com/ ✅ Personal/Vlog Channel - Life Updates, Storytimes, Loc Updates, Vlogs, Hauls & Lifestyle www.youtube.com/@anavyemor ✅ Haitian Channel - Haitian Politics, Voodoo, Spirituality, and Folklore from a Haitian-American Perspective www.youtube.com/@ChroniclesofaZoe ✅ Media Hustle - Subscribe for social media and business tips www.youtube.com/@MediaHustleCo
@Pookiebabymuva8 ай бұрын
I wonder where the child learnt that from
@tamyahgalentine97348 ай бұрын
@Pookiebabymuva Exactly abusive parents don't get to be treated with respect. The momma deserved that 100%. I don't care what anyone says.
@ZenitaSillah8 ай бұрын
What's their youtube channel called. My parents want to see the video. I can not find it. Thank you, and I love your videos!!
@kc18808 ай бұрын
I agree but what I would say to this parent is had she command respect when the child was young she might have a different child now
@tamyahgalentine97348 ай бұрын
@@kc1880 I don't think that would work it would be hard for someone to actually give the respect you command while they are also constantly disrespected by you 🤷🏽♀️
@PrincessPixieBell8 ай бұрын
That poor girl is being psychologically traumatized.
@PrincessPixieBell8 ай бұрын
Do you hear the pain in her screams 😔
@LioTheRedRose8 ай бұрын
@@PrincessPixieBell Yeah i feel bad for her.
@Desaundrea8 ай бұрын
Agreed. She is past the point of who hurt her, and mom is no where near sitting down to talk to her about what is really going on. 8 children and you never learned to see when they are hurting? 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🧐
@Ulikejewel3 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 lawddd smh
@noraoros99748 ай бұрын
Mother sounds like a bully. She keeps playing the victim, when she’s at least 150lbs. heavier. Kids have been killed by being sat on. She may have 8 kids, but that’s not a mother. That’s a breeder, of negativity, and hate, and LOUD! Uhhgggg
@tamyahgalentine97348 ай бұрын
Thank you this is definitely a good way to put it 🙌🏽
@noraoros99748 ай бұрын
@@tamyahgalentine9734 Imagine listening to that, everyday. I’d bet her children do all the chores, and the older ones, were probably taking care of the younger ones. If she told me to come at her, sooner or later, I would.
@tamyahgalentine97348 ай бұрын
@@noraoros9974 exactly
@elizabethprouddolllover6418 ай бұрын
It's funny how moms with daughters always say this kid always disrespects me. Yet they disrespect their daughter the moment she isn't a little baby anymore, and some even disrespectful to a baby🤣🤣🤣
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
It is sooooo strange fr. They literally hate their daughters.
@Zqualityyt8 ай бұрын
Yeah it's a control issue on the mom's part. My mother was very controlling and overbearing. God forbid I messed up on the laundry or the dishes she would cussed me out. Eventually I ended up moving out and lived with my older sister because I lashed out at her... It's sad 😢
@Vixen4224 ай бұрын
It Fr be giving jealousy, I feel like moms like that think their daughter is gonna take “their place” or something 💀✋🏾 it’s really weird and disgusting
@FanGurl4TY8 ай бұрын
I can tell from how easily her mom called her a b****h that the mom is a large problem
@listentotheanimalscreamsha15118 ай бұрын
Sociopath
@dejadior64778 ай бұрын
I think it’s crazy to expect a child of all people to remain calm as someone especially a parent is antagonizing her. One thing I hate about stereotypical black people it’s almost like y’all expect children to be robots.
@michinsaeggi-dakcho8 ай бұрын
yesssss. they’re soooo…
@chaos_turnip8 ай бұрын
@@michinsaeggi-dakcho ghetto you mean?
@tamyahgalentine97348 ай бұрын
THIS 🙌🏽 🙌🏽 🙌🏽 I'm so glad my momma snapped out that mindset early, but I am still embarrassed and ashamed of the black community....
@koelael26607 ай бұрын
This happens in every traditional household, stop making it about race.
@pynklady117 ай бұрын
This is the comment right here
@jaylenrobertson46688 ай бұрын
How ironic the daughters name is precious 🤦🏾♂️
@gossip_girl_xoxo20038 ай бұрын
I peeped that too! That woman knows exactly what she's doing when she named that girl that 👀☕
@Brandiisbeloved8 ай бұрын
the way she talked to her gave me flashbacks of the movie precious. That movie is triggering as heck
@CookWithStephh8 ай бұрын
There’s always a precious in stories like this lol
@Essencemah058 ай бұрын
I didn’t even realize until I looked at your comment. This kind of deep.
@LaBree5628 ай бұрын
Thought the same thing 😢
@BlueBerryBronzer8 ай бұрын
The other sibling laughing and doing her mom’s hair says a lot. Me and my siblings always had empathy for each other in those situations. We hated seeing each other get physically disciplined . I would be next to my sister trying to calm her down and de-escalate the situation. Those girls must not get along and the mom be picking favorites among her children. Boy I know the dynamic of a toxic home when I see one💔💔
@asideofaioli46308 ай бұрын
Agreed
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Yea the whole thing was odd. Everyone was going on like it was a normal day.
@sapphic77798 ай бұрын
the golden child and scapegoat this is exactly what it is
@Kristin-mk4js8 ай бұрын
Me too sis smh my mom turned me and my brothers against each other
@BlueBerryBronzer8 ай бұрын
@@Kristin-mk4js they always treat the boys DRASTICALLY different than they treat the girls. A boy many family households is an automatic Golden Child for sure. I’m sorry you’ve also experienced this💔 Knowledge is power though so at least you see what’s going on.
@peachykeen42428 ай бұрын
The Mom seems very aggressive and the dad seems weak. The Dad probably spoils the daughter rotten and the Mom is probably the disciplinarian. Not a good dynamic.
@jernisharichard50328 ай бұрын
Yes, that's what I go through , 😢 IT is very aggravating when you have an adult that can't and won't discipline them thinks everything will work out 😡
@JenniferKelly66698 ай бұрын
Me too! My daughters dad then bribed her to go move with him. He’s shown his true colours but she’s too scared to come home cause it’ll “hurt him!”
@JenniferKelly66698 ай бұрын
So many men aren’t built for parenthood
@jernisharichard50328 ай бұрын
@@JenniferKelly6669 understand, it truly hurts them, and they don't see it or care
@BlackGirlLovesAnime68 ай бұрын
He’s just as bad if he allows the mother to act like this. I love how you just made this wholesome story up about the father with no evidence whatsoever
@cristhianmontoya66488 ай бұрын
This what happens when you belittle your child and disrespect them constatly. They lose their minds and become unstable and break
@themacandcheese22408 ай бұрын
Happened to me…
@pynklady118 ай бұрын
Happened to me still in therapy. My mom is LITERALLY like this. We do not do not speak AT ALLLLL. My mom was my first bully idc about that's your mom nonsense. Stop normalizing and tolerating abuse.
@lenipopo8 ай бұрын
Exactly, this won't end well. Anything can happen when you break. The daughter didn't learn to "not run up" on her mother again. If anything, she learned to grab a knife first for next time.😬
@digimonalvatrax27388 ай бұрын
Happened to me with my narc grandmother....it was not pretty
@Imwalkinhea8 ай бұрын
This‼️‼️
@Imwalkinhea8 ай бұрын
My mom speaks to me like that and worse. I have no doubt the mom is throwing rocks and hiding her hands.
@pynklady118 ай бұрын
This all of this my mom had that BAAAAAAAD
@Imwalkinhea8 ай бұрын
@@pynklady11 I’m sorry you had to deal with that, sending hugs🫶🏾🫂
@dejadior64778 ай бұрын
Literally, this was my mom to the T . Especially with cleaning situations
@CookWithStephh8 ай бұрын
Sheesh I thought my mom was annoying but now I feel bad I’m sorry you had to deal with this
@Imwalkinhea8 ай бұрын
@@dejadior6477 no fr😭. Im sorry, sending hugs 🫂💗
@camrynfeist55918 ай бұрын
Her child is the reflection of her
@amekiaj80638 ай бұрын
You said that!!!!;
@dani.11707 ай бұрын
LITERALLY. They are both just- wow. Immature
@Jessica.Shawnte8 ай бұрын
The mom being illiterate tells me all I need to know
@listentotheanimalscreamsha15118 ай бұрын
She said she has 8 kids tells me all I need to know. 8 kids and has cameras on her like she's a tiktok kid. Abusing that child is her content.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Ayo 🤣🤣🤣🤣😩😩
@MRS.G458 ай бұрын
Bingo
@lacklandcrystal8 ай бұрын
This is triggering. Not every woman is a good mother. Not every woman should be a mother.
@thesugaraddict31608 ай бұрын
The mother's complaining the teenager talking wreckless and disrespecting her but look how she talks to her daughter, calling her all B**** and all these bad names. That's how she raised her. Kids will talk and carry the same mannerisms as their parents.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@BlackFairy-zk7wl8 ай бұрын
Parents complain about the monsters they created smh......
@bluebird48158 ай бұрын
The mom seems like she picks on her daughter all the time and now, the child has snapped!! Some parents cause all these reactive behaviours and then act all shocked when the child retaliates at some point. This is more psychological abuse than physical. I get it coz i was the scape goat child and got picked on by the same parent that was meant to protect me. One day i snapped and i broke a whole cupboard of dinner ware and then threw every damn knife in the house. In that moment, all i saw in my mind was complete darkeness and it was like i was in auto-pilot. My rage had taken over and it was as if i was taking back my power. My entire size 4 body was trembling with rage and vulnerability. Thank goodness my aunt had come to visit, so she run downstairs and came and held me in the tightest embrace ever. That is the only time i felt protected and loved. Words like what that mother is screaming at her child can build up and eventually, your child will snap.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Damn. I an so sorry you had to go through that 😞❤️
@dani.11707 ай бұрын
that is insane!!!!!! I'm 16 and throughout my years since 13 I've wanted to do that, so so badly. I'm actually happy that you snapped and got it all out, some of us genuinely can't and at the same time can't take it.
@lat73248 ай бұрын
naw that’s her daughter … hitting your mom with a jacket is not the same as a hit with hands or an item that can cause damage like a bat. The mom could’ve just blocked the jacket … it’s a jacket. The mom just wanted to fight her daughter. The kid wrong but look who she is being raised by,… passive father weak, aggressive mother
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
To be honest, I don’t know what was in the jacket allegedly but God forbid it would’ve hit her in the eye. It would’ve been a different story…. so I get it at the end of the day you run up you fuck around and find out so who knows if she actually did Break her finger or whatever but I feel like they’re both definitely lying. For her to say, she just restrained her that’s cap and for the daughter to say she was just trying to speak to her is also cap because she definitely swung a jacket at her.
@lat73248 ай бұрын
Yeah, I get what you’re saying. To be honest I wasn’t really listening to the daughter because she was wrong. I was focused on the mom. The whole “run up and get done up” has its nuances- like that’s your daughter. She should’ve given her some grace especially because she wasn’t even physically hurt, her “pride” if you could call it that was. I’ve seen parents both moms and dads dog walk their children-- punch, kick, hit with whatever they could grab both daughters and sons because the kids ran up and acted like they were going to hit, the kid through a pillow at them or for the kid bumped them while trying to leave a room. Parents like that just want to fight and they see their children as equals. They can’t differentiate between parent and child and have horrible boundaries. Then they wonder why their children “run-up” in the first place. It’s them their the problem and the circle continues in our community unfortunately.
@NOOOO32928 ай бұрын
Bro it’s the fact she swung AT her grams or mom angry 😠
@MeDusa_Ri_867 ай бұрын
I think she said that she had keys in her jacket
@rentrann8 ай бұрын
Exactly. She came off extremely RUDE and so mean to her kid. I would NEVER EVER talk to my daughter like this.
@shalashala35718 ай бұрын
God says don’t provoke your children
@BlackFairy-zk7wl8 ай бұрын
Please highlight this for the ppl in the back. Abusive parents love throwing around honor your mother and father, but it also said don't provoke them . The problem is these parents expect to be honored while not following this rule. Kids will not respect anyone they're disrespected by , unless they are scared of them.
@deniseayling86918 ай бұрын
The daughter did expose the mom that she goes on lives everytime just to find a way to start issues with the daughter while she is minding her business. The mom was in the wrong to use her daughter to get attention from social media. Yes, the daughter was in a big wrong by attacking her own mother, but I can tell that daughter had a mental illness, and the mother thought it was funny to humiliate her online just to show proof that her daughter was disrespectful while it literally proved that the mother was the one who started the problem. This gives me a headache by watching this 😵💫
@listentotheanimalscreamsha15118 ай бұрын
Sociopaths do this to get a reaction and make the other person look bad even though they start it. This video is literally every person video on KZbin talking about dealing with people who are like this.@@TheKitwakening919
@Brandiisbeloved8 ай бұрын
mental illness or maybe just at her breaking point. I would snap living like this
@jennbati62774 ай бұрын
And she’s clearly abusive and gaslights her. Certainly doesn’t lead by example.
@meoshie2 ай бұрын
That cow started off by saying tiktok was an issue. When her daughter showed her the phone and proof there was no tiktok, she then started shouting at her and ONLY HER to clean up. She picks on that child.
@DemeDacosta178 ай бұрын
Never understood a mom calling their daughter a b*tch!! Like that’s crazy to even hear.
@dusktilldon8 ай бұрын
Spiritual warfare has the world in a choke hold, I heard a small child crying and the mother was more concerned with a round 2 smh.. A man just murdered his son over an argument then confessed into the ring cam 🤦🏻♀️ We can’t keep letting our anger get the best of US
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Dead ass.
@sheilaconcitis83857 ай бұрын
I saw that video. It was horrible
@user-dq9rr9mv3f8 ай бұрын
I grew up like this, and I would never ever do that to my children…m this is triggering
@keturah77498 ай бұрын
I was the child my dad picked fights with to discipline. I can bet you her mom picks on her the most.
@dejadior64778 ай бұрын
I grew up like this too: hearing her mom talk to her like this makes me feel like I was 15 again 😭
@charaecummings50458 ай бұрын
Me too an I fought my mom too 😢 I still feel guilty for that but at the time I felt like I needed to stand up for myself and my siblings
@charaecummings50458 ай бұрын
Wish I was never in that position
@blackchinadol95918 ай бұрын
@@charaecummings5045I’m so sorry you and your siblings had to experience that, I know exactly how it feels to be the black sheep and get blamed for any little thing
@NaeNae238 ай бұрын
Her mother is VERY antagonistic. Mothers who always want to get the last word are the most toxic because its all about their ego.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@maddhatter35708 ай бұрын
18:30 children don’t just run up on parents out of no where. This moment has been building up for a while and it finally exploded
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@Mainlylynnn2 ай бұрын
That's what I'm saying like that's built up anger and hurt, you can hear the pain in that girls voice, I don't think it's the daughter's fault at all, the mom doesn't know when to stop :(
@nae9908 ай бұрын
You can tell by how easily her mom calls her a bitch and gloats about being a G that shes not a good parent. She probably talks to all of them like that but Precious is the most sensitive, emotional, and reactive. My mom never went this far but it was way easier for me to tune her out and go around her than my siblings who would match her energy like Precious. In the same way precious lies, her mom is the same. 💚
@listentotheanimalscreamsha15118 ай бұрын
Exactly she baited her and had the camera rollings. She knew what she was doing in abusive relationships they call this baiting. When the man has a camera phone and follows the women around poking the bear waiting for her to explode so they can play victim. It's also sociopathic behavior. The mom if you want to call her that seem like a sociopath this is the behavior they do. That's why she had the camera rolling it was to catch her on video blowing up. Sociopath are all about doing things triggering their victims getting them to act so they can protect their image. The mom even refers to herself in 3rd person in some parts she's putting on for the camera.
@anm98818 ай бұрын
I agree with you .
@LENE12178 ай бұрын
**LONG POST** Not condoning Precious actions. But this young lady has been through a lot and shes at her breaking point. Im sure her and her mother been going back and forth for years. you doing vids for clout. she needs to find out what is really wrong and why shes like this. that household is operating in chaos. I have been through this with my 20 year old. She suffers from mental illness and we have had our run-ins. It has gotten Physcial, police has been called and my daughter in 3 mental hospitals. The backstory for me is My daughter is actually my niece. shes my sisters daughter. I have had her since she was born. She still suffers from abandonment issue. and she is 20. As she gets older our relationship tends to get better. We still have our disagrrements but its the normal. Let me tell yall what my BIGGEST MISTAKE was when she was 12 we had it out not physical but yelling cuz I was fed up with the lies. . I uttered these 6 words to her and till this day it hurts. i told her " YOU ACT JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER". Yall, lets just say when I called her downstairs to apologize to her. She had on a long sleeve shirt on that was changing colors as we were speaking. I said. whats going on with your arms? she was crying and said "I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE MY MOM". She sliced both of her arms up. When I tell you. I promised to never make that mistake again. I have never done so. I love my baby and I cannot see me losing her. in 2020 My sister (her mother) came to visit . And on the 5th day we had a storm. We were all in the kitchen in the dark with flashlights and candles. My sister looked at her daughter and said " I want to thank you for allowing me a second chance in us getting to know one another and start a fresh new relationship" My baby looked at her mom and said. "Thats all I have ever wanted". A few hours later, my sister passed away in her sleep next to her daughter. I say all of this to say when you see the signs that your child or love ones need help. Please address it. because the biggest misconceptions we as humans think is we have plenty of time. I HOPE THIS FAMILY GETS THE HELP THEY NEED. ITS NOT TO LATE. If your child cant come to you, who can they come too... sorry for the long post. I could say so much more. But, this is long enough.
@listentotheanimalscreamsha15118 ай бұрын
This can happens when you have a narcissist Mother . She showed her @ss out too many times degrading her daughter and this is putting that final nail in someone's coffin. When a person tells you to leave them alone. She f*cked around and found out. Failed parents needs to stop walking around like there're protected, have immunity, and super Mario lives. Stunting for the gram degrading, bullying, and abusing kids generational curse is gonna get a lot of them f up.
@Poeticfloetic4 ай бұрын
*narcissistic mother ❤
@yv3lande8 ай бұрын
It seems like theirs tension between mom n daughter. Maybe underline jealousy or something. It seems also her daughter is preteen/teenager so definitely at a age where her emotional intelligence is weak
@Bastet9878 ай бұрын
Why are Black mothers jealous of their daughters, you should want the best for your babygirl.😥
@yageshabazz34568 ай бұрын
@@Bastet987 it isn't just black mothers, its mothers in general. Some of them feel as though their daughters are taking their place. Some dislike the fact that their partner/husband/baby daddy will pay more attention to the daughter instead of them.
@jennbati62774 ай бұрын
@@Bastet987not just black mothers. Mine is pale as can be and she hates me. 🥲
@veronamarie8 ай бұрын
I think the daughter is mimicking the behavior of the mother. They are both wrong. But parents need to understand whatever you do to your kids they will do to you when they get older and stronger.
@ttjc36968 ай бұрын
I guarantee you the mom introduced that behavior to her and the dad enabled the hostility now she's a teen with little impuls control and anger just like her mom.
@ItzSonnyyy8 ай бұрын
Honestly, I’ll say the mom had it coming, but again, I’m a bit mixed on this
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
I felt the same way. Yea she shouldn’t have ran up but she was antagonizing her.
@tamyahgalentine97348 ай бұрын
@@TheeMademoiselle Mom got exactly what she asked for 🤷🏽♀️
@NEE2TIMESS8 ай бұрын
yessss 🤔
@jabellatv32408 ай бұрын
My oldest daughter is 17 and she has made me very angry but I have never called her a bitch like seriously that’s weird asf
@212Brittany8 ай бұрын
Looking at this brings back flashbacks of me and my mom we use to fist fight all the times she was my first bully she use to pick at me all the times especially in front of company for literally no reason.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
I an so sorry you had to go through that ♥️😥
@BlackFairy-zk7wl8 ай бұрын
Same hope you're healing babe ❤
@boonezboutabag60858 ай бұрын
you can tell when the mom lying her voice change to her customer service, Voice 😂😂😂😂
@TalkWithTah8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@bunnywilson72328 ай бұрын
Someone has to call CPS ASAP because she is being violent with her daughter and calling her the b-word and the n-word .I also believe that she shouldn't have a KZbin channel.
@MRS.G458 ай бұрын
Very old video. That child grown now.
@MRS.G458 ай бұрын
Name of her page is twerktee
@silververnallbells1917 ай бұрын
@@MRS.G45 Then I hope she's no contact.
@ingalynne19852 ай бұрын
The way the mother sat back and watched everything unfold. She 100% enjoyed the chaos she caused
@kc18808 ай бұрын
The saying is you teach people how to treat you. When your three yr old tell you no when you ask them to puck up your toys, it starts there, not when their 15, it's to late then.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Very true.
@jennbati62774 ай бұрын
Exactly.a lot of parents make that mistake. Discipline starts early. They won’t know unless you teach them.
@jonathanparker62098 ай бұрын
This situation is FAR from funny... But I would be a liar if I didn't think about Monique every time that deep-voiced mother started yelling "PRECIOUS"
@JustMeandGod_5 ай бұрын
Glad I wasn’t the only one I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂
@shirekabrownteague62978 ай бұрын
She was definitely antagonizing the daughter from jump. No, the daughter shouldn't have ran up on her mom. The Dad is a punk, bcz he should have stepped in before it even came to blows. Mom is out of order calling her daughter names and stuff. This whole household needs counseling. Sounds like the Daughter needs to live away from them. This is very toxic and pitiful.
@ty1ar198 ай бұрын
“something wrong with all my kids” because you raised them to be like you.
@isabella-lp3nw8 ай бұрын
I totally disagree with u being on the mom’s side… this is 99% mom’s fault… first and foremost mom should be leading her family by example! Secondly, mom behaving as another teenager instead of a 35+old woman.. she never tried to calm the situation down, didn’t treat her child as a person and speak to her respectfully from the jump.. of course kids shouldn’t be putting hands on their parents, but that goes back to why she felt she could, is it a normal family time event around there? Seems like it to me… a kids job is to grow and learn.. so if that behavior is what she’s known, how can we now blame her for that over the mother ? Of course the kid has fault n this, a learning fault… but this whole situation is most definitely moms fault!!
@jennbati62774 ай бұрын
Precisely.
@TheWolficorn8 ай бұрын
tbh, i get it. while i don't condone the kids actions, you can hear how done she was in her voice. that was a mental break.
@BlackFairy-zk7wl8 ай бұрын
Exactly why y'all expecting teenagers to react maturely it's not realistic.
@TheWolficorn8 ай бұрын
@@BlackFairy-zk7wl I’m not sure what she expected from pushing her so far. An adult would have broken
@reidon12038 ай бұрын
Kids didn’t ask to be here. When parents talk to you any kind of way without respect when you didn’t ask to be here, that triggers kids. She should be allowed to express her emotions instead of hold them in. Some parents think they can just hurt their kids and talk down on them without a response. That’s kind of like bullying. You can’t just treat kids any kind of way because you are their parents. You didn’t bring them into the world, god did. Kids are blessings to parents.
@meoshie2 ай бұрын
Man I felt this. So many times my parents would be angry and beat or shout at me and all I kept thinking was 'I didn't ask to be born.....why am I here?'
@whenyouwishuponastar66438 ай бұрын
Im with you, it’s strange to cuss out your child. Itll always be weird to me. The mom is all the way wrong. I feel the daughter reacted that way because it’s possible the mom makes threats or says things insinuating they could fight. When your kids is big it’s not a spanking it’s a fight. I can’t imagine. But the daughter definitely should learn other ways to handle her anger cuz you don’t want to repeat the dysfunction. Never let anyone bring you to that point because it also doesn’t end up well for you in the real world.
@CR3ATIV3CR33Z8 ай бұрын
Usually I️ agree with a lot of the takes on this channel (long time subscriber so of course I️ love it here) but in this instance I️ can’t agree. Whoever holds the most power in the dynamic is the most responsible, in this case that is the mother. She has other children to think about in this situation and telling your kid to run down on you after antagonizing them and then when they do, getting in to a full blown physical fight while the other children are around, come on 😭😭😭 now on the kids side, if you run down on your mother then you need to be prepared for any and all smoke that may come with that. However, the way the mother acts (I can only go based on the video shown), it leads me to believe she is antagonizing her daughter constantly and also when her daughter steps out of line she doesn’t correct her which makes her daughter think “if she antagonizes and disrespects me then I️ can do the same without consequences” which is wrong on both parts. I️ feel it’s 60/40 too but it’s definitely more fault on the parent. It’s a parent/child dynamic and the mom absolutely stooped down to meet her daughter at her level instead of rising above the pettiness and maintaining the authority she so desperately harps on in this video. Also my mom always told me, be careful what you ask for, don’t ask someone to run down on you then be surprised when they run down, you asked for it. At the end of the day, mom needs to not stoop to her daughter’s level and daughter needs to remember she is a child and to stay in a child’s place.
@jernisharichard50328 ай бұрын
Yes, perfectly SAID 😊. They need counseling to eliminate all that toxicity in their relationship. Spiritual guidance 🙏🏽, see we don't know the battle we're in with the devil, evil spirits are real, they oppress even possess us. The battle is not with flesh and blood, but with spiritual wickedness in high places. The world taught them, you have to be transformed by the RENEWING of your mind. ❤ Kevin Ewing is a great teacher on the word of God that helped a lot with knowing the rules, through knowledge shall the JUST be delivered 🤍
@anm98818 ай бұрын
@jernisharichard5032 the mother is toxic .
@debraromero43857 ай бұрын
They picked on that girl till she broke....
@Tootie01058 ай бұрын
This CHILD is HURTING and honestly I don’t care that she swung on her mom. She is crying out for help or to be heard and she is probably doing what she was taught. If I’m not being heard then it is time to get physical because that’s the only way people will hear what I am saying. I rather it be her mom the one causing at least some of the pain in this moment than that child go into the world and be a ticking bomb waiting to explode on a teacher, other student, or anyone else. That doesn’t mean that I want them to beat her but I know it will be too much to have the parents reflect on themselves and say hey let’s not threaten our children with violence or let’s have a sit down with them to get to the heart of what is going on or how this child is hurting…. Instead I know they are just going to try to beat her more and punish her more because now this child has Disrespected them meanwhile they are also disrespecting the child.
@anonymous101-sb1bf3 ай бұрын
Facts ppl want kids to be 100% correct but parents are entitled to Grace and allowed to make mistakes naw get that young lady some help and stop abusing her. We have no idea what else has happened.
@godanubis938 ай бұрын
I don’t like how parents will know their house has been dirty for days, but as soon as they have company over they want to clean as they get their hair done. They’ll yell about “My House” but won’t clean it themselves. I’m glad I want that type of parent. My kids only had to clean their rooms, and wash their own clothes.
@yogibell30638 ай бұрын
I feel you on the parents Cursing part because I curse like that sometimes but when I hear other parents do it it makes me cringe. Yeah you are right our kids deserve way better than this. It’s been normalized in the community that I’ve grown up in but it’s definitely not OK and I want to change and I thank you for voicing your opinion because People are scared to hear the truth but that’s what needs to happen
@jernisharichard50328 ай бұрын
Great job mom, you are doing good just to look at your behavior and want to change it, most wouldn't. We all have something we do right and wrong when it comes to raising kids, so it's good to help each other, and encourage each other to do good 👍🏽. Our mental health and spiritual health is important. Kevin la Ewing helped a lot to see how we have been raised and our environment plays apart in what we do, check him out. Congrats to you making a change, may God continue to bless you 💝
@Juicyxcouture8 ай бұрын
Does anyone remember the MOVIE: precious, yeah okay that’s all
@kiarahoward21968 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I was thinking the same
@Juicyxcouture8 ай бұрын
@@kiarahoward2196 😭
@Siren_4428 ай бұрын
What was the movie about?
@Theefashionkilla7 ай бұрын
Yep as soon as she call her precious I’m thinking this the real life movie 💀
@mikchik008 ай бұрын
Yes running up on someone is wrong However I empathize with the girl. Clean my house Get my water Calling her every name in the book Screaming, cursing And why is she still on live?!? This ain’t it…this is not effective parenting
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
At all. I’m afraid to see the other videos.
@angeliquelowery60636 ай бұрын
This was so triggering as an only daughter of a single mom that hopped from one relationship to another. You deal with so much mental and physical abuse from your mom. Constantly silenced and gaslight. I was a good kid, never got in trouble, straight A’s. Raised myself. I was the cook, the maid, the babysitter and more. I got beat for anything and nothing. I’ve been there before with my mom but she put her hands on me face. Her whole demeanor changed and all she saw was red looking at me and I had no choice but to defend myself this time. My family called me disrespectful and I still had to “protect” my moms lies and secrets. Moms can be bullies. I’m getting therapy now because of my underline anger issues. I hope these girls that have bully moms get the same help.💗
@NikeriaRay8 ай бұрын
Giiiiiiirrrrrrrlll im stressed watching this!!! I cant😅😅
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
🤣 I was tiiiired
@niabelizaire35968 ай бұрын
Not “beat me precious” 😮
@BlackFairy-zk7wl8 ай бұрын
It's giving narcissistic reactive abuse 💔
@gracew.25068 ай бұрын
My mom put her hands on me while I was sleeping and pulled off a fresh install…. And learned a valuable lesson after YEARS of physical abuse
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
🙉 no wayyyy. I am so sorry. That’s sad.
@gracew.25068 ай бұрын
@@TheeMademoiselle yup but it is what it is 😭
@destini99868 ай бұрын
Are you ok ? How’s your mental state currently ? How did your scalp heal ? Did u lose any of your natural hair ? If so , did it grow back ? How’s your relationship w your mom now ? I’m sorry for having a boat load of questions. It’s just your situation is mind boggling to me . 💔🥺
@tuinfarto6085 ай бұрын
What lesson did she learn?
@sheilaconcitis83857 ай бұрын
Are they calling their own children the n word? What kind of disgrace
@tayleahpanda97628 ай бұрын
No at a certain point in time you just gotta fight. I remember in my old household with my family they always found reasons to mess with me and would beat me up knowing i wouldn't do anything. But once i started fighting back everyone was not happy i eventually left having nowhere to go until my grandma took me in. Family is like a bunch of snakes
@kamarisibley258 ай бұрын
While I don’t ever condone putting hands on ANYONE especially the one who is raising you, you cannot continue to antagonize and say slick stuff when the tension is already there. Correct me if I’m wrong but if the daughter was cleaning the house (after being told to come back in and do what she’s told), why keep telling her to do the very thing she’s doing? If she told you to leave her alone, why keep bothering her? If you told sb to leave you alone, you’d expect them to what? Leave you alone. I feel nothing but disdain and disgust for the mother and I feel for the daughter 1000% bc this is exactly how my mother is. You can’t expect sb to keep taking disrespect and degrading behavior and not get tired of it.
@marshmellowpops8 ай бұрын
Looks like one of these cases where a parent singles out one child in particular to treat them poorly. This whole time she was yelling and talking extremely disrespectfully to her child almost trying to rile her up, like yeah the kid should of done her chores and never put their hands on someone like that but what the fuck? People need to understand when raising children, it's not just a matter of "do as I say" it's about leading by example. You talk and act crudely, don't act surprised when the emulate that behavior 🤷
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
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@Darkstalker10124 ай бұрын
Exactly
@mommak108 ай бұрын
CPS take those children away please 🙏🏽 this is literally traumatic 😢❤baby girl snapped and needs therapy. And to keep the camera on her smh 🤦🏽♀️
@charaecummings50458 ай бұрын
Following your daughter around calling her the b word tho... it's a no what type of future are you setting her up for baddies?
@felicias63878 ай бұрын
This is generational trauma
@setsunatodoroki8 ай бұрын
4:24 Thank you! for speaking out about the topic of parents like this. I had and traumatized having parents like this. And these parents are tryna be young, or be “That Girl”, “City Girls” vibes is crazy💫
@heyitsmyTeeTa8 ай бұрын
These kids dont know how to respect anyone because they were never showed respect. The mom is harassing her instead of saying thank you for cleaning so when she kept getting on her that child blew up. This is the way her mother interacts/communicates with her so the child doesnt see this as negative. Its sad because the mom created this.
@akiraadams20028 ай бұрын
My thing is why parents can’t take accountability on their end you antagonize this girl what you expect
@karenthomas90098 ай бұрын
We don't know what happened before the camera came into play😢
@ItsKi_5 ай бұрын
I couldn’t even finish this video cause the mom really pissing me off. That poor baby needs love and to be taught emotion control and it’s hard in an environment like that. Being poured daily hate and anger etc is bound to explode. The daughter is wrong but she’s only a product of her environment and the mom needs to go to JAIL 🤦🏽♀️🤣
@marshariusadams62368 ай бұрын
When you disrespect your kids and constantly do what the mom is doing duh the child is gonna react at that point cause you are doing that to them as their parent
@tylergutierrez29598 ай бұрын
my mom would have beat the mess out of me if i ran up, wrong or not thats a whole new situation lmaoo
@maddhatter35708 ай бұрын
16:41 I really believe parents take they anger out on kids and excuse it with they bad behavior
@Desaundrea8 ай бұрын
Twizzlers! But you know…I am a mother of 3. I didn’t/don’t talk to my children this way. My two girls and I were cool the majority of them staying in my home. We had spats, verbal interactions that ended when we gave each other space but no one talked to each other like this and no one ever put hands on anyone. This “mother” went on FB LIVE and antagonized her child into this frenzy! She told her to wash the dishes, YOU CAN HEAR HER CLEANING THE DISHES, but she had to keep yelling at her to do something she was already doing! 🤷🏽♀️Give her a chance to do one task and let her move to the next task. No. Give her a chance. But we are here now: You told her to run up. She did what you told her to do. 🤷🏽♀️Maybe you should be thinking about why your child would DARE to hit you!? Maybe because you show her disrespect at EVERY TURN, then turn on FB Live to show 5 people how horrible you are as a parent 🧐🤨 IF the dynamic of this house was different, this mother wouldn’t be speaking like this to her kids ( note she is talking dirty to ALL of them, calling them out of their name, and who is caring for the little kid who is screaming, while she is fighting her daughter 😩). She failed as a parent because she started this with this child. Now no child should ever hit a parent.. EVER. But it happened and the child lost and not only did she lose but mom broke one of her fingers, which is called consequences. You hit mom, mom hit you and you came away with a broken finger. They are both wrong, but mom has a right to defend herself. We will see how fast CPS shows up at their house. I hope they get there soon, this is so uncalled for and something needs to change in this home. Get off FB LIVE! And none of this makes it all okay. 🤦🏽♀️😑 FB Live is not a great forum to be pleading your case about how your children disrespect you. PUT THE PHONE DOWN, GET YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN TO FAMILY THERAPY SO YOU CAN GET TO THE ROOT OF WHY THEY DISRESPECT YOU, AND WHY YOU ARE DISRESPECTING THEM! This family is toxic, they need therapy. My children would never 😒
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
THAT PART
@jennbati62774 ай бұрын
A lot of times when kids or people don’t respect authority it is because the “authority” at home isn’t safe, reliable or even rational often times. This can create a confusion of what’s truly right and wrong in a kid and since they can’t respect their first authority which is at home, it can create a trust issue w authority outside the home. Because in your mind it’s programmed that authority isn’t always right or respectable or safe. When you think about it it’s only natural to develop distrust in people and authority when this is what you know. It doesn’t make it right but you see how that happens.
@jalissa12798 ай бұрын
she sound like the real precious mama😭😭😭
@GraceKelly-kz8jo8 ай бұрын
I'm gonna be the arm chair therapist and say that this kid is traumatized. She is so reactive. This is really sad. This household is a nightmare.
@ceyarras8 ай бұрын
The dad gives that he lets the mom bully the kids and honestly the girl did what she needed to do. Everybody has different situations so we can’t say the child is wrong at all there’s no respect there especially bc she is a bully and calls her bitch like huh I’m putting my hands on her too!! kids are not robots they have emotions I’m sick of it
@RozettaVyper6 ай бұрын
The father is there physically but he checked out mentally and emotionally a long time ago. Emotionally Absent fathers exist more so than deadbeat dads. With that being said, the mother and child are in the wrong. This is 100% not the first time. The mother is a bully. She's been bullying her daughter for a long time. This is the result. This is what happens when you a have an aggressive parent who wants only control. It makes the child bottle up until they can't contain it anymore.
@ramblingmillennial15608 ай бұрын
Hate when people talk to their kids like this. Just horrible. Also I think they're trying to catch a CPS case. Yes the kid hit the mom, but the environment doesn't look very good. Why on earth do people post this stuff on their social media? It's weird af.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
It is bizarre. I was so confused when I noticed that this was literally on the mothers social media KZbin page where she seems to do a lot of content like this.
@shaudemarie88448 ай бұрын
This is the result of years and years worth of antagonizing. Don’t mistreat your kids and expect them to bend to your will.
@tayreddick92578 ай бұрын
everybody has a limit.. her mother seems so toxic, babygirl got pushed to her limits. keep in mind, ts had to be going on like that. her mama set the energy, babygirl was pushed.. you can hear it in her voice
@tayreddick92578 ай бұрын
and im not at all excusing what she did, but being real. from the name calling to the aggressive talking to her (the mom) energy… just ugh! i feel for her daughter.
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
Nah fr fr.
@FLOWERS_FOR__COOKIE4 ай бұрын
I know she probably has that girl moving all over the house😭 almost every big under weight mom who looks like that makes their own children do chores that are not for them and so thinks they could easily have the strength every to be moving like that.
@oanaion48992 ай бұрын
My mother was just like this. Extremely antagonizing and I became extremely reactive but I never put my hands on her. She tried to be@t me one day over me being "disrespectful" (aka not accepting her favoring my younger sister...mind you i never even cuss around my parents unless I hit myself) when I was 14 and I just grabbed her arms and held them by her body and I shook my head in a no. I guess that was her wakeup call. She grew a lot so did I 😅
@ppbaby018 ай бұрын
I agree with you 2000% my mom use to beat on me and talk to me like a bitch off the streets. I was a homebody a straight A student never disrespected any adult. Very shy child. My mom would take her emotions out on me and my siblings but I was the youngest and it seems like I got it the worst. I could tell stories for days and you guys would just be sitting with your jaws dropped to the floor. My and my my had a horrible relationship for years from the time I was 18 up until about 29. It's not perfect but I was able to forgive her so that I could move on for my self and my own happiness. Not only that I was raising a son on my own and alot of times discipline was very hard for me bc I refuse to beat, yell, and talk down on my child and sometimes I felt like maybe it just didn't work. But now my son is 12 and I also got therapy when I was about 23 so that helped tremendously. My son is the perfect example to me everyday that I did something right in not following in my mom's footsteps. I broke a couple of generational curses with this one and I'm so proud of myself. I know I'm not fully healed bc when I think about all the things my mom has done to me I become very angry and hurt all over again. But at least my healing has began because my mom and I can talk without having an argument and when she does start I respectfully say, ok mom I'm going to have to finish this conversation later I don't want this to go the wrong way so I am hanging up the phone now. Of course she gets mad and cussed me out on my answering machine but when she is over it she finally apologized and we are able to talk again. It's all about boundaries with me. You will not disturb my peace and then play victim when I react; so I have just learned not to react
@TheeMademoiselle8 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that. You definitely did not deserve it. I hope you find strength to heal. 😞♥️
@ppbaby018 ай бұрын
@@TheeMademoiselle thank you queen
@BlackFairy-zk7wl8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for not beating your son .
@mrzhyphy15106 ай бұрын
THIS IS WHAT IM LEARNING!
@chiquiria76898 ай бұрын
I feel bad for the child. This is coming from a woman whose mother constantly antagonized her. When I was younger, I would do anything for my mom and was still seen as an ungrateful child. I had to run up on mine once cuz I couldn't take it anymore. I still do anything for her now but love her from a distance.
@morganr56028 ай бұрын
from the first few seconds I can already see this is about to be a mess
@gothamsmostwantedclownbitc71076 ай бұрын
Its extrememly hard to do chores, what my parents asked of me when I was being sexually and physically abused. On the surface, it seems lazy or rebellious. But it really isnt. Its extremely passive. For the mother to continue to get aggressive is really disgusting. Im not surprised the daughter snapped.
@jernisharichard50328 ай бұрын
The bare minimum, and when the other parent spoils them, they really don't like to listen, clean, do school work, homework, basic things. They just think everything suppose to be done by you.
@Siren_4428 ай бұрын
What?
@marciesocal75538 ай бұрын
This is straight up abuse, all the yelling, screaming, name calling it’s abuse pure and simple
@mandybrown56118 ай бұрын
I'm getting flashbacks to the movie Precious 😰 Why would the mom antagonize her daughter like that??
@osaki45027 ай бұрын
I just think it's crazy how we are supposed to just put up with it enough is enough and it was bound to happen one day how much do we have to tolerate before we can defend ourselves? That poor child has had enough
@niabelizaire35968 ай бұрын
This is so ghetto and sad.
@ms.helpmeet47537 ай бұрын
I can't believe some children live in such environments. This makes me want to show even more love to my children. Parents aren't supposed to antagonize, and children aren't supposed to be disrespectful.
@daishawilliams83018 ай бұрын
My friend had a toxic mother growing up her mother would always belittle her, cut her hair very short, buy her used clothes and when she tells her mom that she was being mean to her the mother would hit her.
@dani.11707 ай бұрын
Its always the parents that talk to their children a specific way wonder why their children are a certain way... they're literally mini you but okay...!!! We also have to consider what's the context that made the daughter g crazy like that, yes she should not have been acting like a rabbit with rabies but what happened to her..??? How her mother raised her is what made her so comfortable with giving that response, she'd still feel the same way, just express it differently. Your kids, if they're 13+ having social media is not that serious, at this point its just something that happens, its a different way of communicating bruh, tiktok isnt even crazy or all that (what ive seen) if you know how you raised your child, or you know what kind of person your child is then that will determine their maturity on the internet, guide them, watch them, social media is apart of life as weird as that sounds. All of us have grown on up on some type of media. On the other hand. My siblings are just dirty and disrespectful, they can't do the bare minimum of CLEANING AFTER THEMSELVES, it pisses me off... they're literally under 13 and acting fast and smart and bad when they should just be being children and doing what they're told when the command is harmless. I can see how the mom acts, this mom MADE her daughter into what she is, it is all her fault, this is disgusting and sad... no child should sound that distressed about being told to CLEAN AND LISTEN. The way the mom literally said "come beat my a**" there's babies crying in the back, people laughing about the situation... this is usual in this household, she raised that child to be exactly that. She's literally calling her daughter the b word. Is it just me? The way she talks to these kids... its disgusting, are you serious? "GET THE WATER N*****" I hope she gets all of those kids taken from her. This girl is 100% justified idfc, hearing her voice, all the pressure she's going through, she must be SICK, she born to a horrific mother.. The way they disregard her, gaslight her, she's literally HURTING you can SEE IT. She's a copy of her mother.
@khyleighingram54068 ай бұрын
we stand on business you gotta give respect to get respect if her mama talking to her like that now imagine how she talk to her every day she got tired of it
@mimir18858 ай бұрын
Communicate with your children stop telling your kids over and over to do something if they don't do it by the second time third time you ask whatever in that moment is distracting them take it away for a day or two my daughter is 12 and we had a blowout I spanked her but I could tell that it changed nothing so instead of yelling and hitting I sat and I just started asking her questions trying to get her to open up to me and with some prayer and guidance from the Bible I was able to get through to her and really get her honest opinion on how she is seeing her life right now how I'm treating her and I'm really happy I took a step back and look at my daughter not as my daughter but just as another human being who needs to be heard
@nightingale_55curse816 ай бұрын
Absolutely breaks my heart to see, I hope the daughter finds better role models to look up to bc no one should have to deal with that kind of petty behavior
@TB-cg1jk8 ай бұрын
The mother is DISGUSTING.
@ItIsWhatItIs81204 ай бұрын
I second that moms speak to their children like strangers at the bar and then want help when their children talk to and treat them the same way ? Im with ya on that ,😊
@mariasworld9557 ай бұрын
She is literally provoking that poor girl.
@nowlaterkiss98118 ай бұрын
Thank you, Lord, for Peace in my household. SMH 🙏🏼