I’ve been a bachelor all of my life…here’s my two cents

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Jim Agate

Jim Agate

Күн бұрын

In today’s video, I talk about being a bachelor.
#lifestyle

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@jcnlaw
@jcnlaw 2 ай бұрын
Experienced divorce lawyer here (Pennsylvania and New Jersey). Marriage is an outdated technology. Most of my inner circle friends are professional, unmarried (divorced or never married) guys over 50 who date and travel with beautiful women but do not cohabitate. All of my male divorced friends and former divorce clients will never get remarried. Once you have tasted the freedom and bliss of joyfully dong the things you love, whenever you want, with whomever you want, there is no turning back. Great video!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@jcnlaw Hey Johnathan! Thanks man! And thank you for your expertise! I really appreciate you watching my video!
@heymoe1179
@heymoe1179 2 ай бұрын
Marriage is a technology? You are confused about one word of the other. How about marriage is an outdated institution. A lawyer, huh?
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 2 ай бұрын
Yes it's easy to see how outdated it really is with all the people getting divorces after 30+ years of being married. Women especially just don't love their spouses for life anymore or think there's something better out there (which usually there isn't!) By about age 32-33 I knew I wasn't the marrying kind. That was 34-35 years ago.
@bradpnw1897
@bradpnw1897 2 ай бұрын
Really appreciate your opinion. The freedom is really what I appreciate also. I was in a relationship for 20 years with heroin. 2 years clean. I have dated many women even during that time. I am lucky to have no kids and actual really good health, healthy blood work no STDs. Got all my credit cards paid off own my car outright and am half owner (with an uncle who's 82 who's leaving me his half when he dies, and he has a trust already done)of a older house and huge garage on 3 acres 5 minutes away from Olympia Washington and 45 minutes away from Seattle. I only have to work 10 hours a week on average and can easily afford all my bills. Because I live around tons of rich people there's a great food bank in my town and I eat like a king. Tons of goat cheese wild caught salmon lamb fresh fruit and vegetables and a bunch of frozen fruit to make smoothies in the morning. I have time to work on my art, I breed different strains of plants grow my own medicines, have a huge garage I work on stuff inside and have a mini half pipe inside. I should probably get a full-time job again pretty soon but it just doesn't tempt me that much. I'm not trying to brag at all I'm just seriously seriously grateful and love my freedom. My future's so Bright I gotta Wear shades 😎. God bless all good men 🙏
@Reallythough
@Reallythough 2 ай бұрын
Saying you just pay for it without saying you just pay for it.
@BenjaminButton6573
@BenjaminButton6573 2 ай бұрын
I notice this guy looks healthy and young. Must due to lack of stress.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@BenjaminButton6573 Hey Ben! I’m feeling pretty good man, thanks! And thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support.
@DB_-
@DB_- 2 ай бұрын
And just the outright happiness that comes beaming through is very evident too. A wife would never allow that.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@DB_- Hey DB! Thanks man! I appreciate your support!
@scottchelmford7136
@scottchelmford7136 Ай бұрын
Dude could pass for 40s easily
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@scottchelmford7136 Hey Scott! Thanks man! I really appreciate your positive feedback! And thank you for your support!
@James-ol6rw
@James-ol6rw 2 ай бұрын
I’ve got ya beat. 71 and never married, straight male, never had kids, at peace in retirement now. No regrets, I give my fortunate life to my love of Jesus. He saved me from much turmoil in my life and has blessed me with a comfortable existence.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@James-ol6rw Hey James! Thank you for sharing your experiences. And thank you for watching my video. I really appreciate your support.
@James-ol6rw
@James-ol6rw 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate thank you Jim.
@richardmorris7063
@richardmorris7063 2 ай бұрын
Sounds like me ,I'm 67 & pretty happy.
@joe.mascolo
@joe.mascolo 2 ай бұрын
I was once asked about my stress level and I told the Dr that I had no stress in my home life. She looked at me kind of shocked. I'm a bachelor and my time is mine to spend as I wish. It's definately not lonely, but it is real nice live my life without compromise and on my terms. Have a great day Jim!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@joe.mascolo Hey Joe! Well said! And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate it. Thanks for your support!
@jasoncrandall73
@jasoncrandall73 2 ай бұрын
51yo. Also never married. It's just me & my 3 feline buddies. Life is great for me.
@Reallythough
@Reallythough 2 ай бұрын
I know right! Women are even picking up on this trend.
@amarilloaristocrat8435
@amarilloaristocrat8435 2 ай бұрын
I'm a 65 year old straight male and have never married. In my early 20's, I had a vasectomy because I never wanted children. Overall, no regrets.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@amarilloaristocrat8435 Hey Amarillo. Thank you for watching my video and thanks for sharing. I appreciate your support!
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 2 ай бұрын
Hear ya. Got mine in 1985 when I was 30. No regrets and it's permanent insurance.
@timmywitty1432
@timmywitty1432 2 ай бұрын
A eunich!
@toddsickinger3934
@toddsickinger3934 2 ай бұрын
Silly old man
@drizzt8965
@drizzt8965 2 ай бұрын
@@toddsickinger3934 Why are you here? What are your burdens?
@Evil_Morty2000
@Evil_Morty2000 2 ай бұрын
keyword "FREEDOM"
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Evil Morty! Thank you for watching my video! And I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 2 ай бұрын
Me too! 57 and never married and love my freedom
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Hey man! Thanks for watching my video! I appreciate your support.
@JackLopez-e9k
@JackLopez-e9k 2 ай бұрын
Table for one please. And yes, I will have the steak. Makes cent$ to me.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@JackLopez-e9k Hey Jack! Thank you for watching my video! And I like your comment! Thanks for your support!
@JackLopez-e9k
@JackLopez-e9k 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Jim, bachelor here as well.
@rexlex1736
@rexlex1736 2 ай бұрын
I fly solo-----no co-pilot needed or wanted.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Rex! Yessir! Thank you for watching my video. I really appreciate your support.
@jim-se5xc
@jim-se5xc 2 ай бұрын
You've been spared.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@jim-se5xc hey jim! thanks for watching my video! i appreciate your support.
@kittensugars
@kittensugars 2 ай бұрын
My brother is 53....never married, no kids. He's had a fling here & there (rarely, actually) but nobody stuck. Now my youngest is a 28 year old bachelor, about to give up on women. They're both heterosexual, they want a woman....but don't like their attitudes.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@kittensugars Hey kitten sugars! Thank you for sharing. I'm still open-minded. Thanks for your support!
@notimefornonsense722
@notimefornonsense722 2 ай бұрын
Being married & having kids is so overrated, for real. Nothing beats my freedom and I'm not willing to give that away. I see people going through hell and back due to financial struggle just because they have to pull a carriage that society impose on them.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@notimefornonsense722 Hey notimefornonsense. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. I agree, freedom is important to me. At this point in my life, I’m pretty sure I won’t get married. Lol. Thanks for your support!
@elsynjogu7578
@elsynjogu7578 2 ай бұрын
Really..if our parents had that thought we would've not been here 😅 ..
@elsynjogu7578
@elsynjogu7578 2 ай бұрын
​@@JimAgateyou are missing alot ❤
@notimefornonsense722
@notimefornonsense722 2 ай бұрын
@elsynjogu7578 i wasn't missing anything, believe me...😃. Besides in my communist country they were forced to have kids. I wasn't a wanted kid so where is the point?
@gintonicx6
@gintonicx6 2 ай бұрын
​@@elsynjogu7578That's what you think...
@jandregerber7534
@jandregerber7534 2 ай бұрын
It's to each their own. I have a beautiful, loving wife and a 2 year old son. We share financial, parental, household duties etc. Seeing my son running to me coming from work is the best feeling in the world.I still have time to play golf, go fishing and I encourage my wife to do the same with her hobbies. It's about compromise. Some people are married and sad, some are happy, the same with single people, some are happy and some not. Internal hapiness is inherent, hereditary, so it can't really be attributed to being single or not. Anyways, as long as any person is contributing to the world in a good way, I could care less if they're single or not.
@gintonicx6
@gintonicx6 2 ай бұрын
So? Nobody gives a f, you are not a bachelor,so why are you looking bachelor content,that's the question...
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@jandregerber7534 Hey Jandre. Thank you so much for watching my video and sharing your insight. I really appreciate it. And thanks for your support!
@daveg2199
@daveg2199 2 ай бұрын
@@gintonicx6 breathe and relax. it’s a comment section don’t be triggered so easily.
@gintonicx6
@gintonicx6 2 ай бұрын
@@daveg2199 From what I can see you are triggered by my comment...
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@gintonicx6 Hey gintonic. Thanks for watching my video! I appreciate it!
@rickystrings8006
@rickystrings8006 2 ай бұрын
You're one smart guy. Marriage is a death sentence. get a dog and enjoy your life my brother
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Ricky! 😂 Thanks man! And thank you for supporting my channel!
@jdub2591
@jdub2591 Ай бұрын
I’ll be 52 this December and I have never married or have any children. I chose freedom over having a family way back in my teens and I have never regretted that decision. I don’t get lonely. I like being able to go where and when I want to. Be with who I want to or none at all and I just always prefer walking my own path over what society expects of me. My dad once told me that there is nothing wrong with being single the rest of your life so, I ran with it 👍 New subscriber here.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@jdub2591 Hey jdub! Your story sounds a lot like mine. Thanks for subscribing. I appreciate your support.
@TimmyCramer
@TimmyCramer 2 ай бұрын
I am the Forever Bachelor!! Did a 7 day river rafting trip through the Grand canyon two weeks ago and today I'm back from a week beachside camping San Diego. Best decision of my life was not getting married!! I enjoy women but don't take them serious, great way to lose your wallet. Timmy C Arizona 59.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Timmy! Thank you for sharing your experiences! And thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support!
@gerardmccallen7706
@gerardmccallen7706 28 күн бұрын
Freedom is more precious than any gift you may be tempted with to give it away
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 28 күн бұрын
@@gerardmccallen7706 Hey Gerard! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment! Thanks for your support!
@Mikeman07825
@Mikeman07825 2 ай бұрын
a lone eagle - no one to cherish him while he's alive... - and no one to miss him when he's gone.... - to me, it's sad.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@Mikeman07825 Hey Mikeman. Thank you for watching my video.
@p.g.reitsma7245
@p.g.reitsma7245 2 ай бұрын
Functional adults don't require another person to cherish or miss them. That's for a person who hasn't learned to be good company for themselves, and doesn't understand the difference between alone and lonely.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@p.g.reitsma7245 Hey P.G. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 2 ай бұрын
We all die alone, matters not
@bryanjones8778
@bryanjones8778 2 ай бұрын
I would assume most bachelors already have friends and family members so I don't see why it is sad if one chooses to not get married. Different strokes for different folks.
@XORTION
@XORTION 2 ай бұрын
Hes not even a bad looking guy either, mad. fair play to you sir
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@XORTION Hey XORTION! 😂 Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@brenkaz00
@brenkaz00 2 ай бұрын
After my separation in 2015 I consider myself a born again bachelor lol.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Brendan! 😂 That’s cool man! And thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support!
@dianehill3279
@dianehill3279 2 ай бұрын
I love the single life. No regrets whatsoever!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@dianehill3279 Hey Diane! That’s awesome! It’s nice to get a woman’s perspective, so thank you! I appreciate your support!
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 2 ай бұрын
The last single mother I dated, I wasn't interested in " waiting and building a relationship " bullshit. We slept together the night of the first date. Guys don't have time for that.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey William! Thanks for your support man! I appreciate it!
@callmeishmaelk767
@callmeishmaelk767 2 ай бұрын
Ironically being a bachelor by definition IS settled down. No fucking drama.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Ishmael! Very true! And thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support!
@rangosantana
@rangosantana 2 ай бұрын
Being in a relationship doesn't automatically mean you have a companion. people always react irritated when someone is going against the flow.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@rangosantana Hey Dom! Thanks for watching man! And I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 2 ай бұрын
Yep one (usually the guy) is often wearing a slave bracelet.
@jelig72
@jelig72 2 ай бұрын
All good. I'm also 52, never married, no kids.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey RP! YESSIR! Thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
@charlessmith9694
@charlessmith9694 13 күн бұрын
Don’t ever give up your freedom.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 13 күн бұрын
@@charlessmith9694 Hey Charles! Thank you for your support!
@darlenegoodwin
@darlenegoodwin 2 ай бұрын
I'm 58 and never been married myself. I'm in a relationship right now for 14 years but no children either and I had fibroids at 29 and then at 31 a myomectomy and then at 41 a hysterectomy. ZERO REGRETS.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Darlene. Thank you for sharing. And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support!
@darlenegoodwin
@darlenegoodwin 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate you're very welcome 🤗
@terrysbarker1
@terrysbarker1 2 ай бұрын
54 years here and not much chance ill ever have anyone
@jim-se5xc
@jim-se5xc 2 ай бұрын
She'd have to be a hell of a wife to beat no wife. Cormac McCarthy.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@terrysbarker1 Hey Terry! Thanks for watching my video! And I appreciate your comment. We’ll see what the future holds! Thanks for your support.
@paulgore1237
@paulgore1237 23 күн бұрын
I'm in exactly the same position in life.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 23 күн бұрын
Hey Paul! That's cool man! And thank you for your support!
@greganderson7971
@greganderson7971 Ай бұрын
I'm now 64, always a Bachelor plus World traveler for the past 20 years, plenty of opportunities but just could never give up my Freedom! Plus, all my Family / Friends / Colleagues etc... 80% divorce rate, I'm not saying Marriage is a crumbling institution but, if 2 people agree to start a Family 100% walk down the aisle make it official, but if you don't want kids stay single and enjoy Life and Freedom.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@greganderson7971 Hey Greg. Very well said. Thank you for watching my video and providing feedback. Thanks for your support.
@cdcdogs4961
@cdcdogs4961 2 ай бұрын
I’m going to share this video with my youngest son. He is a 30 yr old Bachelor who has no problem finding a girlfriend. He claims he doesn’t want to get tied down, loves his freedom, and the responsibility of children scare him mainly because of the current times we live in.🫣 He also claims women are to complicated (confusing). As a woman, I’d have to agree, women are complicated and have difficulty keeping it simple. I’ve been married to the same man for over 30 years because he keeps it simple, and I really appreciate him for that. Thank you for sharing, make it a great day! 👏🏼💪🏼❤️
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey CDC Dogs! Thank you for watching my video and I really appreciate your comment. Being open-minded has really helped me enjoy the times when I'm in a relationship/dating and when I'm not. Basically just having a good attitude. Thanks for your support!
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 2 ай бұрын
For me, it's not that she didn't defend him enough, she always talked over him. Defend him enough? No, she just didn't gaf....
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey William. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. And thanks for your support.
@gavinelliot3564
@gavinelliot3564 2 ай бұрын
No drama cane farmer/ choice.its great being single/no hassles/got coin.lifes a breeze
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@gavinelliot3564 Hey Gavin! Thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
@vilod
@vilod 2 ай бұрын
When man is single, he is a whole person. When he gets married, he is only half.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@vilod Hey Vilod! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment! And thanks for your support!
@jasoncrandall73
@jasoncrandall73 2 ай бұрын
There's always pros & cons to everything. But for me with divorce rates so high why risk losing so much if your marriage ends? I prefer to have less & own it fully than to have more with a partner & then lose it all with a divorce.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@jasoncrandall73 Hey Jason! Good point! And thank you for watching my video. I appreciate the support.
@dyates6380
@dyates6380 2 ай бұрын
Sixty six year old guy here. Married at twenty two to a nineteen year old woman. Lasted 8 years, and it was a very hard time in my life as I was kicked to the curb for someone better after a MOSTLY very happy six and a half years, or so I thought. I did the WORST thing I could have done after moving back in with my parents for six months before buying a duplex with my sister ..... I started dating again. I SHOULD have just taken a while off, even a year or two, but no, I jumped right back on the dating wagon. Long story, we got married a year and a half later and it was a nightmare - and it was two and a half years of sheer hell. MY fault, as two female, mutual friends at separate times approached me when we got engaged and told me "she's NOT the one". I can see now in hindsight they were trying to tell me what she was all about without putting it so plainly (she's a HO) and I was too stupid to put two and two together. So I want to make it clear that it was MY fault for being stupid enough to marry her as I did have warnings and frankly, some peeks at her insecurity and alarming anger issues, but I was such a coward I didn't back out. Anyhow, after the worst divorce one could imagine (with NO KIDS, by the way) I got screwed so badly it took me literally ten years to recover. I have been divorced for thirty two years and I never married again. I tell people all the time (guys) that UNLESS kids are involved, DO NOT get married, or at least that's my advice to them. I am sure there are people much better than me who can make it work, and maybe I'm just not that great of a man or I just am not good at being a husband, but I have been with my lady for 18 VERY happy years. She was married once for 24 years and has four adult kids. She has her money and I have mine, including nice retirement nest eggs (we are both retired). We live in her house and rent mine out to her son. Life is good. No need to marry to have a happy life, again, in my opinion but I can honestly say 90% of the stress in my life dissipated back in 1992 (other than the subsequent New York State family law financial burdens that two divorce attorneys were happy about had to be addressed in the afore mentioned ten years. LOL), and I'm not being factious at all.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@dyates6380 Hey D! Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and perspective! And thank you for watching my video, I really appreciate your support! And by the way, I'm sure you are a good man. Don't let anyone tell you differently.
@Wartrace
@Wartrace 2 ай бұрын
Just turned 61 and I have never married. Straight white male, have had numerous girlfriends but never wanted to enter into a contract with any of them. I believe I wouldn't have been able to retire at 50 if I had taken on a wife. My days are filled with doing things I want to do. Pure freedom. I am a loner by nature and prefer solitude with the exception of having dogs. It is amazing how clearly you can think without interruptions and having to do things you don't want to do. I always get a kick out of talking to married guys when they ask why I'm not married. I always respond "Sure, it would be nice to have sex whenever you want it....." That always seems to spark some soul searching in them.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@Wartrace Hey John! Thank you for sharing your experiences and perspective! I definitely can relate! Thanks for your support!
@bza069
@bza069 2 ай бұрын
you write comments like I wrote this myself... glad youre having a good life too
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@bza069 hey bza. thank you for watching my video. i appreciate the support.
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 2 ай бұрын
my late parents were married for 51 yrs, I can't recall anytime growing up they seemed to be happy with each other, they never encouraged me to marry either
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Michael. Thank you for sharing your experiences and perspective. And thanks again for your support.
@TheTurmericTrail
@TheTurmericTrail 2 ай бұрын
No wonder you look so young and happy, with true happiness in your eyes.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey The Turmeric Trail! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment! Thanks for your support!
@donnav6219
@donnav6219 Ай бұрын
No he looks old for his real age of 52. He is also self centered and immature.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
@@donnav6219 Hey Donna. Thank you for watching my video.
@MatthewJohnston-wc3zm
@MatthewJohnston-wc3zm Ай бұрын
I just turned 52 in August.never married and no kids
@JimAgate
@JimAgate Ай бұрын
Hey Matthew! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
@sloppyjonuts9162
@sloppyjonuts9162 2 ай бұрын
I’m 30 I couldn’t imagine having 2+ kids and a psycho wife who is cheating on me I’d rather have my private island with a decent amount of amenities.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Sloppy Jonuts! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. And thanks for your support.
@johnnyr859
@johnnyr859 2 ай бұрын
Keep living the dream🌴🏄😎💪
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@johnnyr859 Hey Johnny! Yessir! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your support!
@mysterio1570
@mysterio1570 2 ай бұрын
When you say the con of not having companionship. All I hear underneath it is not having any access to physical affection on a routine basis. I hear you bro.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@mysterio1570 Hey Mysterio! Thank you for watching my videos and commenting and being supportive! I really appreciate it! Thanks!
@jerryweber1768
@jerryweber1768 2 ай бұрын
Let us not forget....women cut stinkier farts.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Jerry! 😂🤣 Thanks for your support man!
@JohnVanMeter58
@JohnVanMeter58 2 ай бұрын
Ive been divorced twice. Put through hell with lawyers. Emotionally kicked around like a sub human. You dont know what you've missed not getting married.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@JohnVanMeter58 Hey John. Thank you for sharing. And thank you for supporting my channel.
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 2 ай бұрын
Tia made a complete ass of herself...plain and simple.
@stephenshelton4267
@stephenshelton4267 2 ай бұрын
It reminds me of a meme I saw with 2 long-beaked birds where one looks like it is squawking at the other. The caption reads "I don't know much about birds, but I know which one is the wife".
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@stephenshelton4267 Hey Stephen. Thank you for watching my video.
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 2 ай бұрын
FREEDOM both personal and financial is the biggest benefit. Settling down is usually toxic as is living with someone or vice versa. I wouldn't consider it these days. Most in my age group (mid 60s) are turning into old ladies before their time with their negative wavelength mostly complaining how rough it is being old. If it isn't that they're always talking about their saintly grandchildren which I have no interest in. Being unattached is the best choice no matter your age group.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@muffs55mercury61 Hey Muffs! Thanks for your perspective! I appreciate your support!
@muffs55mercury61
@muffs55mercury61 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate Never a problem.
@suetipping4841
@suetipping4841 2 ай бұрын
Jim, do you know how thrilled the Church of your choice would be to have you as a parish member?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@suetipping4841 Hey Sue! 😂 Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support!
@jendrizzyy
@jendrizzyy 2 ай бұрын
Cool video, thanks
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Jennifer. Thank you.
@projectb3117
@projectb3117 2 ай бұрын
The sun shines alone.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
What’s up Project B! Thank you for watching my video. I appreciate it.
@yossarian6799
@yossarian6799 2 ай бұрын
Gen X English is almost Orwellian. "Freedom" = "too selfish to give up anything to accommodate another human's wants and needs" You and I will be the best-looking altakockers in Shady Pines, Jim...
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@yossarian6799 Hey Yossarian. Thank you for your support!
@yossarian6799
@yossarian6799 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate I'm from Easton and I'm picking up a distinct PA accent. Are you from this area?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@yossarian6799 The Hershey area.
@yossarian6799
@yossarian6799 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate anyway forget that other crap I commented. I'm over it already. Long story short... I'm on a hell-bent mission to get sociopathic, reclusive Gen-X out of the house and socializing... and to get them to stop being such colossal asswholes. The problem is that I'm a consummate procastinator and sublimely lazy. I'm trying to get some ideas going...
@danielsemmens6640
@danielsemmens6640 2 ай бұрын
You might have made the right choice I married a monster buy had to get out of my com fort zone and find strength I didn’t know I had
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@danielsemmens6640 Hey Daniel! Thank you for sharing. And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support.
@ICFUBAR
@ICFUBAR 2 ай бұрын
This IS the best option for most self respecting men now. How is not being in a 'relationship,' considering being in a co habitation relationship, a con?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey ICFUBAR. My “con” statement was way too broad. Lol. I just meant, sometimes I miss the companionship. But I choose to continue not to date because overall, I’m happy. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate the support.
@ICFUBAR
@ICFUBAR 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate I got your drift. It's a different being and conversation with a gal than with the guys and sometimes we might miss the former.... but at our own peril.
@LLLL-vf3gk
@LLLL-vf3gk 2 ай бұрын
Genius!!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey x x ! Thank you for watching my video! I appreciate it!
@philaman1972
@philaman1972 2 ай бұрын
I am also 52m never married and no kids. Are you willing to put in the effort, time, consistency and of course money if you meet a woman in order to be in a relationship? All women these days operate from the same playbook so they will look for both "green" and "red" flags, respectively from you. Do not allow loneliness to detract you from the goldmine all of us bachelors share -- *freedom*.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@philaman1972 Hey Philaman! Well said man! And thank you for watching my video and commenting. I really appreciate your support! Thanks!
@jimsimpson1006
@jimsimpson1006 2 ай бұрын
Try 70 years.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@jimsimpson1006 Hey Jim! You got me beat! Thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
@RoBDeeZL42
@RoBDeeZL42 2 ай бұрын
Who do you list as beneficiaries ?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@RoBDeeZL42 Hey Rob! My two sisters. But like I always say, I'm open-minded and ready for anything that comes my way. Thank you for your support.
@Black-Circle
@Black-Circle 2 ай бұрын
freedom or lonliness.... it's either or.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@Black-Circle Hey Black Circle! That's a good point. I appreciate your comment. Thanks for watching my video!
@bryanjones8778
@bryanjones8778 2 ай бұрын
I respectfully disagree. There are folks out there (myself included) who love the freedom of living alone and don't feel lonely doing so. Keep in mind also that married people can be lonely, too.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@bryanjones8778 Hey Bryan! Thank you for watching my video and thank you for your comment! I appreciate your support.
@Black-Circle
@Black-Circle 2 ай бұрын
@@bryanjones8778 yeah well going to the beach alone and eating alone is boring
@bryanjones8778
@bryanjones8778 2 ай бұрын
@@Black-Circle Maybe for some people, but not everyone. Besides, a bachelor can still get together with friends to go out to eat, catch a game, concert, etc. I, personally can go either way. I treasure my alone time.
@brent1387
@brent1387 2 ай бұрын
Yes… I have had a lot of girl friends along the way!!!!!…Hahahahahahaha
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@brent1387 😂🤣😂🤣 Hey Brent! Thanks for your support!
@toddsickinger3934
@toddsickinger3934 2 ай бұрын
You don’t really know the pros and cons because you’ve never been in a real relationship with kids. You are missing a lot, and I hope you don’t stay alone much older with no one to care about you or for you.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@toddsickinger3934 Hey Todd. Thank you for watching my video and i appreciate your comment. I’ve always been open-minded, so maybe some day I will settle down. Thanks for your support.
@daveg2199
@daveg2199 2 ай бұрын
Truly sad. Selecting “do not recommend channel”.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Dave. Thank you for watching my video.
@stephenshelton4267
@stephenshelton4267 2 ай бұрын
How so?
@patriciaspeicher6883
@patriciaspeicher6883 2 ай бұрын
Player!!! User!
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@patriciaspeicher6883 Hey Patricia. I’m not a player. Just a guy who has been unlucky when it comes to relationships. As a matter of fact, I’ve been the dumpee more than I’ve been the dumper. Thank you for watching my video.
@TensionalityEFex
@TensionalityEFex 2 ай бұрын
That you've had many girl friends along the way, that's good. Not having kids is good too. The freedom is precious, as you do what ever the hell you want without someone there to complain if they don't agree. Yeah, between girl friends are times when they are missed and could be useful.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Tensionality EFex! Thank you for watching my videos. The bachelor life definitely gets lonely sometimes, but it definitely has its advantages. Lol. Thank you for your support.
@notimefornonsense722
@notimefornonsense722 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, I hate when society pressures people to get married, have kids, etc. I think everyone should be so free to choose the life they want to live. I'm almost 50 and hearing people asking me if I'm not scared of growing old alone is driving me crazy. No I'm not scared , I'm wild and free I do what I want, when I want.
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@notimefornonsense722 yeah, people ask me that same question: Am I scared of growing old alone. I stay busy, I’ll be fine! Thanks again for your support!
@Reallythough
@Reallythough 2 ай бұрын
Bachelor = gay?
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@Reallythough Nah. 😂 Thank you for watching my video.
@gobradon
@gobradon 2 ай бұрын
53 years since birth. Don't need it at all
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Cool bro! Thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support!
@sandybeach3576
@sandybeach3576 2 ай бұрын
I can see why you are happy
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
@@sandybeach3576 Hey Tiki! Thank you so much for watching my video! And thanks for your support!
@tomthumb3994
@tomthumb3994 2 ай бұрын
freedom to watch porn 6 hours a day??? lmaooooo
@JimAgate
@JimAgate 2 ай бұрын
Hey Tom! 😂 Thanks for watching my videos and supporting my channel!
@tomthumb3994
@tomthumb3994 2 ай бұрын
@@JimAgate like you have a choice at being single lmaoo
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 2 ай бұрын
Tia made a complete ass of herself...plain and simple.
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 2 ай бұрын
Tia made a complete ass of herself...plain and simple.
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