"I Use Deer Pronouns!" Reacting To Funny Queer TikToks

[@marcusdib]

Just to clarify: I wasn’t addressing the two girls acting like animals. Their video was used as an example❤

[@Theintelligent_]

Its nice to know you're trans and not just transphobic. I had no idea until I read your username.

[@ultimategameredits]

@@Theintelligent_wait you think Marcus is transphobic?

[@Theintelligent_]

@@ultimategameredits for a second I thought he was cisgender

[@ultimategameredits]

@@Theintelligent_ yes but do you think he is transphobic? im so confused

[@Theintelligent_]

@@ultimategameredits no I dont lol, I thought he was at first.. because I thought he was born a male.

[@klonopinprincess9594]

This behavior is EXACTLY why I don't share that I am autistic with anyone except those I am very close with.

[@michaelpitman8617]

Bro same here. I dont wanna get grouped in with these people either. Especially when they learn I'm trans, severe adhd and bit on the autism spectrum. I quite literally check all the boxes. Some of us are actually sane individuals.

[@sallywhatshername6866]

Except for now lol. I feel bad for autistic people having to deal with all these asshol3s Who self Diagnose themselves as autistic...( i'm assuming the Person in the Video is a self diagnosed case ). its suddenly its cool to be autistic

[@yianna147]

my favorite is when a she/them gets a diagnosis and goes full they/them

[@Laffey99]

It's not that being autistic makes you trans but autistic people are easier to be manipulated into believing that they're trans. People who believe in radical gender ideology will pick on the most vulnerable targets, such as kids, traumatised adults and people who have learning disabilities.

[@yianna147]

@@Laffey99 perfectly put

[@BiohazardBunney]

It's wild that Marcus, an actual transman who knows real gender dysphoria, would look at these creeps making a dangerous weaponized cult out of his community, and feel more pity than hatred. That's a unique thing.

[@NurseSnow2U]

It says everything that needs to be said and it’s why I adore him. He’s one of my favorite humans of all time, a voice of reason in perpetually offended, narcissistically entitled chaos 🥹😂.

[@hildaelmore-cn9pc]

I agree

[@MB-lz5eb]

I wanna call this attitude a "good person take." This is the kind of take good people have.

[@cheeling794]

especially considering the "grab the pitchforks" mob hate mentality he gets throw at him

[@Lietotajvards9]

Thats not unique, Marcus is just with the right attitude. We mustnt hate anyone but be compassionate.

[@imblake0346]

I identify as an Email, my neopronouns are to/from

[@kellymallory9852]

Love it

[@christopherdieudonne]

😂😂😂

[@TanyaRando]

I've heard of you!

[@growingoaks]

@@GenXfrom75i’m BBC, pronounced “Bic” 😂

[@madysonbearry460]

That's such a good one 😂😂😂

[@missanthropy5808]

I'm not into making fun of anyone but I'm not required to join in someone's delusions.

[@V1LL1N]

I will make fun of those who make fun of themselves...everyone has value...as medicine - laughter is good...I dont wanna protect a delusion!

[@Crimeariver1]

But you watch videos Ike this where a woman is in man face making fun of others.

[@RebeccaGogovcev]

​@@Crimeariver1Marcus openly admits he has gender dysphoria and that it's a mental illness.

[@anthonycarlisle6184]

In Canada you are...😔

[@xavierrose8208]

As a man, I don’t get euphoria from being called “he”…that’s fucking normal. Euphoria isn’t an everyday feeling.

[@Puppyizzy]

thank you!

[@kopykat6843]

Which further confirms to me that these people are addicts. There obsession with euphoria and how they talk sound so much like addicts I used to know.

[@CatherineAaBb]

As a woman, I just don't care even when I get "misgendered" That's a normal reaction unless you have some mental problems

[@SincerestSawa]

i think it can happen with DID, but shouldnt be encouraged

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

Seriously!

[@nol0nger_humxn]

i’m a 15 year old girl and i used to think i was a “transmasc nonbinary” just a few months ago. i didn’t actually want any surgeries that would transition me, i just was not comfortable with my femininity and hated my body due to puberty, body dysmorphia, and other mental health problems. i’m lucky i only tried to socially transition because now i know i’m just a lesbian. what marcus is saying shouldn’t even be considered offensive because he is right.

[@cz1754]

So glad to hear you found your way! I’m an 18 year old girl and I used to identify the same way when I was 14. I didn’t actually have dysphoria; I was uncomfortable with my body, with the unwanted sexualisation I received from older men, with the idea of what becoming a woman would actually mean. I got offline, made good friends and hobbies, found great female role models, stopped feeling like I needed to label myself, and stopped comparing myself to others. I’ve always been a tomboy, but that doesn’t mean I’m not a girl. It’s nice to hear of other young women who went through similar things and are doing well now. Props to you!

[@SuZ4242]

Out of curiosity, were either of you exposed to pornography online at an early age? I was talking to some young gals ( I'm in my late 60s) who told me that they saw what men did to women in porn at age 10 and 11, and decided then and there they wouldn't go through it. Porn sex scared and scarred them. 🫣😬

[@kathryn8543]

Hey, I just wanted to let you know that it all does get better as you grow up. People say it but it is really true. It is very hard to figure out who you are at your age and there is so much pressure. You are a very strong person to have seen through all of that nonsense and realise you don't have to be feminine just because you are female, and you don't have to date men because you are female either.

[@g.w.hampton5525]

@@SuZ4242 ooooo good point. excellent point actually.

[@sarasynfox]

When I was about your age, I used to feel so uncomfortable with my body I wished I could be a boy. I didn't understand what trans was back then as it wasn't something openly talked about. For clarity, this was in the 90s. I'm now 42. Accepting myself and loving myself for who I was took time and a lot of healing, but in so many ways, as horrible as the 90s was to people who were part of the community, as well as trauma survivors and women in general, I'm incredibly lucky I went through it then and not today, because I might have felt incredible pressure to transition, when what I really needed was a safe space to become comfortable with my own changing body, my identity, and the trauma in my life. The idea that someone like you could have been pressured into more than socially transitioning breaks my heart because I know for me that would have been wrong, and for so many others it would be too. I'm glad you're taking the time in your life to figure out who you are, whatever that means to you. Stay strong, and don't let anyone else tell you who they think you're supposed to be. You know what's best in the world, and keep on doing whatever you know is best in your own heart.

[@ShikiByakko]

Feeling euphoria from a pronoun sounds like a kink.

[@KingRyanoles]

It validates the vulnerable narcissist's inflated self image and sense of power/superiority

[@intrusive-th0t]

It is for many people. It’s caused by a paraphilia called autogynephilia (AGP). Many MTFs secretly admit to being AGP, you can read their firsthand accounts in the book “Men Trapped in Men’s Bodies”

[@jen2804]

That actually makes so much sense

[@m.b.6232]

I used to be very woke while on tiktok, after i realised that it took too much time from me and after deleting it i feel a lot better mentally and physically and i don't question my sexuality every 2 days. The fact i thought i was a "they/them, xe/zers" a few months ago is so crazy. Turns out im just a gay thats a bit more feminine and I'm more down to earth. Progress!!!!

[@ItsWrittenontheWind]

Amazing! It takes strength to come out of that and see things from your own viewpoint, not from someone else's. Congratulations and good for you!

[@azimuth5620]

so glad you deleted that toxic app ❤‍🩹

[@dystopiaincognito]

I'm so happy to hear you've found yourself and are doing much better. Good on you!

[@NinjaFlibble]

good on you being able to pull yourself out. Hopefully no one from that community bullies you for it. I've heard that leftist cults get nasty when you try to leave.

[@creatrixZBD]

❤

[@JasonD718]

As a transsexual I think it's super offensive to ACTUAL trans people to use anything but she/her & he/him. I met someone recently who actually CORRECTED me when I said "she" saying "actually... my pronouns are it/its"

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

I'm an older woman, I've lived almost 7 decades and have 10 grandchildren. I complimented a creator on her video in her comments. Her viewers jumped all over me saying her pronouns are zee, dee, for, fum, or something just as ridiculous. So I politely said I was sorry and said that I'm an older person and that I prefer to use the proper grammar that I've been taught and that I've used for decades. They called me all kinds of names. It was disgusting how fouled mouthed they were. I finally told them after at least 15 nasty comments directed at me, that I will stick with proper grammar and I'm not going to change because they made up some nonsense and the fact that they expect me to use these nonsensical words is bizarre. I also told them that the world does not revolve around them and everyone else doesn't need to change because they say so! But I was floored, I just couldn't believe it. I asked them also if they make their grandmothers call them zi, di, fo, fum and no one had anything to say after that! Thankfully. I'm sorry but I find this stuff confusing and crazy! People can identify with whatever pleases them, it's none of my business, but don't expect me to join in their delusions. If that was harsh, oh well, they downright bullied me.

[@ShrodingersHat]

​​@@julietteoscaralphanovember2223This, I wasn't asked to use pronouns per sei but he said he identified as a Wolf, and he wanted to call him Wolfie. I literally just went "Sir, I know what wolves are, they're one of my favourite animals and you are not one of them. I absolutely will not treat you like a wolf just because you think you're one" Literal insanity. Whatever mental health they've got going on it's a them problem at the end of the day, and I absolutely will not take part in it.

[@julietteoscaralphanovember2223]

@@ShrodingersHat I agree 100%. As an older person, I thought people were messing with me when I first heard this pronoun thing and identifying with things they're not! I don't mind what they want to think they are, but just don't expect me to play along. I still have a difficult time finding that this is a real problem! I just don't get it.

[@ClaraClaiyer]

Well, I'm a pixie so I will make a new set neopro about that just cuz (this is irony pls don't kill me)

[@azimuth5620]

@@julietteoscaralphanovember2223 welcome to the saner side of crazy 🙂

[@vickilangdon4551]

Thank goodness I’m Australian and we just call everyone ‘mate’ no matter what the gender. If that offends anyone we don’t care it’s part of our identity as Aussies.

[@Violetbunnyfish]

I was raised in New York and we called everyone "guys" regardless of gender/biological sex.

[@Desenter_7]

Maaaaaaaaaaaate

[@creatrixZBD]

Farkin ay. Mate 👍🏼

[@fordshojoe8080]

That offends me uhhh ummm let me think of an arbitrary reason lol.

[@trixmania]

@@Violetbunnyfishsomeone recently called me bro. When i returned the same wording, she got offended… i just laughed and pointed out it was her own words and i am also not her bro

[@annienunyabiz6627]

My friend knew a girl who called herself Kit cause she thought she was part kitsune (fox) demon. My brother's friend married a woman who thought she was part fae. These new "pronouns" aren't new, and they're used by people who have sad, uninteresting lives and feel like losers in their real life, so they create these new identities so they can feel unique and get affirmed by other people who want to feel unique.

[@littlemarshmello7288]

Thank you finally someone who understood it. Its not always about trauma etc, often these people are boring and see this new thing finding out it makes you "special". Even it doesnt and make you look like you belong into a psychiatric ward.

[@linusgustafsson2629]

I feel like all this is just what people go to when piercings, tattoos, rock and emo/goth became lame and outdated.

[@eliza_tu]

As someone who did the exact same thing when I was younger, I totally agree! I got new hobbies, new friends, grew a little older, and realized how stupid my behavior was 🤷‍♀️

[@jamesneese7663]

Unless your friend is Japanese, that's totally cultural appropriation. She might as well claim the be Aztec or African god...oh wait that's a bridge too far .?

[@bretbuckley704]

The thing that gets me the most about these "xeno/neo pronouns" and why I can't take them seriously is NONE of these people can tell you what any of them *actually* mean. All they do is tell you what pronouns they use and tell you how to use it in a sentence. They tell you nothing beyond that. They never give any defining trait for what separates them from each other. They all use the same copy/paste dialogue, and they're all incredibly vague about their reasoning behind using these pronouns and it really begs the question of how can you identify as something you can't coherently define? If they all have interchangeable definitions or their definitions can vary depending on the individual and everyone's definition is valid, how do you make sense out of it? There's so many logistical holes in their ideology, I have a hard time buying that these people actually believe this stuff, or for that matter that it is truly taken seriously on a legitimately scientific and academic level. To which I say to the all the they/them/ze/zem/zir/zyr/e/ey/fae/faer etc nonsense...these are not "genders" nor are they even pronouns, they're just inventing random words that have no definition and demanding society use them because they feel like it gives them a heightened sense of uniqueness...and because they said so. I mean for fuck's sake, who do these people think they are?

[@annieswatches]

As an autistic person, I'm glad you addressed the infantilization of people like me. I'm bisexual and am infuriated by these people appropriating your medical condition because they wanna be quirky and cute. It's the equivalent of faking any other kind of disorder (mental or physical), speaking over the people who actually suffer with it, and calling the people who actually have it ableist and demanding everyone to bow down or else. Sorry for the rant, but I wanted to say this.

[@GhiaceCube]

It's okay to rant. ✌️

[@annieswatches]

@@GhiaceCube Thank you ❤️

[@TheAlphaLegionnaire]

I can’t get past the idea that so many people like this hate phrases like “pregnant woman” or “breastfeeding”. They can’t respect a woman’s gender but they demand respect for being a wolf or an elf? Alright…

[@AbsoluteApril]

as someone that likes crazy colored hair and thinks it's fun to wear elf ears, these nutbars ruin it for us silly cosplay type people just trying to have fun and be cute lol

[@_fjxp_]

Reason why my persona (pfp) has dark red hair instead of neon pink hair, i may have prns in my bio and use tone indicators sometimes but im not as insane as them

[@Dinker27]

I do cosplay, fursuiting and mermaiding. Fucking thank you. I just wanna enjoy the cool shit. 😭

[@gigahorse1475]

I love colored hair… it’s just so pretty!

[@elenalizabeth]

Lol yeah on Halloween I was going through my kids costume box as they wanted me to dress up with them (a dragon and a wizard) so I thought “I’ll go as a fairy, there’s some rainbow fairy wings, a fairy wand and flower crown, a bright pink wig, and I’ve got some funky tie-dye clothes in my closet”. Put it all on and was like “ah fuck I look like I’m one of those rainbow haired tick-tock loonies” 😂🤦‍♀️😑 So I ended up going as a witch instead 🤷‍♀️

[@Dinker27]

@@elenalizabeth You can't even cosplay someone like Rainbow Dash without that association. It fucking sucks, bro. 😭😭

[@yianna147]

NikkieTutorials is a perfect example of as long as you dont make it your entire personality no one cares.

[@diamonda3253]

Seriously. She goes about her day because no one truly cares

[@afroaesthete3701]

I honestly forgot lmfao

[@gethina-come7885]

I quite literally forget that she's a transwoman 💀💀.

[@justafractionoftime1984]

Literally. If you go through her vids, I don’t think that I see any comments about her being trans. People just don’t care if you’re not a creep about it. Basically, it’s a sign that she’s a real transsexual and not a trans trender.

[@yianna147]

@@justafractionoftime1984 “trans trender” 😭

[@a.scoob2]

My neo pronouns are “don’t/care”

[@vxmpkitti]

Ok

[@user-ty7yu1bj9l]

This makes me giggle. 😂

[@WonBrainCell]

But what if you're autistic?! 😂

[@Atheisthoverfish]

As someone who was diagnosed with autism before you were even born, I don't want these idiots speaking for me.

[@m0ssymushr00ms07]

They’re not idiots, and they’re not “speaking for you.” They’re other people who are autistic and also happen to be trans. Just because people in your community are expressing themselves in ways that you don’t like or understand doesn’t mean you have the right to try and push them from your community. You’re not “better” than any other autistic person regardless of your age, gender, religion, sexuality or ANY other factor.

[@CyberMachine]

@@m0ssymushr00ms07 Omg hush

[@melissamurray8307]

I agree.

[@melissamurray8307]

@@m0ssymushr00ms07Calling someone born a he “she,” is different from calling them a “deer,” or “fae.”

[@m0ssymushr00ms07]

@@melissamurray8307 Sure, neopronouns can seem strange, unusual, and hard to adapt to. That doesn’t make them or the people who use them any less valid. The difficulty you may have understanding something doesn’t give you a reason to invalidate it.

[@Uskall]

"I'm an adult, I turn 22 soon" yeah that made me laugh. Sure you're legally an adult but still basically a kid

[@BigHomieSteveTheMetalHead]

Exactly what I said, that only makes it worse lol.

[@m0ssymushr00ms07]

So even though this person IS an adult you think that you’re somehow better and smarter than them strictly based on your age…awesome, totally factual and always 100% correct. /sar

[@emilymann1175]

​@@m0ssymushr00ms07read the comment again, they never said they were better or smarter. I think that putting words in people's mouths that they didn't say is disingenuous.

[@m0ssymushr00ms07]

@@emilymann1175 They didn’t say it but they heavily implied it. If I say that I like pasta with cheddar cheese sauce you’re probably going to assume that I mean I like mac and cheese.

[@miiaring]

I was waiting for 34y not 22 😂😂😂 22 to me is a older teenager

[@adamjones6148]

My younger brother, he just turned 19. He has Asperger’s syndrome (a form of autism). He’s considered high functioning, but it does affect the way he views the world. No- he definitely does not see the world with purple grass XD but actually the opposite. From a very young age, he’s had a very set idea of what men and women are. He never feels that gender is felt differently, and he understands that some men love other men and some women love other women. He even understands that a person can go from male to female or vise versa. But still. He has never struggled to understand gender. My ex-SIL was recently diagnosed with autism (a form that’s higher functioning than my brother), and she’s very heavily on TikTok. She says- she’s autistic and she feels gender different than neurotypical people. It’s TikTok. Not autism.

[@gigahorse1475]

I think it still has to do with autism. Tik Tok just makes it worse. When one has been an outcast your whole life and don’t know why, it’s likely one will think they are of a different gender. It’s worse when autistic but undiagnosed because there’s no explanation. I think a big reason why so many trans people today are biological girls is because autistic girls have been either ignored or misdiagnosed by so many psychiatric professionals. As an autistic person, I struggled with my gender even before I had access to the internet. Years before Tik Tok existed. I didn’t even know what a trans person was.

[@marikroyals7111]

I'm a woman and I have Asperger's and what it left me with is that I don't like tight clothing, find bright colour overwhelming along with strong smells due to sensory issue as a result of being on the spectrum. I'm introverted so I like what's considered more male interests like video games and rpg's, not to mention I'm more fact focused in my way of thinking. And guess what I'm still a girl, might be a tomboy, but still a girl. Like you said, your ex-SIL is suffering from TikTok.

[@adamjones6148]

@@marikroyals7111 exactlyyy! TikTok is a scourge. It makes a mockery of so many mental illnesses and makes autistic people seem like they can’t function as a normal person at all and can’t experience things normally at all whatsoever because if you have autism you’re some mystical creature… 🙄…

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

@@marikroyals7111 introverted =| male interests??? huh?

[@beartechdeck]

Perfectly said! Any pronouns besides he/him or she/her make the person seem like they don’t want to be human!

[@anonymousashole]

@@pearlboyscasette "xe/ze/hir" i swear to god everytime i see pronounces like those my brain plays the oggy and the cockroaches intro song.

[@ThePegasiPony]

​@nnathannisaiahh just curious, why is fae/faer offensive? Is it offensive to people who believe that the fae exist?

[@melissamurray8307]

I agree, even a trans person like Marcus who I would refer to as male is still binary.

[@aqualinebutbetter]

​@@ThePegasiPony I believe so, and it could also be seen as offensive to cultural history.

[@linusgustafsson2629]

@@melissamurray8307Personally I view it as an oxymoron, catch22 kind of thing. Being trans is to believe in gender binary. You are either a man or a woman, and they feel they have the opposite body of what they should have. But by being trans, it means changing your body into something that isn't a man and isn't a woman. And as such in the search for the comfort of binary, they create an exception to it and make gender nonbinary. The irony on top of all of this, is the people that then wants to call themselves nonbinary, which would essentially just mean they are trans, because that is what you are when you aren't a natural man or a natural woman. So nonbinaries are just trans and trans are nonbinaries. And I really wish we one day manage to sort everything out, because it is just a mess.

[@AmeliaAdNauseam]

Sorry but 22 is the new 12… I laughed out loud when that person said “I’m an adult… I’m turning 22 in a couple of weeks”

[@justafractionoftime1984]

As someone who is going to be 31, I actually laughed out loud when she said that. Like, girl. You’re still a child.

[@MissPsih]

As a twenty-four years old I am both offended at this comment (sarcasm) and kind of gloating that at least, I am two years older.

[@cookierumi]

​@@justafractionoftime1984how is a 22 year old still a kid also please don't use the same "you don't have life experience excuse I need an actual answer

[@autumn5360]

@@cookierumi because they're young and I know you said not to say it, but they have less life experience. 22 year olds are still fairly young

[@cookierumi]

@@autumn5360 omg

[@SatansFire]

"Neo pronouns dont affect you" except they do. Because neo's are associated with the trans community, who are associated with the LGBT. And as a lesbian I am automatically looped in with this insanity. The normalization of neo's in the LGBT creates further push against the WHOLE community. Your immaturity just may be the domino that causes me to be stripped of my right to simply exist.

[@Kattydid19]

Outside of a very small minority, the vast majority of Americans (as well as many of the citizens of other countries) have zero desire to wish harm on you, thankfully. There are unfortunately certain countries that would not necessarily be safe to visit, but many of those same countries are also dangerous for various other groups of people to travel to or reside in.

[@vxmpkitti]

Neopronouns literally dont affect you tho. its a pronoun. the same as any other 1. and theres been a push against the community, and it's mainly bc ppl r transphobic alone. have u seen how many ppl make fun of neos? neos alone. almost nobody groups it in with being trans or gay, u just want something 2 complain ab. and so what if some1 wants 2 call themself a kit/kitself, how is that bothering u. at all. how is some1 elses identity causing u harm, if u dont want 2 be associated with it than dont be.

[@intrusive-th0t]

@@vxmpkittithey affect me if I have to worry about being fired for not calling someone bunself or whatever. I’m not doing that.

[@intrusive-th0t]

@@vxmpkittiI’ve gotten literal rape threats from MTFs for being a lesbian and not into dick so no the backlash isn’t just because of “transphobia”

[@vxmpkitti]

@@intrusive-th0t thenn dont work in an environment where they use them? or just suck it up and use their pronoun? i mean really u guys act like its the end of the world if some1 asks u 2 call them something u dont wanna call them. it sounds stupid honestly you all throwing tantrums bc some1 wants 2 use neopronouns

[@theintrovertednerd4849]

I hate that autism is always brought up by these activists, I have autism and do not want to be associated with these people! We are not the same, and they should not go hand in hand, although sadly a lot of the time they do because these people hyper-fixate on harmful activism. Autism is a developmental disability, not an identity or buzzword diagnosis to be used by activists. Thank you Marcus for being a voice of reason for the majority of rational people out there!

[@SnivillusLupin]

What I dislike is that they're using autism as the excuse to have their delusions affirmed. They are aware enough to know they're full of it, so they have to cling to a neurological disorder to try and shut people up. This reminds me of that episode of Loony Tunes where Bugs Bunny meets Dracula and Dracula as a bat puts glasses on and asks "you wouldn't hit a bat with glasses on, would you?" The answer is yes, especially when you spend all that time trying to drink my blood.

[@Lenamxrs6277]

I‘m so sick that people continue to make fun of us autistic people because videos like this always go viral. We have honestly been through so much because we often don’t feel like we’re part of this world, and it hurts. Being autistic doesn’t mean that we want to control other people’s lives. I obviously can’t speak for all of us, but I actually feel embarrassed to tell people that I am autistic and have ADHD as most people connect being neurodivergent with the kind of people that are shown in this video. Being autistic is a very painful experience for me, and it is not something that I want to use to control others. There is obviously something more going on than being autistic in this person‘s life. I just wanted to clarify that as I‘ve been seeing a lot of this content being related to autism. Being autistic is, of course, different for everyone. And I feel bad for saying that I’m angry at these people relating everything to their autism and expecting everyone to act the way they want, but it’s really hurting our "community“. Thank you for clarifying that at the end of the video. Autism is not an aesthetic. Edit: I am NOT speaking for every autistic person here. I know it’s a spectrum and we’re all different.

[@jentapsell1137]

I understand. I feel the same when people refer to the memory of a bad hair cut as their ptsd moment or shout about it in order to excuse their own bad behavior and then it ends up on the net same with depression. When you actually suffer these things it is made harder by people who honestly have no idea how bad it can get but are willing to Use it to draw attention or excuse things. It makes it harder to get help and those conditions to be accepted by others.

[@gigahorse1475]

I think a lot of autistic people have damage from not fitting in anywhere (with males and females) so they make up their own thing with gender. Some of them misdiagnose their problem as gender dysphoria rather than autism. It’s no coincidence that so many girls want to be trans compared to boys… when girls have been historically misdiagnosed and not diagnosed with autism. That being said, most of us autistic people are not like this at all.

[@jworth7203]

What I find beyond aggravating as the mom of a 23 year old with autism is the number of people out there that have decided for themselves that they are autistic. Especially those who are clearly faking it for attention.

[@cz1754]

I definitely understand. It’s like how people who genuinely live with depression, ADHD, OCD, etc don’t get taken seriously because of the loud tik tok mob. It’s like how genuine trans people are made fun of too, and have their lived experiences of gender dysphoria obscured. People will look at neopronouns, xenogenders, self ID people and say “they’re not harming anyone,” but they don’t realise that it actually harms the groups that they claim to be a part of. It reinforces stereotypes and gives people ammo to start making fun of people who actually live with these things

[@mercordia8007]

“You’re wrong! I’m an adult. I’m turning 22 in a couple of weeks.” 😭💀 Okay babe, neither yours, nor the 14 year old brain is done baking yet.

[@cookierumi]

What

[@sj0223]

I am actually autistic and didn't find out about it on tiktok. I found out whenever I was going into college 11 years ago. It's crazy that they try to say that their autistic and that's why they're using weird pronouns that don't. Because I can promise you that most autistic people really care about truth and justice. I actually obsess about it. So the fact that they are blatantly lying about what reality and then claiming that it's because they're autistic is the most offensive s*** I've ever heard in my life. I would rather have somebody call me a slur than that. It makes me so angry that people are using something that I struggle with day in and day out to justify a delusion.

[@marikroyals7111]

Same, and because of it I'm happy I'm not 10 years younger as I would be bald from pulling out my hair from dealing with this BS. It was bad enough having to deal with the start of the race grifters in school getting more popular blaming white people for everything and me correcting them (I'm mixed race myself so I got next to no clapback).

[@a.scoob2]

Why is it our responsibility to give you Euphoria?

[@Buchwaldjc]

I have been gender dysphoric since I was 5 years old. That was 1983. I eventually decided not to transition, but it did land me in a mental hospital three times and one suicide attempt. I spent the past three decades trying to hide it from society. I would have never imagined in my wildest dreams that kids would find it trendy.

[@elizabethfarrowberry7270]

Sorry to hear you've gone through all that. Sending love and best wishes.

[@nickname2935]

May I ask, what made you decide not to transition? Deciding meaning, you seriously considered it, right?

[@CloudyWolf713]

I’m glad you’re still here.

[@MichaelMielDeLaRosa]

Marcus honestly is one of my favorite political KZbinrs. He inspires me so much!

[@Deshwie]

English is not my first language. I can just stop understanding if someone wants me to use weird pronouns. I'm lucky that my native tongue is pretty much gender neutral.

[@ThePegasiPony]

I'm a native English speaker and lemme just say, I don't think most of us understand it either. I sure don't.

[@diamonda3253]

I’ll just say I’m black if I misgender them. Race trumps all so they can’t attack me

[@emilymann1175]

​@@littlecatfeet9064I've done something similar. I said I have learning disabilities, and expecting me to learn these pronouns is abelist.

[@B3llatora]

There are literary precedents for they/them pronouns used as a singular pronoun dating back as early as the 15th century. I don't have an issue with using they/them in every day language when asked. Neo pronouns are new. They are much harder to implement into common language use. I'm not really sure how I feel about them but it's not going to be commonly accepted, nor used, in the near future. If someone demands we make such a drastic change so quickly, that's definitely not going to fly.

[@ThePegasiPony]

And also the fact that they say you're a bad person if you won't figure out neopronouns. Makes me not want to use them even more, just makes me feel resentful of those people.

[@B3llatora]

@@ThePegasiPony I get that feeling. I don't feel resentful, but I do get frustrated when I get constant demands to simply remember which neo pronouns this particular person wants me to use, or how to conjugate them. It's just impractical in every day language, especially for someone that I don't have regular contact with. I do understand the appeal behind a neo pronoun, sort of like a nickname, but using "pumpkin spice" as a pronoun when I'm trying to talk to a colleague about a serious business ordeal is a bit ridiculous.

[@michaeljensen5615]

If I am in the presence of an enby who uses they/them, including tagging them on social media, fine. However, when not in their presence like talking about them on an FB wall I will use the pronouns corresponding with what they born with if I know their birth gender.

[@B3llatora]

@@blondewriter99 Jane Austen is the most common example. She uses the singular "They" in Pride and Prejudice over 70 times.

[@B3llatora]

@@Alexseya I mean they has been used in literature referring to a person without referring to their gender. Therefore, I personally have no qualms implementing it into my everyday life. They has been used as a singular pronoun for hundreds of years, so it only makes sense that a non-binary person who is safe to be so in modern society would use they/them pronouns.

[@LpsKitTeen]

I love how these people spew their bullshit and Marcus is like “No ❤” Love ya Marcus 😂

[@billbombshiggy9254]

5:57 it is not up to me to give anybody euphoria, unless I am having sex with my husband. I get so annoyed at that shit

[@vxmpkitti]

tmi.

[@billbombshiggy9254]

@@vxmpkitti cry more

[@vxmpkitti]

@@billbombshiggy9254 i aint crying, u r

[@sweetlolitaChii]

I can play that game, too. As an autistic woman, I find neopronouns illogical and a passing trend. See how my autism doesn't give my argument any more weight than if I hadn't put that information out there? Exactly.

[@mariettakohler9306]

When she said euphoric it took me aback - how can being called something be euphoric or cause euphoria? I can’t think of a time that I’ve been euphoric lol

[@GoldenXBoots]

Yes! It sounds manic to me, honestly 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@toodlescae]

I felt euphoric once..but I was under anesthesia at the time and it made me a little loopy before they finally used enough to knock me out. They never listen to me that I've been on increasing dosages of pain killers since I was 12 because of my scoliosis. They always went by my height and at the time I only weighed 105 lbs. They dosed me for a child then had to keep giving me more. Needless to say I was feeling and saying all kinds of weird stuff. 😂

[@fidgetthecrazy]

It sounds like a high to be honest. ….. I mean…. They take drugs to look the way they do…..

[@reynamc8880]

You can call me any kind of “phobic” you want but I’m never going to do this

[@scotthix2297]

Way back when these posts were new and few, I laughed because they were kidding…right? I don’t laugh at them now. They’re not healthy and even dangerous. So now I’ve become Stupidphobic because I find this level of stupidity absolutely scary.

[@Crisjola]

I _really_ hate to break it to you, but this didn’t originate on TikTok. It just basically turned into a wild fire. This mostly started on Tumblr, with both “tucutes” (trans for the “aesthetic”) and the absolute destruction of the Otherkin community (which has existed on the fringes of neo-paganism and other such things, since the 1960s and is not new and no one used “elf/elfself” to explain their belief in a past life, and usually never brought it up outside of zines/news letters until the original forums started up with the internet’s founding) into Tumblrkin. No rational Therian/Otherkin I’ve _ever_ met irl or online has _actually_ thought they _currently_ were anything other than human. There was proper policing of the community. Then it hit Tumblr and bun/bunself, and like the person in the video deer/deerself, or fae/faeself began popping up. And it all went down hill very quickly with that policing being called bigotry and transphobia.

[@scotthix2297]

@@Crisjola…?!?💋

[@annabellthedoll9953]

​@Crisjola My exact thought. Excuse me?

[@Nonayabizness360]

Love you Marcus for telling the truth. I want to identify as a fashion model that never gets old 😂. ❤

[@Kitkat613]

Stop expecting everyone else to try to guess your names and labels.

[@vxmpkitti]

nobody has 2 guess anything lol, they'll tell u how they identify, and whys it such an issue 2 u anyways lmao.

[@rosebeautyxo6042]

I identify as an ambulance. My pronouns are wee/woo

[@annamossity8879]

😂

[@carmendavila272]

I went to apply for a state job today and under the Admins name and email she had listed her Pronouns: she/her/hers🙄 on the job posting! I also went to our library and there is a trans woman who works there but she was wearing a short strappy dress revealing a very masculine (muscular) body, had very oily hair/skin, no make-up, and had a full beard growing in. She was also very loud and obnoxious to everyone. Like, at least try a little bit to appear feminine or even professional. I have a cousin who is a trans man but you would never know because he appears completely male. My daughter was completely shocked when I told her he was transgender.

[@madamefluffy4788]

It always makes me nervous when I hear self proclaimed trans people admitting they're autistic; because I always find myself wondering if they came to the conclusion that they were trans based on their own research/diagnosed by a trained professional/suffer from dysphoria or if someone convinced them that they were trans based on personality traits/personal preferences.

[@vxmpkitti]

maybe just leave ppl alone and let them identify how they want? it's their life,, not urs. it isn't ur job 2 wonder if an autistic person is rly trans, it has nothing 2 do w u.

[@madamefluffy4788]

@@vxmpkitti I had come across a few autistic trans KZbinrs over the years who admitted they never considered themselves to be trans until one of their friends convinced them that they were. So, sorry if my concern that people may be taking advantage of/are manipulating the mentally disabled offends you.

[@vxmpkitti]

@@madamefluffy4788 Ok but its not good 2 assume all autistic ppl aren't trans just bc theyre autistic, my bsf is autistic and she's trans, and its different 4 everybody 2. just bc some1s autistic and trans doesn't mean they were pressured in2 it so dont assume.

[@vxmpkitti]

@@FlegaminaClassic telling trans ppl they might not be the way they are bc they were probably just pressured into it and dont actually know how they feel ab their own life ab their own body/mind js c their autistic ? yea definitely sounds like caring

[@amandawilkinsontarot7096]

I henceforth want to be known as the "Beautiful Island of Iceland". (Places are nouns too.) Thank you. 😅😅😅

[@toddboughn5168]

Cool! I have dibs on Lichtenstein!

[@amandawilkinsontarot7096]

@@toddboughn5168 👍👍 👍

[@LynMa80]

The first one sum it up "I find them really cool". She only wanna use these pronouns not because she identifies as them, but because they are cool, because people will look at her, and talk about her. It's the same thing as a children smoking a cigarette in front of the school, thinking he looks adult, while he just looks like a moron pretending to be cool.

[@daimenjcarlaw]

As a child I was blessed to have loving parents that gave me creative freedom to explore creativity, whether it was painting, dancing, singing and dressing up. Playing with Barbie dolls, playing with trucks. I was never chastised when wearing dresses or assuming a female character because it was role-play. I even remember my Mother and Sister commenting on how, when I put stockings on, I had the perfect woman’s legs. Based on my looks as a child I was nicknamed Shirley Temple and my appearance was often mistaken for that of a girl. I remember being horrified when being asked directly if I was a boy or girl. I was a boy that identified as a boy that was MISTAKEN for being a girl. I don’t remember being angry at anyone for making a mistake about how I appeared instead, I started observing men, how they behaved spoke and started to imitate mannerisms, everything, to appear and act more masculine. This was my choice. My Dad never told me ‘You’ve got to start acting like a man.’ Eventually that became second nature as I grew into an adult and all my feminine features chiselled out. So even if you are born male and identify as a male, you can still be mistaken for something else. It’s no one’s fault. I see gender as more the masculine and feminine energies that everyone has inside them to play different roles in life. As a performer I can play a visually masculine or feminine role. As a person I can play the nurturing feminine role of a Mother figure to an upset child without having to put on a dress. As a person I can utilise my masculine energy to protect or stand up for someone without having to appear as a male. My dance teacher said I have a nice blend of masculine and feminine energies when I dance. She wasn’t saying I was a man and a woman. At the end of the day, I am anatomically a man with a blend of masculine and feminine energies that are utilised to play roles in life whose essential function for the most part isn’t visual at all. When it IS visual I’m performing or acting. I can understand how a thought can twist. I could have, after being mistaken for a girl many times, started to think I wasn’t born the right sex but I believe because of my healthy loving upbringing I became comfortable in my own skin because I was loved and accepted as I was from word go. Keep in mind this was before the internet and the WOKE movement. I can’t imagine growing up in this time and where I’d be now if I had woke parents influenced by this movement and started putting ideas in my head I could transition before I grew up. It wouldn’t be a happy place I guarantee.

[@amadapedro9147]

Ah the sage wisdom of a 22 year old 😂

[@skeNGk]

Xir is gonna be cringing about this when xim reaches the ripe old age of 24

[@amadapedro9147]

@@skeNGk 😂😆

[@jennifersenenko6755]

LOL! My son is a nine-year-old nonverbal child on the spectrum and even he knows the grass is green and not purple! The nerve of some people! Marcus, keep up the great work!

[@branypoo]

6:31 You made a really great point, Marcus. You understood that creating that new (he/him) space for yourself, and helping everyone else around you adjust, was going to require determination, patience, and time. Most young people these days don’t have time for any of that. Their world is instant. Instant Internet. Instant groceries. Instant communication with the outside world. Instant everything. Perhaps that way of thinking, along with social media making everyone their own main character, has created this odd, instant, and self-centered attitude. I’ve suffered from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) since I was a child. I am now 33. I’ve found that, you get way more people standing alongside you if you just take the time to help them understand. No, you don’t “owe” anyone an explanation, but having grace, and attempting to carve your way, is much more useful than being angry and angsty, and typing scathing status updates, or making ragey posts on TikTok.

[@ForeverMe543]

If you're a functioning autistic person you're not really disabled. This is just trying to use more victim cards. Not everything is ableist. I have a wheelchair. I don't bring it up in a random argument. I'm also neurodivergent, and these people prey on people who have these issues.

[@Jane-ow7sr]

Bro exactly! If you're a fully functional person then your autism doesn't mean shit. People say I'm autistic (I'm not diagnosed and I refuse to believe I'm anything close to autistic) and while I do have sensory issues it doesn't disrupt my day to day life. I just see too many people using autism as an excuse to be lazy victims, of course everyone's brain is going to be different and have issues, doesn't mean you're autistic. I truly believe we should limit the word to the severely autistic such as non verbal, can't walk etc.

[@ForeverMe543]

@@Jane-ow7sr thank you! My best friend makes 6 figures and is functionally autistic. He's incredibly smart but not always street smart. He actually takes me out all the time cause I CANT WORK. I have no money except SSI.

[@ForeverMe543]

@@Jane-ow7sr "limit the word to severely autistic" this comment is so important thank you

[@cobraaaaaaaaaaaa]

The second video is supposed to be something like Pupgender or something. The Xenogender rabbit hole is deep and crazy.

[@UmamaGoblin]

If someone doesn't understand that respect is earned, then they are someone who doesn't deserve respect 🥃 And someone who demands acceptance is someone who shouldn't be pandered to 🥃

[@scotthix2297]

I think you’re right, but this really isn’t about respect … it’s about control.

[@Kleines97]

I have a basic respect for other people in me. I don't know maybe I have a another definition because in my country it has two. Respect = for something awesome and high someone achieved respect = being a decent human being and being neutral or nice First one I get it. That is earned... but for me the second one is basic respect. Like I don't walk around shitting and screaming at people because I want to. It's being neutral or nice until someone's disrespecting you. Everyone saying respect the elder, but what if that elder did nothing and just existed. Is it ok to disrespect them? I respect people to a neutral point until someone shits at me or is a dick or hurting other people. That's basic respect for me. It actually has 3 definitions. The third one Respect = being careful because something seems off Edit: Ok I probally get what you mean. It's that strangers want more from you than basic respect and demand that.

[@annabellthedoll9953]

That's brilliant, I'm stealing it.

[@UmamaGoblin]

@annabellthedoll9953 you can't steal facts, it's free for everyone! 🥃🥃

[@UmamaGoblin]

@Kleines97 for me, lowercase respect is just human decency 🥃🥃

[@Kitsunetim]

To be honest, I don't think this whole thing will last. I give it 5 years top before it all fades away and we all have a laugh. Not in a mean spirited way, but at how silly we all were.

[@suidelikeson21]

I'd rather not wait 5 years. Imagine the damage the movement will do in that time? Countless minors poisoned with hormones, minors sterilised and mutilated. It's terrifying. The sooner this craze stops, the better. A whole generation is being gaslighted and sterilised. It should frighten us all!

[@Kitsunetim]

@@suidelikeson21 no doubt about, I hope goes away a lot sooner. It's why I said tops. But hopefully less than a year truly and I agree with you.

[@TheHollowBlade]

@@suidelikeson21just like smoking, we need extreme consequences for the masses to realize and stop being delusional. It took like a decade for most smokers to accept that smoking was super dangerous. People had to die tons and tons had to die for families to realize oh shit its true, smoking is hella bad… maybe we should stop. We will sadly have to see tons of super depressing heart breaking stories of people who got dragged into this fad and now fucked up their bodies for life. My issue here is that some people are indeed trans and are indeed not feeling like their gender but there is no way that it seems like 11 year olds are picking new pronouns if the teachers are not brining this trend into the classroom.. i also believe that these kids are changing their pronouns and saying they are trans because they see other kids with pronouns or who claim to be trans and getting all the attention, kids are growing up dreaming thirsty to become youtube famous, they learn to be attention whores so when they see these kids get attention or be treated special they also want that so they come up with pronouns or start to say they are trans for the attention. The sad part will be the kids who dont believe this who take it to the extreme just because they get tons of attention.

[@loati94]

This trend will be studied in the future and will be seen as horrific as lobotomy was.

[@homesteadgamer1257]

Well said as always, Marcus. Their time on TikTok will never cure the true underlying problems like childhood trauma and hiding behind narcissistic behaviors and acting like autism is the reason they are "non-binary." I have an autistic teenager, and even though she's high-functioning, that "deer/deerself" lady is way more cognitive and mentally advanced. Most of the people on TikTok who say they're autistic don't have a damn clue what it means, and that it's not a disorder but a natural response to the societal expectation of instant response. And it is NOT something to use as a crutch when people don't play into their "neopronoun" nonsense.

[@-12Sided]

English is complicated enough 💀

[@Mar_The_Star]

You are just so damn handsome!!

[@silviaconsonni586]

I'm autistic. I'm not part of any "autistic community" and I know that what may offend me is not going to offend "the autistic community". I'm a woman. Full stop. I agree with you, Marc, when you use the desert island example.

[@vxmpkitti]

Amazing, everyone is different. And u aren't special bc u identify as cis, many ppl do. Congratulations.

[@silviaconsonni586]

@@vxmpkitti why is there a fear of offending "the autistic community"? I really fear it's a fear created by everyone being chronically online.

[@vxmpkitti]

@@silviaconsonni586 I dont get what u mean, and im p sure nobody's afraid of offending the autistic community. and the fact that ur making it seem ur "not like other ppl with autism" makes u seem like a pick me

[@jadengrace_]

@@vxmpkittiyou notice how people are trying to have genuine dialogue and you’re being insolent?

[@vxmpkitti]

@@jadengrace_ "genuine dialogue"💀 using bigger words isn't making u sound smarter lol. and i think it's "insolent" that u treat neopronouns and the trans community like its a disease.

[@raw6460]

I wonder what their renters agreement say about having animals in the house 👀

[@wolfstyle69]

I love how these crazy people have to keep making up new stuff to feel special

[@m0ssymushr00ms07]

I love how these mean people have to keep commenting rude things to feel special.

[@WhoIsJaiK]

The only reason I would use “them” for a singular person is if I don’t know their gender. I’ll use some examples. 1) “(gender neutral name)? Nah I don’t know *them* .” 2) “This new teacher is supposed to be cool so *they* better be fun” 3) confused people (unless they’re intersex) like the person in the first video But those are just examples

[@kimberly_happiness]

You're very insightful for your age and I don't mean that to be a disrespectful comment. I think you are an inspiration to the younger generation ❤

[@astridrobinson1547]

I'm autistic and jyst wanna say, thank you for sticking up for us! I don't wanna be lumped in with these nutters! Love you man!❤

[@GIJane-nr2xm]

Being Gay and Autistic are things I never thought would become fads lol.

[@virginiaraine2207]

This is my thing : I follow amazing creators who dress up and go to fun things like the fae ball In nyc and dress as fairies and fun things , never once saw one who was claiming neo pronouns. It’s okay to cosplay , dress up etc but it doesn’t have to be this extra layer . Can just be like a fun escape , make a cool character online in a game and enjoy that , but we live in real life

[@ladywise9169]

In my opinion, we should not make fun or else about teenagers who claim to be trans. We were all dumb at that age. I wished i was a boy too when i was 14 and i think this is still the case for most of wannabe transmen. They WISH but they don't FEEL. Life as a woman is tough and you can cleary experience it when you're 14. Aaaannnd you can be masculine and still be a woman!

[@JenniferMcMahonhawaii78]

NO, you cannot identify as a Werewolf 😂🤣😅

[@khuzla]

As a 22 year old you are basically still a child but with adult responsibilities 😂 and I say that as a 24 year old.

[@adelepattonxxx]

I work. I have had some mental health issues and trauma. This is becoming annoying!! Thanks Marcus for your content and insights. People actually have issues and this is upsetting to everyone!

[@michaelpitman8617]

I just wanna say I'm watching this with my cat and she reacted at the howling 😭

[@willbrashear]

Marcus always keeps it professional even with the oddest looking people on tik-toks and etc. Just growing older doesn't mean that you are an adult for the 22 year old lady who likes neo pronouns.

[@emilesballa7558]

Great vid as always! And also, I really love the way you pronounce "majority", so damn cute!! Keep up the good work! 💖

[@Emilaria]

Have you ever made a video about your whole transition process? Talking about everything from figuring out what trans was, how you told family, the medical aspects, etc? I think it'd be really interesting.

[@bignasty4874]

22 might be legally adult, but that was put in place as a legal 'kick out of your house by" date. I'm under the impression that our brains aren't even fully developed by around 25. Trust me when i say i take a double dose of cringe whenever i think about myself at that age. I mean i actively have to resist involuntary face contortions when i dwell on how effed up many of the ideas i believed then.

[@Revert2017]

Thank you, once again, for being a voice of reason.

[@janemacdonald3732]

I've taken to calling complete strangers who wear alternative dress, hair, and make-up, "Darling" with what I hope is my best smile. What bugs me is why suddenly do people what to disown their original identity? I can understand your reason and respect you for making it so easy to understand. But it baffles me why people with neopronouns get so mad yet don't explain

[@vxmpkitti]

what kind of explanation do u want? that ppl dont want 2 use he/her or them? that they would rather use something they feel more comfortable with? why is it such an issue 2 u anyways, what is me identifying with whatever pronouns i want directly affecting you?

[@TruthSeeker413_]

“You must think it’s 14 year old, I’m 22” Doesn’t that make you the same generation?? 😅

[@lsdestroyer8624]

Spot on defense of autistic people. As someone with Asperger's, I greatly appreciate your awareness and advocacy, and not using us as a monolith or victim group to further a self serving cause. These people sicken me when they try to use autism to justify their BS. All they want is victim status and attention, and so many do despicable things to get it.

[@SusieQue-pn3ty]

OMG! That crazy woman howling just freaked the crap out of my kitty. He won't stop staring at the window now.

[@bendrix1932]

It’s nice to sit here and take a sanity break. Thank you for your content.

[@darcyh8265]

"Of course you're from the south". LMAO, I am glad I wasn't drinking anything when I heard that. 😂

[@penny4279]

The funniest thing ever is when they said they were an adult = 22 years old I DIIIIEEEEEEED You think 22 is mature? ffffin lol

[@elladala3593]

heck i created my alter ego who is a half siren/half human and has lore deeply rooted in my nationality and culture. but it does NOT mean i want to be her or identify as such. I mean i want to have personality like i gave to my alter ego, but i dont want to be a god damn fish lol.

[@stacyhart8312]

I want to know when autism became trendy. I have a 27 yr old high functioning, actually diagnosed, autistic son who's not into tik tok at all, and a 22 yr old daughter who is online at all times who swears she is and wants nothing more than to be autistic!

[@elishh8173]

Greetings from Sweden to a fellow Scandinavian man!

[@meliemoon6372]

Thank you for speaking sense Marcus! It’s so refreshing to hear these days 🩷🩷

[@amadapedro9147]

Sounds like the secret language you made up in elementary school with your best friend and then you realized it was annoying and you stopped

[@thebloodybaron7]

I’m an adult, I’m turning 22 in a couple weeks 😂😂😂😂

[@Laffey99]

Marcus, this may have been suggested before and it's very controversial, but can you do a video on Chris-chan please? There are still people who use female pronouns for him and still consider him a trans person. He's a great danger to others and it would be great if more people knew about it.

[@tinygypsy3707]

How is Chris is a danger to others? Sorry I don’t know much about him, I remember hearing he was horribly manipulated by a psychopath

[@Eusong]

​@@tinygypsy3707He r*ped his mother and was sent to prison for a while. He's out now.

[@beansprout8425]

@@tinygypsy3707he “slept with” his mother for starters… to give a bit of insight into his character

[@flynnhtt]

@@tinygypsy3707 he had sex with his mentally disabled mother, went to prison and transitioned so he could "get with" lesbian women. The creature shouldnt have been allowed out of prison.

[@eeeeks]

@@beansprout8425the ‘sex’ Chris Chan had with his mother wasn’t consensual and he went to prison because of it.

[@vib.9027]

I appreciate how Marcus defends autistic people against the onslaught of gender ideologues who keep using autism as a shield against criticism for things that are stupid and objectively incorrect. I’m autistic and like Marcus said, I don’t see the sexes differently or in an unrealistic way… I may have a complicated relationship with my gender under the surface, because I am a gay man who has some very feminine qualities but also some masculine qualities and sometimes they can be challenging to reconcile but I know what I am and I don’t have an identity that deviates from my biological sex and in spite of the nuances in regards to mannerisms and inner dialogue, I still view sex and gender as binary. I understand people who feel gender neutral or people who are pre-transition who prefer gender neutral pronouns because they do not identify with their natal sex and do not feel comfortable using the pronouns they actually identify with because they do not present as such, but I draw a hard line at “they/them” because I can see reasons why someone may not want to use gendered pronouns, but this neo-pronoun and people parading straight-up nouns as “pronouns” craze has to go, it has literally nothing to do with gender, neutral or binary.

[@untype3992]

Before, the capricious were silent. Now they have wokism to control others...💀

[@feministadentata4041]

I work in education (secondary school) and with these trends my job has become a minefield. It's easiest just to keep your head down and blindly affirm. If you wanna keep your job, that is.

[@satansunderboob2143]

I have family who take care of special needs adults. A lot of the autistic clients are now not allowed on the internet because they all came out as different kinds of trans all at once. They all just want to be different people and a community, so they all joined in on being trans.

[@trixmania]

Too me, considering what austism is, they have been easily misled. They dont fully understand the social side of all this. Its abuse to do this to them. I see someone say they autistic and trans, i raise eyebrow cos i know the system can convince them of it.

[@gigahorse1475]

Many autistic people feel like they are a different gender because they don’t fit in anywhere, with males or females. It’s not that they want to be different. They are different. They want community and an explanation.

[@dmhq-administration]

I'm female, middle age, straight, SCHIZOPHRENIC, and I NEVER viewed Myself as "human", simply, a being that exists! 🤔 I like being biologically female and I love being a she/her! 🥰🤗💖 FOR REAL NATURAL WOMEN EVERYWHERE! ✊🏻

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

Neo pronouns. The next segment of the slippery slope. No. I will never use neo pronouns

[@darkdg4106]

The thing I never understood, the phrase, "I use _____ pronouns", when what it is that people who use this statement are actually saying is "you need to use these pronouns when referring to me".

[@elmalee4262]

If people want to be called "it/its" or whatever these days, I'm just gonna refer to them like objects, too. I am absolutely cool with feminine men or masculine women and androgyny (I'm bisexual myself), but refusing to be either man or woman just makes them an object in my mind. Like the chair I'm sitting on.

[@intrusive-th0t]

That’s probably their fetish unfortunately

[@lizzkardaras]

I actually have autism and I seriously thank you for calling this out, you are correct it is offensive. I also have seen very clear attempts of people faking disorders like DID (so rare and doesn’t manifest in kids to begin with) and autism acting ridiculous and saying just as you had explained, apparently it’s “quirky”to act as someone with a disability or act confused and they don’t see how absolutely ridiculous and offensive it is and for these pronoun people to try and assert themselves into the trans community and others trying to fake disorders to be trendy. It’s a shame. You make the world a little less stupid every video, I’m a huge fan.

[@reneepierce569]

You are such a beautiful human! ❤ But also, I don’t make fun of people, no matter how weird they are! What disgusts me, is that I believe some of these people are yanking our chains! How in the world are we supposed to remember all of these made-up pronouns? The example the first person gave made my brain hurt! So let’s say I’m meeting a lot of trans or non-binary people. Remembering their names would be hard enough, but to add ridiculous terms as well is begging to be “misgendered” or called the wrong neo-pronouns! They’re making it harder for people to respect them. If I only knew one of these people it would be easy to use whatever pronouns they want, but when they’re going to insist that even strangers have to magically know everyone’s weird neo-pronouns, that’s wear I draw the line! 🥴

[@linusgustafsson2629]

You aren't supposed to remember them. The point is that it gives them a power position so they can tell you that you made a mistake and harmed them, and as such you should take responsibility and make sure to be extra nice to them. It's an abusive system where they are trying to make others feel bad, because they feel bad inside. And making others suffer will in theory make them feel better.

[@reneepierce569]

@@linusgustafsson2629 thanks for that explanation. No matter what their reasoning is, it’s ridiculous and I’m not playing that game! I actually saw a video yesterday where a fully bearded MAN 🧔‍♂️ wearing booty shorts and a woman’s tank top was caught exiting the Female restroom! A concerned father, who’s 11 year old daughter was in that same restroom, approached him and really let him have it! 👏 He said “my little girl is in there! I don’t want a grown man alone in a restroom with my daughter!” The creep then replied “I’m just as much of a female as she is!” 🧌 This bs has got to stop!

[@vxmpkitti]

?? ur statement, along with anybody else's, is confusing. How can it be "remembering their names would be hard enough!!1!!" is it simply bc they are trans or nonbinary? bc u can remember some1 elses name if they are not trans or nonbinary? that doesn't make sense. its a name. "how am i supposed 2 remember pronouns!?1?!?" It's simple. They tell u what their pronouns are, and u have some decency and use them. As for the other reply, i promise u it is definitely not an "abusive system" nor a "power position" its a fcking identity. if ur that worried ab neo users than dont interact with them, and live your life. it isn't that hard, quit fussing over other people's identities, it's pathetic. if someone's identity hurts uenough 2 say it's an "abusive system", then ur obviously the 1 with a problem.

[@gimiwanmemengwaa]

people like this always say they are autistic for an explanation like we’re stupid, and I know 99.99% of these people aren’t actually autistic, they are faking for attention and making us look bad 😢

[@gigahorse1475]

Honestly I believe the vast majority are autistic. People who act like them have gone through a lot to make them the way they are.

[@Yojimbo16]

I remember when someone accused me of being a bigot and asked why I couldn't accept trans people for who they are. I answered that I accepted them as my brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ and their response? "What about Non-Binary People? Why couldn't you say siblings instead?" That's when I realized there was no hope in trying to reason with these people.

[@linusgustafsson2629]

What about non-people people? That person seemed very bigoted.

[@vxmpkitti]

i dont believe in christ