I've been given 15 years to live (here's what I've learnt)

[@testetwitter7100]

Since i was diagnosed with cancer i did so many things that i didn't have done yet.... my favorite is to do nothing, at all, an then, rest a little bit. 😅😅😅🎉❤🎉

[@abifeltham]

Haha I LOVE doing nothing at all 😁❤️

[@imemine8605]

There's nothing there fear but fear itself everyone should stop been in such a rush and smell the roses because there's plenty of roses out there to smell

[@churchgest]

"I'm not going to buy a house. I'm going to WrestleMania" Fucking legend. Keep on going Abi thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!

[@abifeltham]

Thank you!❤ wrestlmania and I will die happy 😂

[@krisjames4276]

I love your personality. Recently subscribed not because you have cancer but because of your honest and humerous outlook on life. I think you would make a brilliant stand up comedian. I appreciate and understand very well how mental health can affect a person but you are so much more than cancer and depression. You have experienced life but obviously learnt sooooo much. Fifteen years anyway is massive in medical advances. Dont plan on leaving in that time scale darling!!! Sending you love x❤

[@abifeltham]

Ahh thank you! Lots of love❤

[@ApostleOfZeus]

You're a statistic of one, life expentences are notoriously inaccurate. Also you have fantastically white teeth, much love from a fellow recovering alcoholic

[@Juli-rt1om]

You are such a comfort. Keep doing what you do. It's rare and it's important ❤

[@abifeltham]

Thank you so much!! I will ❤❤

[@bryonseilerXauBry0716]

Please have the most fabulous 15 years❤❤❤❤

[@abifeltham]

I will try my best 🥰

[@alessandramazzoleni4583]

I teared up watching this… I don’t know what to say other than you are truly amazing and an inspiration and I wish you all the best

[@abifeltham]

Thank you so much 🥹❤

[@darkestpriestess]

Such a beautiful and intelligent soul ❤️💙💖 May there be a cure soon so you can be freed. Sending you love.

[@aotero111]

I hope you get another 15 years plus 15 years plus 15 years and a couple of more 15 years

[@abifeltham]

Thank you!! Me too!❤

[@GenevieveWinkler-hi6um]

I got so much from listening to your perspective. It really highlights the downright absurdity of bullying oneself, being unkind to oneself, sitting on the sidelines, self pity. What for?!? I want to be friends with myself too :)

[@abifeltham]

It all seems so irrational now! Being nice to ourselves is such a great gift we can give ourselves ❤

[@KaneSimpson-wf5hs]

Watching your videos has genuinely given me a new perspective of life. I stumbled upon a short of yours a month ago, and it caused me to have a real epiphany about how I should treat myself. Like you, I also, historically, have had a really negative, self-critical, and frankly cruel inner voice. Not towards others, but I can be a true bully to myself. And when I started watching your videos, I thought to myself, "Wait. This is dumb. There's so few things in life I can control. I expend a lot of stress over things I cannot control, like politics, climate change, and what other people think about me. "But some of the only things I can control are how I treat others and how I treat myself. And while I've been doing my best to treat others with kindness, respect, and care, I've been doing a piss poor job of treating myself well." I decided to (as much as possible) focus on what is in my control. I may not have direct influence over what someone else thinks of me, but I CAN tell myself that I am doing my best. I can be proud of my accomplishments, no matter how small. I can be my own friend. So thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. You have made a real impact on my mental health, and I have been doing my best to remind myself of what I have learned from you when I feel myself slipping into bad thought patterns. Thank you. I wish you, your husband, and all of your loved ones all the peace and happiness in the world ❤

[@nehaghosh8584]

As another fellow natural pessimist I always come back to your videos when the going gets tough and I need a little bit of hope. You're awesome ❤ Keep doing what you're doing !

[@abifeltham]

Ahh thank you! I will 🥹❤

[@vividdreams7072]

Sending you cosmic amounts of love ❤❤❤❤❤

[@mandybradley3079]

You’re adorable and a sweet person. Hi from Texas. I’m 20 years cancer free, but symptoms have come back. Cancer in bum, not a fun place to get it.

[@orlitamarov]

I’m in the very bad spot with my bipolar disorder now, and I really don’t want to live anymore. But your video made me feel a bit better, even you spoke about being your biggest cheerleader specifically. Thank you for that

[@abifeltham]

Always ❤❤ wishing the best for you!!

[@stylemethrift997]

We never know what will happen, my mum died suddenly at 59, it feels too young. But you are right, accepting our reality goes a long way to building opportunities ❤

[@user-ph4mg1mh9c]

❤you’re so upbeat 😊I’m saving this, so when I’m hard on myself, it’ll remind me to be kind to myself and appreciate myself ❤

[@abifeltham]

Amazing!!😊❤

[@christopherrobinson3290]

Your positivity is infectious! Thanks for sharing your story. Keep smiling and stay positive and you’re going to help so many people just by being you. ❤

[@madamebovary7828]

You are a legend Abi, the world smiles upon you 💘

[@Aboutimee]

Hope you enjoy all the time you have left here whether that be a long time or short time, who knows if he Dr's are right or not. Lovely to hear you say life is short and to try to fill days with joy, I try to do that too and remind myself to. I like to think our lives are mapped out for us and what happens was meant to happen, it's all a lesson we can look back on one day. You should check out nurse hadleys book, shes a content creator and hospice nurse. I found your page probably from looking at other BPD content. My mum was diagnosed and I was told my struggles sound like bpd too but haven't been diagnosed. I also got sober, has been wonderful following you, it's good to see other people talk about issues and real life, I like that you are real and honest. Just wanted to say hi, thanks for the video and I'm looking forward to see more from you. ❤

[@JJ-be2qg]

Such a great story teller … love how you talk so easily! And share your story! Best wishes!!!❤

[@abifeltham]

Thank you!❤

[@donnaoeding6955]

You are such a beautiful and inspiring person !

[@abifeltham]

Thank you so much!!🥹❤

[@gkt_19]

Hi Abi, I’m so glad I found you. I have stage 2 oligodendroglioma, it’s nice to find someone who understands what it’s like

[@abifeltham]

You're not alone ❤❤ wishing the best for you!

[@NelsonVanDweller]

Yes acceptance is always best way. Thanks for this vid

[@abifeltham]

You are so welcome❤

[@virnan]

Good to see you hair growing back. You are looking good Abi.

[@abifeltham]

😊 thank you! I miss my long hair! Still deciding whether to try and grow it or cut it again 😮

[@crystalcrook2472]

I just adore you!

[@abifeltham]

Ahh I adore you too!!😍

[@johnbyrne6677]

Your a beautiful soul❤

[@abifeltham]

Thank you🥹❤

[@sheyk3103]

I never ever comment on the videos i watch- I’m one of those silent viewers. But I have to say, Abi, you’re my hero. :,) I can relate to your story and I’m on that journey to love too Thank you for sharing 🤍 Your story brings me so much hopefulness and perspective. We are always rooting for you!

[@Alma_Kane]

Awesome energy, and great wisdom. You're ace! 🎉

[@joyoung7804]

You are one amazing woman ❤ big heart queen

[@lisamgreenleaf]

Wooaaah I hate to get deep, BUT, it's almost like some kinda blessing, this diagnosis ?Is that a weird way to look at it? Those of us that don't know how long we have left and don't make the most of it. That's the heartbreaking bit. We are, in fact, all terminal 😮

[@abifeltham]

I dont think I would go so far as calling it a blessing but I do really value the new perspective I have on life and the fact I will make the most of it 😊

[@soulsecrets12789]

I have rheumatoid arthritis and multiple sclerosis… I get this, living within ur circumstances because life is short.

[@rafaelafrank1671]

Your words are so good for my soul Thank you Abi ❤

[@abifeltham]

Makes me very happy to hear this 🥹❤

[@TeresaDavid-d5e]

Love this format...Insta isn't long enough. Thank you! Xx

[@abifeltham]

Glad you like it! Thank you for watching ❤😁

[@Millylex21]

Abi ❤ thank you so much for sharing! Totally random but I live in Rome and if you and your partner ever decide to visit please let me know I would love to host you two!

[@abifeltham]

Oh thank you!! You're very kind ❤

[@rachellemontoya5504]

Abi-I love you, thank you for the wisdom and I think you are amazing.

[@abifeltham]

Thank you so much! Lots of love!❤

[@deborahappreciates8]

You are so lovely. Thank you for the video. ❤

[@NaddleSchidaddle]

A really great and inspiring video... I'm wishing you and everyone close to you the best!! You're stronger than you think 💗💗

[@martignyvalais9635]

Nice to see you, Abi!

[@abifeltham]

Hey there!😍

[@susannakwl2517]

Love your content so much Abi! If there is any suggestions for your content I think you’d have to make your ten funniest stories of you being a party rep in Asia, I bet you have so much to tell! I visited the party madness in Thailand myself and I heard the TTIAS episode where you talk about the frog in the sky and I need more :D

[@AngelOClock]

Lots of Love *♥️ and Light.

[@gabaleo2568]

Thanks for sharing ❤

[@pumpkinpie92]

Hey abi, Thank you for this beautiful video ❤ Can I ask you how do you deal with shame, if it ever hits you thinking of your past? You're gorgeous 🥰

[@helendeacon7637]

You have a great attitude, Abi. These are estimates and doctors give estimates on the near side. I have two relatives whose estimates living with heart disease were less than what God had for them. I will be praying for you because peace and hope are definitely available to us in these situations if we decide to pursue it. You are onboard with life and that makes a real difference. Praying for you.🙏 Pleased to find your uplifting video. You are very engaging on camera - enjoy your videos.🙏❤

[@hilthomas802]

❤❤❤Thank you

[@abifeltham]

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[@MateoLipa-u4p]

Hi! I find you so inspiring. I'm also struggling with health issues. I wonder how arebyou able to sustain yourself without working? Because here in Argentina if you cant work you are on your own or your family.

[@abifeltham]

I receive some money from my work on social media - enough to get by!

[@Herzeleid1985]

A LOT can happen in 15 years! KZbinr Stephi Lee (who has cystic fibrosis) got a new lease on life because of a new medication that came out a few years ago. But yeah, you can’t take anything for granted.

[@cantonese5030]

You’re a G, 👊50 ain’t a bad number when you think how unlucky with the end number some people have been…hearing your story id say 50 was a miracle 😂😂X

[@abifeltham]

Haha yeah I'm surprised I even made it to 30 to to be honest 😅

[@imemine8605]

Every day truly is a blessing for us all and these shit things like the ultimate shit thing death is what we all share and we should talk about it more in the western would most people never talk about it but that's how your brain accepts it and finds peace, you really don't find true peace until you see past yourself in a positive way 💕💕

[@milagirlxx6230]

Your partner seems lovely. Doesnt surprise me that you have attracted someone like him with your personality. You are a hoot! ❤

[@abifeltham]

Aw yeah he is very lovely! He's a cheerful ray of sunshine! 😍

[@xxxyyy1880]

Great! 15 years is a long time and you can live a lot in that time. I think staying sober is most important and hard to believe why you even used drugs and alcohol in the first place. You seem so funny and nice person to be around. Many people are like that only when they are under influence.

[@annat9908]

Your worldview gives me so much hope in my deepest darkest depressive episode. Can't thank u enough for that. But if you ever want to visit Germany (maybe it's on your bucket list?) you are so very welcome to visit me and my partner and get an exclusive westgerman tour :) Sending all the love and hugs :)

[@tripendicular]

Would you consider linking some of your clothes? You wear some with cool writing and designs sometimes! Sponsored links can also generate income ❤

[@milagirlxx6230]

I haven't watched it yet but if you find other people's experiences helpful there is a lovely Irish girl sharing her story with her very rare brain tumor on KZbin. She has been given 11 years and I believe she is 27. Her name is eireann ❤

[@abifeltham]

Thank you for the recommendation!

[@janefairless]

I have something I have a lot of shame about that happened over 40 years ago..how do I forgive myself and get over this? x

[@hucklebucklin]

The clothes horse taking over the living room reminds me so much of my flat

[@abifeltham]

😂 I am quite a messy person

[@irisdanagher]

❤❤❤

[@colasrtney]

Interesting combo he has on, warm up top, shorts on the bottom.

[@abifeltham]

Haha yup, he wears shorts all winter 😂 strange man but I love him

[@lorrainetate1424]

you look younger than 37. x

[@abifeltham]

Thank you 😍 perhaps my goofy ways make me look a bit younger 😂

[@ApostleOfZeus]

I guess thats a £600,000 flat... in London 🤣🤣

[@abifeltham]

Pretty much 😂😂 yey London...

[@ApostleOfZeus]

@abifeltham For that money you could move to Scotland purchase a 5 bedroom large roomed house, stables and 3 acres. Plus diminished life stressors 🤔🫡

[@caxzrockz]

Your flat is small but bigger than what I have 😢. I feel so far behind in I hate my life

[@The_Penny_Seventeens]

Have you seen Joe Tibbens ? Lots of people are not listening to doctors and beating cancer… I wouldn’t go with what the doctors tell you…

[@abifeltham]

You're right, those doctors with their degrees and years of medical training don't know what they're talking about 😒 chemo and radiotherapy never helped anyone. I'll just go keto and try fasting. Thanks for the advice

[@JonFishman-w4r]

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