I’ve learnt there’s nothing a woman can do to keep a man - Kerry Kagiri Shared Moments

[@KerryKagiri]

I see so much I need to work on as I listen. What a chance to introspect and see what God is doing. It was scary however I hope someone receives healing and freedom or just a good laugh. Thank you

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

You’re an inspiration! Nothing short. ❤️

[@janemaina8445]

@@KerryKagiri hi gal, good to hear from you. I have laughed and learnt quite alot. God bless you and keep using you in this generation ❤️❤️❤️

[@ajNKaj]

@@SharedMomentswithJustus justus asante for your guests and format

[@kilonzijack2020ie]

i was at a point i really wanted to get married wait until God shocked me... almost 35 but niko hapa bado niko tu. i learnt not to have expectations even at work i keep it open

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Kerry you are incredible and such a beautiful girl. The fact that you felt vulnerable enough to share this personal journey it is a testament to good self-care. I also propose that you seek counseling to discover yourself more. All shall be well.

[@njeps584]

Hi Kerry. I love your confidence. There's nothing wrong with you. I love your level of discernment, this is an indicator of a prayerful Christian. Don't let down your guard, and don't lower your standards. God is Faithful, and He makes everything beautiful in it's time. Ecclesiastes 3:11. My younger brother and sister got married before me. But I knew I had to wait upon God.I got married at 31 years, seven good years after I graduated from campus. That was 20+ ago.I am so glad that I waited upon the Lord...So every Single Christian ,wait upon the Lord.

[@beatricemuringi4120]

Before i go any farther into this stroy....... Babe you dont laugh badly/ huchekangi vibaya. Unacheka kama wewe. Your laugh is your laugh, your happy place is your happy place. There is no wrong or correct way to laugh. JUST LAUGH. You Bring So Much Joy into a room with that beautiful laugh of yours. Ok? We good? We good. Haya lets continue.......

[@royakangela1517]

Kerry Kagiri I had the privilege of experiencing you as a friend back in high school I love how authentic you have always been I remember your laugh it was very infectious.You are a gem and a queen and Im always happy to see you and what an amazing woman continue shining your light❤

[@joashanaminyi]

" You can't be in love with potential, you must be steps into your dream, there's evidence of fruit in your life that must be tangible." Words of wisdom. I stumbled on a video clip on Facebook, had. to watch the whole video on KZbin.Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring the world.

[@davidmuriuki5513]

I don't know who this lady is, but wah! She kept me captivated for a whole hr! Lady you are AWESOME!!

[@Sofia-dl9vw]

I like this lady. She has standards for herself. My positive energy going her way to meet a worthy man.

[@michaelomari558]

Wow. This lady was my literal deskmate at some point in standard 6. Kagiri, if you see this, HI! And nice hearing your life experience since over 20 years ago! God bless you!

[@njambikitawi3126]

Do not apologize for have scripture guided standards. Marriage is a big deal and you must continue to trust that God cares and will work for your good and His glory. Thank you for sharing Kerry.

[@davidogweno5427]

Bold, Loud and Extremely Beautiful....👍

[@deltaspencer2381]

Hi Kerry, i always believe God's word is forever settled in Heaven and He tells us we are complete in Him Coll2;10-15,He again reminds us that nobody will lack a mate.This was very timely and encouraging

[@SallyOpetu]

Oh my, na vile I love your energy, your jokes, your depth. God bless you girl.

[@catherinendinguri6595]

Wow, what a beautiful pure soul. The authenticity is amazing and rare. Totally loved the conversation

[@TheCoffeeFirstPodcast]

Kerry is such a gem. I'm glad God helped her rise above what she went through. Thank you Justus and team for the great work you do through that red chair. 😁 Blessings.

[@SharedMomentswithJustus]

She’s a real gem ❤️

[@KerryKagiri]

Thank you so much. This chair is hot wuuueeehh

[@tyra136]

Got much from your story..didn't want it to end 🤭 much love from 🇺🇬

[@ThePlotBuyer]

At one point, you must take responsibility for the part you played yourself. It's not always about what a "man" or "men" did🤷🏾‍♀️ Under 25 Yr old have no business dating so now that you are mature, take it from there & trust in God as you do your part. Not all over 35 single men/women are red flags, as you point fingers at them & others just know that 4 fingers are pointing at you... great video😊🎉

[@ColletaMaloba.]

I'm unlearning so much listening to her❤😊 i love her aura🎉

[@Minister-e1970]

I think it’s Kerry’s stunning beauty that made me stay to the end of this very long clip😅 because there isn’t much for me to learn from her story, given my age and circumstances in life right now. However I have comments to make. First is that I agree with Kerry completely, telling lies is a justifiable deal breaker. Any one u are planning to marry who tells your lies is not worth continuing with. The least indication of respect by a genuine partner is honesty and truthfulness. Anything short of that is a big red flag and will surely hurt any marriage. If you are single, hoping to marry well pls take this seriously. Secondly, I am so thrilled that Kerry has implicit confidence in God. Indeed that’s very very important. As she said, marriage is good but it’s not everything. We are complete in Christ. Like Kerry already knows, I wish her to just stay focused in her ministry. When it’s time God will bring her husband, and when she meets him she will definitely know for sure. I wish her all the best going forward.

[@KerryKagiri]

Asante sana. Thank you for engaging

[@sherylnatasha4483]

....over and above all of those things, God's plan will prevail😗

[@beingmisspaul5519]

To each their own. Some females want that marriage, those kids, being stay at home home or working from home or taking care of their husband and people they love. The problem comes when a female can't change their mind or do something different. Feminism is about the choice to make any decision. And that's life too. Some want that life some don't. And that's okay.

[@mercykamonjo3634]

Kerry Kagiri😊..I loved this so much! Made me think about my own journey and I honestly relate in soo many ways, xoxo❤

[@findinglela]

Problems of the more attractive faces. Somehow they attract most crafty people. I guess it's a natural path. More strength to you

[@moureenthera960]

I have learned that parents needs to be careful especially if their kids are uncomfortable with certain relatives or friends there must be a reason. Parents should also create a safe haven for their kids to express themselves even more incase of sexual molestation/assult/groping happens they will tell you without fear.

[@findinglela]

Yes

[@josephangira6498]

Hey Kerry, hiyo story yako imeniguza and have enjoyed listening to it......thanks for sharing!!

[@jesintahwanjiku2412]

If your role is your role then your person is your person.. They are on the Way

[@kideshful]

Wow. Just wow

[@ajNKaj]

38:00…. Umenichekesha. You made connection of the intimate act🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ilove listening to you. You cant be in love with potential. Deeeeep wisdom. Am 60 and i see myself in you. Different generation but almost same experience. Upbringing is key. Justus i love the way you give people chance to flow in lifestory

[@KerryKagiri]

Imagine! Thankyou for engaging. Justus has a great gift.

[@ajNKaj]

@@KerryKagiri keep laughing. Unacheka bizuuuri. Love. Self appointed auntie anne

[@maureenanyango9470]

I miss you from Hope F.m

[@mercymutavy4667]

This is amazing…very informative… ❤

[@mercychepngeno3840]

I have laughed, I have seen me in this story and I am even more sure now on the decisions I made. I was scared but now I am assured and more ready to face the world. Sibebwi ufala tena😂😂😂

[@blaquecinderella3560]

Very wholesome conversation ❤

[@alicemarigo8675]

I like this girl.

[@NicholasKariuki-h6z]

Hi @Kerrykagiri , I have listened to your story , such an amazing story , I have always listened to you on radio, yeah, so , let me say this I caught one thing or another on your story , well my story , am 38, first dated when I was 25 years it lasted for 2 years and I had a female friend and she kept complaining that she was not comfortable with us, and I had to end a friendship with my childhood friend which had lasted for well over 15 yrs, the thing is , it was not that reason that ended the relationship, she had another reason and another and another . I always say this, our mind , and our heart are very different , sometimes when your heart loves it tends to reason , but sometimes when you put your mind into it, you will see things differently , and so the truth is , this man to actually admit that they were together that day that was huge , he was caught up between friendship, with a friend and a relationship, the truth is when as a man we all have friends from both sides and sometimes it could have been wrong that he let the lady so close , maybe he could have told her in your presence that you guys are together and there are new boundaries and if she insisted then thats where he could have cut off. now about you , I here you insist on you as a person , and dont take me wrong , there is a lot of me , me , me, there is that part , , and I honestly believe is there is that part where you need to allow God to speak to you , case and point before I could date the second time it took me 10 years and in that , God had showed me she has a spiritual strong man and every time she meets someone she ends, the relationship and I never prayed about that part so when we were dating we had a connection but when things were about to be serous she ended the relationship without a reason, and so when I remember what God had told me , I shared with her and asked her to go through spiritual enlightment to understand what it means of a spiritual strong man, so the truth is eerything is spiritual , and through that we get conviction the reason why we should not continue with the relationship. I mean this in a good way, and sorry if I offend , and back to hope fm , thanks for the years you have shared with us on radio , such an amazing time , such a vibe .🙂🙂

[@AbubakarSeif]

The same applies to women

[@WILMA_]

True.

[@damariszuckschwert9489]

Yes, girl, stand your ground. Wanaume most of them ni mafisi tu. Na siyo lazima kila mtu aolewe. Even if you won't be young forever, bora kuzeeka with divinity, kuliko kuwa young married and living miserable life.

[@crayfish3629]

We wacha chocha this happens to all genders mmmh....

[@lolguy-x9n]

Repeat the part... I am extremely beautiful. It's well delivered and has lost the bad vibe.

[@hamisisalmah8764]

At 36 inolonger Bamba nobody

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Waaah! What a story, what a woman, what a beauty? Kerry, first let me affirm you for being intentional and candid in telling your story in a manner that many can learn tips of wisdom from it. Secondly, let me politely and honestly tell you that you are so beautiful physically and at heart. And lastly, let me assure you that God is not done with you yet but the best is yet to come. Your hubby is out there just as per your closing remarks. I wish you the very best towards that goal. Now, I wish to address your listeners that might be or may find themselves in your situation without judging you at all as I fully empathise with your situation. Guys, marriage is not a must and even where it can happen, the age factor or pressure from without should not bother you or give you unnecessary anxieties. Such anxieties is a cause for mental health problems. Avoid. Secondly, do not be guided by fetishism or what the person is but rather who he is and his purpose in your life. Family, looks and possessions matter less in any relationship destined to marriage. Thirdly, if a man or woman has chosen you, try not to change their life or dissuade them from disengaging from their friends but instead let your progressive yet organic relationship make their friends an option. In retrospect, imagine if the new lover you got started discouraging you from talking to your childhood friends, relatives, workmates or school mates! Reflect and review. When single, you are in an open market place but when discovering a new found friend, allow the relationship to grow organically without putting unnecessary conditions. And again, no matter how good or bubbly the person is, stop encouraging external excursions that may end you to bed with a stranger you hardly know. Practically decency until you know that person well, their insecurities, their limitations, fears, expectations and full disclosure-The right time. As an extension of the above point, it is not every Tom, Dick and Harry that you can allow to visit your parents home. Until and unless you have fully discovered the woman/man you intend to marry, your home is a no go zone. That speaks to your values, integrity and quality of your person. Self-care which comes from self-awareness is one of the most important virtues to your mental wellness. As I wish this incredible woman Kerry best wishes, I hope my tips have touched someone else out there.

[@junerosehiuhu8976]

From 22.00😢 that hit hard😢

[@KerryKagiri]

It is well

[@muthoninjauyah3968]

Why would you want to keep a man, or woman? This is a shortcut to a very early, and painful grave. God in the Bible has promised each one of us a mate. If we trust, and we are patient, we enjoy these fruits 💯. Such a spouse will never have to be kept, watched, 'body guarded', etc, when God is doing the keeping💯. Kuenjoy tu! Kufunzwa kuenjoy tu, Mungu tu🙏🏾. Lessons can be tough though.

[@findinglela]

Nani anakuja tuenjoy tu? God will keep us

[@ajNKaj]

1:00:00 not your husbsnd. Eating dinner together is not about food. Its downtime and connectipn time. So the idea that he sees dinner as control is pure dysfunction

[@KerryKagiri]

It was so hard but I did find out where everything stemed from and its an inner work only he can do.

[@Wamumo2001]

This soooo good, soooo authentic, sooo legit 🔥🔥🔥

[@kaddohkassim3134]

Waah!!

[@naturelle1097]

I decided not to be normal many yrs ago😂

[@blaquecinderella3560]

How is it a redflag for someone to be in his/her lat 30s no children & never been married? I'm literally confused

[@edget7498]

The first 10min have been this lady trying to undo societal norms while at the same time saying the chic who wants to get married after campus wont be happy... To each their own. If she wants not to be questioned she should also allow others to make their own choices.

[@hellenkamau3252]

@@edget7498 She is giving her story! I believe we all got our opinions based on our own experiences😉

[@ajNKaj]

@@edget7498 its good to talk. And, its good to examine the whys of doing what. Blind following society will lead one to a path very well walked but not necessarily enriching. Marriage is a God idea but culture has skewed it. Prison formany. Hell for others yet it should be a mutually enriching experience. Married in 1990 to a non participant dance partner and after7yrs i called it quits. 4 yrs later met my tango met and we are now smiling and dancing towards Silver jubilee

[@naturelle1097]

Let her be her 😂

[@edget7498]

@@hellenkamau3252 her own experiences are hers not the blueprint to preach about. Thats all am saying. You can choose not to get married, you can marry late, you can marry early... To each their own. Dont make it look like its a bad idea to get married ealry coz most of those are actually more successful statistically but not that we try make it cool to be rebel coz u made the wrong choices

[@edget7498]

@@ajNKaj happy for you. Thats fine too... All i am saying is i see how u talk about your expereinece and you are not talking down about others decisions... She was doing so and hence my disagreement with her approach

[@nellielusitche5682]

Normal is boring

[@carolinekirogo88]

Weeeh! TMI

[@carolineadalla7285]

You have a good story but wish it could flow without trying to cover most bits and jumping from one story to another. Not a hater though

[@daniellouis8722]

Cant save women from themselves... its a story as old as the Genesis!!!