i try "PLUS SIZE" clothes from Asia... *offensive*

[@heyitsfeiii]

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[@patrickd1794]

Please review singles inferno 3. This season is going to be messy 😂😂😂

[@LaLaLupeXX]

Toys for Tots is the reason my kids are having a Christmas this year. Thank you for supporting them this year ❤

[@stonersiren]

love how they resorted to making a skort with a gut opening instead of making a skort that fits thicker people properly lmaoo

[@heyitsfeiii]

-_______- FRFR

[@elisasong728]

the smaller skirts also has it

[@lazygirlprocrastinatingmas9886]

That’s the front opening of the short to match the skirt opening. They just opted to no zipper as it’s under the skirt and can add bulk...

[@nflores328]

I thought it was like some shape wear, a way to pee without having to remove the whole thing...

[@stonersiren]

@@lazygirlprocrastinatingmas9886 yea after watching it again i realize it's probably to help people get into it, i was just stoned and baffled by that design choice... and even knowing the actual intention behind the design i can still say it looks unprofessional af lmao

[@l0v34clara]

The built in bra killed me😭

[@Mon_grant2531]

It killed me too😂😂😂

[@sparklight0964]

Sounds dangerous😂

[@cryingangel5809]

Same 😭 ⟟ hate fake padding.

[@lepidoptery]

truly the bane of anyone even just moderately-endowed

[@cryingangel5809]

@@lepidoptery I got no chest at all and it’s the bane of my existence! 😭

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

Asian body standards are really wild. If people think that fat shaming is bad in the US, they need to see what happens in East Asia. Someone who is a US size small or medium is considered “plus sized”. 😳. The names of their plus-size stores confirm that - Chubby’s, Fatty Fat Girl’s, Moo Moo.

[@heyitsfeiii]

Exactly!!

[@hihowareyou6195]

That is kinda funny. Where do you get your cute top? Oh I got it at fatty fat girl’s.

[@nightfrost1891]

the gag is i saw videos asking men in korea their ideal size in a woman and majority said 'chubby' but that's because 'chubby' there is like small/medium so when you hear people saying they 'like' chubby women they are still talking about average/small women just with more curves likely

[@iiFallenWish]

Yeah it's hilarious

[@muciSAD]

Fat shaming in the US? Nowadays? I thought you guys did glorifying obesity in the US now.

[@zenzuuu]

Being plus size in asia is so hard, the guilt of buying a bigger size because of other people's thoughts is so suffocatinggg. PS: To my fellow plus size girlies please dont ever feel bad about your body. Clothes are meant to fit you not the other way.

[@LyraPyxisVT]

i wouldve told them at least im not to skinny, thats why i wont go their cause i would break over 20 laws

[@felinawell]

shopping online and buying clothes from US made me realise the size difference, im a M in asia which is considered fat (yes fat, I've had actual elderly strangers call me fat) but the M in asia is like a XS in the US i was really surprised by the sizings.

[@avr7120]

even as a european i see american youtubers holding an Item they say is a small in the camera and i think this is small???

[@Kiyaa-hj8vy]

@@avr7120 is that a bad or good thing?

[@avr7120]

@@Kiyaa-hj8vy idk, just surprising how different the norms/standards are

[@crocopig]

Vanity sizing

[@HakunaMatata-gr9mm]

What did you replied to the strangers??

[@Tuliphero]

This haul was so real. The clothes for plus size in Asia are either super tacky or super cropped (for curvier plus sizes). But i think you can try out Taobao's plus size section if you havent before, i don't shop there cause of budget and it's not really my style (most of those are princess-ey or lolita??).

[@heyitsfeiii]

RIGHT?! I completely agree! I'm gonna try to look at Taobao but I know what you mean! Why tacky clothes for plus size girls, especially asian style.. super unfair!

[@mekko902]

When I lived in China, a few Taobao brands were my BEST FRIEND. I still wear some of the pieces I bought 5 years after leaving! I wish I remembered names! My key to good brands: Chinese models that were actually plus-sized. So many brands put plus-sized clothing on their normal models, and I was like....how tf do I tell if that will fit my fat body when it's 5x too big for her!? A few are legit quality, although mostly synthetics, and with fits better suited to smaller chests/less ass. My style has definitely leveled up coming back to the US.@@heyitsfeiii

[@Strwbrychaee]

I once ordered a skirt from an asian store for a concert to match an idol’s stage outfit…the skirt is a 4XL…im a size 12 and 6ft tall. So yeah never feel badly guys cuz in the end i love the skirt

[@dud9083]

Girl... I live in Korea, am 5'11", an XXL/XXXL in US clothes, and a size 10 shoe. NOTHING fits me here, and the horrible comments I get from sooooo many people here has annihilated my self-esteem. In Korean clothing, if I can find it, I'm almost an 8XL. They don't make women shoes over a size 7.5 and I'll never be able to buy pants here, even if I lose weight, because I'm so tall. I don't even try clothes shopping anymore😭

[@shmwmlam3953]

that is terrible. so how are you getting things to wear. i am also size 10 shoe size. and the fact they don't make it pass 7.5 is crazy. shoe size dot nothing to do with weight.

[@Catchouyu]

I feel so bad for u😭😭

[@athena5172]

The shoe thing is inexcusable but go shopping online and learn your measurements. Also, if being overweight is causing you this much stress why aren’t you taking steps to lose weight? It boggles my mind people just exist like this and do nothing about it.

[@dud9083]

@@athena5172 Your reply shows you have absolutely NO IDEA what you're talking about concerning this topic. It's not about being "fat", it's about the fact that average Western women are considered obese here. Anything above a US size 8/10 in pants is considered plus sized, and god forbid you be tall or large-chested. I am 5'11" and was once told by a doctor here that I should weigh roughly 55 kg to be considered "healthy and beautiful", because Korean ideal is under 50 kg, even though my bloodwork, EKG, chest x-ray, etc all came back as perfect. 55 kg is like 120 lbs and EXTREMELY underweight for my height and frame. The fact that your first thought is immediately to tell someone to lose weight is abhorrent. You don't know my medical history, health struggles, etc., so you responding in such a way says MUCH MORE about your character than it does about my weight.

[@dud9083]

@@shmwmlam3953 For the first 3 years, I hand mended EVERYTHING if it started to wear out. Many banks wont give foreigners bank cards that can be used outside of Korea, so online shopping wasn't an option for me for those 3 years. I finally found a bank that works well with foreigners, so now I can shop online, but options are always limited for my size and height.

[@dessyboon6637]

The long denim skirt with a big slouchy sweater in a French tuck (only the front is tucked in) and some chunky platforms would be so cute. Maybe a little chain accessory if the skirt has belt loops.

[@tzasykes4958]

The long skirt and white tee looks so good honestly like if it was a better fitting white tee I’d say win win win!!!

[@noxaurai]

The fupa pocket I cant 😭 ... its so random but honestly the skirt is cute

[@mm77curly]

As a fellow plus size asian girly, your videos heal my inner child

[@michellep8391]

I just wanna say I love that your donating to something like that. I grew up with 0 coins! A lot of Christmases growing up we didn't open anything! It didn't help I went to a school that had mostly upper middle class and high class students. Their kids were not nice.... so it sucked going to school and heating everyone brag then make fun of you. I hope this new generation grows put of that mentality! It's ok to ask for help! It's on to come from a lower class family! And it's literally ok and should be required to mind your business and not bully others.

[@babypearl]

Not surprised how the sizing is so inconsistent. I’m usually a US size M or L depending if I want a slim fit or relaxed fit. I’m supposed to be a size XL for Asian clothing stores but sometimes it’s a bit too snug or too big!

[@kpopstar9753]

It has to do with average sizes of ppl in the country

[@roxassora2706]

Not even just that, the diet culture in Asia is whack. More shitty than ours.

[@sweetiekancoral]

Those tank tops though 😂 I’m ashamed at how much I laughed at the lack of clinging those tops did! 😭😅

[@skippyjomo32]

I got married in 2003. My husband is Chinese. Ok, so I went to get a traditional red and gold dress from an Asian dress shop. At the time I was 140 lbs. Ok, so the lady said "we have nothing in your size" and she pointed to the "moo moos" that were all Vegas shimmery. Ok, so I looked around and saw the sales clerk. I said "I'm sure SHE gets her Phoenix and Dragon Qui Pao! (spelling). Guess what? They magically found one! Yes, I'm white.

[@oallpanicnodisco1852]

I will forever love your try on videos

[@mikeerei]

I’m Asian and I actually like shopping in Asia or Asian brands bc i’m consistently a XL whereas western brands I would be a medium in one brand and a large in another 🤷‍♀️ but the skort was so funny lol thanks for the laugh Fei 🩷

[@heartears]

I find that asian sizing is more standard. American brands have Vanity Sizing. Some places will label it smaller than it actually is to make the wearer feel better and sell more.

[@sandpiperr]

@@heartears That would be a good thing except for the fact that if you're not a willowy body type, nothing fits you right. Having standardized sizing doesn't you help much if none of it fits!

[@heartears]

@@sandpiperr willowy? Maybe if you're 6ft you'd need a willowy body type to fit in asian sizing. But if you're under 5'5", like the majority of women in east/southeast asia, you can fit in it without being thin.

[@Ariel-lol]

@@heartearswait so since Women in Asia are (usually not all ofc) short, would that mean I could actually find pants that don’t act as socks? 😂 I’m in the us so a lot of pants always drag. Even pajama pants it’s so annoying lol

[@keshnashree2392]

Girl same ! I’m Asian and even tho I’m big here but at least I know I’m an XL everywhere

[@lilith9574]

we have a very similar body type and its weirdly comforting i never feel like this 😭

[@lilith9574]

also you are so beautiful girlll!!!💖

[@HeyILoveThis]

the black jeans look really good on you! def the best thing out of the whole haul

[@nancymcgee4776]

😂 Your not right! Thanks for the laugh Feii! Btw, the tan dress looks really cute so much you can do with that! 👍

[@kobisjeruk]

7:15 This is prime example not to listen to 'influencers' because they have no clue what they're talking about. That jacket did not help the situation. Theres no slimming effect, quite the opposite actually.

[@CookieEspresso]

I'm Small in US, but L in Japanese sizing, prob can do XL, cuz of the chest. My SO, they don't even have size for him, it maxed out and he is a Large here.

[@Amelyn4788]

Asian sizing can definitely be more inclusive by having larger sizes but I don't think the size range is meant to be body shaming. In fact, I'm quite thankful that Asian clothes are made smaller so I can still buy nice clothes. Otherwise, I'll have to shop for most of my clothes in the kids' section.

[@klutzybrewster]

“Chestie besties would be slouching…” 😂 Love it!

[@elenasullivan4522]

I would love if you showed the image of what it looked like on the website as well just to show what it looks like online vs in person and ‘on person’. Good video :))

[@ama2896]

8:19 You know that audition on X factor “mysterious girl”? The outfit is giving that one kid.

[@blueapple5274]

This is my first time seeing someone compare Asian and American clothes, As an asian Its quite shocking finding out the size difference in asia and america. Whenever I go to stores here, I have never seen clothes big enough for plus sizes, they are all tight and for smaller body types.Also the fact, It is really rare to find a plus size person in my country(quite literally), I dont know if its genes or the food but most people are just medium or skinny, I have though seen some plus size people but most of them were adults over the age of 40 or something. Asia is really fatphobic though like if people see a person whos overweight(I MEAN overweight, not FAT), They will start making fun of them no matter who the perwon is(Your child, a stranger, family member etc).

[@Mysta_Nyaaaa]

Can’t Agree More👀what a big difference in sizing btw as Asian I always being judged by my mum about my body shape and she always say “u r fat, lose some weight girl.”but I am not fat, just not thin as other girls🥲🥲(TBH I think BMI is way more important. I calculated then find out 54 kg will be the perfect weight for my height) Others maybe 4x kg but I am 53 kg🥲I know I look bigger than others but don’t judge me like this pls mum🥲I think my body shape is fine( I can still wear XS-S top and M bottom)😩Anyway I’m trying to lose some weight maybe lose 3-5 kg will make me look better😌

[@grimreaper9350]

Overweight is fat. You can even be fat by still being a healthy BMI. Fatties all up in this comment section are getting their bubble popped by reality.

[@palalabu]

it's almost as if... the average of people's sizes are different depending on where they're from. it's mind-boggling to me when foreigners said bc asian size, in general, is small then it's toxic beauty standard. i mean, one size fits all IS toxic (which hello, brandy Melville exists! and that's not from asia). but if the brand has different sizes, and they have no problem with people within their own country, then maybe it is not for you foreigners. it's targeted for the people in that country. even European sizing is smaller than American sizing. explain that. are they also have toxic beauty standard then??? if i buy clothes from china, the sizing is always crazy small for me, a girl from Indonesia. they may not have the size for me or i have to buy XL or bigger. but with brands from my own country, i fit fine with clothes sized s/m or L/XL (depending on my weight). like, that clothes exist for me, because i buy stuff from my own country. that's how different it is even in Asia itself, bc again, brands make clothes for their own people. and i suppose if fei bought clothes from Indonesia, size XL or XXL would fit her, bc our sizing is bigger than the ones from East Asia. i would argue tho, the availability of (cute) clothes with sizes bigger than XL is kinda rare, so it is a problem. however, it's also not as common as in the US perhaps to find a young person in that XXL size. that's why a girl fitting to M/L size is considered quite big already, bc there's not that many people bigger than that.

[@francessadler6878]

The tank armpit gapes are because it was made for people with broader chest (shoulder to shoulder) and that generally goes alongside height. In my experience seeing clothes, its simply because they made it for taller/bigger people (bigger not in reference to body fat but the actual bone structure)

[@babeegurl.essence8526]

You should get a seam ripper because those paddings are an actual sin😭🤚Some of those shirts were so cute😂

[@DumiNihi]

I actually loved the grey tank top,it's the perfect amount of baggy.

[@muciSAD]

It doesn't fit her right, it feels like it's made for men not women.

[@Kishlakstan9000]

Surprisingly to me as an Egyptian German girl who was raised and lives in China, I have never been fat shamed much. Maybe like twice I’ve gotten an ad for weight loss by those girls who hand out flyers in the street, but other than that, not much. I’m 5’6 and 135 pounds. I feel really insecure and fat, but I’ve never gotten told that much. When I hear about Asian beauty standards I sort of feel different about it.. and I order all my clothes off an Asian site, I usually get a small or medium… in USA sizes I’m a 6/small… sometimes things aren’t adding up idk

[@lilasrose5374]

The long denim skirt looks so good 😍

[@TiredBunni]

haven't finished the video but fun lil fact that little opening in the first skirt is seen a quite a few vintage sewing patterns for maternity wear take that as u will lol. But also a skort from one of those types of brands is the worst for me since they are usually way to tight on me so I'm happy it fits u so well! As some one with big tits the absolute hatred i have for clothes coming with bra pads is so much.

[@LegallyBoopy]

Honestly! The long denim skirt is really cute on you, but since you are petite I think you'd like it more with a pair of heels or wedges for that lengthening effect

[@mainiacrt1759]

the extra large in korea is medium in america, but the medium in america is more like a large in my country, this is just so weird wtf

[@Anni-Ka93]

i mean its definitly true that asian clothing has really smal sizing ( because most of their population is smal). america is the exact oposite. all the clothing is sized so big....the skort in the beginning is definitly not a "normal" M at least not in europe....but i guess all countrys/continents have different sizing :'D

[@heyitsfeiii]

Yes absolutely!

[@heavenonhere]

you always be keeping it real, i love it sm

[@taythemay4451]

I always have to choose between my fit bit and bracelets. I never thought of hiding it under my pants leg. That is so cool!

[@johannaeckert8266]

Actually, that gap in the shorts is so that the skirt zipper can open. It is a common design even in American clothing. Not intended to be offensive.

[@mikakilian4830]

This is so real. My dad ordered a suit for him in china. It was a 5xl. It’s waaayyy to small for him. I’m a European L which means a US M and it fits me

[@MsPurji313]

I grew up in Japan and, while yes the base had a BX, those clothes were FRUMPY. I always wanted what my off base friends were wearing (we did a ton of community outreach and I got to know kids my age pretty well) but the sizing would bring me to TEARS. Like, I remember going into a store with three other just teen girls (we were 14 maybe?) and the shopkeeper legit told me I was too fat and should not waste my time. She was not even mean, she was just stating a fact, so I went outside and cried a bit while the other gals shopped. This was the 90s and I still feel it like it was last year, lol.

[@olivia-laurenstanifer4379]

Girl BX/PX clothes back then were soooo frumpy!! But I can honestly say it's changed over the years 😭 finallyyyy

[@stephanie1631]

XL in Asia, M in US and that’s L in Europe lol how different the sizing is around the world….crazy. I’m from Europe and when I was in the States it took me a while to figure out why the clothes I bought in my usual size M where too big on me.

[@kimberleyslauenwhite9004]

Loved the look of the demim corset(?) top but I would want at least tiny straps for myself - too many "wardrobe malfunctions" with strapless tops over the years. Lol! FYI: wearing a strapless top on back of a motorbike - not a good idea. Lol!

[@alexisclairemont8767]

I hate built in bras cause they feel too tight, but those “built in bras” looked horrifying.

[@kimareska]

Guys, please always check the measurement before buying clothing from Asian brands cause the XXL is 104cm in bust 😂 it's funny honestly even us "average Asian girl" mostly buy in size L/XL. I rarely find my friends buy in S or M. If you can fit S size Asian you must be petite tiny tinyyyy which is (in my experience being an observer) only can be achieve by starving or working out regularly.

[@ajCherryBlossoms]

The first 2 skirts look sooo amazing on you

[@MegWerner-rm1to]

I just found u and damn am i happy! Your energy is everything id like to keep you in my pocket for when i need a smile

[@husnaghniya]

First brown top suits you so well😭😭😭😭😭

[@NuTh33]

Im for these vids, and it's good that you're donating to something meaningful to you. Anyone with immigrant parents understands the waiting in line for food/clothes. ❤

[@Finda5]

one time I ordered a sweatshirt from an american website saying it was size S. arriving from china, the tag in the shirt says XL 😂 and it's in fact way too big for me, I can't even wear it as an oversized shirt

[@ece1052]

Wait do you wear your Apple Watch on your ankle hahahah

[@heyitsfeiii]

To count my steps more accurately hehe

[@marydewitt9623]

So if you need flattering, plus sized fashion that fits, you need to order it from the US or other western country and have it shipped to Asia. Noted.

[@JustaRandomguy-vo3lj]

as a plus sized Asian (I wear around XL - 3XL depending on the type of clothing) I'm very surprised to hear that it'd be just an M or L in America lol. I'm quite bottom heavy, so Xl shirts fit me okay (I don't like fitted clothes) but I wear pants up to 4XL because of my hips. it's wild honestly, I'm only 17 but a lot of older people say I have a mom's body because of my hips (not a compliment, if you can't tell)

[@KRLai]

Can confirm - in the UK I'm a size 8 (which is a 6 in the US?) but in China I'm an M-L depending on what I'm buying. Ever since I started working out my thighs and butt have gotten bigger and I had to buy and return a skirt 3x before eventually getting it tailored to fit my M waist while having an L butt. My butt isn't even big, but some Chinese girls really be that small out here...

[@AutumnIsFalling331]

*Offensive* more like *REAL AF*

[@noahlee9690]

i don't know, I think the standard is what they strive for, but most online stores in China know that "real" people are not going to be that skinny. Because I'm a size in US women's(size if I get a shirt because I have a very flat chest), and Chinese size small fits me fine

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

5:20 you'd be lucky for gripping with anything above a C cup sadly, unless you use boning

[@kristinesuh4927]

Bruh. As an Asian, Asia really do be wronging us. Dw gurl, ur a babe. Slay the way only YOU can❤❤❤

[@yasminsouza1197]

girl you lokk so freaking cute in the long denim skirt!!!!!!!!

[@magnoliaflower3310]

There should be a universal sizing. No more size XS to XXL or whatever. Just list the measurements. US can still keep it imperial while the rest of the world can have metric measurements. That's kind of how men's clothes work. At least their pants work like that: length and circumference. I don't understand why women clothing has size S to L and size 2 to 24. Just list the measurements. No more confusion.

[@greentortoise4629]

Love the commentary about the clothing ❤

[@badbunny-tu9kv]

My waist is 78cm and i wear XXL in asian sizing 😂

[@akishaparker7976]

Years ago when I was a size M I couldn’t even get a swimsuit ordered from Asia to go past my knee.

[@briimarie2218]

Youre fucking hilarious 😂😂 i am now hooked

[@codyrrr9097]

Please could you tell me the name of intro/outro song? 🙏

[@Lwavenderr..]

You should wear some pointy heals or boots with a heel in combination with the long denim skirt. (no cowboy boots)

[@YH-rh1pf]

wait the black pants are so slayed on u

[@FemDeku1969]

Yeah I'm a plus size gal and you know what I'm also a cosplayer and I can not for the life of me find cosplays that fit let alone that are in my size

[@halfmoons]

the quality is giving shein

[@sabaahjauhar-rizvi3487]

Plus size Asian clothes are a trip

[@lilliansmith6422]

loveee the tan dress!

[@santana4899]

I just want to coment on how the right clothes can make your body appear different, the short denim skirt made tou look taller and the long denim flares skirt made you look super short. Edit: i want to say im so happy you also hate built in pads, i always take them out, I REFUSE to believe people actual like them.

[@shacooked]

okay whats the brand of the jacket! its tooo cutteeeeeeeeeee

[@BabyRastasaurus]

I live in Panama, I am not plus sized, but the way the skirt is, that's what they always wear here. Shorts as short as possible and with this belly whole. I hate it😅 I prefer my pants give some support down there after 2 babies

[@AuntyStan]

I have given up long ago caring bout size of things, i have every stuff thats a 14 and fits great to a 18 and even a 20 in some tops to fit over the boobs. Thats New Zealand sizing, i find depending on the shop and style it varry s so much. At farmers, kmart and the warehouse, a xl or xxl or 16-18 im anything fits, but then go some where like pagani or glassons, and nothing fits.

[@shazzzabanazz4789]

Get a thread plucker and pluck out stitching of the pads I do it all the time

[@druidriley3163]

That neutral dress, you slayed it. It looks great on you. I want one. No comment on Asian sizing. 🙄

[@heartears]

The sizing in the clothes are there to label the clothes. It's not labeling you.

[@athena5172]

Yes they are actually. Being overweight is a real thing. With actual health consequences. There’s a normal, healthy size that everyone should adhere to. Just the same way being too skinny is unhealthy, being too big is aswell. Asian size clothing are actually pretty reasonable and fit healthy people. Americans are so used to being coddled about their weight that it blows their mind when things are made for healthily sized people.

[@regularpotato]

​@@athena5172 you have zero idea of what a "healthy" size is. If people are not overeating but still having to go on diets to maintain a certain size that is not a "healthy" size. Asian clothing are made very small which is simply a fact.

[@heartears]

@@athena5172 If you're gonna base health on clothes sizing then I, at 157cm and 58kg, am apparently overweight because most of my clothes are XL-XXL in asian sizing and I still wear L in none stretch clothings in western brands. 🙄 You do know that people's proportions are not the same right? There are a lot of different factors in body measurements which transfers to clothing. Muscle mass, body fat distribution, height, etc.

[@athena5172]

@@heartears i go by the medical definition of being overweight. Not Korean clothing size.

[@athena5172]

@@regularpotato Koreans don’t undereat. The models you see probably do. But your average Korean is a normal healthy size. You can be on the thinner side of skinny and be healthy. Their sizing is based off the skinnier side, because it is the average there. Meanwhile us sizing is based off obese people, because it is the average here. I’m below a size 00 and nothing fits me in America. I have to shop online for clothes that fit. Or in the kids section at stores because Americans are so huge they simply don’t make small clothes because they don’t sell. It’s sad

[@shazaza1]

Fei, please would you review Singles Inferno 3? Love your reviews of the show 😂

[@tatum8492]

My stomach is pretty flat and my lower thighs are skinny. My upper thighs are HUGE along with my booty... My hips are 43 along with my butt, right above my hips is 33inches, then it dips to 27, and back up to 34. I wear a DD bra (I'm actually pretty flat so I don't get why I have a big cup size... It's like without a bra there's nothing and with a bra is oh mommy but anyways) I struggle to find clothes that fit... and if they do... they aren't made for my body type. They're either too small on my butt and upper thighs, or are too big on my waist. Here I'll explain in sizes. I wear a size 10-12 in shorts, 8 in dress pants, a size small in scrubs, and for ripped jeans usually a size 10. My problem is.... those don't fit me right at all. They'll fit right in all the wrong places. So instead of me having to wear a 10-12 in shorts I have to size up to SIXTEEN. Then they're too big on the sides of my thighs and like slightly behind my hips along with too big on my waist and stomach. BUT WHAT ELSE AM I SUPPOSED TO DO!?!?!?! It's way better just to size up 5 sizes than to wear what I actually wear and it be uncomfortable in certain spots. And if they do fit me right I look like a box because of how it's built... But if I wear bodycon I'm a size small to medium because of the leeway.. Idk I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm bragging but I'm not even allowed to post in weight loss groups because of my body. I see other girls the same weight as me (190) and even the same height but they look like... 150 pounds more than me. If I post any slightly revealing or myself in bodycon on any weight loss or that type of support group... they get deleted. But I'm the same weight as another girl who's 8 sizes bigger than me? Idk I probably sound super rude but I don't get why other girls can post the same stuff and get hyped up but I cant... I'm sorry this sounds terrible So if that gives you an idea of how my body is built and why I struggle... Yeah. I'm really not trying to brag or body shame. At this point this is me complaining. Girls would die for my body but I hate it myself. It's a blessing but a curse.

[@Jjangbunbun]

I keep waiting for a brand to make something that fits girls like you and yet they keep acting as if they don’t know how women’s bodies are shaped

[@Kelly_Pena]

Girlie, I have the same measurements as you except for the hip size I’m a 39. I run into the same problems when shopping for clothes (plus I am tall) so I understand the struggle. Try looking for brands or lines within brands that cater to smaller waists and big hips. For example, Abercrombie Curve Love, American Eagle Curvy, Fashion Nova, Hollister Curvy, etc. If you can’t afford items for full prize, wait for sales. Don’t try to fit into regular clothes, make sure the clothes fit and are made for you! As for the support group thing, don’t let insecure women dull your shine! Bitter and jealous women will try to pull you down simply because you have the “ideal” body shape, regardless of your size. Additionally, they are incapable of offering true support because they are way too insecure and focused on themselves! When insecure individuals see others that are different from them they tend to single them out. I too have dealt with this. Know that it is not you, it’s them. They need to work on their character and self esteem. Just because someone fits the beauty standard doesn’t mean they themselves don’t have insecurities or deserve to be treated like trash. Learn to love yourself and be able to stand on your own two feet. Don’t let any women or man dull your shine!!! Never!!! The truly balanced and right people will gravitate to you naturally. Remember that those who truly love and support you want to see you be the best version of yourself.

[@stickywiggit]

You probably have a longer torso but thick bone structure. One of my friends has the exact same issues. She looks great in most clothing but ends up going for baggier stuff because it's almost impossible to find things that hug her curves without gaping in weird places. It's funny how everyone has different clothing issues. I can understand why it all used to be custom-made. 😂 For me, I'm built like a barrel. Short thick waist, barrel thighs, barrel chest, barrel shoulders - all bone and muscle. I look like someone put a dress on a thumb. I bought a corset once because I wanted curves and LOL turns out muscle and bone don't squish and it actually ADDED bulk even when laced down. It's a great body, don't get me wrong. I am 5 feet tall and can pick up 80 pound bags of concrete. But in a dress I look like a pug with visible panty lines. I gave up a couple years ago and learned how to sew. Life changing. 10/10 recommend for girlies who can't do off the rack.

[@iamktlyn]

I realized it’s been three urs watch fei when I was 13 omggg I’m 16 now 😭she just gives me so much comfort atp

[@maemae77450]

same :’) and now i’m almost 20… 😭

[@jasmineramirez0407]

Sometimes it feels like America does the same. A Large feels like a medium, or idk if its just me not accepting it. Or maybe I am between a M and L 😂

[@nerdy__3000]

I want those two tank tops I wish you would put the link because those would look good on my body type :(((, if someone finds them let me know??? 7:33

[@Esqm]

I LOVE THE MOCHA COLOR ON YOU 😍 I just had to say it even though the tank was…interesting

[@no_brain7947]

I thrifted some pants and then I looked at the size and they were “Asian XXL” and I am a S or 36

[@taylormeatloaf]

As someone who’s taller than average, it’s also really hard to find pants that are long enough haha 😅

[@hope3290]

Omg yes. Like, I'm not even all that tall for a woman (5'8"/173 cm) and I still struggle to find anything that doesn't sit right at my shins or slides too far down my bottom. I don't know how the 6 foot girls are living.

[@Shanners96]

No stop I love the long denim skirt on you!!

[@waterbender25]

nah girl the standard there isn't "skinny" its literally anorexic levels >__> I'm only 129 lbs and that is already considered fat. (according to my Asian mom)

[@nicolemontcadadupont935]

I come from a wealthy family since generations ago but I donate my clothes every year while my parents and other family members donate up to $10k a year . I am naturally thin and tall and was shocked to see that I was an L in asian size when in western size I am an S and an M also I wasn't able to find a B size cup bra because asian girls are naturally small chested and flat ass .

[@bl-j.k1820]

i have a skort like that, im pretty sure its supose to be there. it makes it easier to move int.

[@lepetitchaton842]

Im an asian. I have a hip and chest size of 36cm and waist of 30 cm. Im 165 cm. In my country im fat as hell. Like obese fat

[@okahmimi]

Ah what country is Asia?

[@lepetitchaton842]

@@okahmimi india

[@MiniBunBun234]

Omg I bought a skirt like that and I was kinda weirded out I’m a medium ok and it had that- it’s just 😅

[@bolng8958]

I feel like those clothes aren’t friendly for anyone beyond a B cup

[@anushkaverma2203]

i am an american size 2. the shirt im wearing in my pfp was bought in india and is a size XXL like girll 😭

[@souleaterfan101]

hii fei

[@chopie7]

I mean.. why would XL size would not be considerate plus size?