I used to mother my husband and treat him like a man baby then I had a wake up call | LNN

Have you tried mothering your man?
Are you mothering your man?
Please stop!!
Mary Munene is walking us through the roots of trying to mother a man, her experience, why you should stop and how you can create room for him to lead and live his purpose without constantly making him feel like a child
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[@LynnNgugi]

Good morning team LNN, What do you agree or disagree with regarding our conversation today with Mary? Please leave us your feedback right here. Engage with her via her social handles; Facebook: marymunene Instagram: marymunene To support our work, Mpesa [phone] To contact our incredible partners; Kings Developers: [phone] or email [e-mail] and their website at www.kingsdevelopers.com TapTap send: Download their app on either PlayStore or App Store and use the code LYNN to get $20/£15/€15 and AED 25 bonus on your first transaction where the amount is $50/£50/€50/AED 40 or more! To share your story with us, send an email to [e-mail] or [e-mail] for consideration

[@Elizabeth-po5ne]

Watching from the Republic of Ireland just want to say you are gorgeous. Thank you for all you are doing

[@birungijackline1088]

This woman is amazing ❤❤❤❤l was happy to see her again🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@beryl138]

Hello Lynn..🎉 Great podcast even though I wish I understood a bit of your native language so I don't miss out on alot😢😅❤ God bless you

[@LolaBugzy85]

Your husband is not your child. He is the leader and priest of your home. It is even disgusting to say your husband is your child. He has his mother for that same with you.

[@chinwenzimako7771]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@vivr837]

I hate that word ati your man is your first born. That has messed up so many marriages!! Thanks for putting it out here.

[@LolaBugzy85]

Yes it is. It practically means the woman is sleeping with his child. Which is disgusting asf..

[@judwmbiyu]

Same here or calling your hubby baba 😆

[@catherine12323]

I agree with you. I also hate it.

[@sarahmaweu5]

Oh how I agree with this statement,I hate it

[@Priscillangaa182]

This is so educative to us who are not yet married,Thank you Lynn for this and more grace to this Network ❤❤

[@MikaelW254]

Very strong parting words...cheer him on even if he's not going at the speed you want, as long as he's on track as a leader.

[@gloriajadeya1626]

I VOTE FOR THIS LADY TO BE PART OF LNN CREW 🎉🎉 Juu wee she talks real staff😅😅Oohh how I relate ❤❤

[@agnesmbula5261]

I too🎉

[@mimap275]

I agree the fact that she has a godly female perspective, it's really great 👍🏽

[@TinahNyika]

😂😂😂😂

[@faithrehema4767]

I just love her too😂😂😂😂😂 she's really real and very honest 😂😂

[@NsubugaLatifah]

I also don’t believe in saying that “a man is your first born “ a man should just be let to do his purpose as a husband and as a leader of the family not as a baby 🍼 man 👨

[@bellaolum9768]

It's absolute nonsense btw, it has never even crossed my mind!😅😅😅

[@moraakelly1191]

her way of reasoning her way of explaining things and her understanding this is evident that she is a blessing to her husband

[@dianbedans8591]

What a word! This is so powerful. I am also a changed woman. I am now more of an encourager and a very positive woman towards him and this has brought so much change and growth in our marriage and union and covenant.

[@glslatifahnsubuga51]

The main point is that as women/wives we should learn to let our men/husbands to be our leaders in marriage and incase of anything we should also care about how we talk to them because most of the times the troubles in marriage come from the way how we talk to our men

[@GabrielPrisneac]

This comment won't have many likes or given attention but it's💯 true

[@teresiahwachira1099]

And the way u talk to them depends how they behave u have to tell them everything even on planning about the family and u have given that opportunity for long and it's not working and u see the direction he is taking u is not right I think we need to step up for the safety of the family

[@GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001]

Hi Lynn, can you please bring someone to talk about children who have been nurturing/parented their siblings and being there for their parents too. Then they get tired and worn out even to think of marriage. Feeling like it is not important to be in it anymore, maybe fatigue and loosing oneself into responsibility of our parents' families. And the issues that come for them in marriage that are or not right? I am in this category.

[@joycewangui9780]

Lyn, i have never been a principal to my husband but true mwrnye kuamua kukudharau ana kudharau tu. Just thank God if your husband recognises and learn through your humility.

[@rehemap.g3035]

Tuned in from Kiserian. Hello team Lynn, you are a very strong pillar in the society we are living in. Your selection is amazing 👍🏾🙏🏾

[@HellenWabore]

I like when the lady learnt her mistakes and corrected that.

[@catherine12323]

I agree with you. I have always hated that saying that your husband is your first born. This husband is even older . How can he be my first born? Thank you.

[@nicoleshiundu9430]

Another group of individuals who struggle with control are first-borns. Mary you're a blessing. Lynn Thank you for such a platform

[@MikaelW254]

100% right, it goes down to how you talk to your man & also your woman. Kind words & rephrasing a sentence politely when you are angry with him/her changes everything. Its a 2 way traffic (both wife & hubby). Stop criticizing each other. Just like a child feels proud & performs so well when he/she is given positive words and praises, so do hubby & wife need from each other.

[@janemuthoni723]

It’s my first time to hear this word;my man is my first born,I can’t even dare to put it in my minds,and i don’t want even to say it in kimoyomoyo,na nisiwahi pata mwanaume wa kuniambia hii kitu juu naeza mchukia for life,i wish all women can hear this conversation today

[@sj3644]

I agree with this,am a widow of 48yrs and I treated him like a father and priest of the family and it worked,,hoping to get another one we finish the race together

[@HellenWabore]

It really depend on how you tak to a man. I totaly agree. Am married but my polite language has made me enjoy every bit of my marriage.

[@elizabethngulale4664]

Thank you, Mary, for your wise nuggets. So, it's only the how?? We will catch ourselves! You are a Wise Fascinating Woman. God Bless and increase your territories in Jesus Name.

[@CarolineKasaya]

Her wisdom is from heaven. good interview

[@Mayellah19]

As a first born this talk was more about me,Am used to solving all problems in my family,been thw first to be called to solve issues,do this and that,very independent because am the one giving be it money or love and receive less been married now my husband has been telling me he is the man and he is in charge i shouldn't even be making decisions of things by myself without involving him but i forget aki, thank God i bumped into this and am learning the importance of letting the man lead as the head and encourage them.

[@VictorKibet-nk2ho]

I have been glued to this conversation from A to Z . Good stuff Lynn , this is great , thank you Mary well put very realistic. I hope my wife will listen to this conversation yes I will be a man enough.

[@chelseajoy254]

Painful truths that we as wives need to hear. Thank you Jesus for deliverance. ❤

[@atuyanyamusi2596]

This is so sweet ❤❤ Mary thank you for this topic 😊.... please bring Benjamin zulu next

[@esthermke]

I support this , kindly Lynn, bring Benjamin Zulu

[@daphineimani]

Thanks, Lynn, for bringing her . This was so informative , shed lots of light in so many areas that us women go wrong - married or not.❤❤

[@WilsonMutahi]

So deep Lynn 💘 thanks for the conversation because it has been ruining marriages.

[@welcometomylibrary]

When a woman communicates a man's heart, it's the deepest form of care and love to a man.

[@carolinewakonyo5]

Hard meat to chew but it was gospel truth, and there's hope with Marys assurance. Unlearning and learning!!

[@user-lu2mx1sc1y]

Team Lynn we are here already🤗🙌

[@millicentnyaguthii3120]

Am loving the glow on your face Lynn.

[@mercykiriri7036]

1. The how is the how aki... 2. I've learnt a lot from Mary 3. Thanks for using yourself as an example of your past "failures" to let us understand what you are telling us better. 4. You're so open and intentional with whatever you say. 5. Thanks Lynn for bringing her back.

[@janetmuli7652]

This is a deep and life-changing conversation. Thank you Mary for impacting marriages. Thank you Lynn for hosting this tough conversation.

[@erica4023]

I love, love this conversation 💕 thank you Lynn and Thank you very much Mary ❤iam 47 never lived with a man for over 20 years have been independent all my life but this useful for every wife's lady even man. Love❤from Namibia 🇳🇦

[@neemarepher6301]

Woooow very helpful advice...I ever had a speaker saying you should make your man your firsborn but i disagreed with that ...Thanks for the enlightment .

[@allenokee7807]

Wisdom is the principle thing. Weldone my lady may the Lord bless you. Let her who has ears hear and do the word.

[@purity..]

So educative especially for us who are planning to move in with our partners.We learn and unlearn everyday

[@tichaluciana]

Powerful, awesome ,fuuulllll of wisdom. i have learnt alooot! I love Marys wisdom especially on relationships and marriage.

[@romanawaleghwa947]

Leo tumefikiwa ladies tukubali makosa yetu najua tuko wengi😂😂😂😂😂

[@joankidon4626]

True 😢

[@margaretkihara95]

😢😢😢kwanza mm i feel guilty

[@romanawaleghwa947]

@@margaretkihara95 hata Mimi haki nafeel guilty 😥😥

[@teresiahwachira1099]

Guilty but I think it depends with our partners marriage is for two. Mine u can even agree u are going to a wedding be ready by 9am then they will arrive at 2pm mmezunguka Kwa Hao to be on time but wapi so in that case tunyamaze tu and twende wedding wakitika kwenda honeymoon it depends with UA partner that's my take I may be that mouthing but it is a response to the action

[@Zippy_m]

Such a beautiful conversation, thank you Lynn❤❤❤

[@Sarasara-lw4uw]

Lynn you're glowing 😍

[@GabrielKarani-jk7jt]

This is timely and coming from a lady, It hits the bull's eye. 👍🏽 .

[@mercychelangat7135]

This conversation is really needed in the society, thankyou beautiful ladies ❤❤❤

[@suenderi5835]

Lynn Unakaa Smart as Always....Shukanga hio Nywele 😅❤🌹

[@jemimahmukombo6638]

Can just hit one million🎉❤ lynn you are amazing i have been married for 16 years and its not my doing its by God is grace its not what you say but how you say it ❤ love from Zambia❤

[@teresiahwachira1099]

Absolutely

[@tabithagithuka7960]

You ladies looks gorgeous, nice conversation, guilty as charged 😅my mouth 👄need deliverance 😜

[@mimap275]

I think she's blessed she just got a good husband at a young age , some guys u can't even work anything with them through anything meaningful

[@bettywanjiru5809]

I love this conversation am not yet married but am learning alot 💯💯

[@bernardochieng8078]

Wow I love this lady and how she is giving issues which makes marriage work ❤

[@naominjihia1660]

The positive talk is in my head😢😢😢 the moment I open my mouth the devil takes over. I've learnt alot.

[@hildamavuso1620]

both your outfits match the surroundings. Interesting topic. I'm blessed with a man who is a strong leader of the home. Never showed traits of wanting to be my first born.

[@evelyngaiti9079]

I love your hair Lyn.

[@miriamnikolaus35]

Lynn!!!thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤love you dear, for ur very Hard work ❤❤❤ur a bleeeeesing Girl to many of us out Here 🎉🎉😊😊😊😊

[@terrykinuthia2207]

I appreciate you very wise and knowledgeable tips noted ..❤🎉

[@JudithMukami]

Wow, Lynn you look stunning ! This interview was full of wisdom!

[@simplymum9860]

Wow! Conversation iko on point!! Lakini wacha sisi tukae kwa fence, hii Marriage inataka roho kubwa na mdomo ndogo he he he😂😂😂😂

[@teresiahwachira1099]

Don't be afraid this motivational speaker wants to hear what they want but Kwa ground Lila mtu Na wake

[@anitahhamu2044]

Wow mapema ndio best,,,tunned ❤️❤️❤️

[@hellenhere4254]

I watched the Munenes on the Rawder Kidula show and I always thank God I did.😊my whole mindset changed

[@Wealthcreator.s]

Lynn leo umetutoroka hii side ya natural hair ❤. Looking awesome as usual with the new hairstyle 😊

[@shishqeestheblessed]

Tuned in,goodmorning team lynne

[@ruthngugi1816]

Thank you Lynn. Its been such an amazing show. Weeeh, notes taken

[@grace_softie]

Taking comprehensive 📝 notes

[@alicewanjiru3002]

Looking great lynn I just like the way this lady is full of wisdom🥰

[@leahm8258]

May God have mercy on me. She has said the truth about how we think about a man's opinion. But it all starts with the choice one makes.

[@wacundirangu1661]

Haven't watched LNS for a while but I'm saving this one....😅

[@violetatunga5175]

Awesome stuff boy child is left out in matters Marriage maybe we look into it also

[@AnastaciaTrizah]

Thumbs up Mary, what you have said is epic truth. Thank you for telling us the truth as it is.

[@virginianjoroge9902]

Lynn your hair is awesome.

[@tracykimani89]

This story...eish. thank you so much for this Lynn and Mary. God bless you for saving a marriage. God bless you two so much.

[@Esthermbage3511]

Wow We're taking notes, thanks 🙏

[@bellaolum9768]

This was such an interesting conversation. The part of Samson and Delilah had me chocking 😅😅😅. I have noticed that as couples grow older, the man becomes very docile and so dependent on the wife (in many ways). Somehow the wife is more in control and dominant. Just something i observed with my parents and other couples.

[@chebi5704]

Watching from Saudi Arabia, ABHA,thanks for bringing this to us Lynn,such that i don't know what fatherly love is , let me watch this gather notes before I Walk into someone's son One day

[@ChristineKuloba-wt9db]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@chebi5704]

❤❤​@@ChristineKuloba-wt9db

[@barbarapatel7162]

Good morning team Lynn tuned in❤❤❤❤❤

[@betty_900]

Very good for us single ladies 😊thanks

[@fredrickabuya1078]

This is great, I may need her contact for a mentorship ministry engagement among young Christian ladies in campus.

[@gertrudekitetu6965]

Thank you Lynn for aways bringing knowledge my way🎉❤

[@deborahbett412]

Mary munene 🎉God bless you. Men love being cheered on. Team Lynn OYEEE 🎉🎉🎉

[@periskabura1591]

It's the how Beautiful conversation ❤ I have learnt alot

[@lefokomafoko2814]

as an aspiring clinical psychologist, this is way too powerful, insightful, and 100% true

[@peshlucy987]

Wow looking beautiful Lynn

[@loicejohn]

Very informative. Single ladies we are learning. This kind of information is rare to hear

[@winnienm]

This is premium wisdom👌👌🧡 thank you

[@user-lu2mx1sc1y]

Team Lynn we are here already💕💕

[@KelituMumbua]

Never been this early.... Imma enjoy this as I work. Thank you Lynn & team❤

[@blessedlucy782]

It saddens knowing the truth when it's already late...... Coz you do not have a choice....

[@LynnNgugi]

You will always have a choice 🙏

[@sharonkirwa6653]

Lynn you look super cute with the hairstyle ❤❤

[@valkananu965]

Lynn you look gorgeous 😍 ❤ I love you hair 😍

[@user-ln1xk8ok3p]

Thank yu Lynn and Mary

[@sharingis_caring]

Plse lynn tafuta lucia nzilani na strong man plse.Thanks.Wako youtube

[@liznafula008]

Good morning team Lynn let's learn

[@catherinemuchiri9263]

Great nuggets back to the basics in God's Word.

[@unpluggedvip375]

She is on point!

[@peterkebwaro4635]

The way she said is very true words are magic a woman can win a man with words, read song of Solomon in the Bible about what she said it's so poetic. There those women you can sit and listen to them 24/7 because of their words and the way the put them I have experience in this. Women use your 21 voices accordingly and you will see the magic. Marriage is beautiful not a war zone.

[@Kui-l7s]

Great advice ❤❤❤ I love that dress 🎉🎉🎉

[@agnesmbula5261]

Hki lynn b plated like this...u luk awesome

[@lovellbiira6119]

I love this woman ❤❤❤ top notch 👌 Mary Munene

[@jozzlish]

Lynn, you look gorgeous, you always do. Those braids suit you sana.

[@estherheward]

This conversation is amazing 🥳🥳

[@johnsamuel2392]

I really enjoyed previous interview of this one, can't wait to watch all of it