I've been avoiding talking about this...

A woodworking video about a whole lot more than the project... This video is brought to you by Squarespace. For a 10% discount at launch go to www.squarespace.com/anneofall...
When I started building this windsor chair, I thought it was going to be a regular woodworking shop project, with a weekly video to accompany it. I was wrong. Everything that had worked for 5 years of making videos fell apart, my mental health, my marriage, and, in the process, the chairs took a back seat.
0:00 Intro
0:48 Windsor Chair Build
4:24 This isn't working...
7:10 Looking forward
8:00 What happened to the chair?
9:15 Check out my blog!
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MORE ABOUT ME
I'm Anne of All Trades. In NASHVILLE, I have a woodworking, blacksmithing and fabrication shop, a selection of furry friends, and an organic farm. Whether you've got the knowledge, tools, time or space to do the things you've always wanted to do, everything is "figureoutable."
I became "Anne of All Trades" out of necessity. With no background in farming or making things, I wanted to learn to raise my own food, fix things when they break and build the things I need.
10 years ago I got my first pet, planted my first seed and picked up my first tool.
My goal is to learn and share traditional techniques and skills while showing my peers how to get from where they are to where they want to go, how to do the things they are passionate about, and what can be done TODAY to engage their own community and grow deep roots.
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[@jmwoodcraft7842]

We watch Anne of all trades to see Anne, not to see Anne pretending to be a caricature of Anne. Thanks for the honesty and please don’t feel pressure to pretend to be anything other than your ‘in the moment self’ for our sake ❤ you’re not alone and we’re rooting for you 💪

[@itsa67]

Just know that your openness and transparency means a lot to many people. Depression and anxiety are so prevalent today and your willingness to share your challenges gives encouragement and hope to a lot of folks watching. You have an amazing will to fight and great days are coming for you again soon!

[@asherhebert]

Based off the last few months of content, it really sounds like Adam is a freaking hero. I know things have been rough, and having him help out on the farm and the channel can't be an easy adjustment either of you. Way to go Adam, for stepping up where it matters, for hoping for a better future, being in the discomfort with Anne in solidarity and care! Anne, it's been lovely to hear you talk with such positivity about Adam and recognising his skills and contributions. Keep at it you two, you'll be okay ❤️

[@BJHermsen]

Never forget how amazing you are... You show the world amazing things and also take us along for the harsh reality... Life is not and will never be gum drops and lollipops and we need to stop allowing people to act like it is. You continue to show that making lemonade is the best path to success and survival. Stay passionate and keep working so hard toward your own and our own improvements as a society.

[@donnacreager8428]

You may not have thought this was an uplifting video… but it was. Full of hope, vision and determination. So proud of you Anne. ❤️

[@joannep5974]

Completely agree with you.

[@homeschoolmamaself-care]

Me too. So proud of you. It has been a heck of a few years. You being you makes us feel hopeful in humanity. Keep doing you and finding joy in the little things. Carpe buildem.

[@compunurse]

You, my dear, are an evangelist for honest, thoughtful, brutally real transparency, and introspection. I used to say I wanted to be more like you because I thought you were cool and did cool things but now I think I want to be like you because you’re human and know you’re human. And you still do cool things. I’m trying to convince my wife I need two goats and a cow.

[@jennybuzek2091]

I think you are very brave to go online to admit your weaknesses. You truly rock and are a wonderful role model for women and girls of all ages. Keep up the great work!

[@coustran007]

As someone who loves woodworking, is also dealing with many of the same struggles as you including mental health, and who has way too many started but unfinished projects I very much appreciate what you're doing with your honestly and openness. I'm excited to see you do the chair and watch the table build video. Thank you for your contribution to our community across the world.

[@festival3rocker]

In a world full of "perfect" influencers who are an inch deep, it's really refreshing to go through a journey with you. Everyone has trials, tribulations, and problems. Noone is free from fault or self-doubt. Tackling things head-on and taking strides to change takes real guts. You're real, which is the major reason I love and appreciate the channel and your journey. Life isnt a series of perfectly captured "instagrammable moments" I am looking forward to continuing this journey with you, come hell or high water! Very excited to see many MANY more project videos to come

[@JasonExplainsThings]

Hey Anne, I had a similar project like your chair. It was a goofy mini bike that I built for an off road 100 mile mini bike race. I did the race in 2019 but the bike broke down around 60 miles in. I immediately started gathering parts to improve the bike and finish the race in 2020. WELL........ yeah, that didn't happen. In that time I seriously injured my back to the point that it was hard to walk. I was self employed and lost nearly all income by May 2020. I fell into deep depression and things got very, very dark. I thought my wife and kids would do better if I just wasn't around being "useless." I personally believe every day after Aug, 2020 is bonus time. Only love from other people and God kept me going. My mental, spiritual and physical health are all better, but never perfect. AND I STILL NEED TO DO THAT RACE! I can't begin to express how inspiring you and your channel are to me. You and Adam rock. I want to visit that school someday.

[@pat_link_]

Kudos for talking openly about your mental health, I fully understand you it is hard to do. But from experience I can tell you it helps and will get better, I have my black dog days but less and less now. Talking more about mental health will help for sure. Stay strong and looking forward to seeing more of your great life unfold.

[@kateoconnell2630]

You are voicing the things that a lot of us are going through. Thanks for being brave. I needed this message that we can complete projects and have faith in ourselves.

[@fiveminutefridays]

You talk about wanting to be the type of person we expect to see when we hit an Anne of All Trades Video and call that "joyful fun filled" - I'd like to say that while I certainly love your deeply joyful nature, the person I expect to see when I hit one of these videos is exactly who I see every time - you hitting a rough patch, or needing to present with different energy is never a disappointment. Obviously you don't owe your audience access to any private emotions, but I really appreciate your emotional honesty to just say "hey i'm not feeling like the happy-go-lucky Anne right now, I'm feeling like the Anne who's working through some things". I want to express both that your well-being and personal life should always come before any perceived obligation to your audience, but also that the value you're bringing to your audience is more than the light-hearted kind. Seeing you persevere through hard times, and hearing your musings as you use your projects and goals as ways to reflect on those struggles is really moving and often helps us in the audience reflect along with you about our own struggles and goals. And seeing that its OK and normal not to be a superhero all the time is important too. I'm really proud of everything you have accomplished so far, and I'm wishing truly all the best to you and your family. And on a much lighter note, those chairs and that table are GORGEOUS.

[@chrisshannonmoeller781]

One of the realest woodworking videos I have ever seen. Everyone struggles with something but most are too afraid to share it. Thank you for trusting us with your true feelings. You are stronger than most people even if you don’t see it. God bless you.

[@alanletterman]

simply, build the chair. All of the joy, love, happiness, energy and satisfaction is found in the "doing". sometime the doing involves a poor measurement, misplaced cut or a sanding error. start over and build again. build the chair. and the next one.

[@CJdeBres]

When I was in the middle of my burnout I got sick of people saying things like getting back to the old me… I was me already. I had seen other getting back to their old me and getting burnout number 2 and 3… my goal was and is to stay me in the now and become a “me 2.0” in the future. This type of video makes me love your channel even more than I already did. Keep it up. I hope to see more of “Ann of all trades 2.0” in the future.

[@michaelmcdermott2178]

Keep on keeping on, daughter. Lots of us out here pulling for you. Keep bringing your world to me here in Allyn.

[@a8f235]

I've been through a hellhole myself, and for the time being I simply don't have much in my life that I *_HAVE TO_* do. It became so obvious to me just 2 days ago when my old house(1947) started a leak inside because of just a huge load of snow on top of the roof. I'm alone and don't have any harness or any of that, so I've been hesitant to go up there and removing it all. It was when the leak started to become worse, that I simply had no other choice but to act. I simply picked up a ladder and went up there and got rid of most of it, especially around the area where the leak was. It had instant results where it stopped leaking completely, and it was such a relief because I was expecting the worse of having to call the insurance company etc. As much as we need rest, it is crucial to have things we actually have to do as well. It's all about the balance, and I know I got things I just need to get into my life again that has to be done, because without opportunities life becomes rapidly worse.

[@jbarry2673]

You are NOT failing at anything, the world is failing you. You are so amazing and talented and you must try to remember that everyday. This has been a rough few years for you and for your pain and suffering I am very sorry you went through all that, but just wait until your dreams come true and you can look back on this time as a true learning experience. Stay strong and keep doing whatever makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.

[@mikesmswoodworking]

You're a superstar, Anne, on so many levels. The courage you've shown, to be open with your struggles, whether it's personal, professional or both, is immeasurable. Keep fighting the good fight, on all fronts, because we'll all continue to show our love and support no matter what. Much love, Anne ❤🤗

[@kiwdwks]

We only see a glimpse of the struggles these last few years have been. It's so easy to lose confidence with the stresses/struggles/set backs you've had to deal with. It would take it's toll on anyone. Coming up on 35 years of starting my small woodworking business and lose confidence time to time. Finish those last two chairs & do whatever you can to get it back. Don't worry, it will return. Focus on the amazing accomplishments you've had & just imagine how incredible it will feel when your dreams fall into place. We all support you & wish nothing but that. I'll wear my Anne of All Trades shirt to send positive energy your way. Take care Anne!

[@roamingelk7271]

Failure is just the first step in learning. I have done it so many times. I'm currently making a hideous lap quilt. I am trying a method using a serger instead of a sewing machine. But I'm doing it. And I've learned....my next one will be better and the next one even better. Thank you for keeping it real.... it's ok to find enjoyment in fuzzy butts and yet still be depressed or pissed at the hubby (no offense Adam of No Trades, just an example) or just plain defeated by weather or animals. You can be all those things or laughing and crying with the fur kids. "If you are going through hell, keep going." Winston Churchill

[@mmgross144]

Ann, Watching true growth happen brings me great joy. These pains will serve to strengthen your mental toughness and resolve. As a cancer survivor (and 10 surgeries with two near death experiences) I have learned that sometimes just getting up in the morning is a victory, but all of it has deepened me as a person and I know that, even with limitations, I can do all things through Him (Christ) who strengthens me.

[@MakeMistakeZ]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.

[@blackdog850]

Here first for Anne! Much love! Take care of you!

[@donaldtrabeaux5235]

It's not failure it's only a setback, it's not a failure, it's a life lesson that you can stop and take a deep breath and focus on your next step of the journey of life. You are one amazing lady; you have proven just how strong you are, and to tell everyone about what you have been going through and I promise you are not along, I have been there and not it took me a long time, but I got there. Anne, you have one amazing channel, and that why I watch your videos, thank you for sharing your journey with us.💖💖💖💖💖💖🌹🌹🌹🌹💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@maryvt3075]

Take care of yourself and don’t worry about anyone else.

[@bruceb.harrison3470]

Anne, your courage to continue in the face of all the challenges is inspiring. My guess is that you won’t allow yourself to recognize your own courage, but we do. The woodworking, the teaching, the farming, the myriad other skills and projects that you share have become secondary, in the hearts of your followers, to your health and joy. Thank you for being honest with us. Your spirit and heart are what holds us here, whether cheery or struggling. (( ))

[@Jonamission]

As someone with ADD I cannot recommend enough the book "driven to distraction". There are some very helpful things in it too help identify behaviors and coping mechanism for attention deficit disorder that have helped me a lot.

[@AnneofAllTrades]

That is a good book. I also like Retrain Your Brain

[@gabrielroper4662]

I could not have talked about this in a KZbin myself. You are very brave and the more I see, the more I respect you. Thanks for being such an awesome inspiration to me for my own business.

[@chippyandpunk]

Anne, Never give up, Never surrender. Always remember, there are more people that love you and what you do than there are of those who don't and those who don't - don't matter anyway. Much respect from Grundy County TN.

[@blainerueckwald]

Anne, kudos to you for talking about this. you have been one of my heros for a few years now which might sound strange coming form a 71 year old grandfather of 9 grandkids.. You're my hero because I have 3 daughters and you have showed me that they are capable of anything. Ny oldest dauhter got some very nice tools from her father in law when he passed away becuse she does more woodworking than either of his two sons. My middle daughter has renovated two houses now and moved halfway across the country so she and her family could live a more self sufficient lifestyle in the country. My youngest daughter has also done a lot of home renocvtion projects and also moved halfway across country and is now living on 22 acrees witrh her husband, two sons and daughter. they too, are looking for a more self sufficient lifestle.,oh, did i mention that they are both homeschooling their three kids. I have recommended your channel to all of them for the wholesome, helpful content you provide. Keep up the good work Anne.

[@thedistractedmaker]

Anne/Adam - you are enough. People love to see the wins because it’s exciting, but preparing to win is tedious, boring and painful. Never apologize for putting first things first.

[@thouartit]

46 years ago I also went thru a hell realm. Changes all happened at once. It changed the direction of my life, both from where I lived to the focus of my life. I realized because of the car accident, that there was a direction one can take or at least acknowledge, which is the inner direction. That not only was life lived in the outer world, but that there was an inner path and direction that offered (from books I read) the sort of peace that is not dependent on any-thing. That knowledge came directly from that mishap. So I changed coasts and today all those years later can look back on that tragic accident, as something that happened that much good came out of. Since my life had changed so radically soon after the crash, that new direction was like I went boing- now go that way. It was like I needed a cosmic bonk on the head to get me to change directions and wake up. So I think what I am saying is that hell realms happen- life is changing all the time, and I suggest respectfully that you not judge what happened. Take time to squeeze all the juices out of all your experiences and give the nectar a bit of time to mature. Then take a small taste. It might taste good. Remember that Zen story about the farmers son who broke is leg trying to break a wild stallion. The son felt like a failure and he mopped. The next week the army showed up in his town, grabbing anyone under a certain age. They did not take the son, cause of his broken leg. What seems a disaster today, might just be a blessing in disguise. You may look back in 10-15 years and thank your lucky stars you got hit in the face with a bag of sh*t. Well well well, ya never can tell.

[@joer5627]

A lesson we all have to learn. Know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em, know when to walk away, etc. life is not fun during some seasons. Thanks for the honesty. Many are pretenders that harm others who feel they don’t measure up to an Internet illusion.

[@paulharvey4403]

Thank you for showing and keeping it real.

[@Shria9]

Your resilience is both humbling and inspiring. Hopefully, by now, you've remembered that darkness is as important as light. It reminds us of who we are and what we can do. This helps us believe in ourselves and get back to getting things done, refining skills, and building or rebuilding relationships.

[@Captpicky]

I think you and Adam are putting out very high quality content.

[@andrewbrereton-waller8770]

You are incredibly brave! Thank you for being real on the internet and sharing your challenges. I often think KZbinrs make projects look so easy and then when I try I will hit a few walls.... every time, and sometimes I don't finish things. I just appreciate so much, when people share their authentic self. It's okay to struggle and it's raw and selfless to share it with others. It's nice to know we are not alone in the human struggle.

[@ilovemichigan-1111]

Anne I admire you for everything that you do! I see the exhaustion in your eyes. You need some rest sweetheart ❤

[@davorinrusevljan6440]

Get well. Things will turn around.

[@rjforca]

You have been an inspiration over the years, and you will continue to be an inspiration for the years to come. You are fortunate to have some amazing people around you, people who you have touched in your special way, and who are now getting their chance to touch your life in an uplifting way as well. Looking forward to continue watching your progress in the process of life and to draw more inspiration from your strength and fortitude.

[@keithchamberlain880]

You are amazing. Never give up. Life is hard but the hard work is worth it. Praying for you.

[@pollyrobinson3877]

Anne, you always inspire. Being the authentic YOU is so important. We’ve got you, you carry on being you and we”ll carry on watching and supporting.

[@devinematt2544]

What a woman! We all love you Anne! Remember you can only do so much, and God will take care of the rest. Matt of many trades - Australia 😉

[@anteroreilander6823]

I’m just finishing a workbench build that I started 3-4 years ago. Once you finish something you soon forget how long it tool. Next project is a shaving horse (i’ve watched your video several times) and then I’m gonna build a Windsor chair. Your chair building videos have been a big inspiration for me and made me realize it might not be impossible to make one. I live in Finland and we don’t have green ash or oak or any other ring porous wood available. I have pine, spruce, , larch and maple. I’ve never really understoor why diffuse porous wood isn’t used for spindles. Maybe I’ll find out… Thanks for all the content you’ve shared!

[@FredMcIntyre]

Anne, despite the challenges, you continue to rise, very uplifting and inspiring! 🙏🏻❤️ Well done! 😃👍🏻👊🏻

[@tonyburelle6633]

I was a little sad when you said you're still on the struggle bus, but by the end, the old?, optimistic sounding Anne was was back, I feel much better, thanks for sharing this Anne

[@j.c2632]

I tuned in/subscribed around the time this petite Maker cut and welded a salmon ladder and then WENT UP IT because someone told her she "couldn't". If that isn't the definition of "nothing will stop me from getting my goals", nothing is. Hang in there (no pun intended!) whittle by whittle you'll knock out all your goals (pun intended!)

[@amywatkins9309]

By sharing your humanity, you make it easier for the rest of us to do the same. ❤

[@tomnietz4158]

You have given me hope. I brought my grandfather’s spindle chair from MN to CA 30 years ago, in pieces because all the glue failed. So it is a kit. Now I think I will bring the parts down from the attic and go do it. Thanks for the inspiration.

[@TheTrullGallery]

Hang in there, Ann! We learn best through adversity. You can't always see the lesson when you're going through the suck,but in time, you'll see the lesson. FYI, I'm in the rebuilding myself. You'll be fine in the end!

[@laurengoudy920]

Girl, even through your tough moments you are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing. You are in my pray and I look forward to seeing your story unfold❤️

[@MisterHarleyRider]

I love your videos and I will keep you and your Husband in my Prayers. May GOD Bless you both.

[@hellenrowe9743]

I love your videos. But your mental, physical, and spiritual health is most important. Your honesty and humor is refreshing. Even if we have to wait for you, we'll be there for you when you are ready to go once again.

[@markbruhn9616]

Your honesty and forthrightness show through in what you do. You are more resilient than you know. I am rooting for you and Adam, both together and as individuals. Because that is how it gets done. Keep sharing, keep getting back up. Laughter and joy are important parts of the process. But so is the sadness and the hard stuff.

[@paulpardee]

Honestly, I think this is just the natural path as we get older. You've been spinning a bunch of plates and keep adding plates... and that's great as long as life is smooth sailing. But you hit a bump, and plates start to fall, so you scramble to try to get those plates spinning again and that means you have to take attention away from the others. It's just a slow cascade of failure and no matter what you do or how hard you try or how good you are, they all come crashing to the floor. I'm pretty sure everyone with ambition has gone through the same thing. I have several times. As hard as it is to admit (especially in front of a quarter million people) that you can't do it all, it's important to take the opportunity to distill your life into what really brings you joy. You're on the right path and I know you're preparing a place of peace for your future self. Once this turmoil is all over and we get back to some semblance of normalcy, you're going to be stable, happy and ready for the opportunities that come your way.

[@andreacrashe9894]

*Anne, no matter what life throws at you.... you have never given up... you just pulled up your big girls pants and moved on to the next adventure... that is just who you are... (as I have seen thru out all your videos) Just keep on being YOU... the funny side, the cool side, the loving side & the serious side... you are mix of all that.*

[@DLBard-bv2nd]

Thanks for sharing with us. So many people have been down the same road. Growing stronger is often a painful process. What does not destroy us makes us stronger. 💞

[@wouterengels7769]

That table looks absolutely stunning and the chairs look really quite comfy. A lot of the time, the journey is most important, not the destination (or the finished project) but it usually takes some time to have enough distance to see it. Keep going and enjoy the little things.

[@shericreates]

I am so glad I found your channel. I’m right there right now. These last two years have been so devastating. My house, my car, my boyfriend, my business. Starting now at ground level. But it’s really hard to get motivated. I have never slept so much in my life. Hang in there. Just have to look at each other for encouragement. I have become a hermit. It’s so hard to get going because around here it’s mostly everyone wants everything for free. Thanks for sharing your story. You are not alone.

[@theadventuresofzoomandbettie]

Hard to see you struggle, but in a way it's good because it reminds everyone you are also human, and the struggles we have are ok too. Thanks for sharing.

[@djsecAUS]

Thanks for sharing, Anne. Been through similar to you (not the same, because we all experience the “stuff” we go through from our unique perspective). Still working to overcome the bad days and voices telling me I’m not enough… some days are tough. I just wanted to say a huge thanks for being so open and vulnerable. That takes courage. And I wanted to say thanks for your contribution on dairy goats to Josh & Carolyn’s school… yesterday I trimmed my two goat’s feet and i was so much more confident and capable after following your tips and getting those Amazon clippers (is that what they are called?!) Goats are way easier than horses, I felt very accomplished and hence my gratitude to you for breaking it down to be so easy to follow x

[@pedalman4595]

Your a Beautiful Human Being!!!!!!!!!!!! Believe in yourself and the life you lead. Everyone falls, believe me I now first hand sweetheart. Keep moving forward knowing we are all here holding you up when you need it!!!!!!!! BLESSINGS TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@TheToughGuysTV]

The last couple years, and the last year specifically, just about had me stop all I’m doing creatively. Trying to navigate life, family, work, creative endeavors, all while time keeps ticking by is the ultimate challenge we face. Don’t forget that all you can do is your best, and you seem to be giving it all you can each day. I hope the future has nothing but success in store for you, in life / marriage / business / purpose etc - your journey is an inspiration to so many because YOU are the inspiration! Thanks for sharing your experiences and bringing light to the mental battle so many face everyday. 🙏🏻

[@fromgardentopantrywithjell1326]

I appreciate you being so honest about all that you are going through. Life is never as easy as people show in public. Thanks for your honesty.

[@jtome12]

Thanks for your bravery in sharing your highlights and lowlights with all of us strangers. You are an inspiration. Don't stop chasing those dreams; we're rooting for you.

[@you_are_cleared_hot6950]

Anne, all I can say is "try" not to complicate your life too much. Focus on you and focus on Brian - I think you are doing that, so keep moving one foot in front of the other. You'll get there.

[@denisematlock4566]

Hugs, things will work out. Breath & keep taking small steps to whole health. Your brave for sharing your struggles.

[@claytoncochran3728]

Hang in there sweet lady!! Praying for you!! Take care of yourself!

[@stamil9605]

No matter how small the accomplishments, taking pride in them is the reward.

[@tonywyant8957]

We support you, pray for you and always look forward to your videos.

[@stephaniebuck9977]

You CAN do it. But you don't HAVE to. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@juliancoady5939]

Good for you. Mental health is harder to talk about than it should be. Thanks for sharing.

[@69virgin1966]

Anne you are an AMAZING woman that can do anything!!! you set your mind to. Try not to let your dyslexia stop you from accomplishing your goals. Don't let it be a crutch or an excuse to not be the kind of person that we all know that you are. I hope that you are able to make the little things that are trying to get you down become a success story. Like I said before you are an AMAZING young woman who can do what ever you set your mind to!! May God bless and protect you!!! Thanks for sharing and God bless

[@christiansenandrew]

Thank you for sharing your story and your heart. Keep taking things one day at a time. You are an inspiration to me.

[@thesplinteredfinger]

Anne, the whole Maker community is behind you! You can and you will achieve your goals!

[@bradleyharvey4250]

You'll get through this. Keeping you and yours in my prayers. I hope Chris and Megan turned you onto stick chairs.

[@caioabramo2443]

Hey Anne, you know I started following you after watching you explaining how to use a jack plane and thinking your name was really clever. I'm a "master of none" myself, and perhaps we share some of the same weird, complicated, beautiful, painful, glorious mental health issues... like you I've also struggled with "succeeding" my whole life (despite coming from a pretty privileged background), and seen life come crashing down quite a few times. I also LOVE the feeling that I can do anything and everything and the world is mine for the taking, all I need is to reach out and grab! Then I do, and I stumble, and well, you know how it is. I think for people like us, one of the hardest, most painful yet most crucially important lesson to learn is that... well, not everything is possible. I know that will sound even super triggering maybe. It's such a part of my identity and core values. But it also means I so so often set myself up for failure. I'm learning through all my own tribulations in these last couple of years that it comes a time when this wonderful carefree attitude needs to mature, lest we continue on the same cycles. Cycles that end up chipping away at that attitude, wounding us inside little by little. But the amazing news is that letting it mature doesn't kill it! It doesn't change us fundamentally, doesn't break our spirit. It just lets us face our dreams with that much more clarity. Not everything is possible. But that doesn't make what IS possible any less wonderful. :) I hope you find a good journey of healing and growth, taking care of and loving yourself, and find happiness in all that is possible in this amazing world of ours.

[@jacobroberts1434]

I hope nothing more than happiness and joy for you Anne. Having followed you for years I have gotten to see so many fun projects you do. You have inspired me and taught me so much and made me think about things a little differently. Life is rough and I am thankful that you and Adam kept it real and didn't hide the ups and downs from the world. So many people choose to stay locked away with their feelings and the troubles they face. I want to see you, Anne, succeed in your business and your dreams. I want the School to open soon! I want you and Adam to make it, you guys both deserve it. And mostly, I want you both to be happy. Your videos make me happy everytime I watch one, whether it's when they are released and I watch right away, or when I go back and watch some from the Seattle days through now. Keep your heads up, have fun, and continue working hard for what matters. Much Love!

[@marcosadelino6990]

Best wishes Anne, you will never stop being amazing regardless of the circunstances

[@edualbergaria10]

I feel I understand what you are going. You are a star, remember that you shine a lot of people's live. But you also can receive a bit of light from us whatever you need.

[@Swamp-Fox]

Awesome video Anne! I think KZbin sometimes gives us unrealistic expectations. Real life is full of setbacks. You learn from them, grow, and move forward. Thank you for sharing! Prayers sent.

[@lizthayer9399]

{virtual comforting hug} I'm over 60 😬 and one of the few things I'm pretty sure of us that NONE of us make it thru without at least a couple major transformative crises, brought on by our own choices and THINGS. But please remember that - in the long run - it turns out to have been necessary to evolve. It SSSUCKSSS going thru the swamp, but eventually you'll find yourself on firmer ground and able to move forward. It may not be exactly what you imagined but later you won't be able to imagine it being any different. Read (or listen to) Transitions by Wm. Bridges. Sending love from someone still finding a path. ♥️

[@karenmarshall9901]

I just found you on This Old Makers tv and I have to say that you are such a beautiful hard working young lady!! So here is my pep talk..from a mom. I am sure you have heard this before but here I go anyway. Your husband looks like a really good guy from over here and the fact that you have music, wood crafting, building a school (wow!) is so challenging but fruitful in your marriage. You have really put yourself out there and perhaps learned things that few people will ever know about life and themselves in these adventures. Brave girl. That is actually beautiful to watch but no one expects you to keep up that pace. It is normal to have to adjust your expectations of yourself and your husband as you get older. It is really okay and necessary to build a long loving marriage. Ephesians 4:2: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Patience and forgiveness of yourself and others is key. And just because you have some limitations (we ALL do) please don't be hard on yourself or feel like you are a failure. Let go of perfectionism and hold onto what you have learned. I do see you doing that but sometimes a reminder doesn't hurt when we are driven to do something big. I guess what you lacked was an experienced building project manager (that takes money of course) to put together a reasonable budget and timeline, but you know, you learned that the hard way and a lot of our best lessons come from the hard way. We are just people. The outcome was amazing and your school project blessed many around the country to participate and help. So wonderful. Those friendships are invaluable. The fact that you talk about your feelings in constructive ways with others and your husband is such gift. Continue that and give him time to express his feelings. It is easy to crowed out quieter people without meaning to. I have been married 42 years to the same great guy. Certainly bumps along the way, a lot of lessons, but God has blessed our lives with love for each other, children and grandchildren. I do hope that you and your husband slow down along the way to start a family while you still can. They will bring such richness and meaning to your life and marriage. God bless you. Karen

[@AnneofAllTrades]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@georgewilmore7599]

I took 6 years to finish kitchen cabinets that should have taken no more than 2 months. Your challenges are going to be overcome because you have the fortitude to accomplish anything.

[@bobgodd]

I don't typically comment on these types of videos, however if I may offer some unsolicited advice... it can be dangerous to measure yourself only by your successes. Life, the entirety of your life, should be a journey of learning and growth, and you simply cannot learn and grow without failing. I also tend to start and not finish many projects, but I do not think any less of myself for that, in fact I find that I'm encouraged in most of those cases by my bravery in trying something I know I have a good chance at failing at. Facing fears and battling through them is part of that journey of learning and growing; one thing we may learn on that journey is that we might not be as good at all the things we want to be good at. But don't let that one facet of a otherwise complex tapestry of a life be the defining factor. You (and me) are more than the sum of our successes and failures. I may start and not finish some projects, but I'm also kind, generous, and I'm a great father to my children whom I absolutely adore.

[@kriswickens8157]

This is very relatable. I think you have (had) a deep rooted fear of failure and not being good enough. One way to heal it is to fail and realize it’s ok and that you are good enough. You were a tough cookie to crack as you were working 100 hours to avoid failing and most people would have crumbled way before. But sound like you got through it and you will get back to the joyful you. One thing at a time and finish what you start is the best way to stay present.

[@benmoffitt7524]

I’m continually impressed by all that you do. It’s also really helpful to us when you post content of the things that don’t quite turn out the way you wanted them to. That’s real life and I’m sure all of your viewers can relate. Thanks for all you do!

[@rosalynreasor4950]

Thanks deeply for your great transparency and honesty. We all benefit from being open and honest about our struggles. Please know you give me joy and help me find strenght and the ability to keep doing what needs to be done when I struggle. You also help me remember how to keep looking for what works. Thank you.

[@ikust007]

Béring an artisan self employed… I profoundly feel you . I struggle every day and feel incomplete/incompetent. But I don’t have the luxury to stop . Good luck .

[@climbfra]

Thanks for sharing, It 's important in a world where everyone try to look flawless

[@ollyguy]

Anne youve been an inspiration to me throughout my time following you not only with your projects your management of your time but how honest you are I remember watching some of your videos and the comments and feeling a little less lonely a little less worried. i remember when you replied to me about SKRUM and how that was so honest and helpful. never stop being you.

[@russellwood8750]

Failure is just part of life’s lessons. The important part is to not give up and keep going.. you having this conversation with your audience just makes your channel that much more real. And it will allow people to understand if you’re off in someway. They will be aware of what’s going on I would more understanding because they have the necessary insight. Keep going I hope it all works out for you.

[@budfetterley6237]

Hang in there Anne. The bad makes the good sweeter.

[@elund408]

A virtual hug coming your way. we think we are alone in our troubles, but we all make mistakes. You're not alone in your troubles, and you're learning and will come out of this far stronger. Just make sure to prioritize the things that matter most. Oh did you hear the one about the dyslexic metal band? they worshiped Santa.

[@deboraarena5668]

This is the second video of yours that I’ve watched. It is so inspiring. I woke up this morning in an odd space and your resilience is so refreshing. I would love to attend your school. Keep going.

[@marknahabedian1803]

I just took Aspen Golann's broom making class earlier today. Came out with two hand brooms and a pit scrubber. Mine were kind of pathetic but will serve. Others in the class really pushed the envelope and made some really attractive brooms and brushes.

[@ikust007]

Chris & Fitzpatrick…ouf …. Lucky girl you are … bravo !

[@dennissmith5837]

I’m a big fan of Anne of All Trades and love watching your videos but have cut back some on the time I spend watching creative videos. I have went from being a getter done person to watching other’s working hard to accomplish their projects. During the last three years I went from having two or three projects in my mind and in sketch form to having 8-10 in different stages. Sketches, a lot old drawings of materials, to parts being cut out to half assembled or projects. Your video sounded like you were talking about me. Recently I started stopping the world to spend some time with my wife, which includes time to let her ramble. I selected a project of building a work bench for a friend’s garage and that’s it until it’s done (except the last three days I have been doing spring cleaning of my horse barn). Monday and Tuesday next week it’s work bench until it is done and delivered. Next it’s a new storage cabinet for our home office. Not getting anything completed and having all these half done projects laying around is depressing and self defeating. Good luck and remember look through the winds, not in the rear view mirror. Tammy first the other things.😘