I Took A DNA Test To Prove She’s My Child | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

[@kimt1054]

I can understand people being confused, but being rude is crossing the line. This is a sweet and beautiful family!

[@ahbrashashamyah-wx5lo]

Rite but the confusion should be kept to self or asked nicely

[@track1949]

My family is generationally mixed going back to the late 1800s. I have " white" cousins. They look like this little girl.

[@denisescott16]

Why such awful names .

[@BLU3L1ONS4EVA]

​@@denisescott16 The names are most likely fake to protect the children.

[@jackienash299]

She took after her daddy ,dah!

[@susanmartinez9429]

You know that you gave birth to her, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone. You hear me?!!!!! She looks like her Daddy. You're both great Parents.

[@nataliesturdy3022]

Just like me my late mom is Malaysian and my dad is britush I look more like my dad and nothing like my mom even my eyes colour is green.

[@melaninduh7962]

I Mean IVF....Mistakes Can Happen...

[@TheAS687]

I would never suspect that’s my biological child after going through ivf

[@nataliesturdy3022]

@@melaninduh7962 exactly we never know

[@essedu6473]

Exactly. Ppl getting hung up on skin color in 2024. Smh

[@sincerelybeckerly1010]

As a black mom with a “white passing” child living in a primarily white area in Georgia, this happens everyday. Being followed to listen in on our conversations, asking where her mom is, suggesting I’m a nanny, etc. keep your head up momma. Your family is beautiful ❤

[@Helenodraculus]

That’s what you wanted, a white baby in a white neighborhood you just don’t like that they still don’t accept you. I don’t feel sorry for yall. 😂

[@yourmanufacturingguru001]

Absolutely Becky!

[@annehunt787]

Deepest respect to you. I can’t imagine being with my child when they were young and have to put up with suspicion, intrusion, disrespect and hostility from others.

[@bestMamaBebe304]

Ive been called white passing before and my kids are by a white man. So they are totally white but tan well in the summer😊when my dad took them to the store, along with my step sister that's white he was being followed around Walmart. Upon checking out and attempting to leave he was stopped by several police officers and they had locked both exits to the store 😢 I can't even imagine how he felt that day just trying to be a great dad and papa...

[@mcnoneya]

That must be so hard, my siblings and I all share the same mom but they have different dad than me one is super dark the other is super white but they both have the same parents. It’s sad because I feel like moms of color probably experience this “oh where’s the mom?” More than white women with dark skinned children. Makes me angry, like “it’s none of your business!”

[@AFOsborne]

My best friend (caucasian) was married to a Ghanian man and she used to have issues when she was out on her own with her children, particularly when they were little. She was often asked if she adopted and where the baby was from. My friend, a fairly quiet woman, would explain that the child came from her womb. It's a shame that you have had to share this story, but thank you for sharing it. Love to you all 🥰

[@IsaiahHollins]

Genetics don’t discriminate they just read in between the lines

[@gracelynn8367]

Yes!! What an amazing way to think of this ❤

[@Lena.Jones13]

I love that!!!! That’s a great way of putting it 🙂

[@divinefem8793]

Yup and there’s no such thing as white ppl

[@swedemartyrsonswade]

You my man, is a man of science.😂

[@positivepessimist6853]

She used donor eggs. She carried her but she's not hers. She's lying and you dimwads believe her!

[@leeannehudson7314]

My father was Aboriginal and my mother English.I turned out blonde haired and blue eyed.If i had grown up with my father i am positive he would have been questioned why he was with me. I had a DNA test later in life to prove I was his daughter.God rest his soul. My heart goes out to you mum ❤

[@EnviroSteward]

Dumb suckas don't understand recessive genes. Most of US Blacks have slaver DNA.

[@ggemm9]

hey a blakfulla in the building and like we say “no matter how much milk we pour into the coffee it will always coffee”. ❤

[@purplerainbow1995]

Aww, that's very sad. I'm sure it was hard for him too thinking she cheated. They should teach these things much better in school. I didn't know either and being insecure, I would have doubted my partner if something like this happened before I learned recently. Wait that wouldn't make sense bc I'm a female who would know bc I would've given birth. I would be scared that my husband wouldn't believe me for sure. Or ask myself at least once if I slept with someone else or got raped unknowingly.

[@behemothsbaby]

I am European Australian/Indian with darker skin. Both my kids are incredibly pale with huge blue eyes. I have been mistaken for their Nanny by elderly women in my community. It does go the other way though. I was once in a GP's waiting room with my Dad and the doctor asked me who the man was sitting out in the waiting room. I'm a spitting image of my Dad but just with darker skin! Genetics is fascinating!

[@malcriadamedina5358]

Ok you would need to have some features at least. Fuller lips, something in the nose perhaps. This bb is not hers. It's a donor egg and yes she gave birth to her

[@remizart]

Shows the importance of teaching genetics in school. The creation of life is a roll of the dice and that’s a beautiful thing!

[@abundantlyblessed9201]

As a mixed race woman who at times faced discrimination from certain kids in grade school (and not all cause most were good) , growing up in the 60's and 70's this was never taught to us in school and I wish it was, it's distressing and annoying, not to mention downright rude, to be constantly asked where i'm from and what race I am, to this day I am still being questioned.

[@MarokoJin]

Yes, it's very important.

[@Gameress84]

Genetics and how to handle stress and anxiety

[@Cereal_kwilla]

THERES NOT THAT MUCH DICE IN THE WORLD! Do you see people in Norway having African babies?? No! 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@Gameress84]

@@Cereal_kwilla well norway is super strict to even become a citizen there. Thats for all races including whites from anywhere else lol. So diversity is probably slim to none. But other countries have biracial kids. Whats even crazier is france created democracy but norway is #1 on the most democratic countries on in the world. Smh lol.

[@DisneyFanatic2364]

Oh lord, I remember that original video too. That baby's grown up so much! We sometimes get nannies at the swim school I coach at, but also interracial couples. So, when first meeting the babies and their adults, I will greet them as the mom or dad unless I'm corrected (honestly think it's better to be confused as the parent rather than the nanny). Sometimes it happens to be an aunt or uncle.

[@GypsyKhi]

I love that she only used their nicknames. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@njambs-tm5pt]

And such cute nicknames too

[@Quila1125]

theirs another mom on youtube who is same way. all her kids have animal names. Its nice not revealing their real names.

[@armwood04]

Hey There Wilders ​@@Quila1125

[@da1stamericus]

​@@Quila1125 yes and their channel is super wholesome.

[@Tomikai255]

I am glad there are just the nicknames I was worried they weren’t😅

[@laurarabon1844]

The oldest has super light skin with different textured hair but looks like the youngest. All three children are super cute. Bless the family!!

[@shawng5313]

That’s the same thing I was thinking. They all look alike she just has a different texture of hair.

[@Patti.C]

She looks like her daddy. Don't let anyone make you feel bad. You have a beautiful family ❤

[@jessicamessica2271]

@Patti.C people are weird. It's funny, some old lady told my mom that I must look just like my daddy because I look nothing like her. Honestly I do look more like my dad but it's still none of her business. Idk people are curious but also rude

[@ecaldwell9]

Yeah, I said that immediately. She looks like her Father.

[@humanoide7076]

Yeah, I saw her and she looks like her dad...My dad is pale skin (we are from latinoamerica) and my mom is not black but has tanned (olive) skin and Im super pale and people always asked her if I was her daughter or why I was so white if she wasnt when they knew my dad, I look like my dad, if i put a gender swap filter on me Im my dad...And people are just plain rude

[@love4thew0rld]

I have a similar things with my daughter.. I am mixed race with light skin but afro hair.. My daughter is white with pin straight blonde hair and alot of people assume I am baby sitting or they ask me who's baby she is, I even notice people looking around for her mother but look at me with daggers when I take her hand... It seems like a small thing but it is quite frustrating explaining to anyone who has questions that she's my child.. Most mothers don't have that problem

[@oliviad.2975]

This is why DNA is so cool! She happens to look exactly like her father, and it doesn’t take away from who the mother is!

[@Beetlejuice-wv3iy]

She look so much like her mother just white

[@newrainbow-or6nq]

She has her Mother's face, and eyes, I can tell she's hers, at least when they are next to each other

[@lindar6326]

HAHAHA 😂HAHAHA, YOU ARE A DAM LIE ! BUT SHE IS GORGEOUS.

[@nicksonleslie7366]

I see her mom 80%😂😂

[@newrainbow-or6nq]

@@lindar6326 Somebody triggered? lol

[@nikkids4266]

As a black mom, of a mixed kid who has albinism. I hear you momma. It’s WILD the mess you hear. I once got asked, “how’d that happen” 🙄. But I promise, if you raise them with a strong sense of self, who knows and loves ALL parts of herself. Then she’ll be fine. It won’t matter who she tells her truth to, cuz she’ll already know it 💜👏🏽.

[@beanbun2312]

ma'am, I'm asian, and my son is Gambian-Indonesian (afro asian) and yes, sometimes they call me "the nanny" here in Bali too 🤣🤣 I'm like "he's my son 🥲"

[@Hnzuu]

I am white ns have two mixed (Gambian-Finnish) kids and even though people don't question if I'm their mom they make all kinds of other assumptions without knowing anything about us or how we became a family. It's pretty frustrating. Personally I don't go around judging other people's families and often question how some people have the time and energy.

[@M.U.S.H.R0.0.M]

⁠@@MoonLightMysticalsthey said nothing about this kid having albinism tho? They were saying that she’s a mother of an albino kid, not that the person in the video had an albino kid. Look at the comment again

[@MoonLightMysticals]

@@M.U.S.H.R0.0.M …. The commenter is referring to her child having albanism , having something to do with this baby . Which it does not if THIS BABY DOESNT HAVE ALBANISM

[@breezystl777]

​​@@MoonLightMysticalsPeople with albinism aren't blind nor are they cross eyed. However, nystagmus is what they usually have (the uncontrolled eye movements kind of like twitching or wiggling back and forth). That is what causes vision issues, but it does not cause blindness. Have had many many friends with albinism growing up. One of them drove me to school in a mustang. Pretty sure my buddy wasn't blind 😂

[@Appl3headbambi]

People are so weird. They have no idea how mixed children work. You two are doing amazing. Don’t listen to the weirdos ❤

[@theresamullings9735]

The weirdos need sex education lessons with diagrams thickos

[@M_SC]

I don’t think it’s weird to be ignorant. It’s weird to be rude and confident about your ignorance though

[@CuriousConnoisseurs]

It is not weird! if you have a feeling that something is wrong seeing a child and you act then you not weird. Looking always away is weird.

[@ehill7074]

Even her own mother had a DNA test done, come on now

[@LaurenNavie]

Emphasis on WEIRDOS

[@lloyddragon2036]

these kids have the sweetest mom ever!! what if pudge was adopted? who cares how they look? they're such a beautiful family! pudge looks like both parents to me, she just got daddy's skin and hair! but i see mommy's nose and mouth. i see mommy's smile and joyful vibes. definitely her daughter, beautiful family.

[@Alice_was-here_1999]

People get so fixated on race. Doesn’t matter if she’s biologically hers or adopted. It’s *HER* child!

[@seal7513]

Race is important, and it's not skin color, but based on ancestry. Until we have human nurseries with artifical wombs, eggs and sperm that can create any race of people, people will be strategically xenophobic and bigoted to protect their race/sub-race/ancestry. Because once an ancestry is extinct, it's gone for good. No way to get it back without technological intervention.

[@dearpanda300]

@@seal7513seals look down syndrome asian race like you

[@lenkichannel7904]

Once upon a time. The world begins with a black man and black woman, and give birth to the Whole world.

[@Ghost-rb6cw]

​@@lenkichannel7904 you're delusional if people are still believing in that none sense in 2024.

[@scratchpenny]

@@seal7513 That's ethnicity, though. Race, as defined and used in America, makes no sense and represents mainly only superficial appearances.

[@sheilaaskew5486]

She looks like daddy. People are so ignorant.

[@BREASHONTELL]

Right why is this even a video

[@thehungrygoldfish]

@@BREASHONTELL No one is questioning that she looks like dad. They’re questioning that she looks like mom, which she doesn’t. That’s why this is a video.

[@Tiffany-un3hw]

You’re stating the obvious. It’s actually not ignorance since their baby doesn’t look black, even the mom said she got a DNA test because mistakes do happen during the IVF process.

[@queennubian2573]

@@Tiffany-un3hwit is ignorance. An interracial couple’s children do not have to come out phenotypically mixed.

[@reneagreenfield1312]

Facts!!

[@laurahesse1811]

I've worked in child care and you'd be amazed the different mixes that kids are born looking like it's beautiful

[@mikemann1960]

My 1st girlfriend was black as space and in-between the stars. I miss running through fields with her. She had the deepest blue eyes that I have had to seen to date. Human beings are phenomenal creatures of both beauty and chaos. Embrace are differences to be a better human.

[@alicemakarevich6762]

​@@mikemann1960 so very poetic ❤

[@SandraKindreich]

Your little girl will be strong, secure and confident because of the love in your family. She will handle it just fine.❤❤❤

[@laurendowns4894]

Mom may have had the some recessive genes from her lineage. Its like when both parents may not have red hair but the kid might if both parents have those underlying genes from past generations. If the kids and mom are happy and healthy, then its a blessing. 😊

[@essedu6473]

My son is not biracial but he mite as well be the way he was treated as a kid. When I had him ppl would say HE MUST LOOK LIKE DAD. When his dad had him ppl would say HE MUST LOOK LIKE MOM😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shefreshasf]

Eve gene

[@HafeezaWard]

Yes

[@positivepessimist6853]

She's lying! She didn't even admit to the IVF for the longest time and now the truth is coming out bit by bit. They used donor eggs and that's a FACT.

[@LynnTanner-y6r]

​@@shefreshasfThat's what it's called,thank you I just mentioned what I learned about a black woman being the only race that could have different race children and couldn't remember the name..Thank you

[@af3893]

I, too, have Caucasian looking children, and I'm black. I've had teachers and strangers doubt my maternity. Lady at the park thought I was her nanny, teacher couldn't accept it, "who are you the gf, why are you here?" My kids have been doubted, and that's way harder for me to handle. And yes, both sides don't like it.

[@RitaRiley-w4d]

af3, I can't believe how ignorant people are! I'm sorry you and your children have had people comment on your heritage. Let it go, they are aholes😂

[@af3893]

@RitaRiley-w4d awe, ty 😊 the saving grace is with more mixed race families, there will be fewer of these situations in the future.

[@donaldd9839]

Well THIS just shows that YOU CAN GET WHITE FROM BLACK but NOT black from white. MITOCHONDRIAL DNA we melinated people have ALL THE DNA variations not just some.

[@Nomerci14]

She fail to mention there dad is a maggot 😂😂😂😂

[@christopherx1672]

2 bed wenching 😂

[@Life.is.hard.get.used.to.it.]

She looks exactly like him. Copy of dad.

[@LynnTanner-y6r]

I agree,she's a splitting image of her daddy!

[@desihay22]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯

[@mrbeene26]

I don't see it.

[@Chichi-sl2mq]

​@@mrbeene26 right. She has her mom's facial structure and the rest is dad. The dad has a rounder face

[@FastNCurious88]

I see a lot of Mom in her too tho 🎉❤ Truly.

[@sarzorro]

Congrats on your three beautiful children!

[@Gameress84]

That little girl has her mom’s same expression. She looks like her. I never questioned it.

[@Gameress84]

@ Facts!! I saw a black woman give birth to one black baby and one white they were twins. Both her eggs. Genetics 🧬 can do amazing things 💗.

[@stbrown08]

I know- their similar facial features and expressions are so cute

[@mervcharles8365]

Exactly!

[@justdoit.86yearsago]

She looks exactly like the father

[@theL0VERS]

Genetics are so neat and wild.

[@ZarahKnight-vq1jk]

Lol y u say that

[@thesacredtingz]

@@ZarahKnight-vq1jkwhy wouldn’t she the baby loooks completely white Caucasian

[@thesacredtingz]

Yes they are so neat and so freakin wild you took the words right out my mouth

[@RG-lu6fz]

​@@thesacredtingz they used donor eggs which means she doesn't carry her mother's DNA , only the father

[@janicesellers3618]

​@@RG-lu6fz no the mom said the baby is her biologically, blood of her blood, flesh of her flesh. They seem like a great family.

[@tfairyqueen74]

I feel so much related to this. I'm a Latina with a Swedish looking kid, and people give me hell all the time. One coworker asked me as a joke one day "Are you sure he's yours? He looks like he's been switch at the hospital". It hurts so bad and so deeply.

[@hanahani5696]

sorry mom :(

[@kevinpetroff5486]

(Not that it matters, but I'm a white guy): You should've reported that coworker!! You don't have to put up with that cruel nonsense! Get that ahole FIRED!!! I'm sure your company has non-discrimination policies? That's the only way people like that will ever learn. Stick it to 'em -- you don't have to put up with being spoken to like that, even if it's in jest. Not acceptable.

[@nothanksplease]

your baby is adorbs!!!!

[@r.h.2587]

I hope you can soon move to the side of Joy! Why should you hurt anymore?? You can evolve! Its all about YOUR attitude - not theirs! Its not personal ... its an observation! Get used to it. Hopefully you can raise your vibration and just state the facts! That's how one overcomes! Just say something to the effect of - "Ya... I know!! - So different and interesting isn't it! But he's got my DNA 1000 percent and I love him to pieces!! !" To that... they can say nothing in return cause you just closed the subject forever!! Grow in Love - don't shrink in Fear!

[@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044]

If your Hispanic/Latina you are European as well

[@Bigmama415]

Even though pudge looks like her father ethnicity wise, she has her mothers features🤎 what a beautiful family

[@tandysaysyoucandoanything6758]

I took after my dad too. Came out white, hazel green eyes, and straight but thick hair. Those children are all beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@RoynonBabies]

Is your mom black?

[@Beccamae75]

I bet you are beautiful. I think black and mixed children are the most beautiful children and grow into beautiful adults. I have 2 mixed nephews. But they look not one bit white. Which is fine by me. Their daddy's genes were/are strong as hell! I was hoping one would come out with blue eyes like her but nope.

[@luisa.acevedo3326]

​@Beccamae75, that sounds like fetishization of race.

[@jacquelynn2051]

I’m 19 and nursing my biracial son in the mall. Once he was ‘revealed’ from underneath the permeable nursing blanket a group of young white teen girls exclaimed how cute he was and asked me if I was the Nanny. I told them no, I’m the Wet Nurse.

[@تومريتشاردز]

😂

[@Zevrenth]

Why did you lie?

[@LadyAarin]

@@Zevrenth Probably because it's none of their damn business.

[@nessparadis6948]

@@Zevrenth, it was sarcasm

[@03labrat]

😂😂 wet nurse😂😂😂😂

[@EN-mh6sr]

I'm a 51 year old woman. This is me but the opposite. I look fully Black but my Dad is lily white. It's tough because we get looks like he's my sugar daddy

[@youllbemytourniquet]

That’s wild!! Sounds like it’s annoying to constantly hear that too 😕

[@RitaRiley-w4d]

EN, you are awesome!

[@RipeRöpö]

Nevermind others.

[@EN-mh6sr]

@@youllbemytourniquet The staring as well. Even in 2024,almost 2025.

[@EN-mh6sr]

@RitaRiley-w4d OH my goodness! How kind of you to say that🥹💗🙏🏾

[@nicolettefrazey4584]

You have beautiful children, you are a beautiful couple. Stand stand strong against all of the haters. They do not have open hearts until they have found the key to open their hearts to understand everyone is the same. That we all bleed the same. And we all come from God. You go girl! Your a great family! 🥰

[@danielles7476]

The father is white so why is this an issue. Mother and kids are all perfect. What a lovely mother… pretty in pink.

[@chenayebrady292]

My daughter looks white too . My kids are white and black too.

[@tmc1373]

@@chenayebrady292 Black women can create ALL colors.

[@chenayebrady292]

@ You are absolutely correct

[@jamiemohan2049]

Cause they rarely look that white unless the black parent is also mixed race. She doesn't just have pale skin and blonde hair but she looks european facially and doesn't appear to be an albino, so she is rather unique looking. However in order for this to be possible her mother must have a pale skinned ancestor, this is a genetic throwback trait mixed with her white fathers genes. This lady passed on some recessive genes and the dads genes are also recessive ...so

[@jamiemohan2049]

​@tmc1373 if ...they have recessive genes from europeans. Or they're the rare type of genes found in people from papa new guinea and australian aboriginals

[@vhead612]

She looks EXACTLY like her dad! That's so sweet. Some stong genes for sure. Sorry you had to go through that. Adorable baby girl n her name so cute.

[@luwamalem9537]

Exactly like him!

[@melyja12]

When she asked the question does white women go through the same thing and the answer is sometimes I remember I was with my biological kids happen to be mixed and I was praised by this white older gentleman for adopting my kids he was in in his 70s. I was so stunned. I could not even speak, but I did say they’re my biological kids and he looked at me and them puzzled and walked off

[@czriyajefferson7560]

adopted is crazy 😆 i'm sorry that happened

[@OurWildLife]

Yes, it happened to me too! I have twins and when I had them out once in a wagon, I actually had an older lady ask if I was babysitting one. One has dark hair, eyes and complexion and one has red hair, and lighter skin than his twin. I was shocked. Like yes, the red head is mine. I created that. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Genetics are wild!

[@shakeraxdien]

Yes im sure white women go through it just as much… idk what those ladies were talking about

[@Jaysaflame]

​@@shakeraxdien their point still stands they were talking about how even if people think their children aren't theirs they're praised for it. They aren't harassed through out the store. 🤷

[@ETHANFELIXROMANOV]

​@@Jaysaflame😂😂😂😂 nah

[@jnai-gr3tr]

❤😂🥰 just a beautiful family story!! Congratulations I had a good laugh to...Stay blessed!!!

[@1is7ener65]

It’s amazing the amount of unlimited combinations of mom and dad’s dna 🧬 together to create unique babies. All your children are beautiful 😍

[@Thetruthgirl]

Exactly!!! I can’t believe people are this ignorant! No matter the color of the parents’ skin, there are millions of variations of what child could be made out of which genes from mom and dad. All of us are a chance in millions of being born looking like we do, each person is its own unique combination of genes! As long as there’s genes for one thing or another however far back in our parents’ bloodline, even if it’s recessive like lighter skin in comparison to another parent, it still can come out!! And having a PARENT who actively has that gene showing greatly ups the chances of someone looking like them rather than some distant ancestor. I can’t believe with seeing that he is the dad anyone would doubt that she is the mom! Growing up I knew 2 Mexican sisters who had native great grandparents but also a great grandmother who came directly from Spain, 1 had white skin and light brown hair and the other had very dark skin and hair. They both looked native in the structure of their faces though and the one with white skin actually slightly more than the one with dark skin. Skin color isn’t the only thing that determines what race a person looks like, just the most obvious! That little girl could very well grow up to look just like her mom aside from the skin color and her siblings may grow up to look just like their dad besides the skin color, no one knows yet, their bodies aren’t done growing!!

[@2intriguing1]

Did No one ever study this (DNA, genetics and its many outcomes) in high school And college. It's laughable how ignorant the world is!

[@eakpan1267]

​@@2intriguing1 And that's why there's acknowledgement of rare cases. That's why the probability of something happening is never 1 or 100% . Usually, we hear 99.9%.

[@theultimatelearningexperie3636]

Thankfully, I was pretty successful in my studies as a biology major. It is always a rad moment to see one of the many potentials of a Punnett square in real life.

[@brookiebakerie]

What's more interesting is when those Punnett squares do weird things they're "not supposed" to do. I have dark brown eyes and brown hair. My two oldest kids (from my first marriage) have their dad's green eyes. I got divorced and remarried and my next two kids have their dad's blue eyes, and finally my fifth child has brown eyes like me! So much for brown eyes being dominant! 🙄😆 And yes, I know I can still pass on recessive genes. I just think it's funny that it took me 5 kids to get a brown eyed baby. (Edited to fix autocorrect fail.)

[@RG-lu6fz]

This child was born from a donor egg who was more than likely white. So actually this child is full white because donor eggs carry the DNA of the donor and not the woman carrying the baby. Anyone who's gone through or has knowledge about IVF knows this about donor eggs. You'll birth that child but they won't have your DNA only the fathers. That's why the girl looks white because she is full white from Dad and donor egg woman.

[@1RoPi]

That is crazy!! I remember seeing your original video about Pudge Pudge being your biological baby. You are such an amazing woman for handling this the way you did! Live YOUR best life and don't mind others ignorance and stupidity.

[@saundrahuff5870]

A few times, I saw the exact same expression on both mom and baby. And Pudge Pudge? How freaking cute.

[@msme5104]

Pudge Pudge has gotten SO big. I've been subbed to her yt channel since Pudge was a tiny baby. Good to see her on Extraordinary.

[@j.elissapessoa5698]

I wonder what percentage of white ancestry/dna the mom has? Just because the moms skin is darker doesn't mean she is fully of African decent.

[@twiztedlettesl]

The father is white....... There's more of a chance the baby got her skin tone from him. I'm not saying there is a chance she isn't fully of African decent it's just that baby looks exactly like the dad.

[@BREASHONTELL]

@@twiztedletteslduh that’s obvious she got it from the dad she sure didn’t get it from the mom 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄

[@twiztedlettesl]

@@BREASHONTELL well duh that's what I'm trying to explain to the person who is asking if she is full African. Or did you not even bother to read the original comment.....

[@j.elissapessoa5698]

@@twiztedlettesl my point is....when it comes to genetics and DNA not just the skin color but the hair texture and color...... probably more than likely the mother is not 100% of African decent.....and u am saying this became the dad is white and look at the other 2 children....and i myself am multi racial and we have many mixed raced people in our family we have many different looks including family who are half black and look white.

[@j.elissapessoa5698]

@@twiztedlettesl and the mother would have to be carrying the recessive genes for the baby to look like that if you understand how DNA works

[@VatreciaFlowers]

She's the way God wanted her to be, she is a blessing and he made no mistake making and adding her to your family. Raise her up the way he intends you to and everything will be ok. The Lord is good all the time Amen 🙌🏾 Beautiful you all are ❤

[@Jesus_Saves_Believers]

Yes, amen!

[@alexishall7125]

Such adorable kids! And clearly very loved by both parents!

[@Mind_locksmith]

My brother was the "white" sibling too. He got a lot of hate from the black community. He wasn't allowed to be culturally black. He had to act white because it was so triggering to black folks if he did anything black. Lol and he is a black man with white privilage. Society forced him to be white and me to be black, culturally. When we are siblings. You're daughter will never be able to wear box braids or other black culture things because of the predjudice and ignorance. 😕 Its sad society is so ignorant. People think that genetics is like mixing milk and chocolate milk. Black + White should be some sort of Brown. But Genetics is more of a bag of marbles. I pray society gets better about this. For your kids and mine. Thank you so much for sharing your story! Such a beautiful family!

[@scratchpenny]

That is so sad. I think it's an excellent example of how the way we use race in America makes no sense. It's not about ethnicity or culture - it's just superficial appearances and almost nothing else.

[@giorfi-n7v]

it is not sad....it is just how people are and it is still very unusual to see this occur as most mixed kids look at least somewhat mixed, so you cannot really blame people for being people. And yes, if you look totally white, then you are white and vis versa...just reality...accept.

[@lh2435]

That's the problem with having separate societies. It is a bit like apartheid really. I'm not doing it.

[@englishrose11]

I totally agree but find most of the prejudice in these situations comes from black people not white . At least it has in my case .

[@cassandraraphael6727]

I believe anyone should be able to wear their hair in braids. Hair autonomy should not be compromised based on race. We as a society need to be more open to individualism rather than expecting our ideas of how one should look as the only reality.

[@azpagirl2]

I got the reverse when a black man came after me saying what gives you the right to raise a black child. She needs to be raised by black parents. I said I gave birth to her, and he said no, you adopted her…does that make you feel good, adopting a black child… so, it definitely does work the same for me as a white female.

[@amelie7529]

I'm sorry. Your comment sounds so fake😂😭

[@murrzikthecat]

So sad to read this. Anyway, you're great mother and that's more important

[@gothikgrlblack1733]

​@@amelie7529Why does it? People do and say a wide variety of things so why is this different?

[@sarah-rubywilliams-ramouta8146]

@@amelie7529sounds 💯% legit to me.

[@RitaRiley-w4d]

azpa, there's a lot of ignorant people in the world. You know that child is a child of God. I hope your family the best! Your comment doesn't sound fake. Gotta let it go,eh?

[@brandip77]

What a loving mother and family. Those children are loved and cared for. I’m so happy for yall. You do not deserve such negativity.

[@rainw4246]

omg. You are the most beautiful person, Truly, and your family is beautiful. The boys look like you. Pudge Pudge looks like her father. I look like my dad. This is normal. This is very sad you had to experience the negative and hurtful aspect of others. 😢😢😢😢 God bless you all.

[@lenamarie2071]

My mom got the same kinds of comments. We're Mexican and she's the typical with dark skin, hair and eyes and I'm pale with light eyes and hair like my dad. Every time we went out someone thought she was my nanny. I think people just need to mind their own business!

[@Mitalayeka]

Its Human nature to wonder, u don't have to accept it but understand it.

[@kellyh4617]

Lenamarie2071 - yeah I can see why you got those comments too. You dont look anything Mexican. Genetics are so interesting.

[@Allaboardtheskylark]

❤

[@Jakub680]

@@kellyh4617Stereotypical USA vision of a Mexican. But there’s plenty of white Mexicans like the boxer canelo Álvarez

[@LadyKayye]

I really love this family. Lmao @ “her ears weren’t even dark.” 💕

[@smellmyfingification]

In the community that's an indicator on how you tell wht color the kid is going to be

[@LeeD7-sd8nq]

I heard that in a Chris Rock bit 😂

[@j.elissapessoa5698]

Yes because this is usually how we can tell if the child will have color. We look at finger tips and ears.....people who have mixed race children will understand.

[@yasmeen8097]

Most black babies are born white skin or light skinned. We usually look at the ears and color of their knuckles tell if they’ll eventually darken.

[@sssssssss111]

@@j.elissapessoa5698 right, same for non mixed race black children.

[@monicahyland8641]

Your babies are so beautiful, just like mommy and daddy. She looks just like her daddy ❤

[@Kim-iq1ge]

I’m mixed Mexican and white and my brother and I are very close in age. He takes after my mom with a dark complexion with curly hair and I had straight blonde with a light complexion. People frequently asked her whose child I was. Kids in school would even say I was lying about being Mexican or lying that my brother was my brother. Like, why would I lie about that???

[@ncoppens]

I can fully understand why they did the testing since they did IVF. Genetics can be very surprising.

[@ineptsoybean]

There are cases of unintentional or intentional egg/sperm swapping with IVF, but in this case, you can still tell that the mom is the biological mom

[@hinasaif4761]

She is exactly like her dad not only by color but also her features. All 3 kids are beautiful

[@justPisfinethanks]

As a mom of mixed race kids I feel this so much. 😢 God bless your beautiful family

[@aprosperityprogram4u]

Alex I LOVE your personality and frankness about your beautiful baby girl! :O) In the times we live in, you'd think people would have evolved to have an accepting understanding and be more enlightened about color/ethnicity. I walk your walk with my 2 year old granddaughter, who looks White. Her mom is White, married to our mixed race son. I've also experienced the sheer ignorance of people who couldn't process or accept what their eyes were seeing. "Their problem, not mine". Your strenght, mild-mannered demeanor and obviously warm and loving nature toward your children is quite apparent in the video! PLEASE continue to express your stance and be the voice necessary, in these times, to have others search their soul for a perspective in pondering, "how can it be"? It's by God's hand and that's all there is to know! Stay strong walking your walk....Father is NOT questioning if you could do it or giving you more than you could handle. You're doing EXACTLY what you and Rob were meant to do. God Bless you and your BEAUTIFUL FAMILY! :O)

[@richane22]

Why people think they have the right to give unsolicited opinions or advice to strangers is crazy to me. You have a beautiful family. God bless you all.

[@SHAWNTESH]

I thought it was so sweet when little Pudge Pudge made sure that her mommy was getting her hydration 😊🥰

[@monkeynumbernine]

I did too 🎉

[@Pou1gie1]

And the fact that the cup said "I am Black History" on it was funny to me @3:29. I can imagine this child carrying around that sippy cup and Yt ppl losing their minds!

[@lupuswolff4950]

she's the mom ,he's the dad. It's other people's problems and hang ups,just accept them. A very loving family, bless them.

[@isaacthegoat1432]

Nope.

[@AlaraTheFae]

Beautiful family! Congrats n IVF! I know the pain of infertility. You two both deserved to be parents!

[@leslie-annjones5321]

I remember seeing your story on Facebook and I just thought she was the cutest little dumpling. You can see she looks like you and she's beautiful ❤❤

[@kentuckywildcatsgirl6376]

She looks nothing like her mama.

[@PHlophe]

Leslie-Ann, you are giving me Island Gyal energy.

[@tamarapowell8982]

@@kentuckywildcatsgirl6376 she does it’s just that the hair texture and skin color is throwing y’all off😂

[@leslie-annjones5321]

@@PHlophe and what if I am?

[@leslie-annjones5321]

@@tamarapowell8982 exactly,they have the same smile

[@RickeysGirl6440]

I have 2 biracial children who look "white" & people use to think thought I was "THE HELP!! Totally understand this

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

@@RickeysGirl6440 SAME!!

[@LovedbyYah]

I got it all the time with mine 😢

[@LovedbyYah]

She looks like daddy too and mommy

[@liorasitelman1856]

🤦🏻‍♀️stupid people

[@mel...s]

My mom was treated the same way. My brother and I are very Fajr and my mom is dark brown skin.

[@Skullpirate89]

My youngest has tourettes and we quit explaining and just decided to wear shirts lol. Surprisingly people would stop staring. Maybe a shirt that says something funny like "Maury said I am the mother!" Or something to that effect. Or just flat out make one that says you're her mama. Society will always judge anything, we need to educate.

[@Skullpirate89]

Also mom to mom, I did a lot of KZbin searches to find other people that are like my youngest too and she even told me that it really helped her and her seeing that she's not the only one in the world really helped even if they just exist on KZbin 😊

[@niradnagrom2356]

I look like Pudge Pudge, my nanna looked like you and when I was young I spent a lot of time with her going shopping. I was too young to remember but watching this video I can't imagine what she may have went through toting me around everywhere! The people like the one who accosted you while out with Pudge Pudge have been around forever! They don't die, they multiply! I wish you all the joy and happiness you hope to achieve. You have a beautiful family! Happy New Year!

[@jevans8909]

As a white mom of a mixed 15 year old child I have absolutely dealt with this. I am so sorry you went through this and all us moms that have! I have been asked so many times “is he yours, yours?”, wow amazing. You have a beautiful family and don’t let anyone get to you!

[@PHlophe]

I am a mixed guy ( european dad and african mother ) . Even as an adult people have hard time believing i have a 100% african mother. but where the reverse scenario occurs, i am a dad of 3 . my wife is african but from a different part than my mother. i get asked if my eldest is the milkmans' because he is deep hued. i am not sure why people assume i do not have african genetics to pass down lol!. there are a few tell tale signs but everyone is laser focused on the skin tone.

[@mermaidmonroe1947]

Black women can create anything

[@SophieStubbs-fc7uo]

Period !! As a mom of 3 mixed kids you ain’t lyin lol

[@hollychaney5820]

White women can create mixed kids too

[@sotired9790]

So can other women. Genetics is a lottery.

[@thesacredtingz]

I said the same thing❤ black women can create anything it’s so beautiful ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@ka342]

All women are wonderful no matter how we look we bring life into this world we are the best

[@inko002]

Chub chub, bubba, pudge pudge 😀😀 I hope those are nicknames

[@ax3lthehusky]

im pretty sure they are, dont want weirdos kknowing their real names

[@thehungrygoldfish]

No duh they are nicknames lol

[@c0nstanc393]

Yeah they’re nicknames, at least pudge pudge is for sure

[@pennyteaser8976]

Just another ignorant comment

[@4thfreshestmccurry]

They are nicknames based on how fat they were when they were born. We do our best to conceal their names bc we don't want the weirdos of the world to know their names.

[@gonehunting9979]

That baby is not a black woman, her mother is. Her daddy is white, her mother is black. She is mixed but looks mostly recessive. So what? She is cute.

[@tequilajones9043]

She is beautiful baby girl black woman can make any kind of beautiful babies!!!❤❤❤❤

[@kka337]

Pudge pudge has her dad’s eyes & color and her mom’s face, so cute ❤

[@richb536]

Truly, that's her mum's face

[@HisEternalLight.]

I remember pudge pudge when she was just born!!!! How precious your family is🙏🏼💗 Anyone who has eyes can see she’s literally mom’s twin. People are ridiculous. Moms and babies have challenges and this one is not even necessary! Good to see the happy healthy family growing and glowing💖

[@NancyCronk]

Every member of your family is beautiful. Together, you are a beautiful family. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍

[@marym7763]

Don't worry about it! My mom is black (quite dark skincomplexion), my dad is white and has very clear skin, he gets red right away when he is in the sun, I look hispanic and as a child I thought I looked nothing like none of my parents but I always had the confidence that I was not adopted and eventhough there were somoe comments from all kind of people, that I was a white girl with lips larger than my head or that my skin was "muddy" and I should shower more often or from the other side that I was to clear skinned to be my moms daughter, blablabla. In the end whats important is how how you grow up home. I was raised with so much love, I was confident and if someone said anything I would either laugh or say something back and the few times I did feel like I wouldn't fit in I had a strong mum that encouraged me. Some people will always act in an igronant way. Only difference in my opinion was that when I was a child there was no internet, but on the other side, there also weren't as much "mixed" children as there are today.

[@lynbodeen]

It was illegal for many years and many places for mixed couples to marry. Sad we were kept apart for so long.

[@luvzfrance24]

I'm biracial and so is my best friend. Her mom is white her father is black and she has blonde hair with blue eyes. When she was growing up her father would get stopped by the police to question him to make sure he didn't commit a kidnapping. It's not going to be easy for your daughter. The best thing to do is to give her a nurturing environment and for her to be proud of who she is. Being biracial is the best! We have no fear!

[@RG-lu6fz]

I bet her hair was curly

[@eakpan1267]

​@RG-lu6fz that should be the reality, according to genetics. But have you ever wondered why probability is never a 100% but 99.9% ? Cos there's is a probability of an outlier that can not be explained by science.

[@YvonneBlake-d5j]

@@RG-lu6fzWhy does her hair have to be curly! Her hair can be straight, waves, black, blond, multi-colored, red and etc. The hair can be waves! Two black parents can have a light complexion baby or a baby that looks white!

[@AmyJ-1988]

I seen this before and the baby definitely got her dad's strong Gene's she's so cute

[@_XomBae_]

She’s white but she literally has mom’s face. People say she looks like the dad cuz they’re white. But I think she looks just like the mom they have the same face.

[@gwenaelalphonso8552]

You are a beautiful mother with a beautiful family. Thank you for the courage to make this video. I am a mixed race mother with kinky hair and African features, my son is 2 yo, white, blond, blue eyes so I have been through questions multiple times. Mam, at some point, what matters the most is the love you share with your beautiful family. People will always talk, and sadly the most frustrated people will make the most noise. All the way from the UK I send you big hugs and support.

[@ladyteeCarter]

Your positivity about the whole situation is contagious!! 🥰🥰My auntie went through a similar situation due to her having a blonde hair blue eyed baby. I felt so bad for her as a kid having to explain to ppl when we were out that this is her child!! It was disgusting!! Ughh the mindset of ppl…🤦🏾‍♀️

[@youprettywow]

6:37 I'm mixed and my mom was also mistaken as the nanny constantly (and the nanny was mistaken as my mom). But my mom is white and what she told me she experienced is nothing on the level this woman described. She was never accused of kidnapping me or called a liar when she corrected people.

[@Calvin.rx1l]

Its a different time. A white lady was complaining on the internet last year of being accused of kidnapping her biracial child and trafficking her. She was stopped at the airport.

[@vanessa.berger1989]

My daughter is also fair skinned, textured blond hair, blue eyes. I'm white and black, so I knew recessive genes would take over and pick of the litter. Didn't think the nurses would have posed so much judgements as to why she came out white??? Made me feel bad shortly, but everyone else says she's definitely received my face, expressions, and smile. She's a perfect mix of bothe myself and her father. She's beautiful, 12 years old now and so smart and lovely. ❤

[@patriciacarter1007]

I’ve seen his awesome mum on tic tok, she shouldn’t have to explain her child. No one’s business. Some ppl are so arrogant. Bless this wonderful family 😊🥰

[@CitizenTurtleIsland]

What a beautiful family. A house of love headed by two articulate, patient and caring parents. It is unusual and actually very cool to see how your DNA came together to create those babies. Wishing you all the best from Canada.

[@deloresdunbar6087]

Gregor Mendel, founder of the SCIENCE of GENETICS!!As a lighter pigmented member of my AA family I was fascinated to learn in high school biology class about the possibility of variations in reproduction throughout generations! May love continue to envelope your beautiful family! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@chiaradamore-klaiman8692]

Way to have a sense of humor about everything. Genetics are fascinating and complex and these kids are clearly incredibly loved. Knowing what these parents went through to build their family it’s no wonder they bring love and joy to even the most difficult encounters with prejudiced strangers.

[@zoetjez]

Grew up in a small conservative town in The Netherlands. My mom has brown skin, brown eyes, black hair (indonesian), my dad is white, blue grey eyes, dark brown hair, (dutch). I'm very pale, have freckles, grey green eyes, black hair. My sister has darker skin, green brown eyes, dark brown hair. This is relatable to me and as a kid I thought people were so weird about it. People often didn't believe she was my mom, and we kindof had to convince them of it. My two cousins are indonesian and arubian and when we walked through town people thought they were my moms kids instead of me. It's a weird feeling as a kid. As a kid I questioned if I was adopted sometimes. It's super weird, because me and my mom look a like so much, our skintone is just different. My cousins don't look like her. So it was basically only the skintone that those people saw.

[@dollfaceddiaries]

She absolutely looks just like her father , her siblings are a mix of both . Very cute children !

[@MJ-nu6ui]

I saw your viral video long before this segment, continue being a great mom! God is good, I pray Pudge Pudge knows that she is loved by her physical family and her heavenly family. May God’s love keep her safe, happy, and victorious always. 🙏🏽

[@jackchop1576]

My friend is black and had a white ginger baby that looks just like his dad.

[@sjm9876]

I’ve been following these folks on social media for a while. Their family is the sweetest

[@dragonwithagirltattoo598]

The kids are beautiful. You don’t need to explain anything unless you choose to. Your little pudge pudge is a happy healthy little one and I know you are so proud of her.

[@jacquelinevillarreal657]

All of the children are beautiful ✨💖✨ and what a lovely family!!! Wishing the best to all these beautiful souls…

[@barbaraspieler1222]

You ma'am have a BEAUTIFUL family..BEAUTIFUL children.. and a BEAUTIFUL sense SELF!! You DO NOT HAVE TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF TO ANYONE OR ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD!!! Keep being MENTALLY STRONG!! AND KEEP YOUR FAITH!!!

[@WaveyyRia]

Girl don’t worry about these people all of your kids are beautiful and your doing a GREATTTTT JOB God Bless your family ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@piinkz30]

My daughter isnt biracial, and because she was pale, people asked why I had a white baby, but my daughter is phenotypically black with 4c hair with pale skin and brown eyes

[@LearningtimewithAlex]

It is extremely unfortunate that most people were taught to only see color, what a dull earth this would be if all flowers were only ONE color.

[@FreyW-mb2dj]

Aaa I saw a short with Pudge Pudge such cute baby

[@lmauser8490]

I don't know why she would get her feelings hurt when people are surprised that pudge pudge is her baby. She physically looks like dad and not mom.

[@aaronnava2985]

My parentS are hispanic. Dad is white. Mom is olive skin. My sister has dark skin. Like people think she is black. She has straight hair. My brother and myself are light skin. I have redish dark brown hair. 😂 Same dad same mom. When you have multi raical genes sometime somthing come up. My dad thought my mom cheated on him. Turns out my dad may look white but he had a bit of gypsy in his family history.😂

[@heraldomedrano851]

Spain is in Europe.

[@heraldomedrano851]

He looks mezstio.

[@redhead4684]

Might not be your pops

[@ashleyallbee4290]

People are assholes! You know who your babies are and you don't need anyone to agree with it! That is so crazy and I am so sorry these people were like that!

[@RitaRiley-w4d]

There's a lot of ignorant people, her family is beautiful! Ashley you have a kind heart.

[@mikem1633]

I am bi racial, and I look just like 1:12 that child. It is not that uncommon.

[@SparkyJoon]

My cousin is an EXTREMELY fair skinned, blonde blue eyed woman who was previously married to a very dark skinned black man. During their marriage, the girls paternity was constantly questioned because all three girls were just slightly less fair than their mother. Neither parent ever had any doubts but what they went through was ridiculous.

[@TabuCash]

Such a beautiful baby and family you look like such great parents blessing to all of you. ❤❤❤❤